May tao talaga mabilis magmove on... Never mind na natin kung anong gender kesa maging bitter. Sana makahanap kayo ng green flag not red flag. Like ng ate ko nagtitiis sa redflag na asawa. Takot gumala ung asawa.
Sus mga bashers nga naman. Walang kasalanan sa inyo si Tom. Relationships are between two people. Ngayon kung nakamove on na un Lalake yun isa hinde problema na ng Babae yun. The minute na nagsplit sila kanya kanyang buhay na sila. Wasak din naman si Tom nung naghiwalay sila. As in zero. Start from scratch. Zero balance pati bulsa. So ngayon na he's building a family and a life of his own ibabash niyo siya dahil lang sa failed relationship niya dati. Sowss mganwalang sentido Kumon talaga bashers
At 1:11 the guy could be so toxic too for all we know. Usually, women can tolerate so many things until one day, when you’ve reached your limit, that’s it. But doesn’t mean she is the problem. He could have been a better person for her while he was with the ex but he chose to be something else.
More than 7 years silang live-in partners. Tiniis nya ng ganun katagal? Walang napansin pamilya nya na lagi nilang kasama? Pinaabit pa talaga nila sa kasalan kung toxic talaga yung lalaki? Relationships fail, at kadalasan, 2-way street yan. Pero the way they put all of the blame into the guy ng walang kalaban laban yung lalake, it’s very telling. Walang accountability from her side kaya habggang ngayon, sa latest issues nya, pavictim lagi.
12:35 Ang dami nyang oras para kumalas, dun pa humiwalay kung kailan kasal na at nangako na sya ng "in richer and in poorer" yun pala in richer lang Lol 😂 tapos yung lalaki pa may kasalanan sa pagpo-,post kasi madasaltan yung isa eh pwede naman nyang wag tingnan yung post 🤣
Good that he is happy now. He has his own family. Still wondering tho kung ano talaga ang reason ng pag fall apart nila ni C. I guess, we'll never know 🤷♀️
Same question here. As a fellow Marites, I am also curious why they fell apart considering the length of their relationship. I thought they were each other's destiny na.
Watch nyo yung interview ng tatay ni Carla. Sinabi nya doon ano kasalanan ni Tom. Apart from that me anger issues daw im not sure lang kung nananakit or nagkakasakitan.
Same thoughts. Akala ko nga endgame na sila kasi ng live in talaga muna sila bago ikasal. Mas kilala na nila talaga isat isa sa iisang bubong. Pero dipa rin pala. Well pag hindi kayo para sa isat isa, di talaga
Anger issues most likely. And just because Carla chose herself doesnt mean sya ang problem. It should be totally acceptable kapag umayaw or nag let go ka to choose yourself, mapa babae or mapa lalake man. Wala tayo pakialam dun. If tom is happy good for her. It doesnt mean carla is less happy. Alone but not lonely should be a normal thing.
Rey PJ Abellana said in his interview that Tom admitted to him that he a had a one night st@nd with another woman after being married to Carla. Bukod pa yung anger issues.
I know someone na ganyan din. Nag give up agad after months lang of getting married when the guy did not get a stable job. Sad lang na hindi napanindigan yung "through thick and thin".
Knowing Carla maybe she tried to fix it Pero hinde na talaga kaya … Kaya nag give up na siya . Kasi kung kaya naman sila pa ngayon baka may anak na. Napanood ko pa vlog niya before she really flew to nyc during the pandemic to get her dress and shoes Ganun siya ka excited. Nag paalam pa talaga siya from work that time e
Of course he will only post positive things 3:03. Kasi masaya sya :D hindi lahat, positive ang pinopost. Parang mas ugali mo ang napaghahalataan sa post mo
He is happy being a father to his son.mabilis maka move on ang mga lalake.imagine may baby na siya while sa ex ang tagal nila at napunta lang sa hiwalayan.
Lagi naman ganyan mga lalake ahaha sila tlga madalas nauuna magkapanliya after break up from a long term relationship. Baka mas mabilis talaga magmove on mga lalake. Ex: thompson, bolik, ravena, (puro basketball players) haha
Di ba ganon naman madalas? Kung sino nagawan ng mali siya ang madalas nagsusuffer? Kasi sila ang nasaktan. And isa pa most guys move on so fast. Tayong mga babae ang madalas mas kumakapit sa memories at hirap magmove on. Not everyone ha
Wala namang problema if his married, single naman sya. Sana di nasayang ang pinagsamahan nila ni Carla kung pinag usapan lang nila ng maayos ang naging problema nila. But he looks very happy may family na sya at baby pa.
If you’re bitter don’t be envy those who have child or children were happy to be parents. Be happy for those who have a child, who are the best blessing.
9:14, sorry ang dami lang kasi… -don’t be envy … don’t be ENVIOUS OF or don’t ENVY -have child or children… have A child or children -were happy to be parents… did you mean ‘WHO ARE happy to be parents’? -a child,who are the best blessing. check your subject-verb agreement.
Omg these comments… porke ba single yung isa not happy na?? I think filipinos talaga are still so tied up with the idea na kapag wala ka sa relationship you are unhappy.
madalas mas problemado pa nga ang mga nasa relationship lalo na kapag masama ang ugali or babaero ang bf/asawa. Basta may trabaho, friends and family kaya ng mga single maging masaya.
Because the ex wife was a controlling, conceited, and entitled person who always exudes condescension and negativity. Porke’t “side” nya lang narinig nyo, kung maka red flag ang iba dito akala nyo alam nila ang totoong kwento, but for all who was watching their relationship unfold or witnessed it, kita naman kung sino yung domineering and in control. Todo puri pa yung babae sa kanya pati pamilya nya, then all of a sudden gusto nya maniwala ang lahat na abused sya for all those years na walang ka-sign sign? There are women out there who truly suffer and are victims, but there are also those who weaponize their gender to curate the narrative and play victim. Plain and simple, si Tom mukhang masaya na sa buhay nya with his family habang yung isa puro parinig, negativity, at toxicity lang kadalasan ang kuda.
This whole situation is so sad, its been 4-5 years since they divorced. Kailangang pabayaan ng lahat, Hes a great actor and seems like a humble guy. Itinapon siya ng ex of YEARS niya sa ilalim ng bus at iniwan siya noong nagbreak sila. "She loved me at my worst; you had me at my best". He's allowed to move on and be happy, who cares if it was fast, life is short. And us filipino are so judgy now adays. Walang perpekto. Ngunit huwag maniwala sa lahat ng nakikita mo online. Dahil kung siya ay abusado o niloko, iyon ay sa kanya para sa pananatili. At ako lang ba o ang paglalagay ng gag order sa isang tao ay isang pahiwatig na may tinatago ka rin. Poor tom cant even post his "happiness" because of her fans. Anong magandang idol you have.
Super happy ni Papa Tom.
ReplyDeleteHappy for Tom! ♥️♥️♥️ Congratulations 👏👏👏
DeleteHala rub it to her face. I feel bad for women talaga. It’s hard for us to move on tas yung mga lalaki ang bilis lang.
DeleteA baby talaga has the power to heal any negative feelings 👼
DeleteKung sino mgs mga masasama nagiging happy ung mga nagmamahal ng totoo na iiwan at matagal makahanap ng totoong tao.
DeleteUng may mali mabilis mag move on while ung nagmahal naiiwan sa past. Unfair but its fine than suffering sa redflag.
DeleteMostly girls mahilig sa redflag tas rereklamo kesyo hindi nagbabago. Well ganun talaga. Magmove on na lang lahat wag na bitter.
DeleteMay tao talaga mabilis magmove on... Never mind na natin kung anong gender kesa maging bitter. Sana makahanap kayo ng green flag not red flag. Like ng ate ko nagtitiis sa redflag na asawa. Takot gumala ung asawa.
Delete1034 pag d naka move on bitter kaagad!? Dyeske what a mentality! Wala talagang laman minsan mga utak ng Tao noh... mema lang!
DeleteSus mga bashers nga naman. Walang kasalanan sa inyo si Tom. Relationships are between two people. Ngayon kung nakamove on na un Lalake yun isa hinde problema na ng Babae yun. The minute na nagsplit sila kanya kanyang buhay na sila. Wasak din naman si Tom nung naghiwalay sila. As in zero. Start from scratch. Zero balance pati bulsa. So ngayon na he's building a family and a life of his own ibabash niyo siya dahil lang sa failed relationship niya dati. Sowss mganwalang sentido Kumon talaga bashers
DeleteGood for you, Tom!
ReplyDeleteGod moves in mysterious ways and Tom was guided.
ReplyDeleteHa?... Parang napakasamang tao ni C ah, parang alam na alam yong rason ng hiwalayan.
DeleteKita kasi sa ugali nya. Matapobre at lahing nagmamalinis
DeleteHappy for you, Tom 💖
ReplyDelete❤️❤️❤️
ReplyDeleteI'm genuinely happy for him and his new family.
ReplyDeleteGlad he found happiness ☺️
ReplyDeleteSinadya pakita
ReplyDeletetalaga! para mainis ka lol
DeleteWala naman sya dapat itago eh
Deleteso what? He doesn't have to hide
Delete12:08 well kung gusto nya eh. Wala nman sya pinapatamaan dahil matagal n silang hiwalay ng ex wife nya
DeletePag yung lakaki, panay ang puri nyo pero yung babae panay panlalait ang inabot
ReplyDeleteKita naman sino toxic diba? Wala naman sa gender yan.
DeleteKasama mo ba sila sa loob ng bahay?
Deletewe'll see
Delete@1:11 - toxic talaga? may valid reasons si ex-wife. para sa iyo talaga sinabi ni 12:17.
Deletekesyo toxic or hindi if may ginawang mali wag purihin.
1:11 wow teh sobra sobrang nasaktan si carla dyan!
DeleteMasyado kasi pa perfect yung isa, walang flaws lol
DeleteHuh? Ano magagawa natin kung masaya na ang mga ex ni girl ngayon? As in "mga" ex. Pag masaya na sya i'm sure marami din ang magcocongratulate
Delete1:11 si Carla ang toxic? Talaga lang. Wag sana mangyari sayo
DeleteAt 1:11 the guy could be so toxic too for all we know. Usually, women can tolerate so many things until one day, when you’ve reached your limit, that’s it. But doesn’t mean she is the problem. He could have been a better person for her while he was with the ex but he chose to be something else.
DeleteMore than 7 years silang live-in partners. Tiniis nya ng ganun katagal? Walang napansin pamilya nya na lagi nilang kasama? Pinaabit pa talaga nila sa kasalan kung toxic talaga yung lalaki? Relationships fail, at kadalasan, 2-way street yan. Pero the way they put all of the blame into the guy ng walang kalaban laban yung lalake, it’s very telling. Walang accountability from her side kaya habggang ngayon, sa latest issues nya, pavictim lagi.
Delete12:35 Ang dami nyang oras para kumalas, dun pa humiwalay kung kailan kasal na at nangako na sya ng "in richer and in poorer" yun pala in richer lang Lol 😂 tapos yung lalaki pa may kasalanan sa pagpo-,post kasi madasaltan yung isa eh pwede naman nyang wag tingnan yung post 🤣
DeleteGood that he is happy now. He has his own family. Still wondering tho kung ano talaga ang reason ng pag fall apart nila ni C. I guess, we'll never know 🤷♀️
ReplyDeleteSame question here. As a fellow Marites, I am also curious why they fell apart considering the length of their relationship. I thought they were each other's destiny na.
DeleteParang Carla didn't feel safe around him mas grumabe daw nung kasal na sila kaya pinalayas niya si Tom.
DeleteHindi lang siguro sila compatible at lumabas ang mga problema after they got married like yung na scam si Tom and lost a lot of money.
DeleteManiwala ako. Sa kasal nila grave all praise ang family kay Tom. Why allow them to get married kung masama talaga ang ugali ni guy.
DeleteWatch nyo yung interview ng tatay ni Carla. Sinabi nya doon ano kasalanan ni Tom. Apart from that me anger issues daw im not sure lang kung nananakit or nagkakasakitan.
DeleteKaya mahirap pakasal lumalabas Tunay na ugali ng lalaki,diba sa pbb pa lang di makontrol ni Tom anger nya
DeleteSame thoughts. Akala ko nga endgame na sila kasi ng live in talaga muna sila bago ikasal. Mas kilala na nila talaga isat isa sa iisang bubong. Pero dipa rin pala. Well pag hindi kayo para sa isat isa, di talaga
DeleteAnger issues most likely. And just because Carla chose herself doesnt mean sya ang problem. It should be totally acceptable kapag umayaw or nag let go ka to choose yourself, mapa babae or mapa lalake man. Wala tayo pakialam dun. If tom is happy good for her. It doesnt mean carla is less happy. Alone but not lonely should be a normal thing.
DeleteRey PJ Abellana said in his interview that Tom admitted to him that he a had a one night st@nd with another woman after being married to Carla. Bukod pa yung anger issues.
DeleteSayang talaga sila ni Carla. I was rooting for them. Kilig na kilig sa shows nila. Pero nauwi sa wala.
ReplyDeleteUn babae ang sumuko eh
DeleteBaka kasuko suko naman talaga
DeleteI know someone na ganyan din. Nag give up agad after months lang of getting married when the guy did not get a stable job. Sad lang na hindi napanindigan yung "through thick and thin".
DeleteMas kilig ako sa Carla-Geoff noon
Delete1:24 she dodged a bullet
DeleteKnowing Carla maybe she tried to fix it Pero hinde na talaga kaya … Kaya nag give up na siya . Kasi kung kaya naman sila pa ngayon baka may anak na. Napanood ko pa vlog niya before she really flew to nyc during the pandemic to get her dress and shoes Ganun siya ka excited. Nag paalam pa talaga siya from work that time e
Delete11:47 She was excited for the wedding, not the marriage.
Deletefresh nya, proud dad at mukhang contented baka mahal naman talag nya yung nabuntis nya kaya pinakasalan
ReplyDeleteHe's getting Good Karma
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteOf course he will only post positive things.
Delete3:03 e ano bang dapat? puro drama and negativity? lol
Deletetama3:03am
Deletenatural. alangan ipakita yung bad vibes. kaya nga nagulat lahat nung after few months hiwalayan.
Deletemarami tayong hindi alam sa mga celebrities behind closed doors.
are u sure about that?
Deleteay di ka sure diyan
DeleteOf course he will only post positive things 3:03. Kasi masaya sya :D hindi lahat, positive ang pinopost. Parang mas ugali mo ang napaghahalataan sa post mo
DeleteHe is happy being a father to his son.mabilis maka move on ang mga lalake.imagine may baby na siya while sa ex ang tagal nila at napunta lang sa hiwalayan.
ReplyDeleteLagi naman ganyan mga lalake ahaha sila tlga madalas nauuna magkapanliya after break up from a long term relationship. Baka mas mabilis talaga magmove on mga lalake. Ex: thompson, bolik, ravena, (puro basketball players) haha
Deleteof course alangan naman hintayin pa niya si carla eh ayaw na nga ni carla sakanya edi tom has no choice but to move on atleast theyre both happy now
DeleteSino kaya sa kanila ang totoong may kasalanan? Bakit parang si Tom pa ang happy kesa kay C eh kung sya naman ang may ginawang mali.
ReplyDeleteWalang pinipili ang kasiyahan or kalungkutan, whether ikaw ay masama or mabuti.
DeleteWow alam na alam mo kung sino ang mali, kasama ka nila sa bahay at sa buhay?
DeleteDi ba ganon naman madalas? Kung sino nagawan ng mali siya ang madalas nagsusuffer? Kasi sila ang nasaktan. And isa pa most guys move on so fast. Tayong mga babae ang madalas mas kumakapit sa memories at hirap magmove on. Not everyone ha
Delete9.55 What you've said don't make sense. You got hurt but then you still want to feel hurt by clinging on the past?
DeleteThat guy is one happy man :D :D :D Congrats!!! ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteThe baby is so siksik and mestizo
ReplyDeleteWow, siksik and mestiso yung observation mo?
DeleteHindi ko alam ang story nila and I know may baby na at present pero nalulungkot ako makakita ng couple na matagal na tapos naghihiwalay.
ReplyDeleteHe is trying so hard to prove he is so happy.
ReplyDeleteWala namang problema if his married, single naman sya. Sana di nasayang ang pinagsamahan nila ni Carla kung pinag usapan lang nila ng maayos ang naging problema nila. But he looks very happy may family na sya at baby pa.
ReplyDeleteHappy for him. He has moved on.
ReplyDeleteHalfie parang Caucasian Nanay; good for Tim he has found real happiness. Ang sarap magka anak it’s irreplaceable joy.
ReplyDeleteThat is if you really wanted it . Joy and Happiness , subjective po yan .
DeleteIf you’re bitter don’t be envy those who have child or children were happy to be parents. Be happy for those who have a child, who are the best blessing.
Delete9:14, sorry ang dami lang kasi…
Delete-don’t be envy … don’t be ENVIOUS OF or don’t ENVY
-have child or children… have A child or children
-were happy to be parents… did you mean ‘WHO ARE happy to be parents’?
-a child,who are the best blessing. check your subject-verb agreement.
Omg these comments… porke ba single yung isa not happy na?? I think filipinos talaga are still so tied up with the idea na kapag wala ka sa relationship you are unhappy.
ReplyDeletemadalas mas problemado pa nga ang mga nasa relationship lalo na kapag masama ang ugali or babaero ang bf/asawa. Basta may trabaho, friends and family kaya ng mga single maging masaya.
DeleteBecause the ex wife was a controlling, conceited, and entitled person who always exudes condescension and negativity. Porke’t “side” nya lang narinig nyo, kung maka red flag ang iba dito akala nyo alam nila ang totoong kwento, but for all who was watching their relationship unfold or witnessed it, kita naman kung sino yung domineering and in control. Todo puri pa yung babae sa kanya pati pamilya nya, then all of a sudden gusto nya maniwala ang lahat na abused sya for all those years na walang ka-sign sign? There are women out there who truly suffer and are victims, but there are also those who weaponize their gender to curate the narrative and play victim. Plain and simple, si Tom mukhang masaya na sa buhay nya with his family habang yung isa puro parinig, negativity, at toxicity lang kadalasan ang kuda.
ReplyDeleteAng laki ng baby!! 🙂
ReplyDeletePlot twist: Wedding ring nila ni Ms. C ang suot ni Tom sa pic.
ReplyDeleteThis whole situation is so sad, its been 4-5 years since they divorced. Kailangang pabayaan ng lahat, Hes a great actor and seems like a humble guy. Itinapon siya ng ex of YEARS niya sa ilalim ng bus at iniwan siya noong nagbreak sila. "She loved me at my worst; you had me at my best".
ReplyDeleteHe's allowed to move on and be happy, who cares if it was fast, life is short. And us filipino are so judgy now adays. Walang perpekto.
Ngunit huwag maniwala sa lahat ng nakikita mo online. Dahil kung siya ay abusado o niloko, iyon ay sa kanya para sa pananatili.
At ako lang ba o ang paglalagay ng gag order sa isang tao ay isang pahiwatig na may tinatago ka rin. Poor tom cant even post his "happiness" because of her fans. Anong magandang idol you have.
Ang cute healthy baby very good decision whatever negativity move on and be happy; life is too short. Baby is always a blessing.
ReplyDeleteMagaling na actor si Tom, as I watched his GMA shows. I hope he revives his acting career and becomes successful in relationships
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