Omg hirap basahin 😢 I’ve read parts of it and grabeng laki na pala ng pera ni Charice noon pwede na sya mag business at retire pero napunta lang lahat sa nanay nya
Now i totally get it why he chose to be who he is today. Di na bale walang pera, basta wala ng aabuso sa kanya, financially, emotionally, mentally and sexually. And i will understand kung di nya patawarin nanay nya.
Grabe pala pinagdaanan niya. Kaya pala ni silip hindi na niya ginawa sa pamilya niya. Buhay pa ba un ankol na manyak? Kaya ako tawag ko sa mga tsong, tsonggo eh. Un isang tsonggo ko naliligo ako biglang pumasok. Walang lock un cr kasi luma na, ancestral house. Nagbakasyon lang kami ng tatay ko. Buti na lang nakatowel na ako. Ang g@go lang. Pag naalalala ko yun gusto kong duraan sa mukha ang h@yop na un. Manyakis amp. Tahimik na bata lang kasi ako non. Di ko na nasabi sa tatay ko. Saka katwiran ko wala naman siyang nakita natakpan ko ng towel. Pero looking back maling mali yun. Maryosep yan pa na may sexual and physical assault. Nakakasuka ang mga manyakis na yan. Feeling ko di sila makakuha ng relasyon sa labas kaya un mga helpless ang ginagamit nila
@1:09 maybe this is his way to move on and be able to heal. Na somehow may maniniwala sa knya, sa story nia, sa nangyari sa knya. It’s hard for sure pero sa tagal niang dinala yan at ngaun nia lng nailabas after so many years. Maaring makatulong toh para maghilom ung sakit.
alam mo kaya walang nagsusumbong dahil sa mga katulad mo, sa book nya siya nakahugot ng lakas loob ganyan pa sasabihin mo. ang hirap magopen up abou s/a sa totoo lng. i was a victim of my own cousin too. at mahirap magint open, bilib ako sa kanya kasi matapang siya pangalanan abuser niya.
1:02 im so sorry nakaranas ka ng ganyan. it obviously traumatized you kahit pa walang nangyari or nakita sa yo its still violation. I hope you heal from that menory. I hope makwento mo din yan sa Tatay mo dahil
This is really heartbreaking. Physically, emotionally, and financially abused si Charice. I totally get where she’s coming from. I don’t blame her at all for her estrangement to her mom and family.
My lesbian partner was SA'd multiple times.. same person. Tricy driver. Malayo bahay nila. Inaabangan siya sa gate ng school kada labas niya. Dinadala sa abandoned na kulungan ng baboy na mejo makahoy at the time. Now madami ng bahay. Blackmailed into succumbing kasi papatayin daw nung gr🍇pist grandparents niya eh iniwan siya ng parents niya na naghiwalay at di na binalikan. She loved her granny and gramps til now based on how she talks about them kahit matagal ng mga nagsipanaw kasi sila nagpalaki sa kanya. she didnt tell me. It was mentioned by a common friend. Her court files are still online. Nabuntis. Eh tibo na siya bata pa lang. Inampon ng tita niya ung bata.
I never asked my partner. She doesn't know that I know probably. We never talked about it. I am several years younger. It happened when I was 7 y/o. She was 14 at the time. Started when she was 13 per the file I read. I coulnd't finish reading. But I got atleast the basic details. So hindi ko narinig ang balita. Glad the community in our little town never spoke about it. At least only 1 person mentioned it to me and it was a close friend.
My reaction was murderous but at least nabubulok sa munti til now yung gumawa.
Pasintabi po. Just sharing. Not my story to tell but no personal info divulged. Some lgbt i know and are friends with has the same story. So sad. Parang nichachallenge yung sexual orientation nila kaya ginaganyan. Mga g*g* at denonyo!
Nasasaktan ako for him. Napakasakit maging SA victim at sarili mong ina di naniniwala sayo. Para sa part naman na ginastos ng ginastos ng Nanay niya ang pera, nagpatayo ng bahay na wala sa pangalan niya. Nasan ang fans ng Nanay ni Carlos Yulo? Same na same ginawa ng Nanay diba. “Nanay mo pa din yan” left the group.
True. And kung tutuusin ha mas malaki pa nga ang participation ng nanay ni Charisse sa career nya kesa sa participation ng nanay ni Caloy sa career ni Caloy pero halos same sila ng pauugali!
Ngayon asan ung mga ngsasabi na nanay nya pa din yun kailangan nya tanggapin at respetuhin pa din! Shet! 6yrs old!!!! nakakaawa sya. Tapos ang mga tao walang ginawa kundi i-bash sya!!!
At one point, nasa PhP 800,000,000 ang pera ni Charice, saan dinala ni Aling Raquel yun??? Eh hindi nga mga nakapangalan kay Charice yung mga ari-arian. Tapos na napa Tulfo pa siya dahil hindi niya mabayaran yung ipina-upholstery niyang sofa. Tapos ipina-Tulfo siya ulit ng nanay niya bago namatay. SAAN DINALA NI ALING RAQUEL ANG PERA?!
malaki din ang tax na binayaran for sure at bayad sa manager, at kung anu ano pa... let's say 30% ang natira after business cost, malaki pa din yun... pero sa palagay ko di lahat napunta kay mother... maraming naka aligid kay charice eh...
11:57 and OP. Di ako si Xian o fan niya ah. Pero compare his crime and yung r-word or SA, di hamak na mas malinis siya. Atsaka at least inamin niyang scammer siya.
any form of abuse is violation padin mapa physical, mental or emotional. do not discredit the suffering ng mga naloko nya thinking “at least hindi naman sila na na r—“ grabeng gaslight kayo! hindi nyo alam kung paano ang feeling ng ma-scam ka. Gaza is no better. tama si 11:02!
I suddenly felt really sorry for jake zyrus. May mabigat pala siyang past that nobody knew about. Grabe talaga ang epekto ng trauma. Sana mamatay na talaga lahat ng manyakis at rapists ASAP
So true. Kung wala naman ginawa sayo why bash because of his choices in life? We don't know what everyone is going through. Sana lang hindi sya suicidal. Hirap isipin how he manages to keep going despite all his nightmares and trauma in life.
Sadly this is true.. a close friend of mine confided that he was sexually assaulted by a cousin when he was a kid.. he said it confused him growing up. He’s gay now.
Nabasa ko din parts nito. Sabi ni jake around $16m ang kinita nya pero di nya nahawakan. Lahat sa nanay nya at pag lalabas sya, hihingi pa sya sa mama nya. Pag gagamitin ang car, need pa permission ng nanay nya. Grabe, nakakaawa si charice.
Yes 11:55 on a lesser scale maraming ganyan na mga OFW na mga single pa dahil ang katwiran ng pamiya wala ka pa namang bubuhaying sariling pamilya kaya sila na muna, ending wala ng natira para sa sarili at di na rin nakakapag asawa
Aba dapat lang. Mother knows best. Alangan dahil milyonaryo na yung bata e pagbiguan lahat ng kaprecho. Dapat may control, yun ang purpose ng magulang.
Pero at least yun Mommy si SG hindi nasayang Yun pera. Meron sila business, maayos ang pamumuhay nila. Hindi nalustay Yun pera. Tong nanay ni Charis mukhang poorita pa din. Saan napunta Yun 16M USD?!
This is not "tsismis", it's facts. I hope we pray for his peace and learn from this as a culture to NEVER let our guards down when it comes to our children in our homes.
1:26 Iba yung sitwasyon ni Jake teh. Wala naman ata siyang balak ipakulong ang tito niya. Gusto lang niyang marinig siya at paniwalaan ng nanay niya this time. Put yourself in their shoes. Imagine kung ano yung trauma na pinagdaanan niya at 6 years old? SIX F***ING YEARS OLD! Tapos ultimo nanay mo hindi ka pinaniwalaan? Kung hindi man totoo yan, why do you think he would bring that up ngayong matatanda na lahat?
Wow. Masyado ka namang paimportante teh! Tingin ko wala naman na siyang pakialam kung maniwala ka man o hindi at hindi na din importante yang opinyon mo.
Actually teh, his objective is not for you to believe it. Whether you believe it or not doesn't matter. He simple told his story for everyone to understand what lead him to all those huge decisions in his life.
Akala mo ba importante at magma-matter sa kanya o sa aming lahat if you don't believe everything?! WALA.KAMING.PAKE 11:23. Nothing will change kung hindi mo paniniwalaan lahat ng sinabi niya. Feelingera ka masyado.
Marami talagang kuya, pinsan, uncle, tatay, kamaganak at kapitbahay na reypist. Ask ur seat mate at school or ka office mo, meron at meron na reyp dyan. Prepadators are on the lose kc filipinos are LOW HANGING FRUIT when it comes to trusting just abt anyone. SO PLS DONT TRUST YOUR DAUGHTER OR SON to anyone.
PS Im not a victim pero dami ko alam at kakilala na nasira ng mga predator
And mga lolo na manyak and they target yung mga may kapansanan na apo . Worst part is the relatives and the parents cover it up . Plus chummy chummy pa ang iyong other sister sa mga aunties na mga nanahimik and covered it up . That’s why I disowned the whole clan of my mom and my sister na kumampi sa kanila and wala lang sa kanya that we were not able to protect our sister when she was raped for years ng aming manyak na lolo and took advantage that she is a special child . That is a big reason I’m childfree even I’m happily married. I couldn’t take it and I could kill and mababaliw ako for not protecting my kid . God I know I have hatred towards family who cover up the rape of their own child or relatives .
9:45 wag mo lahatin.. I grew up with my lolo and lola together with my uncles.. thank God hindi abuser ang mga relatives ko and I am proud to be lola's girl..
Grabe sa kademonyohan ang mga kamag anak na nangmomolestya ng bata/minor or kahit anong edad... Sa news nga, halos araw araw may ganyang news. Iba na talaga ang panahon ngayon. Kaya hindi maiwasan na itreat mong baby ang mga anak kahit malalaki na sila. Unlike tayong 80s-90s kids na maagang nagmature at naging independent.
hindi po iba nung 80s and 90s. If anything life has gotten better, hindi lang obvious. It just seems like lumalala dahil sa age of internet and everything is sensationalized
It's so sad na may mga magulang na ganyan na pabaya. I sometimes ask God bakit nya binibigyan ng anak ang mga ganid na tao. Pero yung mga deserving hindi nya mabigyan. I wish you healing, Jake. God bless you.
I do not understand parents who do not believe their children or why they tend to brush off abuses like this. As a parent you should be your child's safest place. Kaya siguro he will nevery take his mother's side beceause she was never there to fight for him.
Iba iba din naman kasi ang pamilya... yung mga lumaki sa magandang pamilya, they cannot imagine that sort of pain and trauma.. kaya nila nasasabi yun.. well good for them.. pero marami talagang pamilya na sumira ng mgakabataan
I feel for Jake! I was SA'd too at 6 years old by a construction worker near our house. I'm 40 now and still vividly remembers that day. My family probably forgot or think I have forgotten it, but I seriously can't erase it in my mind. He was also an old man!
I was molested by my 3 uncles 1 aunt when i was young. My parents didnt know until now. I am now 50 yrs old but i can clearly remember every thing. One of the reason i chose to stay single. I have trust issues with everybody.
Ako, I was molested by my cousin, who was 12 years older than I was when the series of sexual abuse happened. If my recollection serves me right, 4 years old ako nun hanggang nag-7. Fast forward 30 years, sinabi ko sa mama ko. Niyakap ako ng mahigpit at sinabi ni mama sa akin, bakit di ako nagsumbong lalo kay papa.
Doktora po ang nanay ko sa probinsya at provincial secretary ang tatay ko sa kapitolyo. Imagine na medyo kilala ang mga magulang ko pero hnd ko nagawang magsumbong sa takot ko? Paaral nila ung pinsan ko sa high school at hnd kailanman nila inakala na magagawa nya un.
Hnaggang ngayon, binabangungot ako ng kawalanghiyaan nya. Nagkasakit sya ng adult hydrocephalus recently. I believe, he deserves it. It is nature's way of saying that he needs to pay for what he did.
hugs! ako I was never abused but never felt safe in my mother's place. separated kasi parents ko tapos yung nanay ko may live-in partner. ayaw ko sa kanila. minsan parang iba yung kilos nila kaya iwas na iwas ako. safe ako sa biological tatay ko. please if you're catholic, have St Joseph as your patron saint. yung s3xual abuse kasi is devil's attack against our biological fathers. if your father failed to protect your dignity, St Joseph will intercede for you. God bless.
It's sad na ngayon lang ang mga tao naaawa kay jake. Dati lagi siyang pinagtatawanan for being trans, daming memes, gifs making fun of his looks. Parang hindi rin siya celebrated dito for being part of pride unlike sa ibang bansa.
Kaya importante to BE KIND. Kasi hindi natin alam kung anong pinagdadaanan ng ibang tao. And 1:33, try changing your attitude. Whether it's the truth or not, JUST BE KIND to others. Wala namang mawawala sayo.
Anong just be kind pinagsasabi mo 4.36pm? Granting na di totoo sinasabi ni charice, just be kind pa din atake mo? Sabihin mo yan sa mga nakulong at nagdusa na mga inosenteng oinaratangan ng eaoe or SA. Kalorks.
How about... filing... a SA charge to the proper authorities? :D :D :D Seriously girls, soc med will not do you anything ;) ;) ;) You are just letting SA offenders get away with their crime :) :) :)
As SA victim, I understand Jake it is not that easy, this is not a simple theft case. The mental trauma is agonizing. i hope it will happen to you or your loved ones.
Seriously Smiley?! …..Most of this Anonymous were abused probably more than decades ago when they were helpless, with no witnesses and no family support, how can they file charges now if there’s no proof except their memory of pain and shame and their what ifs. The least you could do is stop being condescending, let them vent on socmed, it is good for their mental health to find allies here when they never had support before.
Alam mo okay lang sana kung binasa mo pero hindi mo naintindihan. Kaso hindi mo talaga binasa man lang tapos hihingi ka ng short details?! Bilang isang tsismosa, ang kapal ng mukha mo teh. Hehe
Hindi man ako kasing gara nila Jake, Carlos and Sarah, pero ginawa rin akong ATM ng nanay ko at lahat ng problema nila sa Pinas ultimo agawan ng charger, sinesend pa saken. I really feel for them. Hence I cut all forms of communication with my mom since 2023. I’ve never been happier since then.
Totoong nangyayari yan may mga nanay na sa halip na sya ang sumaway sa nangaabuso sa anak, in any form, balewala lang sa kanila na may anak sila na martir na!
Pano mo nakaya sis? Nahihirapan ako to cut all communication kasi i feel guilty, alam mo namam mentality naten. But ginagawa din ako ATM ng nanay ko na nakukuha pang magsugal.
I was going through the same ordeal kaya no contact na kami ng nanay ko since mid 2023.
I'm still in pain and grieving for the love/peace I didn't get. Hindi rin nakakatulong ung iba na sasabihan ako na nanay mo yan etc. Hindi kc sila naabuso emotionally and financially, masakit parin
10:01 am not 1:50 pero kung kaya mo, umalis ka sa lugar nyo. Kahit yung next town or city lang. Important is you cut ties, at hindi ka nila mapupuntahan easily. Start a new life talaga, and if needs be, new job, new place, new everything.
It took a lot of years. It helped that I live overseas with a full supportive husband (emotionally, mentally) I also had a lot of counselling sessions and different therapies. It has been on going since 2014 and the last straw was in 2023, she is abusive to my nephews and nieces verbally and physically. I spoke to her to stop her but instead she told me “ako nanay mo sila kinakampihan mo” that made me realise that this person will never change, so since then I haven’t spoken to her.
Masakit bilang babae at lalo n bilang bata n hindi mo alam gagawin mo or knino k lalapit para magsumbong. Dahil ultimo nanay di sya pinaniwalaan. Ginawa lng commodity anak nya para s sarili nyang interest. Which is nangyayari now s cyber porno mgulang or ka anak mismo naglalako
I feel you Jake ilan beses na din akong narape ng kamag anak as in 2 pinsan at 1 Tito sobrang hirap sa pakiramdam kasi wala pa rin nakakaalam kahit sino sa nangyare sakin may asawa at anak na ko ngayon. Dasal sa diyos ginagawa ko pag Natatakot ako at pag naaalala ko 😔
My father was my abuser too. Up until now walang may alam sa pamilya ko. My aunt who passed away years ago was the only.one who had a hint. Wala akong lakas ng loob sabihin kasi nakikita ko na mahal siya ng mga younger siblings ko. Now, i am married pero dahil dala mo ung trauma, minsan may hesitation ka with my husband. Sa intimacy alam ko may pagkujulang ako. Kasi ewan ko I can not explain. Hinding hindi ka makaka move on no matter how hard you pray,. Kahit marangya na buhay mo. Walang door going out.
I was 8 when my grandfather S.Ad me and my sister,the sad part was my mom and my dad new about it but did'nt do anything.Yung ang sakit na alam pala nila pero wala silang ginawa kasi mapapahiya daw ang pamilya. Namatay yung father ko na hindi na kami naging okay and galit na galit sakin yung mga kapatid nya kasi daw parang wala akong pakialam sa father ko. Until now andito parin yung pain na wala kang mapagsabihan sa abusong naranasan mo noon.
happened the same to me. uncle ng kalaro ko. tinawag ako tas kinandong ako. i was 6 pero alam ko may mali. nung nakita ng kuya ko, he was 7, sabi nya uwi na kami. hinihila nya ko, ayaw ako pakawalan nung kumag. naglupasay kuya ko kakaiyak, nung madami na nakatingin, saka ako binitawan. nasabi ko lang sa nanay ko, mga 13 na ako. nakalipat na kami ng bahay sa ibang lugar. wala lang. bagong gising ako. sinabi ko sa kanya. tas natulog na ako ulit. after nun, hindi na ako na bother about that incident.
Sadly this story isn"t uncommon satin. I myself am a SA victim ng family and have chosen to keep quiet to "maintain the peace" at the expense of my physical and mental health. When I was a medical intern and during our medico legal rotation sa crame, andami din mga batang (mostly female) I was tasked to examine kasi may compaints of SA. Some even as young as 3 and hindi nga nila alam na mali ginawa sa kanila and may concerned relative lang na nakapansin. May 3 yr old tinanong ko ano ginawa sa kanya tas she demonstrated yung hip thrusting movement ng assault. It was just a 1 week rotarion but I've always wondered what happened to those kids na may complaint and if umabot sa conviction. We were told na taga collect and document lang kami ng evidence and to be impartial pero syempre sa loob loob ko di naman magsisinungaling ang bata at wala naman silang prior knowledge sa mga movement na ginawa sa kanila. Mahirap kasi kahit mag speak up, kadalasan walang witness and mahirap i prove yung kaso nila.
40M and survived SA by my P#$@ !n@ng uncle. Hanggang ngayon, the trauma is still there dahil paulit ulit hanggang sa nagbinata. I even questioned myself if I was gay. Sana hanggang sa impyeno sinisunog kaluluwa nya. I even attempted suicide because of shame and guilt. I feel you JZ. Now a family man of 2 kids. Kung meron lang 2nd life, I would never live this same life over and over again.
As one of the many people on social media cyberbullying her, making fun and laughing at her pictures, nakakaguilty tuloy. Now I’ve learned my lessons.. 😔 Sorry Charice/Jake that you have to gone through all this unhumane phases of your life. 😔
If this is true, i truly deeply sympathize with jake. I dont want to invalidate his story and menories pero somehow medyo may duda ako sa story just because of the timing. Ang tagal na nya sa showbiz and he has always been open and minsan nga sobrang open pa about things so why bring this up just now? Di din nmn cya yun goody goody na kimi type of person so what kept him from revealing this crime all these years? Dahil lang ba to monetize it and create interest sa libro at career bya?
Obviously because she probably feels shame about what happened to her kahit na siya ang victim. Kumbaga kahit siya yung victim, it’s not something na madaling pagusapan and nakakadulot ito ng kahihiyan sa kanya. Put yourself in his shoes, kung sexual assault victim ka ba, is that something na proud ka i-announce at ganon na lang Kadali mong I-announce sa buong Mundo? I think not. And there’s a risk pa na people will accuse them of making up stories Kaya a lot of these victims choose to keep quiet.
Girl, being raped at 6 years old isn't something you can share nonchalantly. Believe me when I say that most female victims who were raped by their family or relatives will never talk about it even with other rape victims. I worked for an NGO helping victims of child abuse. Lahat halos ng nandun inabuso ng lolo, tiyuhin, o kumpare ng tatay sa murang edad. We never heard the story from them directly, only from police records. It's just too difficult for them to remember and talk about those things. Pero darating ang panahon na handa na silang ikwento. The MMK episode, Chinese Garter was based from Pia Corvera's story who was from the NGO I worked for.
Most of the times talaga, our abuser comes from our own blood.
Uncle, pinsan, magulang, kapatid… in my case pinsan kong buo and my own brother. Sad life, you cant just voice it out because of fear na hindi ka paniwalaan… you just have to live like it didnt happen.
Can relate with you 1:50. Ganyan ginawa sa aming mag asawa ng nanay, tatay at kapatid ko pati mga anak noya tapos masama pa kami. Wala na tatay ko pero I never felt sad kasi sa amin pa kinuha ang pampalibing amounting to almost 300k mga 11 years ago and not even a single thank you galing sa nanay ko at magaling kong kapatid. Nakipagreconcile kami sa kanila by 2016 ata un when my pamangkin called me na nasa icu nanay niya and ako nag alaga sa kanya then gumaling siya. And kinuha ko nanay ko para makapunta dito sa us kasi akala ko namimiss kami. Well na wow mali ako at acting lang pala para makapunta dito and makakuha na naman ng pera. So talagang cut off na uli since 2022 and it’s my final answer na and goodbye sa toxic family. Like you, we have never been happier and peaceful. Not all moms know what’s best para sa mga anak and sadly some moms are gagawin talagang investment.
Unfortunately, madalas talaga mangyari yan sa pamilyang pinoy... AT may masamang epekto yan sa mga biktima and you can tell sa mga ugali ng karamihan ng pinoy sa socmed. Halata mong so many pinoys suffered or suffering from sexual abuses in their homes based on how they react sa certain sexual or family issues. A lot of them thinks something abnormal is normal and should just be shrugged off.
One time my husband and I were talking about yun column sa tabloid noon yun xerex. So pnaguusapan namin if nag evolve kaya to a digital platform or meron anything like that na filipino. We tried searching, nakita namin parang 80% about incest. Ang dami pa nga stories na father talaga. Nakakagulat kasi para ganun kadami it means yun ang malaking market. I can’t believe na yan ang gusto ng mga pinoy. Pag tignan mo naman mga tao d mo maiisip na madaming ganun.
Yung ibang commenter dito ang lalakas ng loob magsabi na hindi daw nila paniniwalaan yung mga sinasabi ni Jake unless magsalita yung kabilang side. Kala mo naman pinipilit silang maniwala. Sa tingin niyo yan ang habol niya kaya niya shinare ang story niya? I don't think he's after getting justice or make people believe him. He was simply telling his story to explain why he made such choices in life despite being at the height of his success when he was Charice. Marami kasi sa atin ang nasayangan at nagtataka. So ayan ang explanation.
this made tear up and angry at the same time. Why is it hard for parents to beloeve their children? Is it denial or simply not caring at all? I hope that man suffers the consequence of what he had done.
Nakakinis mga taong ganyan, sarili mo pa namang relative. Happened to me, cousin ko ang culprit, pinatira pa ng nanay ko sa amin. Tapos may ginawa sa akin. Adult na ako ng malaman ko na may mali pala nuon. At it has caused so much trauma to me and to my sexual tendencies. Basta feeling ko ma mali sa akin. I feel guilty and ashamed. Sana mapatawad ko siya. Sana pinagsisihan na din nya.
Growing up she Lacks proper guidance, Love, and attention. Pinabayaan siya ng nanay niya. Wala pakialam sa kanya ang nanay niya ginawa lang siya palamuti. Kaya nag kalat ang buhay niya dahil sa nanay niya wala man lang sumalo man sa kanya to get out sa toxic niya family. I cant blame her sa mga naging decision niya sa buhay . Even her manager before ewan ko ba baket niya siya sinalo Or tinago Or sadyang lang talaga hawak din ng nanay niya. We dont know… Jake is Not Happy kung sinasabi niya okay na siya saan siya now. I dont think so! :( shes still in pain. She needs guidance and real people who support him-her all out.
Sa observation ko mukha totoo naman Ma bad ang nanay niya. The way to escape sa toxic niya na nanay at sa Tito niya who molested Charice nag pa sex change siya. Meaning deep inside hinde siya masaya ginawa niya yun. She was pressured to do it! May regrets siya nag pa sex change siya kasi after that nag changed talaga ang Career niya bumaksak e sabay mo nanay niya gahaman. Sabay sabay pa nakaka effect yan physically mentally and emotionally up to these day. esp now hinde sila in Good terms ng nanay niya and Career wise niya ? Hinde na ganun siya ka bankable. Sana maka hanap si Charice ng loyal and trusted na support system para gabayan siya . Mahirap ang pinagdadaanan niya now.
SA maybe true, pero yung money na lahat napunta sa mother, parang di naman totally true. Also diba over generous si Charice sa mga nagiging gfs nya? Baka naman duon naubos.
Awww Jake. I felt so bad reading this. It's hard being a parent, but I truly believe that we should always be their first advocate. Sana all may strong support system.
Grabe pala pinagdaanan ni Charice/Jake. My heart breaks for him. Tas na bash pa xa todo dati and dami nya haters for no reason. Buti n lng din pla d nya tinuloy ung hollywood career nya. Dami din predators dun
Ang nagtataka ako, bakit ngayon nia lang inilabas yung nangyari sakanyang yan? Bakit hindi nia ginamit yung kasikatan nia noon para ilabas yung pangmomolestya sakanya before? Diba? Mejo nakakapagtaka lang kasi. I have nothing against him ha, its just that mejo nakakabother lang, why not use your popularity to expose your uncle? Dahil sa takot sya?
Bcos she was being hindered by her management back then during her stardom and any news about this will tarnish her reputation. Now is the time that HE found the courage and freedom to come out. At ikaw pa talaga 7:45 ang na bother huh?
SA victims have their own reasons if and when they decide to shed light on the assault. Dami nga dito sa thread na to hanggang ngayon tinatago pa yung abuse.
"Huge whispers" sa ABS-CBN iyan between 2010 to 2012 before his issues with his mom erupted a year after. I was a contributing writer for CHALK Magazine and people in the newsroom were talking about it. Kahit nasa abroad na ako ng 2013 pinag-uusapan na iyan. No wonder, and I understand, why these revelations of Jake are explosive.
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Omg hirap basahin 😢 I’ve read parts of it and grabeng laki na pala ng pera ni Charice noon pwede na sya mag business at retire pero napunta lang lahat sa nanay nya
ReplyDeleteMabuti si caloy maaga pa lang nalaman na nya.
DeleteNow i totally get it why he chose to be who he is today. Di na bale walang pera, basta wala ng aabuso sa kanya, financially, emotionally, mentally and sexually. And i will understand kung di nya patawarin nanay nya.
DeletePero ang nakakapagtaka bakit taghirap amg ina nya now, san napunta ang pera?
DeleteThat was 16m DOLLARS na nawala lang ng ganon. San kaya tinago ng nanay
DeleteGrabe pala pinagdaanan niya. Kaya pala ni silip hindi na niya ginawa sa pamilya niya. Buhay pa ba un ankol na manyak? Kaya ako tawag ko sa mga tsong, tsonggo eh. Un isang tsonggo ko naliligo ako biglang pumasok. Walang lock un cr kasi luma na, ancestral house. Nagbakasyon lang kami ng tatay ko. Buti na lang nakatowel na ako. Ang g@go lang. Pag naalalala ko yun gusto kong duraan sa mukha ang h@yop na un. Manyakis amp. Tahimik na bata lang kasi ako non. Di ko na nasabi sa tatay ko. Saka katwiran ko wala naman siyang nakita natakpan ko ng towel. Pero looking back maling mali yun. Maryosep yan pa na may sexual and physical assault. Nakakasuka ang mga manyakis na yan. Feeling ko di sila makakuha ng relasyon sa labas kaya un mga helpless ang ginagamit nila
DeleteAmbigat basahin. Sakit sa dibdib. True or not. Ambigat. Kailangan ba talaga i-announce ito publicly?
Delete@1:09 maybe this is his way to move on and be able to heal. Na somehow may maniniwala sa knya, sa story nia, sa nangyari sa knya. It’s hard for sure pero sa tagal niang dinala yan at ngaun nia lng nailabas after so many years. Maaring makatulong toh para maghilom ung sakit.
Deletealam mo kaya walang nagsusumbong dahil sa mga katulad mo, sa book nya siya nakahugot ng lakas loob ganyan pa sasabihin mo. ang hirap magopen up abou s/a sa totoo lng. i was a victim of my own cousin too. at mahirap magint open, bilib ako sa kanya kasi matapang siya pangalanan abuser niya.
Delete1:09 well, somehow yes kasi lagi syang minomock ng taong bayan for being trans and paglayo sa pamilya nya.
Delete1:02 im so sorry nakaranas ka ng ganyan. it obviously traumatized you kahit pa walang nangyari or nakita sa yo its still violation. I hope you heal from that menory. I hope makwento mo din yan sa Tatay mo dahil
DeleteThis is really heartbreaking. Physically, emotionally, and financially abused si Charice. I totally get where she’s coming from. I don’t blame her at all for her estrangement to her mom and family.
ReplyDeleteMy Uncle was my abuser, too. He died of a heart attack and I wish he is burning in hell now.
Deletewhat he did to her is so disgusting. hindi ko kayang tapusin basahin.
Delete12:37 i am sorry for what happened to you. i hope you are healing
Hoping the abuser is not among human anymore
Deletemost of gays I know were sexually abused or kaya nabully sila ng bata. Poor charice.
DeleteMy lesbian partner was SA'd multiple times.. same person. Tricy driver. Malayo bahay nila. Inaabangan siya sa gate ng school kada labas niya. Dinadala sa abandoned na kulungan ng baboy na mejo makahoy at the time. Now madami ng bahay. Blackmailed into succumbing kasi papatayin daw nung gr🍇pist grandparents niya eh iniwan siya ng parents niya na naghiwalay at di na binalikan. She loved her granny and gramps til now based on how she talks about them kahit matagal ng mga nagsipanaw kasi sila nagpalaki sa kanya. she didnt tell me. It was mentioned by a common friend. Her court files are still online. Nabuntis. Eh tibo na siya bata pa lang. Inampon ng tita niya ung bata.
DeleteI never asked my partner. She doesn't know that I know probably. We never talked about it. I am several years younger. It happened when I was 7 y/o. She was 14 at the time. Started when she was 13 per the file I read. I coulnd't finish reading. But I got atleast the basic details. So hindi ko narinig ang balita. Glad the community in our little town never spoke about it. At least only 1 person mentioned it to me and it was a close friend.
My reaction was murderous but at least nabubulok sa munti til now yung gumawa.
Pasintabi po. Just sharing. Not my story to tell but no personal info divulged. Some lgbt i know and are friends with has the same story. So sad. Parang nichachallenge yung sexual orientation nila kaya ginaganyan. Mga g*g* at denonyo!
Nasasaktan ako for him. Napakasakit maging SA victim at sarili mong ina di naniniwala sayo. Para sa part naman na ginastos ng ginastos ng Nanay niya ang pera, nagpatayo ng bahay na wala sa pangalan niya. Nasan ang fans ng Nanay ni Carlos Yulo? Same na same ginawa ng Nanay diba. “Nanay mo pa din yan” left the group.
ReplyDeleteTrue. And kung tutuusin ha mas malaki pa nga ang participation ng nanay ni Charisse sa career nya kesa sa participation ng nanay ni Caloy sa career ni Caloy pero halos same sila ng pauugali!
DeleteNgayon asan ung mga ngsasabi na nanay nya pa din yun kailangan nya tanggapin at respetuhin pa din! Shet! 6yrs old!!!! nakakaawa sya. Tapos ang mga tao walang ginawa kundi i-bash sya!!!
ReplyDeleteTapos sasabihin ng matatanda bata ka pa di mo pa naiintindihan lahat 6 yrs old grabe sinapit
DeleteAt one point, nasa PhP 800,000,000 ang pera ni Charice, saan dinala ni Aling Raquel yun???
ReplyDeleteEh hindi nga mga nakapangalan kay Charice yung mga ari-arian.
Tapos na napa Tulfo pa siya dahil hindi niya mabayaran yung ipina-upholstery niyang sofa.
Tapos ipina-Tulfo siya ulit ng nanay niya bago namatay.
SAAN DINALA NI ALING RAQUEL ANG PERA?!
binenta pa yung bahay, kanya daw yun. pano nung bumili ng properties sa kanya ipinangalan lhat. may chismis dati nagsusugal daw
DeleteTotoo ba? There’s always 3 sides of the story
Deletemalaki din ang tax na binayaran for sure at bayad sa manager, at kung anu ano pa... let's say 30% ang natira after business cost, malaki pa din yun... pero sa palagay ko di lahat napunta kay mother... maraming naka aligid kay charice eh...
DeleteFor Gaza...stop being a hypocrite. You state people who are abusers belong in hell...what do you think of yourself?
ReplyDeleteHe admitted he was a scammer but ibang level naman pag S.abuser ka na sa sarili mong kadugo!
DeleteNagmamalinis
DeleteIt takes an evil person to do that to a child. Si Gaza, at least nag empathize sa sinapit ni Jake nung 6 years old palang siya.
Delete11:57 and OP. Di ako si Xian o fan niya ah. Pero compare his crime and yung r-word or SA, di hamak na mas malinis siya. Atsaka at least inamin niyang scammer siya.
Deleteany form of abuse is violation padin mapa physical, mental or emotional. do not discredit the suffering ng mga naloko nya thinking “at least hindi naman sila na na r—“ grabeng gaslight kayo! hindi nyo alam kung paano ang feeling ng ma-scam ka. Gaza is no better. tama si 11:02!
DeleteI suddenly felt really sorry for jake zyrus. May mabigat pala siyang past that nobody knew about. Grabe talaga ang epekto ng trauma. Sana mamatay na talaga lahat ng manyakis at rapists ASAP
ReplyDeleteHow to survive if your abuser is your own family?!? You can’t! especially if you are just a tiny little girl. I wish you healing Jake!
ReplyDeletewaiting sa sagot ng Mudra.....
ReplyDelete11:04 merong ng sagot. Puno pa rin ng poot yong nanay
DeleteNanumbat parin.
DeleteThis is very sad. Di talaga naten alam ang pinagdadaanan ng isang tao. The least we can do is NOT to hurt them.
ReplyDeleteTruth!!!
DeleteSo true. Kung wala naman ginawa sayo why bash because of his choices in life? We don't know what everyone is going through. Sana lang hindi sya suicidal. Hirap isipin how he manages to keep going despite all his nightmares and trauma in life.
DeleteYeah.. kaya nga daw let's be kind always. Alam man natin or hindi ang pinagdadaanan, it doesn't cost a dime to be kind.
DeleteOMG. Maraming tao nagiging member ng LGBT+ naka experience ng SA
ReplyDeleteSadly this is true.. a close friend of mine confided that he was sexually assaulted by a cousin when he was a kid.. he said it confused him growing up. He’s gay now.
Delete11:10 This. And pansin mo halos ang dami sa pinas ang kabilang sa lgbt... the government really need to do something to protect the children
DeleteMagkasakit at magsuffer sana yung nangmolestya sa kanya. Hirap basahin ng mga ganitong stories pag kadugo lang yung abuser.
ReplyDeleteNabasa ko din parts nito. Sabi ni jake around $16m ang kinita nya pero di nya nahawakan. Lahat sa nanay nya at pag lalabas sya, hihingi pa sya sa mama nya. Pag gagamitin ang car, need pa permission ng nanay nya. Grabe, nakakaawa si charice.
ReplyDeleteParang si SG pala yan, kahit pagbili ng perfume need pa ng permission sa nanay niya. Nakakaawa sila 🥲
DeleteYes 11:55 on a lesser scale maraming ganyan na mga OFW na mga single pa dahil ang katwiran ng pamiya wala ka pa namang bubuhaying sariling pamilya kaya sila na muna, ending wala ng natira para sa sarili at di na rin nakakapag asawa
DeleteAba dapat lang. Mother knows best. Alangan dahil milyonaryo na yung bata e pagbiguan lahat ng kaprecho. Dapat may control, yun ang purpose ng magulang.
Delete1:23 dapat din ba sya mag isa ang gumastos at umubos ng walang pahintulot?
Delete123 san banda un mother knows best dito sa scenario na to?
DeletePero at least yun Mommy si SG hindi nasayang Yun pera. Meron sila business, maayos ang pamumuhay nila. Hindi nalustay Yun pera. Tong nanay ni Charis mukhang poorita pa din. Saan napunta Yun 16M USD?!
DeleteThis is not "tsismis", it's facts. I hope we pray for his peace and learn from this as a culture to NEVER let our guards down when it comes to our children in our homes.
ReplyDeleteFacts agad sabo lang ni charice? Sa usapang rape or SA, she said, he said yan. Maraming ng nakulong at nagdusa ng dahil sa false accusations.
DeleteSorry. Pero I don’t buy some of those I’ve read.
ReplyDeleteThen dont. He's free now. Hopefully.
DeleteMe too maybe just to do justice of what she / he had become
DeleteShame on you ! You are lowest of the low !
DeleteE di wag. Pasalamat ka hindi sa 'yo nangyari.
DeleteYou don't have to buy it.
DeleteSame. Madami ng nakulong ng dahil sa maling paratang ng rape at SA. Di agad ako maniniwala sa ganyan.
DeleteSo what if you don't buy it? Do you think it matters to Jake?
Delete1:26 Iba yung sitwasyon ni Jake teh. Wala naman ata siyang balak ipakulong ang tito niya. Gusto lang niyang marinig siya at paniwalaan ng nanay niya this time. Put yourself in their shoes. Imagine kung ano yung trauma na pinagdaanan niya at 6 years old? SIX F***ING YEARS OLD! Tapos ultimo nanay mo hindi ka pinaniwalaan? Kung hindi man totoo yan, why do you think he would bring that up ngayong matatanda na lahat?
DeleteAba itanong mo kay charice. Kwento nya, explain nya bakit? 4.40pm
DeleteNope. Don’t believe everything. Antayin ko nanay nya maglabas ng libro, we’ll see.
ReplyDeleteWhat will he gain from exposing himself as sexually abused??? Wala ka man lang empathy sa tao.
DeleteWow. Masyado ka namang paimportante teh! Tingin ko wala naman na siyang pakialam kung maniwala ka man o hindi at hindi na din importante yang opinyon mo.
DeleteBaks alam ko kumg sino nag sisinungaling. Pramis.
DeleteKahit lola ni Charice may issue kay Racquel
DeleteWow taray. Pahaging ba yan na maglalabas ka din ng libro, Aling Racquel?
DeleteActually teh, his objective is not for you to believe it. Whether you believe it or not doesn't matter. He simple told his story for everyone to understand what lead him to all those huge decisions in his life.
DeleteAkala mo ba importante at magma-matter sa kanya o sa aming lahat if you don't believe everything?! WALA.KAMING.PAKE 11:23. Nothing will change kung hindi mo paniniwalaan lahat ng sinabi niya. Feelingera ka masyado.
Delete11:23 gaslight pa more!
DeleteAgree, looks fishy some parts. Kaso ito tayo look at the comments sakay n sakay lahat. 😆
DeleteMarami talagang kuya, pinsan, uncle, tatay, kamaganak at kapitbahay na reypist. Ask ur seat mate at school or ka office mo, meron at meron na reyp dyan. Prepadators are on the lose kc filipinos are LOW HANGING FRUIT when it comes to trusting just abt anyone. SO PLS DONT TRUST YOUR DAUGHTER OR SON to anyone.
ReplyDeletePS Im not a victim pero dami ko alam at kakilala na nasira ng mga predator
And mga lolo na manyak and they target yung mga may kapansanan na apo . Worst part is the relatives and the parents cover it up . Plus chummy chummy pa ang iyong other sister sa mga aunties na mga nanahimik and covered it up . That’s why I disowned the whole clan of my mom and my sister na kumampi sa kanila and wala lang sa kanya that we were not able to protect our sister when she was raped for years ng aming manyak na lolo and took advantage that she is a special child . That is a big reason I’m childfree even I’m happily married. I couldn’t take it and I could kill and mababaliw ako for not protecting my kid . God I know I have hatred towards family who cover up the rape of their own child or relatives .
DeleteIsama mo na rin ang mga lolo . I hate mothers who entrust their children sa grandparents!
DeleteTrue. Minsan lampas na sa moralidad ang pagka clannish ng ibang pamilya
DeleteAgree
Delete9:45 wag mo lahatin.. I grew up with my lolo and lola together with my uncles.. thank God hindi abuser ang mga relatives ko and I am proud to be lola's girl..
Delete1:48, your reading comprehension sucks .
DeleteGrabe sa kademonyohan ang mga kamag anak na nangmomolestya ng bata/minor or kahit anong edad... Sa news nga, halos araw araw may ganyang news. Iba na talaga ang panahon ngayon. Kaya hindi maiwasan na itreat mong baby ang mga anak kahit malalaki na sila. Unlike tayong 80s-90s kids na maagang nagmature at naging independent.
ReplyDeletehindi po iba nung 80s and 90s. If anything life has gotten better, hindi lang obvious. It just seems like lumalala dahil sa age of internet and everything is sensationalized
Deleteor should o dare add, normalized by the internet because of easy access to porn, 10:55am. And it is a sad reality.
DeleteMatagal nang na-publish itong book. Sana paingayin pa lalo ng mga tao.
ReplyDeleteSA survivor here. This week lang din ako nag-umpisa mag-therapy at PTSD ang assessment sa akin. Kaya natin to, Charice!
ReplyDeletehis name is jake
DeleteJake
DeleteSame sh*t happened to me. I pray he gets surrounded by so much love that it heals him.
ReplyDeleteAko din ng 3 kong pinsan, 5 yrs old ako nun, 39 yrs old na ko, akala nila hindi ko alam pinagagagawa nila, sa bahay ng lola ko ginawa
DeleteI hope you are healing too...
DeleteIt's so sad na may mga magulang na ganyan na pabaya. I sometimes ask God bakit nya binibigyan ng anak ang mga ganid na tao. Pero yung mga deserving hindi nya mabigyan. I wish you healing, Jake. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteI do not understand parents who do not believe their children or why they tend to brush off abuses like this. As a parent you should be your child's safest place. Kaya siguro he will nevery take his mother's side beceause she was never there to fight for him.
ReplyDeleteMabuti pa si Nino Muhlach. He is supporting his child
Deletedi ko talaga alam bat nababash sya. Dahil tomboy sya, trans etc? Yung nanay nya dapat ang ibash!
ReplyDeletePare PAREHO
ReplyDeleteSarah G = Divine
Charice = nanay
Yulo = nanay
Sailing PAMILYA
Sabi nga "KALAWANG ANG SISIRA SA BAKAL"
tapos ang iba pamilya mo yan etc ek ek....😆😆😆😆😆😆🎉🎉🎉🎉
At 1229 stop spewing hate. It seems like you have unresolved family issues.
DeleteIba iba din naman kasi ang pamilya... yung mga lumaki sa magandang pamilya, they cannot imagine that sort of pain and trauma.. kaya nila nasasabi yun.. well good for them.. pero marami talagang pamilya na sumira ng mgakabataan
Delete3 lang example mo, dinamay mo pa ang milyong pamilya wala namang isyu.
DeleteAno kaya reaction ng fb keyboard warriors dito? Yung mga nagsasabi na “nanay mo pa rin yan”
Delete2 things on my mind: Tito Reveal at Waiting for Mudra's post. Nakakaloka!! I hope you still get the justice you deserve!!!
ReplyDeleteI pray for your healing, Jake Zyrus. You deserve the world. ❤️
ReplyDeleteI feel for Jake! I was SA'd too at 6 years old by a construction worker near our house. I'm 40 now and still vividly remembers that day. My family probably forgot or think I have forgotten it, but I seriously can't erase it in my mind. He was also an old man!
ReplyDeleteHoly…. Ang sakit basahin to.
ReplyDeleteI was molested by my 3 uncles 1 aunt when i was young. My parents didnt know until now. I am now 50 yrs old but i can clearly remember every thing. One of the reason i chose to stay single. I have trust issues with everybody.
ReplyDeleteAko, I was molested by my cousin, who was 12 years older than I was when the series of sexual abuse happened. If my recollection serves me right, 4 years old ako nun hanggang nag-7. Fast forward 30 years, sinabi ko sa mama ko. Niyakap ako ng mahigpit at sinabi ni mama sa akin, bakit di ako nagsumbong lalo kay papa.
DeleteDoktora po ang nanay ko sa probinsya at provincial secretary ang tatay ko sa kapitolyo. Imagine na medyo kilala ang mga magulang ko pero hnd ko nagawang magsumbong sa takot ko? Paaral nila ung pinsan ko sa high school at hnd kailanman nila inakala na magagawa nya un.
Hnaggang ngayon, binabangungot ako ng kawalanghiyaan nya. Nagkasakit sya ng adult hydrocephalus recently. I believe, he deserves it. It is nature's way of saying that he needs to pay for what he did.
naiiyak ako for you…please stay strong
DeleteTight hug
Deleteyour aunt? sorry but may i ask how and what she did
Deletehugs! ako I was never abused but never felt safe in my mother's place. separated kasi parents ko tapos yung nanay ko may live-in partner. ayaw ko sa kanila. minsan parang iba yung kilos nila kaya iwas na iwas ako. safe ako sa biological tatay ko. please if you're catholic, have St Joseph as your patron saint. yung s3xual abuse kasi is devil's attack against our biological fathers. if your father failed to protect your dignity, St Joseph will intercede for you. God bless.
DeleteIt's sad na ngayon lang ang mga tao naaawa kay jake. Dati lagi siyang pinagtatawanan for being trans, daming memes, gifs making fun of his looks. Parang hindi rin siya celebrated dito for being part of pride unlike sa ibang bansa.
ReplyDeletePaawa lang. Di natin sure if trot. So I'm taking this story with a grain of salt.
DeleteKaya importante to BE KIND. Kasi hindi natin alam kung anong pinagdadaanan ng ibang tao. And 1:33, try changing your attitude. Whether it's the truth or not, JUST BE KIND to others. Wala namang mawawala sayo.
DeleteAnong just be kind pinagsasabi mo 4.36pm? Granting na di totoo sinasabi ni charice, just be kind pa din atake mo? Sabihin mo yan sa mga nakulong at nagdusa na mga inosenteng oinaratangan ng eaoe or SA. Kalorks.
DeleteOo 10:51. Same atake. Ayan, makakatulog ka na ba ng mahimbing?
DeleteHow about... filing... a SA charge to the proper authorities? :D :D :D Seriously girls, soc med will not do you anything ;) ;) ;) You are just letting SA offenders get away with their crime :) :) :)
ReplyDeleteyou have so much anger towards women that you do not have an ounce of sympathy. just because you want to be one so bad but can't
Deletethere’s always one like this in every thread and what’s with the smileys? sicko.
DeleteSana ganun lang kadali. Easier said than done. Letting offenders get away with their crime? Wala kang alam sa sinasabi mo.
DeleteAs SA victim, I understand Jake it is not that easy, this is not a simple theft case. The mental trauma is agonizing. i hope it will happen to you or your loved ones.
DeleteSeriously Smiley?! …..Most of this Anonymous were abused probably more than decades ago when they were helpless, with no witnesses and no family support, how can they file charges now if there’s no proof except their memory of pain and shame and their what ifs. The least you could do is stop being condescending, let them vent on socmed, it is good for their mental health to find allies here when they never had support before.
Deleteall this hate towards women wala kang empathy. dahil ba hindi ka kelan man magiging babae?
DeleteAno ang sabi. Ang haba kasi. Dapat kung mag post sila yung short at details na.
ReplyDeleteHuwag ka nalang mag comment if ganyan ka. I may not like Jake Z. pero hindi ako heartless
DeleteSino ka ba?
DeleteLibro kasi yan. Ikaw ang maritess na sawsawan lang ng sawsaw
DeleteAng tamad mo magbasa. He's telling his story and maraming bagay kailangan ng details and hindi nya trabaho i summarize yun para sayo.
DeleteAlam mo okay lang sana kung binasa mo pero hindi mo naintindihan. Kaso hindi mo talaga binasa man lang tapos hihingi ka ng short details?! Bilang isang tsismosa, ang kapal ng mukha mo teh. Hehe
DeleteI pray for healing for you. My heart breaks just reading your story.
ReplyDeleteNot all mothers know best.
ReplyDeleteHindi man ako kasing gara nila Jake, Carlos and Sarah, pero ginawa rin akong ATM ng nanay ko at lahat ng problema nila sa Pinas ultimo agawan ng charger, sinesend pa saken. I really feel for them. Hence I cut all forms of communication with my mom since 2023. I’ve never been happier since then.
happy for you, you freed yourself
DeleteGood! 👍
DeleteWho is Carlos?
DeleteChoose yourself now! Tight hug!
DeleteTotoong nangyayari yan may mga nanay na sa halip na sya ang sumaway sa nangaabuso sa anak, in any form, balewala lang sa kanila na may anak sila na martir na!
DeletePano mo nakaya sis? Nahihirapan ako to cut all communication kasi i feel guilty, alam mo namam mentality naten. But ginagawa din ako ATM ng nanay ko na nakukuha pang magsugal.
DeleteCongrats to you.. nothing's better than inner peace
Delete1:50 mahigpit na yakap.
DeleteI was going through the same ordeal kaya no contact na kami ng nanay ko since mid 2023.
I'm still in pain and grieving for the love/peace I didn't get. Hindi rin nakakatulong ung iba na sasabihan ako na nanay mo yan etc. Hindi kc sila naabuso emotionally and financially, masakit parin
10:01 am not 1:50 pero kung kaya mo, umalis ka sa lugar nyo. Kahit yung next town or city lang. Important is you cut ties, at hindi ka nila mapupuntahan easily. Start a new life talaga, and if needs be, new job, new place, new everything.
Delete10:01 I’m 01:50.
DeleteIt took a lot of years. It helped that I live overseas with a full supportive husband (emotionally, mentally) I also had a lot of counselling sessions and different therapies. It has been on going since 2014 and the last straw was in 2023, she is abusive to my nephews and nieces verbally and physically. I spoke to her to stop her but instead she told me “ako nanay mo sila kinakampihan mo” that made me realise that this person will never change, so since then I haven’t spoken to her.
Jakes had to kill Charice to heal her 💔 ang lungkot
ReplyDeleteDamn everyone in her family used her. Now I understand why she chose the life she lives.
ReplyDeleteMasakit bilang babae at lalo n bilang bata n hindi mo alam gagawin mo or knino k lalapit para magsumbong. Dahil ultimo nanay di sya pinaniwalaan. Ginawa lng commodity anak nya para s sarili nyang interest. Which is nangyayari now s cyber porno mgulang or ka anak mismo naglalako
ReplyDeleteI feel you Jake ilan beses na din akong narape ng kamag anak as in 2 pinsan at 1 Tito sobrang hirap sa pakiramdam kasi wala pa rin nakakaalam kahit sino sa nangyare sakin may asawa at anak na ko ngayon. Dasal sa diyos ginagawa ko pag Natatakot ako at pag naaalala ko 😔
ReplyDeleteThey’re evil.
ReplyDeleteMy father was my abuser too. Up until now walang may alam sa pamilya ko. My aunt who passed away years ago was the only.one who had a hint. Wala akong lakas ng loob sabihin kasi nakikita ko na mahal siya ng mga younger siblings ko. Now, i am married pero dahil dala mo ung trauma, minsan may hesitation ka with my husband. Sa intimacy alam ko may pagkujulang ako. Kasi ewan ko I can not explain. Hinding hindi ka makaka move on no matter how hard you pray,. Kahit marangya na buhay mo. Walang door going out.
ReplyDeleteHala, naiyak ako. Ang sakit sa dibdib.
ReplyDeleteMillion dollar question. Totoo ba?
ReplyDeleteMadami tlagang maniac na kapamilya. May kalalagyan sila sa impyerno.
ReplyDeleteI was 8 when my grandfather S.Ad me and my sister,the sad part was my mom and my dad new about it but did'nt do anything.Yung ang sakit na alam pala nila pero wala silang ginawa kasi mapapahiya daw ang pamilya. Namatay yung father ko na hindi na kami naging okay and galit na galit sakin yung mga kapatid nya kasi daw parang wala akong pakialam sa father ko.
ReplyDeleteUntil now andito parin yung pain na wala kang mapagsabihan sa abusong naranasan mo noon.
happened the same to me. uncle ng kalaro ko. tinawag ako tas kinandong ako. i was 6 pero alam ko may mali. nung nakita ng kuya ko, he was 7, sabi nya uwi na kami. hinihila nya ko, ayaw ako pakawalan nung kumag. naglupasay kuya ko kakaiyak, nung madami na nakatingin, saka ako binitawan. nasabi ko lang sa nanay ko, mga 13 na ako. nakalipat na kami ng bahay sa ibang lugar. wala lang. bagong gising ako. sinabi ko sa kanya. tas natulog na ako ulit. after nun, hindi na ako na bother about that incident.
ReplyDeleteSadly this story isn"t uncommon satin. I myself am a SA victim ng family and have chosen to keep quiet to "maintain the peace" at the expense of my physical and mental health.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was a medical intern and during our medico legal rotation sa crame, andami din mga batang (mostly female) I was tasked to examine kasi may compaints of SA. Some even as young as 3 and hindi nga nila alam na mali ginawa sa kanila and may concerned relative lang na nakapansin. May 3 yr old tinanong ko ano ginawa sa kanya tas she demonstrated yung hip thrusting movement ng assault. It was just a 1 week rotarion but I've always wondered what happened to those kids na may complaint and if umabot sa conviction. We were told na taga collect and document lang kami ng evidence and to be impartial pero syempre sa loob loob ko di naman magsisinungaling ang bata at wala naman silang prior knowledge sa mga movement na ginawa sa kanila. Mahirap kasi kahit mag speak up, kadalasan walang witness and mahirap i prove yung kaso nila.
40M and survived SA by my P#$@ !n@ng uncle. Hanggang ngayon, the trauma is still there dahil paulit ulit hanggang sa nagbinata. I even questioned myself if I was gay. Sana
ReplyDeletehanggang sa impyeno sinisunog kaluluwa nya. I even attempted suicide because of shame and guilt. I feel you JZ. Now a family man of 2 kids. Kung meron lang 2nd life, I would never live this same life over and over again.
As one of the many people on social media cyberbullying her, making fun and laughing at her pictures, nakakaguilty tuloy. Now I’ve learned my lessons.. 😔 Sorry Charice/Jake that you have to gone through all this unhumane phases of your life. 😔
ReplyDeleteIf this is true, i truly deeply sympathize with jake. I dont want to invalidate his story and menories pero somehow medyo may duda ako sa story just because of the timing. Ang tagal na nya sa showbiz and he has always been open and minsan nga sobrang open pa about things so why bring this up just now? Di din nmn cya yun goody goody na kimi type of person so what kept him from revealing this crime all these years? Dahil lang ba to monetize it and create interest sa libro at career bya?
ReplyDeleteObviously because she probably feels shame about what happened to her kahit na siya ang victim. Kumbaga kahit siya yung victim, it’s not something na madaling pagusapan and nakakadulot ito ng kahihiyan sa kanya. Put yourself in his shoes, kung sexual assault victim ka ba, is that something na proud ka i-announce at ganon na lang Kadali mong I-announce sa buong Mundo? I think not. And there’s a risk pa na people will accuse them of making up stories Kaya a lot of these victims choose to keep quiet.
DeleteGirl, being raped at 6 years old isn't something you can share nonchalantly. Believe me when I say that most female victims who were raped by their family or relatives will never talk about it even with other rape victims. I worked for an NGO helping victims of child abuse. Lahat halos ng nandun inabuso ng lolo, tiyuhin, o kumpare ng tatay sa murang edad. We never heard the story from them directly, only from police records. It's just too difficult for them to remember and talk about those things. Pero darating ang panahon na handa na silang ikwento. The MMK episode, Chinese Garter was based from Pia Corvera's story who was from the NGO I worked for.
DeleteMost of the times talaga, our abuser comes from our own blood.
ReplyDeleteUncle, pinsan, magulang, kapatid… in my case pinsan kong buo and my own brother. Sad life, you cant just voice it out because of fear na hindi ka paniwalaan… you just have to live like it didnt happen.
ayaw pa ng pamilya na lumabas ang totoo dahil magkakagulo ang clan
DeleteNakaka relate ako grabe mga lalake ganyan from 5 yrs old to 13 yrs dami ko naranasan na ganyan,
ReplyDeleteCan relate with you 1:50. Ganyan ginawa sa aming mag asawa ng nanay, tatay at kapatid ko pati mga anak noya tapos masama pa kami. Wala na tatay ko pero I never felt sad kasi sa amin pa kinuha ang pampalibing amounting to almost 300k mga 11 years ago and not even a single thank you galing sa nanay ko at magaling kong kapatid. Nakipagreconcile kami sa kanila by 2016 ata un when my pamangkin called me na nasa icu nanay niya and ako nag alaga sa kanya then gumaling siya. And kinuha ko nanay ko para makapunta dito sa us kasi akala ko namimiss kami. Well na wow mali ako at acting lang pala para makapunta dito and makakuha na naman ng pera. So talagang cut off na uli since 2022 and it’s my final answer na and goodbye sa toxic family. Like you, we have never been happier and peaceful. Not all moms know what’s best para sa mga anak and sadly some moms are gagawin talagang investment.
ReplyDeleteMabuti nag-asawa na si Sarah G.
ReplyDeleteWhy ? Did that also happen to her?
DeleteWhat happened to her before she got married ???
DeleteSiguro dahil parehas controlling yung mothers nila?? Pero ibang klase yung level nung kay Jake. Parang walang pagmamahal sa sariling anak.
DeleteNaiiyak ako sa kwento nya. If I were him, will do the same. The nerve ng Raquel na ito na i-nega pa ang anak.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, madalas talaga mangyari yan sa pamilyang pinoy... AT may masamang epekto yan sa mga biktima and you can tell sa mga ugali ng karamihan ng pinoy sa socmed. Halata mong so many pinoys suffered or suffering from sexual abuses in their homes based on how they react sa certain sexual or family issues. A lot of them thinks something abnormal is normal and should just be shrugged off.
ReplyDeleteI was sexualky molested as a child. Kaya tinuturuan ko toddler ko ano yung proper touch and hindi proper touch.
ReplyDeleteOne time my husband and I were talking about yun column sa tabloid noon yun xerex. So pnaguusapan namin if nag evolve kaya to a digital platform or meron anything like that na filipino. We tried searching, nakita namin parang 80% about incest. Ang dami pa nga stories na father talaga. Nakakagulat kasi para ganun kadami it means yun ang malaking market. I can’t believe na yan ang gusto ng mga pinoy. Pag tignan mo naman mga tao d mo maiisip na madaming ganun.
ReplyDeleteYung ibang commenter dito ang lalakas ng loob magsabi na hindi daw nila paniniwalaan yung mga sinasabi ni Jake unless magsalita yung kabilang side. Kala mo naman pinipilit silang maniwala. Sa tingin niyo yan ang habol niya kaya niya shinare ang story niya? I don't think he's after getting justice or make people believe him. He was simply telling his story to explain why he made such choices in life despite being at the height of his success when he was Charice. Marami kasi sa atin ang nasayangan at nagtataka. So ayan ang explanation.
ReplyDeletethis made tear up and angry at the same time. Why is it hard for parents to beloeve their children? Is it denial or simply not caring at all? I hope that man suffers the consequence of what he had done.
ReplyDeleteNakakinis mga taong ganyan, sarili mo pa namang relative. Happened to me, cousin ko ang culprit, pinatira pa ng nanay ko sa amin. Tapos may ginawa sa akin. Adult na ako ng malaman ko na may mali pala nuon. At it has caused so much trauma to me and to my sexual tendencies. Basta feeling ko ma mali sa akin. I feel guilty and ashamed. Sana mapatawad ko siya. Sana pinagsisihan na din nya.
ReplyDeleteVery poor ang family code sa pinas.
ReplyDeleteGrowing up she Lacks proper guidance, Love, and attention. Pinabayaan siya ng nanay niya. Wala pakialam sa kanya ang nanay niya ginawa lang siya palamuti. Kaya nag kalat ang buhay niya dahil sa nanay niya wala man lang sumalo man sa kanya to get out sa toxic niya family. I cant blame her sa mga naging decision niya sa buhay . Even her manager before ewan ko ba baket niya siya sinalo Or tinago Or sadyang lang talaga hawak din ng nanay niya. We dont know… Jake is Not Happy kung sinasabi niya okay na siya saan siya now. I dont think so! :( shes still in pain. She needs guidance and real people who support him-her all out.
ReplyDeleteDon’t believe anything you read. Yun lang. Basic,
ReplyDeleteTo everyone commenting with their own experiences - my heart goes out to all of you. It's astounding how common SA is in the average household.
ReplyDeleteLikewise @12:48AM. It's gut-wrenching and petrifying, but as you said, it happens in regular households which makes it scarier. God bless us all. 🙏
DeleteSa observation ko mukha totoo naman Ma bad ang nanay niya. The way to escape sa toxic niya na nanay at sa Tito niya who molested Charice nag pa sex change siya. Meaning deep inside hinde siya masaya ginawa niya yun. She was pressured to do it! May regrets siya nag pa sex change siya kasi after that nag changed talaga ang Career niya bumaksak e sabay mo nanay niya gahaman. Sabay sabay pa nakaka effect yan physically mentally and emotionally up to these day. esp now hinde sila in Good terms ng nanay niya and Career wise niya ? Hinde na ganun siya ka bankable. Sana maka hanap si Charice ng loyal and trusted na support system para gabayan siya . Mahirap ang pinagdadaanan niya now.
ReplyDeleteNagpasex change ba sya? She just came out as trans.
DeleteSA maybe true, pero yung money na lahat napunta sa mother, parang di naman totally true. Also diba over generous si Charice sa mga nagiging gfs nya? Baka naman duon naubos.
ReplyDeleteAwww Jake. I felt so bad reading this. It's hard being a parent, but I truly believe that we should always be their first advocate. Sana all may strong support system.
ReplyDeleteGrabe pala pinagdaanan ni Charice/Jake. My heart breaks for him. Tas na bash pa xa todo dati and dami nya haters for no reason. Buti n lng din pla d nya tinuloy ung hollywood career nya. Dami din predators dun
ReplyDeleteAng nagtataka ako, bakit ngayon nia lang inilabas yung nangyari sakanyang yan? Bakit hindi nia ginamit yung kasikatan nia noon para ilabas yung pangmomolestya sakanya before? Diba? Mejo nakakapagtaka lang kasi. I have nothing against him ha, its just that mejo nakakabother lang, why not use your popularity to expose your uncle? Dahil sa takot sya?
ReplyDeleteBcos she was being hindered by her management back then during her stardom and any news about this will tarnish her reputation. Now is the time that HE found the courage and freedom to come out.
DeleteAt ikaw pa talaga 7:45 ang na bother huh?
SA victims have their own reasons if and when they decide to shed light on the assault. Dami nga dito sa thread na to hanggang ngayon tinatago pa yung abuse.
DeleteMagkaiba talaga definition ng "Mother" at isang "Ina".
ReplyDeleteThat’s why sex education should be taught in school so children will know what to do and know the signs before they get molested.
ReplyDelete"Huge whispers" sa ABS-CBN iyan between 2010 to 2012 before his issues with his mom erupted a year after. I was a contributing writer for CHALK Magazine and people in the newsroom were talking about it. Kahit nasa abroad na ako ng 2013 pinag-uusapan na iyan. No wonder, and I understand, why these revelations of Jake are explosive.
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