Sorry hindi ako bilib kase liliit pa ng mga anak pagjojowa inaatupag agad agad. Bilib ako sa mga moms noon. Focus talaga sa mga anak muna kpag na byuda o nahiwalay. Thats just may opinyon alam kong may kokontra lalo na sa mga matatamaan. Sorry
5:36 ako din hndi ako bilib sa life decisions ni ateng Kylie. Sinayang nya ang ganda, talino, name at career nya. She's definitely a lost soul, full of regrets and seems unhappy. Mahilig cya magbasa/magpost ng mga self help books pero parang d naman nya nagamit sa life nya.
Totoo yan at feeling nila NEED at ATAT NA ATAT yung mga anak nila na magka complete family. Yung NEED daw nila ng katuwang sa Gastos sa pagpapalaki etc. samantalang hindi na lang ibigay muna sa anak ang attention lalo na need din ng mga bata ng undivided attention. Pero shempre sasabihin kaligayahan ni mother paano?
im a single mom too, and for 10 yrs i havent entered into any relationship. first, naaawa ako s anak ko. 2nd, i dont have time, power and energy to deal with other human being other than my daughter. And now, here i am in a relatonship. I asked my daughter first before i said yes to this relationship. She gave me a green light. *Thank God for a mature-daughter. The thing is, I am planning to break up with this very nice guy. I dont know why. Sometimes, i feel selfish if i spend time with him and not with my daughter. I am happy if im with him but i feel so guilty. I love him but i dont think it is right to love someone other than my daughter.
To all Single moms here who’s been in a relationsip, how do u do it? how do u navigate your feelings? Am i being a bad mom whenever i feel happy with this guy? I appreciate your thougths on this.
2:28 sabi mo he’s a nice guy. Pero nagiguilty ka, etc. he does not deserve to be love half heartedly. Let him go. Focus on your daughter nalang. I am a single mom too and 8 years walang karelasyon. Kambal pa yung mga anak ko. Kung di ko lang din mafifeel na naiinspire sko sa isang relationship o may doubts ako, hindi ko papasukin or di ko pinapasok. Mahirap makasakit ng feelings ng iba
2:28 maybe try including your daughter to your dates, if possible. This way you are spending time with both people dear to you. Sympre may for the couple only date pa din at same goes with your solo time with your daughter. Why break up just because you’re feeling guilty? You should examine where is the guilt coming from and go from there.
I think you are actually a good mom. Coz you prioritized your daughter's well being and welfare.Trust your instincts and gut feel when it comes to letting a man into your lives. If in case you choose to remain single, just know that there is also such thing as single blessedness. God Bless you🤲
Buhay pa naman yung tatay nila May mom & dad ka May mga yaya and driver kayo May work ka so may pera ka Pero bakit ganyan post mo na para bang pasan na pasan mo ang mundo? Madami single moms dyan kasi patay na yung asawa nila or wala talaga support kahit piso pero kinakaya. Please stop playing victim. Be strong for your children. You have everything you need.
Correct, pag lonely sya marami parinig pag committed na ulit happy at rarely may parinig. Look at it this way being single has its perks as long as it doesn’t affect your children who ever you choose, you are free to return him anytime if you don’t like anymore or there is a certain trait or habit that you can’t tolerate or non negotiable, why suffer, return stamp immediately. Once you found the one, even if he snores loud, not rich but provides and loves you you will ignore his imperfections. Same goes to you coz you are not perfect either.
Correct! Tama! Ang daming banana katulad at relate k Kylie pero di nila naiisip na ang kulang nila ay self confidence at tiwala sa may kapal na kaya nila.
Bakit andaming nag iinvalidate ng experiences ni Kylie dito? If you read her post, she mentioned that she had anxiety and depression. This means that on her own, she’s going through a lot of troubles already, dagdagan pa ng responsibilidad ng pagkakaroon ng anak. Mayaman man o mahirap, parehas lang na nakakaranas ng challenges of raising kids. Kylie came from a broken family and clearly has her own psychological problems to deal with. Let her learn from her mistakes. Just like you and I, she’s also trying her best to cope up.
If she has or had anxiety and depression you think venting in the social media is the right move and recommended by her mental health provider ? She will likely find bashers rather than allies causing more mental issues. There are other ways to find an outlet.
If she is a single mother eh di si Aljur eh single father din pag andoon yung mga anak nila because they have joint custody at si AJ is an unofficial tita AJ, right? So quits lang.
She's saying this maybe it's because she got married young and then her marriage didn't work out, at the same time she has 2 small kids. I'm a single Mom of 2 as well, minsan ok din na walang partner mas tahimik ang buhay. Just concentrate with kids muna and pag malaki na then maybe puede ka na mag BF.
Kanya kanya tayo ng struggles, hindi porket may resources sya ay hindi na sya nahihirapan. At hindi porket mas hirap ka ay mas mabuti kang magulang. Dahil ba may pera, may yaya, hindi na sya pwedeng mapagod?
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ReplyDeleteSorry hindi ako bilib kase liliit pa ng mga anak pagjojowa inaatupag agad agad. Bilib ako sa mga moms noon. Focus talaga sa mga anak muna kpag na byuda o nahiwalay. Thats just may opinyon alam kong may kokontra lalo na sa mga matatamaan. Sorry
ReplyDeleteAgree with you sister. May mga babae kasing parang mauubusan ng lalake 😝
Delete5:36 ako din hndi ako bilib sa life decisions ni ateng Kylie. Sinayang nya ang ganda, talino, name at career nya. She's definitely a lost soul, full of regrets and seems unhappy. Mahilig cya magbasa/magpost ng mga self help books pero parang d naman nya nagamit sa life nya.
DeleteTotoo yan at feeling nila NEED at ATAT NA ATAT yung mga anak nila na magka complete family. Yung NEED daw nila ng katuwang sa Gastos sa pagpapalaki etc.
Deletesamantalang hindi na lang ibigay muna sa anak ang attention lalo na need din ng mga bata ng undivided attention. Pero shempre sasabihin kaligayahan ni mother paano?
Yes, meron single mothers na nagfocus talaga muna sa mga bata hanggang malaki na sila.
DeleteSingle mom ako. I focused on my child for the longest time. Sya lang. And now that adult na, I’m enjoying life.
Deleteim a single mom too, and for 10 yrs i havent entered into any relationship. first, naaawa ako s anak ko. 2nd, i dont have time, power and energy to deal with other human being other than my daughter. And now, here i am in a relatonship. I asked my daughter first before i said yes to this relationship. She gave me a green light. *Thank God for a mature-daughter. The thing is, I am planning to break up with this very nice guy. I dont know why. Sometimes, i feel selfish if i spend time with him and not with my daughter. I am happy if im with him but i feel so guilty. I love him but i dont think it is right to love someone other than my daughter.
DeleteTo all Single moms here who’s been in a relationsip, how do u do it? how do u navigate your feelings? Am i being a bad mom whenever i feel happy with this guy? I appreciate your thougths on this.
Nakapagtravel pa nga sya with her boyfriend.. noon.. sna nagfocus nalang sa batA have some time with them
Delete2:28 sabi mo he’s a nice guy. Pero nagiguilty ka, etc. he does not deserve to be love half heartedly. Let him go. Focus on your daughter nalang. I am a single mom too and 8 years walang karelasyon. Kambal pa yung mga anak ko. Kung di ko lang din mafifeel na naiinspire sko sa isang relationship o may doubts ako, hindi ko papasukin or di ko pinapasok. Mahirap makasakit ng feelings ng iba
Delete2:28 maybe try including your daughter to your dates, if possible. This way you are spending time with both people dear to you. Sympre may for the couple only date pa din at same goes with your solo time with your daughter. Why break up just because you’re feeling guilty? You should examine where is the guilt coming from and go from there.
DeleteI think you are actually a good mom. Coz you prioritized your daughter's well being and welfare.Trust your instincts and gut feel when it comes to letting a man into your lives. If in case you choose to remain single, just know that there is also such thing as single blessedness. God Bless you🤲
DeleteKaya ladies, be smart. Pairalin ang utak kung ayaw niyo maiwan mag alaga ng mga anak mag isa. Mas madaming i sacrifice ang babae talaga.
ReplyDeleteBuhay pa naman yung tatay nila
ReplyDeleteMay mom & dad ka
May mga yaya and driver kayo
May work ka so may pera ka
Pero bakit ganyan post mo na para bang pasan na pasan mo ang mundo?
Madami single moms dyan kasi patay na yung asawa nila or wala talaga support kahit piso pero kinakaya.
Please stop playing victim. Be strong for your children. You have everything you need.
Sobrang tumpak
DeleteKorak andito ako sa abroad walang kamag anak. Si ex ang gusto mag abroad at naglaho na parang bula nung kumita ng $$$
DeleteAt nakatira pa sya sa compound ng Tatay nya
DeleteCorrect, pag lonely sya marami parinig pag committed na ulit happy at rarely may parinig. Look at it this way being single has its perks as long as it doesn’t affect your children who ever you choose, you are free to return him anytime if you don’t like anymore or there is a certain trait or habit that you can’t tolerate or non negotiable, why suffer, return stamp immediately. Once you found the one, even if he snores loud, not rich but provides and loves you you will ignore his imperfections. Same goes to you coz you are not perfect either.
DeleteHere comes people gaslighting other people.
DeleteArte lang yan si kylie
Delete2 thumbs up!
DeleteAkala ko tula yung comment kaya di ko binabasa
DeleteHindi lalake ang magpapasaya sayo Kylie. Pls tigilan na mga parinig na ganyan.
ReplyDeleteCorrect! Tama!
DeleteAng daming banana katulad at relate k Kylie pero di nila naiisip na ang kulang nila ay self confidence at tiwala sa may kapal na kaya nila.
Kung sino pa yung mga privileged sila pa tong panay reklamo at emote sa social media.
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DeleteKaht hindi single motherhood pinagdadaanan yan kylie. Pinagdadaanan lahat ng nanay.
ReplyDeleteBakit andaming nag iinvalidate ng experiences ni Kylie dito? If you read her post, she mentioned that she had anxiety and depression. This means that on her own, she’s going through a lot of troubles already, dagdagan pa ng responsibilidad ng pagkakaroon ng anak. Mayaman man o mahirap, parehas lang na nakakaranas ng challenges of raising kids. Kylie came from a broken family and clearly has her own psychological problems to deal with. Let her learn from her mistakes. Just like you and I, she’s also trying her best to cope up.
ReplyDeleteIto lang ang may sense na comment
DeleteThis. andaming gaslighter
DeleteIf she has or had anxiety and depression you think venting in the social media is the right move and recommended by her mental health provider ? She will likely find bashers rather than allies causing more mental issues. There are other ways to find an outlet.
Deletewe dont like to tolerate mga taong paawa lagi sa social media
DeleteShe's starting to sound like pokwang/aiaia lite :D :D :D
ReplyDeleteMukhang super stress si Kylie kaya need niya ilabas sa social media.
ReplyDeletePag walang bf ganyan parang feeling hirap sa pagiging single mom.
DeleteIf she is a single mother eh di si Aljur eh single father din pag andoon yung mga anak nila because they have joint custody at si AJ is an unofficial tita AJ, right? So quits lang.
ReplyDeleteRuined her career
ReplyDeleteShe's saying this maybe it's because she got married young and then her marriage didn't work out, at the same time she has 2 small kids. I'm a single Mom of 2 as well, minsan ok din na walang partner mas tahimik ang buhay. Just concentrate with kids muna and pag malaki na then maybe puede ka na mag BF.
ReplyDeleteKanya kanya tayo ng struggles, hindi porket may resources sya ay hindi na sya nahihirapan. At hindi porket mas hirap ka ay mas mabuti kang magulang. Dahil ba may pera, may yaya, hindi na sya pwedeng mapagod?
ReplyDeleteNagiging poetic na mga artista lately
ReplyDeleteMay AI na kasi hahaha
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