They are not on the same page. The woman wants to stay here in the Philippines, which is understandable, as her source of income is here. Meanwhile, the man is more comfortable in the US, as he grew up there. Both parties didn't want to compromise and physical longing and intimacy cannot be fulfilled due to the geographical restrictions involved. Due to these reasons, their love started getting cold, leading them to pursue separation. In short, nakapoy na sila.
If you are a celebrity in the Philippines and decides to marry a man from other countries be prepared to settle in his country. It will never work if your mind is still in the Philippines. Kaye Abad and Jewel Mische left their careers for they understand the life they got in to.
I have watched her all her vlogs obviously di bet ni Trevor na vini-video siya kase pilit na pilit ngumiti. Reserved ang personality. Sabi niya ayaw ni Trevor ng very public. No hate to Rufa Mae pero dapat alam niya saan ang focus ng priority niya bilang ina at asawa. It seems bored siya sa Amerika. May mga times din nasa ibat-ibang bansa siya for concerts and work. Umuwi din siya nag campaign for Uniteam. It’s really a matter of priority. Most side with her but let’s also understand the side of her husband. Pero I disagree with his screenshot action. They should’ve talked in private and never embarrassed her still wife.
11:56 She’s not bored in the U.S. She’s just used to being a celebrity. One more thing, hindi lahat ng babae pang-bahay lang. Kapag career woman ka, you want to keep working or earning money.
Baka naman kasi hindi siya pwedeng walang career kasi di ba breadwinner siya? Siyempre normal lang sa ating pinoy na nagbibigay sa magulang at kapatid.
“Habang may buhay may chance pa tayo pumasok sa butas ng karayom” 😭🤣 Kaloka talaga to si rufa mae haha. Natawa ako with sound. 🤣 Yan ang gauge ko pag funny talaga yun pinapanood ko haha.
I get you tuffa, hard to stay or live if your spouse’s family is mot that supportove, loves, or welcomes you as part of their family. So sad that you, i can say, mentally and psychologically affected by the circumstances
Actually sabi nya ok sya sa lahat ng family ng husband nya. Then she clarified na sa husband nya sya hndi welcome but the daughter puede doon sa house.
Rufa hindi ka din kasi mapakali. Pamilyadong tao ka na pero balik ka ng balik dito sa pinas ikaw lang mag isa. Hindi ka marunong magcommit. Isa ka sa sumira ng pamilya mo. It takes two to tango.
This! As much as I like her as a person and comidyante. She didn’t really try her best to be a present wife to Trevor. Nag stay lang sya sa US noong covid. Hindi rin sya tinanong ni Ogie “kung bakit hindi nya i give-up ang showbiz career nya sa Ph”.
Wow ha!! Meron ka pang it takes two to tango as if asawa nya dinidiin nya sa prob nila. Mukhanh hinde ka ata nanood kse kong nanood ka sana nalaman mong ilang beses sinabi ni ruffa mae na isa sa rason yung pag uwi uwi nya sa pinas. Ska hinde naman sya bumabalik ng pinas para magpakasaya at magwalwal. Nandito sya pag may trabaho.
Huh? Nasa Pinas work niya and need niyang kumita for the family. Like you said, “balik balik”. She tried to manage both family and work, which is normal for couples na may career. Mag commit doesn’t apply sa physical presence lang.
1:57 asawa’t anak nya nasa Amerika sana nakuntento nalang sya. Hindi naman sila maghihirap doon. Sure, hindi ganun kagarbo katulad ng lifestyle nya sa pinas pero may asawa ka na eh. Yun ang pinakasalan mo. Dalawa na kayo. Dapat alam nya yun. Hindi lang talaga sya marunong magcommit.
1:46 and 1:57, kapag pamilyado ka na, need din manimbang. Sa kanya na mismo nanggaling, puro nasa maayos na ang pamilya niya, even yung mga pinag-aral niya. Nag asawa siya dahil she felt, she was getting older and wants to have a family of her own. You would think, na pag binigay na sa iyo, you'll do what you can to keep it. In her case nga, husband and daughter. Yung career at trabaho niya sa showbiz, if it gets in the way of preserving her family, di ba you'll find other options? Maayos naman ang trabaho ng husband niya. She could have tried her hand at a different field. Maybe, even go back to school. Anything that can keep her there. Posible yun Yes, it may not be a grand lifestyle as she'd had before nung active siya sa showbiz, pero mukhang nakapagpundar naman siya and was fortunate to have enjoyed that kind of life.
11:27 madaling sabihin yung she could have tried her hand at a different field. All her life, showbiz IS her field. Marami ding factors that keep people from changing field and one of them is age. Hindi na ganun kadali ang matuto ng bagong skills unless passionate at determined talaga yung tao. Rufa seems to be comfortable with her current status kaya walang ganung urge for a change. Huwag mong ipilit sa iba yung sa tingin mo ay madali para sayo.
Akala nya siguro kaya nya ang buhay sa US. It happens. Syempre pag drunk in love feeling mo kaya mo lahat. May friend ako na ganun din. From a political family sya so dito ang daming restrictions. Iniisip nya doon free sila at hndi klangan ingat na ingat. Then pagdating sa US, sya lahat gumagawa hindi tumutulong ang husband. Samantalang dito sa pinas prinsesa levels sya. Ang difference lang, yun husband nya from here din talaga so pati sya hirap na din. Kaya ayun umuwi na lang sila kesa magkapatayan doon hehe. Ito kasi si trevor sanay sa buhay sa US so hndi yan mapapaintindi ni rufamae na dito na lang sila. Kaya siguro give up na din si rufamae kasi magkaiba talaga sila ng gusto mangyari. Ayaw ni trevor na alis sya ng alis wala din any indication sa kanya na willing sya magstay doon.
Di mo masisi ang mga babaeng katulad ni Rufa. Being married doesn’t necessarily change a person. She’s used to working and earning her own money. Kapag bigla kang huminto at pumirmi sa bahay, it drives you crazy and makes someone OC. Not all women are born to become housewives.
3:30 there you go! “Rufa seems to be comfortable with her current status”. Gurl pamilyado na sya, di po pwede ung staying in your comfort zone. Aba teh you have to sacrifice too!
1:28 gurrrrrl, no one said magstop sya mag work and become a housewife. She can always apply to other jobs in the US. Most families in the US don’t rely on one income only. Lahat nagttrabaho
I was teary eyed while watching the interview. Kasi ang hirap ng sitwasyon nya, ang work nya nasa pinas, ang gusto ng anak nya sa america since dun naman tlg lumaki. Syempre di nya din kaya na iwan ng matagal ang anak nya lalo at babae at unica hija. I guess ang need tlg is a husband na makakaintindi at supportive at hindi isip bata na makakaintindi sa kanya. Trevor clearly is not that guy sadly. Let him go rufamae. Basta ok naman ang relasyon nilang mag ama, ayos na siguro un. Walang husband ang may karapatan hiyain ang asawa nya sa public.
Actually medyo bothered ako dun sa sinabi niya accident and nahimatay siya. Hope she is not domestically abused ang pinagtatakpan lang ang asawa. Sana malampasan mo ‘to Peachy.
Kung ang asawa mo naman kayang magprovide sa pamilya, bakit kailangan mo pang magwork? O magwork ka sa US. Saka ikaw na nagsabi na ok mga kapatid mo. So para ano pa at gusto mo pang magshowbiz. Ok lang sguro once every 2 yrs. Pero kasi dapat may priority ka.
$180-190k ang gross income naming magasawa, wala kameng anak pero dito sa LA di magarbong buhay ang ganyang sueldo. Ang bahay namin townhouse na di naman kagandahan. Ang mga sasakyan namin mga luma na. Ang isang bag na LV na tig $2-3k minsanan lang kung makabili ako. Si Ruffa Mae pa kaya makuntento sa buhay Amerika? E yung Annual income namin isang bag lang nya yan dahil sa laki ng kita nya sa Pinas. Bat di sya uuwi ng uuwi?
11:12 That is nothing sa mga major cities sa blue states like NY, LA, and SF especially kung may anak ka. It could be possible na may tulong sila if theyre not paying rent sa MIL ni ruffa, but malaking downgrade ng lifestyle yan g lalo na if yung 170k ang buong income ng household nila. Malaki lang yan if you are a bachelor. Of course people would argue na bakit di nalang magpakasimpleng buhay, but let's all be honest here--kung kaya mong kumita ng milyon, gagawin mo to give your child a life na at least comparable sa ginhawa na naexperience mo if not more. Just imagine yung lifestyle ni ruffa most of her adult life, tapos yung anak niya hindi niya bibigyan ng buhay na naexperience niya? Filipinos would never do that.
Napa isip lang ako na sa bahay ng mother in law nya sila nakatira. Di kaya financial ang reason kaya tumatanggap ng work si Rufa Mae dito? Sa tagal ng pagsasama nila Di ba sila bumili ng sariling house? Seems to me na Ruffa Mae is covering up mga shortcomings ng asawa nya. Dahil dito I respect her more. Ayaw nya siguro sirain asawa nya sa mata ng anak nya.
Nag police yung asawa nya sabi ni rufa mae sa vlog nya nag police ang asawa nya cause ok naman ang sahod at para maka down payment sya ng house for them, infer di palamunin si guy at college graduate
I think hindi kaya ni Ruffa mae yung life style sa Amerika. At hindi din kaya ibigay ng asawa nya yung kinikita nya dito sa Pinas. Kaso bakit pa magwowork si Ruffa mae kung well provided naman sya.
Uy, sanay si Rufa Mae na madaming datung. Eh sa US wala syang financial freedom kasi magkano lang naman kita ng asawa nyan. Kahit ako na sumusweldo ng 6 figures here mabigat pa din sa buksa ang mga bills. Eh lalo na sya na wala namang income dito. Napaka ipokrita nyo, masaya ba kayo na walang pera?
2:41 korak. It's like people here expect ruffa to take on a min wage job in the US to be with the husband just because she's the woman, when she's the one who's been working since she was 17 and the more accomplished one out of them. The guy could've moved to the ph too since he's the one earning less.
11:13 $160k in California sa family of 3 di pedeng pabakasyon bakasyon at di pedeng 2 bagong sasakyan at di pedeng kain ng kain sa labas yan. Di mo ba alam gastusan dito sa California?
mag apply na lang si ruffa mae sa hollywood para kumita din sya dun. malay nya, ito na ang matagal nyang hinihintay na break na maging award winning dramatic actress.
This. Some cannot commit to motherhood and prioritize married life. It’s obvious they grew apart nothing to nurture ba since RMQ still cannot give up her lifestyle and being in the limelight. Did I hear it right 1 year niya iniwan si Athena muna sa US? Madalas din siyang may raket so maybe the husband got fed up.
Ano ba kasi para sa iyo ang pagpprioritize ng married life at ng motherhood? Bakit, porke ba nanay di na pedeng may career? Pag married, hindi pedeng may career? 2025 na, di na uso yung nanay na housewife lang talaga, unless super good provider ang asawa. Also, it goes both ways. May ariarian si Ruffa Mae sa Pinas, malaki ang kita,bakit si lalaki hindi "magcommit sa fatherhood at iprioritize ang married life" by moving to the Philippines kung saan buhay na buhay sila ni Ruffa Mae?
2:15 Tapos lalaitin naman si Trevor at aakusahang palamunin ni Rufamae at walang work sa Pinas. Alam niya ang pinakasalan niya ay mas bata sa kanya at laking Amerika na may stable job naman. Admit it material girl si Rufamae noon pa shut up na lang nga ako. She will never be content. 😂
You all are missing the point. Most pinoys do this, baliktad nga lang. Madami din sa atin iniwan ang pamilya to earn more money in the US, Canada, etc. Imagine sending a kid to college in the US bilang isang single income household. Sa west coast umaabot ng 90-100k ang tuition sa mga competitive na colleges. Bata pa din yung anak nila, and kids are expensive as hell. Also, I'm sure ruffa feels a certain way na celeb children like zia, etc get the best experiences and education in the ph that would set them up for success tapos yung anak niya hindi niya bibigyan ng ganoon when kaya naman niya if she keeps working as a celeb. This makes even more sense dahil pinagaral ni ruffa yung mga kamaganak niya--tapos sarili niyang anak ipapasok niya sa libreng public school where teachers are too overwhelmed to give a sh*t? Frankly ang sexist lang ng nga tao dito kaya binabash si ruffa.
Bakit ang taas ng demand kay Ruffa na siya ang mag give up ng carreer. Wala masyado kay Trevor. Kung tutuusin mas magarbo buhay ni Ruffa dito with her earnings compared to Trevor sa US. Bored si Ruffa sa US. Bored si Trevor sa Pinas. Pero bakit si Ruffa ang dapat magsakripisyo? Bakit nasa kanya ang sisi?
Also, kung may college degree si guy he could find work in the ph. Filipinos use english at the workplace, and I'm sure there is a way na makakuha siya ng appropriate credentials to be able to establish a career sa pinas kung certifications man yan or college credits. Sa karakas nung guy sa social media I'm pretty sure he doesn't mind ruffa downgrading her lifestyle significantly...but he wouldn't be willing to do the same for her. He would be earning significantly less working a 9-5 in the ph vs. the US--and I bet his ego couldn't even entertain the idea kaya si ruffa nalang ang mahirapan.
Beks sa ayaw niyo man o hindi it's safe to assume na part ng 10% si ruffa sa ph. You think those rich people follow their kids around like dogs and wait on their husbands? Sa mga celebs nalang, you all think top earners like regine, marian, anne, didn't have to leave their kids even if they didn't want to?
She’s a strong independent woman, if she’s used to earning for herself it drives her to live. Something to look forward to it’s not always about the money; it’s doing something she likes to pursue like comedy. So in short you can’t have it all.
They are not on the same page. The woman wants to stay here in the Philippines, which is understandable, as her source of income is here. Meanwhile, the man is more comfortable in the US, as he grew up there. Both parties didn't want to compromise and physical longing and intimacy cannot be fulfilled due to the geographical restrictions involved. Due to these reasons, their love started getting cold, leading them to pursue separation.
ReplyDeleteIn short, nakapoy na sila.
You nailed it
DeleteDi masabi ni Rufa Mae na ganun ang reason. Kaya tinatanggap nalang niya kasi may pagkukulang siya.
DeleteI have foreseen this already. Knowing her that she wants to stay in showbiz. She chose career over love. Now, her marriage has broken.
Delete💯✔ Its inevitable.
DeleteIf you are a celebrity in the Philippines and decides to marry a man from other countries be prepared to settle in his country. It will never work if your mind is still in the Philippines. Kaye Abad and Jewel Mische left their careers for they understand the life they got in to.
DeleteShe keeps craving the attention in the Philippines.
DeleteI have watched her all her vlogs obviously di bet ni Trevor na vini-video siya kase pilit na pilit ngumiti. Reserved ang personality. Sabi niya ayaw ni Trevor ng very public. No hate to Rufa Mae pero dapat alam niya saan ang focus ng priority niya bilang ina at asawa. It seems bored siya sa Amerika. May mga times din nasa ibat-ibang bansa siya for concerts and work. Umuwi din siya nag campaign for Uniteam. It’s really a matter of priority. Most side with her but let’s also understand the side of her husband. Pero I disagree with his screenshot action. They should’ve talked in private and never embarrassed her still wife.
Delete11:56 She’s not bored in the U.S. She’s just used to being a celebrity. One more thing, hindi lahat ng babae pang-bahay lang. Kapag career woman ka, you want to keep working or earning money.
DeleteOuch naman sa aming mga PAMBAHAY LANG.
DeleteBaka naman kasi hindi siya pwedeng walang career kasi di ba breadwinner siya? Siyempre normal lang sa ating pinoy na nagbibigay sa magulang at kapatid.
DeleteEh di huwag na ding umasa na magtatagal talaga ang setup at marriage nila kung iba sila ng priorities sa buhay.
DeleteKaya nagulat ako bakit sya ganun magsalita
ReplyDelete“Habang may buhay may chance pa tayo pumasok sa butas ng karayom” 😭🤣 Kaloka talaga to si rufa mae haha. Natawa ako with sound. 🤣 Yan ang gauge ko pag funny talaga yun pinapanood ko haha.
ReplyDeleteI love her, humor, disposition, diskarte and wisdom. At yung pinagaral nya mga kamag anak nya.
DeleteI get you tuffa, hard to stay or live if your spouse’s family is mot that supportove, loves, or welcomes you as part of their family. So sad that you, i can say, mentally and psychologically affected by the circumstances
ReplyDeleteActually sabi nya ok sya sa lahat ng family ng husband nya. Then she clarified na sa husband nya sya hndi welcome but the daughter puede doon sa house.
DeleteI thinks byenan nya ang gustong-gusto syang maging manugang
DeleteRufa hindi ka din kasi mapakali. Pamilyadong tao ka na pero balik ka ng balik dito sa pinas ikaw lang mag isa. Hindi ka marunong magcommit. Isa ka sa sumira ng pamilya mo. It takes two to tango.
ReplyDeleteThis! As much as I like her as a person and comidyante. She didn’t really try her best to be a present wife to Trevor. Nag stay lang sya sa US noong covid. Hindi rin sya tinanong ni Ogie “kung bakit hindi nya i give-up ang showbiz career nya sa Ph”.
DeleteAminado naman siya na lagi siyang wala. Ano pa gusto mo sizt? Haha
DeleteWow ha!! Meron ka pang it takes two to tango as if asawa nya dinidiin nya sa prob nila. Mukhanh hinde ka ata nanood kse kong nanood ka sana nalaman mong ilang beses sinabi ni ruffa mae na isa sa rason yung pag uwi uwi nya sa pinas. Ska hinde naman sya bumabalik ng pinas para magpakasaya at magwalwal. Nandito sya pag may trabaho.
DeleteHuh? Nasa Pinas work niya and need niyang kumita for the family. Like you said, “balik balik”. She tried to manage both family and work, which is normal for couples na may career. Mag commit doesn’t apply sa physical presence lang.
Delete1:57 asawa’t anak nya nasa Amerika sana nakuntento nalang sya. Hindi naman sila maghihirap doon. Sure, hindi ganun kagarbo katulad ng lifestyle nya sa pinas pero may asawa ka na eh. Yun ang pinakasalan mo. Dalawa na kayo. Dapat alam nya yun. Hindi lang talaga sya marunong magcommit.
DeleteBakit laging kailangan ang babae ang mag-give up ng career kapag kinasal na siya???
Delete1:46 and 1:57, kapag pamilyado ka na, need din manimbang. Sa kanya na mismo nanggaling, puro nasa maayos na ang pamilya niya, even yung mga pinag-aral niya. Nag asawa siya dahil she felt, she was getting older and wants to have a family of her own. You would think, na pag binigay na sa iyo, you'll do what you can to keep it. In her case nga, husband and daughter. Yung career at trabaho niya sa showbiz, if it gets in the way of preserving her family, di ba you'll find other options? Maayos naman ang trabaho ng husband niya. She could have tried her hand at a different field. Maybe, even go back to school. Anything that can keep her there. Posible yun Yes, it may not be a grand lifestyle as she'd had before nung active siya sa showbiz, pero mukhang nakapagpundar naman siya and was fortunate to have enjoyed that kind of life.
Delete11:27 madaling sabihin yung she could have tried her hand at a different field. All her life, showbiz IS her field. Marami ding factors that keep people from changing field and one of them is age. Hindi na ganun kadali ang matuto ng bagong skills unless passionate at determined talaga yung tao. Rufa seems to be comfortable with her current status kaya walang ganung urge for a change. Huwag mong ipilit sa iba yung sa tingin mo ay madali para sayo.
DeleteAkala nya siguro kaya nya ang buhay sa US. It happens. Syempre pag drunk in love feeling mo kaya mo lahat. May friend ako na ganun din. From a political family sya so dito ang daming restrictions. Iniisip nya doon free sila at hndi klangan ingat na ingat. Then pagdating sa US, sya lahat gumagawa hindi tumutulong ang husband. Samantalang dito sa pinas prinsesa levels sya. Ang difference lang, yun husband nya from here din talaga so pati sya hirap na din. Kaya ayun umuwi na lang sila kesa magkapatayan doon hehe. Ito kasi si trevor sanay sa buhay sa US so hndi yan mapapaintindi ni rufamae na dito na lang sila. Kaya siguro give up na din si rufamae kasi magkaiba talaga sila ng gusto mangyari. Ayaw ni trevor na alis sya ng alis wala din any indication sa kanya na willing sya magstay doon.
DeleteDi mo masisi ang mga babaeng katulad ni Rufa. Being married doesn’t necessarily change a person. She’s used to working and earning her own money. Kapag bigla kang huminto at pumirmi sa bahay, it drives you crazy and makes someone OC. Not all women are born to become housewives.
Delete3:30 there you go! “Rufa seems to be comfortable with her current status”. Gurl pamilyado na sya, di po pwede ung staying in your comfort zone. Aba teh you have to sacrifice too!
Delete1:28 gurrrrrl, no one said magstop sya mag work and become a housewife. She can always apply to other jobs in the US. Most families in the US don’t rely on one income only. Lahat nagttrabaho
I was teary eyed while watching the interview. Kasi ang hirap ng sitwasyon nya, ang work nya nasa pinas, ang gusto ng anak nya sa america since dun naman tlg lumaki. Syempre di nya din kaya na iwan ng matagal ang anak nya lalo at babae at unica hija. I guess ang need tlg is a husband na makakaintindi at supportive at hindi isip bata na makakaintindi sa kanya. Trevor clearly is not that guy sadly. Let him go rufamae. Basta ok naman ang relasyon nilang mag ama, ayos na siguro un. Walang husband ang may karapatan hiyain ang asawa nya sa public.
ReplyDeleteActually medyo bothered ako dun sa sinabi niya accident and nahimatay siya. Hope she is not domestically abused ang pinagtatakpan lang ang asawa.
ReplyDeleteSana malampasan mo ‘to Peachy.
yan din naisip ko kasi medyo malabo yung kwento na bigla sya natumba sa gutom tapos sa door ng hotel nakakapit sya with blood all over his face
Deletenako kaw at si 5:08 sa mga theories nyong kakatawa
DeleteWalang ayaw mag sacrifice and that's ok, kaya mas ok maghiwalay na lang
ReplyDeleteMahirap tlga long distance relationship / marriage. Lagi wala si Ruffa. Out of sight, out of mind.
ReplyDeleteKung ang asawa mo naman kayang magprovide sa pamilya, bakit kailangan mo pang magwork? O magwork ka sa US. Saka ikaw na nagsabi na ok mga kapatid mo. So para ano pa at gusto mo pang magshowbiz. Ok lang sguro once every 2 yrs. Pero kasi dapat may priority ka.
ReplyDeletehe can’t provide enough,baka sa sarili nya kulang pa ang sweldo
Delete$180-190k ang gross income naming magasawa, wala kameng anak pero dito sa LA di magarbong buhay ang ganyang sueldo. Ang bahay namin townhouse na di naman kagandahan. Ang mga sasakyan namin mga luma na. Ang isang bag na LV na tig $2-3k minsanan lang kung makabili ako. Si Ruffa Mae pa kaya makuntento sa buhay Amerika? E yung Annual income namin isang bag lang nya yan dahil sa laki ng kita nya sa Pinas. Bat di sya uuwi ng uuwi?
Delete3:02, alam mo ba kung magkano ang suweldo ng pulis sa San Francisco, including overtime? Hint: At least $170k per year.
Delete11:12 That is nothing sa mga major cities sa blue states like NY, LA, and SF especially kung may anak ka. It could be possible na may tulong sila if theyre not paying rent sa MIL ni ruffa, but malaking downgrade ng lifestyle yan g lalo na if yung 170k ang buong income ng household nila. Malaki lang yan if you are a bachelor. Of course people would argue na bakit di nalang magpakasimpleng buhay, but let's all be honest here--kung kaya mong kumita ng milyon, gagawin mo to give your child a life na at least comparable sa ginhawa na naexperience mo if not more. Just imagine yung lifestyle ni ruffa most of her adult life, tapos yung anak niya hindi niya bibigyan ng buhay na naexperience niya? Filipinos would never do that.
DeleteNapa isip lang ako na sa bahay ng mother in law nya sila nakatira. Di kaya financial ang reason kaya tumatanggap ng work si Rufa Mae dito? Sa tagal ng pagsasama nila Di ba sila bumili ng sariling house? Seems to me na Ruffa Mae is covering up mga shortcomings ng asawa nya. Dahil dito I respect her more. Ayaw nya siguro sirain asawa nya sa mata ng anak nya.
ReplyDeleteNag police yung asawa nya sabi ni rufa mae sa vlog nya nag police ang asawa nya cause ok naman ang sahod at para maka down payment sya ng house for them, infer di palamunin si guy at college graduate
DeleteHindi biro bumili ng bahay sa US.
Deletefeel ko yung purity of heart nya
ReplyDeleteI think hindi kaya ni Ruffa mae yung life style sa Amerika. At hindi din kaya ibigay ng asawa nya yung kinikita nya dito sa Pinas. Kaso bakit pa magwowork si Ruffa mae kung well provided naman sya.
ReplyDeleteUy, sanay si Rufa Mae na madaming datung. Eh sa US wala syang financial freedom kasi magkano lang naman kita ng asawa nyan. Kahit ako na sumusweldo ng 6 figures here mabigat pa din sa buksa ang mga bills. Eh lalo na sya na wala namang income dito. Napaka ipokrita nyo, masaya ba kayo na walang pera?
ReplyDelete2:41 korak. It's like people here expect ruffa to take on a min wage job in the US to be with the husband just because she's the woman, when she's the one who's been working since she was 17 and the more accomplished one out of them. The guy could've moved to the ph too since he's the one earning less.
DeleteAlam mo ba na kumikita ng $160k and above ang pulis sa California? Including overtime iyon, pero malaki pa rin.
Delete11:13 ikaw din si 11:12. Paulit ulit mo yang sweldo ng pulis nakakaurat. Haha
Delete11:13 $160k in California sa family of 3 di pedeng pabakasyon bakasyon at di pedeng 2 bagong sasakyan at di pedeng kain ng kain sa labas yan. Di mo ba alam gastusan dito sa California?
Delete170k is not big in San Francisco. Middle class lang ang wage na yan considering the high cost of living sa California
Deletemag apply na lang si ruffa mae sa hollywood para kumita din sya dun. malay nya, ito na ang matagal nyang hinihintay na break na maging award winning dramatic actress.
ReplyDeleteParang hibang tong nagcomment
DeleteI remember during or after Covid yata sb niya namimiss niya mga Hermes at luxury bags niya kaya pinapadala ilang handbags niya from Pinas 😂
ReplyDeleteThis. Some cannot commit to motherhood and prioritize married life. It’s obvious they grew apart nothing to nurture ba since RMQ still cannot give up her lifestyle and being in the limelight. Did I hear it right 1 year niya iniwan si Athena muna sa US? Madalas din siyang may raket so maybe the husband got fed up.
ReplyDeleteAno ba kasi para sa iyo ang pagpprioritize ng married life at ng motherhood? Bakit, porke ba nanay di na pedeng may career? Pag married, hindi pedeng may career? 2025 na, di na uso yung nanay na housewife lang talaga, unless super good provider ang asawa. Also, it goes both ways. May ariarian si Ruffa Mae sa Pinas, malaki ang kita,bakit si lalaki hindi "magcommit sa fatherhood at iprioritize ang married life" by moving to the Philippines kung saan buhay na buhay sila ni Ruffa Mae?
Delete2:15 Tapos lalaitin naman si Trevor at aakusahang palamunin ni Rufamae at walang work sa Pinas. Alam niya ang pinakasalan niya ay mas bata sa kanya at laking Amerika na may stable job naman. Admit it material girl si Rufamae noon pa shut up na lang nga ako. She will never be content. 😂
DeleteYou all are missing the point. Most pinoys do this, baliktad nga lang. Madami din sa atin iniwan ang pamilya to earn more money in the US, Canada, etc. Imagine sending a kid to college in the US bilang isang single income household. Sa west coast umaabot ng 90-100k ang tuition sa mga competitive na colleges. Bata pa din yung anak nila, and kids are expensive as hell. Also, I'm sure ruffa feels a certain way na celeb children like zia, etc get the best experiences and education in the ph that would set them up for success tapos yung anak niya hindi niya bibigyan ng ganoon when kaya naman niya if she keeps working as a celeb. This makes even more sense dahil pinagaral ni ruffa yung mga kamaganak niya--tapos sarili niyang anak ipapasok niya sa libreng public school where teachers are too overwhelmed to give a sh*t? Frankly ang sexist lang ng nga tao dito kaya binabash si ruffa.
DeleteBakit ang taas ng demand kay Ruffa na siya ang mag give up ng carreer. Wala masyado kay Trevor. Kung tutuusin mas magarbo buhay ni Ruffa dito with her earnings compared to Trevor sa US. Bored si Ruffa sa US. Bored si Trevor sa Pinas. Pero bakit si Ruffa ang dapat magsakripisyo? Bakit nasa kanya ang sisi?
ReplyDeleteAlso, kung may college degree si guy he could find work in the ph. Filipinos use english at the workplace, and I'm sure there is a way na makakuha siya ng appropriate credentials to be able to establish a career sa pinas kung certifications man yan or college credits. Sa karakas nung guy sa social media I'm pretty sure he doesn't mind ruffa downgrading her lifestyle significantly...but he wouldn't be willing to do the same for her. He would be earning significantly less working a 9-5 in the ph vs. the US--and I bet his ego couldn't even entertain the idea kaya si ruffa nalang ang mahirapan.
DeleteBuhay dalaga pa rin si ruffa. Lagi wala sa house/US. I am not surprised why her marriage ended
ReplyDeleteTalaga ba? Panay ganap kasama ang anak ang gawa nya. Anong buhay dalaga?
DeleteBeks sa ayaw niyo man o hindi it's safe to assume na part ng 10% si ruffa sa ph. You think those rich people follow their kids around like dogs and wait on their husbands? Sa mga celebs nalang, you all think top earners like regine, marian, anne, didn't have to leave their kids even if they didn't want to?
DeleteShe’s a strong independent woman, if she’s used to earning for herself it drives her to live. Something to look forward to it’s not always about the money; it’s doing something she likes to pursue like comedy. So in short you can’t have it all.
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