what you did was not selfless.. it was selfish. and if you truly love someone, you don't ruin their life. true love is wanting to see people you love happy.
Wow, just wow! She was quiet for a long time. You don't know her side of the story to say that. I hope you will not be cheated for you understand how she feels.
Weh? She didnt ruin their lives, they did. Dont blame the victim. Sabi nga, dapat lang magbayad tayo sa mga naging kasamaan naten. Nakahanap sila ng katapat nila. Matapos sya i bully ng fans at hanapan ng resibo - o ayan ang resibo myo.
True. Mas priority nya galit at selos nya. Maling mali si Maris at Anthony dahil nakasakit sila. Hindi ko sila kakampihan but that didnt give anyone any right to ruin them. Jam hindi ka asawa. Hindi mo pagaari si Anthony. Pwede pa siya ma fall sa iba, magkagusto sa iba. Wala silang batas na nilabag. Oo masakit. Nakikisimpatya ako sa pain mo pero ganon talaga u dont own him. Hindi siya sayo. Mga magasawa nga may anak pa naghihiwalay pa. Masakit pero you have to accept na nagbago na siya na iba na gusto nya. Live ur life na wala kang sinasaktan at tinatapakan din sana. Sa ginawa mo mas malala ka pa.
Hindi na nya love. She hated what both of them did to her so she sought revenge the wag she knows how. Kung old school tayo sabunot sa mall inabot nyan. Pero digital na ngayon. Di ko siya masisi. Ang sakit sakit maloko.
siya na nga victim siya pa dapat maging selfless. maris and anthony never even addressed their fans to stop attacking her, her family and friends nung mga times na she swallowed all the disrespect that she gets from the two of them. sana man lang kahit guts na lang to protect jam from their own fans. kaso tahimik sila so bakit kayo magdedemand ng ganyan kay jam eh pinagdamot din naman ni maris and anthony yun sa kanya. the irony right.
I agree. But in their case, she was supportive of them all along and get played. Her love was so pure to the extent of believing the lies. Her reaction is normal to a young heart that was fooled. The fans boasted her kahit wala silang alam sa truth kundi siya lang. Anthony was never sorry, I think wala silang proper closure kaya xa nag retaliate ng ganyan after iconfirm ni A sa natl tv. He don’t hold her neck na kaya she has the freedom to do what she thinks will give her peace of mind.
Nag beast mode si ante nung nilaglag siya ni Anthony. Pero matagal na niya alam yung ginagawa ng dalawa. Di lang siya nagwarl non kasi nakakakinabang pa siya sa relasyon niya kay Anthony. Nung nagdeclare na si Anthony na single don nagpasabog na si Ante. Inamin ni Maris si Rico Blanco alam pero hindi nagkalat. Gaya niya ex ni Anthony. Hindi din yan malinis eh
True. I know di maganda ginawala nila Anthony pero personal ang problem n yan why damay work, career, and dreams!?! Reads PMs, and can be crazy. Good thing nga hiniwalayan sya to he honest.
10:04 kapal mo naman. Baket ikaw ba ang niloko at alam mo ang nararamdaman niya. Yung feelings niya normal yun sa mga niloko mabuti nga may lakas pa siya ng loob na lumaban yung iba diyan pumapalangit na lang.
10:04 Mag tigill ka! Napuno na yung tao sa pang babash nyong mga fantards ni Maris kaya ayan nilabas na yung dapat malaman ng lahat tungkol sa idol nyong self-centered.
ang selfish sa kanila are the CHEATERS 10:04. Very low morals and now cannot face the consequence/s of their own actions. Kadiri ka enabler ang mga katulad mo!
1154 Work, career and dreams are personal too. Wala ba nun si ate mo Jam? Shempre meron din at malamang sa malamang nadamay din yung kanya. Tabla tabla lang. Nanakit yung dalawa eh, di sha martyr, gumanti siya sa paraang alam nya kasi yun ang bala nya eh. That's it.
Tuwing makakabasa ako ng gantong comment lalo akong naaawa kay Jam at lalo akong nagagalit kay Maris. Gets ko bakit nagawa ni Jam yung ginawa nya pero never ko maiintindihan bakit ginawa ni Maris yung ginawa nya. And the fact na marami paring nagtatanggol kay Maris dahil nasira daw buhay makes me laugh. Imagine sa society natin defending yourself and exposing the truth makes you the villain? Yung mga nanakit sayo at nag cause ng trauma sila pa yung kaawa awa? Sobrang lala ng mga tao. It doesn't matter kung kasal o hindi, ang bottomline may natapakan silang tao. How can people defend that? Yung biglang dumami alam sa law pero yung moral compass tinapon? And why is being the bigger person always placed on the person who was wronged?
Tingin ko hindi. Hindi naman masaya ang maloko eh. Ayaw nya lang maging masaya at matagumpay yung dalawa habang siya ay lugmok dahil sa kalokohan nila.
Clout chaser yan kaso ayaw dumaan sa audition. Papeymous bilang karelasyon ng artista. As if may bearing un lalo na hiwalay na sila. Balik yan sa pagiging da who next month.
You are not in the right position to post that especially if you are not close with Jam, 10:10pm. Blame the fans who bashed Jam that's why she fought back.
Masamang manloko, oo, pero aminin natin na tinuro din sa atin na masama maghiganti. Galit lang ang taong gumaganti, at taong walang kunsensya lang ang kayang maging masaya at i-justify pa yung ganung extent ng paghihiganti na ginawa nya. Mga tao dito na super tindi ng galit kay Maris, sana ganyan din kayo ka-galit sa mga politikong binoto nyo tapos di naman nagagampanan yung mga pinangako nila sa inyo nung nangangampanya sila. Di proportionate ang galit ng tao kay Maris kumpara sa nagawa nya sa totoo lang. Minsan naiisip ko na may isang group na nagfufuel ng hate kay Maris at Anthony para matabunan yung mga totoo at mas seryosong issue sa bansa natin e.
True!! Kaya impossible yung claim ni M na she is not in the know.. kalokohan! And dont tell me she isnt viewing J’s social, eh she even ask A how J is doing.. people are no longer that s2pid nowadays girl!! Wag kame!!
Silang tatlo may alam. Alam nung dalawang babae na tatlo sila. Implied consent ang nangyari. Kaso nagwarla un ex nung nilaglag na siya sa ganong set up
bakit kayo National issue gurl? anong pakialam namin lahat sa buhay niyong tatlo, matatanda na kayo at pareparehas mga single. Mas marami pang relevant topic sa bansa kesa sa inyo.
May sariling scenario? Mali ba sya? Diba nahuli na nga sa screenshots? Hahahaha. Tama talagang nilabas nya mga SS. Ngayon ngang may proof grabe parin pag gawa ng kwento ng mga faneys, what more kung wala? Edi kawawa nanaman sya sa pagiging delulu nyo?
I am not enabler but I wonder how you feel now after you destroyed the life of the man you said you have loved for 7 years? i have two friends na their husband cheated on them but they never said anything. Indeed we deal with pain in different ways kahit ako dko alam how would I react just in case. But seriously just asking, how do you feel now?
If ako yan kulang pa yan hahahahahahaha! Gagawa panko ng part series to expose and debunk lahat ng pinagagawa nilang panloloko sakin. Mabait pa sya actually sa lagay na yan.
Looks like alam niya mangyayari ito. She is ready to Face the consequences kung mag mangyayari kasuhan. She Will splook more evidences. But remember yung screen shot niya “MARIS” lang name niya … next mga is naka censor hinde niya pina kaya .Ang mga chismosa alam nila its Maris and Anthony. That post that she posted may approval yan sa legal na kausap niya. Also hinde niya siniraan ang dalawa nag kwento lang siya ng story niya.
Ndi kc lahat ng tao kagaya nyo..artista din un A at M ikaw b ndi msasaktan kng araw araw mo cla mkikita s tv n prang msayang msaya at ikaw nsasaktan..tpos mga fans p nla kng anu anu sasabhin msakit sau?n kesyo mataba kya pnagpalit n kesyo selosa at toxic kc
Different situation sa mga friends mo girl. She was not only cheated on by those two, she was also bullied by their fans for months. She retaliated to protect herself and her family.
Wag mong problemahin ano nafefeel nya dahil wala ka na dun. Gagaslight nyo pa yung tao. Kesa naman manahimik sya tapos happy happy yung dalawa na parang walang matapakan? Wait for karma? Hell nah, hindi deserve ng mga manloloko na bigyan ng chance maghintay ng karma nila. Kung kaya mo ibigay karma nila, then do it.ndi ka enabler? Oh no dear, you are. The fact na kiniquestion mo ginawa nya pero dinodownplay mo ginawa nung dalawa? Ewww.
Same thoughts. I hope she is happy with what she did and sleep soundly at night. Katakot din sya maging friend, baka pag nag away kmi i out nia lahat ng secrets ko lol.
10:22 we have different styles of coping. hers is what she did. don't invalidate her feelings. if the fantards didn't destroy her, things would have been different, maybe. but just the same, she was cheated on, then bombarded with bashing by the very people who support the cheaters. she did what she did because of that. the bashing was not only directed at her but also her family, so can you blame her? THE FANTARDS ARE TO BLAME FOR THIS FIASCO. THE FANTARDS ARE TO BLAME WHY MARIS IS NOW THE 'TOUCH MYSELF' MARIS AND ANTHONY IS NOW THE 'CHEATER'S CHEATER' ANTHONY. so, fantards, don't focus on other people and focus on the people you support.
That is seven years of her life wasted on a cheater. If that is ok with you and your friends then fine for you all, sana nga maranasan mo pa more. Don't expect others to be like you because to be honest you have no right to say you are better than her. Marites ka lang po, you do not know 99 percent of what happened between them.
Jam is bitter and evil. What she did to Maris will haunt her forever. People will forget this scandal just like the others. Maris is talented. She can sing and act. Yung ex mo is just starting. Bread winner pa naman si no read no write di ba...
Did she even excuse herself from any liability from her actions? Rekta mo kay Maris na magsampa ng kaso o kaya umpisahan mo ang petition to take her liable. Jusko.
10:25, Maris & Anthony have to deal with the repercussions of their actions. Unfortunately for them, Jam isn’t a doormat. You can’t hurt a person & demand how a person react from it.
Sa totoo lang. Shes still suffering . Hurt na hurt parin talaga si ate mo girl. I can’t blame her. Maybe yung pa splook niya ng mga Screenshot na yun its her only way ilabas lahat ng pain nararamdaman niya. Ubos na ubos na siya e. I’m For sure bago niya yun ginawa alam na niya mangyayari and she consulted a lawyer too. Kasi medyo maayos ang pag kwento niya in detail pa. Wala siya sinabi din ill sa kanila dalawa. Anyway, I’m praying For her healing same goes kay Anthony and Maris. Haaay ang pagsubok nga naman sa bahay no? Iba iba talaga tayo kwento ng life. But this year 2024 is very so hard din For me ang dami ganap sana maging maayos ang 2025 natin lahat.
Lesson learned ito din na pag alam mo ng mali ay mali wag mo na ituloy. At mag delete kasi! Hahaha Joke lang
People deal with pain differently and crucifying her for doing such because the other parties got so much hate and “lost” their careers is unfair. In the first place, they should not have cheated. They brought it upon themselves. You reap what you sow. What is legal does not necessarily mean it’s moral and morality should always have more bearing over what’s legal.
Lahat ng tao nasasaktan. Tao lang tayo, nakakaramdam ng pain. Pero hindi lahat ng nasasaktan gumaganti. Walang happiness sa pagganti. Kaya pala sabi sa Bible revenge is mine…. Wag gumanti. Maling gumanti. Surrender to God dapat. Siya ang bahala. Choose to be good always.
Jam, valid na nasaktan ka, nainis ka pero hindi valid na nagpost ka ng private convo, that is punishable by law, hindi valid manira ka ng buhay kase nasaktan ka. Kung lhat ng taong nasaktan sa mundo eh gaganyi at mananakit din anong klaseng buhay at mundo meron tayo?
10:54. Nag sorry na si Maris, masaya na si Jam? Nung nag post si Jam ng mga texts messages, nag isip muna ba siya ng logic bago siya ng post, hindi di ba? You cannot destroy a person's life and source of living and just get away with it.
Wait sa sue ni M .sana M will really sue kasi gagawin ng ibang mag labas ng private contents .tapos lalong wala ng privacy. Kahit nasaktan dapat lumayo ka na at may gut feeling ja na pala . Baka dahil sikat ka ngayon at mag artists ka na ha
We really can’t wait for M to sue para makita niyo mga fantards kung gano kalala ang idol niyong starlet. When probing comes in, there will be more info to come out about her. Push niyo pa mag sue idol niyo, so she can have a dose of her own medicine!
I am not enabling the cheating. Ive been cheated on before too wvem nyy husband so I know the pain and anger. But I also hope you get to face the consequences of what youve done, ruining their lives just because youve been heartbroken. They should file legal case against you. Patas na kayo after that.
Sigurado ka na naloko ka before? Hindi ka nabaliw kakaisip? Hindi mo naiisip na kasama lang kanina nung ex mo yung babae nya tapos maya maya hihiga katabi mo? Hindi ba kagalit galit yun? Ganyan sakin at naiintindihan ko yang galit at puot na meron si Jam ngayon. I would ruin the life of my ex and his mistress too sa paraang alam ko kung ganyan ako kagaling maghanap ng ebidensya. Private na individual lang kami kaya I'll do it privately. Nagkataon artista yang mga yan kaya may ingay. Hindi ko sya masisisi. Napakasakit lokohin at bumangon sa trauma ng panloloko.
Hmmm ayaw mo madamay pero nakimarites ka. Ikaw naman itong may kagagawan ng binibintang mo. Personal posts po niya yan, nakitsismis lang tayo. Tayo yung nagpakalat niyan sa buong pinas.
Wow naman mga comment dito na Cheater Apologist/Protectors and Victim Blamers!!! Kawawa talaga mga Victims (ke sa cheating, rape, etc). Sila pa talaga ang trinatratong putik pag lumaban. Mga taong tulad nyo ang rason kung bakit lalong nabibiktkma ang mga Victims.
Totoo! Bakit tayo nagvivictim shame? Turuan natin lumaban at bumangon yung mga inaapi. Di pwedeng martyrdom tayong mga naloko. Matuto tayong panagutin yung mga nangagrabyado satin. No to bullying victims. No to protecting cheaters.
Sometimes revenge is not the best response to the pain. There are times that the more you hurt the one you loved, it would pain you more. Letting go is the best option and let karma deal with them. No guilt feelings on your side.
Yea, sometimes pero in this scenario, it is. Imagine kung nanahimik lang sya, araw araw syang pinuputakte ng nga bashers habang sya kinakain ng lungkot at trauma? You have no right to tell someone to let it. Kung ganun ka kamartyr edi go, pero wag mo ipush yang ideology mo sa ibang tao. For some revenge is the only way para magka peace of mind. Eye for an eye.
To each his/her own. Ikaw yan. Wag mo siya utusan. If she wants to cope that way, let her. The situation she was placed in by both M & A and their fans led her to do what she has to do. Clearly the pain she is feeling because she was cheated upon is more painful, thus the exposΔ.
That is true but people need time to heal and let go. Add mo pa na dinadagdagan ng mga bashers yung sugat. Not everyone can just immediately respond well to such situations.
If only di sya binash and hinamon ng mga fantards and gave her the peace of mind to recover from the trauma that your cheater idol did, edi sana di siya na provoke. Wag masyado blind followers and don’t idolize people with low morals!
I doubt she had peace of mind even before that sa dami ng mga nangbabash. That to me is a consequence of anger, not an intentional paghihiganti. Stop trying to make her feel guilty. People like you pretend to be better but what you are doing is also a form of gaslighting.
hate cheating kasi experienced it first hand…it hurts. but it is a blessing in disguise na hindi pa bound by marriage. Happier now and it’s all in the past. Sana maka move on si J ng tahimik and in perfect time. Matagal din ang 7 years.
Wow! Mga hypocrites iba dito. For sure if hindi nya nahuli tuloy lang ung 2 sa panggaga#o sa kanya. Paano naman ung mental health nya? Tapos sasabihin nyo na sinira career nung isa? Eh may isip na yun at Alam nya consequences ng mga actions nya. Inis talaga ako sa mga cheaters.
That was a repost of what she posted before the exposure ng chats. Yes, a person can love and be devastated afterwards and lose that real love. That is not delusional cause it was posted at a time when she was still trying to keep what happened to herself. Kaya siya sumabog later on.
Valid ang nararamdaman mo but that does not give you the right to destroy other people's life. When you are angry, your judgment is clouded but put yourself in other person's shoe, as well. I have a couple of friends whose husbands have cheated on them, both were married more than 10 years and have kids. What they did was confront their husbands first, then the woman and talked to their husbands' family members to inform them of the cheating. But never nag-iskandalo. Bigyan din ng dignidad ang sarili at wag magpakababa na nagmumukhang desperada. Living well and doing better in life is the best revenge.
11:19 What right do you have to tell her how she should feel and what she should have done? Her experience and feelings are different from yours and your friends' experiences. You and your friends probably didn't get all the bashing like she did. She is not in showbiz like Maris and Anthony. She didn't deserve that. Constant bashing can ruin a person's mental health. So, to compare other people's story to hers is unfair and unnecessary.
They don't have the right to hurt her as well. So quits lang. Tigilan nyo na kaka gaslight kay Jam. Friends mo yun. Kung kayo ganto ganyan, pwes kayo yun. Wag nyong ipilit sa iba yung trip nyo. Kahit mangisay pa kayo sa inis jan, she did what she thought was best for her and her brother. Magkaiba yung sitwasyon nyo, hangga't hindi ka nagkakaroon ng partner na artista na may malaking fan base, namatayan ng magulang, at binabash ng fans ng ex-boyfriend mo habang nagmomove on from 7-year-relationship, e shut up ka nalang muna. Dignidad? Sabihin mo yan kay M, hindi yung mas galit ka pa sa unang naargabyado. Okay ka pa ba? Kaya walang sense of accountability si M dahil sa mga kagaya mong humahanap ng way so they can get away with it. Iba talaga mindset ng supporters ni M.
They are kids! Wala pa sila sa level of maturity ng mga kaibigan mo. That's how they know to resolve issues now. Digital. She wants to grab the hair of the girl and take her down. So she did, digitally.
we dont know the real story but I do believe na sinabihan ni A si M na single na siya kahit hindi naman pala. Bolero mga kalalakihan ghorls. Nadaan sa words si M, siguro ang usapan makipagbreak sila both sa kanilang partners which M did but A didn’t.
Even tito boy na matagal na sa showbiz industry hindi naniniwala sa statement nyang yun. π€£ But regardless, they still both cheated. Nung time na naglandian sila, alam nyang may jowa pa si A. Like hello? The girl admitted he cheated on Rico. π₯΄
That was just paawa at damage control. No I do not believe for once that she did know at all na committed pa rin si guy. M does not look that s2pid to me but she does come as a flirt to me, even before that chat was exposed.
I do not see it as being mean as being mean is being intentional in hurting others. Hers is just a reaction and an exposure of the truth of the pain she was carrying. She was trying to contain it but it blew up when she cannot hold it in anymore.
Wow. So we’re defending the cheaters over the girlfriend? What she did might be distasteful but get off your high horse. We don’t know the pain she’s been through. She didn’t need to share the ss but the girlfriend is the REAL victim here.
11:26 I don't think so. If I have one regret na sana ginawa ko dati sa cheater kong ex eh sana in-expose ko sya sa lahat ng kilala namin. Imagine, he cheated on me, he abused me sa lahat ng pwedeng paraan pero nung naghiwalay kami ako pa ang pinalabas nyang masama sa lahat. Sana hindi ako nanahimik. Pero natakot kasi ako na sabihin ng iba wala akong class pag nagpost ako sa social media kaya nanahimik na lang ako at hinayaang mahusgahan ng iba. I admire Jam for having the courage to expose the cheating ex boyfriend and the malanding 3rd party at mapahiya ang mga bashers na nagsabing delusional at desparate lang sya.
You don't know that at di ka si madame auring. Wag kang paladesisyon. The only thing I regret in life is ndi ko nagawa yang ginawa nya. π€£ I doubt she'll regret it. Hahahahahaha mainis kayo forever.
11:26 I 2nd the motion. I am not for cheating. I bet M was made to believe by A na hihiwalayan si J kaya nga nakipagbreak si M kay RB. Time heals all the pain pati anger, I doubt din if the ex will have peace of mind after what she has done. Ang isang mali ay hindi maitatama ng isang pang maling gawain.
It's so easy to say na mali yung ginawa nya kung di mo pa na experience yung ginawa sa kanya. For me tama lang yung ginawa nya. People should learn they can't just get away with wrongdoings without consequences or retaliation from others. At least ngayon pare pareho na sila ng feelings. May ka share na si Jam sa hinagpis nya.
Kagagawan ni Maris at Anthony kaya nawalan sila ng endorsements. Don't blame Jam. They should blame themselves for being irresponsible. Buti nga sa kanila.
Hindi lang siya ang nasaktan at naloko. Maraming nakakarelate sa kanyang experience even ako. Pero, hindi naman ako umabot sa part na maghiganti at sirain ang dating karelasyon at nakapalibot sa kanya. Akala mo kasi nakaganti ka talaga, pero may balik din yan.
Mas maganda yung nag move on ka na lang with grace kesa yung ginawa mo ngayon. Isang araw, pagsisisihan mo yung ginawa mo. Or even soon. Di rin malinis konsensya mo sa ginawa mo.
She mainly wants to ruin Maris not Anthony…mas hate nila si girl sa social media. What i dont understand bakit alam na pala niya ang nangyayari di man lang niya sinita yung dalawa at bakit may access sa phone nung lalaki? Minsan gusto ng maniwala dun sa sinabi ni john arcilla na pinag planuhan nila si Maris.
Jam - wag mo pansinin mga nega comments. if the same thing happened to this commenters, I bet they wouldve done the same. The trauma of being cheated on is real and what you do with it is your own choice. It may not be the best but if it will help alleviate a bit of all the pain it caused you, then you do what you want to do. Maris and Anthony may come out of it and get over this and do better, but the impt thing was that the truth was put out there and acknowledged.
Hindi ako fan ni M, A or ng love team nila. Ang baduy nng love team sa true lang. Pero pansin ko grabe ang galit ng tao kay M ha? Gets ko na nagcheat sya pero parang di naman yata justified ang tindi ng galit sa kanya? Kulang na lang magdala ng torch at pitchfork sa ginawa ni M at natutuwa pa sa mga misfortunes nya. Yung mga bashers kung makacomment parang wala bahid kasalanan at may sure ticket sa langit. Mas magalit kayo sa mga politicians na magnanakaw at 3 ang kabit. Pare-parehong may fault si M, A at J dito kaya walang karapatang magmalinis kahit sino sa kanila. Take note of the lessons learned na lang at move forward. Ganun talaga ang life, it is never fair but that does not mean you should be unkind.
Kung talagang mabait toh dapat sinabihan nya muna si Maris na tigilan ang BF nya. Dapat may communication sakanila. Tutal nakita nya na mga messages dapat kinausap na nya si Maris.
I don’t like cheating but I sure do not like what she did as well. Willing sya manira ng buhay at pangarap ng family kahit wala ng kinalaman sa personal issues nila. Who reads PMs anyways?? High schools?
Gusto ata ng medal and awards na mas gugustuhin nilang maging doormat and martyr kesa i pagtanggol ang sarili. Sa panahon ngayon, "take care of yourself, defend yourself first" bago isipin ang kapakanan ng mga traydor at mga nanakit sayo.
We don’t owe anyone who hurt us. Kahit forgiveness pwedeng ipagdamot at wag pilitin ang sarili na ibigay.
This is all part of the consequences of your actions, M. Gumawa ka ng masama, di mo na kontrolado ang balik sayo nyan. Nanakit ka ng tao, nasaktan sya at nagalit. Yan ang reaction nya. Di sya artista, binash sya ng fans mo. Naloko na nga, nainsulto pa, sobrang provocation na yun. Di ko gets kung bakit kinukumpara kay K. ArtΔ±Εta si K, super sikat pa, nasa kanya lahat ng simpatya. Eh si J hindi artista, ginulo nyo buhay nya.
She will never regret what she did... for her peace of mind let her.. mgnda un pra ma expose kalandian ni marisparot at unt ex..wat tlrte sng cheating kaya mdming babae ang naaabuso dhl pnpili manahimik.. salute to jam...at maris galingan m pa scripit m now laglagan n gnwa m s nilandi m hahahaha.
May karapatan kang magalit at expose mo ginawa nila sa iyo. Now that they were exposed at lugmok na sa kahihiyan. Dahil sa tingin mo tama ginawa mo. Hiwag ka din magagalit kung mag file sila ng case sa iyo kasi karapatan din nila yun.
Actually yang quote mo na yan is pwede na yan to expose them katulad ng iba mga cryptic post pero nah you are not a saint you really want to destroyed Maris dahil sa galit mo.
If babae sa babae sana kinausap mo si Maris noong nag kakahinala ka which mostly everyone would do. Pero pag nagtuloy pa din sila that would be the time to do what you want.
If babae to babae sana sya nirespeto ni M hindi to aabot sa ganito. Wag mo ilipat yung sisi sa biktima ng panloloko ng idol mo. Sya pa dapat mag adjust ganun?
At oo naging masaya xa s ginawa nta kc nrmdaman dn ng dlwa ang pinaramdam s knya now alm n nila anu pkrmdam dpt noon p kumilos ung dlwa. Kaluka go jam...tama nga c tito boy ei hahahaha
Alam niyo kung ano ang naging problema bukod sa cheating? Yung rabid fans nina Anthony at Maris. Kahit noong panahon na sila pa, habang tahimik lang sa sidelines si ex, may mga fans na walang pakundangan at walang mga moralidad na nagsasabing, “Sana mag-cheat na lang si Anthony sa’yo.”
Nang mangyari nga ang cheating at nalaman na ni ex, nagsimula siyang mag-post ng mga cryptic messages sa social media. Biglang lumabas ang mga rabid fans, kesyo gawa-gawa lang ni ex ang lahat at wala naman siyang resibo. Bawat galaw ni ex sa social media, binabantayan nila — todo bash, at hindi pa nakuntento pati pamilya ni ex dinamay pa.
Siyempre, fresh pa ang breakup, at 7 years yun, normal lang na mag-emo si girl. Dapat hinayaan na lang siya ng mga fans pero hindi eh, pinilit nilang i-harass siya hanggang mapuno siya. Kaya nung di na kinaya, inilabas niya ang mga resibo.
Ngayon, kasalanan pa rin ni ex? Kasalanan pa rin niya kung paano niya hinandle ang sakit? Siya pa rin ang may kasalanan sa cyberbullying at slut-shaming na nangyayari dahil lang hindi siya marunong mag-move forward? Like, hello? Nasaan na ang moral compass niyo? Kinain na ba kayo ng mga love teams na ‘yan?
Nakakalungkot na sobrang lulong na ang mga Pinoy sa pagiging panatiko.
Honestly di ako naaawa kay M and A. Dasurv nila yung nangyari sakanila. Nang apak sila ng tao. Kesehodang private msg yan. Tama na pa martyr. Get even and help karma find its way. Yun mga nagsasabi nasira ni Jam yun life and career nung dalawa, oh well, they knew that right from the very beginning pag may nag leak. Kaya nga pinapa bura ni ate girl yung screenshots diba.
what you did was not selfless.. it was selfish. and if you truly love someone, you don't ruin their life. true love is wanting to see people you love happy.
ReplyDeletei would rather be selfish than a cheater!
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DeleteWow, just wow! She was quiet for a long time. You don't know her side of the story to say that. I hope you will not be cheated for you understand how she feels.
DeleteWeh? She didnt ruin their lives, they did. Dont blame the victim. Sabi nga, dapat lang magbayad tayo sa mga naging kasamaan naten. Nakahanap sila ng katapat nila. Matapos sya i bully ng fans at hanapan ng resibo - o ayan ang resibo myo.
DeleteSo ok lang if the other party ruins your life? Walang self love? Puro think of other people na lang?
DeleteMagtigil ka na diyan. Mas masama yung ginawa ng idol mo and she’s reaping what she has sown.
DeleteTrue. Mas priority nya galit at selos nya. Maling mali si Maris at Anthony dahil nakasakit sila. Hindi ko sila kakampihan but that didnt give anyone any right to ruin them. Jam hindi ka asawa. Hindi mo pagaari si Anthony. Pwede pa siya ma fall sa iba, magkagusto sa iba. Wala silang batas na nilabag. Oo masakit. Nakikisimpatya ako sa pain mo pero ganon talaga u dont own him. Hindi siya sayo. Mga magasawa nga may anak pa naghihiwalay pa. Masakit pero you have to accept na nagbago na siya na iba na gusto nya. Live ur life na wala kang sinasaktan at tinatapakan din sana. Sa ginawa mo mas malala ka pa.
DeleteWow gaslight pa more!
DeleteLinya ng mga martyr yan. Sila naman sumira sa mga sarili nila.
DeleteClearly you haven’t been cheated!
DeleteHindi na nya love. She hated what both of them did to her so she sought revenge the wag she knows how. Kung old school tayo sabunot sa mall inabot nyan. Pero digital na ngayon. Di ko siya masisi. Ang sakit sakit maloko.
DeleteWeh d nga?
DeletePrior nga, nabasa mo ba? Tsaka they are the ones who ruined their lives the moment they had an affair. Nahuli lang sila at naexpose.
DeleteAy mag 2025 na, dapat ineexpose na ung mga cheaters para magtanda at huwag gayahin ng iba
Deletethey both ruined her life
Deletesiya na nga victim siya pa dapat maging selfless. maris and anthony never even addressed their fans to stop attacking her, her family and friends nung mga times na she swallowed all the disrespect that she gets from the two of them. sana man lang kahit guts na lang to protect jam from their own fans. kaso tahimik sila so bakit kayo magdedemand ng ganyan kay jam eh pinagdamot din naman ni maris and anthony yun sa kanya. the irony right.
DeleteI agree. But in their case, she was supportive of them all along and get played. Her love was so pure to the extent of believing the lies. Her reaction is normal to a young heart that was fooled. The fans boasted her kahit wala silang alam sa truth kundi siya lang. Anthony was never sorry, I think wala silang proper closure kaya xa nag retaliate ng ganyan after iconfirm ni A sa natl tv. He don’t hold her neck na kaya she has the freedom to do what she thinks will give her peace of mind.
DeleteNag beast mode si ante nung nilaglag siya ni Anthony. Pero matagal na niya alam yung ginagawa ng dalawa. Di lang siya nagwarl non kasi nakakakinabang pa siya sa relasyon niya kay Anthony. Nung nagdeclare na si Anthony na single don nagpasabog na si Ante. Inamin ni Maris si Rico Blanco alam pero hindi nagkalat. Gaya niya ex ni Anthony. Hindi din yan malinis eh
DeleteTrue. I know di maganda ginawala nila Anthony pero personal ang problem n yan why damay work, career, and dreams!?! Reads PMs, and can be crazy. Good thing nga hiniwalayan sya to he honest.
Delete10:04 kapal mo naman. Baket ikaw ba ang niloko at alam mo ang nararamdaman niya. Yung feelings niya normal yun sa mga niloko mabuti nga may lakas pa siya ng loob na lumaban yung iba diyan pumapalangit na lang.
Delete10:04 Mag tigill ka! Napuno na yung tao sa pang babash nyong mga fantards ni Maris kaya ayan nilabas na yung dapat malaman ng lahat tungkol sa idol nyong self-centered.
DeleteIkaw na ghorl 1004 πππ
DeleteWhatever they are feeling right now is not her responsibility.
Deleteang selfish sa kanila are the CHEATERS 10:04. Very low morals and now cannot face the consequence/s of their own actions. Kadiri ka enabler ang mga katulad mo!
Deletesabi ng cheater din. pakabait ka na Maris ha
Delete1154 Work, career and dreams are personal too. Wala ba nun si ate mo Jam? Shempre meron din at malamang sa malamang nadamay din yung kanya. Tabla tabla lang. Nanakit yung dalawa eh, di sha martyr, gumanti siya sa paraang alam nya kasi yun ang bala nya eh. That's it.
DeleteSana masaya ka sa ginawa mong paghihiganti.
ReplyDeleteShe feels a little better. She deserves to.
DeleteFeel ko hinde siya nag sisi. Hinde siya masaya! Galit siya . Magkaiba ang saya at galit
DeleteI would redo it all over again
DeleteAko masaya sa ginawa ni Jam. Nalaman kahalayan ng idol mo.
DeleteGaslighter ka pala.
DeleteThe truth will set you free.
DeleteTuwing makakabasa ako ng gantong comment lalo akong naaawa kay Jam at lalo akong nagagalit kay Maris. Gets ko bakit nagawa ni Jam yung ginawa nya pero never ko maiintindihan bakit ginawa ni Maris yung ginawa nya. And the fact na marami paring nagtatanggol kay Maris dahil nasira daw buhay makes me laugh. Imagine sa society natin defending yourself and exposing the truth makes you the villain? Yung mga nanakit sayo at nag cause ng trauma sila pa yung kaawa awa? Sobrang lala ng mga tao. It doesn't matter kung kasal o hindi, ang bottomline may natapakan silang tao. How can people defend that? Yung biglang dumami alam sa law pero yung moral compass tinapon? And why is being the bigger person always placed on the person who was wronged?
DeleteTingin ko hindi. Hindi naman masaya ang maloko eh. Ayaw nya lang maging masaya at matagumpay yung dalawa habang siya ay lugmok dahil sa kalokohan nila.
DeleteOo masaya sya
DeleteClout chaser yan kaso ayaw dumaan sa audition. Papeymous bilang karelasyon ng artista. As if may bearing un lalo na hiwalay na sila. Balik yan sa pagiging da who next month.
DeleteIts her turn na maging masaya, nauna na kasi magsaya mga cheaters lol
DeleteYou are not in the right position to post that especially if you are not close with Jam, 10:10pm. Blame the fans who bashed Jam that's why she fought back.
DeleteAko masaya sa ginawa nya!! Hahahaha!!! Manigas ka jan!!
DeleteDon't worry. Masaya kami para kay Jam. Pretentious people need to be exposed.
DeleteMasamang manloko, oo, pero aminin natin na tinuro din sa atin na masama maghiganti. Galit lang ang taong gumaganti, at taong walang kunsensya lang ang kayang maging masaya at i-justify pa yung ganung extent ng paghihiganti na ginawa nya. Mga tao dito na super tindi ng galit kay Maris, sana ganyan din kayo ka-galit sa mga politikong binoto nyo tapos di naman nagagampanan yung mga pinangako nila sa inyo nung nangangampanya sila. Di proportionate ang galit ng tao kay Maris kumpara sa nagawa nya sa totoo lang. Minsan naiisip ko na may isang group na nagfufuel ng hate kay Maris at Anthony para matabunan yung mga totoo at mas seryosong issue sa bansa natin e.
Delete11:03 nailed it.
Delete1141 Wala siyang paki maging da who. Yung mga idol mo ang meron. Sila nalang intindihin mo, icheer mo sila para hindi maging da who.
DeleteTrue!! Kaya impossible yung claim ni M na she is not in the know.. kalokohan! And dont tell me she isnt viewing J’s social, eh she even ask A how J is doing.. people are no longer that s2pid nowadays girl!! Wag kame!!
ReplyDeleteAgree! Impossible!
Deletenaks “wag kame” syadong affected gurl
DeleteYep. Louder please!
DeletePa kyeme na lang ni M yung mga claims nya. Nag sorry kuno pero andaming justifications na binanggit π
DeleteSilang tatlo may alam. Alam nung dalawang babae na tatlo sila. Implied consent ang nangyari. Kaso nagwarla un ex nung nilaglag na siya sa ganong set up
DeleteOA Mo! As if naman aasenso ka sa pagreact ng ganyan ky Maris.
DeleteVersion nya yan syempre
DeleteYung mga faneys nya nagpapakaS2pid kakadefend.
Deletebakit kayo National issue gurl? anong pakialam namin lahat sa buhay niyong tatlo, matatanda na kayo at pareparehas mga single. Mas marami pang relevant topic sa bansa kesa sa inyo.
ReplyDeleteEh bakit andito ka?
DeleteWala kang paki pero nandito ka at nag-comment πππ
DeletePero nagcomment ka at basa ng post about them when there are more relevant things to do? Marites ka din kasi Ante, wag kang magmalinis..
DeleteNakikimaritess lang din naman tayo. Parang pag nakakita ng jowa na nanabunot ng kabit sa mall. Ganyan tayo, nakikitsismis.
DeleteNyeh then just ignore the articles girl! Lahat ba ng news binabasa mo? Kalurks
DeleteYou forgot you're in the chismis site. Anong ginawa mo dito? Looking for national issue, dun ka sa businessweek o inquirer. Kalurkey
Delete10:20 ayan nga at nakikialam ka!!! naglaan ka nga ng time at energy para sa kanila, ano ka ba?!
DeletePero andito ka at nakikichismis. What a hypocrite!
DeleteTHIS! Omg yung iba kung makareact kala mo sangkot. Awat na utang na loob lol. Nangyari na nagsorry na wala na magagawa yang galit nyo
DeleteMeron kasing sariling scenario toh sa isip nya
ReplyDeleteMay sariling scenario? Mali ba sya? Diba nahuli na nga sa screenshots? Hahahaha. Tama talagang nilabas nya mga SS. Ngayon ngang may proof grabe parin pag gawa ng kwento ng mga faneys, what more kung wala? Edi kawawa nanaman sya sa pagiging delulu nyo?
DeleteYea, the real scenario
Deletegaslighting lang?
DeleteI am not enabler but I wonder how you feel now after you destroyed the life of the man you said you have loved for 7 years? i have two friends na their husband cheated on them but they never said anything. Indeed we deal with pain in different ways kahit ako dko alam how would I react just in case. But seriously just asking, how do you feel now?
ReplyDeleteIf ako yan kulang pa yan hahahahahahaha! Gagawa panko ng part series to expose and debunk lahat ng pinagagawa nilang panloloko sakin. Mabait pa sya actually sa lagay na yan.
DeleteHappy, vindicated.
DeleteWala syang sinira, si guy ng sumira sa sarili nya
DeleteLooks like alam niya mangyayari ito. She is ready to Face the consequences kung mag mangyayari kasuhan. She Will splook more evidences. But remember yung screen shot niya “MARIS” lang name niya … next mga is naka censor hinde niya pina kaya .Ang mga chismosa alam nila its Maris and Anthony. That post that she posted may approval yan sa legal na kausap niya. Also hinde niya siniraan ang dalawa nag kwento lang siya ng story niya.
DeleteI agree. I don’t believe that she exposed the cheating to find peace. She wants revenge.
DeleteNdi kc lahat ng tao kagaya nyo..artista din un A at M ikaw b ndi msasaktan kng araw araw mo cla mkikita s tv n prang msayang msaya at ikaw nsasaktan..tpos mga fans p nla kng anu anu sasabhin msakit sau?n kesyo mataba kya pnagpalit n kesyo selosa at toxic kc
DeleteSiguro vindicated. Hindi sya praning lang like sinasabi ng bashers nya na f na f ni A at M.
DeleteM and A destroyed themselves. It’s the consequence of their actions.
DeleteDifferent situation sa mga friends mo girl. She was not only cheated on by those two, she was also bullied by their fans for months. She retaliated to protect herself and her family.
DeleteNot Jam. But if I were her, not happy, I guess. But somehow vindicated that people know my truth and my story and leard the good and bad from it.
DeleteWag mong problemahin ano nafefeel nya dahil wala ka na dun. Gagaslight nyo pa yung tao. Kesa naman manahimik sya tapos happy happy yung dalawa na parang walang matapakan? Wait for karma? Hell nah, hindi deserve ng mga manloloko na bigyan ng chance maghintay ng karma nila. Kung kaya mo ibigay karma nila, then do it.ndi ka enabler? Oh no dear, you are. The fact na kiniquestion mo ginawa nya pero dinodownplay mo ginawa nung dalawa? Ewww.
DeleteI am happy, ok na teh?
DeleteDestroyed talaga? M & A did that to themselves! Wait until it happened to you.
Deletehe ruined her life, too
Delete10:22 ikaw na mismo nagsabi we we deal with pain in different ways. So, you dont have the right to question how she is dealing her pain.
DeleteSame thoughts. I hope she is happy with what she did and sleep soundly at night. Katakot din sya maging friend, baka pag nag away kmi i out nia lahat ng secrets ko lol.
DeleteGirlfriend pa lang yan ha? Ano pa kaya kung asawa. Baka sukdulan na ang gagawin.
DeleteTry nyo to be on her shoe Baka mas Malala p gawin nyo
Delete10:22 we have different styles of coping. hers is what she did. don't invalidate her feelings. if the fantards didn't destroy her, things would have been different, maybe. but just the same, she was cheated on, then bombarded with bashing by the very people who support the cheaters. she did what she did because of that. the bashing was not only directed at her but also her family, so can you blame her? THE FANTARDS ARE TO BLAME FOR THIS FIASCO. THE FANTARDS ARE TO BLAME WHY MARIS IS NOW THE 'TOUCH MYSELF' MARIS AND ANTHONY IS NOW THE 'CHEATER'S CHEATER' ANTHONY. so, fantards, don't focus on other people and focus on the people you support.
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Deletefeeling much better than you
Delete10:22, as you said we deal with pain in different ways. Your friends were a doormat, Jam is not.
DeleteI will feel happy. Si M nga di man lang nag sorry sa kanya, sa fans pa nag sorry eh sa kanya may kasalanan
DeleteThat is seven years of her life wasted on a cheater. If that is ok with you and your friends then fine for you all, sana nga maranasan mo pa more. Don't expect others to be like you because to be honest you have no right to say you are better than her. Marites ka lang po, you do not know 99 percent of what happened between them.
DeleteJam is bitter and evil. What she did to Maris will haunt her forever. People will forget this scandal just like the others. Maris is talented. She can sing and act. Yung ex mo is just starting. Bread winner pa naman si no read no write di ba...
DeleteYou all have the right to react and be mad and hurt. But it does not excuse you from any liability from your actions.
ReplyDeleteAgree. Now she’ll have her own karma for this.
DeleteDid she even excuse herself from any liability from her actions? Rekta mo kay Maris na magsampa ng kaso o kaya umpisahan mo ang petition to take her liable. Jusko.
DeleteSame kina A and M. Napahiya sila ngayon dahil sa ginawa nila.
DeleteSo, ano ang point mo? If you can't offer the Victim any assistance... why point that? Para matakot mag-salita pag na-argabyado?
DeleteWala naman uurungan si Jam maski ikaw pa mag demande ghorl
Delete10:25, Maris & Anthony have to deal with the repercussions of their actions. Unfortunately for them, Jam isn’t a doormat. You can’t hurt a person & demand how a person react from it.
DeleteSa totoo lang. Shes still suffering . Hurt na hurt parin talaga si ate mo girl. I can’t blame her. Maybe yung pa splook niya ng mga Screenshot na yun its her only way ilabas lahat ng pain nararamdaman niya. Ubos na ubos na siya e. I’m For sure bago niya yun ginawa alam na niya mangyayari and she consulted a lawyer too. Kasi medyo maayos ang pag kwento niya in detail pa. Wala siya sinabi din ill sa kanila dalawa. Anyway, I’m praying For her healing same goes kay Anthony and Maris. Haaay ang pagsubok nga naman sa bahay no? Iba iba talaga tayo kwento ng life. But this year 2024 is very so hard din For me ang dami ganap sana maging maayos ang 2025 natin lahat.
ReplyDeleteLesson learned ito din na pag alam mo ng mali ay mali wag mo na ituloy. At mag delete kasi! Hahaha Joke lang
Mas malala ang babae magcheat. Lalaki matatanggap mo pa kasi lalaki lang sila pero pag babae ibang usapan na yun. Unforgivable pag babae magloko.
ReplyDeletePeople deal with pain differently and crucifying her for doing such because the other parties got so much hate and “lost” their careers is unfair. In the first place, they should not have cheated. They brought it upon themselves. You reap what you sow. What is legal does not necessarily mean it’s moral and morality should always have more bearing over what’s legal.
ReplyDeleteLahat ng tao nasasaktan. Tao lang tayo, nakakaramdam ng pain. Pero hindi lahat ng nasasaktan gumaganti. Walang happiness sa pagganti. Kaya pala sabi sa Bible revenge is mine…. Wag gumanti. Maling gumanti. Surrender to God dapat. Siya ang bahala. Choose to be good always.
ReplyDeleteJam, valid na nasaktan ka, nainis ka pero hindi valid na nagpost ka ng private convo, that is punishable by law, hindi valid manira ka ng buhay kase nasaktan ka. Kung lhat ng taong nasaktan sa mundo eh gaganyi at mananakit din anong klaseng buhay at mundo meron tayo?
ReplyDeleteYung iba dito ayaw daw nila ginawa ni J kasi masyadong vindictive pero gusto nila mag-file si M ng kaso para daw makaganti. Where’s the logic?
ReplyDelete10:54. Nag sorry na si Maris, masaya na si Jam? Nung nag post si Jam ng mga texts messages, nag isip muna ba siya ng logic bago siya ng post, hindi di ba? You cannot destroy a person's life and source of living and just get away with it.
DeleteWait sa sue ni M .sana M will really sue kasi gagawin ng ibang mag labas ng private contents .tapos lalong wala ng privacy. Kahit nasaktan dapat lumayo ka na at may gut feeling ja na pala . Baka dahil sikat ka ngayon at mag artists ka na ha
ReplyDeleteWe really can’t wait for M to sue para makita niyo mga fantards kung gano kalala ang idol niyong starlet. When probing comes in, there will be more info to come out about her.
DeletePush niyo pa mag sue idol niyo, so she can have a dose of her own medicine!
Alam mo naman ginagawa mo at kung ano mangyayari noong nag post ka. Enjoy your 5 minutes of fame.
ReplyDeleteyan ganyan mga comment nyo tards ang lalo nagffuel sa iba na kaasaran yan idolet nyo lol
DeleteAyan na ang mga tagapagtanggol ni Maris! Sunud sunod na yung pangbabato ng sisi kay Jam.
ReplyDeleteDapat kasuhan sya ng camp ni M
ReplyDeleteThen go para lalo syang mapahiya haha
DeleteNapahiya na nga at sirang sira na wala na din atang natira so much better magkaso na nga lang since wala namn na mawawala sa kanya
Delete12:03. Ano pang mangyari ke Maris eh napahiya na siya di ba? Kasuhan na yan. Bitter na pathetic pa.
DeleteI am not enabling the cheating. Ive been cheated on before too wvem nyy husband so I know the pain and anger. But I also hope you get to face the consequences of what youve done, ruining their lives just because youve been heartbroken. They should file legal case against you. Patas na kayo after that.
ReplyDeleteSigurado ka na naloko ka before? Hindi ka nabaliw kakaisip? Hindi mo naiisip na kasama lang kanina nung ex mo yung babae nya tapos maya maya hihiga katabi mo? Hindi ba kagalit galit yun? Ganyan sakin at naiintindihan ko yang galit at puot na meron si Jam ngayon. I would ruin the life of my ex and his mistress too sa paraang alam ko kung ganyan ako kagaling maghanap ng ebidensya. Private na individual lang kami kaya I'll do it privately. Nagkataon artista yang mga yan kaya may ingay. Hindi ko sya masisisi. Napakasakit lokohin at bumangon sa trauma ng panloloko.
Delete“just because” bat ba paladesisyon kayo sa feelings ng iba. Kung sa inyo kebs lang maloko well sa iba hindi ganun.
DeleteKarapatan mong magalit sa ex mo. Pero sana sa susunod hwag mo nang idadamay at gamitin ang buong Pilipinas sa galit mo.
ReplyDeleteDi naman e. Tayo may interes sa business nila. Nakikialam lang din tayo haha
DeleteTrue nakahanap sya ng kakampi sa social media na dapat private na lang nya sinettle
DeleteHmmm ayaw mo madamay pero nakimarites ka. Ikaw naman itong may kagagawan ng binibintang mo. Personal posts po niya yan, nakitsismis lang tayo. Tayo yung nagpakalat niyan sa buong pinas.
DeleteWow naman mga comment dito na Cheater Apologist/Protectors and Victim Blamers!!! Kawawa talaga mga Victims (ke sa cheating, rape, etc). Sila pa talaga ang trinatratong putik pag lumaban. Mga taong tulad nyo ang rason kung bakit lalong nabibiktkma ang mga Victims.
ReplyDeleteTotoo! Bakit tayo nagvivictim shame? Turuan natin lumaban at bumangon yung mga inaapi. Di pwedeng martyrdom tayong mga naloko. Matuto tayong panagutin yung mga nangagrabyado satin. No to bullying victims. No to protecting cheaters.
DeleteSometimes revenge is not the best response to the pain. There are times that the more you hurt the one you loved, it would pain you more. Letting go is the best option and let karma deal with them. No guilt feelings on your side.
ReplyDeleteYea, sometimes pero in this scenario, it is. Imagine kung nanahimik lang sya, araw araw syang pinuputakte ng nga bashers habang sya kinakain ng lungkot at trauma? You have no right to tell someone to let it. Kung ganun ka kamartyr edi go, pero wag mo ipush yang ideology mo sa ibang tao. For some revenge is the only way para magka peace of mind. Eye for an eye.
DeleteTo each his/her own. Ikaw yan. Wag mo siya utusan. If she wants to cope that way, let her. The situation she was placed in by both M & A and their fans led her to do what she has to do. Clearly the pain she is feeling because she was cheated upon is more painful, thus the exposΔ.
DeleteThat is true but people need time to heal and let go. Add mo pa na dinadagdagan ng mga bashers yung sugat.
DeleteNot everyone can just immediately respond well to such situations.
She became their karma. Why wait kung pwede naman na ngayon nila harapin karma nila.
DeleteIf only di sya binash and hinamon ng mga fantards and gave her the peace of mind to recover from the trauma that your cheater idol did, edi sana di siya na provoke.
DeleteWag masyado blind followers and don’t idolize people with low morals!
Honestly, may peace of mind ka ba sa ginawa mong paghihiganti?
ReplyDelete11:12 eh yung mga cheaters, may peace of mind ba? hubad na hubad ang pagkatao nila lalo na si maris dahil sa mga messages nya. yuck!
DeleteOpo. Mas nakakatulog na ako ng mahimbing. Sana kayo rin. π
DeleteNone. But she did what she had to, to cope.
DeleteI doubt she had peace of mind even before that sa dami ng mga nangbabash. That to me is a consequence of anger, not an intentional paghihiganti. Stop trying to make her feel guilty. People like you pretend to be better but what you are doing is also a form of gaslighting.
Deletehate cheating kasi experienced it first hand…it hurts. but it is a blessing in disguise na hindi pa bound by marriage. Happier now and it’s all in the past. Sana maka move on si J ng tahimik and in perfect time. Matagal din ang 7 years.
ReplyDeleteyes, praying for her. and seven years is indeed very long.
DeleteWow! Mga hypocrites iba dito. For sure if hindi nya nahuli tuloy lang ung 2 sa panggaga#o sa kanya. Paano naman ung mental health nya? Tapos sasabihin nyo na sinira career nung isa? Eh may isip na yun at Alam nya consequences ng mga actions nya. Inis talaga ako sa mga cheaters.
ReplyDeleteYou are delusional if you think that's love.
ReplyDeleteThat was a repost of what she posted before the exposure ng chats. Yes, a person can love and be devastated afterwards and lose that real love. That is not delusional cause it was posted at a time when she was still trying to keep what happened to herself. Kaya siya sumabog later on.
DeleteValid ang nararamdaman mo but that does not give you the right to destroy other people's life. When you are angry, your judgment is clouded but put yourself in other person's shoe, as well. I have a couple of friends whose husbands have cheated on them, both were married more than 10 years and have kids. What they did was confront their husbands first, then the woman and talked to their husbands' family members to inform them of the cheating. But never nag-iskandalo. Bigyan din ng dignidad ang sarili at wag magpakababa na nagmumukhang desperada. Living well and doing better in life is the best revenge.
ReplyDelete11:19 What right do you have to tell her how she should feel and what she should have done? Her experience and feelings are different from yours and your friends' experiences. You and your friends probably didn't get all the bashing like she did. She is not in showbiz like Maris and Anthony. She didn't deserve that. Constant bashing can ruin a person's mental health. So, to compare other people's story to hers is unfair and unnecessary.
DeleteThey don't have the right to hurt her as well. So quits lang. Tigilan nyo na kaka gaslight kay Jam. Friends mo yun. Kung kayo ganto ganyan, pwes kayo yun. Wag nyong ipilit sa iba yung trip nyo. Kahit mangisay pa kayo sa inis jan, she did what she thought was best for her and her brother. Magkaiba yung sitwasyon nyo, hangga't hindi ka nagkakaroon ng partner na artista na may malaking fan base, namatayan ng magulang, at binabash ng fans ng ex-boyfriend mo habang nagmomove on from 7-year-relationship, e shut up ka nalang muna. Dignidad? Sabihin mo yan kay M, hindi yung mas galit ka pa sa unang naargabyado. Okay ka pa ba? Kaya walang sense of accountability si M dahil sa mga kagaya mong humahanap ng way so they can get away with it. Iba talaga mindset ng supporters ni M.
DeleteThey are kids! Wala pa sila sa level of maturity ng mga kaibigan mo. That's how they know to resolve issues now. Digital. She wants to grab the hair of the girl and take her down. So she did, digitally.
DeleteSo yun cheaters walang sinirang buhay. pakisagot teh
Deletewe dont know the real story but I do believe na sinabihan ni A si M na single na siya kahit hindi naman pala. Bolero mga kalalakihan ghorls. Nadaan sa words si M, siguro ang usapan makipagbreak sila both sa kanilang partners which M did but A didn’t.
ReplyDeleteEven tito boy na matagal na sa showbiz industry hindi naniniwala sa statement nyang yun. π€£ But regardless, they still both cheated. Nung time na naglandian sila, alam nyang may jowa pa si A. Like hello? The girl admitted he cheated on Rico. π₯΄
DeleteThat was just paawa at damage control. No I do not believe for once that she did know at all na committed pa rin si guy. M does not look that s2pid to me but she does come as a flirt to me, even before that chat was exposed.
DeleteIt’s okay to be angry but it’s not okay to be mean.
ReplyDeleteYes. And utterly malicious and full of spite. Unpopular opinion but I believe she acted the worst out of all of them.
DeleteI do not see it as being mean as being mean is being intentional in hurting others. Hers is just a reaction and an exposure of the truth of the pain she was carrying. She was trying to contain it but it blew up when she cannot hold it in anymore.
DeleteWow. So we’re defending the cheaters over the girlfriend? What she did might be distasteful but get off your high horse. We don’t know the pain she’s been through. She didn’t need to share the ss but the girlfriend is the REAL victim here.
ReplyDeleteTruth. Let's not victim shame. Let's not make her feel guilty.
DeleteShe will regret what she did and will also haunt her forever, all of them will be affected forever
ReplyDelete11:26 I don't think so. If I have one regret na sana ginawa ko dati sa cheater kong ex eh sana in-expose ko sya sa lahat ng kilala namin. Imagine, he cheated on me, he abused me sa lahat ng pwedeng paraan pero nung naghiwalay kami ako pa ang pinalabas nyang masama sa lahat. Sana hindi ako nanahimik. Pero natakot kasi ako na sabihin ng iba wala akong class pag nagpost ako sa social media kaya nanahimik na lang ako at hinayaang mahusgahan ng iba. I admire Jam for having the courage to expose the cheating ex boyfriend and the malanding 3rd party at mapahiya ang mga bashers na nagsabing delusional at desparate lang sya.
DeleteI doubt that.
DeleteYou don't know that at di ka si madame auring. Wag kang paladesisyon. The only thing I regret in life is ndi ko nagawa yang ginawa nya. π€£ I doubt she'll regret it. Hahahahahaha mainis kayo forever.
Delete11:26 I 2nd the motion. I am not for cheating. I bet M was made to believe by A na hihiwalayan si J kaya nga nakipagbreak si M kay RB. Time heals all the pain pati anger, I doubt din if the ex will have peace of mind after what she has done. Ang isang mali ay hindi maitatama ng isang pang maling gawain.
DeleteI for one never see the point of regretting something that is already done. So no, if she is wise she will not regret it and just move on.
DeleteSana i-demanda si Jam for cyber crime at civil lawsuit for loss of income ni Maris. I doubt Anthony will file cases.
ReplyDeleteIt's so easy to say na mali yung ginawa nya kung di mo pa na experience yung ginawa sa kanya. For me tama lang yung ginawa nya. People should learn they can't just get away with wrongdoings without consequences or retaliation from others. At least ngayon pare pareho na sila ng feelings. May ka share na si Jam sa hinagpis nya.
ReplyDeleteKagagawan ni Maris at Anthony kaya nawalan sila ng endorsements. Don't blame Jam. They should blame themselves for being irresponsible. Buti nga sa kanila.
ReplyDeleteWow sa comments above. I hope you won’t experience this kind of disrespect in your whole lifetime. Easier said than done.
ReplyDeleteHindi lang siya ang nasaktan at naloko. Maraming nakakarelate sa kanyang experience even ako. Pero, hindi naman ako umabot sa part na maghiganti at sirain ang dating karelasyon at nakapalibot sa kanya. Akala mo kasi nakaganti ka talaga, pero may balik din yan.
ReplyDeleteLaw is law. There is No excuse.
ReplyDeleteMas maganda yung nag move on ka na lang with grace kesa yung ginawa mo ngayon. Isang araw, pagsisisihan mo yung ginawa mo. Or even soon. Di rin malinis konsensya mo sa ginawa mo.
ReplyDeleteExactly! Her hands are dirty na din.
DeleteShe mainly wants to ruin Maris not Anthony…mas hate nila si girl sa social media. What i dont understand bakit alam na pala niya ang nangyayari di man lang niya sinita yung dalawa at bakit may access sa phone nung lalaki? Minsan gusto ng maniwala dun sa sinabi ni john arcilla na pinag planuhan nila si Maris.
ReplyDeleteNgi hindi mo nagets point ni heneral. Yung guy lang ang tingin nya ang may masamang plano talaga sa dalawang babae.
DeleteJam - wag mo pansinin mga nega comments. if the same thing happened to this commenters, I bet they wouldve done the same. The trauma of being cheated on is real and what you do with it is your own choice. It may not be the best but if it will help alleviate a bit of all the pain it caused you, then you do what you want to do. Maris and Anthony may come out of it and get over this and do better, but the impt thing was that the truth was put out there and acknowledged.
ReplyDeleteHindi ako fan ni M, A or ng love team nila. Ang baduy nng love team sa true lang. Pero pansin ko grabe ang galit ng tao kay M ha? Gets ko na nagcheat sya pero parang di naman yata justified ang tindi ng galit sa kanya? Kulang na lang magdala ng torch at pitchfork sa ginawa ni M at natutuwa pa sa mga misfortunes nya. Yung mga bashers kung makacomment parang wala bahid kasalanan at may sure ticket sa langit. Mas magalit kayo sa mga politicians na magnanakaw at 3 ang kabit. Pare-parehong may fault si M, A at J dito kaya walang karapatang magmalinis kahit sino sa kanila. Take note of the lessons learned na lang at move forward. Ganun talaga ang life, it is never fair but that does not mean you should be unkind.
ReplyDeleteKung talagang mabait toh dapat sinabihan nya muna si Maris na tigilan ang BF nya. Dapat may communication sakanila. Tutal nakita nya na mga messages dapat kinausap na nya si Maris.
ReplyDeleteWow ang dami mong dapat ganito dapat ganyan. Wag pala desisyon te. Sya yung niloko sya pa dapat mag adjust?
DeleteI don’t like cheating but I sure do not like what she did as well. Willing sya manira ng buhay at pangarap ng family kahit wala ng kinalaman sa personal issues nila. Who reads PMs anyways?? High schools?
ReplyDeleteMabait pa nga yan haha kung sakin ginawa yan baka nagkapisikalan pa π
ReplyDeleteNag camp ata dito yung mga fans nung loveteam haha. Remember, dahil sa mga ginawa niyo kaya na trigger siyang mag posts ng screenshots.
ReplyDeletePero in the first place, wala namang screenshots pag walang land!an.
Gusto ata ng medal and awards na mas gugustuhin nilang maging doormat and martyr kesa i pagtanggol ang sarili.
DeleteSa panahon ngayon, "take care of yourself, defend yourself first" bago isipin ang kapakanan ng mga traydor at mga nanakit sayo.
We don’t owe anyone who hurt us. Kahit forgiveness pwedeng ipagdamot at wag pilitin ang sarili na ibigay.
Ito na yung cleaning team. Itatanim na sa utak natin na mali si jam. Napaka detailed ng strategy to make linis linis the kalat of M.
ReplyDeleteNagkalat nga sila. Overtime pa nga yung iba.
DeleteI’m sure di sya masaya.
ReplyDeleteThis is all part of the consequences of your actions, M. Gumawa ka ng masama, di mo na kontrolado ang balik sayo nyan. Nanakit ka ng tao, nasaktan sya at nagalit. Yan ang reaction nya. Di sya artista, binash sya ng fans mo. Naloko na nga, nainsulto pa, sobrang provocation na yun. Di ko gets kung bakit kinukumpara kay K. ArtΔ±Εta si K, super sikat pa, nasa kanya lahat ng simpatya. Eh si J hindi artista, ginulo nyo buhay nya.
ReplyDeleteCheating is bad but you are also not a good person.
ReplyDeleteShe will never regret what she did... for her peace of mind let her.. mgnda un pra ma expose kalandian ni marisparot at unt ex..wat tlrte sng cheating kaya mdming babae ang naaabuso dhl pnpili manahimik.. salute to jam...at maris galingan m pa scripit m now laglagan n gnwa m s nilandi m hahahaha.
ReplyDeleteMay karapatan kang magalit at expose mo ginawa nila sa iyo. Now that they were exposed at lugmok na sa kahihiyan. Dahil sa tingin mo tama ginawa mo. Hiwag ka din magagalit kung mag file sila ng case sa iyo kasi karapatan din nila yun.
ReplyDeleteActually yang quote mo na yan is pwede na yan to expose them katulad ng iba mga cryptic post pero nah you are not a saint you really want to destroyed Maris dahil sa galit mo.
If babae sa babae sana kinausap mo si Maris noong nag kakahinala ka which mostly everyone would do. Pero pag nagtuloy pa din sila that would be the time to do what you want.
If babae to babae sana sya nirespeto ni M hindi to aabot sa ganito. Wag mo ilipat yung sisi sa biktima ng panloloko ng idol mo. Sya pa dapat mag adjust ganun?
DeleteAt oo naging masaya xa s ginawa nta kc nrmdaman dn ng dlwa ang pinaramdam s knya now alm n nila anu pkrmdam dpt noon p kumilos ung dlwa. Kaluka go jam...tama nga c tito boy ei hahahaha
ReplyDeleteAlam niyo kung ano ang naging problema bukod sa cheating? Yung rabid fans nina Anthony at Maris. Kahit noong panahon na sila pa, habang tahimik lang sa sidelines si ex, may mga fans na walang pakundangan at walang mga moralidad na nagsasabing, “Sana mag-cheat na lang si Anthony sa’yo.”
ReplyDeleteNang mangyari nga ang cheating at nalaman na ni ex, nagsimula siyang mag-post ng mga cryptic messages sa social media. Biglang lumabas ang mga rabid fans, kesyo gawa-gawa lang ni ex ang lahat at wala naman siyang resibo. Bawat galaw ni ex sa social media, binabantayan nila — todo bash, at hindi pa nakuntento pati pamilya ni ex dinamay pa.
Siyempre, fresh pa ang breakup, at 7 years yun, normal lang na mag-emo si girl. Dapat hinayaan na lang siya ng mga fans pero hindi eh, pinilit nilang i-harass siya hanggang mapuno siya. Kaya nung di na kinaya, inilabas niya ang mga resibo.
Ngayon, kasalanan pa rin ni ex? Kasalanan pa rin niya kung paano niya hinandle ang sakit? Siya pa rin ang may kasalanan sa cyberbullying at slut-shaming na nangyayari dahil lang hindi siya marunong mag-move forward? Like, hello? Nasaan na ang moral compass niyo? Kinain na ba kayo ng mga love teams na ‘yan?
Nakakalungkot na sobrang lulong na ang mga Pinoy sa pagiging panatiko.
I'm not defending M and A. What they did was wrong. But Jam could have shown a little grace and kindness.
ReplyDeleteDid they show her that? No! Bakit sya pa dapat mag adjust?
DeleteI am glad that jam exposed them. go Girl
ReplyDeleteSana man lang nag sorry si M dito. Eh nag sorry sya sa fans nya. No remorse at all.
ReplyDeleteNakahanap si Maris ng katapat
ReplyDeleteOmg ha!!! Kung kayo serious sa pagpromote ng mental health ng mga babaeng naloko. Magtayo na kayo ng organisasyon.
ReplyDeleteBe kind, the world needs peace!
ReplyDeleteDi naman siya vindicated. She will be forever known for doing this.
ReplyDeletemga alagad ng PR team nagkalat, tapos bina bash din nila tito Boy sa X. okay lang din yang ginawa ni Jam para matuto yang mga cheaters.
ReplyDeleteHindi sila kasal. If the guy cheats, dinsila para sa isa’ isa kay Mag move on na sya.
ReplyDeleteHonestly di ako naaawa kay M and A. Dasurv nila yung nangyari sakanila. Nang apak sila ng tao. Kesehodang private msg yan. Tama na pa martyr. Get even and help karma find its way. Yun mga nagsasabi nasira ni Jam yun life and career nung dalawa, oh well, they knew that right from the very beginning pag may nag leak. Kaya nga pinapa bura ni ate girl yung screenshots diba.
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