If Yasmien was not a public figure and did not bring this up in social media, walang gagawin ang school na yan. Pero sila ang may responsibilidad to make the child feel safe in their school.
Yo lawyers, nakakaamoy ba kayo ng lotlot na case kaya ganyan kayo kung makabanta? Nambubully naman ng magulang ng victim, ganern?!?
after reading the statement, tama lang din na nilabas ni yasmien sa public. they want to protect the privacy of the bullies but di prinotect yung student na binully sa school nila. may pa-shade pa na attention seeker si yasmien. pati school admin bully din!
Duh. Sure ka?? One sided ang story teh. So anything that she said 100% accurate na agad for you? Wag ka ng boboto ha please. I know these types of humans.
Hugas kamay at its finest! Mabuti nga public personality si Yasmien at kung hinde baka di nyo yan bigyan ng atensyon. Mambubully tapos takot ma embarass not only in CSA but in the eyes of the public!! Harapin nyo yan bullies and parents.
11:39 - the mere fact the Yasmin bought the issue to the attention of DepEd means that there is merit to the case. Of course there are two sides to the story, but do you think the bullied party will create that story to gain sympathy? At what expense? Are you some sort of a psychologist or mind reader to be able to judge character of certain types of people?
Parang mas ok pa yata na di na lang nila inaddress cause this is one of the worst statements ive ever read re: bullying. Imagine ikaw nanay and sinabihan kang wala namang bullying na nangyari, you just blew everything out of proportion. Meanwhile, andyan anak mo na visibly traumatized. Wtf
Nako CSA this is not how you make a statement. Dyan pa lang kita mo na may pinapaboran. From the onset daw walang bullying. How would they know? Kinausap ba nila yung anak ni Yasmin. May pasaring pa sa pagiging public figure.
Pwede naman nila sabihin na the school is against bullying and they are investigating what happened. That their primary concern is the welfare of the students. And all parents concerned are encouraged to have dialogue with the school and to protect the minors involved, we request all concerned to refrain from making public statements.
A Psych major, i had clinical cases with adults with mental issues who can still vividly remember those experiences years after, the names of the bullies, kung kelan nangyari at pano sila nabully.
Bullying is a very traumatic experience na pwde dalhin ng bata hangang sa l pagtanda niya kaya tama lang ginawa ni Yasmin sa case nato.
Sus coverup pa more CSA. Parang may kasalanan pa si Yasmien. Well I also dont know the whole story pero di naman mag popost ng ganun ang nanay kung trip nya lang at walng bullying na nangyari.
Ang babaw nyo gosh. One sided story pa lang yan nagkakaganyan na kayo??? Paano other students na binubully na din because of one starsturcker na nag bad mouth. Peoplr kelan ba kayong d magiging gullible?
11:41 ang dense mo gosh. bully ka rin cguro. u feel bad for the students na ngbully ng anak ni startrucker because they are getting the hate they deserve??? ok ka lang ba? ikaw kelan ka kaya di magiging ignorant?
It is actually a ray of light that people can express freely and voice out issues especially sa mga tao or entities that would like to have the issues be swept under the rug.
Eh sa wala daw action ang school. Walang ginagawa to mitigate the situation. Edi pinost sila... ngayon, let's see kung may new enrolees pa jan next school year!
Obvious naman na May pinagtatakpan ung school. Asa pa na aamin mga yan na May bullying na nangyayari. Ngaun kilala ung nagsumbong at nakapublic mas lalo nila pagtatakpan yan. Para naman ung anak lang ni Yasmien ang naging victim ng bullying sa school na yan. Nagkataon lang na si Yasmien lang nag lakas loob I-callout ang school sa nangyayari.
Sana mangyari sa yang nangyari kay Yasmien Tapos pag tagal Pam lang ng pasusumbungan mo ung nangyari. Tignan natin kung di ka Mapa social media ng Wala sa oras. Sa kaso ko baka tatahimik ka na lang Kahit kawawa ung bata.
Hahaha, mukhang may nanay ng isang bully ang nanginginig na. 😂 Humanda ka antih kasi social media era na baka mapangalanan kayo na mga walang kwentang parents kasi mga bully ang mga anak. 😝
Kaya nga db! Babaliktarin pa yung victim ng bully dahil walang Akyson ang school dahil duwag sila sa mga magulang na mayayaman ng bully!!! Lalabas pa na purkit inexpose ang bullying ng mga bata, sha pa may kasalanan. Ang kakapal tlga. Naturingan pang catholic school tapos ganyan
Wala naman sinabing name or picture ng mga alleged nambully bkit sila sobrang affected? Maybe affected sila kase sila natitira sa maling paghandle nila. Never tolerate a bully. Paglaki nyan mas malala pa ang kayang gawin sa kapwa. It can ruin lives. Mind you
True! As a parent, kung may way din ako dumirecho sa pinakataas, gagawin ko. Sinisira lang lalo ng school na to sarili nila with the statement their lawyers made.
Hindi ba mga madre nagpapatakbo nyan? Maawa kayo sa mga victims ng bullying hindi nyo ba alam ang trauma na dulot nito? Never akong kakampi sa bully khit bata pa yan. Bullying means may intent, may full plan to torture the victim. Bata pa lang putulin na sungay nyan or else magkakabuntot pa yan.
Yes ganyan kadalasan sa mga private schools, especially Catholic schools. They protect their image instead of the victim. Mas malala pa noong wala pang social media, the school admins act like gods.
Hndi nyo pinakinggan si Yasmin and her daughter, tapos kayo pa ang may gana mang utos na kausapin kayo?! For what?! Igagaslight nyo ulit sila?! Jusko, nope
This is a serious issue and allegation kaya mainam na naglabas na ng official statement ang school. What Yasmien is doing is a natural emotional reaction. Pero tama ang school, this would have a negative impact not only sa mga batang involved but to her daughter na din. She's using her celebrity status to get sympathy from the public. She has already painted a negative image of the other children even though hindi natin alam yung side nila. Unfair sa kabilang side kasi if ever mag-post sila to defend themselves, hindi naman mapopost sa mga sites gaya ng FP. Cases like this should be handled by proper authority like the school. Kung hindi naayos ng school, escalate to DEPED. Then last option should be the court.
Exactly. One side alam natin nangjudge na agad. Sana d lahat binobroadcast, it really doesnt help anyone. Siguro makakuha sya ng public sympathy but would that really help her daughter?
Madami ng nabully dyan. Based sa statement gusto nilang manahimik na lang ang nabully. Ikaw kaya makita mo effect sa anak mo tapos yung sch ikakatwiran child fight lang. For sure ganyan ginawaga nila palagi. Pinapatahimik ang victim kaya hinde natitigil yang bullying na yan
No. Mali ang school at mali ang bully. Hindi lang isang instance na may ginawa sa anak niya. If the bullying was not tolerated, walang post sa social media. Obvious naman na may kinakatigan yung school. And wala naman pinost na pangalan si Yasmien… sa anak lang niya. So what’s there to defend? kung magdedefend ka na di ka naman pinangalanan, guilty ka. Pera ang sinasampal ng kabilang kampo, publicity naman yung kay Yasmien. In this war, you just have to play your strong suit. And both sides are playing it well.
Exactly! Bullying accusation is very serious should not be taken lightly. Look at what Yasmien did, halos lahat ng commenters panig na agad sa kanya kase artista sya kahit wala tayong alam sa totoong nangysri, Hindi patas ang laban. Dapat may proper venue ito hindi socmed.
8:34 kung maka No ka naman. Mali ang school at mali ang bully dahil yun ang sabi ni Yasmien? If there was really bullying that happened, na hindi lang basehan ang opinyon at emosyon ni Yasmien, AGAIN, it should be handled by the PROPER AUTHORITY at hindi sa social media. Kung hindi talaga gumawa ng tamang hakbang ang school, she can always escalate the matter to DEPED or court. Hirap sa inyo ni 7:57, dahil sinabi lang ni ganito sa social media, papaniwalaan niyo agad.
dapat malakas ang ebidensya ninyo to say that bullying happened hindi kwento pang, mas maganda maglabas ng cctv or video recording para maniwala ang mga tao
Iyong nagsabing let the authority do their job at di na isocial media... girl sa US kahit bullying walang ginagawa authority. Nakukuha lang nang mga nabully ang justice after ito mapost sa social media at manews sa local news nila. Kaya kapag walang ginagawa ang school administations dapat sinosocial media. Kaya nga sumikat si tulfo dahil naging boses siya nang mga hinaharass nang mga tao sa gobyerno.
I don't think gagawa ng ingay si Yasmien kung walang bullying na nangyari. Nanay sya. She will do everything to protect her child. Hindi sya ganun ka-rich and ka-powerful kaya siguro hindi sya kinakatigan ng school.
At the same time, nanay sya so naturally kakampihan nya anak nya. Very one sided ang view nya. Not saying walang bullying na nangyari, but my point is hindi dapat magreact ang public sa mga bagay na wala naman tayo alam talaga or hindi naman tayo involved. Should be between the parties involved.
let the school handle the situation since this incident happened inside the school, so the school rules about bullies will prevail. Pero kung di masaya si Yasmin sa school na yan, get out of the school.
7:59 Yasmien was told to back-off by one of the parents. Tingin mo they're willing to talk peacefully with Yasmien and admit their children's wrong doings?
Bullys should be punished! No protection dapat regardless if they are minors. The parents should be mindful and be responsible enough to remind their kids ALWAYS! Dapat alam ng kids as early as kinder na may consequences ang pang bu-bully. If walang punishments hindi matututo ang mga bata. SALOT ang mga bullys and yes galit ako sa kanila.
na bully din ako nung elementary at college... pero rational pa din ako mag isip... ang experience ko sa mga bullies ay manipulative sila... ikaw pa pagmumukhaing masama... kaya dapat talaga discerning at may takot sa Diyos yung hahawak ng kaso... di pwede one-sided
Ni hinde nga nag mention ng sch si yasmine nalaman pa tuloy. Ska baket parang kasalanan pa ng nanay ng nabully? Kinukusinto mga bullies sa sch yuck!! Pang mayaman na sch bulok na sistema. Gusto manahimik lang ang victim kaya lalo dumadami ang bully dahil sa ganyang gusto eh manahimik na Lan
Ms. Kurdi’s actions—even if done in good faith - inevitably affect the students complained of, who, needless to say, are also minors. If Ms. Kurdi does not cease her aggressive behavior, she may be accused of the very act she is complaining of—abusing her power (influence)/bullying.
The prudent action that she should have taken was to file a complaint and allow school to investigate.
Madami din kasi mayayaman dyan sa school na yan kaya hindi kaya ng school yung power ng parents. Hirap ang school lalo na pag powerful ang family ng bully.
Kinampihan pa ung mga bully. Kadiri tong school nato. Dapat no bullying policy Yan. How can parents feel that their children are safe there? Boycott csa
Who wrote this official statement? The school or the lawyers? It is riddled with grammatical errors. Wala bang nag proofread nito. CSA is an exclusive school in Dasmarinas Village Makati that charges students thousands in tuition fees and this is what they come up with? First sentence pa lang: an incident among minor students have been. Dapat HAS hindi HAVE. Also -- blown out in the public? Such awkward wording. Second sentence: At the outset. Shouldn't it be from the outset? ang daming run on sentences. Poor word choices. For such an important announcement it is badly written.
Letterhead ng lawyer so it’s not the school. I chose CSA for my child’s education 30 years ago. Yung principal na pari naka Rolex 😃 the school has high tuition fees so the kids should not only have the best educational experience but also feel safe in that environment.
Yun letter lakas maka bully. Tsk tsk. Sa mga parents na can afford, please stay away from this school. Clearly, they show their stand on bullying and it’s a big red flag.
Lol, may pinangalanan b si yasmien? Itong school na to malamang tolerated ang bullying kaya gnyan ang response. Ni pangalan nga ng school wala nmn binaggit si yasmien.
Leave the school and transfer to a better environment. It's the best option. CSA appears to victim blame. Baka shareholders or influential ang bullies. Buti na lang famous ang mommy ng victim nila and her voice can be heard through her platform.
I cannot with this school. It seems they fully blamed Yasmin and denied her claims of bullying. Ilipat mo nlng anak mo Yasmin. Instead of addressing this issue, parang tino tolerate pa nila. Purya gaba oi.
Hays, dahil sa statement nila parang mas naniniwala ako kay yasmien. Apaka defensive eh. I dont think na magpopost sa socmed si yasmien if may ginawang action ang school.
The school is downplaying the issue now I understand bakit umabot sa point na need nya makipag usap sa Dep ED secretary. The school asked the lawyers to draft a statement but these lawyers doesnt live with the child 24/7 itis the parents who will see the after effects. The school shouldve allowed guidance counselor and 3rd party independent child psychiatrist/psychologists to deal with the issue. Mental health is not visible to lawyers they only see what is legal abd not legal. I think the school os trying to invalidate the feelings of the child it is disappointing.
ok?! so you believe Yasmien because what? Shes the celebrity that you can relate to? did you know what really happened? Let her take it to DepEd if she wants to but reserve judgement muna.
mahirap walang ebidensya aside from Yasmin complaining on social media. Walang cctv or anything aside from the stories. wala bang ibang witness ng bullying?
8:38 people will believe yasmien because this is not the first time the school has been involved in prior bullying incidents. Yasmien did not even mention the school nor the identities of the students. Isa ka siguro sa bully parents.
7:38 PM - Pwede din the opposite. She felt like a Kris A or Manny P because artista sya and expected the same privileges. And maybe this sense of entitlement also extended to the kid. Large scale bullying where most people in the school hate just that one one kid is actually unusual sa schools natin. At some point, other kids will step in. The narrative seems strange na walang friends ung bata who defended her. Not saying the kid deserves to be bullied for being entitled - if this were the case - but I also get a sense that Yasmien is not forthcoming will ALL the details on how the situation escalated to what it is now. I think there should be more to the story than just Yasmien's kid being bullied by evil kids and the evil kids are protected by the evil school admin period which is pretty much Yasmien's narrative.
Inuna kasi ni Yasmin ang pagpost sa social media before actually exhausting all the remedies she can avail of. Besides, CSA has always been considered weak academically compared to other private schools within the same market positioning - if you know, you know. Compared to the better schools in the same market positioning, most CSA grads do not pass ACET and UPCAT. She can transfer her child to a better school literally.
I have cousins who went to San Agustin, or CSA. The school's reputation is that among exclusive Catholic schools ( La Salle, Ateneo, Poveda, ICA, Xavier), CSA tends to be more lenient, not as strict when it comes to taking disciplinary actions against students who are viewed as troublemakers. With other schools, one or two strikes, you're out, no matter who your parents are. Also, in terms of academics, schooling in CSA is viewed as "easier" than in La Salle, Ateneo, Poveda, etc. Entrance tests are much more rigorous in those other schools. It's easier to get into CSA. Rich kids who get kicked out or drop out from the "harder" Catholic schools (either because of grades or disciplinary issues) transfer to CSA. Because of its location (near Forbes Park and in Dasmarinas) a lot of mestizo families (the original cono families) would send their kids to San Agustin. Soccer was very big in CSA, as well as swimming. If your child is into sports, send him to CSA. Children of military officials also go to CSA, since it's located near Fort Bonifacio.
1258 pagisipan mong mabuti ang sinasabi mo..i was bullied before and believe me no one will ever stand up for u not because u dont have friends but they are equally scared na sila naman ang mapaginitan ng bullies for helping..i was bullied by most of the girls in my section and my friends just stood there and watch as I read letters upon letters of hurtful words..u will never understand the feeling unless ikaw na ung nandun sa situation na un..ang masakit pa nyan instead na paniwalaan ka bandang huli ikaw pa ang lalabas na mali which is whats happening now..ang sad lang that at this time and age there are still people like u who condone bullying!..
Sabi ko nga di pwede natalo ang anak mo sa arguement, na “bully” na agad. Hindi dahil hindi nasunod ang gusto mo, bully na agad yung mga taong against sa yo. Please dont take bullying lightly on both sides. Kelangan malaman ang reason ng di pagkakasundo. Baka may behavioral issues din na kailangan i-address. Hindi natin alam ang true story dahil si Yasmien lang ang kumukuda.
Alam mo hindi rin kasi maganda na pinaguusapan yung tao at calling out names just the same as ayaw nilang matawag na bully. Kahit hindi nagkakasundo hindi tama gumawa ng group para bash yung isang tao. Kahit pa sa circle lang nila. Alam mo yung pelikulang MEAN GIRLS??? it’s the same banana
BTW tommorow na makipag usap si Yasmien kay DepEd Sec. Sonny Angara...titignan natin ang kalabasan..ngayon pa sila naglabas ng statement signed by Lawyers pa, yingnan natin pag Government na ang Magsasalita...away bata pero yung magulang mismo ng bata pa nagsabi na Back Off..
Utot nito. Kung hindi celebrity ang nanay, for sure walang statement. They denied na nabully ung anak, na parang walang nangyari, doon palang kadiri na ang school
Kung di umaray ang nanay di gumawa ng official statement ang school. Buti na nga lang at anak ng isang celebrity ang biktima, paano yung anak ng di kilalang tao, tahimik lang ang school? Yes involve ang mga minors dito, pero dapat isipin ng school na bullying happens in all ages be it minors or adults. But what we can't deny that bullying has mental effect on the victim that why bullying is BIG NO. Pa victim naman itong school na ito..
Hugas kamay! Isa ito sa School na hinde ko papaaralin ang anak ko pag nag grade 1 siya. I also have friends na alumni diyan hinde din diyan Pinaaral mga anak nila
Nakaka sad mga tao dito paniwalang paniwala agad sa one sided story. Close b kayo on both camps to say accurate sinabi ni yasmin? Pwerke artista naniniwala n kayo agad??? Wala akong kinakampihan pero umay nag jump to conclusions na kayo agad.
The statement is done in bad taste. First, they invalidated mother's concerns. Second, they called out the mother of the bullied child. Hindi naman po subjective and definition ng bullying meron po sa batas natin yan. Even mere teasing is a form of bullying esp if it affects the child emotionally and mentally. The statement in itself is a form of bullying and victim-shaming! Fight them, Yas!
The question is, was the child stopped from taking her break and was forced to talk about the Christmas party? If yes, isn’t that bullying if she was forced by her classmates against her will?
dont get me wrong po pero gusto ko lng din makisawsaw na hindi din lahat na nagsasabi nabully sila is totoo may mga p vicitim or nasa phase sila na napaka sensitive nila
pwede big deal na sa knila o namimisinterpret na dumaan daw sa anxiety ang anak napcheckup na din kaya nia?
Heart Evangelista was a former CSA student too. She was also bullied. She would eat sa toilet because of bullying so nag home school na lang sya. Hanapin nyo na Lang online.
Dito din yung meron na ng viral na binugbog na bata sa CR ng school 2-3years ago yata.. grabe yung video. Consistent ang mga bullying incidents sa Csa. Good decision talaga not to enroll my kid there.
Good thing that YK brought it out in the open, well done! Expose ang school na hindi ginagawa ang part nila to address bullying, porket “sosyal” na school bawal i call out?! Bullying is bullying enough said
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Victim blaming at its finest. No wonder daming bullying in that school ever since.
ReplyDeleteIf Yasmien was not a public figure and did not bring this up in social media, walang gagawin ang school na yan. Pero sila ang may responsibilidad to make the child feel safe in their school.
DeleteYo lawyers, nakakaamoy ba kayo ng lotlot na case kaya ganyan kayo kung makabanta? Nambubully naman ng magulang ng victim, ganern?!?
true. mas maraming bullying sa mga high-end schools and kasi high-profile din mga parents, deadma din mga schools. thank you socmed!
DeleteTaga csa ba kayo to comment???
DeleteTrue
Deleteafter reading the statement, tama lang din na nilabas ni yasmien sa public. they want to protect the privacy of the bullies but di prinotect yung student na binully sa school nila. may pa-shade pa na attention seeker si yasmien. pati school admin bully din!
DeleteDuh. Sure ka?? One sided ang story teh. So anything that she said 100% accurate na agad for you? Wag ka ng boboto ha please. I know these types of humans.
DeleteHugas kamay at its finest! Mabuti nga public personality si Yasmien at kung hinde baka di nyo yan bigyan ng atensyon. Mambubully tapos takot ma embarass not only in CSA but in the eyes of the public!! Harapin nyo yan bullies and parents.
Delete11:39 Paulit ulit comment mo. Are you related to one of the bullies? Puro ka sure ka eh wala nga statement yung bullies to defend themselves.
Delete11:39 - the mere fact the Yasmin bought the issue to the attention of DepEd means that there is merit to the case. Of course there are two sides to the story, but do you think the bullied party will create that story to gain sympathy? At what expense? Are you some sort of a psychologist or mind reader to be able to judge character of certain types of people?
DeleteParang mas ok pa yata na di na lang nila inaddress cause this is one of the worst statements ive ever read re: bullying. Imagine ikaw nanay and sinabihan kang wala namang bullying na nangyari, you just blew everything out of proportion. Meanwhile, andyan anak mo na visibly traumatized. Wtf
DeleteThis is so sad. Imbis na protektahan nila yung na-bully mas nagsasave face pa sila. Baka mas malakas yung kabilang kampo.
DeleteNako CSA this is not how you make a statement. Dyan pa lang kita mo na may pinapaboran. From the onset daw walang bullying. How would they know? Kinausap ba nila yung anak ni Yasmin. May pasaring pa sa pagiging public figure.
DeletePwede naman nila sabihin na the school is against bullying and they are investigating what happened. That their primary concern is the welfare of the students. And all parents concerned are encouraged to have dialogue with the school and to protect the minors involved, we request all concerned to refrain from making public statements.
Nakakaloka. Victim blaming malala.
A Psych major, i had clinical cases with adults with mental issues who can still vividly remember those experiences years after, the names of the bullies, kung kelan nangyari at pano sila nabully.
DeleteBullying is a very traumatic experience na pwde dalhin ng bata hangang sa l pagtanda niya kaya tama lang ginawa ni Yasmin sa case nato.
12:48 looks like it. Kaya ayan, nambubully din dito yung feeling untouchablr na parent ng bully. Bandang huli pati sila susuwagin ng anak nilang brat
DeleteSus coverup pa more CSA. Parang may kasalanan pa si Yasmien. Well I also dont know the whole story pero di naman mag popost ng ganun ang nanay kung trip nya lang at walng bullying na nangyari.
ReplyDeleteyuck tong school na to
ReplyDeleteAng babaw nyo gosh. One sided story pa lang yan nagkakaganyan na kayo??? Paano other students na binubully na din because of one starsturcker na nag bad mouth. Peoplr kelan ba kayong d magiging gullible?
Delete11:41 true. Ang alam lang naman nila yung side ni YK. Di lahat ng problema kailangan ipost. My gosh
Delete11:41 ang dense mo gosh. bully ka rin cguro. u feel bad for the students na ngbully ng anak ni startrucker because they are getting the hate they deserve??? ok ka lang ba? ikaw kelan ka kaya di magiging ignorant?
DeleteMay point. Lahat nalang kasi pinopost sa socmed for all the world to see. Hinay hinay din minsan. Ginagawang sumbungan ang soc med eh.
ReplyDeleteShe reached out sa school and was dismissed kasi child fight lang daw. So di mo masisisi yan if she'll go all out to seek justice for her child.
DeleteNanay ng bully spotted. Free world and free speech po tawag dyan
DeleteIt is actually a ray of light that people can express freely and voice out issues especially sa mga tao or entities that would like to have the issues be swept under the rug.
DeleteTeh, may iilan akong nakitang post sa facebook feeds ko from ateneans na nagsasabing matagal na nangyayari sa CSA yan
DeleteIt could be a sign of desperation. Napagod na yung magulang. Nagkataon lang na yung magulang eh celevrity kaya nabigyan ng attention.
DeleteIt all boils down to a child being bullied and a school not doing anything about it.
Eh sa wala daw action ang school. Walang ginagawa to mitigate the situation. Edi pinost sila... ngayon, let's see kung may new enrolees pa jan next school year!
DeleteEh Kung may point bakit need pa talaga ng lawyer? Sus if I know, takot silang gumawa ng own statement at baka magboomerang lang sa kanila!
Deletewhy not para manginig yung school for tolerating bullying
DeleteSocmed ang takbuhan kapag walang justice na nakukuha
DeleteWhy not? Wala naman ginagawa yung school eh.
DeleteObvious naman na May pinagtatakpan ung school. Asa pa na aamin mga yan na May bullying na nangyayari. Ngaun kilala ung nagsumbong at nakapublic mas lalo nila pagtatakpan yan. Para naman ung anak lang ni Yasmien ang naging victim ng bullying sa school na yan. Nagkataon lang na si Yasmien lang nag lakas loob I-callout ang school sa nangyayari.
DeleteSana mangyari sa yang nangyari kay Yasmien Tapos pag tagal Pam lang ng pasusumbungan mo ung nangyari. Tignan natin kung di ka Mapa social media ng Wala sa oras. Sa kaso ko baka tatahimik ka na lang Kahit kawawa ung bata.
DeleteHahaha, mukhang may nanay ng isang bully ang nanginginig na. 😂 Humanda ka antih kasi social media era na baka mapangalanan kayo na mga walang kwentang parents kasi mga bully ang mga anak. 😝
DeleteKaya nga db!
DeleteBabaliktarin pa yung victim ng bully dahil walang Akyson ang school dahil duwag sila sa mga magulang na mayayaman ng bully!!! Lalabas pa na purkit inexpose ang bullying ng mga bata, sha pa may kasalanan. Ang kakapal tlga. Naturingan pang catholic school tapos ganyan
Wala naman sinabing name or picture ng mga alleged nambully bkit sila sobrang affected? Maybe affected sila kase sila natitira sa maling paghandle nila. Never tolerate a bully. Paglaki nyan mas malala pa ang kayang gawin sa kapwa. It can ruin lives. Mind you
DeleteGrabe makagaslight
ReplyDeleteIndeed! Kakapal ng mukha!!! Nakakagigil!
DeleteAng backwards pa rin ng mindset ng pamunuuan nung school. So sad. :(
DeleteTrue! As a parent, kung may way din ako dumirecho sa pinakataas, gagawin ko. Sinisira lang lalo ng school na to sarili nila with the statement their lawyers made.
DeleteTanggaling sa school yung mga bully at pagsabihan din ng todo yung mga parents na enablers.
ReplyDeleteGaslighter! Shame on this school.
ReplyDeleteHala Catholic school ba talaga yan?
ReplyDeleteHindi ba mga madre nagpapatakbo nyan? Maawa kayo sa mga victims ng bullying hindi nyo ba alam ang trauma na dulot nito? Never akong kakampi sa bully khit bata pa yan. Bullying means may intent, may full plan to torture the victim. Bata pa lang putulin na sungay nyan or else magkakabuntot pa yan.
DeleteYes ganyan kadalasan sa mga private schools, especially Catholic schools. They protect their image instead of the victim.
DeleteMas malala pa noong wala pang social media, the school admins act like gods.
OSA yung religious order na nagpapatakbo ng school. Order of St. Augustine.
DeleteNag aral ako sa catholic schools from elem, hs and college. yung mga madre and pari pa nga ang sobrang bully. kala mo mababait.
DeleteHndi nyo pinakinggan si Yasmin and her daughter, tapos kayo pa ang may gana mang utos na kausapin kayo?! For what?! Igagaslight nyo ulit sila?! Jusko, nope
ReplyDeleteThis is a serious issue and allegation kaya mainam na naglabas na ng official statement ang school. What Yasmien is doing is a natural emotional reaction. Pero tama ang school, this would have a negative impact not only sa mga batang involved but to her daughter na din. She's using her celebrity status to get sympathy from the public. She has already painted a negative image of the other children even though hindi natin alam yung side nila. Unfair sa kabilang side kasi if ever mag-post sila to defend themselves, hindi naman mapopost sa mga sites gaya ng FP. Cases like this should be handled by proper authority like the school. Kung hindi naayos ng school, escalate to DEPED. Then last option should be the court.
ReplyDeleteExactly. One side alam natin nangjudge na agad. Sana d lahat binobroadcast, it really doesnt help anyone. Siguro makakuha sya ng public sympathy but would that really help her daughter?
DeleteMadami ng nabully dyan. Based sa statement gusto nilang manahimik na lang ang nabully. Ikaw kaya makita mo effect sa anak mo tapos yung sch ikakatwiran child fight lang. For sure ganyan ginawaga nila palagi. Pinapatahimik ang victim kaya hinde natitigil yang bullying na yan
DeleteNo. Mali ang school at mali ang bully. Hindi lang isang instance na may ginawa sa anak niya. If the bullying was not tolerated, walang post sa social media. Obvious naman na may kinakatigan yung school. And wala naman pinost na pangalan si Yasmien… sa anak lang niya. So what’s there to defend? kung magdedefend ka na di ka naman pinangalanan, guilty ka. Pera ang sinasampal ng kabilang kampo, publicity naman yung kay Yasmien. In this war, you just have to play your strong suit. And both sides are playing it well.
DeleteExactly! Bullying accusation is very serious should not be taken lightly. Look at what Yasmien did, halos lahat ng commenters panig na agad sa kanya kase artista sya kahit wala tayong alam sa totoong nangysri, Hindi patas ang laban. Dapat may proper venue ito hindi socmed.
Delete8:34 kung maka No ka naman. Mali ang school at mali ang bully dahil yun ang sabi ni Yasmien? If there was really bullying that happened, na hindi lang basehan ang opinyon at emosyon ni Yasmien, AGAIN, it should be handled by the PROPER AUTHORITY at hindi sa social media. Kung hindi talaga gumawa ng tamang hakbang ang school, she can always escalate the matter to DEPED or court. Hirap sa inyo ni 7:57, dahil sinabi lang ni ganito sa social media, papaniwalaan niyo agad.
Deletekahit na ano yan pero once you expose the names and their photos on social media pwede ka na rin nilang idemanda.
DeleteI agree
Deletedapat malakas ang ebidensya ninyo to say that bullying happened hindi kwento pang, mas maganda maglabas ng cctv or video recording para maniwala ang mga tao
DeleteIyong nagsabing let the authority do their job at di na isocial media... girl sa US kahit bullying walang ginagawa authority. Nakukuha lang nang mga nabully ang justice after ito mapost sa social media at manews sa local news nila. Kaya kapag walang ginagawa ang school administations dapat sinosocial media. Kaya nga sumikat si tulfo dahil naging boses siya nang mga hinaharass nang mga tao sa gobyerno.
DeleteKailangan ng mga private schools ang pera kaya hindi nila basta basta matatanggal ang mga bullies lalo na if malaki ang donation nila sa school.
ReplyDeleteSame sentiments here ...
Deletei see...
DeleteI don't think gagawa ng ingay si Yasmien kung walang bullying na nangyari. Nanay sya. She will do everything to protect her child. Hindi sya ganun ka-rich and ka-powerful kaya siguro hindi sya kinakatigan ng school.
ReplyDeleteAt the same time, nanay sya so naturally kakampihan nya anak nya. Very one sided ang view nya. Not saying walang bullying na nangyari, but my point is hindi dapat magreact ang public sa mga bagay na wala naman tayo alam talaga or hindi naman tayo involved. Should be between the parties involved.
DeletePwede namang suspension muna. Hindi naman expulsuon agad agad. Point is, the school should have a no bullying policy and enforce it correctly.
DeleteNakaka-trauma sa bata na yung school na dapat safe space niya e daily place of torture. Good luck sa therapy.
let the school handle the situation since this incident happened inside the school, so the school rules about bullies will prevail. Pero kung di masaya si Yasmin sa school na yan, get out of the school.
Delete5:26 the rich will also do everything to protect their own children, they have access to good lawyers
Delete7:59 Yasmien was told to back-off by one of the parents. Tingin mo they're willing to talk peacefully with Yasmien and admit their children's wrong doings?
DeleteBullys should be punished! No protection dapat regardless if they are minors. The parents should be mindful and be responsible enough to remind their kids ALWAYS! Dapat alam ng kids as early as kinder na may consequences ang pang bu-bully. If walang punishments hindi matututo ang mga bata. SALOT ang mga bullys and yes galit ako sa kanila.
ReplyDeleteI Agree 100%
Deletena bully din ako nung elementary at college... pero rational pa din ako mag isip... ang experience ko sa mga bullies ay manipulative sila... ikaw pa pagmumukhaing masama... kaya dapat talaga discerning at may takot sa Diyos yung hahawak ng kaso... di pwede one-sided
DeleteTheyre still children. Blame the parents.
DeleteNi hinde nga nag mention ng sch si yasmine nalaman pa tuloy. Ska baket parang kasalanan pa ng nanay ng nabully? Kinukusinto mga bullies sa sch yuck!! Pang mayaman na sch bulok na sistema. Gusto manahimik lang ang victim kaya lalo dumadami ang bully dahil sa ganyang gusto eh manahimik na
ReplyDeleteLan
Withdraw your daughter from that school and send her to Brent instead. End of story.
ReplyDeletecorrect, there's Brent, there is also IS or British School Manila. Where the ultra rich kids are studying.
DeleteCorrect why keep giving them business.
DeleteIbang klase din etong CSA daming issues. From a parent bringing guns to school to bullying..madami ng ganito. Kadiri this school.
ReplyDeletesa isang college ng mayayaman, may mga bodyguards and mga estudyante na naghihintay sa lanas ng school
DeleteThe school conducted an investigation.
ReplyDeleteMs. Kurdi’s actions—even if done in good faith - inevitably affect the students complained of, who, needless to say, are also minors. If Ms. Kurdi does not cease her aggressive behavior, she may be accused of the very act she is complaining of—abusing her power (influence)/bullying.
The prudent action that she should have taken was to file a complaint and allow school to investigate.
Binanggit ba name ng mga students? Kahit name ng school hindi n'ya sinabe. Bullies should be punished.
Deleteyes, the incident happened inside the campus, the school is responsible for this action.
DeleteShe was ignored by the school. Why do you think she approached the DepEd?
DeleteMadami din kasi mayayaman dyan sa school na yan kaya hindi kaya ng school yung power ng parents. Hirap ang school lalo na pag powerful ang family ng bully.
ReplyDeletenasa loob ng Dasma yan, yung iba sa village mismo nakatira due to the proximity, yes powerful ang ibang parents.
DeleteBakit may punit na ID picture? Kasama din ba yun sa Christmas party preparations?
ReplyDeleteKinampihan pa ung mga bully. Kadiri tong school nato. Dapat no bullying policy Yan. How can parents feel that their children are safe there? Boycott csa
ReplyDeleteWho wrote this official statement? The school or the lawyers? It is riddled with grammatical errors. Wala bang nag proofread nito. CSA is an exclusive school in Dasmarinas Village Makati that charges students thousands in tuition fees and this is what they come up with? First sentence pa lang: an incident among minor students have been. Dapat HAS hindi HAVE. Also -- blown out in the public? Such awkward wording. Second sentence: At the outset. Shouldn't it be from the outset? ang daming run on sentences. Poor word choices. For such an important announcement it is badly written.
ReplyDeleteGrammar nazi
DeleteLetterhead ng lawyer so it’s not the school. I chose CSA for my child’s education 30 years ago. Yung principal na pari naka Rolex 😃 the school has high tuition fees so the kids should not only have the best educational experience but also feel safe in that environment.
DeleteDear CSA: Kumuha naman kayo ng lawyers na marunong mag sulat ng maayos na official statement.
DeleteYun letter lakas maka bully. Tsk tsk. Sa mga parents na can afford, please stay away from this school. Clearly, they show their stand on bullying and it’s a big red flag.
ReplyDeletePuro kasi socmed porket artista akala tama lahat ginagawa nila
ReplyDelete5:57 this time, tama ang ginawa ni artista named Yasmien. Aba, dinidedma ng school n yan ang mga bully victims for a long time.
DeleteTama din naman. Kung may bullying, I-address sa tamang paraan, di yung public shaming. Nagiging uso na masyado eh. Lahat na lang pinopost.
ReplyDeleteNope. The bullies and their parents deserve it.
DeletePublic shaming ka dyan wala nga pinangalanan yung victim. Ang ending yung victim pa ginigipit nung school. So elitist.
DeleteLol, may pinangalanan b si yasmien? Itong school na to malamang tolerated ang bullying kaya gnyan ang response. Ni pangalan nga ng school wala nmn binaggit si yasmien.
ReplyDeleteBut everyone knows! Ako nga hindi follower ni yasmein, sa fp lang nagbabasa, alam ko na agad. What more yun followers and friends nya talaga
DeleteAko naman hindi alam anong school. Lol
DeleteProblematic talaga tong school na to
ReplyDeleteLeave the school and transfer to a better environment. It's the best option. CSA appears to victim blame. Baka shareholders or influential ang bullies. Buti na lang famous ang mommy ng victim nila and her voice can be heard through her platform.
ReplyDeleteoo nga tanggalin na lang ni Yaamin ang anak sa school.
DeleteMay action na sila kasi makikialam na ang DepEd pero dati wala silang paki. Di Kami ipinanganak kahapon. Ang school na to oo, shaking my head.
ReplyDeleteI cannot with this school. It seems they fully blamed Yasmin and denied her claims of bullying. Ilipat mo nlng anak mo Yasmin. Instead of addressing this issue, parang tino tolerate pa nila. Purya gaba oi.
ReplyDeletedefensive lang kse na public ang issues.tama lang na ganun para may action ang school knowing this is not the first time nangyari ang ganyang issue.
ReplyDeleteHays, dahil sa statement nila parang mas naniniwala ako kay yasmien. Apaka defensive eh. I dont think na magpopost sa socmed si yasmien if may ginawang action ang school.
ReplyDeleteThe school is downplaying the issue now I understand bakit umabot sa point na need nya makipag usap sa Dep ED secretary. The school asked the lawyers to draft a statement but these lawyers doesnt live with the child 24/7 itis the parents who will see the after effects. The school shouldve allowed guidance counselor and 3rd party independent child psychiatrist/psychologists to deal with the issue. Mental health is not visible to lawyers they only see what is legal abd not legal. I think the school os trying to invalidate the feelings of the child it is disappointing.
ReplyDeleteok?! so you believe Yasmien because what? Shes the celebrity that you can relate to? did you know what really happened? Let her take it to DepEd if she wants to but reserve judgement muna.
Deletemahirap walang ebidensya aside from Yasmin complaining on social media. Walang cctv or anything aside from the stories. wala bang ibang witness ng bullying?
Delete8:38 Tita ilan beses ka ba dapat sabihin na guilty anak mo.
Delete8:38 Jusko you're either naive or insensitive! Hoy gising!
Delete8:38 people will believe yasmien because this is not the first time the school has been involved in prior bullying incidents. Yasmien did not even mention the school nor the identities of the students. Isa ka siguro sa bully parents.
DeleteLet’s say the same incident happened to Kris A. or Manny P. I bet the school will apologise straight away
ReplyDelete738 for sure!!
Deletekaya dapat Yasmine, tuloy mo ang laban, kahit boses mo lang ang magisa, make it loud!
7:38 PM - Pwede din the opposite. She felt like a Kris A or Manny P because artista sya and expected the same privileges. And maybe this sense of entitlement also extended to the kid. Large scale bullying where most people in the school hate just that one one kid is actually unusual sa schools natin. At some point, other kids will step in. The narrative seems strange na walang friends ung bata who defended her. Not saying the kid deserves to be bullied for being entitled - if this were the case - but I also get a sense that Yasmien is not forthcoming will ALL the details on how the situation escalated to what it is now. I think there should be more to the story than just Yasmien's kid being bullied by evil kids and the evil kids are protected by the evil school admin period which is pretty much Yasmien's narrative.
Deletesobra naman maka gaslight to even say no bullying happened
ReplyDeleteInuna kasi ni Yasmin ang pagpost sa social media before actually exhausting all the remedies she can avail of. Besides, CSA has always been considered weak academically compared to other private schools within the same market positioning - if you know, you know. Compared to the better schools in the same market positioning, most CSA grads do not pass ACET and UPCAT. She can transfer her child to a better school literally.
ReplyDeleteI have cousins who went to San Agustin, or CSA. The school's reputation is that among exclusive Catholic schools ( La Salle, Ateneo, Poveda, ICA, Xavier), CSA tends to be more lenient, not as strict when it comes to taking disciplinary actions against students who are viewed as troublemakers. With other schools, one or two strikes, you're out, no matter who your parents are. Also, in terms of academics, schooling in CSA is viewed as "easier" than in La Salle, Ateneo, Poveda, etc. Entrance tests are much more rigorous in those other schools. It's easier to get into CSA. Rich kids who get kicked out or drop out from the "harder" Catholic schools (either because of grades or disciplinary issues) transfer to CSA. Because of its location (near Forbes Park and in Dasmarinas) a lot of mestizo families (the original cono families) would send their kids to San Agustin. Soccer was very big in CSA, as well as swimming. If your child is into sports, send him to CSA. Children of military officials also go to CSA, since it's located near Fort Bonifacio.
DeleteWala naman sa academics ang issue.
Delete1258 pagisipan mong mabuti ang sinasabi mo..i was bullied before and believe me no one will ever stand up for u not because u dont have friends but they are equally scared na sila naman ang mapaginitan ng bullies for helping..i was bullied by most of the girls in my section and my friends just stood there and watch as I read letters upon letters of hurtful words..u will never understand the feeling unless ikaw na ung nandun sa situation na un..ang masakit pa nyan instead na paniwalaan ka bandang huli ikaw pa ang lalabas na mali which is whats happening now..ang sad lang that at this time and age there are still people like u who condone bullying!..
DeleteWalang kwentang educational institution
ReplyDeleteSabi ko nga di pwede natalo ang anak mo sa arguement, na “bully” na agad. Hindi dahil hindi nasunod ang gusto mo, bully na agad yung mga taong against sa yo. Please dont take bullying lightly on both sides. Kelangan malaman ang reason ng di pagkakasundo. Baka may behavioral issues din na kailangan i-address.
ReplyDeleteHindi natin alam ang true story dahil si Yasmien lang ang kumukuda.
Alam mo hindi rin kasi maganda na pinaguusapan yung tao at calling out names just the same as ayaw nilang matawag na bully.
DeleteKahit hindi nagkakasundo hindi tama gumawa ng group para bash yung isang tao. Kahit pa sa circle lang nila.
Alam mo yung pelikulang MEAN GIRLS???
it’s the same banana
Pwede naman kumuda yung kabila. Wala lang masabi kasi guilty.
DeleteJasmine pull out your daughter n find another school.
ReplyDeleteDapat ung mga bully mag homeschooling na lang
Deletemayayaman mga nagaaral dyan tapos ganyan mga ugali
ReplyDeleteBTW tommorow na makipag usap si Yasmien kay DepEd Sec. Sonny Angara...titignan natin ang kalabasan..ngayon pa sila naglabas ng statement signed by Lawyers pa, yingnan natin pag Government na ang Magsasalita...away bata pero yung magulang mismo ng bata pa nagsabi na Back Off..
ReplyDeleteCSA, this is not the proper way to handle this.
ReplyDeleteI read on a magazine before. Heart Evangelista opened up about being bullied on the same school. Yikes
ReplyDeleteSa CSA din yata yung mga student na nagbugbugan sa cr dati. Naalala ko lang!
ReplyDeletekawawa yung bata nun, may naging action ba ang CSA?
Deletedahan dahan din tayo sa bullying issue na wala tayong proof. Hindi malinaw ano ang totoong nangyari aside from nag rant si Yaamin Kurdi.
ReplyDeleteLaban Yasmine. Ung mga Catholic schools talaga ang maraming bullying.
ReplyDeleteUtot nito. Kung hindi celebrity ang nanay, for sure walang statement. They denied na nabully ung anak, na parang walang nangyari, doon palang kadiri na ang school
ReplyDeleteKasuka na statement.
ReplyDeleteIto ba ang school na may estidyante na halos mamatay dahil sa Karate?
ReplyDeleteYes sila din
DeleteKung di umaray ang nanay di gumawa ng official statement ang school. Buti na nga lang at anak ng isang celebrity ang biktima, paano yung anak ng di kilalang tao, tahimik lang ang school? Yes involve ang mga minors dito, pero dapat isipin ng school na bullying happens in all ages be it minors or adults. But what we can't deny that bullying has mental effect on the victim that why bullying is BIG NO. Pa victim naman itong school na ito..
ReplyDeleteEhanopangaba kundi wala sila pakealam. Ayan nanakot pa oh. Kalurks!
ReplyDeleteHugas kamay! Isa ito sa School na hinde ko papaaralin ang anak ko pag nag grade 1 siya. I also have friends na alumni diyan hinde din diyan Pinaaral mga anak nila
ReplyDeleteOh no. Why do i feel like they're even protecting the bullies?
ReplyDeleteNakaka sad mga tao dito paniwalang paniwala agad sa one sided story. Close b kayo on both camps to say accurate sinabi ni yasmin? Pwerke artista naniniwala n kayo agad??? Wala akong kinakampihan pero umay nag jump to conclusions na kayo agad.
ReplyDeleteAgree.
DeleteThe statement is done in bad taste. First, they invalidated mother's concerns. Second, they called out the mother of the bullied child. Hindi naman po subjective and definition ng bullying meron po sa batas natin yan. Even mere teasing is a form of bullying esp if it affects the child emotionally and mentally. The statement in itself is a form of bullying and victim-shaming! Fight them, Yas!
ReplyDeleteits the girl calling wolf....the mother and daughter need to learn how to engage in social dialogue
ReplyDeletewill you change your tune when the evidence is presented?
DeleteThe question is, was the child stopped from taking her break and was forced to talk about the Christmas party? If yes, isn’t that bullying if she was forced by her classmates against her will?
ReplyDeleteAng pangit ng statement halatang may powertripping na agad na naganap haha
ReplyDeleteHindi lang sa CSA maraming nambubully. Wag mag generalize. At kung matagal na nabubully anak mo, bakit hindi nilipat agad?
ReplyDeleteHuy, hindi ba mas tama na harapin ito at ipaglaban ang tama? Hindi dapat nito-tolerate ang mali.
Deletedont get me wrong po pero gusto ko lng din makisawsaw na hindi din lahat na nagsasabi nabully sila is totoo
ReplyDeletemay mga p vicitim or nasa phase sila na napaka sensitive nila
pwede big deal na sa knila
o namimisinterpret na
dumaan daw sa anxiety ang anak
napcheckup na din kaya nia?
Kahit marami na kwento about bullying in the same school? C'mon...
DeleteI was a bully when I was young. My parents were separating and I acted out in school.
ReplyDeleteThat was how I coped.
Thank God walang social media nung panahon ko. I grew up and changed and reached out to those I knew I hurt, several years later.
Bigyan sana ng mundo yung nambully to learn the lesson, wag naman din sila ibully ng public.
That's how bullies learn their lesson—by walking in the same shoes as those they've tormented.
DeleteDiba CSA din yung may nabully sa CR ng boys, yung binugbog yata yung isang student. Not sure if ibang nationality. Naka video pa nga.
ReplyDeleteAteneo ata yun
DeleteHeart Evangelista was a former CSA student too. She was also bullied. She would eat sa toilet because of bullying so nag home school na lang sya. Hanapin nyo na Lang online.
ReplyDeleteIf Yasmien's daughter felt that she is bullied, then she is bullied. Takot itong school na magka issue.
ReplyDeleteEven heart got bullied in csa.
ReplyDeleteDito din yung meron na ng viral na binugbog na bata sa CR ng school 2-3years ago yata.. grabe yung video. Consistent ang mga bullying incidents sa Csa. Good decision talaga not to enroll my kid there.
ReplyDeleteA biased letter and wants to cover up bullying and protect the bullies (lol)
ReplyDeleteSounds like they're threatening Yasmien Kurdi and her family. Sa lakas ng binangga nila baka pati asawa ni Yasmien mawalan ng work. Paktay tau dyan.
ReplyDeleteAs of this moment, naka off pa rin yung comment section sa page nila and puro angry reactions haha
ReplyDeleteGood thing that YK brought it out in the open, well done! Expose ang school na hindi ginagawa ang part nila to address bullying, porket “sosyal” na school bawal i call out?! Bullying is bullying enough said
ReplyDeleteAndami nag cocomment dito na parents o kamag anak ng bully hahahaha! NO TO BULLYING!
ReplyDeleteKorak. Trying hard to turn the tide in their favor ang mga bullies susme.
DeletePaka walang kwenta. Cover up pa sa bully and sa school. Dami ng bullying stories dyan sa CSA ngayon lang nahighlight. Kahit si Heart nabully dyan.
ReplyDelete