Truth!! My child has been bullied since kinder and sometime in grade school. I confronted the mother nung sa kinder, “mga bata yan”- yung anak ko tuklap ang balat sa kurot. Di ako nakapagpigil, cge sayo ko gagawin, tingnan ko reaction mo. I stand infront of her and the Male teacher was trying to be on the middle. Gigil talaga.
2nd, grade 6. Ginagawang laughing stock anak ko ng group of friends. Papasamahin saknila then dedmahin lang tas magtatawanan. Umiiyak habang kumakain anak ko sa harap nila. I can’t take it at nag report ako sa school. All parents apologize to me and the kids too to her. I never gave them peace they were looking for. Binalik ko saknila lahat ng burden ng anak ko. Call me ev’l pero when it comes to our child. Lahat ng santo mabubuhay pag magalit ka.
My child was beautiful We are paying 6 digits tuition English community
RA 10627: The Anti-Bullying Act. Republic Act 10627, or the Anti-Bullying Act (the “Act”), aims to protect children enrolled in kindergarten, elementary, and secondary schools and learning centers (collectively, “Schools”) from being bullied.It requires Schools to adopt policies to address the existence of bullying in their respective institutions.
9:50 for the child din naman yun. Ano, magpapamartyr anak mo? For you and your child's peace of mind, dapat ilipat na lang ng school. Kesa ganyan, pinatagal pa, nagsuffer na ang bata.
12:20 correct. Hindi lahat for the beliefs and the rights. If you think about the mental health of your child, disregard those for now and get your child out! Kahapon kausap ko lang friend ko, she tool her child out of the school and the child is happier now.
Bat papalipatin ang anak ng school? Sya ang victim ang bullies ang dapat lumipat. Yang mga kunsintidor na nanay o magulang dapat sa mga yan ipako sa krus kc sila ang dahilan kaya mga bully ang anak nila. I get it. We see our children as angels but don’t tolerate your children if they’re bullies, discipline them!
Dapat maparusahan ang mga bullies pati na rin mga parents. There’s a reason bakit ganyan attitued nang mga anak and it usually comes from home and from parents. Go Yasmien! Protect your daughter. Minsan kung sino pa parents ng mga guilty, sila pa mayayabang lalo na pag “powerful” at may money.
Sana possible. Mag “almost” all girls din anak ko sa grade school (Coed na kasi karamihan ng all girls after pandemic) and I heard mga ganjtong bullying tapos since officer sa school parent walang nagagawa. Maganfang school sya and I just hope maging palaban anak ko.
Naku CSA - nasa reviews na yaj or i google mo pa lang lalabas na CSA sa bullying. Would help if mag search muna bago ienrol yong bata dito sa school na to. Muntikan nako buti na lang i googled their reviews first
Mas OA ang pangbubully ngayon, hindi lang pisikalan kundi may kasama pang online. Panirigan in class, panirigan rin online. Unlike noon hanggan school lang.
Aah, the beauty of regular school, you should let your kids socialize they say. bullying is what they get instead. Now the kid is suffering. Homeschool is the best
Homeschooling is no doubt great in many aspects, but regular schooling will teach you important social skills that you will otherwise not learn at home...there will be bullies everywhere be it at work or at school. If you shelter your children from having these bad experiences, how will they learn to handle it otherwise?
7:19 It doesn’t mean na pag nag-homeschool ikukulong mo sa house. My son is homeschooled pero we go out a lot. Magaling siya makipag-usap sa people of all ages, from kids at the playground to the waitstaff in restaurants to the cashier at bookstores to the lobby guards to him music teachers and other music kids. In my book, that’s true socialization.
Homeschooling allows us more freedom to follow his curiosities, and this gives him confidence and makes him see this early that what he thinks is important and considered. Also, learning becomes more organic. Tuwang-tuwa siya and very eager to learn, and so masayang-masaya siya and he goes out in the world being happy and kind.
We also did regular school for a few years, and every day my son would come home depressed. Nakakaawa talaga to see a naturally spirited child sobrang tahimik pagkagaling sa school. Kasi pala a band of boys singled him out na huwag kausapin. Witnessed it with my own eyes. Nadurog puso ko. That’s not the socialization I want for my kid or any kid kasi it teaches them too early that the world is cruel.
It is a common notion that homeschooling deprives kids of the social skills that they need to be equipped with so they can be prepared for the realities of life. In my opinion, homeschooling provides the flexibility to carve out and prioritize all the important skillsets and values that you need to absorb by your children, and this definitely includes social skills. A lot of homeschooled children go to classes with other people, whether it's related to sports, music, the arts, language, or even technical skills on top of their academics. And they get to do all of these because of the flexibility of time that homeschool can offer. As a parent, it is my responsibility to ensure that my kids get to enjoy their childhood life with good loving memories instead of living in the mindset that they need to be exposed to life's harsh realities so early para lang makapagready sila ng mabuhay mag-isa. Life is good; it is true that it is also harsh, but I would rather equip them first with the right mind, strength in the soul, and character so they are fully prepared to face the realities of life.
At the end of the day, regular school provides the day to day socialization with peers that homeschooling does not give. As simple as eating lunch with classmates, buddy system, having group activities, camping, playing sports, practicing for a school program. How invaluable the fun and laughter these activities provide.
Wow! Pahabaan ng essay 🤣 hindi ko na binasa mga mumsh... homeschooling is not for everyone. Kaya wag na ipilit. We tried during the pandemic. Pero ang hirap para sa grade 2-3 level plus working pa kami. Stressful ang work ko so wala na akong energy magturo. And Dahil sa stress, wala na rin akong patience magturo. Binalik ko sa regular after the pandemic, at mas masaya siya. 2 yrs na kami sa regular school.
Magastos din siguro itong homeschooling. Aside from paying for acads, you need to look for socialization opportunities, which don't come cheap. Plus one parent needs to teach the kids. You must be rich for this kind of setup.
Nag home study program ako sa Saint Francis of Assisi. Di ko inaadvertise ah pero search niyo na lang difference ng homestudy at home school. Kasi magkaiba sila. Masaya ako dun kaysa nung nag regular school ako ibang school. Kaya ako masaya kasi focused ako sa studies ko atsaka walang competition.
My two kids were home schooled for a while. As an expat in a country International school wasn’t an option then as my husband was in between jobs. There was a support group of home schooled kids when we were in that country. We would meet once a week for educational field trips and social gatherings. When hubby was in his new job the kids went back to the international school. The teachers told me how unlike new kids in the school they were socially adaptable.
This is unacceptable. That’s why I always tell my nieces & nephews, and I will also tell it to my baby someday, if someone bullies you, suntok agad sa bibig, pakainin ng ngipin. Hahaha! No wonder the bullies act like that, coz look how the parents are? Bullies are really molded in their own homes.
Exactly,sa bahay talaga nagsisimula Ako din yan turo ko sa anak ko hindi sa pagiging basag ulo pero yang mga bully para yang mga sharks they can smell kung sino tatargetin nila
I've been bullied in my entire high school for being bisaya. Kase nagtransfer ako ng high-school sa Maynila galing probinsiya. Laging naghihintay yung mga bullies magsalita ako so they can laugh at my accent. Even the teacher laugh at my accent, bisaya bisakol , bisaklat and those words everyday thrown at me but I'd pay no attention kase those words are nothing to me and those bullies kase alam ko ang mga background kaya sila nambubully hanggang nag fourth year kami dun nagpang abot dahil namisikal , ay siempre kapag bisaya sinaktan mo pisikal di pwedeng di lumaban kaya sinuntok ko sa mukha dumugo ilong. Iba ang suntok ng bisaya malutong. 🤣 lalaki pa naman yun. And ending naguidance kami pareho muntikan ng di siya nakagraduate . Ayun na demerits siya ng 100. Kalalaking tao pa naman.
I was onced bullied by a guy classmate to the point na takot nako pumasok at seatmate ko pa. Imagine merong parang demonyo na bubulong bulong sa tabi ko abt nasty things. One time diko na napigil coz he said something abt raping my grandmother. I Stood up and twisted his arm really hard! U knw what, the ff day ni hindi makatingin sakin. E dpat pala nun ko pa sinuntok eh. And yan din sinasabi ko sa mga daughters ko, if someone bullies them, fight back. Basta hindi sila ang nauuna mangaway, i'm cool with it. Sapak kung sapak. Kaso theyre such good natured persons hahay. But gladly lagpas na sila sa stage na ganyan coz my eldest na bully na din sa school ng higher level pa mind you. Naku kaya i strongly support anything abt anti bullying.
Yes...eto sinasabi ko sa mga gurls ko, pag may nambully sa inyo or sinaktan kayo physically ganun din gawin nyo, pag sinabunutan ka sabunutan mo din....lumaban, wag magmukmok...
I was then in high school and older by 6 years sa sister ko. when i heard she was bullied by a classmate who takes her lunch money, phone, and snacks, naku sinugod ko talaga sa grade school at hinampas ng payong ang malditang bata. hindi na umulit after
3:19 possible naman kahit naman hindi siya sikat pwede one of the reason na sinasabi yun ng mga bullies against ayesha of course anak niya yan alam niya yung story behind the bullying. Pwede kasi na introvert yung anaka niya or hindi feel ng mga bullies just because artista ang nanay
Ganon na ba kalala ang mga pinoy. Sa dhar-mann studio ko lang napapanuod yong ganyan. Imagine grade 2 pa sya binubully. Ilipat na lang nya ng school. Kawawa naman yong bata, di naging maganda ang experience nya sa school.
Well eversince naman mga pinoy ay bullies . Based on my experience , my girl classmates in high school were “bullying “me behind my back . They said pangit ng mukha kahit matalino . And may mga nagsusumbong naman. I just have tons of confidence that I never let them win . After high school I never looked back . Emigrated and went to school here in the US ( thanks to my mom who was a nurse ) Dito , people find me beautiful and I never experience whatever I had diyan sa Pinas . I had some few friends who found me in social media years ago and pinaala sa akin saying “ alam mo yung mga namimintas sa iyo noon wala silang natapos at hirap sa buhay . I said, they never matter . Naalala ko lang dati kinumusta ka nila behind your back . Now , gumanda ka na at very successful pa sabi ba naman lol . I find it so amusing kasi hindi mo maalala. Thanks to my mom who inculcated in me the value of self esteem , self confidence and resilience . Kids now are lucky there is anti bullying now . Back in the days , even teachers are bullies .
Kung sabagay 5:21 PM kahit pala noon nga may bullying na din. I remember yong di ko alam kung nanliligaw ba yon o tinutukso tukso lang ako kasi sa harap ng buong klase umeepal sakin panay kantyawan naman ng buong klase, bwisit na bwisit ako, araw arawin ba naman ang pamimwisit parang ayoko ng pumasok. Ang kaibahan lang ng noon at ngayon kasi di pa tayo masyado aware ng mental health issue na yan kasi alaga pa tayo ng mga magulang natin, walang gadget pa nung panahon ko eh. So tutok ang magulang natin sa pangangalaga sa mga anak nila. Ngayon kasi sa magulang din nag uumpisa kung bakit nawalan ng kumpyansa sa sarili ang mga bata. Dahil kinulang sa aruga. Pag kailangan ng bata, bibigyan ng cp. Or kaya tatawagin ang yaya.... Haaaay
I am 38 now and I have been bullied from elementary to high school and my first job. One of the many reasons eh nung elementary kasi ako daw ang gusto ng mga crush nila. So the girls hate me and calling me pokpok kahit na I was only friends with the boys kasi medyo tomboy tomboy ako nun. Nung high school is same. Plus the fact na I was doing great job academically and I was in sports team. Girls hate me for that. May nakipag sabunutan pa. Pinoys are bullies unfortunately
I, too, was bullied. Though not harap harapan, pero yung hindi lagi sinasamahan, hindi included. Not part of any all-girl barkadas around. I was big, maitim, not pretty. Lucky to have a few friends, 2 or 3 lang, na kept me company somehow during those 4 years in highschool. I felt ignored lang. Kaya hindi masaya ang higjschool memories ko. If ever nga magrereunion, I dont think I will attend. But I have moved on na. I am not affected na by my past. I dont look like before, nag-glow up na kumbaga. Hahaha. I have a gwapong hubby na (haha), i have met true friends also, I win awards sa work din. So life has been good so far. I didnt hold grudges na. Yung nambully sa akin nung HS, na binully pa ulit ako nung one time nakita ko nung college sa terminal ng vans, sadly nadeads na due to covid.
May mga balita ba sa school about sa incident na ito? Or marami ba talagang bully sa CSA? Sana may gawin sila sa mga bullies. This needs attention kung dumadami na talaga ang incidents.
Homeschooling is the best and effective. Like Kramer’s fam, mas tutok sila and walang mga ganyang ganap. Not safe anymore sa school, mapipilitan kang makisama sa mga low class na tao.
Sana di na lang nya dinala sa social media to. Kasi baka kahit ilipat nya ng school may mga mambubully pa din dahil alam nila na nabully na sya dati. Mas lalala pa yung anxiety ng bata dahil sa post na to
Imagination mo nlng yan. What if mas mag thrive ang anak nya sa ibang school at mas may compassion ang new school and schoolmates? Wag ka paladesisyon kng ank gusto nya ipost. Just syaing
No what she did is right! The school Got their own dose of medicine. lessons sa school and also sa mga teacher esp the adviser ng class why they let this happen. They will never learn Hangang ma call attention nila.
Had the same experience with my child. Akala ko it wouldn't happen to us since we are well off and she studies in an exclusive school.
First offense: Three girls smeared ink at the back rest of my daughter's armchair. So my daughter was unaware that there was a big red ink stain on her blouse the whole afternoon. Sister talked to the three. The mom of the leader-bully was in denial. Offense Two: They locked her in the classroom so she could not go down during convocation. School then sent letters to the parents. Offense Three: Daughter was waiting for me at SB. The three came and "accidentally" spilled water on her worksheets. So I got so pissed I had to tell my husband. My husband was surprised when she learned who the leader-bully was. The lead-bully's father was indebted to us in the amount of eight digits, and was asking for an extension to pay. So naging evil din ako. When the school's Christmas Bazaar came, I told a story to the chismosa of the batch about the bully daughter and the family's debt to us. Of course the GC was on fire! And then my daughter learned about the debt. I was told that the bullies were at it again, and so my daughter and her friend stood up to them, and in front of may students said to the lead-bully, WHY DON'T YOU JUST TELL YOUR DAD TO PAY UP! YES, YOU'RE DAD OWES US PHP __ MILLION. GO ASK YOUR PARENTS. Instead of always bothering us. Shocked yang lead bully.
Our child and her friend transferred to an Intl school which worked wonders for their wellbeing. The lead bully became ostracised, and her dad eventually gave up his Anvaya property to pay us.
Whew parang pang Koreanovela yung plot twist ng story mo. Mas malala pala ang bullying sa mayayaman na society. Am sorry you had to deal with that but also glad that you and your daughter are now in a better place 🙏
737 kapag mayaman gawa gawa? mamsh. d porket mayaman si 348 at hindi mo maunawaan o di kaya ng bulsa mo abutin ang lalim ng kaban nya eh di na totoo. mahirap ka na nga, bully ka pa
Yung anak ng friend ko din got bullied tapos sa well known school pa! Hindi ko alam kung rich kid things toh o ganyan talaga mga bata ngayon. Ang nakakainis walang ginagawa yung school na yun kahit pa ilan beses na nag reklamo yung friend ko. Kawawa sila akala nila porket top school maayos maalagaan yung anak nila
Grabe yung Ayesha Hate Club. Ang lala. Ilipat mo na ang anak mo ng school. Hayaan mo na sila mabulok sa school na yan. Peace of mind ang mas mahalaga pero make sure na ipaglaban mo ang complain.
naku ganyan din sa school naman. may masyadong mapapel na feeling powerful sa school. sinipa ang daughter ko. accident daw. nakailang accident na yung bata sa anak ko and known bully siya ng anak ko. also joining a hate club BUT liars will lie and dinedeny niya. pero documented yung panghaharass niya sa anak ko paulit ulit nilalapitan anak ko maski pinagsabihang lumayo at bawal lumapit.
I suggest getting her to self defense classes like Jiu Jitsu plus regular exercise etc for physical fitness, will also give her self confidence. Appearing fearless complimented with “fighting” skills is a good weapon against bullies.
My daughter and son were the only Asians in their school. My daughter was bullied when she was in first grade to the point that the girl who was bullying my daughter had nightmares because of her own bullying. Yes, you read it right. It was the bully who had nightmares for bullying my child. The homeroom teacher recommended for me to talk to the mother when I discussed it with her. Wrong move. Even when I calmly talked to the mom, she accused me of bullying her. She never reprimanded her kid and continued to condone her behavior. One day, at the grocery store, my daughter cowered behind me while pointing at the bully and her mom then said, “Mom they are here.” I waited until they walked closer to us and said to my daughter, “ You should not be afraid no more. I am here to protect you and I will make sure no one will ever hurt you. If they do, I will call the company where the bully’s father ( manager of a well known grocery store) works and report to them how he can’t control his wife and daughter in bullying a little girl. I will go to the principal and school board and report the bully and her parents. It’s their responsibility to correct the behavior of their child.” Then I looked at the bully with piercing eyes, then turned and looked at her mom from head to toe. The homerooom teacher didn’t want me to go to the principal at to see if she could handle it. I said, “Enough.” I talked to the principal the next day and to which he said, “Next time, nip it on the bud.” There were no next time. The school made sure they were in separate classrooms and the principal talked to the parents. Our greatest consolation was that my daughter gets the top award at the end of each school year, when all the parents were invited to attend. She flourished afterwards and did well.
Nabully pamangkin ko na nasa spectrum, kinampihan ng school ang bully dahil may pa aircon pala ang parents. Sabi ng ate ko hayaan na. Inakyat ko reklamo sa Deped. Nasipa yung bully sa school. Napakasatisfying makita yung parents ng bully na umiiyak. Hindi na nabully ulit pamangkin ko after that.
Di ba pwede kasuhan yung mga bullies, parents, or school? Sana mapansin ito ng gobyerno pra mapalakas ang batas against bullying/bullies. Wag na sana hintayin may mawala at umiyak na mga magulang bago kumilos ang mga gumagawa ng batas.
Sabi ko sa mga pamangkin ko, kapag may magtangkang mambully sa kanila pasimple nilang pikunin tapos kapag inunahan silang saktan physically saka nila banatan...bugbugan with caution na this😂
Ilipat na lang ng school sana at mukhang mababang uri ang mga students dun sa school niya. Tapos kung matagal na pala, bakit di na control ng school. School is a child’s second home. Pinagkatiwalaan ng parents yung anak nila sa school tapos ganyan? Someone needs to be liable. Dapat either ma-suspend or kick out yung mga bullies or kasuhan yung parents ng bullies at school.
She talked to the mothers and wala sila pake by posting this sana makaramdam sila ng kahit konting guilt and mabasa nila reactions from other people, di naman sila pinangalanan
Wala naman magagawa ang socmed sa problema sa bully. Personal na yan. Hayaan nalang manahimik yung bata. Pasiyahin nalang ng nanay at bigyan sya ng space.
Thanked God I don’t have kids or else matagal na akong nasa correctional facility. One of the many reasons I don’t have kids , I cannot protect my kid 24/7 from rapists , bullies and those people who abuse .
I was bullied in gradeschool too. I am glad my mom stood up for me. The bullying stopped but the group of girls who were bullies turned their attention towards another who they can bully. It won't stop until schools encourage cliques and don't teach about bullying. At this day and age, schools should enforce stricter measures on this. Make bullies not welcome. The students and their parents should learn the hard lesson the most by sending them to another school. Don't make the bullied student suffer more. The consequence should be serious for bullies as the experience is mentally damaging for a long period of time.
Teacher Ako. This might get me in trouble but I always tell my advisory class to fight back kapag mam bully sa kanila. Palagi ko sinasabi sa kanila na sasamahan ko Sila sa guidance office kung maka sapak or nagkasakit Sila dahil inaapi Sila. I was a victim of bullying in grade school.. tumigil lang ang mga hayp sa pangbubully sa akin noong natuto all lumaban.
Tingnan mo muna kung sino ang mali. Kasi ako nung elementary, nabully ako. pero yung bully pa yung nagsumbong sa teacher. Pinagalitan ako ng teacher at pinatawag parents ko. NBI police ang tatay ko kaya nagimbestiga siya at nagtanong tanong sa mga bata. Ayun... yung mga classmates ko ang nag testify na si E talaga ynng bully. Ninanakaw niya ballpen ko lagi para di ako makapag quiz tapos kinukurot nya ako pag binawi ko yung ballpen. Salamat at tumestigo yung mga katabi namin sa upuan. galit na galit tatay ko sa teacher at sinabihan na magsasampa kami ng kaso para alisan siya ng lisensya. ayun iyak siya nang iyak. nagmakaaawa sa tatay ko na patawarin siya. point being is - you're a teacher. May responsibilidad ka alimin ang totoo.
Good job, teach! While we teach our students to be gracious and kind, we should also teach them how to stand up for themselves when genuinely oppressed. We have to teach them not to be a bully, to never ever tolerate bullies. Not all are brave to stand up at a young age and so we need to let them know that their person is heard, seen valued and important all the time.
This is the reason bat hindi ko malipat yung anak ko dun sa current school nya even it is so hard for me to sustain it. It’s so difficult humanap ng school ngayon na yung culture ng mga bata maayos ang upbringing at yung school actively participating pag may mga case na medyo alarming, though thankfully walang mga ganitong kalalang case. Nakakaawa yung mga bata, better transfer her it will not get better at dadalin nya yang mental stress na yan hangang paglaki nya
We've experienced the same situation with our only child. Ang sakit sa loob ko since working ako abroad at wala akong magawa. Parang gusto ko umuwi agad agad at iparanas sa mga bullies yung ginagawa nila sa Anak ko.
School ang may problema jan. Kunsintidor. Kung sa umpisa pinigil na or very strict ang anti bullying policies, Hindi aabot sa ganyan. Ang school ang nag empower sa mga bullies dahil alam nila na walang gagawin ang school and takot ang school sa mga magulang lalo kung mayayaman or mas mayaman sa biktima. And also, dahil sa kawalan ng Aksyon sa bully, kapag inexpose ng biktima ang bully babaliktarin pa sila ng school at ng bully na sila ang nangbubully dahil inexpose sila at mapapahiya sila tapos magpapaawa yung bully na di naman napatunayan or wala silang due process. Eh wala nga ginagawa ang school pano magkakadue process??? Ang mundo ngayon tlga baliktad na
may tao talagang lapitin ng bully anu??? imagine since grade 2 nabubully na at me hate club anak nya.... parang me magnet for bullies... kasi me mga nerdy, weird, simple, maarte at aloof people na di naman nabubully minsan nga mas may friends pa sila sa iba... wala lang curious lang hahahahahaah
Sana may anti bullying movement per school. Someone responsible for this sole purpose. Because there is always always a bully or group of bullies out there and we have to make them accountable for their actions. Hanggang ngayon I still remember what my bullies did to me. While some of them said sorry when we hit HS and college, most of them were not remorseful. I was too shy to stand up for myself then. But I hope I did.
Ang turo ko sa mga anak pag may nagbully they need to fight back. Minsan may nagbully sa grade 2 na anak ko, tapos nalaman ng bunso ko na kindergarten, sinampolan yung nagbully at sinuntok niya sa tummy. Umiyak ang bully. I do not tolerate din naman mga kids ko na manakit pero kung may dahilan at need nilang upagtanggol ang sarili nila, hindi naman ako kokontra.
Paulit ulit din nabully 5yo kindergarten son ko. Catholic school pa man din sa south starting with V. Parish priest ang school director. Sabi niya wala raw sense of wrong o right mga bata. Nakita na ng teacher na paulit ulit yung 2 kapwa 5yo classmate nang kutos, sinulatan sa damit at mukha, kinukutya at kinorner pa anak ko, hinila pa upuan ng anak ko nung pinapaalis nung bully. Pinapasorry lang ang bullies. Kundi ko pa naaktuhan isang hatid ko, hindi k0 mabubuko lahat. Sabi ng anak ko binura ni teacher sulat sa mukha niya. Hindi daw matatawag na BULLYING pag mga bata lang involved. Ayaw pa magrefund ng tuition nung inaalis ko na anak ko.
Dapat ireport nya sa school yan pag walang action saka nya gamitin ang social media power nya para mapilitan ang school na umaksyon. kumuha ng matinding evidence lagyan ng hidden camera sa damit ng anak para marecord mga ginagawa sa kanya ng mga bullies at maireport nya. nangigigil ako sa mga magulang na hinahayaang mambully anak nila ang sarap nilang makita behind the bar kahit for 1wk lang ng madala! tingin ko insecurity ang root ng pambubully.
I dont know them and I dont know the real story behind the issue so its really hard to judge. I was hoping the adults handled the situation better including Yasmien. Dont put labels sa nga bata as “bullies” and “bullied” dahil masakit talaga yan sa magulang but understand where the miscommunication is coming from. Baka may valid points din ang mga kaklase. Listen and be good example. Kung sila mismong parents magaaway away at aarte na parang mgs bata, paano masolve ang problema?
Naranasan din po yan ng Anak ko sa school. Nginudngod ba naman anak ko sa desk ng upuan nya?😢 talagang pinuntahan ko mismo ung adviser nila at pinatawag ung Nanay . Ayaw pa maniwala na ginawa ng Anak nya un sa Anak ko eh maraming witness na mismo kaklase nila. Di kc marunong mag sumbong at mang away Anak ko kaya sobrang sama ng loob ko nun. At mismo pa palang inaanak namin sa binyag ang nang away sa anak ko. ( di ko kc kilala ung bata kc hubby ko ang umattend sa binyag nung bata dahil nasa malayo ako.)biglang pangalawang ina ng bata cyempre pinagsabihan ko ung bata na wag na uulitin, Nang hingi naman ng pasensya ung bata Aba'y ang kunsintidorang ina di na pinag mamano anak nya samin.😁 twing pasko di na pinapapunta sa amin.😅
Matanda nako na bubully pako sa office. One time pumatol ako at nagsisisigaw ako sa buong office eh di tumigil sya. Super yuko sya sa desk nya sa sobrang hiya! Di nya inakala na papatulan ko sya at super loud ako nakikipag away sa kanya, natameme sya
Ang sad ng ganito and di ko talaga magets ang mga bullies like ganon talaga sila pinalaki? Yun kapatid ko naka experience rin when he was in grade 6 dahil transferee from cavite to manila. He's now in senior high, nahihilig mag gym, para daw fit & pag bulk up wala rin daw mambubully sa kanya. Altho di naman sya nabubully ngayon pero i think factor yun ng naging trauma nya nun.
My daughter has been bullied a couple of times in school. Pati teacher binully sya. Maganda kasi sya to be honest.And all those times, nanunugod talaga ko, nangaway pati ng teachers. There was a time, 3 teachers nambully dahil sa inggit. May crush sa barkadang lalake ng anak ko. Tiklop sila. Binigyan pa ng mataas na grades anak ko.
Yung potential bullies ko nung elementary, parehong boys. Yung isa tinulak ko sa putikan and yung isa sinapak ko! It's in a private Catholic school, kaso mukha daw ako cute doll haha. Di maka paniwala principal and their parents na kaya ko gawin yun.Anabelle doll pala deep inside haha. Ni hindi pinatawag parents ko and lahat takot na sakin.😂😂
ang pamangkin kong babae ginawan din ng "we hate" club dati. transferee kasi sya that time, new kid in (elem or hs, not sure) school. idk how they dealt with it kasi papa at stepmom kasama nya sa house. she's in her late 20s now at she seems ok naman.
Growing up I was bullied left and right, ma-lalaki or babae na mga classmates ko. Hoy ang poor mo, ang pangit mo ang pandak mo at kung ano ano pa but they underestimated my strengt, I hurt them back and sometimes sinipa din nila ako but sinipa ko din sila. Yes mas poor kami kaysa sa kanila but I was the smart one, always top of my class and have a mentally of a woman who is hellbent of never letting anyone bullied me just because they can. At ngayon ang mga bullies ko noon ai walang wala sa buhay, alcoholic na tambay ang labas, kada uwi ko sa probinsya magsasabi pa oi balato since galing ka US, bilhin mo kami ng mainom saka pangpulutan hay ang KAPAL!!!! Never be a bully and never let them bully you either. If it’s my way an eye for an eye.
Exclusive Catholic school nag aaral anak niya ha. Alam ko pakiramdam ng anak niya when nabasa ko nga storya niya ganyan na ganyan din ginawa sa akın ng mga Classmates ko. Though Wala pa group chat that time hinde Pa uso nun but feeling left out is the worsy feeling but as you grow Older it will make you a stronger person . Cheer up little girl stay strong! Your family has your back
I was bullied when I was in gradeschool. I dont know why but one of my guy classmates looked at me as “kadiri” so he would never come near me. Siempre iba din yung tinging na sa akin ng mga classmates ko. Buti nalang I have close friends nung gradeschool and kami yung parang “loser” group, pero we were very happy together and up until now, magkukumare na kami. Anyway, I endured those 6 years of being bullied then lumipat nako ng HS and sobrang saya na sinabi ko sa sarili ko, ill be a different persona na and no one can bully me anymore, and thats what happened. College is the most happiest moment of my life kasi sobrang solid ng girl friends ko and nagbago din yung pagiging bitter ko nung GS.
I think malaking bagay din na wala pang social media noon. If meron siguro nung GS ako, for sure may GC nadin sila ginawa sakin at may mga pictures of shaming and whatnots. Kaya i feel bad for today’s generation din kasi masakit mabasa lahat ng mga sinasabi nila about you. Madudurog tlga self confidence mo. I hope lahat ng mga na bully, if kaya, lumipat nalang ng school. New environment can really help you move on and build your confidence back. Lalo naman if may means ang parents. Kesa kagaya ko na kailangan endure ang pangbbully coz hindi rin ako malipat ng parents ko at sakto lang ang kinikita noon.
Alam niyo most of my friends back in college graduate sila sa all girls school, around ortigas area.. I call them the Goldilocks 😆 gets niyo na. Alam niyo ba isang anak ng friend ko tinulak sa hagdan ng classmate niya, tapos yung isa naman Tinago ang lunch box so hinde nakakain ng lunch ang anak niya . Grabe diba? Sabi nila iba na daw ang P unlike before and they will never let their child Study sa school na yun kahit alumni sila. So my three friends they transferred na lang now they are happy and happy na anak nila. And yung Iba Hidne talaga nila Pinaaral P school.
There are just some bullies na kinakain lang ng jealousy kaya ganyan. Usually, binubully kapag mas maganda, mas mayaman, etc. sa kanila… inggit yan kasi nanay ng bata ay artista. Those bullies don’t really feel loved kaya ganyan
Nilait ako ng mas panget sa akin! Pinakita ko nga sa ate ko yung pic ng nambully sa akin nung high school. Sabi ng ate ko, "ngek!" Tapos tawa lang siya. 😂
Yes matagal nang issue ang bullying sa CSA. Sometimes i think the only reason i was never bullied there even if super tahimik ako issue because luckily i started there since kinder. So sa batch namin almost all knew each other since we were little. Unfortunately i also saw my batchmates bully a lot of newcomers especially if halatang they are not that well off
Batang 80’s ako I was able to defend myself - teasing p tawag non di p bully. One day high school ako group of boys pag kay dumadaan n girls loko Nila uy pink panty mo ano si girl sabi che Bastos! Dumaan ako sabi uy yellow panty mo ano tumigil ako sabi ko di yellow pula panty ko gusto nyo makita sinugod ko 🤣 takbo sila after that takot sila sa akin
If there are pieces of evidence specially the only hate campaign, take it to proper court. Mahina man but shake them and the school a bit. Yasmien, if it was since second grade and she is now 12, I feel so sorry for your daughter. Did you keep her in the same school?!
Ako yan? Aral ng Jujitsu/ karate/ judo etc para matakot mga yan and para din ma release nya stress nya. Pag di ba naman matakot mga bully sa sipa o suntok ng anak ko. Ka gigil mga bullies!!!
My daughter is already an adult now. We live in Dubai. Years ago, when she was just a grader in an international school here, i could sense that she was being bullied. Her classmates were of different nationalities, mainly arabic speakers and indians. They were always saying that their nannies were filipinos. I told my daughter I can't fight for her battles in school. I just told her, for as long as she didn't start the fight... just get even for as long as no one saw the incident. She became a better person since then.
My niece was poked with a needle regularly nung nasa gradeschool pa sya. Di sya nagsumbong sa parents nya sa sobrang takot. Sinumbong nya na daw sa counselor pero pinag sorry lang daw then tinutusok pa rin sya. So I went to her school, I ordered pizza for the whole class. Ginawa ko yun weekly for 2 months, I befriended her teachers and classmates then bumalik din ako ng US eventually. My niece eventually gained friends, So di na sya nilapitan nung bully kse may mga nagtatanggol na sa kanya. Funny how it became a tradition na pag umuuwi ako nagpapa pizza na ko school nya 😂
ganun ata talaga kapag maganda. Mare, laban lang. Name drop nila. wag kang payanig. kelangan ka nang anak mo and im sure na-appreciate niya ang support mo.
Ang daming may trauma dito from bullying, I hope nakapag therapy kayo mga sis! I was bullied in elementary but I fought back. Natamaan ko ng suntok sa mata yung bully, he ended up partially blind dahil may pumutok daw na ugat due to the force, ang liit kong bata, who knew makakasakit ako ng ganun just because I defended myself. I still carry that guilt to this day even with therapy.
80’s kid. Nun pa man uso na bully hindi lang kids minsan pati teachers. Tumigil pag target sakin ng teachers after ng PTA meeting when they saw my mom, magaling sa PR kasi yun at laging nanlilibre sa admin office hehe. Yung kids naman na nambully sakin, binato ko ng, cant remember what stapler ata or book. Di naman sya tinamaan pero, tumigil na after. Turo kasi sakin ng parents: wag magsimula ng gulo. Pero pag ginulo ka, sapakin mo, kami bahala sayo. Pinag taekwondo din ako and other extra curricular classes (music, dance, ballet, speaking classes) boosted my confidence.
I have beautiful little girl nieces. Pero OFW ako kaya di ko sila napupuntahan sa school. Their mommy my sister is a lawyer so they know na they have to stand up for themselves and their friends. Pero the youngest is shy so she usually gets bullied by other girls. They pull her hair, put stones in her bag and trip her. Her mom would go to school and it would stop until it begins again.
I asked her why, its because she won't let them copy her math homework (she is really very good), and it started from there. She is also very pretty and one of the popular boys had a crush on her. Ang pasimuno, anak ng isang teacher sa school. One time my then 9 yr old niece came home na punit ang bag at may mga pasa. My sister sued the family of the bully and the school. The ordeal was hard for my niece but she took her stand. I think it was character forming for her.
We transferred her to another school and she and her ate and kuya began learning Taekwondo. She is now 12, part of the ataekwondo team sa school, very confident with a sense of justice. We also won the case against the school and the family of her bully.
Maswerte my niece kasi her mom is a lawyer so we turned to legal remedy right away. Pero I can imagine other parents and bullied kids do not have that option.
Schools should really have more protections against this kind of behavior. Its traumatic for the kids and affects them through life.
I was bullied in highschool, at yung nambully sa akin mga laking eskwater na kumakanta kunwari ng worship songs at nagba-bible study tuwing sunday. Until now, I am scarred and I have PTSD. At the same time, I turned my pain to strength and now I have 3houses,2 cars, pension and retirement accounts. Pag chinecheck ko ung mga nambully sa akin, ayun eskwater pa rin sila, mas losyang nga lang. Hahhahah
this is very sad and traumatizing for her daughter. I guess some kids are not happy or jealous kasi anak cia ng artista. But why pede naman sila maging mga mag kakaibigan. Stop bullying and hope bigyan leksyon yang mga nag ganged up.
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Yung mga nanay ng bullies na kunsitidor sarap makita sa loob ng jail..
ReplyDeleteKung ako yan ililipat ko nalang ng school bago pa mahuli ang lahat
DeleteTruth!! My child has been bullied since kinder and sometime in grade school. I confronted the mother nung sa kinder, “mga bata yan”- yung anak ko tuklap ang balat sa kurot. Di ako nakapagpigil, cge sayo ko gagawin, tingnan ko reaction mo. I stand infront of her and the Male teacher was trying to be on the middle. Gigil talaga.
Delete2nd, grade 6. Ginagawang laughing stock anak ko ng group of friends. Papasamahin saknila then dedmahin lang tas magtatawanan. Umiiyak habang kumakain anak ko sa harap nila. I can’t take it at nag report ako sa school. All parents apologize to me and the kids too to her. I never gave them peace they were looking for. Binalik ko saknila lahat ng burden ng anak ko. Call me ev’l pero when it comes to our child. Lahat ng santo mabubuhay pag magalit ka.
My child was beautiful
We are paying 6 digits tuition
English community
And then ibubully lang ng mga kung sino.
7:39 Why should the victim suffer and be the one to leave? Dapat yung mga bullies ang paalisin at maghanap ng bagong schools!
DeleteNapaka squammy ng mga kaklase niya. Sad.
DeleteSince grade 2 p pala how come you didn’t do something about it.
DeleteFile a school complaint... with a lawyer.
DeleteRA 10627: The Anti-Bullying Act. Republic Act 10627, or the Anti-Bullying Act (the “Act”), aims to protect children enrolled in kindergarten, elementary, and secondary schools and learning centers (collectively, “Schools”) from being bullied.It requires Schools to adopt policies to address the existence of bullying in their respective institutions.
Sindakan lang yan girl, push!
9:50 for the child din naman yun. Ano, magpapamartyr anak mo? For you and your child's peace of mind, dapat ilipat na lang ng school. Kesa ganyan, pinatagal pa, nagsuffer na ang bata.
DeleteI heard daming bullies sa school na yan
Delete12:20 correct. Hindi lahat for the beliefs and the rights. If you think about the mental health of your child, disregard those for now and get your child out! Kahapon kausap ko lang friend ko, she tool her child out of the school and the child is happier now.
DeleteRich kids pero squammy attitudes.
Delete12:33 correct. Kung si Heart nga nabully diyan kahit mas mayaman kay Yasmien, what more pa ang anak niya
DeleteBat papalipatin ang anak ng school? Sya ang victim ang bullies ang dapat lumipat. Yang mga kunsintidor na nanay o magulang dapat sa mga yan ipako sa krus kc sila ang dahilan kaya mga bully ang anak nila. I get it. We see our children as angels but don’t tolerate your children if they’re bullies, discipline them!
DeleteAnong school yan ng maiwasan? Sabagay mukhang exclusive baka ako pa ang paalisin.
Deleteawh ang sakit pag ganyan. ilipat nya ng school sana
ReplyDeleteYes! Heart was also bullied there that forced her to dropout
DeleteDrop out not.move to another school? Ok
DeleteDapat maparusahan ang mga bullies pati na rin mga parents. There’s a reason bakit ganyan attitued nang mga anak and it usually comes from home and from parents. Go Yasmien! Protect your daughter. Minsan kung sino pa parents ng mga guilty, sila pa mayayabang lalo na pag “powerful” at may money.
ReplyDeleteSana possible. Mag “almost” all girls din anak ko sa grade school (Coed na kasi karamihan ng all girls after pandemic) and I heard mga ganjtong bullying tapos since officer sa school parent walang nagagawa. Maganfang school sya and I just hope maging palaban anak ko.
DeleteThe achool should do the sanctioning. The parent of the bullied party may file a case against the school.
DeleteAt this point can the bullies’ parents fight? Cus if this was my 12 year old, I’m throwing hands, don’t ever mess with my kid.
DeleteWhat's the school? Name drop na ng maiwasan ! Kaloka
ReplyDeleteSan Agustin daw
DeleteKahit naman anong school may bullies. Mag transfer nalang ng school para fresh start.
DeleteAlam ko CSA.
DeleteColegio San Agustin - Makati
Delete4:55 thanks classmate
DeleteNaku CSA - nasa reviews na yaj or i google mo pa lang lalabas na CSA sa bullying. Would help if mag search muna bago ienrol yong bata dito sa school na to. Muntikan nako buti na lang i googled their reviews first
DeleteSearch nyo sa fb thats not the first time
DeleteDiyan din yung student dati na kinarate ba yun sa cr
DeleteMahal tuition fee diyan bakit galawang squammy un mga bullies. Bata pa lang naghahasik na ng lagim. Kadiri
DeleteGrabe na talaga ngayon! Sana hindi maapektuhan ang mental health ng bata.
ReplyDeleteMas grabe dati pisikalan pa. Ako babae pero nasapak. Gumanti ko sinipa ko din. Buti nga nasabi niya sa nanay niya. Ako quiet na lang sa bahay
DeleteEven naman noon marami nang bullies . Most likely mga magulang ng mga yan ay bullies din . Bullies are losers .
DeleteMas OA ang pangbubully ngayon, hindi lang pisikalan kundi may kasama pang online. Panirigan in class, panirigan rin online. Unlike noon hanggan school lang.
DeleteAngdami na bullying incidents sa CSA nakakaloka angmahal ng tuition pa naman tapos ganyan
DeleteDapat sa mga yan eh ma sampolan ng social media wrath eh. Paki name them na nga Yasmine
ReplyDeleteAyun lang di mananame kase minors baka siya pa makasuhan
DeleteAah, the beauty of regular school, you should let your kids socialize they say. bullying is what they get instead. Now the kid is suffering. Homeschool is the best
ReplyDeleteNope
DeleteAgree
DeleteHomeschooling is no doubt great in many aspects, but regular schooling will teach you important social skills that you will otherwise not learn at home...there will be bullies everywhere be it at work or at school. If you shelter your children from having these bad experiences, how will they learn to handle it otherwise?
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Delete7:19 It doesn’t mean na pag nag-homeschool ikukulong mo sa house. My son is homeschooled pero we go out a lot. Magaling siya makipag-usap sa people of all ages, from kids at the playground to the waitstaff in restaurants to the cashier at bookstores to the lobby guards to him music teachers and other music kids. In my book, that’s true socialization.
Homeschooling allows us more freedom to follow his curiosities, and this gives him confidence and makes him see this early that what he thinks is important and considered. Also, learning becomes more organic. Tuwang-tuwa siya and very eager to learn, and so masayang-masaya siya and he goes out in the world being happy and kind.
We also did regular school for a few years, and every day my son would come home depressed. Nakakaawa talaga to see a naturally spirited child sobrang tahimik pagkagaling sa school. Kasi pala a band of boys singled him out na huwag kausapin. Witnessed it with my own eyes. Nadurog puso ko. That’s not the socialization I want for my kid or any kid kasi it teaches them too early that the world is cruel.
Of course, it’s not the best.
DeleteIt is a common notion that homeschooling deprives kids of the social skills that they need to be equipped with so they can be prepared for the realities of life. In my opinion, homeschooling provides the flexibility to carve out and prioritize all the important skillsets and values that you need to absorb by your children, and this definitely includes social skills. A lot of homeschooled children go to classes with other people, whether it's related to sports, music, the arts, language, or even technical skills on top of their academics. And they get to do all of these because of the flexibility of time that homeschool can offer. As a parent, it is my responsibility to ensure that my kids get to enjoy their childhood life with good loving memories instead of living in the mindset that they need to be exposed to life's harsh realities so early para lang makapagready sila ng mabuhay mag-isa. Life is good; it is true that it is also harsh, but I would rather equip them first with the right mind, strength in the soul, and character so they are fully prepared to face the realities of life.
DeleteAt the end of the day, regular school provides the day to day socialization with peers that homeschooling does not give. As simple as eating lunch with classmates, buddy system, having group activities, camping, playing sports, practicing for a school program. How invaluable the fun and laughter these activities provide.
DeleteWow! Pahabaan ng essay 🤣 hindi ko na binasa mga mumsh... homeschooling is not for everyone. Kaya wag na ipilit. We tried during the pandemic. Pero ang hirap para sa grade 2-3 level plus working pa kami. Stressful ang work ko so wala na akong energy magturo. And Dahil sa stress, wala na rin akong patience magturo. Binalik ko sa regular after the pandemic, at mas masaya siya. 2 yrs na kami sa regular school.
DeleteMagastos din siguro itong homeschooling. Aside from paying for acads, you need to look for socialization opportunities, which don't come cheap. Plus one parent needs to teach the kids. You must be rich for this kind of setup.
DeleteNag home study program ako sa Saint Francis of Assisi. Di ko inaadvertise ah pero search niyo na lang difference ng homestudy at home school. Kasi magkaiba sila. Masaya ako dun kaysa nung nag regular school ako ibang school. Kaya ako masaya kasi focused ako sa studies ko atsaka walang competition.
DeleteMy two kids were home schooled for a while. As an expat in a country International school wasn’t an option then as my husband was in between jobs. There was a support group of home schooled kids when we were in that country. We would meet once a week for educational field trips and social gatherings. When hubby was in his new job the kids went back to the international school. The teachers told me how unlike new kids in the school they were socially adaptable.
DeleteThis is unacceptable. That’s why I always tell my nieces & nephews, and I will also tell it to my baby someday, if someone bullies you, suntok agad sa bibig, pakainin ng ngipin. Hahaha! No wonder the bullies act like that, coz look how the parents are? Bullies are really molded in their own homes.
ReplyDeleteExactly,sa bahay talaga nagsisimula
DeleteAko din yan turo ko sa anak ko hindi sa pagiging basag ulo pero yang mga bully para yang mga sharks they can smell kung sino tatargetin nila
YES! Tama
DeleteYan din instructions ko sa anak ko. Fight back! As long as hindi kayo ang mauna.
DeleteSame lol
DeleteI've been bullied in my entire high school for being bisaya. Kase nagtransfer ako ng high-school sa Maynila galing probinsiya. Laging naghihintay yung mga bullies magsalita ako so they can laugh at my accent. Even the teacher laugh at my accent, bisaya bisakol , bisaklat and those words everyday thrown at me but I'd pay no attention kase those words are nothing to me and those bullies kase alam ko ang mga background kaya sila nambubully hanggang nag fourth year kami dun nagpang abot dahil namisikal , ay siempre kapag bisaya sinaktan mo pisikal di pwedeng di lumaban kaya sinuntok ko sa mukha dumugo ilong. Iba ang suntok ng bisaya malutong. 🤣 lalaki pa naman yun. And ending naguidance kami pareho muntikan ng di siya nakagraduate . Ayun na demerits siya ng 100.
DeleteKalalaking tao pa naman.
I was onced bullied by a guy classmate to the point na takot nako pumasok at seatmate ko pa. Imagine merong parang demonyo na bubulong bulong sa tabi ko abt nasty things. One time diko na napigil coz he said something abt raping my grandmother. I Stood up and twisted his arm really hard! U knw what, the ff day ni hindi makatingin sakin. E dpat pala nun ko pa sinuntok eh. And yan din sinasabi ko sa mga daughters ko, if someone bullies them, fight back. Basta hindi sila ang nauuna mangaway, i'm cool with it. Sapak kung sapak. Kaso theyre such good natured persons hahay. But gladly lagpas na sila sa stage na ganyan coz my eldest na bully na din sa school ng higher level pa mind you. Naku kaya i strongly support anything abt anti bullying.
Delete5:07 this is exactly what I told my kids
DeleteYes...eto sinasabi ko sa mga gurls ko, pag may nambully sa inyo or sinaktan kayo physically ganun din gawin nyo, pag sinabunutan ka sabunutan mo din....lumaban, wag magmukmok...
DeleteI was then in high school and older by 6 years sa sister ko. when i heard she was bullied by a classmate who takes her lunch money, phone, and snacks, naku sinugod ko talaga sa grade school at hinampas ng payong ang malditang bata. hindi na umulit after
Deletefeeling naman... BECAUSE I AM YOUR MOM
ReplyDeleteFeeling agad? What if may reason si Yasmien para sabihin ang statement na yun? What if they're using her to bully her? Gaslight her?
Deletehindi siya feeling, maybe that's one of the reason din.. hindi man siya superstar eh siya parin si Yasmien Kurdi na kilalang-kilala.
DeleteTita ikaw yung Nanay ng bully noh?
DeleteEto ung nanay nung isang bully.
DeleteYou must be one of those bullies! You didn't even understand the context of her post.
DeleteIt's possible you know. Stop victim blaming!
Deletelapag ng soc med para mabash tong kunsitidor na to
DeleteCguro eto yung kumare na nagheart pero parent pala ng bully
DeleteIsa sa mga nanay ng bully to si 3:19! Napaghahalataan ka girl!
DeleteUy..guilty mom oh..tinamaan ka ba?
DeleteSince shunga ka, let me explain to you what she meant abt "because i am your mom". She meant she's not like any other mom na tatahimik na lang. gets?
DeleteMalamang ito ung nagsabi ng Back-off isa sa mga guilty mom. Sure na momshie halata ka..
DeleteC 3:19 chismosa na nga, mukhang nanay pa ng bully kid/s 🤭
Delete3:19 possible naman kahit naman hindi siya sikat pwede one of the reason na sinasabi yun ng mga bullies against ayesha of course anak niya yan alam niya yung story behind the bullying. Pwede kasi na introvert yung anaka niya or hindi feel ng mga bullies just because artista ang nanay
Delete3:19 Mayayaman yung mga bullies and they're may be looking down on Yasmien dahil artista lang sya. Bully ka rin eh.
DeleteHahahaha! Kuyog si mother 3:19. Basahin mo mga reps para maramdaman mo ma bully.
DeleteGanon na ba kalala ang mga pinoy. Sa dhar-mann studio ko lang napapanuod yong ganyan. Imagine grade 2 pa sya binubully. Ilipat na lang nya ng school. Kawawa naman yong bata, di naging maganda ang experience nya sa school.
ReplyDeleteWell eversince naman mga pinoy ay bullies . Based on my experience , my girl classmates in high school were “bullying “me behind my back . They said pangit ng mukha kahit matalino . And may mga nagsusumbong naman. I just have tons of confidence that I never let them win . After high school I never looked back . Emigrated and went to school here in the US ( thanks to my mom who was a nurse ) Dito , people find me beautiful and I never experience whatever I had diyan sa Pinas . I had some few friends who found me in social media years ago and pinaala sa akin saying “ alam mo yung mga namimintas sa iyo noon wala silang natapos at hirap sa buhay . I said, they never matter . Naalala ko lang dati kinumusta ka nila behind your back . Now , gumanda ka na at very successful pa sabi ba naman lol . I find it so amusing kasi hindi mo maalala. Thanks to my mom who inculcated in me the value of self esteem , self confidence and resilience . Kids now are lucky there is anti bullying now . Back in the days , even teachers are bullies .
DeleteKung sabagay 5:21 PM kahit pala noon nga may bullying na din. I remember yong di ko alam kung nanliligaw ba yon o tinutukso tukso lang ako kasi sa harap ng buong klase umeepal sakin panay kantyawan naman ng buong klase, bwisit na bwisit ako, araw arawin ba naman ang pamimwisit parang ayoko ng pumasok. Ang kaibahan lang ng noon at ngayon kasi di pa tayo masyado aware ng mental health issue na yan kasi alaga pa tayo ng mga magulang natin, walang gadget pa nung panahon ko eh. So tutok ang magulang natin sa pangangalaga sa mga anak nila. Ngayon kasi sa magulang din nag uumpisa kung bakit nawalan ng kumpyansa sa sarili ang mga bata. Dahil kinulang sa aruga. Pag kailangan ng bata, bibigyan ng cp. Or kaya tatawagin ang yaya.... Haaaay
DeleteI am 38 now and I have been bullied from elementary to high school and my first job. One of the many reasons eh nung elementary kasi ako daw ang gusto ng mga crush nila. So the girls hate me and calling me pokpok kahit na I was only friends with the boys kasi medyo tomboy tomboy ako nun. Nung high school is same. Plus the fact na I was doing great job academically and I was in sports team. Girls hate me for that. May nakipag sabunutan pa. Pinoys are bullies unfortunately
DeleteKahi saang bansa may bullies. Kung tutuusin yung bullying satin is nothing compared sa other east asian countries like Japan and SK. Ibang level dun
DeleteI, too, was bullied. Though not harap harapan, pero yung hindi lagi sinasamahan, hindi included. Not part of any all-girl barkadas around. I was big, maitim, not pretty. Lucky to have a few friends, 2 or 3 lang, na kept me company somehow during those 4 years in highschool. I felt ignored lang. Kaya hindi masaya ang higjschool memories ko. If ever nga magrereunion, I dont think I will attend. But I have moved on na. I am not affected na by my past. I dont look like before, nag-glow up na kumbaga. Hahaha. I have a gwapong hubby na (haha), i have met true friends also, I win awards sa work din. So life has been good so far. I didnt hold grudges na. Yung nambully sa akin nung HS, na binully pa ulit ako nung one time nakita ko nung college sa terminal ng vans, sadly nadeads na due to covid.
DeleteI went to an exclusive catholic girls school when i was in high school and was bullied extensively because of my skin color.
DeleteIngudngod mo nagsabi ng back off!
ReplyDeleteIm sorry to hear this. My kid is also in CSA now but we will move her to
ReplyDeletea different school next year.
May mga balita ba sa school about sa incident na ito? Or marami ba talagang bully sa CSA? Sana may gawin sila sa mga bullies. This needs attention kung dumadami na talaga ang incidents.
DeleteAs a Mom too ang hirap Nyan. It's time na to transfer her daughter out of that school.
ReplyDeleteHomeschooling is the best and effective. Like Kramer’s fam, mas tutok sila and walang mga ganyang ganap. Not safe anymore sa school, mapipilitan kang makisama sa mga low class na tao.
ReplyDeleteHomeschooling is a privilege. Not for everyone especially in this 3rd world country.
Deletesa teacher & principal po magsumbong, hindi sa socmed
ReplyDeleteSa socmed nya po kayo mag comment. Di po dito. Di nya mababasa yan
DeleteMinsan yung mga officials ng school bulag bulagan lalo na kung malaki ang ambag sa school ng pamilya ng bullies.
DeleteSus dami na nga history ng bullying sa school meaning wala magawa ang school. Gets?
DeleteSana di na lang nya dinala sa social media to. Kasi baka kahit ilipat nya ng school may mga mambubully pa din dahil alam nila na nabully na sya dati. Mas lalala pa yung anxiety ng bata dahil sa post na to
ReplyDeleteImagination mo nlng yan. What if mas mag thrive ang anak nya sa ibang school at mas may compassion ang new school and schoolmates? Wag ka paladesisyon kng ank gusto nya ipost. Just syaing
DeleteNo what she did is right! The school
DeleteGot their own dose of medicine. lessons sa school and also sa mga teacher esp the adviser ng class why they let this happen. They will never learn Hangang ma call attention nila.
Had the same experience with my child. Akala ko it wouldn't happen to us since we are well off and she studies in an exclusive school.
ReplyDeleteFirst offense: Three girls smeared ink at the back rest of my daughter's armchair. So my daughter was unaware that there was a big red ink stain on her blouse the whole afternoon. Sister talked to the three. The mom of the leader-bully was in denial.
Offense Two: They locked her in the classroom so she could not go down during convocation. School then sent letters to the parents.
Offense Three: Daughter was waiting for me at SB. The three came and "accidentally" spilled water on her worksheets.
So I got so pissed I had to tell my husband. My husband was surprised when she learned who the leader-bully was. The lead-bully's father was indebted to us in the amount of eight digits, and was asking for an extension to pay.
So naging evil din ako. When the school's Christmas Bazaar came, I told a story to the chismosa of the batch about the bully daughter and the family's debt to us. Of course the GC was on fire!
And then my daughter learned about the debt.
I was told that the bullies were at it again, and so my daughter and her friend stood up to them, and in front of may students said to the lead-bully, WHY DON'T YOU JUST TELL YOUR DAD TO PAY UP! YES, YOU'RE DAD OWES US PHP __ MILLION. GO ASK YOUR PARENTS. Instead of always bothering us.
Shocked yang lead bully.
Our child and her friend transferred to an Intl school which worked wonders for their wellbeing. The lead bully became ostracised, and her dad eventually gave up his Anvaya property to pay us.
Whew parang pang Koreanovela yung plot twist ng story mo. Mas malala pala ang bullying sa mayayaman na society. Am sorry you had to deal with that but also glad that you and your daughter are now in a better place 🙏
DeleteLakas maka teleserye momsh. Dun tayo sa true na kwento, wag gawa gawa
DeleteWow. Happy that your child learned how to stand up for herself; way to go.
Delete737 kapag mayaman gawa gawa? mamsh. d porket mayaman si 348 at hindi mo maunawaan o di kaya ng bulsa mo abutin ang lalim ng kaban nya eh di na totoo. mahirap ka na nga, bully ka pa
DeleteDi ko alam kung maniniwala ako o pauuwiin kita sa gillage. Hehehe peace po.
DeleteYung anak ng friend ko din got bullied tapos sa well known school pa! Hindi ko alam kung rich kid things toh o ganyan talaga mga bata ngayon. Ang nakakainis walang ginagawa yung school na yun kahit pa ilan beses na nag reklamo yung friend ko. Kawawa sila akala nila porket top school maayos maalagaan yung anak nila
ReplyDeleteBlue or green?
DeleteGrabe yung Ayesha Hate Club. Ang lala. Ilipat mo na ang anak mo ng school. Hayaan mo na sila mabulok sa school na yan. Peace of mind ang mas mahalaga pero make sure na ipaglaban mo ang complain.
ReplyDeletenaku ganyan din sa school naman. may masyadong mapapel na feeling powerful sa school. sinipa ang daughter ko. accident daw. nakailang accident na yung bata sa anak ko and known bully siya ng anak ko. also joining a hate club BUT liars will lie and dinedeny niya. pero documented yung panghaharass niya sa anak ko paulit ulit nilalapitan anak ko maski pinagsabihang lumayo at bawal lumapit.
ReplyDeleteMay mga bullies talaga sa mga schools. Good thing nireklamo ni Yasmin to make them accountable. Sana aksyunan ng school.
ReplyDeleteName the school
ReplyDeleteWhen that school goes viral for bullying it will be forced to investigate
ReplyDeleteI suggest getting her to self defense classes like Jiu Jitsu plus regular exercise etc for physical fitness, will also give her self confidence. Appearing fearless complimented with “fighting” skills is a good weapon against bullies.
ReplyDeleteNakakagigil talga kapag anak mo na ang inaatake. Jusko. Ekis sa school na walang action sa bullies
ReplyDeleteMy daughter and son were the only Asians in their school. My daughter was bullied when she was in first grade to the point that the girl who was bullying my daughter had nightmares because of her own bullying. Yes, you read it right. It was the bully who had nightmares for bullying my child. The homeroom teacher recommended for me to talk to the mother when I discussed it with her. Wrong move. Even when I calmly talked to the mom, she accused me of bullying her.
ReplyDeleteShe never reprimanded her kid and continued to condone her behavior. One day, at the grocery store, my daughter cowered behind me while pointing at the bully and her mom then said, “Mom they are here.” I waited until they walked closer to us and said to my daughter, “ You should not be afraid no more. I am here to protect you and I will make sure no one will ever hurt you. If they do, I will call the company where the bully’s father ( manager of a well known grocery store) works and report to them how he can’t control his wife and daughter in bullying a little girl. I will go to the principal and school board and report the bully and her parents. It’s their responsibility to correct the behavior of their child.” Then I looked at the bully with piercing eyes, then turned and looked at her mom from head to toe.
The homerooom teacher didn’t want me to go to the principal at to see if she could handle it. I said, “Enough.”
I talked to the principal the next day and to which he said, “Next time, nip it on the bud.” There were no next time. The school made sure they were in separate classrooms and the principal talked to the parents.
Our greatest consolation was that my daughter gets the top award at the end of each school year, when all the parents were invited to attend. She flourished afterwards and did well.
Nabully pamangkin ko na nasa spectrum, kinampihan ng school ang bully dahil may pa aircon pala ang parents. Sabi ng ate ko hayaan na. Inakyat ko reklamo sa Deped. Nasipa yung bully sa school. Napakasatisfying makita yung parents ng bully na umiiyak. Hindi na nabully ulit pamangkin ko after that.
ReplyDeleteThis!
DeleteOmg, ang galing!! sobrang satisfying nito kung nawitness ko
Deleteganito dapat para masabing DESERVED!!!
DeleteNot sure if lumipat na ng school ung anak nya but if you do a little research her daughter graduated elementary sa Colegio De San Agustin.
ReplyDeleteOmg diyan din sa CSA na bully yung husband ko. More than 30 years ago. Sa school bus naman siya na bully.
DeleteBakit sila may device na nakaka capture ng videos sa school?
ReplyDeleteDi ba pwede kasuhan yung mga bullies, parents, or school? Sana mapansin ito ng gobyerno pra mapalakas ang batas against bullying/bullies. Wag na sana hintayin may mawala at umiyak na mga magulang bago kumilos ang mga gumagawa ng batas.
ReplyDeleteSabi ko sa mga pamangkin ko, kapag may magtangkang mambully sa kanila pasimple nilang pikunin tapos kapag inunahan silang saktan physically saka nila banatan...bugbugan with caution na this😂
ReplyDeleteIlipat na lang ng school sana at mukhang mababang uri ang mga students dun sa school niya. Tapos kung matagal na pala, bakit di na control ng school. School is a child’s second home. Pinagkatiwalaan ng parents yung anak nila sa school tapos ganyan? Someone needs to be liable. Dapat either ma-suspend or kick out yung mga bullies or kasuhan yung parents ng bullies at school.
ReplyDeleteBakit kailangan ipost sa socmed?
ReplyDeleteShe talked to the mothers and wala sila pake by posting this sana makaramdam sila ng kahit konting guilt and mabasa nila reactions from other people, di naman sila pinangalanan
Deletemaybe napuno na sya and she need tot each those b*********************************** a lesson hahah daming *
Delete5;11 bakit hindi? Social media can also be a tool to bring social injustices and issues to light, personal man or collective experience.
DeleteEnabler po kasi ang mga parents ng mga bullies and the school sided with the bullies.
DeleteNasa Soc Med era na tayo, madalas mas napapabilis ang action pag pinost sa Soc Med
DeleteWhat school para mapahiya and tumigil.
Deleteso you can post private convo of cheating pero ung pag bully sa anak mo hindi?
DeleteBakit hindi? And your point is?
DeleteWala naman magagawa ang socmed sa problema sa bully. Personal na yan. Hayaan nalang manahimik yung bata. Pasiyahin nalang ng nanay at bigyan sya ng space.
Delete5:11 buti nga sa mga bully na yan! Lol
DeleteThanked God I don’t have kids or else matagal na akong nasa correctional facility. One of the many reasons I don’t have kids , I cannot protect my kid 24/7 from rapists , bullies and those people who abuse .
ReplyDeleteI feel you mars. Same sentiments here
DeleteSame. Tumanda na na mag isa kesa magdusa ako sa ganitong issues.
DeleteI was bullied in gradeschool too. I am glad my mom stood up for me. The bullying stopped but the group of girls who were bullies turned their attention towards another who they can bully. It won't stop until schools encourage cliques and don't teach about bullying. At this day and age, schools should enforce stricter measures on this. Make bullies not welcome. The students and their parents should learn the hard lesson the most by sending them to another school. Don't make the bullied student suffer more. The consequence should be serious for bullies as the experience is mentally damaging for a long period of time.
ReplyDeleteTeacher Ako. This might get me in trouble but I always tell my advisory class to fight back kapag mam bully sa kanila. Palagi ko sinasabi sa kanila na sasamahan ko Sila sa guidance office kung maka sapak or nagkasakit Sila dahil inaapi Sila. I was a victim of bullying in grade school.. tumigil lang ang mga hayp sa pangbubully sa akin noong natuto all lumaban.
ReplyDeleteTingnan mo muna kung sino ang mali. Kasi ako nung elementary, nabully ako. pero yung bully pa yung nagsumbong sa teacher. Pinagalitan ako ng teacher at pinatawag parents ko. NBI police ang tatay ko kaya nagimbestiga siya at nagtanong tanong sa mga bata. Ayun... yung mga classmates ko ang nag testify na si E talaga ynng bully. Ninanakaw niya ballpen ko lagi para di ako makapag quiz tapos kinukurot nya ako pag binawi ko yung ballpen. Salamat at tumestigo yung mga katabi namin sa upuan. galit na galit tatay ko sa teacher at sinabihan na magsasampa kami ng kaso para alisan siya ng lisensya. ayun iyak siya nang iyak. nagmakaaawa sa tatay ko na patawarin siya. point being is - you're a teacher. May responsibilidad ka alimin ang totoo.
DeleteGood job, teach! While we teach our students to be gracious and kind, we should also teach them how to stand up for themselves when genuinely oppressed. We have to teach them not to be a bully, to never ever tolerate bullies. Not all are brave to stand up at a young age and so we need to let them know that their person is heard, seen valued and important all the time.
DeleteI salute you, ma'am.
DeleteAs a parent I might get in trouble for saying this, pero bravo! 👏🏻
DeleteThis is the reason bat hindi ko malipat yung anak ko dun sa current school nya even it is so hard for me to sustain it. It’s so difficult humanap ng school ngayon na yung culture ng mga bata maayos ang upbringing at yung school actively participating pag may mga case na medyo alarming, though thankfully walang mga ganitong kalalang case. Nakakaawa yung mga bata, better transfer her it will not get better at dadalin nya yang mental stress na yan hangang paglaki nya
ReplyDeleteKung gusto mo gumanti, name names, ibabash at ibubully din yan sa socmed for sure.
ReplyDeleteWe've experienced the same situation with our only child. Ang sakit sa loob ko since working ako abroad at wala akong magawa. Parang gusto ko umuwi agad agad at iparanas sa mga bullies yung ginagawa nila sa Anak ko.
ReplyDeleteAno bang klaseng school yan. Grade 2 pa nabully, walang ginawa. Baka nagdonate ng aircon yung parents ng bullies lolll
ReplyDeleteSchool ang may problema jan.
ReplyDeleteKunsintidor.
Kung sa umpisa pinigil na or very strict ang anti bullying policies, Hindi aabot sa ganyan.
Ang school ang nag empower sa mga bullies dahil alam nila na walang gagawin ang school and takot ang school sa mga magulang lalo kung mayayaman or mas mayaman sa biktima.
And also, dahil sa kawalan ng Aksyon sa bully, kapag inexpose ng biktima ang bully babaliktarin pa sila ng school at ng bully na sila ang nangbubully dahil inexpose sila at mapapahiya sila tapos magpapaawa yung bully na di naman napatunayan or wala silang due process. Eh wala nga ginagawa ang school pano magkakadue process??? Ang mundo ngayon tlga baliktad na
may tao talagang lapitin ng bully anu??? imagine since grade 2 nabubully na at me hate club anak nya.... parang me magnet for bullies... kasi me mga nerdy, weird, simple, maarte at aloof people na di naman nabubully minsan nga mas may friends pa sila sa iba... wala lang curious lang hahahahahaah
ReplyDeleteBully ka no? Anong curious. Kung di ka nabubully pero naoobeserve mo yang ganyan, what did you do to stand up to bullies?
DeleteHow come jasmine allow that since grade 2 p
DeleteCguro nmn recently lang nya nalaman no,
DeleteSana may anti bullying movement per school. Someone responsible for this sole purpose. Because there is always always a bully or group of bullies out there and we have to make them accountable for their actions. Hanggang ngayon I still remember what my bullies did to me. While some of them said sorry when we hit HS and college, most of them were not remorseful. I was too shy to stand up for myself then. But I hope I did.
ReplyDeleteAng turo ko sa mga anak pag may nagbully they need to fight back. Minsan may nagbully sa grade 2 na anak ko, tapos nalaman ng bunso ko na kindergarten, sinampolan yung nagbully at sinuntok niya sa tummy. Umiyak ang bully. I do not tolerate din naman mga kids ko na manakit pero kung may dahilan at need nilang upagtanggol ang sarili nila, hindi naman ako kokontra.
ReplyDeletePaulit ulit din nabully 5yo kindergarten son ko. Catholic school pa man din sa south starting with V. Parish priest ang school director. Sabi niya wala raw sense of wrong o right mga bata. Nakita na ng teacher na paulit ulit yung 2 kapwa 5yo classmate nang kutos, sinulatan sa damit at mukha, kinukutya at kinorner pa anak ko, hinila pa upuan ng anak ko nung pinapaalis nung bully. Pinapasorry lang ang bullies. Kundi ko pa naaktuhan isang hatid ko, hindi k0 mabubuko lahat. Sabi ng anak ko binura ni teacher sulat sa mukha niya. Hindi daw matatawag na BULLYING pag mga bata lang involved. Ayaw pa magrefund ng tuition nung inaalis ko na anak ko.
ReplyDeleteMay ganyan din private school sa makati.
DeleteWalang bully from grade 4 pababa kasi bata pa daw.
Sa may tabi ng simbahan to? If yes, siga kasi mga studyante dun. Usually mga kick-out ng M o SB.
DeleteDapat ireport nya sa school yan pag walang action saka nya gamitin ang social media power nya para mapilitan ang school na umaksyon. kumuha ng matinding evidence lagyan ng hidden camera sa damit ng anak para marecord mga ginagawa sa kanya ng mga bullies at maireport nya. nangigigil ako sa mga magulang na hinahayaang mambully anak nila ang sarap nilang makita behind the bar kahit for 1wk lang ng madala! tingin ko insecurity ang root ng pambubully.
ReplyDeleteI dont know them and I dont know the real story behind the issue so its really hard to judge. I was hoping the adults handled the situation better including Yasmien. Dont put labels sa nga bata as “bullies” and “bullied” dahil masakit talaga yan sa magulang but understand where the miscommunication is coming from. Baka may valid points din ang mga kaklase. Listen and be good example. Kung sila mismong parents magaaway away at aarte na parang mgs bata, paano masolve ang problema?
ReplyDeleteNaranasan din po yan ng Anak ko sa school. Nginudngod ba naman anak ko sa desk ng upuan nya?😢 talagang pinuntahan ko mismo ung adviser nila at pinatawag ung Nanay . Ayaw pa maniwala na ginawa ng Anak nya un sa Anak ko eh maraming witness na mismo kaklase nila. Di kc marunong mag sumbong at mang away Anak ko kaya sobrang sama ng loob ko nun. At mismo pa palang inaanak namin sa binyag ang nang away sa anak ko. ( di ko kc kilala ung bata kc hubby ko ang umattend sa binyag nung bata dahil nasa malayo ako.)biglang pangalawang ina ng bata cyempre pinagsabihan ko ung bata na wag na uulitin, Nang hingi naman ng pasensya ung bata Aba'y ang kunsintidorang ina di na pinag mamano anak nya samin.😁 twing pasko di na pinapapunta sa amin.😅
ReplyDeleteMatanda nako na bubully pako sa office. One time pumatol ako at nagsisisigaw ako sa buong office eh di tumigil sya. Super yuko sya sa desk nya sa sobrang hiya! Di nya inakala na papatulan ko sya at super loud ako nakikipag away sa kanya, natameme sya
ReplyDelete7:43 merong ganyan, bullies nadadala nila wats nila pagdating ng trabaho. Kelangan maging advocate ka para s sarili mo at wag kang paapi.
Delete7:53, Unahan lang talaga sa sindakan. Tatameme talaga sila pag pinatulan mo na.
DeleteAng sad ng ganito and di ko talaga magets ang mga bullies like ganon talaga sila pinalaki? Yun kapatid ko naka experience rin when he was in grade 6 dahil transferee from cavite to manila. He's now in senior high, nahihilig mag gym, para daw fit & pag bulk up wala rin daw mambubully sa kanya. Altho di naman sya nabubully ngayon pero i think factor yun ng naging trauma nya nun.
ReplyDeleteDati na palang nabubully, di mo pa nilipat ng school? Nasa yo na ang problema.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter has been bullied a couple of times in school. Pati teacher binully sya. Maganda kasi sya to be honest.And all those times, nanunugod talaga ko, nangaway pati ng teachers. There was a time, 3 teachers nambully dahil sa inggit. May crush sa barkadang lalake ng anak ko. Tiklop sila. Binigyan pa ng mataas na grades anak ko.
ReplyDeletesometimes it’s not bullying if they stood up for your child’s bad behaviour. Baka gumanti lang. mga bata eh. Yaan na.
ReplyDeleteYung potential bullies ko nung elementary, parehong boys. Yung isa tinulak ko sa putikan and yung isa sinapak ko! It's in a private Catholic school, kaso mukha daw ako cute doll haha. Di maka paniwala principal and their parents na kaya ko gawin yun.Anabelle doll pala deep inside haha. Ni hindi pinatawag parents ko and lahat takot na sakin.😂😂
ReplyDeleteBully ang mga anak anu pa expect mo sa parents, Santo? Cyempre cut from the same tree. The school is not exempted from the issue dapat may gawin sila.
ReplyDeletesue the school
ReplyDeleteang pamangkin kong babae ginawan din ng "we hate" club dati. transferee kasi sya that time, new kid in (elem or hs, not sure) school. idk how they dealt with it kasi papa at stepmom kasama nya sa house. she's in her late 20s now at she seems ok naman.
ReplyDeleteGrowing up I was bullied left and right, ma-lalaki or babae na mga classmates ko. Hoy ang poor mo, ang pangit mo ang pandak mo at kung ano ano pa but they underestimated my strengt, I hurt them back and sometimes sinipa din nila ako but sinipa ko din sila. Yes mas poor kami kaysa sa kanila but I was the smart one, always top of my class and have a mentally of a woman who is hellbent of never letting anyone bullied me just because they can. At ngayon ang mga bullies ko noon ai walang wala sa buhay, alcoholic na tambay ang labas, kada uwi ko sa probinsya magsasabi pa oi balato since galing ka US, bilhin mo kami ng mainom saka pangpulutan hay ang KAPAL!!!! Never be a bully and never let them bully you either. If it’s my way an eye for an eye.
ReplyDeleteYang mga yayamin na schools ay maraming bully dala ng matataas na ego ng mga batang spoiled and pampered.
ReplyDeleteExclusive Catholic school nag aaral anak niya ha. Alam ko pakiramdam ng anak niya when nabasa ko nga storya niya ganyan na ganyan din ginawa sa akın ng mga
ReplyDeleteClassmates ko. Though Wala pa group chat that time hinde Pa uso nun but feeling left out is the worsy feeling but as you grow
Older it will make you a stronger person . Cheer up little girl stay strong! Your family has your back
I was bullied when I was in gradeschool. I dont know why but one of my guy classmates looked at me as “kadiri” so he would never come near me. Siempre iba din yung tinging na sa akin ng mga classmates ko. Buti nalang I have close friends nung gradeschool and kami yung parang “loser” group, pero we were very happy together and up until now, magkukumare na kami. Anyway, I endured those 6 years of being bullied then lumipat nako ng HS and sobrang saya na sinabi ko sa sarili ko, ill be a different persona na and no one can bully me anymore, and thats what happened. College is the most happiest moment of my life kasi sobrang solid ng girl friends ko and nagbago din yung pagiging bitter ko nung GS.
ReplyDeleteI think malaking bagay din na wala pang social media noon. If meron siguro nung GS ako, for sure may GC nadin sila ginawa sakin at may mga pictures of shaming and whatnots. Kaya i feel bad for today’s generation din kasi masakit mabasa lahat ng mga sinasabi nila about you. Madudurog tlga self confidence mo. I hope lahat ng mga na bully, if kaya, lumipat nalang ng school. New environment can really help you move on and build your confidence back. Lalo naman if may means ang parents. Kesa kagaya ko na kailangan endure ang pangbbully coz hindi rin ako malipat ng parents ko at sakto lang ang kinikita noon.
Is is ok to just teach your kid to punch the bully in the face? Para tuldokan na?
ReplyDeleteAlam niyo most of my friends back in college graduate sila sa all girls school, around ortigas area.. I call them the Goldilocks 😆 gets niyo na. Alam niyo ba isang anak ng friend ko tinulak sa hagdan ng classmate niya, tapos yung isa naman Tinago ang lunch box so hinde nakakain ng lunch ang anak niya . Grabe diba? Sabi nila iba na daw ang P unlike before and they will never let their child
ReplyDeleteStudy sa school na yun kahit alumni sila. So my three friends they transferred na lang now they are happy and happy na anak nila. And yung Iba Hidne talaga nila
Pinaaral P school.
There are just some bullies na kinakain lang ng jealousy kaya ganyan. Usually, binubully kapag mas maganda, mas mayaman, etc. sa kanila… inggit yan kasi nanay ng bata ay artista. Those bullies don’t really feel loved kaya ganyan
ReplyDeleteNilait ako ng mas panget sa akin! Pinakita ko nga sa ate ko yung pic ng nambully sa akin nung high school. Sabi ng ate ko, "ngek!" Tapos tawa lang siya. 😂
DeletePag aralin mo ng Martial Arts anak mo Yasmien para hindi ma-bully if she can protect herself.
ReplyDeleteYes matagal nang issue ang bullying sa CSA. Sometimes i think the only reason i was never bullied there even if super tahimik ako issue because luckily i started there since kinder. So sa batch namin almost all knew each other since we were little. Unfortunately i also saw my batchmates bully a lot of newcomers especially if halatang they are not that well off
ReplyDelete10:44 PM CSA ba daughter ni Yasmien? I'm surprised kasi INC sya so I thought she would enroll her kid sa INC school.
Delete1:15 Matagal na po sya tiniwalag sa INC.
DeleteMove her to IS Manila or Brent
ReplyDeleteBatang 80’s ako I was able to defend myself - teasing p tawag non di p bully. One day high school ako group of boys pag kay dumadaan n girls loko Nila uy pink panty mo ano si girl sabi che Bastos! Dumaan ako sabi uy yellow panty mo ano tumigil ako sabi ko di yellow pula panty ko gusto nyo makita sinugod ko 🤣 takbo sila after that takot sila sa akin
ReplyDeleteIf there are pieces of evidence specially the only hate campaign, take it to proper court. Mahina man but shake them and the school a bit. Yasmien, if it was since second grade and she is now 12, I feel so sorry for your daughter. Did you keep her in the same school?!
ReplyDeleteOnline* or thread hate campaign
DeleteAko yan? Aral ng Jujitsu/ karate/ judo etc para matakot mga yan and para din ma release nya stress nya. Pag di ba naman matakot mga bully sa sipa o suntok ng anak ko. Ka gigil mga bullies!!!
ReplyDeleteMy daughter is already an adult now. We live in Dubai. Years ago, when she was just a grader in an international school here, i could sense that she was being bullied. Her classmates were of different nationalities, mainly arabic speakers and indians. They were always saying that their nannies were filipinos. I told my daughter I can't fight for her battles in school. I just told her, for as long as she didn't start the fight... just get even for as long as no one saw the incident. She became a better person since then.
ReplyDeleteMy niece was poked with a needle regularly nung nasa gradeschool pa sya. Di sya nagsumbong sa parents nya sa sobrang takot. Sinumbong nya na daw sa counselor pero pinag sorry lang daw then tinutusok pa rin sya.
ReplyDeleteSo I went to her school, I ordered pizza for the whole class. Ginawa ko yun weekly for 2 months, I befriended her teachers and classmates then bumalik din ako ng US eventually. My niece eventually gained friends, So di na sya nilapitan nung bully kse may mga nagtatanggol na sa kanya. Funny how it became a tradition na pag umuuwi ako nagpapa pizza na ko school nya 😂
Lumaban ka, Yasmien! Mahahadera tong mga to ang kapal and tigas ng mga mukha. I'm praying for Ayesha ❤️
ReplyDeleteBy the way, off topic, nasa top 3 favorite actress ko si Yasmien ☺️
Me too for some reason pinapanood ko ang teleserye pag andun sya.
Deleteganun ata talaga kapag maganda. Mare, laban lang. Name drop nila. wag kang payanig. kelangan ka nang anak mo and im sure na-appreciate niya ang support mo.
ReplyDeleteAng daming may trauma dito from bullying, I hope nakapag therapy kayo mga sis! I was bullied in elementary but I fought back. Natamaan ko ng suntok sa mata yung bully, he ended up partially blind dahil may pumutok daw na ugat due to the force, ang liit kong bata, who knew makakasakit ako ng ganun just because I defended myself. I still carry that guilt to this day even with therapy.
ReplyDelete80’s kid. Nun pa man uso na bully hindi lang kids minsan pati teachers. Tumigil pag target sakin ng teachers after ng PTA meeting when they saw my mom, magaling sa PR kasi yun at laging nanlilibre sa admin office hehe. Yung kids naman na nambully sakin, binato ko ng, cant remember what stapler ata or book. Di naman sya tinamaan pero, tumigil na after. Turo kasi sakin ng parents: wag magsimula ng gulo. Pero pag ginulo ka, sapakin mo, kami bahala sayo. Pinag taekwondo din ako and other extra curricular classes (music, dance, ballet, speaking classes) boosted my confidence.
ReplyDeleteI have beautiful little girl nieces. Pero OFW ako kaya di ko sila napupuntahan sa school. Their mommy my sister is a lawyer so they know na they have to stand up for themselves and their friends. Pero the youngest is shy so she usually gets bullied by other girls. They pull her hair, put stones in her bag and trip her. Her mom would go to school and it would stop until it begins again.
ReplyDeleteI asked her why, its because she won't let them copy her math homework (she is really very good), and it started from there. She is also very pretty and one of the popular boys had a crush on her. Ang pasimuno, anak ng isang teacher sa school. One time my then 9 yr old niece came home na punit ang bag at may mga pasa. My sister sued the family of the bully and the school. The ordeal was hard for my niece but she took her stand. I think it was character forming for her.
We transferred her to another school and she and her ate and kuya began learning Taekwondo. She is now 12, part of the ataekwondo team sa school, very confident with a sense of justice. We also won the case against the school and the family of her bully.
Maswerte my niece kasi her mom is a lawyer so we turned to legal remedy right away. Pero I can imagine other parents and bullied kids do not have that option.
Schools should really have more protections against this kind of behavior. Its traumatic for the kids and affects them through life.
I was bullied in highschool, at yung nambully sa akin mga laking eskwater na kumakanta kunwari ng worship songs at nagba-bible study tuwing sunday. Until now, I am scarred and I have PTSD. At the same time, I turned my pain to strength and now I have 3houses,2 cars, pension and retirement accounts. Pag chinecheck ko ung mga nambully sa akin, ayun eskwater pa rin sila, mas losyang nga lang. Hahhahah
ReplyDeletethis is very sad and traumatizing for her daughter. I guess some kids are not happy or jealous kasi anak cia ng artista. But why pede naman sila maging mga mag kakaibigan. Stop bullying and hope bigyan leksyon yang mga nag ganged up.
ReplyDeleteMadami talaga bully sa school na yan, yung anak ng friend ko ma HS na bully din jan
ReplyDeleteSue the school if they don’t address bullying
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