Getting married is not worth it! There are good men out there, but they are few and far between. You are more likely to end up with a man who is a burden to you than end up with a man who will be a fair partner to you. I’m speaking from experience!
1:56, yung ex hubby ng sister ko is about to marry a 26 years old Filipina girl he met online while he was still married to my sis. He is 60 years old American guy .He said soul mate daw niya . My sister divorced him and regretting why she married him when she was 28.
God put this desire in women's hearts but it's no longer in our favor.
Sad truth.
Siguro 100 years ago... YES.
A woman needs to get married because we didn't have our own source of income back then...
but now it's different.
Eh lalo na yan si Mikaela. She comes from a wealthy family and she makes good money. She doesn't need a provider.
Mali ba pananaw ko? P.S. I have a wonderful dad. I don't mean to insult men. I am open to listening to the other side of the equation. Sa palagay, magpakasal ka if that man makes you happy and he treats you like a queen. Kung hindi, never mind na lang. Single life is beautiful too.
Binakuran yan ng ex niya when they met when she was 16 years old, nabuntis at 18 at pinakasalan. Kaya I am praying na sana ma okay na ang divorce for women like Mika who were or are in an abusive relationship.
same as my SIL, san ka nkakita na ni minsan wala kaming nkilala na kamag anak nya at pinag kakalat nyang super mayaman sya. Nagkabaon baon sa utang kuya ko sa mga pang gagantso ng gurl. Hindi ko akalain may ganitong tao na nag eexist. Mga anak nila na teenager ay sila pa nag mamakaawa sa ama na iwanan mommy nila. Sana nga may divorce na.
12:58 yung SIL ko and lahat ng in-laws, mas sablay dahil hindi ata nila alam na yung kapatid at anak nila na lalako ay may pamilya na. Kelangan dapat andun sa kanila pag may need i-drive, may aayusin sa bahay, etc. Ako ang asawa pero nakaksama ko lang husband ko from saturday night hanggang monday. The rest asa kanila. So mas masahol sila dahil wala silang respeto sa marriage namin.
5:35 sorry pero husband mo may problema diyan. wala ba siya disposisyon at hindi nya alam ang lugar niya sa mundo?? pwede naman nya sabihin na 'hoy may asawa na ako... siya ang priority ko...' wala din buto husband mo eh...
SIL ko pinaka-maswerte sa lahat ng napangasawa namin magkakapatid. She stopped working after giving birth to her 1st kid, then hired a maid after. They live in our family house which my parents renovated, kids were sent to exclusive schools courtesy of our parents, binilihan ng kotse, travel expenses also. Tapos si SIL pinapatira kamag anak nya for free sa bahay namin. Ngayon nakarating sa US and her goal daw is to send money to her mother.
she has it ALL... cherry on top lang naman ang lalake.. hindi yan ang main course... she has a pretty face, perfect healthy body, beautiful children, thriving career, loving parents, supportive friends... she has a beautiful life. hindi kawalan yang ex nya sa kanya.
Feel ko yung husband niya ayaw maki pag settle sa or participate sa annulment process nila. His delaying it! Kaya stress na stress si Mika. I can’t blame her tbh nakakaawa na din siya. Kapag on the process yan at the booth agree na everything will go smoothly na. Wala e nanlalaban Siguro ang kabila . Tska yung husband niya creepy he still has their family picture together sa family house nila ang lalaki pa naman umaasa pa ata siya
May experience ka ba sa annulment process to know what can delay or hasten the process? Kasi kung both are agreeable na everything going smoothly, reconcilation process yun. Wala naman mangyayari sa mga pa hanash-hanash, Ipa-Tulfo nya ng ma-expose ang ugali. Silaban mo, yan ang katapat ng gas-lighting.
mahirap talaga ang process ng annulment... yung tatay ko, huli na nya sa akto yung legal wife nya na may kasiping na ibang lalaki sa bahay nila. may mga testigo din na kapitbahay. pero more than a decade hindi pa din na grant yung annulment... laki na ng nagastos nya sa abogado so hindi na lang tinuloy ni daddy yung kaso. so sila ng mommy ko live-in partners for 30 years. tapos nung nagkasakit si daddy, nagtanong siya sa abogado at sabi, may karapatan pa din yung legal wife pag namatay sya sa lahat ng properties ni daddy. mawawalan ang mommy ko! kaya ang ginawa ni daddy, binenta yung 2 apartment sa manila, 40 hectares land sa batangas at townhouse sa bulacan. tapos binigay lahat "in cash" kay mommy. naghahabol pa nga yung legal wife. pero daddy made sure na wala talaga syang mapapala.
Ang nega lage tong si Smiley. Part of Life ang paghihiwalay. Gaya ng pagkakaroon ng mga Anak. Pagsisihan mo ba later on kung naging balasubas sila later in Life?
1:15 Am, it isn't the marriage that is bad for women, it is the marriage without the option for divorce that is bad, especially when the union already turned sour.
Bawal din ang premarital s-- sa bibliya. People just pick and choose what they like from the bible and act like theyre being good Christians. Im not hardcore just annoyed by the hypocrisy.
Walang mangyayaring divorce law sa Pinas hanggat mga lawmakers and No.1 na nagluluko! Takot silang sabihan ng Catholic church na di Catolico o di maka Diyos. Pero susme naman. Deserve ng mga asawa ang Divorce law. Takot din silang mag bigay ng sustento sa babae. Bka kc mabawasan yaman nila lol. Aminin dami babaero sa mababatas :)
One of the best argument about divorce yung sinabi niya na it’s not the judge or the government who gets to decide on a marriage. It should be the couple involved in the marriage kasi sila yung suffering when it’s not working anymore.
Mabilis ang Annulment if the other party is a willing sacrifice and will accept all the blame and be brand as someone who is mentally incapable, that’s what happen to my parents. My Dad file for annulment (kasi may kabet sya) pero my mom is the one who got blamed, and shamed for everything. Masakit man pero hindi na sya nag contest to save us going through it and just let it go.
Grabe ung stance nya about divorce. Ang kups lang. It backfired on him. Ang daming nagtanggol kay Mikaela na kakilala din nila. Sabi nya, waste of time and money, and kapag nagpakasal kelangan ipaglaban kasi kawawa daw mga bata. Jusko ano un, natripan lang syang hiwalayan ng asawa nya hahaha.
alam nyo namang alang divorce sa pinas, bakit dyan kayo nagpakasal tapos isisi sa govt bakit alang divorce, eh di naman sinabi govt magpakasal kayo sa dyan. hahahahha
Tingin mo maiisip mo yun nung time na yun? 18 lang siya nung kinasal siya. Lahat ba ng nagpakasal magiisip agad na maghihiwalay din sila? Nakakaloka pagiisip mo.
I avoid saying bad words but shungang comment etong si 1123am. San ba dapat magpakasal? Eh kahit saan naman basta Pinoy ka, wala pa rin divorce diba? Unless ibang lahi ang papakasalan mo………..
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Don't get married ladies
ReplyDeleteMaraming disadvantages
And there are advantages too IF you’re blessed to find the one.
Delete@11:27 AMEN!
Deleteget married if you think this is what you want and if you think you chose the right partner.
DeleteMarriage is an option
DeleteGetting married is not worth it! There are good men out there, but they are few and far between. You are more likely to end up with a man who is a burden to you than end up with a man who will be a fair partner to you. I’m speaking from experience!
DeleteLahat naman sa simula when they said YES, feeling nila right one na. But things happen along the way. Divorce should be legalized talaga.
Deletetrue marriage is overrated.
Deletedi mo masasabi kung nasa right partner ka,dun mo lang makikilala ang tao pag nagsasama na kayo
Delete11:27 korek!
Delete11:27 Truth
DeletePara sa akin, dont get married too young. Lalo na pag malaki ang age gap.
Delete1:56, yung ex hubby ng sister ko is about to marry a 26 years old Filipina girl he met online while he was still married to my sis. He is 60 years old American guy .He said soul mate daw niya . My sister divorced him and regretting why she married him when she was 28.
Deletesa katulad nating bansang walang divorce e mabuting wag nang magpakasal
DeleteThis! Lose-lose for women!!!
DeleteGod put this desire in women's hearts but it's no longer in our favor.
DeleteSad truth.
Siguro 100 years ago... YES.
A woman needs to get married because we didn't have our own source of income back then...
but now it's different.
Eh lalo na yan si Mikaela. She comes from a wealthy family and she makes good money. She doesn't need a provider.
Mali ba pananaw ko? P.S. I have a wonderful dad. I don't mean to insult men. I am open to listening to the other side of the equation. Sa palagay, magpakasal ka if that man makes you happy and he treats you like a queen. Kung hindi, never mind na lang. Single life is beautiful too.
Rather than saying "Don't get married", say "Marriage is not for all."
DeleteGo Miks. Hay sana nga maipasa na yang Divorce law..
ReplyDeleteSinerch itech?
DeleteYung maarte at supladitang commercial model.
DeleteLOL. May K naman mag inarte at magsuplada sa ganda ba naman ni Mikaela. Wag ka na masyado mainsecure. Hiniksik ka lang ng kuko nyan.
Deleteshe is very approachable
DeleteClassmate ko to nung college. Napakabait at approachable nito.
DeleteMiks is approachable.
Delete11:54 I dont find her maarte. Eto naman kung ganyan face mo di ka ba magiinarte haha
Deletehindi naman sya suplada.... ilang beses na din sya nagreply sa comments ko dun sa IG nya... tingin ko reasonable person sya...
DeleteI agree! she is a super nice person.
DeleteShe's alright.
DeleteHindi excuse yun 12: 27. Kaya maraming mayayabang dahil sa mga tulad mo.
Delete11:54 hindi yan supladita. Anong basis mo jan? Lol
DeleteOmg i thought ok na sila ng husband niya???
ReplyDeleteCivil for the kids but the guy is obviously a manipulator.
DeleteMega post ng bible verses yung guy. Very sus
DeleteBinakuran yan ng ex niya when they met when she was 16 years old, nabuntis at 18 at pinakasalan. Kaya I am praying na sana ma okay na ang divorce for women like Mika who were or are in an abusive relationship.
Deletepwede ba may annulment or divorce from the sister-in-law?!!! Mine is 💩!!!
ReplyDelete11:19pm - LOL. pwede mo naman d na lang kausapin.
DeleteYung SIL ko, karma ng kuya ko. Reyna ng Sablay!! Hahaha sa dami-dami pwedeng mapangasawa ng kuya ko sya pa.
Deletesame as my SIL, san ka nkakita na ni minsan wala kaming nkilala na kamag anak nya at pinag kakalat nyang super mayaman sya. Nagkabaon baon sa utang kuya ko sa mga pang gagantso ng gurl. Hindi ko akalain may ganitong tao na nag eexist. Mga anak nila na teenager ay sila pa nag mamakaawa sa ama na iwanan mommy nila. Sana nga may divorce na.
Delete12:58 yung SIL ko and lahat ng in-laws, mas sablay dahil hindi ata nila alam na yung kapatid at anak nila na lalako ay may pamilya na. Kelangan dapat andun sa kanila pag may need i-drive, may aayusin sa bahay, etc. Ako ang asawa pero nakaksama ko lang husband ko from saturday night hanggang monday. The rest asa kanila. So mas masahol sila dahil wala silang respeto sa marriage namin.
DeleteHahahha
Delete5:35 sorry pero husband mo may problema diyan. wala ba siya disposisyon at hindi nya alam ang lugar niya sa mundo?? pwede naman nya sabihin na 'hoy may asawa na ako... siya ang priority ko...' wala din buto husband mo eh...
DeleteSIL ko pinaka-maswerte sa lahat ng napangasawa namin magkakapatid. She stopped working after giving birth to her 1st kid, then hired a maid after. They live in our family house which my parents renovated, kids were sent to exclusive schools courtesy of our parents, binilihan ng kotse, travel expenses also. Tapos si SIL pinapatira kamag anak nya for free sa bahay namin. Ngayon nakarating sa US and her goal daw is to send money to her mother.
Delete11:10 eh bakit naman parang bitter ka?? kung mahal ng kapatid mo, mahalin mo din.
Deletewala akong makitang masama kung gusto nya magpadala ng pera sa nanay nya.
ang masama diyan, kung yung SIL mo ay salbahe sa parents mo maski minahal naman sya bilang tunay na anak...
So Wala na talaga sila ni Chucho .. Good for her.
ReplyDeleteparang groomer nga yan eh ang tanda na tapos ang bata pa ni mika nung nagpakasal
Delete12:10 yesss!
DeleteNasilaw siguro sya kay guy, esp bata pa sya. and probably medyo naive?
Delete8:54 mayaman si Mika ano naman kakasilaw niya don? I guess nainlove na lang din siya at di niya naexplore ang dating nung bata pa siya
DeleteAyaw ng mga mambabatas dyan dahil alam nila mga asawa nila ang mauunang magfile ng divorce pag yan naipasa.
ReplyDeleteOr Ayaw kasi nila ma bash ng simbahan. Let's be real
Delete12:48, takot sila sa mandatory child support, alimony at hatian ng ari-arian. Kaya mag-aanak na lang sa iba o kukuha ng maraming mistress.
DeleteUnheard of pa ang separation of church and state sa Pinas.
DeleteDaming banal-banalan na mga pulpolitico na against divorce, pero sila yung may pila ng mga querida, kabit and anak sa labas. Ugh!
I think di sila takot sa Divorce, mas sa Alimony siguro, dahil yun ang mabigat.
DeleteYung ex nya still hoping pa rin wag mo na balikan Mika mas mukha pa syang Tatay kaysa sa Dad mo. just saying 😉
ReplyDeleteTumpak!
DeleteAng ganda netong si mikaela. Candy mag days pa lang, ganyan n ung face nya, hanggang ngayon. Vampire
ReplyDeleteI know! Mikaela Lagdameo, crush ng bayan nuon. She’s still pretty.
Deleteaging gracefully naturally. walang retoke.
DeleteSa true! Kung makikipagpalit ako ng face sa kanya talaga lol
DeleteSiya ang literal na vampire, even her figure is still the same even after having 3 kids (correct me if I’m wrong).
Delete11:42 related po ba sya sa husband ni Ms Dawn?
Delete10:20am the husband’s related to nikka Martinez, Patrick garcia’s wife
DeleteAnong nangyari sa kanila?
ReplyDeleteYou really can't have it all
ReplyDeletePeace of mind is still the most important at the end of the day.
DeleteCorrect.
Deleteshe has it ALL...
Deletecherry on top lang naman ang lalake.. hindi yan ang main course...
she has a pretty face, perfect healthy body, beautiful children, thriving career, loving parents, supportive friends... she has a beautiful life. hindi kawalan yang ex nya sa kanya.
In your dreams😂😂😂 You cant free people frkm the shackles they hold sobdear #religion
ReplyDeleteFeel ko yung husband niya ayaw maki pag settle sa or participate sa annulment process nila. His delaying it! Kaya stress na stress si Mika. I can’t blame her tbh nakakaawa na din siya. Kapag on the process yan at the booth agree na everything will go smoothly na. Wala e nanlalaban Siguro ang kabila . Tska yung husband niya creepy he still has their family picture together sa family house nila ang lalaki pa naman umaasa pa ata siya
ReplyDeleteYess even posting their sunday pics pa kahit wala na talaga kay mika. And a manipulator. Pati pag 2-pc ni mika sa beach bina bible quote pa. Tl
DeleteNope. Hindi pwedeng magkampihan sa annulment. Labasan yan talaga ng baho
DeleteMay experience ka ba sa annulment process to know what can delay or hasten the process? Kasi kung both are agreeable na everything going smoothly, reconcilation process yun. Wala naman mangyayari sa mga pa hanash-hanash, Ipa-Tulfo nya ng ma-expose ang ugali. Silaban mo, yan ang katapat ng gas-lighting.
DeleteYes, annulment will be delayed if the other party doesn’t settle or agree.
DeleteD din look at jody at pampi, 13 yrs din even both parties cooperate sa process
Deletemahirap talaga ang process ng annulment...
Deleteyung tatay ko, huli na nya sa akto yung legal wife nya na may kasiping na ibang lalaki sa bahay nila. may mga testigo din na kapitbahay.
pero more than a decade hindi pa din na grant yung annulment... laki na ng nagastos nya sa abogado so hindi na lang tinuloy ni daddy yung kaso.
so sila ng mommy ko live-in partners for 30 years.
tapos nung nagkasakit si daddy, nagtanong siya sa abogado at sabi, may karapatan pa din yung legal wife pag namatay sya sa lahat ng properties ni daddy. mawawalan ang mommy ko! kaya ang ginawa ni daddy, binenta yung 2 apartment sa manila, 40 hectares land sa batangas at townhouse sa bulacan. tapos binigay lahat "in cash" kay mommy. naghahabol pa nga yung legal wife. pero daddy made sure na wala talaga syang mapapala.
Perfect family tingin ko sa kanila. Sinayang lang sya. mabuti na lang mayaman sya at di pinabayaan ng family nya.
ReplyDeleteDont believe everything you see and read.
DeleteHer ex husband was a misogynist. Super appaling ang view nun sa divorce tapps kung maka bible quote ewwww
DeleteGo Miks Beautiful Independent Woman. Malamang sising sisi si ex.
ReplyDeleteWhat happened po
DeleteIf marriage is so bad for women, then why even go through with it :D :D :D I mean, there's no stopping you from just living in as partners ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteAng nega lage tong si Smiley. Part of Life ang paghihiwalay. Gaya ng pagkakaroon ng mga Anak. Pagsisihan mo ba later on kung naging balasubas sila later in Life?
DeleteClearly she didnt see the sign early on. Some guys theyre so good in hiding their colors
Delete1:15 Am, it isn't the marriage that is bad for women, it is the marriage without the option for divorce that is bad, especially when the union already turned sour.
DeleteBawal din ang premarital s-- sa bibliya. People just pick and choose what they like from the bible and act like theyre being good Christians. Im not hardcore just annoyed by the hypocrisy.
Deletei wish i get married to my crush charot!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHer husband has a history of being a red flag.
ReplyDeletepaano? ano pala love story nila?
DeleteWalang mangyayaring divorce law sa Pinas hanggat mga lawmakers and No.1 na nagluluko! Takot silang sabihan ng Catholic church na di Catolico o di maka Diyos. Pero susme naman. Deserve ng mga asawa ang Divorce law. Takot din silang mag bigay ng sustento sa babae. Bka kc mabawasan yaman nila lol. Aminin dami babaero sa mababatas :)
ReplyDeleteOne of the best argument about divorce yung sinabi niya na it’s not the judge or the government who gets to decide on a marriage. It should be the couple involved in the marriage kasi sila yung suffering when it’s not working anymore.
ReplyDeleteYes! Go go go
ReplyDeleteMaggie Wilson and Mikaela Martinez deserve freedom!
ReplyDeleteMabilis ang Annulment if the other party is a willing sacrifice and will accept all the blame and be brand as someone who is mentally incapable, that’s what happen to my parents. My Dad file for annulment (kasi may kabet sya) pero my mom is the one who got blamed, and shamed for everything. Masakit man pero hindi na sya nag contest to save us going through it and just let it go.
ReplyDeleteGrabe pa naman maka hanash yang ex nya tapos idi delete after. At maka bible pa everyday may bible verse. Di ko kinaya yung post nya dati about divorce as in nakakalokah talaga which he deleted kasi majority ng comments were appalled. Nasabi ko talaga grabe tong lalaking to sa pagka 🚩 mayged!
ReplyDeleteGrabe ung stance nya about divorce. Ang kups lang. It backfired on him. Ang daming nagtanggol kay Mikaela na kakilala din nila. Sabi nya, waste of time and money, and kapag nagpakasal kelangan ipaglaban kasi kawawa daw mga bata. Jusko ano un, natripan lang syang hiwalayan ng asawa nya hahaha.
Deletemy girl crush!yup,i'm pro divorce as well
ReplyDeletelet's goooo
alam nyo namang alang divorce sa pinas, bakit dyan kayo nagpakasal tapos isisi sa govt bakit alang divorce, eh di naman sinabi govt magpakasal kayo sa dyan. hahahahha
ReplyDeleteSaan ba sila dapat nagpakasal para may divorce kahit same silang Filipino Citizen?
DeleteTingin mo maiisip mo yun nung time na yun? 18 lang siya nung kinasal siya. Lahat ba ng nagpakasal magiisip agad na maghihiwalay din sila? Nakakaloka pagiisip mo.
DeleteI avoid saying bad words but shungang comment etong si 1123am. San ba dapat magpakasal? Eh kahit saan naman basta Pinoy ka, wala pa rin divorce diba? Unless ibang lahi ang papakasalan mo………..
DeleteGustong gusto ko face nito. Ganda ganda. Pero, bakit kaya sila naghiwalay noh?
ReplyDeleteThe ex is still terrorizing her. Halata sa mga weirdo posts ng ex. Super 🚩 red flag yung ex. Alam na alam mong immature at baluktot mag-isip. No wonder Mika gave-up.
ReplyDeleteThe ex has a new post on ig halatang manipulator nga
DeleteThe Philippines needs to step up at least in this area. SO absurd that it's still not legal to divorce there. Women have little to no options.
ReplyDeleteBaka need din magmature ng mga asawa at tanggapin na ayaw na ng isa.
ReplyDeleteMay bagong hanash si ex sa IG. Sabi ko na nga ba eh. Di talaga papakabog si koya. 😆
ReplyDelete