Technically kasi ung baby shower is for the family and friends to shower the baby(and the mother) with things that they need. Ang purpose ay tulungan ung new mother sa gastos/needs like diapers, strollers, clothes, car seat etc. It’s the time to pass ung mga nalakihan or napaglumaan na ng iba para hindi itapon at mapakinabangan pa. Ngayon kasi na-defeAt na ung purpose nya ksi imbes na makaahon at mabless ung mommy at baby, nababaon pa sa utang dahil sa urge na magpabongga. Tapos may pa-giveaway pa ang ending ung bisita ung na-shower ng food and gifts. It’s all for vanity na lang ngayon kaya iyak after ng event. Pero sige kung marami kayong pera go lang. pero kung imbes na gastusin sa future ni baby ay nabaon pa sa utang, those people shouldn’t be allowed to breed. They don’t know priorities.
Common sense don’t spend beyond your means. And baby showers sa amin ay intimate mga family and selected friends to share your good news to your love ones. May diy decorations, online invitations, home cooking to eat pinoy foods with your friends and receive baby gifts usually sa bahay lang ang event. Walang nangungutang or umuutang😂 sa pinas siguro sa kagagaya nyo sa mga events ng ibang countries.
Parang kasal lang yan, ubusan ng pera at kailamgan perfect. Bahala na bukas ang impt perfect ang mala-tv program na kasal kahit milyones gastos sabay pag uwian na, sa maliit na apartment/room for rent uuwi. So impractical, pero sabi nga ni Ellen, kanya kanyang trip
11:36, mismo , when I had the baby shower, dahil sa mga friends and family I didn’t need to buy diapers for 3 months, even clothes and other baby items, so all the attention was given to my new baby, tapos occasionally may pa katok sa door, unexpectedly may padalang home cooked meal from friends dahil alam nilang hindi pa ako nakapaligo or nakakain and sleep deprived 😇. Yes wala kaming yaya and we didn’t use daycare until they are older. Sa mga magsasabi why don’t you buy your own, baby items, friends/ fam nagbigay nyan na bukal sa puso, and courtesy dictates you will do the same at their events.
4:43 ikaw kinulang sa comprehension , she said before she will not share it coz it is private matters to her dahil ayaw nya ng stress to be judged when she post, pero pagkapanak todo post dahil di nakatiis, knows what’s coming 7:03, wag magsalita ng tapos then you end up taking it back.
She can post whatever na gusto nya, prerogative din nya to change her mind. As if naman lahat ng nasabi mo in the past, 100% pinanindigan mo. Circumstances change. Atsaka Wala naman sya inaapakan na tao sa trip nyang gawin. Ellen's just being herself.
Maraming ganyan, Lmao. Atleast may isa akong napanood na intentionally pinalipad ang lobo dahil ang twist ay ung kulay ng damit nang nagpalipad ang gender reveal.
Very minor na yung lumipad na lobo baks. Yung iba caused a huge wildfire. And yung iba poisoned the water source of the whole town when they dyed the river blue.
Gusto ko yung sagot niya. Straight to the point. Walang kelangan patunayan! Hindi kelangan ng validation kahit kanino. Wala ng mga drama drama online. At hindi cheapangga! Napaka positive na talaga nung aura niya and nag mature sobra.
Ang point ni Ellen is mag trip ka ng kakayanin mo. Gender reveals are fine, wag lang yung dangerous na may mga namatay because of it. Madaming gender reveals na simple lang and di kailangan gumastos ng malaki. Ellen just didn't want it. Dami talagang Pinoys na inggit! They look for someone to stroke their inferiority complex.
7:50 sayo pag papansin, sa amin chance to socialize before the sleepless nights when the baby arrives, we want to share/celebrate with our selected friends, bonus na yung gift sa baby at dishes that they bring at the party, but not required and you will do the same courtesy sa mga friends mo rin pag sila naman may event. Masyado kayong nega, mga busy kaming tao and occasional party is what we look forward to see our friends again and eat pinoy cooking.
10:56 that is acceptable since it still showcases the idea of “showering” the baby and mother with “help” like bringing food and baby goods. Pero ung usong gender reveal party kasi sa pinas is fiesta style na at ginagawang chance for photo op and soc med promotion. Ung typical mentality na one-day millionaire. Ubusan tlga ng ipon at worse mangungutang pa. Imbes na gumastos for baby’s real needs and experiences, wala pa si baby is baob na sa utang. Tapos nganga pagkapanganak
750 iba po ang setting dto sa Pinas. Major event na sya hehe daig ang binyagan. Defeats the purpose ng shower. Napapagastos na yung karamihan, just for socmed. Kakaibang mindset din e. Yung iba peg nila mga celebs, di nila alam na mga celebs e sponsored mga food and giveaways. Maski vloggers, may sponsor
I think the real reason why Ellen opted not to do the baby shower and gender is because of Elias. Kasi nga naman with Elias, she wasn't able to do those things because of the whole situation with JLC. They are being considerate of Elias feelings especially pag lumaki at makaron ng comparison na bakit si sibling may baby shower and gender reveal tapos nung ako yung pinagbubuntis wala. So better na wala na lang yung magkapatid. Walang comparison. Walang selosan. And with Elias very secret din yung pregnancy eh kaya ganun din with the second child. All for the love of Elias.
It’s the happiness of others kasi like if matagal nag wait magkaanak diba. Ellen is not simple din naman. Madami na iba syang trip na for sure di trip ng iba. She’s wild don’t you forget pabebe masyado for her ganun siguro.
Happiness, sure. But happiness parin ba ito kung nilalagay mo or nyo na ang mga sarili nyo sa red line(utang)?? Na kung saan wala na for the future si baby dahil sa mga vain na bagay such as gender reveal??
Sino nagsabi sa inyo mga nagpapagender reveal baon sa utang? Kung meron man minuscule percentage of people lang. Kung paniniwalaan nyo word for word mga sinasabi ni Ellen, something is wrong with you. Sa ibang countries ang host ng party hindi si buntis kundi mga friends or fam.
4:18 it seems na u only based foreigners' gender reveals. Kasi kung pinas lang ang pinag uusapin natin, ung mismong buntis ang nagpapagender reveal. Mahilig kasi ang karamihan sa ating mga pinoy na makiuso and magpasikat.
PS. Wag mo ring ibased ang mga pinoy celeb gender reveals dahil obviously sponsored sila
Not my thing also so I get Ellen. Won’t even have a baby shower. Save ko na lang ang money sa panganganak and sa needs ng baby ko. Won’t also oblige people to give gifts for the baby. Yung talagang nagmamahal sa amin at magbibigay pa rin, then salamat. Iba-iba trip ng mga tao. Sa wedding namin, marami rin kaming new traditions na hindi sinunod like pre-nup video.
Gusto ko ugali ni Ellen pag dating sa ganito. Iba tlga pag “no need to prove anything” type of person ka. Tamang mindset ung basta walang utang! Perfect! Kabog!
Ellen knows what the meaning of life is. She doesn’t need to impress people. She’s contented to have her little family and that’s all. Ganyan naman talaga dapat mabuhay eh.
Ako din di ko bet yang pa gender reveal or baby shower. Nag post lang din ako sa fb nung 3rd trimester ko na with both of my babies. Napilit lng ako nung friends ko mag gender reveal sa first ko. Pero kami2 lang din nag celebrate. Ewan ko ba, kahit nga pa pictorial di ko bet. Pero ofcourse puno fon ko ng pics of my kids. Nag popost lang ako sa fb para ma update friends and relatives ko since im based in Europe.
True. Save your money for something else. May kakilala ako nag bonggang gender reveal tas a few weeks after napa emergency CS at 31 weeks dahil wala nang tubig sa loob. Ngayon nag ccrowdfunding for the unexpected emegency and prolonged stay sa NICU.
She revealed the gender of her baby by sending the sonogram to her family and friends. Ganyan lang. ka simple. No more drama. Gender reveal parties are not her thing. Iba iba ang tao . Ganda ng baby. She looks very AFAM, The beautiful genes from both parents.
Ang oa nyo sa mga ayaw sa gender reveal. E yung iba gusto gawin lng yun for memories kasi grateful sila sa buhay nila and pwede later on maipakita nila sa anak nila pag lumaki. Wala lang kayong sentimental value.
Kanya kanya trip yan. Kung hindi ka naman inutangan ano paki nyo. Kahit malubog pa sila sa utang. Don’t understand ang pagiging pakialamera at judgemental. Isama pa ang pagiging ingittera. Kung sayo nang utang at di nagbabayad yon pwede ka magalit haha
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ReplyDeleteWeh di naman essay sinagot nya
DeleteDi naman sya nagexplain nang todo? Sabi nya lang di nya trip
DeleteSinagot lang nya yung comment
DeleteTama lang sagot nya para maraming masapul na kahit ligwak na sa utang basta may mai-awra
DeleteHaha. True da fire! Yung gagastusin ko sa mga ganyan, save ko na lang para sa panganganak at sa needs ng baby ko.
ReplyDeleteDi naman kasi dapat ung expecting parents ung gagastos o mag aasikaso ng mga ganyan. Normally it's family or closest friends
DeleteTechnically kasi ung baby shower is for the family and friends to shower the baby(and the mother) with things that they need. Ang purpose ay tulungan ung new mother sa gastos/needs like diapers, strollers, clothes, car seat etc. It’s the time to pass ung mga nalakihan or napaglumaan na ng iba para hindi itapon at mapakinabangan pa. Ngayon kasi na-defeAt na ung purpose nya ksi imbes na makaahon at mabless ung mommy at baby, nababaon pa sa utang dahil sa urge na magpabongga. Tapos may pa-giveaway pa ang ending ung bisita ung na-shower ng food and gifts. It’s all for vanity na lang ngayon kaya iyak after ng event. Pero sige kung marami kayong pera go lang. pero kung imbes na gastusin sa future ni baby ay nabaon pa sa utang, those people shouldn’t be allowed to breed. They don’t know priorities.
DeleteSiempre nakakahiya din naman na di ka magpapakain or maghahanda plus you have to send something as thankyou gift
DeleteCommon sense don’t spend beyond your means. And baby showers sa amin ay intimate mga family and selected friends to share your good news to your love ones. May diy decorations, online invitations, home cooking to eat pinoy foods with your friends and receive baby gifts usually sa bahay lang ang event. Walang nangungutang or umuutang😂 sa pinas siguro sa kagagaya nyo sa mga events ng ibang countries.
DeleteParang kasal lang yan, ubusan ng pera at kailamgan perfect. Bahala na bukas ang impt perfect ang mala-tv program na kasal kahit milyones gastos sabay pag uwian na, sa maliit na apartment/room for rent uuwi. So impractical, pero sabi nga ni Ellen, kanya kanyang trip
Delete11:36, mismo , when I had the baby shower, dahil sa mga friends and family I didn’t need to buy diapers for 3 months, even clothes and other baby items, so all the attention was given to my new baby, tapos occasionally may pa katok sa door, unexpectedly may padalang home cooked meal from friends dahil alam nilang hindi pa ako nakapaligo or nakakain and sleep deprived 😇. Yes wala kaming yaya and we didn’t use daycare until they are older. Sa mga magsasabi why don’t you buy your own, baby items, friends/ fam nagbigay nyan na bukal sa puso, and courtesy dictates you will do the same at their events.
DeleteDi kasi siya vlogger 🤫
ReplyDeleteLove Ellen and the real unbothered queen
ReplyDeleteLove her answer! Haha
ReplyDeletehndi required mg gender reveal. andame na tlgang pkielamera sa socmed.
ReplyDeleteSamedt mareng Ellen!! Samedt! Di ko rin inaattenand mga ganyang events. Naaaburido ako hahahah!
ReplyDeleteAko din! Nde ako uma-attend sa mga gender reveal party 😆
DeleteAyoko ng mga ganyang kabaduyan, arteh arteh. 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteEwan ko sayo sa “ private pregnancy “ mo, di ka rin nakatiis I public loooook at meeeee! Sana di ka na lang nagsalita na private😂
ReplyDeleteKinulang ka sa braincells? Tapos na pregnancy nya. Sana ok ka lang
DeleteHa? Ano pake mo sa kanya? Sa yun trip niya eh.🙄
DeleteNa-achieve naman ang goal na matapos ang 9months na stress free. Kapag nagpost siya andami niya makukuha na unsolicited advice
Delete4:43 ikaw kinulang sa comprehension , she said before she will not share it coz it is private matters to her dahil ayaw nya ng stress to be judged when she post, pero pagkapanak todo post dahil di nakatiis, knows what’s coming 7:03, wag magsalita ng tapos then you end up taking it back.
DeleteShe can post whatever na gusto nya, prerogative din nya to change her mind. As if naman lahat ng nasabi mo in the past, 100% pinanindigan mo. Circumstances change. Atsaka Wala naman sya inaapakan na tao sa trip nyang gawin. Ellen's just being herself.
DeleteNice one, Ellen
ReplyDeleteNice answer naman ellen
ReplyDeleteTalagang matino na sya
Naalala ko yung isang failed gender reveal video. Lumipad ang lobo bago maputok. Sayang ginastos.
ReplyDeleteMaraming ganyan, Lmao. Atleast may isa akong napanood na intentionally pinalipad ang lobo dahil ang twist ay ung kulay ng damit nang nagpalipad ang gender reveal.
DeleteVery minor na yung lumipad na lobo baks. Yung iba caused a huge wildfire. And yung iba poisoned the water source of the whole town when they dyed the river blue.
DeleteGusto ko yung sagot niya. Straight to the point. Walang kelangan patunayan! Hindi kelangan ng validation kahit kanino. Wala ng mga drama drama online. At hindi cheapangga! Napaka positive na talaga nung aura niya and nag mature sobra.
ReplyDeleteBasta kami dito ang gender reveal nasa lapad ng ilong, nasa kulay ng batok at kili kili, nasa hugis at taas ng tyanena. Menos gastos.
ReplyDeleteTrot..🤣🤣🤣
Delete11:58 true. Pag marami kang pimples, maga ang ilong, at manas ang paa, tapos sasabihan kang 'ang pangit mo', ibig sabihin lalaki ang magiging anak.
DeleteAng point ni Ellen is mag trip ka ng kakayanin mo. Gender reveals are fine, wag lang yung dangerous na may mga namatay because of it. Madaming gender reveals na simple lang and di kailangan gumastos ng malaki. Ellen just didn't want it. Dami talagang Pinoys na inggit! They look for someone to stroke their inferiority complex.
ReplyDeleteHindi, hindi. Talagang unnecessary at pagpapapansin lang ang gender reveal na yan 12: 07
Delete7:50 sayo pag papansin, sa amin chance to socialize before the sleepless nights when the baby arrives, we want to share/celebrate with our selected friends, bonus na yung gift sa baby at dishes that they bring at the party, but not required and you will do the same courtesy sa mga friends mo rin pag sila naman may event. Masyado kayong nega, mga busy kaming tao and occasional party is what we look forward to see our friends again and eat pinoy cooking.
Delete10:56 that is acceptable since it still showcases the idea of “showering” the baby and mother with “help” like bringing food and baby goods. Pero ung usong gender reveal party kasi sa pinas is fiesta style na at ginagawang chance for photo op and soc med promotion. Ung typical mentality na one-day millionaire. Ubusan tlga ng ipon at worse mangungutang pa. Imbes na gumastos for baby’s real needs and experiences, wala pa si baby is baob na sa utang. Tapos nganga pagkapanganak
Delete750 iba po ang setting dto sa Pinas. Major event na sya hehe daig ang binyagan. Defeats the purpose ng shower. Napapagastos na yung karamihan, just for socmed. Kakaibang mindset din e. Yung iba peg nila mga celebs, di nila alam na mga celebs e sponsored mga food and giveaways. Maski vloggers, may sponsor
DeleteDaming time ni mother.
ReplyDeleteOf course kasi dami nyang passive income at yayas. Wag ka nang mainggit.
Deletesino ba kasi nagpauso ng gender reveal na yan. dagdag ekek at gastos lang.. and for what? forda social media likes na naman? lol
ReplyDeleteAccording to Kumareng Google, si Jenna Karvunidis ang nagpauso and now she regretted it.
DeleteI think the real reason why Ellen opted not to do the baby shower and gender is because of Elias. Kasi nga naman with Elias, she wasn't able to do those things because of the whole situation with JLC. They are being considerate of Elias feelings especially pag lumaki at makaron ng comparison na bakit si sibling may baby shower and gender reveal tapos nung ako yung pinagbubuntis wala. So better na wala na lang yung magkapatid. Walang comparison. Walang selosan. And with Elias very secret din yung pregnancy eh kaya ganun din with the second child. All for the love of Elias.
ReplyDeleteHindi lang talaga mahilig si Ellen sa mga kapricho na ganyan
Delete@1:53 tama. Naalala kokwento niya Diba kahit nung debut niya mas ginusto niyang magpunta na lang sa Hongkong kesa magkaroon ng big party?
DeleteTakot magpaparty dahil wala syang friends😂
DeleteIt’s the happiness of others kasi like if matagal nag wait magkaanak diba. Ellen is not simple din naman. Madami na iba syang trip na for sure di trip ng iba. She’s wild don’t you forget pabebe masyado for her ganun siguro.
ReplyDeleteHappiness, sure. But happiness parin ba ito kung nilalagay mo or nyo na ang mga sarili nyo sa red line(utang)?? Na kung saan wala na for the future si baby dahil sa mga vain na bagay such as gender reveal??
DeleteSino nagsabi sa inyo mga nagpapagender reveal baon sa utang? Kung meron man minuscule percentage of people lang. Kung paniniwalaan nyo word for word mga sinasabi ni Ellen, something is wrong with you. Sa ibang countries ang host ng party hindi si buntis kundi mga friends or fam.
Delete4:18 it seems na u only based foreigners' gender reveals. Kasi kung pinas lang ang pinag uusapin natin, ung mismong buntis ang nagpapagender reveal. Mahilig kasi ang karamihan sa ating mga pinoy na makiuso and magpasikat.
DeletePS. Wag mo ring ibased ang mga pinoy celeb gender reveals dahil obviously sponsored sila
Not my thing also so I get Ellen. Won’t even have a baby shower. Save ko na lang ang money sa panganganak and sa needs ng baby ko. Won’t also oblige people to give gifts for the baby. Yung talagang nagmamahal sa amin at magbibigay pa rin, then salamat. Iba-iba trip ng mga tao. Sa wedding namin, marami rin kaming new traditions na hindi sinunod like pre-nup video.
ReplyDeleteGusto ko ugali ni Ellen pag dating sa ganito. Iba tlga pag “no need to prove anything” type of person ka. Tamang mindset ung basta walang utang! Perfect! Kabog!
ReplyDeleteEllen knows what the meaning of life is. She doesn’t need to impress people. She’s contented to have her little family and that’s all. Ganyan naman talaga dapat mabuhay eh.
ReplyDeleteOA nanan kasi mga ganyan. Gastos lang.
ReplyDeleteAko din di ko bet yang pa gender reveal or baby shower. Nag post lang din ako sa fb nung 3rd trimester ko na with both of my babies. Napilit lng ako nung friends ko mag gender reveal sa first ko. Pero kami2 lang din nag celebrate. Ewan ko ba, kahit nga pa pictorial di ko bet. Pero ofcourse puno fon ko ng pics of my kids. Nag popost lang ako sa fb para ma update friends and relatives ko since im based in Europe.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Save your money for something else. May kakilala ako nag bonggang gender reveal tas a few weeks after napa emergency CS at 31 weeks dahil wala nang tubig sa loob. Ngayon nag ccrowdfunding for the unexpected emegency and prolonged stay sa NICU.
ReplyDeleteSad
DeleteAng trip ni Ellen is chill na hubadera. Goals! I meant that as a compliment
ReplyDeleteShe revealed the gender of her baby by sending the sonogram to her family and friends. Ganyan lang. ka simple. No more drama. Gender reveal parties are not her thing. Iba iba ang tao . Ganda ng baby. She looks very AFAM, The beautiful genes from both parents.
ReplyDeletetotoo naman...ang baduy lang ng mga gender reveal na yan
ReplyDeleteSame trip tayo ellen, yoko din gender reveal and shower. Aksaya sa oras dagdag kalat pa
ReplyDeleteI love her I'm the same. All those superficial things don't matter.
ReplyDeleteGender reveal is soooooo Gen Y! 🤡
ReplyDeleteSila nagpauso niyan.
Ang oa nyo sa mga ayaw sa gender reveal. E yung iba gusto gawin lng yun for memories kasi grateful sila sa buhay nila and pwede later on maipakita nila sa anak nila pag lumaki. Wala lang kayong sentimental value.
ReplyDeleteIkaw ang oa dyan
DeleteMadami ganyan sa abroad may pa
ReplyDeleteHotel gender reveal pa pero dami Utang! Hahaha!
Kanya kanya trip yan. Kung hindi ka naman inutangan ano paki nyo. Kahit malubog pa sila sa utang. Don’t understand ang pagiging pakialamera at judgemental. Isama pa ang pagiging ingittera. Kung sayo nang utang at di nagbabayad yon pwede ka magalit haha
ReplyDeleteTama naman sya kanya kanyang trip lang yan. Ang di lang okay yung mga taong di naman afford ng mga ganyan pero pinipilit gawin kahit mang utang etccc
ReplyDeleteGusto ko yan si elen. Kahit mayaman hindi kumikilos ng mayaman. Simple lang trip nya. Kahit sa mga gamit simple lang din.
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