There is no such thing as moving on. You just move around it, and you just eventually learn to live with it. The pain will always be there. Sobrang sakit.
Sobrang totoo ito. You never move on, you just learn to live with it. Parang nawala ka na lang din nung nawala sila pero wala kang choice kundi magpatuloy. Isang mahigpit na yakap.
wag mo madaliin Ange. Just go through the process of grieving. My mom passed away three years ago and minsan naiiyak pa rin ako pag naiisip ko sya. Siguro 80% accepted ko na pero ramdam ko pa rin ung pain. It is good that you have a good support system din. Prayers for all those who grieve for the lost of their loved ones.
As someone who lost a partner of 20 yrs almost a year ao, the longing for his presence is just as fierce as the day he passed on. Some days I can live without missing him but there are days the pain of knowing he's gone is just hard to bear. One just learns to live around the pain, life goes on.
ang hirap mawalan ng mahal sa buhay, napakasakit.. kaya tayo mga nabubuhay pa, maging mapagmahal na tayo, sa pamilya at kapwa natin, mahalin natin ang buhay natin.. maging masaya, khit mahirap man minsan maging masaya...
Thank you sa mga other comments. I am struggling too and some days are ok, some days as in I miss my dad soo bad. I miss his voice and presence. Ang hirap talaga.
dead doesn't mean they're gone sa puso ntn at kht ilang yrs pa yan ung pain of losing them will always be painful sguro ung nkkapawi na lng is knowing na they're in a much better and peaceful place
It's been two years since I became an orphan. Youngest in the family pero breadwinner. Napakahirap itawid pero kailangan kayanin. Lalo na pag ofw ka sa malamig na lugar so depressing. I miss you nay, tay
There is no such thing as moving on. You just move around it, and you just eventually learn to live with it. The pain will always be there. Sobrang sakit.
ReplyDeleteSobrang totoo ito. You never move on, you just learn to live with it. Parang nawala ka na lang din nung nawala sila pero wala kang choice kundi magpatuloy. Isang mahigpit na yakap.
Deleteyes you just get used to the absence but the longing will always be there
DeleteThis is so true. Masasanay ka na lng na wala na sila, but the pain will always be there.
DeleteTrue. This morning I heard Line To Heaven on the radio and the just tears fell - my dad died 15 years ago.
DeleteParang di naman tayo nakakamove on pero nasasanay na lang tayo n wala na sila. Nababawasan lang ang sakit pero may kirot pa rin.
ReplyDeleteI think di din nababawasan ang sakit. I think super sakit at nasanay na tayong dadamin ang sakit.
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DeleteKaya mo yan Angge! Fight lang! Naitawid ko din yung napaka hirap na 2020. Now ineenjoy ko na nah 2024 bolder, stronger and wiser! Cheret! 😄
ReplyDeleteNawalan din ako ng Kuya noong May, at parang hindi ka talaga mag momove on. Dumarating lang ang time na naiiyak ka at tuloy pa rin sa ginagawa daily.
ReplyDeletewag mo madaliin Ange. Just go through the process of grieving. My mom passed away three years ago and minsan naiiyak pa rin ako pag naiisip ko sya. Siguro 80% accepted ko na pero ramdam ko pa rin ung pain. It is good that you have a good support system din. Prayers for all those who grieve for the lost of their loved ones.
ReplyDeleteNakakamiss ang may nanay, kahit away bati. May mga sakit na haplos lang ng nanay nakakapawi.
ReplyDeleteAs someone who lost a partner of 20 yrs almost a year ao, the longing for his presence is just as fierce as the day he passed on. Some days I can live without missing him but there are days the pain of knowing he's gone is just hard to bear. One just learns to live around the pain, life goes on.
ReplyDeleteNever kang makaka move on sa pain pag nawalan ka ng magulang, nasasanay ka nalang
ReplyDeleteang hirap mawalan ng mahal sa buhay, napakasakit.. kaya tayo mga nabubuhay pa, maging mapagmahal na tayo, sa pamilya at kapwa natin, mahalin natin ang buhay natin.. maging masaya, khit mahirap man minsan maging masaya...
ReplyDeletecondolences po.
ReplyDeleteAw hugs to you, Angge
ReplyDeleteThank you sa mga other comments. I am struggling too and some days are ok, some days as in I miss my dad soo bad. I miss his voice and presence. Ang hirap talaga.
ReplyDeletedead doesn't mean they're gone sa puso ntn at kht ilang yrs pa yan ung pain of losing them will always be painful sguro ung nkkapawi na lng is knowing na they're in a much better and peaceful place
ReplyDeleteIt's been two years since I became an orphan. Youngest in the family pero breadwinner. Napakahirap itawid pero kailangan kayanin. Lalo na pag ofw ka sa malamig na lugar so depressing. I miss you nay, tay
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