I think the message that she wants to get accross is that we are equal in value as human beings but a man and woman have different capacities and responsibilities in marriage. I don't disagree with her that husbands should be the head of the family. Doesn't mean they don't listen to their wives but we need husbands to lead. Unfortunately, there really is scarcity now- whether you want to agree or not, fathers are pivotal to the kids' growth and wellbeing. Now if they are abusive, that's a different story.
"Fathers are pivotal to kids growth and wellbeing" sabi ni 11:32 well salute ako sa mga anak ng single moms na pinalaking solo at walang kinalakihang ama na maayos naman ang disposisyon sa buhay at may narating. Hindi gender ang batayan ng nurture at capability para palakihin ang anak.
I agree with you. We are all equal in some aspects yet at the same time hindi din same or equal in another if you get what i mean. Hindi ito battle of the sexes a..it is what it is lang talaga and we need to embrace that
I was raised by my father alone. Maayos naman akong lumaki pero hinahanap hanap ko pa din ang may nanay. Naiinggit ako sa mga friends and classmates ko na kasama ang nanay nila sa mga school activities at kung ano ano pa.
Kahit ngayong adult na’ko, i wished my mother was there para nagabayan ako on my journey to womanhood.
Gender has nothing to do with it.A good leader should lead the family.It is about understanding between husband and wife who will give in or take the lead.
I completely agree with 11:32. Men and women will never be equal. Kahit sa mga simpleng bagay nga lang eh. Tayong mga babae magaling sa multitasking, ang mga lalake, di sila ganun usually kasi focused lang sila sa isang bagay muna. Di natin kayang buksan ang jar, pero easy peasy lang yan sa mga lalake. Women are worrywarts, na usually dahilan ng away kasi akala natin, parang wala lang sa mga lalaki.
Pero ganun talaga sila, nagwoworry din sila, di lang pinapahalata. My four brothers are like that. Pag nag-aaway kami ng mom ko dati, I know it's bad, pero sumasagot ako. Yung mga kuya ko, tahimik lang. They are not very expressive, while women tend to express our messages easily. This is not the absolute truth because some women are super shy, but in general, women and man have clear differences.
Girl better work on her comms skills, this is so cringe, major ick!
"The girl should be submissive to the husband"?!? Err, nope! It's 2024, a lot of working women have stay home husbands. Decisions and responsibilities are shared. Please haul your 1900's pre-women's rights vibe back to the cave from whence you came. Pfft!
When there's only one parent, wether single mom or dad, wala naman choice yung tao kundi gampanan both roles.
I grew up with almost just my mom kasi naghiwalay sila and maayos naman kaming magkakapatid, I guess.
Right Mindset na lang siguro and accept the thing we cannot change. You condition yourself na isa lang magulang mo. Like pano yung mga namatayan ng isang magulang and not necessarily naghiwaly. I am glad my mom did not re-marry. She just concentrated on raising us. I actually asked her point blank and told her I am fine if she did kasi iniisip ko pano naman happiness niya na hindi mapupunan ng mga anak and she said she's okay with just us. Nag eenjoy siya with extra curricular activities sa community at sa church on top of mothering us so ayun nga, probably just conditioning the mind and choosing priorities. She's well past her 60's now. Naghiwalay sila ng tatay ko when she was in her early 40s and there was no other man eversince.
The ability to effectively lead a family has nothing to do with gender. Effective leadership is based on skill, knowledge, experience, not some body part or chromosome.
To say “we need husbands to lead” disregards millions of women, single or married, or have successfully lead their families, with or without a husband.
I’ve seen firsthand marriages and relationships where women are better at navigating life than their partners, and vice versa. Hindi po solo ng mga lalake ang ability to lead. Sana matigil na ang ganitong mentality. .
1:23 Teh, your 2nd sentence gave you away. WITHOUT HUSBAND. Applicable lang yang sinasabi mo kung walang tatay. Ang usapan kasi ay pamilya na may nanay at tatay. If equal sila, more often than, they will clash. Kaya dapat they compliment each other. May mga bagay na may authority ang tatay, may bagay na may authority ang nanay. Isipin mo na lang, kung pareho silang strict ang pagdidisiplina sa anak, ano sa tingin mo ang consequence nito sa bata?
Kapag may kontrobersyang kinakaharap si Robin, naiisip ko talagang ang katanungang Mariel kaya mo pa ba :) But i guess kakayanin niya talaga lahat dahil galing sa broken family at ayaw na nya na maranasan iyon ng mga anak niya. But i have to disagree with her, parehong magpartner ang nagdadala ng relationship. Pero kung Robin Padilla nga naman ang asawa, talagang ang babae ang magbubihat ng relasyon.
She can say that kasi madami silang pera, pwede syang hindi mag work at mag focus nalang sa sarili, mga anak at sa pamamahay nila na iminamando lang sa mga kasambahay nila yung mga gawain. Pero kung can’t afford to get additional help from other people like kasambahay SOBRANG HIRAP lalo na kung parehas kayong nagttrabaho to earn for the fam. Out of touch tong babaitang ito. Dami pa naman maniniwala sa mga sasabihin nya
Kaya talaga kahit walang kasambahay, dito sa Europe hindi naman common ang maghire ng katulong. Pero na mamanage ng parents ang mga bata at gawaing bahay.
Contradicting ang statements nya. Sana tinanong ni boy kung ano comment nya sa reaction ni robin during hearing about rape at nilecturan pa sya ni atty. capunan
Napasobra sa blush si Mariel, and yung padding ng blazer nya, parang nagmukhang sobrang laki sa kanya. Oh well, it takes both to make a relationship work, complementary ang babae at lalaki.
Hindi pala talaga matalino ito. Well, pumatol nga kay Robin. The point is walang cohesivenss ang mga sinabi niya. Submissive wife pero emoowered women at women ang mag go go signal, nagdadala ng relasyon. Submissive ba pag ganun???
Opinyon at paniniwala niya yan pero hindi ibig sabihin tama lahat ng mga sinabi niya. Iba't iba ang sitwasyon ng mga kababaihan lalo na yun mga nakapangasawa ng mga abusive na lalaki.
Hmmm…I’ve observed some women in Robin’s religion. Pero from what I’ve seen, parang hindi naman totoo yung kini-claim niya. Medyo out-of-touch ang statement ni girl. Or maybe she has not seen enough.
I think the message that she wants to get accross is that we are equal in value as human beings but a man and woman have different capacities and responsibilities in marriage. I don't disagree with her that husbands should be the head of the family. Doesn't mean they don't listen to their wives but we need husbands to lead. Unfortunately, there really is scarcity now- whether you want to agree or not, fathers are pivotal to the kids' growth and wellbeing. Now if they are abusive, that's a different story.
ReplyDeletethe one who has the capacity to lead shall lead. gender doesnt make one a better leader of the relationship.
DeleteI 💯 agree with 11:32. Compromise is the magic word to make the marriage work.
Delete"Fathers are pivotal to kids growth and wellbeing" sabi ni 11:32 well salute ako sa mga anak ng single moms na pinalaking solo at walang kinalakihang ama na maayos naman ang disposisyon sa buhay at may narating. Hindi gender ang batayan ng nurture at capability para palakihin ang anak.
DeleteI agree with you. We are all equal in some aspects yet at the same time hindi din same or equal in another if you get what i mean. Hindi ito battle of the sexes a..it is what it is lang talaga and we need to embrace that
DeleteAgree ako sayo 11:32. Men and women aren't equal, but complementary.
DeleteI was raised by my father alone. Maayos naman akong lumaki pero hinahanap hanap ko pa din ang may nanay. Naiinggit ako sa mga friends and classmates ko na kasama ang nanay nila sa mga school activities at kung ano ano pa.
DeleteKahit ngayong adult na’ko, i wished my mother was there para nagabayan ako on my journey to womanhood.
Tama naman points mo. Si mariel lang and robin hindi madalas.
DeleteGender has nothing to do with it.A good leader should lead the family.It is about understanding between husband and wife who will give in or take the lead.
DeleteWell said 👏🏻
DeleteYes. Mga men these days mostly PAL ng mga ofw 🤣
DeleteDi talaga equal I’m a single mom I raised my daughter by myself never get into relationship yung bio dad nambabae n nag kaanak p 🤣 do talaga equal
DeleteI completely agree with 11:32. Men and women will never be equal. Kahit sa mga simpleng bagay nga lang eh. Tayong mga babae magaling sa multitasking, ang mga lalake, di sila ganun usually kasi focused lang sila sa isang bagay muna. Di natin kayang buksan ang jar, pero easy peasy lang yan sa mga lalake. Women are worrywarts, na usually dahilan ng away kasi akala natin, parang wala lang sa mga lalaki.
DeletePero ganun talaga sila, nagwoworry din sila, di lang pinapahalata. My four brothers are like that. Pag nag-aaway kami ng mom ko dati, I know it's bad, pero sumasagot ako. Yung mga kuya ko, tahimik lang.
They are not very expressive, while women tend to express our messages easily. This is not the absolute truth because some women are super shy, but in general, women and man have clear differences.
Girl better work on her comms skills, this is so cringe, major ick!
Delete"The girl should be submissive to the husband"?!? Err, nope! It's 2024, a lot of working women have stay home husbands. Decisions and responsibilities are shared. Please haul your 1900's pre-women's rights vibe back to the cave from whence you came. Pfft!
Thank you 12:33.
DeleteWhen there's only one parent, wether single mom or dad, wala naman choice yung tao kundi gampanan both roles.
I grew up with almost just my mom kasi naghiwalay sila and maayos naman kaming magkakapatid, I guess.
Right Mindset na lang siguro and accept the thing we cannot change. You condition yourself na isa lang magulang mo. Like pano yung mga namatayan ng isang magulang and not necessarily naghiwaly. I am glad my mom did not re-marry. She just concentrated on raising us. I actually asked her point blank and told her I am fine if she did kasi iniisip ko pano naman happiness niya na hindi mapupunan ng mga anak and she said she's okay with just us. Nag eenjoy siya with extra curricular activities sa community at sa church on top of mothering us so ayun nga, probably just conditioning the mind and choosing priorities. She's well past her 60's now. Naghiwalay sila ng tatay ko when she was in her early 40s and there was no other man eversince.
The ability to effectively lead a family has nothing to do with gender. Effective leadership is based on skill, knowledge, experience, not some body part or chromosome.
DeleteTo say “we need husbands to lead” disregards millions of women, single or married, or have successfully lead their families, with or without a husband.
I’ve seen firsthand marriages and relationships where women are better at navigating life than their partners, and vice versa. Hindi po solo ng mga lalake ang ability to lead. Sana matigil na ang ganitong mentality. .
"We need husbands to lead."
DeleteSays the spineless woman.
1:23 Teh, your 2nd sentence gave you away. WITHOUT HUSBAND. Applicable lang yang sinasabi mo kung walang tatay. Ang usapan kasi ay pamilya na may nanay at tatay. If equal sila, more often than, they will clash. Kaya dapat they compliment each other. May mga bagay na may authority ang tatay, may bagay na may authority ang nanay. Isipin mo na lang, kung pareho silang strict ang pagdidisiplina sa anak, ano sa tingin mo ang consequence nito sa bata?
DeleteEwww. Ang babaeng willing to submit sa husband na maraming kalokohan
ReplyDeleteNa cringe din ako sa part na yun ewwww
DeletePlease refer to first comment. Di lang yun yon. Pero sablay talaga yan si mariel.
DeletePara sayo lang girl. Paano sa iba?
ReplyDeleteEh di iba.
DeleteOpinion nya yan, hayaan mo sya di naman nya sinabi na gayahin mo pananaw nya.
DeleteYung itanong ninyo kung ano na nagawa ng asawa niya…pakilista kung meron. (Curious lang ako hndi ako nanonood ng balita.)
ReplyDeleteIsa pang delulu. 😂
ReplyDeleteAng gulo
ReplyDeleteKapag may kontrobersyang kinakaharap si Robin, naiisip ko talagang ang katanungang Mariel kaya mo pa ba :) But i guess kakayanin niya talaga lahat dahil galing sa broken family at ayaw na nya na maranasan iyon ng mga anak niya. But i have to disagree with her, parehong magpartner ang nagdadala ng relationship. Pero kung Robin Padilla nga naman ang asawa, talagang ang babae ang magbubihat ng relasyon.
ReplyDeleteShe can say that kasi madami silang pera, pwede syang hindi mag work at mag focus nalang sa sarili, mga anak at sa pamamahay nila na iminamando lang sa mga kasambahay nila yung mga gawain. Pero kung can’t afford to get additional help from other people like kasambahay SOBRANG HIRAP lalo na kung parehas kayong nagttrabaho to earn for the fam. Out of touch tong babaitang ito. Dami pa naman maniniwala sa mga sasabihin nya
ReplyDeleteKaya talaga kahit walang kasambahay, dito sa Europe hindi naman common ang maghire ng katulong. Pero na mamanage ng parents ang mga bata at gawaing bahay.
Delete12:57 iba nman kasi dito. Reliable ang nursery or Kindergarten kaya may time pa ang dalawang parents na magtrabaho
Delete1:33 Kaya yan basta may time management. Mga Pinoy kasi ugali na magkasambahay.
DeleteOh akala ko ba baduy ang GMA? Haha
ReplyDeleteBwahahaha kinapalan ang face and hindi pantay na blush sa isang side.
DeleteSo loud,is she deaf?
ReplyDeleteSometimes i wonder that too 😅 parang di sya capable na mahina lang magsalita. Nakita ko na sya in person, maingay talaga sya
Delete“Wives should be submissive to the husband” but on the same breath “empowered ang mga babae.” Girl….
ReplyDeleteContradicting ang statements nya. Sana tinanong ni boy kung ano comment nya sa reaction ni robin during hearing about rape at nilecturan pa sya ni atty. capunan
Deleteang gulo mo, maingay at masakit sa tenga ang boses mo
ReplyDeleteNapasobra sa blush si Mariel, and yung padding ng blazer nya, parang nagmukhang sobrang laki sa kanya. Oh well, it takes both to make a relationship work, complementary ang babae at lalaki.
ReplyDeleteMeaning kapag in heat si Robin, wala ka na lang magawa kasi hindi kayo equal?
ReplyDeleteYup. The in heat comment of robin. Never forget
Deleteand to think she's a mother who'll raise her children to think this way and be part of our society 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽
ReplyDeleteGuys maraming babae ang submissive sa husbands nila gusto po nila yan di sila pinilit
ReplyDeleteMga kapatid, pano ba magkakakutis na ganyan? Is that makeup? Her facial skin wasn’t like that before.
ReplyDeleteEmpty can makes a lot of noise
ReplyDeleteTrue!!!
DeleteMedyo kulang talaga sa comprehension mga tao. She obviously didn't mean literally equal; and she is not wrong. Hayayay.
ReplyDeletepick me girl
ReplyDeleteHindi pala talaga matalino ito. Well, pumatol nga kay Robin. The point is walang cohesivenss ang mga sinabi niya. Submissive wife pero emoowered women at women ang mag go go signal, nagdadala ng relasyon. Submissive ba pag ganun???
ReplyDeleteTatalunin pa yata ni Mariel and blush on ni Sassa Gurl hahahaha!
ReplyDeleteMas maganda si Sassa Gurl kay Mariel kahit walang blush on.
DeleteOpinyon at paniniwala niya yan pero hindi ibig sabihin tama lahat ng mga sinabi niya. Iba't iba ang sitwasyon ng mga kababaihan lalo na yun mga nakapangasawa ng mga abusive na lalaki.
ReplyDeleteHmmm…I’ve observed some women in Robin’s religion. Pero from what I’ve seen, parang hindi naman totoo yung kini-claim niya. Medyo out-of-touch ang statement ni girl. Or maybe she has not seen enough.
ReplyDeletedati, ang class tingnan ni mariel ngayon, di ko na alam.hahahha
ReplyDelete7:42 class ba sya kasi Nag- I- English at nakatira dati s States? She’s not class at all. Hambog talaga sya
ReplyDelete