@uknwmprsn omg guys context: so after belle performed, may lumapit na random guy out of no where tapos pumunta kay belle. what happened was really uncomfy for her. I was really scared kay belle #bellemariano #donnypangilinan ♬ original sound - ms.shai
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Mejo nakakakaba but she's so professional good job
ReplyDeleteshe has to otherwise mawalan sya ng faneys
DeleteHindi niya ginagawa Yan para Hindi siya mawalan ng fans ginagawa niya yan Kasi mabuti siyang tao at naiintindihan niya Ang mga kagaya ni Kuya psychology student Yan kaya alam niya na kung anong gagawin
Delete1:34 ang bitter mo. grabe ka mg isip ng mali sa kapwa mo. Belle could have become everything else but she chose to accommodate and be grateful still kay Kuya.
Delete1:34 Sadyang basher at hater ka lang. May mga artista nga kahit walang special needs ang fan iiwas, magsusungit o magsusuplada ang artista e pag nilapitan at lalo pag nagpapicture.
DeleteFriendly talaga si Belle sa lahat.
Tong mga security na to, sana naman maging considerate sa nga ganitong fans.magkaron naman sana ng puso sa ma may special needs gaya ni fan, hindi naman kelangan na ganun karami ang dudumog to protect the artist. Gusto lang naman ng picgure nun tao.
ReplyDeleteNo. Security breach yan. buti nga hindi siya kinuyog paalis. Remember Christina Grimmie? You'll never know kaya dapat tight ang security sa mga events.
DeleteTrabaho nila yan, wag kang ano dyan. Nakita mo yon, mukhang agresibo.
Delete9:59 they did their job. Naging considerate sila nyan kasi kung hindi, inilayo agad nila yan.
Delete9:59 Very wrong ka dzai! Their job is to actually knock that person down as soon as laid his hand sa artista. Mabait panga sila nyan eh. Sa hollywood yan nangyare baka na taser na yan.or naka posas na.
DeleteMay special needs Yung fan
DeleteHindi mo alam kung ano nsa isip nyang fan, kya nga sila security, para masure sna secure binabantayan nila, tapos kung may nangyaring masama sasabihin mo nmn sobrang luwag ng security
DeleteWow. Anong cognitive skills meron to. Basic yan, daming artists napahamak sa mga fans na ganyan. Di lahat ng susugod sa artist fan, and innocent. Isip isp !
Delete959 that’s literally their job, to protect the artist. If may nangyari kay belle, sila ang mananagot. Di nga nila nagawa ng maayos yung trabaho nila kung tutuusin kasi pano nakalusot yung lalake
Delete9:59 teh bulag ka ba? Hindi naman dinumog yung fan w/ special needs hinayaan nga lang nila di ba at nakapag lakad din palayo ng hindi nila nagalaw, naging alert lang sila sa possible na mangyayare, makikita mo din naman sa video na may pagka aggressive
Deletesi fan pero na handle nila ng maayos.
Trabaho Nila Yan mhie to protect artist, dahil pag may nangyari Jan sila mayayari.
DeleteHuh??? Sobrang delikado nyan ante. Medyo mapilit na din sya kay Belle kahit napag bigyan na
DeleteAnyone could be a threat for someone's safety
Delete959 helloooo, tama lang ginawa ng secuity team, kahit Special, di mo alam anong magagawa niya. Kahit ako nag worry nong napanood ko to. Bakit nakapasok siys doon? Nakakaworry. Mabait si Belle, di nataranta. They did everything right here
DeleteGurl trabaho nila yan. Kung may mangyari sa talent, ikaw ba mananagot?
Delete9:59,maximum tolerance pa nga yung ginawa ng security. Medyo aggressive na si fan.
DeleteWrong teh. Their job is to protect. Hindi kaya ng isang security lang pag ganyan. Mabait pa yung mga security sa fan kasi obvious na may special needs siya.
DeleteNope, nakukulangan nga ko sa ginawa nila. That’s their job.
DeleteHello! Kung di mi alam na may special needs matatakot ka pa rin. Lalaki yan noh? Kita mo nga kilos, agressive
DeleteJusko. Kita mo nga reaction ni belle. Kahit professional siya kita sa face niyang she’s uncomfortable and nervous. Pasimple na nga siya dumikit sa security eh. Yung dun pa lang sa nakaakbay sa kanya yang fan at nung uusog siya bigla siya hinila pa rin para dumikit siya dapat dun pa lang umaksyon na yung security but they were still understanding. Tsk
DeleteOmg, i know he is special pero delikado to ah, una palang di na dapar lumapit ng ganun. Aggressive masyado si kuya.
ReplyDeleteApparently, you don’t know how to handle people on the spectrum. He’s aggressive kasi pinipigilan siya. Tingnan mo nung pinagbigyan naging okay na siya. Props to Belle, she handled it well.
DeleteSana mas maraming taong maging aware on how to handle people on the spectrum.
10:26- psychology student si Belle at sabi niya sa isang interview dati na gusto niyang pag-aralan at maintindihan ang behavior ng mga tao kaya di na ako nagulat na alam niyang ihandle ang ganitong situation. On top of that, obviously mabait talaga siya kaya Kudos to her
Delete10:26 responsibility yun ng mga guardians nya
DeleteRespectful pa dn naman yung security, but this is handled well dahil na din na de-escalate ni Belle
Delete10:26 MOST people don't know how to handle people on the spectrum. That's why people with special needs should be accompanied in public events. Not all companies can provide a training on how to handle people with special needs kaya huwag kang mag-expect na the security will know how to handle the situation properly. Even Belle doesn't know but she acted just like anyone who doesn't want to create a scene. Kapag nasa ganyang sitwasyon, there are two things we can do- fight to protect yourself, or remain calm. You fight kung alam mong kaya mong ipagtanggol ang sarili mo. You remain calm kung alam mong hindi.
Delete10:26 Ay wow! Sa tingin mo ba everyone here in this thread knows how to handle people on the spectrum? Napaka-entitled mo naman beshy para mag-expect na we should know how to handle. Minority ang people with special needs kaya apart from their family and professionals, wala ng ibang nakakaalam on how to handle them. Kung gusto niyong maging informed ang majority, then spread awareness. Request for companies to offer training or kayo mismo magbigay ng free training para lahat alam!
Delete10:26 PM It should not have happened in the first place. His relative or family should not have encouraged him to do that pero sila pa siguro bumili ng flowers para ibigay kay Belle.
DeleteWell guess what 10:26, most people don't know how to handle people with special needs! Akala mo ba bawat pamilya sa Pilipinas ay may member na may special needs? Kaya wala kang karapatang pagsalitaan ng ganyan si 10:01 or kahit sino na hindi educated o wala namang kapamilya na may special needs. Feeling entitled ka masyado!
DeleteHow to handle… obvious naman aggressive sya. Di naman pwede excuse na kasi special sya. Dapat turuan din sya ng family nya ng boundaries. nanghawak sya without permission, multiple times. Kung di nga yan special, kinuyog na yan ng mga security. Mabait at tolerant pa nga mga security sa kanya.
DeleteMga taong kagaya mo 10:26 ang dahilan kung bakit instead na tanggapin ng tao ang minority eh mas lalo pang naiinis dahil sa ganyang attitude and demands niyo. You always expect everyone to accept and understand na dapat ganito, dapat ganyan. In the first place, hindi naman ito standard na tinuturo sa bahay o sa school na dapat ganito ang gawin natin kapag may special needs na tao. Limited yung knowledge and experience ng karamihan. Even some parents who have special needs children, they just treat them normally unless professionals or special groups will help and educate them.
Delete10:26 so dapat laging pagbigyan? Paano naman yung boundaries ng ibang tao? So paano kung matripan nila anak mo tapos yakap yakapin? Hayaan lang?
Delete2:55 and 5:23 TUMFACT. Kindness naman talaga lagi kahit kanino, special man o hindi. Pero may kanya kanyang safe space dapat. Responsibilidad ng guardian ng may special need wag ma-invade safe space ng iba. Umulit itong fan, mas malala lang ngayon inasal at sa gitna pa ng stage / performace
DeleteInfairness sa batang to mabait naman talaga
ReplyDeletealangan namang magmaldita sya in front of so many people🤣
Deletemay mga artistang maldita talaga kahit Infront of so many people 12:33
Deleteanon 1:24, hindi kagaya nyan na all eyes nasa kanya kasi nasa center stage sya haler
Delete1233 mabait Naman talaga, Wala namang issue sa kanya
Delete12:33 hirap mo makagets no
DeleteAt merong ibang artista na kita mo agad pag-iwas nila at pagtawag ng security pero Belle opted to accommodate. Ganyan siya talaga regardless kung may camera o wala.
Deletetrue @1:24 AM, madaming hindi magdadalawang isip na ipakita ang totoong kulay nila
DeletePero si Belle iBang iba talaga siya nung taping nga nila ng CBML siya pa unang bumabati sa mga tao
DeleteMabait talaga siya no? Di lang nagpapanggap. Respect
ReplyDeleteYes, I've proven it many times. At hindi lang siya ang mabait, pati family niya both sides ay mababait at matulungin kaya very healthy ang environment na meeon siya. Humble din sila
DeleteNice Belle. Mabait na maganda pa.
ReplyDeleteShe handled it so well. She was still smiling all throughout and kept her composure. Impressed ako sa kanya and I didn’t like her all that much either.
ReplyDeleteI like how she de-escalated it
Delete10:27 Ha? Gulo ng comment mo teh. Magtagalog nalang kasi
DeleteKudos very professional. She seems to be genuinely nice. Magaling din umarte tong batang to. Malayo ang mararating
ReplyDeleteShe's nice, yes. But magaling umarte? Nope.
DeleteMukha talaga siyang mabait. Pero yung last show niya with Maris medyo sablay talaga pag arte: need pa workshop
Delete1:03 maipasok talaga sabihan ng nega si Belle. Ang role ni maris siyang siya yun. Pero role ni Belle dun, mabigat dinadalang trauma.
DeleteDirek Cathy, Direk Mae and Inang Olivia Lamasan all praised her acting. Hindi pa lang talaga sanay ang mga pilipino sa bidang babae na hindi big ang actions at stoic ang emotions. Ito yung type of acting na sinubukan sa Pinas to try and and compete with with Hollywood and kdrama
Delete1:56 Excused me lang huh she's a child star and magaling talaga siya suki Yan ng MMK at Ipaglaban Mo Mula nung Bata siya at magkaiba Ang roles na ginagampanan nila ni Maris Hindi pwedeng magbaliw baliwan lang siya when her role was stoic. You should watch her other projects from FSBTW she's the Teen Gabbie Salazar and kuhang kuha niya Yung role ni Gabbie from her mannerisms and sa HIH as Max pati Yung dalawang movie nila ni Donny
Delete1:03 Hindi siya mananalo or manonominate sa Seoul International Drama Awards if Hindi siya magaling at may isa pa nakalaban niya nga si Heaven sa Luna Awards as Best Actress Hindi siya manonominate dun if Hindi siya magaling umarte
DeleteNakakatakot din pero at least calm lang sya at nahandle ng maayos
ReplyDeleteGaling ng security. I think medyo kinabahan din si Belle dahil sa body language niya, lumapit siya sa security. Magaling din siyang mag deescalate ng situation. She remained calm and compassionate sa fan while keeping her safe space. Tama lang naman na on guard 'yung security. No physical contact dun sa fan pero when they had the chance, pinalibutan nila si Belle. I felt relieved lang nung na secure na siya. Hindi kasi natin alam kung ano ang maaaring mangyari lalo na at na invade na nung fan yung personal space niya. Inakbayan na lang siya bigla.
ReplyDeleteKudos to Belle for being kind and considerate on this unexpected scenario. But… any person should not be put in that situation, nasaan po ba yung kasama nung lalaki? Why did they allow this to happen? Syempre sasabihin nila safe naman yan, hindi naman yan mananakit, etc. Pero that is not being mindful of others and their surroundings.
ReplyDeleteNakatabi namin sa eroplano yang si belle mariano, very nice lady indeed. She gladly said yes when my daughter ask a picture with her.
ReplyDeleteDati na itong nagpapicture kay Belle. May short video nun. Pero mas mapangahas siya dito. Ang bait, accommodating at professionalni Belle ❤️
ReplyDeleteNakakanerbyos panuorin. Makapigil hininga. Mga tao dun at security naalerto din. Anything can happen kasi. Inuunawa naman natin na may special needs siya. Intindihin din na may responsibilidad ang mga pumalibot sa security ni Belle.
Wow Belle! You have my respect. What a graceful woman. Alam mong mabuting tao.
ReplyDeleteSo nice to see how calm she was during that situation..pag nag react sya ng iba, it might send wrong signal kay kuya na mukhang may special needs. Sana rin na manage sya ng mga kasama nya sa venue. To the security, may pagkukulang obviously.
ReplyDeleteHalatang natakot sya when the guy ran up to her pero she handled it well. Kudos din sa security for giving the guy enough time maybe because napansin nila na may condition nga
ReplyDeleteMejo aggressive nga yes looks like he's special but she handled it well
ReplyDeleteNakakatakot nung bigla syang hinila at pinigilan na makalayo
ReplyDeleteNasan yung mga kasama nung guy at hindi sya in-assist man lang? Why did they just let him get close to her like that? Paano kung may ginawang action ang mga security then sila pa ang may kasalanan?
ReplyDelete12:33 oo nga, hinayaan lang ng mga kasama niya na ganun ganun na lang lumapit. Tapos kung may nangyari sa guy eh kawawa pa yung mga security.
DeleteMay babaeng lumapit sa video na kasama niya siguro, ni rub ung back niya.
DeleteBaka hinayaan kasi baka lumusot. At nakalusot nga, nakapagpapicture.
Deletetowards the end of the video nandun yun kasama, inaawat na yun fan
Delete“Thank you for this po” ❤️❤️❤️ mabait talaga sya
ReplyDeleteThese security guys should be fired.
ReplyDeleteHa????
Deleteginawa lang ang trabaho nasesante pa
Deletenandun naman sila eh, although nakulangan din ako pero thinking about it, kung hindi nila pinagbigyan sasabihan sila ng hindi man lang pinagbigyan kasi may special needs yun fan, pero on the other hand, dapat hindi nakalapit, so i think sa ganyan situation, tantiyahan talaga
DeleteGinawa trabaho? Security breach yan. And yes, agree they should be fired or at least have some sort of sanction.
DeleteHalatang takot siya. Fan keeps pulling her in even wrspped his arm around her arm to get her closer. She is completely pulling away. Makes me so angry. She clearly felt sonunsafe. When he was asking everyone to get out of the way she clearly stepped towards security and dun lang yata nagets ng security na takot siya ang bagal. Hindi dapat iniwanan si Belle with the fan even if special needs.
ReplyDelete1:38 the caretaker should have done more in this case.
DeleteThe way Belle handled the very unexpected situation just shows the kind of person she really is- kind.
ReplyDeleteOne putting an act may be caught off guard in such a situation and react negatively as how he/ she normally would in any awkward situation.
wala nmn choice nag aantay cguro ng senyas mas weird nmn kung tatakbo sya daming tao
DeleteShe had a choice magtago sa likod ng security. O nung naka isang picture, puwedeng pinili niyang ilayo na yung fan. She chose kindness, compassion and grace under that circumstance na puwedeng maging risky sa kanya.
DeleteSaan family ng guy? Known na pala sya na ganyan, ginawa din daw kay Barbie Forteza, umakyat ng stage, ganyan din. Alam na pala nila na ganyan, di pa nila ginawan ng preventive measures.
ReplyDeleteMedyo nakakakaba yung nangyari sa kanya at infairness mabait pala sya at hindi nataranta.
ReplyDeleteIt’s in stressful and desperate situations saka lumalabas ang tunay na character ng tao. Hindi ka na makakaisip na dapat maganda ang ipakita mo dahil nasa harap ka ng madaming tao. Natural na character mo na ang lalabas. It shows na mabait sya at mabuti ang puso kaya ganyan ang reaction nya. Very wrong na sabihin pa na mawawalan sya ng fans kung hindi maganda pinakita nya. Hindi na maiisip yan in situations like this.
ReplyDeleteHarmless naman muka lang nasa spectrum kaya iba ang kilos pero sana ung kasama nya jan ay inaalalayan at inaawat ung tao
ReplyDeleteKaloka yung mga security guards! Sila pa tinataboy hahahaha sayang pasahod sa inyo tehhh
ReplyDeleteOmg. Mga security sa pinas di well trained kahit kailan. It doesn’t matter kung may special needs yun fan or wala. Protocol jan is walang close contact sa artist. For sure na trauma si Belle. Kung sa US yan, kawawa ang fan.
ReplyDeletePoor security.
ReplyDeleteMadali mauto ang mga tao tlga. Hindi niyo ba naisip na pwedeng PR stunt lang yan para mapag usapan? I dont think late mag respond yung security kung totoong situation yan.
ReplyDeleteGrabeng analysis yan, PR agad. He's special , kungi irerestrain mo yan lalong magiging aggressive yan sa tingin ko wala sa gitna ang mga security nasa gilid cla medyo malayo.
DeletePR STunt involving a speacial child oe a person with ASD.? parang mahirap naman atang ipull off ang stunt na ganyan.
DeleteAnung klaseng pag is isip meronk?? PR agad? Kc sinong tao walang rights n gamitin ang mga taong with disabilities para sa PR n sinasabi mo para lng mang uto ng tao..
DeleteWho in their right mind would pull a stunt like this? Ikaw lang nka isip nyan grabe ka
DeleteWow nman sa PR stunt! She doesn’t need that. Lagi ngang may news articles yan. And to think na someone under the spectrum was used? That’s so low of you.
DeleteLuhhh... Ikaw naman masyadong mapanghinala sa kapuwa. PR stunt? tingin mo magagamit nila ang tao na may special need na ganiyan ang gawin? Isa pa halatang nagulat din si Belle. Matagal nang fan yang guy, nasa fb bio nga niya si Belle at Charlie Dizon. Naexcite lang siya kaya ganiyan ang ginawa niya. Sa security team naman ginawa lang nila trabaho nila.
Deletedi monba naisip na mag mababait din naman talaga na celebrity? like belle? sarah?
Deleteikaw lang yata nakaisip na ilagay ang artista sa ganyang situation para pag usapan, belle was visibly shaken, yun security were tense, the fan was aggressive and obviously had special needs so kung PR stunt, ang gagaling naman nilang lahat na artista, medyo bawasan ang bitterness po...
Delete12:47 Sarah, yes. But Belle, duh!
Delete8:12 Bitter naman nito. Aga aga nakaisip na ng masama about isang taong gumawa ng maganda. Kulang ka lang ata sa tulog haha
Deletemay pa duh pa si 12:47. baka ikaw ang hindi mabait. dinadamay mo pa ibang tao.
DeleteNakaka sad naman, ang dami pa rin kulang sa awareness sa mga taong nasa spectrum
ReplyDeleteImbes na ma-sad ka, campaign for spreading awareness. Mag-request ka for private or public institutions to offer trainings to companies and individuals who are interested. Don't expect ordinary citizens to instantly understand people in the spectrum!
DeleteWala naman nanglalait sa guy dahil sa condition nya? Wag oa.
DeleteO eh di ikaw na ang expert sa may spectrum! Kasalanan ba nila o namin na hindi or wala kaming exposure sa may spectrum? Sino ba dapat nag eeducate sa lahat ng tao sa mundo o Pinas na lang? Maka judge ka samin
DeleteBelle is on her 2nd year as a psychology student. From the get go, she knew the fan was special. I was there sa venue, yes mejo aggressive talaga sya but belle handled it well. I'm so proud of you, Belinda.
ReplyDeleteKaya nga Hindi siya patola sa mga bashers na kahit Ang sasakit na ng mga sinasabi Kasi iniintindi nalang niya dahil alam niyang inggitera
DeletePero halos tumakbo na sya nung lumapit. Na realize na madami nga palang cam
Delete9:43 pwede naman na nagulat? ganun naman reaction natin kung tayo ay nagugualat. babae, medyo young pa, what do you expect?
Delete9:43 Anyone's instinct talaga ang biglang iwas. Sumugod ba naman sa'yo sige nga. Agad din lumapit security. Pinili niya i-accommodate imbes ipaubaya na sa security. Nakailang picture pa at nagpasalamat pa siyang paulit ulit.
Deletekudos to belle. very professional.
ReplyDeletemaganda, talented at mabait pa
Kind talaga si Belle. obvious naman na mabait ang bata.
ReplyDeleteSa mga nag-eexpect na dapat alam ng security kung paano i-handle ang situation, bakit hindi niyo tinatanong kung nasaan yung kasama ng lalaki? He has special needs so dapat di ba may kasama man lang siya na kapamilya niya or guardian man lang para kung sakaling may aberya, andyan sila na alam kung paano i-handle ang situation?
ReplyDeleteSumunod naman sa huli, we do not know baka kaya Hindi sinundan agad kasi baka mas mag aggressive. Anyway sana na lang preventive measures ang ginawa ng caregivers, Hindi Sila sa malapit nag pwesto kasi nga may tendency na gagawa ng eksena. And sinabihan na lang road manager or PA na kung pwede mag picture Sila after performance kasi magiging Masaya Yung fan na may special needs.
Delete11:29, thats beyond the point. The security should have been able to protect her right away since thats their job. Pag trained security ka, you always have to assume that everyone who’s trying to come close sa binabantayan mo is a threat. Second nalang yung pag question kung asan ang taga bantay ng fans
DeleteI have a school-aged son dx’ed with asd level2+combined adhd and i cannot imagine pano ko sya hahabulin at pipigilan pag lumaki pa sya kasi atm he runs sooo fast and resists soooo strongly.
ReplyDeleteHard to judge and say, “nasan ba caregiver ng fan na may special needs? Bakit di marunong mag regulate sa edad na yan?”, base lang sa clip na yan. Hard to judge the security, dko naman alam buong ganap. Hard to hate the fan for looking aggressive towards her, alam ko yung matinding sabik na taong nasa spectrum pag nakita nila ang gusto nila. All i know is that they have purest intentions which most typically developing people will not see. Hope we can rethink about passing judgement on others esp since wala tayo sa aktwal na eksena. Ang masasabi ko lang ay buti hindi sinaktan o pinosasan si fan at sobrang hanga ko doon sa Belle for how she handled this.
Buti kamo hindi nasaktan si belle. How sure are you na hindi traumatizing yung pagsigawsigaq nung fan?
DeleteBut in this scenario wala yung kasama para pigilan. Responsibility pa din ng guardian i think
DeleteKudos to Belle for being so calm.. Before ng halftime performance nya, while nagwawarm-up pa lang sila Donny and yung mga players, may lumapit din na girl fan sa court and nakipag-selfie kay Donny. Tapos nagnakaw pa ng kiss kay Donny. Grabe naman.. Donny allowed na nga na makapag-selfie sya tapos kiniss pa nya. Kudos to DONBELLE for handling these situations so well..
ReplyDeleteThankful at mabait si belle. she knows how to read the room
ReplyDeleteParang ang gulo ng mga mag cocomment... Ano ba ang issue dito?
ReplyDeleteKulang sa knowledge ang security guards to handle? E tama naman ginawa nila kasi d na mapigilan yung may special needs, pumpagilid lng sila kay Belle d naman pwede hayaan lng nila don hindi namn nila sinaktan kahit tinataboy sila. Tama din ang act ni Belle don sa taong may special needs...mabait sya at kalmado ngpapic smile lang ganon. Wala n issue kayo kayo nag aaway.
You showed calmness and emphathy. Keep it up my loves Belinda.
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