I don't get her point. So she was a victim of sexual harassment and exploitation but in the end she's saying it's just a learning experience?
What is wrong with simply expressing sympathy with the victims? Bakit parang laging may kasamang excuse? Na nangyari sa kanya and she got over it so other victims should do the same?
Parang di naman ganun pagkabasa ku. I think her point was that this kind of situation occurs often in showbizness, but that there still remains some that do not commit these acts. Some victims choose to be quiet because of fear etc. while others chose to speak up and that more kudos to them for having the courage to do so. Yun yon.
11:19 PM - The reading comprehension beh, anyare?!
Maayos na nalathala ni Rita Avila ang kanyang karanasan at ang kanyang pakikiisa sa mga nabiktima sa industriya mula sa mga nabastos hanggang sa mga nahalay. Bagkus ikaw naman ang nagkulang sa pagkakaunawa ng kanyang naibahagi.
@11:19 my god, ang ganda kaya ng pagkakasabi niya ng kanyang saloobin sa wikang Filipino hindi mo parin gets? saan tayo lulugar mga kababayan, mahina na nga sa comprehension ng ingles pati ba naman sa wikang Filipino? nakakapanlumo. Bottomline she is in support of sexual abuse victims. Basa basa until maintinidihan
Please read it again, slowly, without a pre-conceived judgment.
Kanya-kanyang paglalakbay nga raw. Iba iba ang coping responses. Merong mapalad na may lalaban for them. Merong nagmove on na lang at magpapatibay. LAHAT VALID.
Maganda ang point niya. If you can't understand, magfocus ka sa ending. "Mang-akay." She's affirming na merong ganyan sa showbiz, hindi lahat pero meron. Support all kinds of victims, kung tahimik at ayaw magsiwalat, o kung gusto man makipaglaban.
Patunay lang na may mga nanay talaga na nasisilaw sa pera. At hindi lahat ng nanay dakila. I feel sorry for miss Rita, yung feeling na yung taong magtatanggol sayo pera lang katapat. Sino pa kakampu mo. Hays.
May mga ina talaga na ibebenta ka kay satanas dahil sa pera ibig sabihan ikaw na anak d ka mahal d ka importante sa kanya dahil ang gusto lang nya pera pera pera.
Once we all acknowledge that this is a real PROBLEM in the entertainment industry, then maybe something will change! Finally, #MeToo has arrived in the Philippines.
Hindi sapat ang batas. Dapat detalyado at mas matindi ang parusa. I just hope that the senators doing the senate hearing may alam sa batas hindi for grand standing lang.
She's my aunt, pinsan buo from paternal side. Growing up when there were gatherings, I used to think why she won't come often or why I kept hearing she's mad at her mom. Their relationship were on and off even back then(late 80s early 90s). We didn't know of this, pretty shocking actually. But we know her mom which I call lola mukhang pera talaga.
Talagang may mga sablay na magulang, diba recently lang sa news na mga ina mismo ang mga nagbebenta online na hubad na pics ng mga menor de edad na anak? Eto talaga yung mga kasuklam-suklam!
@2:24 This is 11:54 You're so right about that! Kahit mga 9/10 years old lang ako that time I fully recall na pinalalabas sya na masama ng mom nya. She even helped Lola R to have baking business pero butas kamay. Basta yung mom nya laging pera problema.
11:34 ganun naman sila even red stenberg ( di ko alam spelling hehe) and bobby andrews during tgis. C red kunwari 16 bat nasa 20’s na. Ang showbiz age sila. C charlie dizon kong di pa kinasal di pa malalaman nasa 30’s na din
Mukhang ang hugot mo galing na naman kay golden boy at nanay nya. Iba iba ng sitwasyon. Isa pa kong di ka naniniwala sa 10 commandments di mo need questionion dahil madami pa ding naniniwala
It appears, may ilan dito, literal magbasa, seeing only what they want to see. As in, comment agad before comprehending. If you only took the time, 12:15 was actually being sarcastic.
Jusko naman kayo 12:34 12:44 12:57 1:06 3:13! Binasa niyo ba mabuti yung comment?! Galit na galit kayo eh sarcastic yung pagkakasabi! The commenter was mocking those people na laging pinapamuka na kesyo nanay mo yan o naglalapag ng 5th commandment at bible verses!
Malaking check kay Ms. Rita Avila. Hindi naman lahat magkakaroon ng lakas ng loob na magsumbong ng nangyari sa kanila kaya hindi din dapat sila ipahiya. Kanya-kanyang reaction at experience yan. Pero hindi din dapat i-generalize ang buong industriya dahil sa mga ilang bulok na kamatis.
Why I feel like something is wrong with her? The way she speaks it’s like she’s not completely there… like the lights are on but no one’s home kinda feels
11:01 AM - it's called projection. she has her issues but it appears you have equally weighty issues to hastily conclude "there's something wrong with her". your projecting your own issues on her.
Nakakalungkot man ang nangyari kanila Sandro at Gerald pero buti na lang at lumantad sila. Dahil sa kanila, marami na rin ang nagbabahagi ng kanilang naranasan. Sana maging aral ito sa industriya. Respetuhin ang mga artista. Hindi sila kalakal. Huwag manahimik. Manindigan laban sa mga pangaabuso!
Ispluk mo na Mama Rita at i-Me Too movement na yang mga abusers and predators sa showbiz. It's about time managot sila sa mga ginaqa nilang kahalayan sa mga aspiring actors.
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Grabe yung nanay nya! Kkalungkot naman.
ReplyDeleteI don't get her point. So she was a victim of sexual harassment and exploitation but in the end she's saying it's just a learning experience?
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with simply expressing sympathy with the victims? Bakit parang laging may kasamang excuse? Na nangyari sa kanya and she got over it so other victims should do the same?
Andun ka na, lawakan mo pa ang comprehension mo
DeleteParang di naman ganun pagkabasa ku. I think her point was that this kind of situation occurs often in showbizness, but that there still remains some that do not commit these acts. Some victims choose to be quiet because of fear etc. while others chose to speak up and that more kudos to them for having the courage to do so. Yun yon.
DeleteRead, read, read!
Delete11:19 PM - The reading comprehension beh, anyare?!
DeleteMaayos na nalathala ni Rita Avila ang kanyang karanasan at ang kanyang pakikiisa sa mga nabiktima sa industriya mula sa mga nabastos hanggang sa mga nahalay. Bagkus ikaw naman ang nagkulang sa pagkakaunawa ng kanyang naibahagi.
@11:19 my god, ang ganda kaya ng pagkakasabi niya ng kanyang saloobin sa wikang Filipino hindi mo parin gets? saan tayo lulugar mga kababayan, mahina na nga sa comprehension ng ingles pati ba naman sa wikang Filipino? nakakapanlumo. Bottomline she is in support of sexual abuse victims. Basa basa until maintinidihan
Delete11:19 Mukhang gumawa ka agad ng sarili mong conclusions bago mo tinapos basahin yung posts. Hay good luck na lang sayo.
DeleteReading comprehension, major prob ng mga Marites!
DeletePlease read it again, slowly, without a pre-conceived judgment.
DeleteKanya-kanyang paglalakbay nga raw. Iba iba ang coping responses. Merong mapalad na may lalaban for them. Merong nagmove on na lang at magpapatibay. LAHAT VALID.
Maganda ang point niya. If you can't understand, magfocus ka sa ending. "Mang-akay." She's affirming na merong ganyan sa showbiz, hindi lahat pero meron. Support all kinds of victims, kung tahimik at ayaw magsiwalat, o kung gusto man makipaglaban.
9:52 AM exactly.
Delete9:52 ang linaw ng explanation mo. Very good
DeleteTagalog na nga teh di pa makaintindi. Basahin mo ulit. Omg.
DeleteLabas na yung mga nagsasabing "MOTHER KNOW BEST" dyan. It's your time to shine!!!
ReplyDelete*good Mothers. Ok na?
DeletePatunay lang na may mga nanay talaga na nasisilaw sa pera. At hindi lahat ng nanay dakila. I feel sorry for miss Rita, yung feeling na yung taong magtatanggol sayo pera lang katapat. Sino pa kakampu mo. Hays.
Deleteparang MOTHER KNOWS BEST ang sinasabi nila bhie. joke lang.
Delete@1140.. Good mother? May mother ba na aamin bad mother sya habang nangengealam sa buhay ng anak niya?
DeleteMay mga ina talaga na ibebenta ka kay satanas dahil sa pera ibig sabihan ikaw na anak d ka mahal d ka importante sa kanya dahil ang gusto lang nya pera pera pera.
DeleteIsama na din yung mga nagsasabing "walangmagulang na nakakatiis sa anak"
DeleteGood mothers, knows best! 👍🏻
Delete"nanay mo pa Rin Yan"
DeleteOnce we all acknowledge that this is a real PROBLEM in the entertainment industry, then maybe something will change! Finally, #MeToo has arrived in the Philippines.
ReplyDeleteHindi sapat ang batas. Dapat detalyado at mas matindi ang parusa. I just hope that the senators doing the senate hearing may alam sa batas hindi for grand standing lang.
DeleteShe's my aunt, pinsan buo from paternal side. Growing up when there were gatherings, I used to think why she won't come often or why I kept hearing she's mad at her mom. Their relationship were on and off even back then(late 80s early 90s). We didn't know of this, pretty shocking actually. But we know her mom which I call lola mukhang pera talaga.
ReplyDeleteTalagang may mga sablay na magulang, diba recently lang sa news na mga ina mismo ang mga nagbebenta online na hubad na pics ng mga menor de edad na anak? Eto talaga yung mga kasuklam-suklam!
DeleteAt binawasan pa ang edad ni Rita. Naging college classmate siya ng Ate ko, magka-edad. Tapos sa showbiz, naging mas bata na si Rita.
Delete11:54 for sure sa ibang kamag anak na judge na sya as walang modo na anak.
Deletemasakit man aminin, may mga magulang talaga na ginagawang pangkabuhayan showcase ung mga anak nla...
Delete@2:24 This is 11:54 You're so right about that! Kahit mga 9/10 years old lang ako that time I fully recall na pinalalabas sya na masama ng mom nya. She even helped Lola R to have baking business pero butas kamay. Basta yung mom nya laging pera problema.
Delete11:34 ganun naman sila even red stenberg ( di ko alam spelling hehe) and bobby andrews during tgis. C red kunwari 16 bat nasa 20’s na. Ang showbiz age sila. C charlie dizon kong di pa kinasal di pa malalaman nasa 30’s na din
DeleteAyan na NAGLALABASAN NA SILA 🙏
ReplyDeleteGO GO GO
Madami pa yan for sure, mga batch din ni Rita
DeleteSana marami pa lumabas na ganito
ReplyDeleteSa mga big stars! Don't be afraid
Nanay mo pa din yan! Honor your mother and father. 🙄 ano na mga pa religious? Asan na bible verse niyo?
ReplyDeleteMukhang ang hugot mo galing na naman kay golden boy at nanay nya. Iba iba ng sitwasyon. Isa pa kong di ka naniniwala sa 10 commandments di mo need questionion dahil madami pa ding naniniwala
DeleteMagtigil ka!
DeleteEven God will understand her & won't judge her.
DeleteKaya sino ka para pagsalitaan mo siya ng ganyan.
Hello! Kahit Nanay ko pa yan, how will I honor her?? Questionable ang pagiging mother nya!
DeletePakibasa ng bible. May katuloy yung honor your father and your mother
DeleteYung iba bang nagcomment dito eh hindi na gets ang sarcasm ni 12:15?
DeleteGiven na may rolling eyes emoji, didn't anyone detect yung sarcasm ni 12:15?
DeleteIt appears, may ilan dito, literal magbasa, seeing only what they want to see. As in, comment agad before comprehending. If you only took the time, 12:15 was actually being sarcastic.
DeleteFirst 2 sentences. Nagrolling eyes din ako. Then nong nabasa ka ung 3rd "asan na mga religious...dyan". Na gets ko na.
Deleteiba hugot mo ah...
DeleteGoodbye comprehension sa ibang commenters dito! Nakakaloka!
DeleteJusko naman kayo 12:34 12:44 12:57 1:06 3:13! Binasa niyo ba mabuti yung comment?! Galit na galit kayo eh sarcastic yung pagkakasabi! The commenter was mocking those people na laging pinapamuka na kesyo nanay mo yan o naglalapag ng 5th commandment at bible verses!
DeleteYou can honor your parents from afar.
DeleteGrabe yung mother nya binubugaloo yung anak. How dare you, mother?
ReplyDeletelegit yan, yung mga baguhang vivamax stars, kwento nila kasama pa yung nanay nila sa pagpirma ng kontrata
DeleteHanga ako sa mga taong hindi natatakot mag kwento ng bad experiences nila. Bravo.
ReplyDeleteOmg the mother?! It's not unusual pero still when you hear about it, it's always jarring.
ReplyDeleteNaalala ko ang mga sikat na magagandang artista na nachismis na binugaw ng mga nanay nila.
ReplyDeleteTelling about it is one way of healing. May she heals from it and finally have peace in her heart. God never sleeps.
ReplyDeleteDi ko na tinapos. Ang haba. Anyway, matagal na yang nangyayari sa showbiz. Sana matigil na. It’s good that people are speaking up.
ReplyDeleteAng gulo nya magsalita. Sanaa simplehan na lang at huwag magpaka makata
ReplyDeleteMalaking check kay Ms. Rita Avila. Hindi naman lahat magkakaroon ng lakas ng loob na magsumbong ng nangyari sa kanila kaya hindi din dapat sila ipahiya. Kanya-kanyang reaction at experience yan. Pero hindi din dapat i-generalize ang buong industriya dahil sa mga ilang bulok na kamatis.
ReplyDeletemiss rita, so sorry na nanay mo pa mismo ang involved. i hope you are healing, or have already healed.
ReplyDeleteSimilar yung experience nya sa movie ni Aiko na Pretty Baby. Nasa YouTube siya.
ReplyDeleteRita Avila, ang Elizabeth Shue ng Pinas
ReplyDeleteWhy I feel like something is wrong with her? The way she speaks it’s like she’s not completely there… like the lights are on but no one’s home kinda feels
ReplyDeleteAbuse and betrayal can do that to you. She is living with trauma and PTSD. Being betrayed by a parent is the hardest to get over
Deleteshe makes sense naman for me, deep nga understanding and empathy niya for those who experienced the same trauma eh
Delete11:01 AM - it's called projection. she has her issues but it appears you have equally weighty issues to hastily conclude "there's something wrong with her". your projecting your own issues on her.
DeleteNakakalungkot man ang nangyari kanila Sandro at Gerald pero buti na lang at lumantad sila. Dahil sa kanila, marami na rin ang nagbabahagi ng kanilang naranasan. Sana maging aral ito sa industriya. Respetuhin ang mga artista. Hindi sila kalakal. Huwag manahimik. Manindigan laban sa mga pangaabuso!
ReplyDeleteMerong issue a ganyan dati na nagreklamo si Ms Rita Pero naging tahimik din . Maraming predators s showbiz
ReplyDeleteDapat may gumawa ng documentary about this!
ReplyDeleteIspluk mo na Mama Rita at i-Me Too movement na yang mga abusers and predators sa showbiz. It's about time managot sila sa mga ginaqa nilang kahalayan sa mga aspiring actors.
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