Thursday, August 8, 2024

Insta Scoop: Dennis Padilla on What Parents Need


Images courtesy Instagram: dennisastig

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    1. Male version of Angelica Yupo. Lol

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    2. Parang halos ng lahat ng comments dito ay patama at insulto kay DENNIS.

      Tanong ko lang: Nasa BIBLE ba na dapat ignorin, tikisin, at bastusin ng mga anak ang kanilang magulang para break-even at naka-GANTI na sila? Saang banda ng Bible nyo ba nabasa ‘to (chapter & verse)? Sa palagay nyo, alin ang mas katanggap-tanggap kay Lord?πŸ™„πŸ™„.

      Pakisagot lang pls…..

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    3. Di ba bawal din mag Akusa base lang s post ng isang tao ? Kasi di mo naman Kilala ang pamilya nila ? alam mo ba Kong yon nga ang gusto ng mga anak nya ? To make even ? Basusin sya at di respetohin?

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    4. Nasa bible ba na dapat pabayaan ang mga anak at idisrespect ang nanay nila?

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    5. 4:19 walang exactly na ganyan, pero eto siguro pwede:

      Colossians 3:21
      “Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged”

      As per Collin's dictionary: If someone is embittered, they feel angry and unhappy because of harsh, unpleasant, and unfair things that have happened to them. He had turned into an embittered, hardened adult.




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    6. Ephesians 6:4 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord

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    7. 4:19 diba nasa bible din don't provoke your children?

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    8. 419 hoy day hindi lahat ng tao may paki sa Bible. Marami sa inyong may hawak na Bibliya palagi ang MAS makasalanan

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    9. 4:19 kelan siya binastos ng mga anak niya?

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    10. 4:19 yung safe, responsible, loving and protective na tatay po ang katanggap tanggap hindi yung nagkukuawari na mahal ang mga anak pero hinahayaang mabash at nilalike pa niya mga masasamang comment sa mga ank niya. Kadiring tatay yan

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    11. 4:19
      “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.”
      - Ephesians 6:4

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    12. 4:19
      Wala sa bible yun pero nakasulat sa bible na - “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.” - Ephesians 6:4

      Ilang beses na ba yan silang nagkaayos tapos nagka-fall out ulit? Maraming beses na simula pa nung pagkabata nila Julia. Makikita mo naman na may relationship sila sa isa’t isa dati db through pictures and stories. Kaya lang anong nangyayari? Every time na okay sila laging nakakarinig yung mga bata ng masasakit na salita kay Dennis. Nasa interview yan ni Julia kay Karen Davila. Kahit nga siya kinukwestyon niya kung makasalanan ba siyang anak. Kaso fair ba sa anak na laging ikaw nalang yung iintindi? Fair ba na ikaw nalang yung laging magpapatawad? Fair ba na i-take mo nalang lahat ng masasakit na words coming from your father? For me, hindi, kasi it is written naman in the bible na fathers shouldn’t provoke their children. If the father is walking righteously with the commands of the Lord, then for me applicable na wag tiisin ang magulang. Pero if worldly and fleshly naman si father, then ayos lang na mag-set ng boundaries.

      Ngayon na napagod na yung mga bata sa forgive and forget na cycle natuto naman sila ng forgive pero keep boundaries na set up. Ito yung hindi okay kay Dennis. Kaya nga nung pinadalhan siya ng foods and all nung mga bata, hindi niya nagustuhan db? Kasi bakit dahil daw walang card? Hindi siya marunong magbigay ng space and time sa mga bata. Gusto niya yung relationship nila is mag re-revolve in his own terms kesehodang hindi pa nag he-heal yung mga bata sa previous pain na na cause niya. Kasalanan ba yun? For me, no. The kids just wanted to keep their peace and they have right to do so.

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    13. 4:19 hindi binastos ni carlos or ng anak ni dennis ang magulang nila. Iniiwasan nila dahil toxic. Ikaw kung gusto mo sundin ang bible wag mo ipilit sa iba, lalo hindi lahat kristyano

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    14. 4:19, Wag mo gamitin ang bible para mang gaslight.

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  2. Isa pa ito! Like Carlos' mom, bat kasi kailangan ipahiya ang anak sa social media???

    Tapos magtataka kayo kung bakit nag-no contact mga anak nyo sainyo. 🀦‍♂️

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  3. Every month talaga may parinig si Dennis astig

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    1. pag may movie si julia matic na yan kay dennis di nya alam nakakasira sya imbes nakakatulog, dahil dyan nagkakaproject sindennis

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  4. Tumama ka rin sa wakas....

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  5. Noted po. Paano naman pangangailangan ng anak sa parents po?

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  6. Sure if you treated your children good.

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  7. Ilan ang anak nya yet walang malapit sakanya. Says a lot about him as a father. So bakit sya nagpaparinig ng ganyan

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  8. and children don’t need abuse in any form yet here we are

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  9. Totoo. Kaya ung mga walanghiya sa magulang nung buhay pa sila tapos iiyak iyak sa kabaong, pwede pakingudngod ang mukha nila sa kabaong. Ang plastik!!! Makakabawi na lang sa kanila pag naging magulang na din sila

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    1. Same thing goes to the walanghiya na magulang sa anak.

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    2. marami din ang walang paki at di umiiyak dahil abusado ang magulang

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  10. Uso na ang mga ingrato at ingratang anak ngayon. Makarma Sana!

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    1. WOW!

      UNANG NAKARMA ANG TATAY NA "IRESPONSABLE"

      NGAYON NANGHIHINGI NG ATTENTION

      AT IKAW ANO KAMO "INGGRATA"????

      HINDI MO BA NASUNDAN ISTORYA NG FAMILY NILA

      BASA BASA PAG ME TIME
      πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€‘

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    2. Walang ingrato/ingratang anak kung maayos kang magulang period.

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    3. ok naman pala tong si ateng all caps ha. char!

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    4. 12:17 AM

      SORRY MALABO ANG MATA MADALI MABASA KAPAG BIG LETTERS

      SENSYA DARLING😊

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    5. 11:29 tandaan momshie… our kids don’t owe us anything, they didn’t ask to be born, meanwhile us parents, we have a responsibility to our children. Now, if our kids reciprocate our sacrifices, it is because we raised them well. If ungrateful sila… you must have done something…now, if you think you still did a good job and they’re just merely ungrateful, wala pa rin tayong karapatan husgahan sila…bilang magulang we did our part but rest assured if you treat them well, your sacrifices and love will be rewarded a hundred fold.

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  11. Dami mong anak iba iba nanay may sustento kaya lahat Yun? Sa hirap ng Buhay ambag mo puro parinig.. kung I gcash mupa yan baka maniwala Pako sa drama mo.

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  12. May point naman siya. Love your parents. Respect them

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    1. Respect has to be earn, mentally and emotionally tortured na mga anak ni Dennis because of HIM, Pinoy thinking always respect your parents BS kahit hindi naman kasalanan ng mga anak.

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    2. abusive na parent, I-respect pa din? It just so happens his children know how to put boundaries.

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    3. yeah. point..less

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    4. love your parents kahit abusado? wag na, ‘toy! di kami nasisiraan ng bait…ikaw na lang kung gusto mo

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  13. But were you a good and loving parent to ALL your children is the real question?

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  14. It’s a 2-way relationship, dahil kung hindi, mapapagod at mapapagod yung isa. Kagaya nang nangyari sayo.

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  15. Naging mabuti ka bang ama?

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  16. Malalaki na mga anak mo. Alam na nila ngayon kung good father ka ba sa kanila noon or not.

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  17. Kusang binibigay ang love, hindi yan dinedemand.

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  18. Gotta wonder why his children don't want anything to do with him.

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  19. D din kelangan ng anak mo ng tatay na katulad mo. Bago ka mag demand sa mga anak mo isipin mo muna kung deserve mo yun. Tatay ka nga pero nagpaka tatay ka ba???

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  20. Ang matakot ka Dennis pag wala umiyak sa anak mo.

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  21. ayan na naman,pa o naman ang needs ng mga anak mo?

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  22. Fixed it for you Dennis!

    Children don’t need your tears when they die. They need your hugs, laughter, love and care while still alive. Life is short!

    What are you even implying? Sobrang selfish. Think about your children.

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  23. Gentong gento yung post ng Tatay ko lately. For context— iniwanan nya kami, went to have a dozen other children with different women. Hindi kami naalala ever since, walang pagbati pag pasko or bday. Ngayon, nag iisa na sya, wala ni isa sa mga anak sa labas nya ang mag tyaga sa kanya. Kami ang pinepeste nya for money. Tapos panay guilt trip sa amin with these kinds of post. Pweee.

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  24. That moght be true - but only to parents. If all you contributed was an egg or sperm and was never a parent to your child, then you do not deserve to claim that from the child. Its a 2way street

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  25. As a parent, yes, we need those from our kids habang buhay pa tayo. Pero imo lang naman, di ba dapat tayo ang maunang magparamdam at magbigay sa kanila nyan?

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  26. Same thing can be said about you. Lol

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  27. Palaging respect your parents, pero yung anak hindi ,mabigyan ng respeto. Respect begets respect, hindi porket matanda yun lang ang nakareceive ng respeto, dapt lahat even anak

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  28. Sigurado kabang iiyak sila? I personally know someone na hindi umiyak nung manatay Dad niya.

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  29. Children also need their parents to respect them and think of their feelings before theyvdie

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  30. What about their needs when they were young pa???

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  31. This is called manipulation.

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  32. Oi Dennis ipadala mo yan ke Kuya Jay Sonza mo. Di ba siya kinampihan mo kesa sa anak mo?

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    1. Naalala ko to, binastos na yung anak niya, Wala siyang paki kase kaibigan niya daw si Sonza until then dina ko naawa dian. Buti nga minemessage pa ni Julia yan mabait parin mga anak niya kung tutuusin, iniwiwasan lang siya at never nilang siniraan publicly.

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  33. Kawawa mga anak sa Pinas. Pwedeng iwan at balikan kung kelan gusto ng magulang. Pag galit ang anak, ikaw pa masama. Walang utang na loob. Saan ba nabibili yung ticket para ma stop na pag manufacture. Kakagigil

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    1. This is so true. Kung kelan feel ng tatay magpakatatay yun pwede pero pag anak na yung nagtampo, ungrateful na at masamang tao at wala raw mararating sa buhay. Masakit pa is makakarma daw mga anak.hay buhay

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  34. Itong mga magulang na to, masyadong mataas tingin nila sa sarili nila to the point na kahit hindi sila naging mabuting magulang, kung maka-demand ng respect sa anak nila ganun ganun na lang. Kung nirespeto niyo mga anak niyo in the first place, kusang ibibigay yan sa inyo! Bago mo i-guilt trip ang mga anak mo, tanungin mo muna yang sarili mo- did you hug, laugh, love, and care for them ngayong matanda na sila? Kasi kung ginawa mo yan, kapag tumanda ka ibabalik nilang lahat sayo yan. Doble pa!

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