Yan ang hindi ko gusto, setting aside her career sa golf and painting dahil sa lalaki or sa marriage. Pwede namang isabay diba and sana may full support si hubby. Kaso nauwi sa wala ang lahat…
2:04 at 1:16, sino ba nagsabi sa inyo na sinet aside nya ang golfing and painting career nya?! Sa golfing, sya mismo umayaw. In her own words, she got sick of it. Sa painting naman, nakailang exhibit din sya. She just chose to prioritize being a wife and a mother. At walang masama doon.
5:01 pinahaba mo pa. Ganun din yun. She set aside her career by CHOOSING to be a wife and mother. Ayan ah. Ginamit ko na un words na ginamit mo. Ergo, hindi niya pinili ang career. Susme pinaikot ikot mo pa eh yun din tutumbukin eh
Dapat requirement ang live in arrangement before ikasal, at least 1 year. Even yung may katabi matulog (minsan grabe magsnore ang isa) is a big adjustment.
Pero in their case, mukhang living together naman works for them. It is living apart or living abroad that doesn't work for them.
Sayang, mejo na enjoy ko vlogs nila. Ang close nia kay Vico.
Truedat. Ako since hs ko pa kilala asawa ko pero nung nagpakasal at nagsama na sa house ayun ibang tao pala. Tamad magalaga ng bata di marunong ng house chores at asa lahat sakin na parang ako nanay nya diosmio. Kaya warning sa mga girls piliin mabuti or better yet wag na pakasal sakit sa ulo puso at bulsa.
Sa mga babae wag kayo papayag na alilain kayo ng mga asawa niyo lalo na kung di naman kayo inalila ng mismong mga magulang niyo. Kumuha kayo katulong lima para at his beck and call
HS sweetheart ko din si hubby. Mama’s boy at nasanay ng may maid sa bahay. E ako sanay ng walang maid. So bago kami ikasal, sinabi ko sa kanya na dapat share kami sa house chores. Inamin niya na hindi niya kaya mag laba at plantsa. So ako na yun. Pero he cooks, wash the dishes, walis, mop.. kaya hindi makapaniwala mga in laws ko na nagawa yun ng anak nila.
I like this thread! Ako naman hati kami ni hubby sa lahat. Luto, linis, laba and ofc pati gastos 50/50. We are DINKs kasi. Pero if there will come a time na magka baby kami, obviously dapat siya mag shoulder ng gastos and I will stay at home and do more household chores.
both were young when they got married,the guy works in their family business yata sa pinas then nung magkaanak ooted to work abroad,to think rich kid din ito,
di kaya ang long distance relationship,she’s staying in manila,the guy lives abroad na,i think they stayed there sandali lng,hirap din na sya lang mag alaga sa baby coz she herself is still a baby rin.
Mahirap talaga mag alaga ng bata pero kung ang parte ng buhay mo kakayanin mo. Mga tao sa abroad na walang kamag anakan naaalagaan ang anak. Yun iba may mga trabaho pa. Pati single parent nakakaya.
Unfortunately, she ended living a solo life just like her mom. She's still young and I hope she could find (not too soon) a partner that will stay forever with her and her little fam.
Ayan pweba na DIVORCE should be legal . Its not saying na maghihiwalay when one gets married but honestly it is for the woman/mom and the child/children . Dami guys palit-palit kasi walang accountability.
You're wrong. 'di naman na ganun kabata nung nagpakasal. 24 or 25, I guess. Then ilang years din ang lumipas, a year or 2, baka nga 3 years pa bago sila nagkaroon ng baby.
The hubby is based abroad. I remember before she said her and Sachi will follow. I think she can't give up the easy life she have in the Philippines. LDR won't work specially ang babata pa nila. Dapat kung nasaan asawa mo nandoon ka lalo kung kaya naman niyang sumunod. Ibang case din ang OFW na hinde pwede isama ang family.
This is so sad. I follow her and I remember being pleasantly surprised that she left her comfortable life in the Philippines to move to Canada with her family. But when they decided to move back to Manila, I also remember thinking it was such a big act of love for her husband to move back to the Philippines. I thought they had that level of understanding and support for each other. Social media can be so deceiving.
They stayed there for a short period of time. Hindi kinaya ang walang maid. She can't live without her mother. Mag end up talaga sa hiwalayan. Travel travel lang ang gusto.
yes. ung mga pla post ng perfect fam photo. minsan un pa madami gustong patunayan. prng ung kilala ko ilng yrs kasal eme... pero alam mo nman chickboy asawa... fordalikes
May kilala akong artista na ang image happily married, with great kids so akala mo happy home sila pero hiwalay na talaga sila at masama ugali nung wife and kids nya.
Yung mga matatandang nagsasabing “ Kasal kayo bilang asawa pagdilbihan mo at patawarin sya s mga pagkukulang nya.” Napakatoxic ng ganun dahil s kasal eh magtitiis nlang yung Babae (this also applies sa makalait v May asawang babae). Please better na magsama muna minus kasal kasi when it’s time na hindi pla swak eh walang kumplikado.
9:18 ang lungkot naman nun. Hindi maiwan ang nakasanayan therefore walang overall growth. I think one of the reason na nasa abroad ako maliban sa financial aspect is growth talaga. Life will teach you a lot of lessons when you are out of your comfort zone.
Yung ex hubby nya lola nya si gloria arroyo. I remember sinasabi sya na pumasok s politics. Nasa podcast nila un. D naman based abroad ung guy. Dito yan s pinas tapos ngdecide mgabroad para sumunod silang magina tapos dko lang sure kung nasunod b silang mgina or visit visit lang. Tapos after a few years bumalik din sila ng pinas. Parang easy go lucky naman ung guy tingin ko lang
HALF Fake news! Sa first family kasi sila. Sya pinakaunang apo sa tuhod ni Pres Macapagal. Yung Great grandmother nya ang unang asawa ni Pres Macapagal. Second wife yung mom ni PGMA.
I was married in 2015. Marami rin akong nakilala na bride to be nung time na yun dahil sa mga forums and fb groups. Sadly, marami na rin sa kanila ang naghiwalay. Nakakalungkot sobra. Pero what can they do? Kesa naman ipilit.
I met the guy through work. He was still with a local company. Medyo mayabang siya magsalita. Instead of talking about the company and the programs, mas nagfocus syang isingit credentials nya and what he has done. I don’t think appropriate na magparinig ka sa competitors nyo sa isang formal forum with educated audience. Akala mo sino syang magsalita e baguhan pa lang siya nun. Even yung bosses nya, hindi ganun magsalita and very approachable.
Buti marami syang support system kaya madali ang desisyon. Ive been married for 14 years. If I can go back in time and give myself one advice, don't get married talaga ang advice na ibibigay ko sa sarili ko. Married pa rin ako but I had enough.
Haaay. 2 na lang kami single ng barkada namin pero mga iba asawa ng friends ko , nag iba na sila ngayon some of my friends choose to stay dahil sa mga bata , alam mo yun may allowance parin friend ko binibigyan parin siya kahit alam niya may iba kinita asawa niya pero sa kanila pa naman umuuwi . Hinahayaan na lang niya. Kasi siya Pa naman ang legal wife . She’s tired of crying pagod na pagod and siya din nag alaga sa mga anak Nila. Kaya tuwing nag uusap kami lagi sinasabi sa akin “sarap ng buhay mo, wag Kana mag asawa, wag mo ako gayahin, pag ito nangyari sayı hinde mo makakaya, mag travel ka na lang “ ganun sinasabi . Tumatahiik na lang ako. Kasi alam ko Mahirap pinag dadaanan niya kysa sa pinag dadanan ko kasi ako I feel alone and sad pag mag isa ako.
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WHAT?! Ano nangyare sa kanila ng hubby niya?
ReplyDeleteMalamang sa alamang hahah! Whats new diba
DeleteKala ko sobrang inlababo si girl kay boy. Setting aside her golf and painting career forda boy na ngayon ay babayu na
DeletePwede naman kasing hindi magpakasal. Pwede namang magsama muna. Tsk.
DeleteBaka the usual na sumakabilang bahay?
DeleteWhattttt? Parang kelan lang ito kinasal di ba???
Delete4-5 yrs na silang kasal
Deleteganyan talaga pag mayaman.. kebs sa hiwalayan
DeleteYan ang hindi ko gusto, setting aside her career sa golf and painting dahil sa lalaki or sa marriage. Pwede namang isabay diba and sana may full support si hubby. Kaso nauwi sa wala ang lahat…
Delete2:04 at 1:16, sino ba nagsabi sa inyo na sinet aside nya ang golfing and painting career nya?! Sa golfing, sya mismo umayaw. In her own words, she got sick of it. Sa painting naman, nakailang exhibit din sya. She just chose to prioritize being a wife and a mother. At walang masama doon.
DeleteMinsan pag nagpakasal diyan pa najijinx. Mas nappresure sa obligation ng married life. Brangelina for instance
DeleteNung bata yan nananalo pa siya sa golf tournaments. Nung nag asawa wala ka ng madinig sa golf niya
Delete5:01 pinahaba mo pa. Ganun din yun. She set aside her career by CHOOSING to be a wife and mother. Ayan ah. Ginamit ko na un words na ginamit mo. Ergo, hindi niya pinili ang career. Susme pinaikot ikot mo pa eh yun din tutumbukin eh
DeleteDapat requirement ang live in arrangement before ikasal, at least 1 year. Even yung may katabi matulog (minsan grabe magsnore ang isa) is a big adjustment.
DeletePero in their case, mukhang living together naman works for them. It is living apart or living abroad that doesn't work for them.
Sayang, mejo na enjoy ko vlogs nila. Ang close nia kay Vico.
hala, ang bata pa nila nung kinasal sila ng jowa niya pero kasi matagal na silang mag jowa, tapos ilang years lang pala tatagal ang kasal nila
ReplyDeleteIba na kasi ang relationship dynamics pag kasama mo na sa bahay. Dun lalabas ang tunay na ugali.
DeleteParang ten years un naging relasyon nila
DeleteTruedat. Ako since hs ko pa kilala asawa ko pero nung nagpakasal at nagsama na sa house ayun ibang tao pala. Tamad magalaga ng bata di marunong ng house chores at asa lahat sakin na parang ako nanay nya diosmio. Kaya warning sa mga girls piliin mabuti or better yet wag na pakasal sakit sa ulo puso at bulsa.
Deletetraditional husband and tawag dun e.30am
Delete3:30 kainis di ba? I have a brother like that, ako ang naawa sa asawa.
DeleteSo true! Pumili ng lalake na marunong din sa bahay. Tingnan kung paano rin siya sa loob ng bahay habang bf-gf, iba nga talaga.
DeleteThanks for the advice mga ses
Delete1146 traditional husband pala un alilain yun asawa. Dapat maid kinuha niya di asawa. Ahhh may bayad pala kasi ang maid
DeleteSa mga babae wag kayo papayag na alilain kayo ng mga asawa niyo lalo na kung di naman kayo inalila ng mismong mga magulang niyo. Kumuha kayo katulong lima para at his beck and call
DeleteHS sweetheart ko din si hubby. Mama’s boy at nasanay ng may maid sa bahay. E ako sanay ng walang maid. So bago kami ikasal, sinabi ko sa kanya na dapat share kami sa house chores. Inamin niya na hindi niya kaya mag laba at plantsa. So ako na yun. Pero he cooks, wash the dishes, walis, mop.. kaya hindi makapaniwala mga in laws ko na nagawa yun ng anak nila.
DeleteI like this thread! Ako naman hati kami ni hubby sa lahat. Luto, linis, laba and ofc pati gastos 50/50. We are DINKs kasi. Pero if there will come a time na magka baby kami, obviously dapat siya mag shoulder ng gastos and I will stay at home and do more household chores.
DeleteHala sorry, sa amin kasi parang mas naalila ko si hubby. Hehe mas magaling siya sa house chores kesa sa akin.
DeleteMukhang totoy naman kasi
ReplyDeleteboth were young when they got married,the guy works in their family business yata sa pinas then nung magkaanak ooted to work abroad,to think rich kid din ito,
DeleteAh talaga umalis pala un lalake. Well that's a real Maritess is all about
DeleteGet married not got married
DeleteSinasabi mo @3:55? Not 12:20. Cocorrect ka na lang, sablay pa. 🙄
Delete3:55 di po to English class at di ka din English teacher. Btw, tama po si 12:20 sa got married.
DeleteGot married is correct.
Delete"When they got married." Taas lagnat ni 3:55.
Di alam ni 3:55 ang present tense and past tense. Pathetic
DeleteAng tagal mag jowa, kinasal tapos di man lang umabot ng kalahati nakakaloka, mas ok di talaga magpa kasal
ReplyDeleteThe marriage is not the jinx. They simply did not work out.
Delete12:36 Opinion lang naman ni 11:50 yung "Mas ok na di magpakasal." Wala naman siya sinabi na marriage is a jinx.
Deletekc nagka anak nagiiba ang takbo ng relasyon kapag may bata
DeleteAw how sad. Kahit madami kang pera hindi mo parin control ang buhay.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh!
ReplyDeleteKinda expected it
ReplyDeleteoh my. kakakasal lang a few yrs ago
ReplyDeleteWhat happened? Ang tagal nila mag-bf before kinasal tapos maghiwalay rin lang.
ReplyDeletedi kaya ang long distance relationship,she’s staying in manila,the guy lives abroad na,i think they stayed there sandali lng,hirap din na sya lang mag alaga sa baby coz she herself is still a baby rin.
ReplyDeleteMahirap talaga mag alaga ng bata pero kung ang parte ng buhay mo kakayanin mo. Mga tao sa abroad na walang kamag anakan naaalagaan ang anak. Yun iba may mga trabaho pa. Pati single parent nakakaya.
DeleteMalamang yan may third party
DeleteNalungkot naman ako dito.
ReplyDeleteKanino mother siya?
ReplyDeleteAngela Luz
DeleteUnfortunately, she ended living a solo life just like her mom. She's still young and I hope she could find (not too soon) a partner that will stay forever with her and her little fam.
ReplyDeleteAs if you cant be happy kapag single 🤷🏻♀️
DeleteHindi rin naman guaranteed ang happiness kung makakita man sya ng partner. Let's just hope she'll be happy, period.
DeleteAng shallow and dependent person mo nman gurl. Hndi po nasusukat ang pagiging happy ang pagkakaroon ng complete family. Sapat n kayo lng ng anak mo.
DeleteAng lungkot naman. Sana maayos pa.
ReplyDeleteSa mga anak naniningil ang tadhana sa mga naging kasalanan ng ama
ReplyDeleteHindi din.
DeleteMay attitude talaga yan si girl. Bossy kay Jed.
Heheh talagang naisip mo pa un
DeleteA true blue Maritess never forget
Deletewalang sense ang sinabi mo
DeleteNaku ayan na naman tayo sa panghuhusga.
DeleteIsiningit mo p talga yan. Tsk!!
Delete1:52 pareho sila ng nanay nya me attitude
Delete12:52 parang totoo yan. Sadly.
Delete@12:52 hindi totoo yan. may kanya kanya tayong buhay at kapalaran.
DeleteAyan pweba na DIVORCE should be legal . Its not saying na maghihiwalay when one gets married but honestly it is for the woman/mom and the child/children . Dami guys palit-palit kasi walang accountability.
ReplyDeleteParang mas matanda pa sya sa mother nyang si Pauline
ReplyDeleteSeriously??? 😂😁
DeleteBaks hindi naman niya mother si Paulene.
DeleteBaks yes, step mom niya si pauleen
DeletePuro kayo mali! Pauleen kase! Pero di niya nanay si Pauleen. Haha ilan years lang gap nila
DeleteAnak siya ni Angela Luz. Babagsak ka sa Marites Academy hehe.
DeleteTechnically kasi stepmom niya naman talaga. Tatay niya si Vic. Asawa ni Vic si Pauleen. So...
DeleteAng bata pa kasi nila ikasal. Tapos nagkaanak agad. Mahirap talaga yun.
ReplyDeleteYou're wrong. 'di naman na ganun kabata nung nagpakasal. 24 or 25, I guess. Then ilang years din ang lumipas, a year or 2, baka nga 3 years pa bago sila nagkaroon ng baby.
Delete12:52 minsan ganon pero Di lahat..wla atang pera si guy
ReplyDelete2:35am hindi totoo. First great grandson sya ni Pres Macapagal. Hindi nya Lola si GMA. Yung Great Grandma nya yung first wife.
DeleteNa overlook natin siya mga ka marites kay pingris tayo nag concentrate 😂🙈
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteNaisip ko rin haha
Deletekaloka ka mars, haha
DeleteDiversion tactic, si brother in law ang alay. Haha.
DeleteThe hubby is based abroad. I remember before she said her and Sachi will follow. I think she can't give up the easy life she have in the Philippines. LDR won't work specially ang babata pa nila. Dapat kung nasaan asawa mo nandoon ka lalo kung kaya naman niyang sumunod. Ibang case din ang OFW na hinde pwede isama ang family.
ReplyDelete* she (subject pronoun)
DeleteThis is so sad. I follow her and I remember being pleasantly surprised that she left her comfortable life in the Philippines to move to Canada with her family. But when they decided to move back to Manila, I also remember thinking it was such a big act of love for her husband to move back to the Philippines. I thought they had that level of understanding and support for each other. Social media can be so deceiving.
ReplyDeleteThey stayed there for a short period of time. Hindi kinaya ang walang maid. She can't live without her mother. Mag end up talaga sa hiwalayan. Travel travel lang ang gusto.
Deleteyes. ung mga pla post ng perfect fam photo. minsan un pa madami gustong patunayan. prng ung kilala ko ilng yrs kasal eme... pero alam mo nman chickboy asawa... fordalikes
DeleteMay kilala akong artista na ang image happily married, with great kids so akala mo happy home sila pero hiwalay na talaga sila at masama ugali nung wife and kids nya.
Delete10:04 hindi naman sinabi na may 3rd party, kaloka ka
Delete6:21 i-spluk mo na kay FP dali!
DeleteYung mga matatandang nagsasabing “ Kasal kayo bilang asawa pagdilbihan mo at patawarin sya s mga pagkukulang nya.” Napakatoxic ng ganun dahil s kasal eh magtitiis nlang yung Babae (this also applies sa makalait v May asawang babae). Please better na magsama muna minus kasal kasi when it’s time na hindi pla swak eh walang kumplikado.
Delete10:04 judgmental much sa mga happy family ang post sa socmed. Yung iba totoo naman talagang happy.
Delete9:18 ang lungkot naman nun. Hindi maiwan ang nakasanayan therefore walang overall growth. I think one of the reason na nasa abroad ako maliban sa financial aspect is growth talaga. Life will teach you a lot of lessons when you are out of your comfort zone.
Delete11:18 kung totoo na masaya na sila sa life nila hindi nila popost yun. Looking for validation ang mga ganun or for deception
Delete8:55am this is 100% true!!
DeleteRoad to annulment
ReplyDeleteNaku mga maritess. meron pang john at priscilla, tsaka maris at rico, tapos heto na naman si paulina. sana hindi ma stress ang mga maritess.
ReplyDeleteSuper busy na ang mga Marites... 🤣
DeleteWe have a conservative culture pero pabor talaga ako sa live in muna bago kasal. Somehow mas makikilala mo yung tao pag nakadama mo sa iisang bubong.
ReplyDeleteStill not a guarantee. Remember Tom and Carla?
DeleteTrue. Sakit sa bangs ang annulment
DeleteAko din. Para walang pino problemang annulment na magastos incase maghiwalay
DeleteNot a guarantee pero kahit papano makikilala mo ying papakasalan mo.
DeleteYung ex hubby nya lola nya si gloria arroyo. I remember sinasabi sya na pumasok s politics. Nasa podcast nila un. D naman based abroad ung guy. Dito yan s pinas tapos ngdecide mgabroad para sumunod silang magina tapos dko lang sure kung nasunod b silang mgina or visit visit lang. Tapos after a few years bumalik din sila ng pinas. Parang easy go lucky naman ung guy tingin ko lang
ReplyDeleteHindi naman yata magsettle yang c Paulina sa ibang bansa kasi walang katulong. 😂 Ang ganda ng buhay nya Pinas.
DeleteHALF Fake news! Sa first family kasi sila. Sya pinakaunang apo sa tuhod ni Pres Macapagal. Yung Great grandmother nya ang unang asawa ni Pres Macapagal. Second wife yung mom ni PGMA.
Delete233 so lola p rin nya? Tama naman sinabi ni 246.. dinetalye mo lang. lola gloria nga tawag ni jed kay PGMA.. sus
DeleteSee ladies di naman lagi end game ang kasal. Sa panahon pa naman ngayon.
ReplyDeleteI was married in 2015. Marami rin akong nakilala na bride to be nung time na yun dahil sa mga forums and fb groups. Sadly, marami na rin sa kanila ang naghiwalay. Nakakalungkot sobra. Pero what can they do? Kesa naman ipilit.
ReplyDeleteI met the guy through work. He was still with a local company. Medyo mayabang siya magsalita. Instead of talking about the company and the programs, mas nagfocus syang isingit credentials nya and what he has done. I don’t think appropriate na magparinig ka sa competitors nyo sa isang formal forum with educated audience. Akala mo sino syang magsalita e baguhan pa lang siya nun. Even yung bosses nya, hindi ganun magsalita and very approachable.
ReplyDeleteSabi na nga ba e. Something is off dun sa guy. Parang bonjing pero mayabang.
DeleteKasi nga, baguhan at mas bata pa noon. Don’t hold him to that youthful mistake. Baka nagbago na rin naman as he matures.
Delete7:47 Unfortunately, ganun pa rin siya kagaya ng sinabi nung nagcomment. Nameet ko rin siya sa isang convention.
DeleteSad 😔
ReplyDeleteAs the saying goes... The Apple Never Falls Far From The Tree :D :D :D
ReplyDeleteButi marami syang support system kaya madali ang desisyon. Ive been married for 14 years. If I can go back in time and give myself one advice, don't get married talaga ang advice na ibibigay ko sa sarili ko. Married pa rin ako but I had enough.
ReplyDeleteHaaay. 2 na lang kami single ng barkada namin pero mga iba asawa ng friends ko , nag iba na sila ngayon some of my friends choose to stay dahil sa mga bata , alam mo yun may allowance parin friend ko binibigyan parin siya kahit alam niya may iba kinita asawa niya pero sa kanila pa naman umuuwi . Hinahayaan na lang niya. Kasi siya Pa naman ang legal wife . She’s tired of crying pagod na pagod and siya din nag alaga sa mga anak Nila. Kaya tuwing nag uusap kami lagi sinasabi sa akin “sarap ng buhay mo, wag Kana mag asawa, wag mo ako gayahin, pag ito nangyari sayı hinde mo makakaya, mag travel ka na lang “ ganun sinasabi . Tumatahiik na lang ako. Kasi alam ko Mahirap pinag dadaanan niya kysa sa pinag dadanan ko kasi ako I feel alone and sad pag mag isa ako.
ReplyDeleteI bought some of her paintings
ReplyDeleteButi pa si oyo at danica.
ReplyDeleteEh si danica din naman nagka issue kay pingris.
DeleteMartyr lang si Ate mo gurl! Heto hindi takot majugde
Deletesa mga Nega comments , naka the mother nya will bash you back, ingay din yon eh
ReplyDeletehaaay….secured ka pag you make your own money and stay single. good luck to paulina and sachi.
ReplyDeleteYou dating for a decade doesn't mean you're the end game. Okay lang yan
ReplyDeleteYou tried and lost. Begin again.