This isn't the first time that she did it to a wait staff for misgenndering her. Nagkataon lang talaga this time na may nakawitness at nagstand up para sa server na yun.
The sad part is, yung mga nakakaya lang nya ang ginagawan nya ng ganito. If, let's ssy, professors, or CEOs did this to him, I don't think he would go berserk.
Wala pa ngang SOGIE bill kala mo na kung sino. SOGIE bill will only give them more entitlement, much more than what they do, act and have at the moment. They want to be cut above the rest. Pare pareho lang namang tao ang lalake, babae at bakla, tomboy etc. bakit magiging special ang isang grupo? It ain't fair pag ganon at may human rights and constitutional rights na ano pa bang rights ang dapat idagdag na certain group lang ang magbebenipisyo
iritang irita ako sa mga feeling entitled na mga members ng LGBTQ... i mean buti nga tinatanggap na ang mga kagaya nyo sa society natin..noong araw talagang taboo kayo. kaso dahil dyan may mga umaabuso naman. don't get me wrong. marami akong kaibigang beki at mababait sila. kaya lang yung mga kagaya nitong si Bacalso na masyadong feeling entitled, yan ang nakakasira sa grupo nila. "SIR" dalawa lang ang kasarian, either you are a he or a she. kahit nagpalit ka pa ng aparato, di pa rin magbabago na ipinanganak kang lalaki. ang OA mo. bakit ikamamatay mo bang matawag kang "Sir"? e kahit tapalan mo ng isang kilong make up yang pagmumukha mo at kahit mag suot ka pa ng gown, Di ka pa rin Mukhang "Mam". At ano ang kinalaman ng mga achievements mo sa ginawa mong pang mamaliit at pang aabuso sa isang waiter na naghahanap buhay lang naman ng matino? aber? dahil may konting na-achieve ka sa buhay pwede ka nang mang-maliit sa kapwa mo? kaya di ako agree sa Sogie bill e. enough na sa akin na kilalanin na may mga kapatid tayong iba ang sexual orientation. pero wag na sana mag demand ng kung ano-ano. dun lang tayo sa tama. kung ano ang binigay ng Panginoon sa atin, dun tayo. "HE" OR "SHE" that's it and that's all.
di na lang makuntento na tanggap na sila sa society natin. kailangan pang mag-demand na palitan ang Grammar rules na existing na since time immemorial. Oh Please, wag nyo ipilit...kami pa ba ang mag-a-adjust sa inyo? classic example na binigyan mo na nga ng food, gusto pa sakmalin pati kamay mo.
Sir, this will not happen naman if u didnt force people to believe na ur a she, genetics or biology will confirm na ur born na he, period. kahit magpasurgery ka or lumaklak ng female hormones sir ka pa rin.
Nakakatakot yang SOGIE bill kasi it will be a crime na kapag naoffend mo sila. They can abuse it and I'm sure they will. This incident proves it. Mas lalala ang victim mentality nila just to push their agenda. Pwede ka pa makulong and mag-fine ng up to 500,000 pesos.
Paano kaya kung kami na born female eh magreklamo din at ipagbabawal din namin sa mga trans na ipagamit ang salitang ma’am, she, her and the like? Paano pag sinabi namin na nakakaoffend para sa amin ang paggamit nila na yan. Kung gusto nila gumawa sila ng bagong word or term wag yung makikihati pa sa amin na tunay na babae.
to sir jude please just let the real woman use the word ma’am, parang unfair na rin kasi. bestfriend ako ni princess sarah as in ako c becky pero i know my limits kasi, for me ha 2 lang naman tlga gender either male or female. sa ayaw ko o gusto ko since wala nmn ako fallopian tubes or ovary or the ability to get pregnant sir pa rin ako.
I am nothing against this sogie bill however and I agree with 12:44, wala pa man feeling entitled and special na yong iba diyan. Just like the "black lives matter" rallying cry in the US, which resulted na pag ayaw pumasok sa trabaho or ayaw nila yong work shift nila walang magawa ang superiors nila kundi mag-adjust. Meaning feeling entitled, na sana wag mangyari sa supposed sogie bill natin.
kaya siguro natawag pa ding SIR saka no matter the plastic surgery or pills a "man" take, may mga chismis pa din na di kayang dayain when it comes to biology. MGA SIRS! LOL
@10:15pm di naman sa ganda is aka pa eh. Pero sa gaspang ng ugali nyang feeling entitled! TBH, ang dami sa lgbt ganyan maski sa ibang bansa, they entitled and astang elitist! Sad but true, have relatives in UK and US pansin nila yun, even though some of them parte din ng lgbt
True. It’s like I’m sorry I got caught. Kaya lalong nawawala respeto sa kanila kasi mali ung way nila ng pakikipaglaban. Marami na ring ganyang issue di lang sa pinas at lalo silang napapagtawanan dahil sa actions nila. Hindi nakakatulong sa pinaglalaban nila
True ka. It doesnt sound like an apology. More like justifying why and “ solution” na kaagad. Hot Jude, apologize TO THE WAITER. wag mo idaan sa flowery words mo. Kakahiya ka na feeling entitled . Sino ka?
12:18 hindi ako si OP. Pero explain ko lang na magkaiba kasi ang tinututuro sa English nung elementary tayo kumpara sa Gender Equality nung college. Huwag niyo naman awayin si OP. Porke't nirespeto niya ang PREFERRED pronouns ni Jude. Si Jude lang awayin niyo. Politically correct lang si commenter/OP.
Basta ako, I will use she/her kapag nakabistida at makeup kahit mukha pa rin lalaki. People pleaser kasi ako. Ewan ko ba.
Pero I empathize dun sa waiter. Dapat hindi siya pinatayo. Dapat WALANG parusa sa simpleng pagtawag ng "sir."
Yup kaya nga dapat He should have let the waiter go na lang di ba kasi lahat nagkakamali, kaso si angkol pinatayo ng 2hrs yung kawawang waiter nang dahil lang sa pronounce lakas mang power trip ni accla eh
Yes pero Hinde lahat ng nagkakamali dapat maging rude. Ang dami lumabas tuloy na comments na talagang rude Itong tao na to. Yan ang nakakainis sa mga woke na lgbtq. Gets naman namen and as Filipinos, very accepting tayo sa kanila. Pero stop shoving it down our throats na sir or maam ka or binary non binary they/them kayo. Makuntento sa acceptance at respect namen wag na kayong mapilit sa mga pinaglalaban nyo. Kami pang majority ang gusto nyo mag adjust for you ng todo todo and if makarinig ng slight push feeling nyo inaapi na kayo mashado.
It wasn't his first time. Andami na tuloy naglabasang posts sa kagasapang ng ugali niya so I did something as petty as his reaction - went to his tiktok account and commented "sir" in caps. Others already did. I saw comments like angkol, tatang, lolo. Not sorry. What he did was downright bullying. I felt like I just bullied the bully but HE deserved it. 😬
I have lots of gay friends, some trans but they're nice, kind, fun and professional.
Hurt people hurt people. Jude doesn't seem to be fully healed of the discrimination and hate she must have experienced that now she lashes out on people who made an honest mistake and have no intention of maligning her person. Mali siya dito.
Kung di pa sya kinuyog, di yan mag-aapologize! Boomerang tuloy sayo ginawa mo, pati LGBTQ+ members na call out ka. Kala nya siguro pagtatanggol sya nila. Meron pa pa ibang cases he did the same, kaya lumalabas baho nya. Aasta ng kung sino di naman pala kaya pag binalikan.
Pa-english english pa si manong para feeling better than others. Yung apology mo di parin apology and the one person you should apologize to di manlang present sa apology; mukhang he lost his job and it was because YOU CHOSE to berate him for calling you "sir?" What did you lose from being called "sir?" How about the waiter, what did he lose because on that day you decided to be a Diva? Sad.
IF it is true that he did not ask the waiter to stand in front of him while waiting for management to intervene, the kinder thing to do was to ask him to leave and do his work while waiting for management to intervene. He speaks of the need for gender sensitivity when in fact he needs to learn more about humanity. He shouldve raised the issue privately with the owners with whom he brags to know personally. What a hypocrite.
I can tell the waiter is indeed treated like family by the management imagine letting somebody make a person stand for 2 hours o diba family talaga. Power trip si Ate kasi friend daw siya with the owner
Natawa ako sa comments sa FB. Ngayon tuloy mas tinatawag na sya na SIR! 🤣 Seriously ako naman, if you’re a trans and you think you’re a woman then act like one — be proper, wag maging bruha. Don’t impose it. Sabi nga nila beauty is in the eye of the beholder same din yan sa recognition of one’s gender expression is in the eye of the beholder. Kung sa tingin ng tao sayo eh lalake ka pa rin despite your transformation wag mo isisi sa tao. Balikan mo ang doctor mo bakit mukha ka pa ring lalake. At kung sasabihin mo namang you want to educate that person iconsider mo rin if ready ba ang learner. Tinuturo sa DepEd yan. Importante ang readiness ng learner kasi kahit na gaano ka pa katalino magturo wa epek pa rin if walang readiness so it goes both ways. What I’m trying to say is wag ipilit sir!
Mas sincere sana if you will just use simple words that are relatable and easy to understand. Parang nag papasikat lang and "look at me, I know a lot of highfalutin words!" si Sir!
Naintindihan ko naman ang public apology niya. Wala akong nakikita na highfalutin words. 🤷♀️ BTW di ko siya kinakampihan ah. Sa waiter ako kumakampi. Mali ang ginawa ni Jude.
You have anpattern. This was not isolated. Jow manybhave you ahused and humiliated over many things? The thing is, they are always the 'little people' - waiters, serving staff. Kindness? Why aren't you kind to them.
Iba iba ang pananaw ng tao at super subjective ng issue na to kaya ang hirap talaga iapprove ng SOGIE. Sa totoo lang naman po, napaka gender neutral ng filipino pronouns, wala tayong his and her instead ay kanya. Anyway, i saw yung video nitong june sa isang fb page talking about being a woman a transwoman at that. Hindi ko magustuhan yung statement niya na scratching her balls daw, so siya mismo diba? Gusto niya maging babae pero ginawa gawa niyang katatawan ang pagkakaroon niya ng balls. Depende sa mood teh?
Sinisi pa yung waiter na tumayo ng 2hrs. If you really wanted to settle it with the management, You could have just asked the waiter to leave and serve other customers. With your attitude, you have no right to lecture on gender sensitivity. Please, you were just power tripping. There’s a place and time for some training, and it’s the management’s job, not yours. Stop making excuses!
Feeling entitled Di naman mukhang Ma'am.Buti dika nkakuha ng katapat mo.Ur a shame to the community where you belong! Pangit naman kahit puno ng make up.
Mahal ko mga kapatid natin sa lgbt, pero sila rin talaga (at times) ang pinanggagalingan ng gulo. The sense of entitlement, acknowledgement and respect na dapat ibigay sa knila pero hirap silang ibigay kahit kapwa lgbtq nila!
Since ang laki ng noo ng lalaki na ito, next labas lagyan niya ng warning sign na..Don’t call me Sir. Ang kapal ng mukha kaya hindi pa rin sila lahat tanggap ng society dahil yong iba ai may mga attitudes.
A non-apology apology. "I did not demand for the waiter to stand the whole time". This dude very well understands the power dynamic here and he continues to gaslight. The arrogance of this POS is infuriating. Makit-an tikaw sa ayala, kumoton ko na imong bati nga nawng, SIR!
You did not demand, but you did not stop the server. He has no power, you abused yours. The owner is your friend, what choice did he have if he wqnted his job? May karma get you good.
apology sounded long-winded and insincere. at sinisi pa niya ang waiter? na choice daw ng pobre na tumindig **for two hours?** who in their right mind would do that? now that you are being roundly bashed, you’re asking for kindness?
This entitled abuser caused the server to stand for 2 hours and blamed his victim. Please let somebody slap this biatch some reality pill. So entitled.
Haba ng sinabi, halatang gusto magpasikat with the use of flowery words. Sir, hindi ka bibigyan ng grade diyan sa essay mo. A simple short genuine apology will do. Sige na nga, F ang grado mo. Di sincere eh.
I noticed that too. Granted magaling nga magsulat si Sir, but ang kapaaal ng face. Hoy Dong, mag Sorry ka!!! Kakahiya ka. Who in the right mind will do that to anyone? Papatayuin mo just because na Sir ka? Kapal face mo Jude
JB this is not the 1st time na ginawa mo to, ang mamahiya ng feeling mo mababa sayo. Feeling mo untouchable ka. Bumaba ka rin sa pedestal mo , ikaw ang clasic example ng “langaw na nakatuntong sa kalabaw”. Your apology didn’t seem to be sincere.
Exactly.. marami nang prior incidents yan na nagyayabang masyado. My company used to hire this Jude for hosting, but never again, you POS. not all are socially aware of your cause, some are just busy earning a decent living!
SIR...SIR....SIR !!! You are an arrogant, entitled man. You were born a man, you look like a man, of course people will call you sir. You are pathetic !!!!
Eto yung example ng maliit na bagay, pinalaki lang kasi ayaw tumanggap ng sorry. Ngayon, sya ang nag-iissue ng (passive) apology, huwag syang mag-expect na makukaha nya ang hindi nya ibinigay sa pobreng tao.
Hinding hindi makakalimutan yung may pagka-sarcastic na “Go ask him” tagline na yan. Hay, Sir, pinalampas mo na sana nang di lumaki ng ganito. Hard lesson learned, indeed.
You, SIR, are an entitled brat. You do not get to throw a tantrum every single time you feel slighted. Tinago mo pa as passionate about your cause keme. Practice tolerance if you want others to tolerate your ideology riddled with contractions. If you waddle like duck and quack like a duck, guess what??? Others are bound to think you're a duck, not a swan. Di nila kasalanan yun.
During kasikatan ng Ghost movie (yes, now i'm in late 40s na po, lol) nagpagupit ako ng Demi Moore hairstyle. namalengke kami ng mother and yung tindera tinawagan akong "boy" Tumawa na lang kami ni mother. hindi namin inaway si ateng tindera.
Nope. His apology press release is NOT sincere. Full of colorful and flowery wordings but not a single sincerity. How can he even say it was settled when in fact the server was not there when this customer supposedly settled the issue. For the content!
True! At andami nang naglabasan na mga naka-experience ng ill treatment nya basta tinawag syang “SIR”. Yung sa nail spa before pa sya nagpunta dyan sa resto na yan ganyan din ginawa nya buti nlng ang manager kinampihan ang staff at sinagot sya.
Cancel ka na accla! Host to di ba? Please wag nyo na kunin with this kind of attitude. Kahit gaano ka pa kagaling. Ndi ko mafeel ang sincerity sa apology.
Kung tinawag ka mang "SIR", sana natuwa ka na nun dahil sign yun ng pag-respeto sa'yo. Kakagigil kayo, sa mata nang marami lalaki pa rin kayo. Ipinanganak kayong lalaki, lilipas kayong lalaki pa rin sa mata ng tao at lalo na sa nasa itaas.
Sir Jude , you can insist you are female but you can't force as to believe you. You have your beliefs and we have ours. Freedom of expression. I pity the waiter, next time you stand up for what you believe and and let that man Jude find and eat in another establishment.
Itong Jude testing the waters akala niya marami kakampi sa kanya from lgbtq community like in the US na very sensitive and entitled,e Nakakalimutan niya Pilipinas ito
kakanerbyos & kaka-stress pala maging service crew sa pinas pag ganyan di mo alam how to address the customers at patayuin ka ng 2 oras until the manager arrives kasi wala pala don,supervisor lng pero ito ay hindj sapat.sabay kilala nya dw owners at need ng staff mag aral how to deal w/ lgbt community dw.magkano lng sweldo ganito pa tratuhin,
Sir, that is not an apology. That is saving your face and saving the owner of the restaurant who is your “friend” from backlash from the mass because the employees did not feel supported and have to wait for hours until a concerned citizen made a decision to intervene.
Ankol kasi maton na maton naman ang mukha mo even with those falsies and tis ng hair. Do not impose, do not force people to see you the way you see yourself. Kung mama ang itsura mo at gusto mong tawaging mam, thats delusional.
a person who is rude or mean to the waitstaff or any service staff is a bad person. bakit lumaki ng ganito porket natawag lang na sir? kung sinabi na lang niya na “i would prefer if you call me ma’am, thank you” eh di natapos na tong walang kwentang gulo na to.
Question lang, wala ba yung manager nung nangyari yun? Hindi nila nagawang mag interfere? To be honest, kung ako yung waiter, di ako tatayo dun for 2 hrs just for HIM to humiliate. Di nila ko binabayaran ng milyon para pahiyain.
Gender equality daw, pero womens rights or basic rights ng babae, tinatapakan. Hindi kayo pwede sa female restroom, hindi ka female. Make your own resroom
This is so true! In their impassioned push for gender equality, they are already overstepping on female rights. Ilang dekadang pinaglaban para lang magkaroon ang mga babae ng pantay na karapatabn sa mga lalake. Pero eto na naman sila, ga lalakeng nag-ibang anyo lang pero tinatapakan pa rin ang karapatan natin bilang mga babae. No to SOGIE bill!
Dami ng nka encounter sa kanya. Sa ibang mga establishment. Ganyan daw talaga yan. Malaking issue sa kanya ang tawagin syang sir. Tsaka yung group of friends nya mga feeling entitled din daw. Tapos humihingi pa ng further discounts Sabi ng nka serve sa kanila.
This is why I am against the SOGIE bill. Ngayon pa lang sobrang entitled na yung ilan, pinipilit nila paniniwala nila sa iba. What more if the SOGIE bill is passed? Kami palagi mag-aadjust para sa iilang entitled? Some are always insisting that they be treated the same as women to the point that these entitled handful are already in our personal space, sa CR, fitting room, etc. Being a woman isn't just about dressing up as one. These entitled brats should learn how to respect in order thar they be respected in return.
jude bacalso kung ako nanay nung waiter kahit pa fully adult na sya, once malaman ko ginawa mo susugurin kita. kapal ng mukha mo. wala ka karapatan tawaging ma’am. wala kang matres hoy!
Ang bigat kasama ng taong to. Feelingero at ang taas ng tingin sa sarili. Feeling beneath them lahat ng tao at sa mga mayaman at alta lang nakipagclose.
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Practice what you preach, Sir!
ReplyDeleteThis isn't the first time that she did it to a wait staff for misgenndering her. Nagkataon lang talaga this time na may nakawitness at nagstand up para sa server na yun.
DeleteThe sad part is, yung mga nakakaya lang nya ang ginagawan nya ng ganito. If, let's ssy, professors, or CEOs did this to him, I don't think he would go berserk.
DeleteDahil sa mga panirang ito, walang pariroonan ang SOGIE bill.
Deleteang ganda-ganda nya daw para t
Deleteawaging sir..... luh?! san banda??? 😂
Clearly, no matter how eloquently you wrote it, it was not an apology.
DeleteYou can do better, dude.
Wala pa ngang SOGIE bill kala mo na kung sino. SOGIE bill will only give them more entitlement, much more than what they do, act and have at the moment. They want to be cut above the rest. Pare pareho lang namang tao ang lalake, babae at bakla, tomboy etc. bakit magiging special ang isang grupo? It ain't fair pag ganon at may human rights and constitutional rights na ano pa bang rights ang dapat idagdag na certain group lang ang magbebenipisyo
Deleteiritang irita ako sa mga feeling entitled na mga members ng LGBTQ... i mean buti nga tinatanggap na ang mga kagaya nyo sa society natin..noong araw talagang taboo kayo. kaso dahil dyan may mga umaabuso naman. don't get me wrong. marami akong kaibigang beki at mababait sila. kaya lang yung mga kagaya nitong si Bacalso na masyadong feeling entitled, yan ang nakakasira sa grupo nila. "SIR" dalawa lang ang kasarian, either you are a he or a she. kahit nagpalit ka pa ng aparato, di pa rin magbabago na ipinanganak kang lalaki. ang OA mo. bakit ikamamatay mo bang matawag kang "Sir"? e kahit tapalan mo ng isang kilong make up yang pagmumukha mo at kahit mag suot ka pa ng gown, Di ka pa rin Mukhang "Mam". At ano ang kinalaman ng mga achievements mo sa ginawa mong pang mamaliit at pang aabuso sa isang waiter na naghahanap buhay lang naman ng matino? aber? dahil may konting na-achieve ka sa buhay pwede ka nang mang-maliit sa kapwa mo? kaya di ako agree sa Sogie bill e. enough na sa akin na kilalanin na may mga kapatid tayong iba ang sexual orientation. pero wag na sana mag demand ng kung ano-ano. dun lang tayo sa tama. kung ano ang binigay ng Panginoon sa atin, dun tayo. "HE" OR "SHE" that's it and that's all.
Deletedi na lang makuntento na tanggap na sila sa society natin. kailangan pang mag-demand na palitan ang Grammar rules na existing na since time immemorial. Oh Please, wag nyo ipilit...kami pa ba ang mag-a-adjust sa inyo? classic example na binigyan mo na nga ng food, gusto pa sakmalin pati kamay mo.
DeleteSir, this will not happen naman if u didnt force people to believe na ur a she, genetics or biology will confirm na ur born na he, period. kahit magpasurgery ka or lumaklak ng female hormones sir ka pa rin.
DeleteAgree 12:44.
DeleteNakakatakot yang SOGIE bill kasi it will be a crime na kapag naoffend mo sila. They can abuse it and I'm sure they will. This incident proves it. Mas lalala ang victim mentality nila just to push their agenda. Pwede ka pa makulong and mag-fine ng up to 500,000 pesos.
Paano kaya kung kami na born female eh magreklamo din at ipagbabawal din namin sa mga trans na ipagamit ang salitang ma’am, she, her and the like? Paano pag sinabi namin na nakakaoffend para sa amin ang paggamit nila na yan. Kung gusto nila gumawa sila ng bagong word or term wag yung makikihati pa sa amin na tunay na babae.
DeleteCorrect. Sumosobra na sila, mas kawawa na ngayon ang mga babae at lalake
Deleteto sir jude please just let the real woman use the word ma’am, parang unfair na rin kasi. bestfriend ako ni princess sarah as in ako c becky pero i know my limits kasi, for me ha 2 lang naman tlga gender either male or female. sa ayaw ko o gusto ko since wala nmn ako fallopian tubes or ovary or the ability to get pregnant sir pa rin ako.
DeleteI am nothing against this sogie bill however and I agree with 12:44, wala pa man feeling entitled and special na yong iba diyan. Just like the "black lives matter" rallying cry in the US, which resulted na pag ayaw pumasok sa trabaho or ayaw nila yong work shift nila walang magawa ang superiors nila kundi mag-adjust. Meaning feeling entitled, na sana wag mangyari sa supposed sogie bill natin.
Delete7:08 here, stand corrected po it's supposed to be "I have nothing...", wasn't able to proofread....ty
DeleteWith all the hate comments from netizens for sure you mental heath was at risk..learn from this experience..so entitled bi*ch
ReplyDeletehindi siya maganda bilang babae…tigas ng fez. ❌
Deletekaya siguro natawag pa ding SIR saka no matter the plastic surgery or pills a "man" take, may mga chismis pa din na di kayang dayain when it comes to biology. MGA SIRS! LOL
DeleteUhm hindi sya babae baks. Lalaki sya. Kahit ano pagbabaliktarin ang mundo, HE will NEVER be a she.
Delete@10:15pm di naman sa ganda is aka pa eh. Pero sa gaspang ng ugali nyang feeling entitled! TBH, ang dami sa lgbt ganyan maski sa ibang bansa, they entitled and astang elitist! Sad but true, have relatives in UK and US pansin nila yun, even though some of them parte din ng lgbt
DeleteHer statement doesn’t sound like an apology. Good luck na lang sa’yo at sa mga netizens na di makalimot
ReplyDeleteHigh and mighty nga ang dating. Fauxpology.
DeleteShe's known i Cebu as a diva. Porket magaling maghost at may kasamang singing.
True. It’s like I’m sorry I got caught. Kaya lalong nawawala respeto sa kanila kasi mali ung way nila ng pakikipaglaban. Marami na ring ganyang issue di lang sa pinas at lalo silang napapagtawanan dahil sa actions nila. Hindi nakakatulong sa pinaglalaban nila
Delete7:58 'his'
DeleteDo not indulge HIM hindi sya her
DeleteHer talaga?? Kaloka haven't u learned proper pronoun?
DeleteTrue ka. It doesnt sound like an apology. More like justifying why and “ solution” na kaagad. Hot Jude, apologize TO THE WAITER. wag mo idaan sa flowery words mo. Kakahiya ka na feeling entitled . Sino ka?
Delete*HIM
Deletesorry, not sorry si TITO SIR. kapag apology, magsorry ka na lang wag ka ng maglahok pa ng excuses.
DeleteHim. Baliktarin man ang mundo lalake yan no matter how many pronouns they use to justify their delusions.
DeleteNakalimutan mo na siguro yung mga tests sa elementary sa pronoun. Zero ka ba palagi dun?
DeleteHIS statement
DeleteHer? Hinde siya her. Wala yan dalaw buwan buwan . Ika nga wala siya mattress . Lalaki siya
Delete12:18 hindi ako si OP. Pero explain ko lang na magkaiba kasi ang tinututuro sa English nung elementary tayo kumpara sa Gender Equality nung college. Huwag niyo naman awayin si OP. Porke't nirespeto niya ang PREFERRED pronouns ni Jude. Si Jude lang awayin niyo. Politically correct lang si commenter/OP.
DeleteBasta ako, I will use she/her kapag nakabistida at makeup kahit mukha pa rin lalaki. People pleaser kasi ako. Ewan ko ba.
Pero I empathize dun sa waiter. Dapat hindi siya pinatayo. Dapat WALANG parusa sa simpleng pagtawag ng "sir."
-I'm just trying to be objective.
@7:58 PM, you mean HIS statement.
Delete*His statement
DeleteJust acknowledging lang yung gusto niya pronoun. Peace tayo mga classmates - 7:58
DeleteLahat nagkakamali. Let him be.
ReplyDeletetell that to the waiter na pinatayo ng 2 oras. let "him" be?! nope!
DeleteLet her be. Sorry.
DeleteNot the first time. Ngayon lang na expose. Buti nga sa kanya.
DeleteYup kaya nga dapat He should have let the waiter go na lang di ba kasi lahat nagkakamali, kaso si angkol pinatayo ng 2hrs yung kawawang waiter nang dahil lang sa pronounce lakas mang power trip ni accla eh
DeleteYes pero Hinde lahat ng nagkakamali dapat maging rude. Ang dami lumabas tuloy na comments na talagang rude Itong tao na to. Yan ang nakakainis sa mga woke na lgbtq. Gets naman namen and as Filipinos, very accepting tayo sa kanila. Pero stop shoving it down our throats na sir or maam ka or binary non binary they/them kayo. Makuntento sa acceptance at respect namen wag na kayong mapilit sa mga pinaglalaban nyo. Kami pang majority ang gusto nyo mag adjust for you ng todo todo and if makarinig ng slight push feeling nyo inaapi na kayo mashado.
Delete“him”… ahahahaha, baka ma-educate tayo sa “Pronoun” na gusto nyang mangyari. I can never look at a pronoun again the way I used to dahil dito.
DeleteThis is not his 1st time tho. A lot of people has experienced this from Jude.
DeletePero teh this has been his pattern many times, dami nga nag come out na victims ng bullying at insults nya. Grabe ang angst ng baklang twoah.
DeleteIt wasn't his first time. Andami na tuloy naglabasang posts sa kagasapang ng ugali niya so I did something as petty as his reaction - went to his tiktok account and commented "sir" in caps. Others already did. I saw comments like angkol, tatang, lolo. Not sorry. What he did was downright bullying. I felt like I just bullied the bully but HE deserved it. 😬
DeleteI have lots of gay friends, some trans but they're nice, kind, fun and professional.
mukang mas pinag-isipan pa yung mga fancy terms na ginamit kesa sa apology talaga.
ReplyDeleteHurt people hurt people. Jude doesn't seem to be fully healed of the discrimination and hate she must have experienced that now she lashes out on people who made an honest mistake and have no intention of maligning her person. Mali siya dito.
ReplyDeleteKung di pa sya kinuyog, di yan mag-aapologize! Boomerang tuloy sayo ginawa mo, pati LGBTQ+ members na call out ka. Kala nya siguro pagtatanggol sya nila. Meron pa pa ibang cases he did the same, kaya lumalabas baho nya. Aasta ng kung sino di naman pala kaya pag binalikan.
ReplyDeletePa-english english pa si manong para feeling better than others. Yung apology mo di parin apology and the one person you should apologize to di manlang present sa apology; mukhang he lost his job and it was because YOU CHOSE to berate him for calling you "sir?" What did you lose from being called "sir?" How about the waiter, what did he lose because on that day you decided to be a Diva? Sad.
ReplyDeleteSelf-serving word salad
ReplyDeleteThing is, this is not the first time pala. Similar instance na daw in the past sa La Vie and Shang so sadyang power tripper lang si ser
ReplyDeleteGive a person a little power and they'll abuse it to no end, until it's taken away.
ReplyDeleteAnu daming kuda s PAG hingi ng apology. Para Siya Ang main character dto and just say sorry without anything else to say period
ReplyDeleteEmotional abuse yun sa waiter. Why didn't the manager step in?
ReplyDeleteIF it is true that he did not ask the waiter to stand in front of him while waiting for management to intervene, the kinder thing to do was to ask him to leave and do his work while waiting for management to intervene.
ReplyDeleteHe speaks of the need for gender sensitivity when in fact he needs to learn more about humanity. He shouldve raised the issue privately with the owners with whom he brags to know personally. What a hypocrite.
Establishments should not accept this guy as their customer.
ReplyDeleteMahangin sya may viral sya interview answering question what's great about being a woman nakakaloka
ReplyDeleteI can tell the waiter is indeed treated like family by the management imagine letting somebody make a person stand for 2 hours o diba family talaga. Power trip si Ate kasi friend daw siya with the owner
ReplyDeleteSobrang poorly written nung statement
ReplyDeleteNatawa ako sa comments sa FB. Ngayon tuloy mas tinatawag na sya na SIR! 🤣 Seriously ako naman, if you’re a trans and you think you’re a woman then act like one — be proper, wag maging bruha. Don’t impose it. Sabi nga nila beauty is in the eye of the beholder same din yan sa recognition of one’s gender expression is in the eye of the beholder. Kung sa tingin ng tao sayo eh lalake ka pa rin despite your transformation wag mo isisi sa tao. Balikan mo ang doctor mo bakit mukha ka pa ring lalake. At kung sasabihin mo namang you want to educate that person iconsider mo rin if ready ba ang learner. Tinuturo sa DepEd yan. Importante ang readiness ng learner kasi kahit na gaano ka pa katalino magturo wa epek pa rin if walang readiness so it goes both ways. What I’m trying to say is wag ipilit sir!
ReplyDeleteParang hindi naman apology. Mayabang pa din ang dating.
ReplyDeleteumayos ka ursula!
ReplyDeleteno sincerity. Bahala na si Lord sa iyo. For sure hindi lang si Kuya waiter ang biktima mo.
ReplyDeleteMalamang. Nagisa na ng bonggang bongga eh. Kahit ano pang sabihin niya, hindi na papaniwalaan.
ReplyDeleteSIR yes SIR!!!!
ReplyDeleteNever be too clever you forget to be kind
ReplyDeleteMas sincere sana if you will just use simple words that are relatable and easy to understand. Parang nag papasikat lang and "look at me, I know a lot of highfalutin words!" si Sir!
ReplyDeleteNaintindihan ko naman ang public apology niya. Wala akong nakikita na highfalutin words. 🤷♀️ BTW di ko siya kinakampihan ah. Sa waiter ako kumakampi. Mali ang ginawa ni Jude.
DeleteKindness? You anused and humiliated that setver.
ReplyDeleteSiya ang bida ngayong buwan na toh. Sona? Pogo banning? Who you kayo
ReplyDeleteDapat tagalog para marami maka intindi Sa apology nya
ReplyDeleteYou have anpattern. This was not isolated. Jow manybhave you ahused and humiliated over many things? The thing is, they are always the 'little people' - waiters, serving staff. Kindness? Why aren't you kind to them.
ReplyDeletewag kasi masyado entitled.. feeling high masyado
ReplyDeletesana naman you learned your lesson sir..
ReplyDeleteIba iba ang pananaw ng tao at super subjective ng issue na to kaya ang hirap talaga iapprove ng SOGIE. Sa totoo lang naman po, napaka gender neutral ng filipino pronouns, wala tayong his and her instead ay kanya. Anyway, i saw yung video nitong june sa isang fb page talking about being a woman a transwoman at that. Hindi ko magustuhan yung statement niya na scratching her balls daw, so siya mismo diba? Gusto niya maging babae pero ginawa gawa niyang katatawan ang pagkakaroon niya ng balls. Depende sa mood teh?
ReplyDeletePara mapagusapan daw sya lalo
ReplyDeleteUmpisa pa lang.. "I sat down.." Buti ka pa, e 'yung pinatayo mo ng 2 oras?
ReplyDeleteSinisi pa yung waiter na tumayo ng 2hrs. If you really wanted to settle it with the management, You could have just asked the waiter to leave and serve other customers. With your attitude, you have no right to lecture on gender sensitivity. Please, you were just power tripping. There’s a place and time for some training, and it’s the management’s job, not yours. Stop making excuses!
ReplyDeleteAno ba mga pinagkakakitaan nito? Para hindi mboycott ko.
ReplyDeleteHost daw. Please cancel this guy, Cebu. Kahit gaano kagaling if ugaling kanal. May balik anf karma dong.
DeleteCebu cancel this guy!!!!
DeleteTagal ng cancelled yan. D na yan sikat.
DeletePer his tiktok page, host, influencer. Paki block naman po. I just did. @9:36
DeleteMake him serve at the resto for a week kapalit nung waiter na pinahiya nya.
ReplyDeleteMang Sir Jude kinahihiya ka ng buong LGBT community. Nag sorry ka lang kasi walang kumampi sa yo.
ReplyDeleteVery entitled
DeleteAye aye Sir!
ReplyDeleteFeeling entitled Di naman mukhang Ma'am.Buti dika nkakuha ng katapat mo.Ur a shame to the community where you belong! Pangit naman kahit puno ng make up.
ReplyDeleteMahal ko mga kapatid natin sa lgbt, pero sila rin talaga (at times) ang pinanggagalingan ng gulo. The sense of entitlement, acknowledgement and respect na dapat ibigay sa knila pero hirap silang ibigay kahit kapwa lgbtq nila!
Delete🤣 pag nasa toilet sir n sir ka 🤣
DeleteSince ang laki ng noo ng lalaki na ito, next labas lagyan niya ng warning sign na..Don’t call me Sir. Ang kapal ng mukha kaya hindi pa rin sila lahat tanggap ng society dahil yong iba ai may mga attitudes.
ReplyDeleteButi nag apologize si Koya
ReplyDeleteA non-apology apology.
ReplyDelete"I did not demand for the waiter to stand the whole time". This dude very well understands the power dynamic here and he continues to gaslight.
The arrogance of this POS is infuriating.
Makit-an tikaw sa ayala, kumoton ko na imong bati nga nawng, SIR!
You did not demand, but you did not stop the server. He has no power, you abused yours. The owner is your friend, what choice did he have if he wqnted his job? May karma get you good.
DeleteThis! Call me so dalawa tayo!
DeleteIs this an apology? Really?
ReplyDeleteapology sounded long-winded and insincere. at sinisi pa niya ang waiter? na choice daw ng pobre na tumindig **for two hours?** who in their right mind would do that? now that you are being roundly bashed, you’re asking for kindness?
ReplyDeletehay naku sir. don’t us noh.
This entitled abuser caused the server to stand for 2 hours and blamed his victim. Please let somebody slap this biatch some reality pill. So entitled.
DeleteSana nakaupo lahat nung nakausap kayo
ReplyDeleteOk sir
ReplyDeleteGanun ba kahirap yung magpaka-humble ka na lang and sincerely apologize? Yung wala ng ifs or buts. Apologize and take responsibility for your actions.
ReplyDeleteDapat kasi iniiwan sa bahay ang pagiging entitled. Nadadamay yung mga nagtatrabaho lang naman ng maayos sa mga issues niyo sa buhay.
ReplyDeleteAy may KAREN na din pala dito sa pinas? Kala ko sa usa lang sila naglipana? Merun na din pala dito.
ReplyDeleteHE'S A HE, so he is not a Karen! He's the MALE version of KAREN.
DeleteSi KARDO yan hahaha
DeleteHaba ng sinabi, halatang gusto magpasikat with the use of flowery words.
ReplyDeleteSir, hindi ka bibigyan ng grade diyan sa essay mo.
A simple short genuine apology will do.
Sige na nga, F ang grado mo.
Di sincere eh.
I noticed that too. Granted magaling nga magsulat si Sir, but ang kapaaal ng face. Hoy Dong, mag Sorry ka!!! Kakahiya ka. Who in the right mind will do that to anyone? Papatayuin mo just because na Sir ka? Kapal face mo Jude
DeleteChat gpt yan hihihi
DeleteIto talagang si Sir o! Need niya muna I-achieve na Mukhang babae bago mag demand na tawaging Ma’am!
ReplyDeleteSalot este Salute, Sir! Nice.
ReplyDeleteJB this is not the 1st time na ginawa mo to, ang mamahiya ng feeling mo mababa sayo. Feeling mo untouchable ka. Bumaba ka rin sa pedestal mo , ikaw ang clasic example ng “langaw na nakatuntong sa kalabaw”.
ReplyDeleteYour apology didn’t seem to be sincere.
Exactly.. marami nang prior incidents yan na nagyayabang masyado. My company used to hire this Jude for hosting, but never again, you POS. not all are socially aware of your cause, some are just busy earning a decent living!
DeleteSIR...SIR....SIR !!! You are an arrogant, entitled man. You were born a man, you look like a man, of course people will call you sir. You are pathetic !!!!
ReplyDeletesa hitsura mong yang, nagdedemand ka to be called a Ma'am? talaga lang? kung ako yung waiter, i'd rather call you Manong.
ReplyDelete10:54pm. My big laugh for the day.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣 or aling Jude
DeleteHahaha
DeleteLook at JB's FB account, ubod ng yabang pa rin...
ReplyDeleteEto yung example ng maliit na bagay, pinalaki lang kasi ayaw tumanggap ng sorry. Ngayon, sya ang nag-iissue ng (passive) apology, huwag syang mag-expect na makukaha nya ang hindi nya ibinigay sa pobreng tao.
ReplyDeleteHinding hindi makakalimutan yung may pagka-sarcastic na “Go ask him” tagline na yan. Hay, Sir, pinalampas mo na sana nang di lumaki ng ganito. Hard lesson learned, indeed.
ReplyDeleteWag nyo kasing iinsist ang belief nyo sa iba. Wag kayo mamilit na ang apple ay banana just because yun ang paniniwala nyo.
ReplyDeleteYabang kasi. Mukhang manong ka naman.
ReplyDeleteSa dami ng nabuwisit sa yo, lalo ka nilang tatawagin ng sir hanggang mapagdesisyunan mo na bumalik na lang sa dati.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteThis is "sorry, not sorry"!
ReplyDeleteNakakaloka si accla. Impassioned pursuit of advocacy talaga? Gurl wag ako! That’s just plain cruelty what he did. Yes, HE.
ReplyDeleteHaha
DeleteYou, SIR, are an entitled brat. You do not get to throw a tantrum every single time you feel slighted. Tinago mo pa as passionate about your cause keme. Practice tolerance if you want others to tolerate your ideology riddled with contractions. If you waddle like duck and quack like a duck, guess what??? Others are bound to think you're a duck, not a swan. Di nila kasalanan yun.
ReplyDelete*contradictions (not contractions) - yan, sa inis ko, typo tuloy.
DeleteYan Ang mga entitled na mga LGBT. Hinde ko nilalahat ha pero Meron talaga ubod na entitled.
ReplyDeleteInhuman
ReplyDeleteTrabaho ko sa gender clinic. super sensitive talaga sila. We tell them na hindi lahat outside ng clinic ay alam how to address them.
ReplyDeleteThis generation is soft.
DeleteHe was my teacher in college. He is from UPLB. If hindi ka alta, hindi ka nya bet. Hahaha BFF nya anak ni Gwen Garcia.
ReplyDeleteObvious naman he's a social climber apart from being a delusional. I appreciate the gays out there who are grounded in the reality. Unlike this one.
DeleteFeeling pala eversince!
DeleteAs if alta yan,peke yan mga tih.
DeleteTeacher p man din kahiya. Ewwww sir Jude
DeleteDuring kasikatan ng Ghost movie (yes, now i'm in late 40s na po, lol) nagpagupit ako ng Demi Moore hairstyle. namalengke kami ng mother and yung tindera tinawagan akong "boy" Tumawa na lang kami ni mother. hindi namin inaway si ateng tindera.
ReplyDeleteKindness my a$$. Should've shown that in the first place sa service worker.
ReplyDeleteNope. His apology press release is NOT sincere. Full of colorful and flowery wordings but not a single sincerity. How can he even say it was settled when in fact the server was not there when this customer supposedly settled the issue. For the content!
ReplyDeleteTrue! At andami nang naglabasan na mga naka-experience ng ill treatment nya basta tinawag syang “SIR”. Yung sa nail spa before pa sya nagpunta dyan sa resto na yan ganyan din ginawa nya buti nlng ang manager kinampihan ang staff at sinagot sya.
DeleteCancel ka na accla! Host to di ba? Please wag nyo na kunin with this kind of attitude. Kahit gaano ka pa kagaling. Ndi ko mafeel ang sincerity sa apology.
ReplyDeleteManong Jude
ReplyDeleteKung tinawag ka mang "SIR", sana natuwa ka na nun dahil sign yun ng pag-respeto sa'yo. Kakagigil kayo, sa mata nang marami lalaki pa rin kayo. Ipinanganak kayong lalaki, lilipas kayong lalaki pa rin sa mata ng tao at lalo na sa nasa itaas.
ReplyDeleteDapat aling Jude
DeleteSir Jude , you can insist you are female but you can't force as to believe you. You have your beliefs and we have ours. Freedom of expression. I pity the waiter, next time you stand up for what you believe and and let that man Jude find and eat in another establishment.
ReplyDeletekawawa rin coz takot mawalang ng work kaya tumayo na lng don coz sabi pa nya kilala nya owners,so entitiled
DeleteI don't know how to react
DeleteItong Jude testing the waters akala niya marami kakampi sa kanya from lgbtq community like in the US na very sensitive and entitled,e Nakakalimutan niya Pilipinas ito
Deletekakanerbyos & kaka-stress pala maging service crew sa pinas pag ganyan di mo alam how to address the customers at patayuin ka ng 2 oras until the manager arrives kasi wala pala don,supervisor lng pero ito ay hindj sapat.sabay kilala nya dw owners at need ng staff mag aral how to deal w/ lgbt community dw.magkano lng sweldo ganito pa tratuhin,
ReplyDeleteGrabe parang teacher ang peg kapal ng face calling Lbgtq +++ sampigahin nyo yan di makatao or tao p b yan
DeleteMatagal nang politically correct ang mga servers and sales associates sa pinas using "MAMSIR" as a greeting lol
ReplyDeleteMinsan mas todo respeto pa with "SiMamSir"!
DeleteSir kuya manong Jude, you look more manly than the brusko guards at the mall kahit anong pa-Mona Lisa smile pa ang gawin mo.
ReplyDeleteA simple sincere apology will do but sadly this is not.
ReplyDeleteKahawig nya si Allan K
ReplyDeleteHindi mo man lang inalam name ni Mr. Waiter. Pero sincerely apologetic daw??
ReplyDeleteYung mga taong ganito tanggalin niyo sa Pilipinas,sa US yan magkukuda!
ReplyDeleteLumaki na ng lumaki yung issue. At para lang sa missgendering ng SIR, inabot sya ng 2 hour lecture sa staff? Anong sinabi nya sa crew?
ReplyDeleteAng pretty face ni SIR 😂😂😂
ReplyDeletepatawarin na natin si manong nagsorry na
ReplyDeletePangalan pa lang Barakung Barako na. Sir yes Sir!
ReplyDeleteAkala ko si Allan K.
ReplyDeleteKamukha nya si Ursula ng Little Mermaid.
ReplyDeleteworse. max alvarado. pero mas mabait naman si gorgonia sa kanya….
DeleteGrabe tong si Ursula
ReplyDeleteSir, that is not an apology. That is saving your face and saving the owner of the restaurant who is your “friend” from backlash from the mass because the employees did not feel supported and have to wait for hours until a concerned citizen made a decision to intervene.
ReplyDeleteAnkol kasi maton na maton naman ang mukha mo even with those falsies and tis ng hair. Do not impose, do not force people to see you the way you see yourself. Kung mama ang itsura mo at gusto mong tawaging mam, thats delusional.
ReplyDeletepre, galingan mo naman next time panira ka eh. tse.
ReplyDeletea person who is rude or mean to the waitstaff or any service staff is a bad person. bakit lumaki ng ganito porket natawag lang na sir? kung sinabi na lang niya na “i would prefer if you call me ma’am, thank you” eh di natapos na tong walang kwentang gulo na to.
ReplyDeletedahil sa napaka-trivial na pangyayari nawalan ng trabaho yung service crew so tell me WHAT IS KINDNESS vuklang two asa pa kayo sa sogie bill
ReplyDeleteQuestion lang, wala ba yung manager nung nangyari yun? Hindi nila nagawang mag interfere? To be honest, kung ako yung waiter, di ako tatayo dun for 2 hrs just for HIM to humiliate. Di nila ko binabayaran ng milyon para pahiyain.
ReplyDeleteGender equality daw, pero womens rights or basic rights ng babae, tinatapakan. Hindi kayo pwede sa female restroom, hindi ka female. Make your own resroom
ReplyDeleteThis is so true! In their impassioned push for gender equality, they are already overstepping on female rights. Ilang dekadang pinaglaban para lang magkaroon ang mga babae ng pantay na karapatabn sa mga lalake. Pero eto na naman sila, ga lalakeng nag-ibang anyo lang pero tinatapakan pa rin ang karapatan natin bilang mga babae. No to SOGIE bill!
DeletePure exercise in self aggrandizement.
ReplyDeleteAyan mas lalo tuloy dumami ang tumawag sa kanya ng Sir lol
ReplyDeleteHe still sounds very condescending. And he sounds like someone who uses English to appear cool and smart. Nagsorry lang yan dahil nabash e.
ReplyDeleteDami ng nka encounter sa kanya. Sa ibang mga establishment. Ganyan daw talaga yan. Malaking issue sa kanya ang tawagin syang sir. Tsaka yung group of friends nya mga feeling entitled din daw. Tapos humihingi pa ng further discounts Sabi ng nka serve sa kanila.
ReplyDeleteAy wow abusado na entitled pa
DeleteEven Allan K never felt alluded to on national tv if he was called Sir! They just always find a good laugh everytime. This guy needs a chill pill!
ReplyDeleteThis is why I am against the SOGIE bill. Ngayon pa lang sobrang entitled na yung ilan, pinipilit nila paniniwala nila sa iba. What more if the SOGIE bill is passed? Kami palagi mag-aadjust para sa iilang entitled? Some are always insisting that they be treated the same as women to the point that these entitled handful are already in our personal space, sa CR, fitting room, etc. Being a woman isn't just about dressing up as one. These entitled brats should learn how to respect in order thar they be respected in return.
ReplyDeleteAgree
DeleteTrue
DeleteSubukan nya yan gawin sa staff ko, wala akong pake, baka maduro duro ko rin yan eh
ReplyDeletedi kinaya ni SIR ang pangbabash galing mismo sa LGBT community. kasi nman yumabang po kayo. kung ano man narating niyo ngayon, be humble
ReplyDeleteNo sincerity in his statement, more on bragging. Masyado kang mataas Sir.
ReplyDeletetrue
DeleteWala naman kasing babaeng kapre di ba Sir???
ReplyDeleteang tawa ko sa comment ni 11:37!
DeleteSino ba naman kasi mag aakalang babae ka SIR?
ReplyDelete12:17am I agree with you
ReplyDeletejude bacalso kung ako nanay nung waiter kahit pa fully adult na sya, once malaman ko ginawa mo susugurin kita. kapal ng mukha mo. wala ka karapatan tawaging ma’am. wala kang matres hoy!
ReplyDeletepareng Jude kahit ata bulag hindi magkakamali na tawagin kang babae ..
ReplyDeleteHello Sir, unsa imung order Sir?.
ReplyDeleteAng bigat kasama ng taong to. Feelingero at ang taas ng tingin sa sarili. Feeling beneath them lahat ng tao at sa mga mayaman at alta lang nakipagclose.
ReplyDeletegrabe. kung anong itsura, yun din ang ugali.
ReplyDelete