I live in the same city as this guy Jude and apparently a lot of people are speaking up. Same experience halos sila lahat. Yung isang local host sinabihan na "dugyot na probinsyano" at di raw niya papatulan, something like that
Tapos SOGIE bill ipapasa? Why, to cut you above the rest? Pare pareho tayong tao. Irrelevant diyan ang gender. I remember kaya di un naisabatas sobrang entitlement ang hinihingi
Jude, Please remember you are not and will never be a woman. You have chosen a path and you cannot impose on the larger community to adjust to what you want and how you want to be addressed.
We did not get degrees just for our pronouns to be messed up.
Don’t you think your so called advocacy is an insult to our intelligence as a bigger community?
It is you who erred not the waiter. Calling you sir was just appropriate.
it won't make you less of a person if they had the wrong pronoun for you.. ini-educate mo kamo yung tao eh mali naman ang tinuturo mo. he/she them/they.. they are just letters.. they don't define you.. how you behave and treat others define you. those letters do not merit you any entitlement nor make you "more".
I respect everyone but his or her excuses are unacceptable na patayuin mo ang tao ng 2 hours. You ought to apologize and pay the staff for standing for you for two hours for your large ego.
Mabuti pa si Ogie Diaz… ayaw nila nadidiscriminate kuno pero sila numero unong nagdidiscriminate. Ayaw nilang nabubully pero sila mismo bully. Tagal na tayong pinatatahimik ng community na to. Kpag nagsalita ka sa magaspang nilang ugali kukuyugin ka. Buti na lang may gaya ni Ogie Diaz pati yung tumulong sa waiter na makatao pa din. Hindi maka lgbtq kundi maka tao. Wag natin kalimutan tao tayong lhat ay may karapatan, may boses, may damdamin, at kailangan ng respeto. Powertripping grabeh
Weeeh lumalabas bigotry mo. Isang tao gumawa, tapos COMMUNITY agad? Asang banda naging lgbtqia community yan? So pag nagnakaw yung politician na straight dapat isisi ko sa community natin? Anong pagiisip yan? She did not represent a group but herself only. The community is expressing their views on her and that she was wrong. Ogie and the person who posted this are part of that community and they're not condoning it at all. Nasan ang entitlement ng community? Hinding hindi and wala at all. She is not the community.
121AM nasad naman ako. Opposite ang experience ko. Mababait sila at down to earth. May taray minsan pero nasa lugar naman. I guess baka Filipino culture natin to na medyo entitled but di naman dahil lgbtqia sila. Yung iba naman mabait. sa lahat may ganyan. Wag lahatin. Thats how discrimination works. Konting mali ng ilan, nilalahat na. Ganyan ka ba sa straight?
Ulli Resto protect your employees wag kampihan ang mali. Boycott ang Resto na to. Yung costumer pwede I sue about human violations walang si manong Jude n gawin yun
oppurtunity to educate? Sir the waiter is well educated to distinguish what a male and female person is, since there are only two gender keep that in mind SIR Jude. Theres no discrmination happened, the waiter is absolutely right to call you sir. the next time you wanna be addressed as Ma’am make sure you have ovaries and fallopian tubes to support ur claim.
Napaka OA nitong taong ito. Pampasira sa LGBTQ community. I don't think lahat ng members ng LGBTQ eh ganito ka feeling entitled. Eh sa mukha kang lalaki pa rin eh. Masyado kang feeling entitled. Ang bait naman nung waiter --- hindi yan uubra sa amin.
I feel bad for the waiter. I myself work in the service industry, and yung makipag-usap sa irate customers ng harapan, nakaka drain talaga, what more siya na he had to listen for two hours without seating.
I read na walang manager daw that time, which makes me mad, kasi someone from management should have stepped up and meddled.
242 in the absence of manager naman, meron sigurong OIC or TL who should have controlled the situation.. but then, someone from their team should have stepped up and prevented this server from being "punished" by this entitled member of lgbtqia+ and forever "wannabe" the pronoun he ever wanted.
galing siguro sa amerika. di ba sa amerika may mga ganyan. may nag video pa nga lately kung ilan beses shang na misgendered sa mga resto napupuntahan nya.
actually totoo yan. tas ung mga nag speak up na trans na ok lang tawagin silang sir e mas maganda pa sa kanya at mukhang babae na talaga sila haha mas ok na daw sir kesa naman tawagin na bayot
I'm from Cebu. Apparently, this isn't the first incident of him lecturing people to call him "mam". Workers from the hospitality industry alike have shared the same experience of him berating employees for calling him mam. Look it up on Facebook. Sorry, this whole gender sensitivity sh*t is getting out of hand. Kaya walang respeto sng mga tao didto sa lbtqia-idgaf group nato because of the ridiculous entitlement.
Ankol jude, palihug lang. Bati kay kag nawng SIR! HINAY HINAY
Ang sabi pa ng accla, ine-educate nya daw to call HIM “ma’am.” Educated na po yung waiter dati pa. Yan po natutunan nya sa school. 2 gender, male and female. He did not misgendered you. He addressed you accordingly and appropriately. You’re gender is male, by birth and even after your life. Now, if you want to dress like a woman, act like a woman, you are very much free to do so.
He can say please call me mam tapos! Di b sa Japan nga I’m always mistaken as Japanese but I corrected respectfully “ oh I’m from the Philippines , I am a Filipino. Pabulong yun ha, with a nice smile savay sabi ko arigato goi saimas 👍👏
sobrang OA naman talaga. Hello, nagtatrabaho yang tao, malamang pagod yan at nadulas bibig nya, anu ba naman yung matawag kang Sir, namatay ka ba nung tinawag kang Sir? Wala namang masama dun kasi unang una hindi ka naman totally mukhang babae. Nakakatakot maka encounter ng ganito, masyadong entitled. Nag issue pa talaga ng public apology ang resto, kadiri ang taong to.
Kung yung mga lady boys nga na sini sir pa rin na mas mukhang babae nga d na ooffend, sya pa kaya mukhang bakulaw. Im sorry but chaka sya. He is claiming to be educated and highly accomplished given all the achievements he has, yet why do I still find the waiter more dignified than him? Feeling ko bet nya ang waiter at gusto lang sya patulan sya at na hurt nung d na recognize ang pgkababae nya. LOL I am sure majority of the LGBTQIA community frowns on this cheap spectacle.
Uminom ka ng maraming tubig para mahismasan ka ng konti, kasi matagal tagal ka pa ibabash ng mga tao. Kahit kapwa mo LGBT nanggigil din talaga sayo. Trending talaga sya sa twitter, malala. Hindi nya ba alam na sa ginawa nya pede sya mag viral or sinadya nya talaga.
Sa pagmumukha pa lang ni Jude, Alam na Kung anong klaseng ugali meron. Nagpaliwanag lang di pa nag sorry. Ganyan ka mapagmataas Yan, nasa itchura nga. Baklang pasosyal na galling din naman sa Kanal.
Marami ring against sa parehas nyang ideology. Ke lalaking tao, iibahin ang pronoun. If he thinks he can twist facts, wag nyang isama ang iba na diretso ang pag iisip.
Pls pakisabitan ng pronoun tag ang leeg nyo para alam namin kung paano kayo iaaddress. Kasi kahit nakabihis babae na pero boses kapre naman, mapapa "he" ka pa rin.
Isang higanteng karatula in red. Padalhan yan ng karatulang maisasabit sa leeg. Somebody also sue this abusive so-called educated moral authority. Abusado!
Exactly. Sila pa ung nag sorry jan kay jude in behalf of the waiter. How dare they apologize for the waiter??? E sya nga dapat mag sorry for bullying the wait staff!!
Kahit magtransition ka pa, built mo pa rin lalaki. Innate na tawagin kang sir at nagsorry naman yung staff. Masyadong kayong entitled, mas demanding pa kayo sa tunay na mga babae
Dalawa lang yan he called you Sir kasi alam nyang lalaki ka kahit anong pagpapanggap mong babae ka. Bading ako pero alam kong lalake at babae lang ang nilalang ng Diyos. Kaya dapat lang na iaddress tayo ng tao base sa gender natin at hindi dahil sa sexual preference natin. Matuto tayong maging makatao at huwag ipilit na mag adjust ang mundo para sa mga demands mong walang kapararakan.
Ganito dapat ang mentality. We respect you for your choice, of what you feel inside. However, kung hindi man kayo matawag sa gusto niyong gender, by mistake at hindi naman sinadya, please understand and let it pass. Wag na palakihin. Or say "mam po ako" with a smile. Then the world will be a better place.
The feeling of entitlement on the part of the customer. Nag-apologize na yung server and yet it's not enough? The staff should have called their manager or owner immediately. Kawawa naman yung waiter standing up for two hours just because of an honest mistake (misgendering). This message goes to the customer: Maybe you have not transitioned enough - your voice, demeanor, overall appearance. Feeling mo babaeng-babae ka na sa paningin mo kaya ang taas ng confidence mo sa sarili mo at nasaktan ang ego mo dahil tinawag ka pa rin na sir.
Dapat naglagay siya ng name tag o plakard sa dibdib on how she wants to be addressed kung sa usual na lalaki at babae nga nagkakamali dahil binebase madalas ng tao ang gender ng iba sa haba ng buhok at damit, so dapat maging mas understanding. Sabi nga respect begets respect, you want go be understood, edi intindihin mo din mga tao sa paligid mo. And expect na hindi lahat ng tao mag eefort mag adjust para sayo.
Femme ako at these past few days inaddress ako as maam. I hate it. But no big deal. Lalaki ako may t$t& ako at dahil yun ang nasa pagitan ng legs ko Sir ang tamang tawag sa akin. Kahit magka few key man ako, lalaki pa rin ako kht anong gawin ko at dapat pang na Sir ang itawag sa akin. Huwag entitled. Ano yan mag aadjust ang universe para sa isang taong piniling ibahin ang pananamit nya, preference nya etc?
Yun nga eh, iba iba ang preference ng mga LGBTQIA+, so how can others know what you prefer to be called, diba??? So just ask nicely what you want to be called? No need to educate the whole staff. Their job is to serve your food. Thats it.
Damage control na lang yang apology ni bakla. Hindi naman genuine. And besides, 2 hours nakatayo yung kausap mo, kahit ba hindi ikaw ang nagpatayo, hello, di ka man lang nakaramdam ng discomfort?! And ano ang pag uusapan niyo na kailanganin na abutin ng 2 hours?! Natawag ka lang na sir?!
Kahit ako sa kanya maiinis din ako eh. Yung tinodo na nya effort nya nagpaganda na’t lahat pero mukha parin syang male traffic enforcer na lalaking lalaki sa patingin ni Kuya Server?? Huwag entitled Sir.
Hirap din kasi pumili ng anong itatawag na di sya ma offend...sana sinabi na lang nya ng maayos na gusto nyang i refer sya sa ma'am para next time ganyan itawag ng waiter sa kanya at dahil nag sorry na ang waiter di naman sya na hurt physically mas ok na yung patawarin na lang. Eh di tapos!
Legit question for our trans people out here sa FP. Offensive ba talaga na pag natawag kayong man or sir na opposite na identified gender niyo?
I am a straight woman, pero sa phone lagi akong natatawag na sir kasi ang laki daw ng boses ko at ung name ko pwedeng panlalaki or pambabae (Joelle, pero xempre ung iba Joel ang basa nila dito). Hindi naman ako naooffend, tsaka di ko na kinokorek kasi wapakels naman ako. It was an honest mistake naman.
Or maybe as a straight person, i cannot relate that much sa plight ng mga trans. But i still respect them.
Ako I have a gay friend na kasama ko sa work, tas everytime na tumatawag sya sa phone, parang babae talaga boses nya. Kahit ako minsan akala ko ibang tao kinakausap ko. Pero wala naman sa kanya kung ina-address syang ma’am or sir.
Putik napakaaarte nyo! Ako nga natawag ng sir kahit babae ako pero dedma lang at baka wala na sa wisyo yung tao at pagod. Hindi sa inyo umiikot ang mundo
That specie mentioned that it was the waiter’s choice to stand there for 2 hours. If indeed that was true, I can understand why. Alam mo yung sa sobrang kahihiyan mo, hindi ka na makagalaw. And the moment you move from where you are, parang magko-collapse ka after. So paralyze ka lang until one good soul touch you and ask you what’s wrong.
Magbihis babae k man at mag pugpog ng sankaterbang make up. DNA mo lalaki pa din. Dont rub your insecurities to others dahil never ka magiging gurlalu. Know your place and be happy accepted na kayo sa community nowadays. Rspect na lang ibigay sa bawat isa. Feeling mAtaas ka dahil nakabihis ka at naka bibili ka make up.. at ikaw yun umuorder ng pagkain Put yourself in server shoes.
I am gay but I hate people na abusado and lagpas langit ang sense of entitlement whether they’re straight, gay, trans or whatever the hell pronouns they use. This vile trans person is an example of why the LGTB community has a hard time being treated properly by society 🙄
Salamat sa malawak mong isip. It is hard to understand a community (differing from what we were used to but trying to understand), when this is what we see and hear. Nakaka kulo ng dugo!!! NO ONE is above another ! Thank you din kay mama Ogs!
Gusto tawaging maam eh muka naman lalaki, taz kung lalaki na mukhang maam tatawaging maam maiinsulto rin? Kaloka! Hirap basahin ng mga entitled na ito.
Lahat naman ng tao nagkakamali. Honest mistake naman. Mas magandang tawanan mo na lang kaysa pahirapan. Ikaw rin naman papanget kung papalakihin mo pa ganyan bagay. Masstress ka lalabas mga wrinkles mo!
Commoners like me, hindi alam kung anong pronoun preference mo... so it's your responsibility to correct me POLITELY if I'm not using kung anong gusto mong pronoun.. we will comply naman e, but it's not our responsibility to know, we can only assume. Pasalamat ka nga at tinawag ka pang sir, YES, PASALAMAT KA AT GINAGALANG KA PA.. kahit mukha ka namang angkol. 🙄
Pag naka encounter ang mga empleyado ko ng ganito ipag lalaban ko sila kahit magkaubusan na ng pera sa korte kung kinakailangan kong ihabla ang umapi sa mga empleyado ko ihahabla ko talaga at di ako papayag ng settlement. Sobra na ang ibang miyembro ng lgbtq hindi na tama! Gusto nilang irespeto sila pero wala din silang respeto sa iba. Ok lang sa akin na wala ng lgbtq na tumangkilik ng negosyo ko kung ganyan lang din naman ang gagawin sa mga empleyado ko, anyway marami pa naman straight na tatangkilik sa hanap buhay namin.
dios mio ako nga laging pinipigilan pumasok sa cr ng lalaki pag may janitor or janitress dahil panlalaki daw dun napapangiti nalang ako at sinasabing gay po ako hahaha at sila din tatawa also always mam ang tawag sa akin and i'm ok with that mukha kasi talaga akong babae hahaha kahit boses hahaha anywayssss my point is hindi ko pinupush sarili na i address ako ng certain gender its up to them ke mam or matawag akong sir i dont have any problem with that kasi im confident na sa sarili and i dont need other peoples approval on my happiness or choice... kung anung bet nila itawag keri lang kasi sure ako sa sarili ko. at totoo namang lalaki parin ako bali baligtarin man ang mundo!
Sa hairstyle pa lang nitong si SIR Jude ay alam mo nang very Karen ang paguugali! The mere fact na sinayang niya yung 2 hours ng staff sa pag lecture niya (since he’s in denial na pinatayo niya) is already an unacceptable behavior!!
It would be best for the LGBTQIA+ community to call out this one, as in CALL OUT. This kind is one of the reasons why the community is having a hard time getting acceptance. More on special treatment vs equality. Maybe mas effective if kapwa LGBTQIA+ mismo ang mag-call out kasi pag general population sasabihin na naman dini-discriminate sila. Pagod na rin kami sa mga ganito, andami ng problema dadagdag pa.
Yung dating simpleng He/She, Mr./Ms. ay naging napaka komplikado na ngayon. Sex, Gender, Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, Gender Expression at kung anu-ano pa nakakahilo na. Will it be less offensive kung i-address ka na lang na "tao", yung tipong "tao, ano pa ang order niyo?" "tao, kailangan mo ba ng tulong?"
I know, right? Dito nga sa US, there are those who want to be referred to as "they" or "them" even if it's just one person. Kelan pa naging plural ang isang tao? The world we live in! I can't relate anymore.
Pasalamat ka hindi vindictive yung mga tao sa restaurant sila pa nag adjust sa ugali mo na yan they could have spat on your food or given you water from the toilet. If you struggle to be a good person at least you be smart dapat alam mo na mag ingat especially to people who are preparing and serving you food.
Any lawyer here? Baka pwede kasuhan si 'maam'. Dapat idemanda yang 'sir' ah, este maam na yan for his ah her? mal-treatment of the server. The server deserves some compensation .
I have zero respect sa mga ganyan lgbtq+ Di porke delusional ka sa pagkatao mo eh magpaparusa ka ng taong nagtatarabaho ng maayos. Check your mental health dahil for real ikaw ang may problema.
Sir Jude… that’s why you are in LGBTQ+ community. Travel somewhere and dine in places na very much aware ang mga Tao sa pinaglalaban mo. You are part of the problem why the community still won’t get the respect they deserved.
People like you who shoved their advocacy to other people’s throat and instead of tackling it with dignity and diplomacy, you’d rather do it with utmost rudeness and feel so superior? The LGBTQ+ must be so ashamed of you!. Ayan nag viral ka na. Manahimik ka na Sir!
As a woman, I do not accept him.. we have Karens to be ashamed of. Wag na sya dumagdag KAPAL NG MUKHA.. napaka walang kwenta ng owner ng resto na yan!!!
Na.migendered kayo kasi dahil din naman sa inyo yun. Magpakalalaki nalang kasi kayo. Sundin nyo kung anong pagkatao nyo. Accept it. Hindi yung kami pa ang mag.adjust sa inyo at magdemand pa kayo ng kung ano². Mga katulad nyong feeling entitled ang problema sa mundo. Okay hwag na nating ilahat pero pero nakakainis na ang iba sa kanila. The waiter called you sir, so pasalamat ka may respeto sila sayo.
The Philippines is not 'pronoun' woke country. Pronouns are grammatical elements, not elements of identity. Its the woke American lgbtq types that pushed for this as a means to oppress others by guilting and threatening them as a protected political class. Your entitlement does not give you the right to oppress others. You have no right to do that to the server. Abuse is abuse. Somebody should make an example of him from a legal and social perspective. If all are equal why is this dude 'above' the server?
Sa mga pawoke ng gender identity hype and trend - if you want the world to know how to address you, magsuot ka ng karatula at isulat dun 'Ako ay Maam'. Kung di ka nila tatawahing ganun, sa kanila na yun. What you want others to do for you is not something you can force. Malaking karatula, in big bold letters!
Jude is RUDE! Kudos to the staff who remained composed even being humiliated. Not all customers are right, for you to do that, taking his 2 hours of work, you should be paying his working hour. He should have done a lot of his work for that 2 hours yet you wsted it by lecturing him with your nonsense. You can just tell him, you can call me Mam (even if you look like Sir!) and that's it. Pabida ka masyado SIR!
God, the hypocrisy of these people! What does it say about this guy's character that he relishes in being petty, as well the owners' who didn't intervene and made some pathetic statement after the incident? Is that what this Jude character teaches his students? Even if the use of the word "sir" to address him was meant to insult him (which I believe that the server was only being politically correct), he should have risen above it or at least quietly ask him to call him ma'am. Lumalabas na mas edukado pa yung server instead of this freak.
I'm so proud na sobrang dami ang nagtatanggol sa waiter. Even prouder sa members ng LGBTQ+ who didn't tolerate this pathetic entitled person. So yung owner ng resto friend daw? Kaya may rights sya na maliitin mga workers! I hope some other establishment hires that waiter. I hope maglabasan din yung mga iba pa na ginanyan nya before. Sa ginawa nyang yan, lalo pa sya tatawagin sir or ankol which HE deserves!
“But I get insulted when it comes from a place where there is a lack of respect for what I’ve done, what you see me putting an effort into. Like deliberately calling me sir when you see me in makeup and heels!” She gestures dramatically to her styled hair and ample bosom.“ (from keeta.ph)
Salamat Ogie Diaz for being fair on this one and being outspoken about the wrongdoing of this guy who’s so feeling entitled that he thinks he owns the world. Yes Jude, im addressing you as a ‘he’ , ano gagawin mo, patatayuin mo din ako na parang statwa??? Makakahanap ka din ng katapat mo sa kayabangan mo !!!
The owner of this resto is as disgusting at that Jude guy. They were okay with what that Jude guy did. And truthfully, that Jude looks like a guy. He should wear a big sign on the top of his forehead so people won't call him his correct pronoun.
Eh sa mukha kang sir eh. Sana nag suot ka nang malaking malaking sign na nag-sa-sabi na yung pronoun mo eh She/Her/Ma'am. Nag-ma-liit ka pa nang tao. Sino kaba para tumapak nang tao? Ginanon mo yung tao kase service staff lang siya. But I am 100% certain, you won't say anything if that was someone in a position of power higher than you.
Sana nag intervene yung higher management while this was going on. 2 hours lost that could've been productive work hours. Also for this "Jude" nagkamali na yung tao, nag sorry na. No need to prolong and pahiyain pa yung tao and cause undue stress.
Sir, you are not misgendered! You are sir! You're the one whose not properly addressing yourself by being too demanding to be called by your own preferred pronouns! That was pure entitlement, the poor guy doesn't deserve such harsh treatment, he doesn't wronged you! I dare you educate about those pronouns someone from the rich or same with your status level if they addressed you as "Sir'?! Bet you won't even dare correct them duh!
Dapat di na pinalaki ng Jude kung nagagawa naman ng waiter ng tama yung trabaho niya. Malay ba nun kung Ma’am ang dapat itawag. Kahit ako magkakamali sa pronoun na gagamitin sa kanya kasi lalaki talaga itsura niya.
Dati na edukado ang male waiter, alam niya ang male and female. That goes to say Maam or Sir. Male/ lalaki ka, natural kang tawagin Sir! Powertripping ito eh at sinasabi mo na kilala mo ang mga mayari ng store. Hindi mo trabaho ang mageducate, andiyan ka para kumain di maglecture!
Ako nga babae na mukha at pusong lalaki pag natatawag pa rin na “ma’m” di naman ako nao-offend ng ganyan. There are much better and more humane ways to correct or mention your preference, especially kung di naman sinadya.
Please do not be a disgrace to the community. In general, if we want to be treated fairly and with respect, kailangan ganun din tayo sa iba. It is also better to be kind than to be right, madam!
Most LGBTs gusto nila yung nakapaligid sa kanila yung mag adjust para sa kanila.. masyadong pa importante.. akala nila mas nakaka angat na sa estado compared sa ibang tao
ano ba dapat tawag sau, ma'am? bakit totoong babae ka ba? anong karapatan mo magpatayo ng staff ng ganon? ikaw ba ngpapasahod sa kanila? karma is knocking "BOY"
Anong karapatan nung accla para patayuin ung staff/server? POwer trip? Kung ako dun sa staff hindi ko sya susundin. Hindi ko sya amo, hindi sya nagpappasweldo sken.
Mga entitled naman talaga ang ibang gays at beki na gusto nila automatic tawagin sila na Maam/She/Her. Gusto nila tayo mag adjust kesa sila umakto din sa nararapat. Dahil diyan, ibang tao nalilito kunh sino talaga nag totoong babae or lalaki. Real talk yan!
Ewan ko ba even before pa ng gender sensitivity eklavu na yan Pag beki na nakabihis babae and acts like a woman, she and her talaga gamit ko. Lalo na Pag mabait. Gusto ko lang sila maging masaya and to feel na I recognize them. Pero Pag bitchesa naku kuya, manong at sir talaga itatawag ko sa kanila!
Gets ko sya e. Sure. Nakaka irita nga naman na matawag na something you don't identify with.
HOWEVER, nag kakamali rin naman tayo. Sobrang apak na apak ba ung pagkatao mo dahil sa maling tawag sayo?
Sa management ng restaurant, bat naman umabot sa ganyan? Ni 10 minutes nga di dapat yan nangyari. Di naman yang Jude na yan member ng management nyo, nevertheless nag papa sweldo sa staff nyo.
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Grabe na entitlement ng community kuno ng mga to. Juskooooo!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteKorek. Nkakabwisit yang mga pronoun warriors na yan.
DeleteI live in the same city as this guy Jude and apparently a lot of people are speaking up. Same experience halos sila lahat. Yung isang local host sinabihan na "dugyot na probinsyano" at di raw niya papatulan, something like that
DeletePlease po, wag idamay lahat. Yung mga pawoke lang naman mahikig sa mga ganyan. Lalo na yung mga baklang pawoke sa twitter/X
DeleteTapos SOGIE bill ipapasa? Why, to cut you above the rest? Pare pareho tayong tao. Irrelevant diyan ang gender. I remember kaya di un naisabatas sobrang entitlement ang hinihingi
DeleteHays may relative akong lgbt pero TBH madami talaga entitled sa kanila!
DeleteSaka feleing elite na sila! Meron akong ex na bi inaayawan nila kasi nagkakagusto sa opposite sex. Hays.
DeleteJude, Please remember you are not and will never be a woman. You have chosen a path and you cannot impose on the larger community to adjust to what you want and how you want to be addressed.
DeleteWe did not get degrees just for our pronouns to be messed up.
Don’t you think your so called advocacy is an insult to our intelligence as a bigger community?
It is you who erred not the waiter. Calling you sir was just appropriate.
Ganitong mga klase ng case ang gusto ng RTIA yong nagmamaliit ng kapwa, yong feeling entitled
DeleteDapat mag public apology sya at dun sa waiter apaka OA masyado Ng action na to .
Deleteit won't make you less of a person if they had the wrong pronoun for you.. ini-educate mo kamo yung tao eh mali naman ang tinuturo mo. he/she them/they.. they are just letters.. they don't define you.. how you behave and treat others define you. those letters do not merit you any entitlement nor make you "more".
DeleteI respect everyone but his or her excuses are unacceptable na patayuin mo ang tao ng 2 hours. You ought to apologize and pay the staff for standing for you for two hours for your large ego.
DeleteDi ko ma gets pano nya napatayo ng 2hrs? Ano yun? Bata lang na pina time out mo sa isang corner?
DeleteSAKTO. Gusto lahat ng tao mag adjust para sa kanila.
DeleteMabuti pa si Ogie Diaz… ayaw nila nadidiscriminate kuno pero sila numero unong nagdidiscriminate. Ayaw nilang nabubully pero sila mismo bully. Tagal na tayong pinatatahimik ng community na to. Kpag nagsalita ka sa magaspang nilang ugali kukuyugin ka. Buti na lang may gaya ni Ogie Diaz pati yung tumulong sa waiter na makatao pa din. Hindi maka lgbtq kundi maka tao. Wag natin kalimutan tao tayong lhat ay may karapatan, may boses, may damdamin, at kailangan ng respeto. Powertripping grabeh
DeleteWeeeh lumalabas bigotry mo. Isang tao gumawa, tapos COMMUNITY agad? Asang banda naging lgbtqia community yan? So pag nagnakaw yung politician na straight dapat isisi ko sa community natin? Anong pagiisip yan? She did not represent a group but herself only. The community is expressing their views on her and that she was wrong. Ogie and the person who posted this are part of that community and they're not condoning it at all. Nasan ang entitlement ng community? Hinding hindi and wala at all. She is not the community.
Delete121AM nasad naman ako. Opposite ang experience ko. Mababait sila at down to earth. May taray minsan pero nasa lugar naman. I guess baka Filipino culture natin to na medyo entitled but di naman dahil lgbtqia sila. Yung iba naman mabait. sa lahat may ganyan. Wag lahatin. Thats how discrimination works. Konting mali ng ilan, nilalahat na. Ganyan ka ba sa straight?
DeleteUlli Resto protect your employees wag kampihan ang mali. Boycott ang Resto na to. Yung costumer pwede I sue about human violations walang si manong Jude n gawin yun
Deleteoppurtunity to educate? Sir the waiter is well educated to distinguish what a male and female person is, since there are only two gender keep that in mind SIR Jude. Theres no discrmination happened, the waiter is absolutely right to call you sir. the next time you wanna be addressed as Ma’am make sure you have ovaries and fallopian tubes to support ur claim.
DeleteExpect people to understand you when you dont even accept yourself
ReplyDeleteApakayabang naman ng Baclaso na yan. Ano sya member ng royal family. Sana maka hanap ito ng katapat nya - ewan ko lang kundi ito matauhan.
DeleteThis.
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Delete1256 di na po niya kailangan ng katapat sa ginawa niyang yan lahat na katapat niya.
DeleteNapaka OA nitong taong ito. Pampasira sa LGBTQ community. I don't think lahat ng members ng LGBTQ eh ganito ka feeling entitled. Eh sa mukha kang lalaki pa rin eh. Masyado kang feeling entitled. Ang bait naman nung waiter --- hindi yan uubra sa amin.
ReplyDeleteI feel bad for the waiter. I myself work in the service industry, and yung makipag-usap sa irate customers ng harapan, nakaka drain talaga, what more siya na he had to listen for two hours without seating.
DeleteI read na walang manager daw that time, which makes me mad, kasi someone from management should have stepped up and meddled.
242 in the absence of manager naman, meron sigurong OIC or TL who should have controlled the situation.. but then, someone from their team should have stepped up and prevented this server from being "punished" by this entitled member of lgbtqia+ and forever "wannabe" the pronoun he ever wanted.
DeleteSobrang entitled. Kala mo naman mukhang babae.
DeletePag na ihi sya sir n sir sya 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteTama ka na hindi lahat ng LGBTQ ay ganyan…katulad ni Vice at Ogie. Si Vice nga walang paki kung tawagin siya “sir” or “him.”
Deleterespect begets respect.
ReplyDeleteEh ano naman kung nagkamali na natawag kang sir. Ikakasira ba ng buhay mo yan?
DeleteYes. You do not demand for it, you gain it.
Deletegaling siguro sa amerika. di ba sa amerika may mga ganyan. may nag video pa nga lately kung ilan beses shang na misgendered sa mga resto napupuntahan nya.
DeleteWag daw kase palpadin mga maliliit na bagay na ganyan sabi nya kase mamimihasa. Ay! Kaloka sa attitude.
DeleteNapaka Bruha ng taong yan! Bruha at hindi Bruho , Ok? Masaya ka na?
ReplyDeleteUpset sya kasi mukha pa ron syang lalaki kahit nag effort !
ReplyDeleteactually totoo yan. tas ung mga nag speak up na trans na ok lang tawagin silang sir e mas maganda pa sa kanya at mukhang babae na talaga sila haha mas ok na daw sir kesa naman tawagin na bayot
Deleteon point s Ogie D. d mag aadjust nakapaligid syo dahil binago mo pagkatao mo.. ikaw mag adjust accla
ReplyDeleteTHIS! LOUDER! My love goes out for our LGBTQ people who think and act like Ogie Diaz!
ReplyDeleteBilib ako kay Ogie Diaz. Makatao. Patas.
DeleteI'm from Cebu. Apparently, this isn't the first incident of him lecturing people to call him "mam". Workers from the hospitality industry alike have shared the same experience of him berating employees for calling him mam. Look it up on Facebook. Sorry, this whole gender sensitivity sh*t is getting out of hand. Kaya walang respeto sng mga tao didto sa lbtqia-idgaf group nato because of the ridiculous entitlement.
ReplyDeleteAnkol jude, palihug lang. Bati kay kag nawng SIR! HINAY HINAY
Bati gyud kaayo. Murag kabaw. Mada da ra unta kung buotan. Kaso sing sama ng itsura yung ugali.
DeleteAng sabi pa ng accla, ine-educate nya daw to call HIM “ma’am.”
DeleteEducated na po yung waiter dati pa. Yan po natutunan nya sa school. 2 gender, male and female.
He did not misgendered you. He addressed you accordingly and appropriately. You’re gender is male, by birth and even after your life.
Now, if you want to dress like a woman, act like a woman, you are very much free to do so.
1:39 Yes, they're free to do that but they can't police others when it comes to the truth. Basic biology lang yan eh.
DeleteAng OA naman sana di nalang pinatagal. Hindi big deal. Jusme!!
ReplyDeleteHe can say please call me mam tapos! Di b sa Japan nga I’m always mistaken as Japanese but I corrected respectfully “ oh I’m from the Philippines , I am a Filipino. Pabulong yun ha, with a nice smile savay sabi ko arigato goi saimas 👍👏
Deletesobrang OA naman talaga. Hello, nagtatrabaho yang tao, malamang pagod yan at nadulas bibig nya, anu ba naman yung matawag kang Sir, namatay ka ba nung tinawag kang Sir? Wala namang masama dun kasi unang una hindi ka naman totally mukhang babae. Nakakatakot maka encounter ng ganito, masyadong entitled. Nag issue pa talaga ng public apology ang resto, kadiri ang taong to.
ReplyDeleteButi nga hindi siya tinawag na Pangit. Sobrang pangit ng ugali.
DeleteKung yung mga lady boys nga na sini sir pa rin na mas mukhang babae nga d na ooffend, sya pa kaya mukhang bakulaw. Im sorry but chaka sya. He is claiming to be educated and highly accomplished given all the achievements he has, yet why do I still find the waiter more dignified than him? Feeling ko bet nya ang waiter at gusto lang sya patulan sya at na hurt nung d na recognize ang pgkababae nya. LOL I am sure majority of the LGBTQIA community frowns on this cheap spectacle.
ReplyDeletelol sa Bakulaw! That’s the perfect word to describe Sir!
DeleteKung nag sorry na sya, sana ni let go mo na. Masyado kang feelingera Ate hindi ka naman celebrity o whatsoever.
ReplyDeleteWho exactly is Jude Bacalso? Whoever he is grabe ang sense of entitlement. Respect begets respect.
ReplyDeleteYes. Who is this person?
DeleteFormer lifestyle columnist in Cebu and in the wedding industry, I believe. Restaurater as well.
DeleteUminom ka ng maraming tubig para
ReplyDeletemahismasan ka ng konti, kasi matagal tagal ka pa ibabash ng mga tao. Kahit kapwa mo LGBT nanggigil din talaga sayo. Trending talaga sya sa twitter, malala. Hindi nya ba alam na sa ginawa nya pede sya mag viral or sinadya
nya talaga.
If you see his posts e sya pa ung mayabang. Misunderstood daw sya at tanga ung mga nagja judge agad sa kanya
DeleteEquality or Special Treatment?? Kahit ako na part ng community naguguluhan na din ako..
ReplyDeleteThis!!!
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Delete💯
DeleteSa pagmumukha pa lang ni Jude, Alam na Kung anong klaseng ugali meron. Nagpaliwanag lang di pa nag sorry. Ganyan ka mapagmataas Yan, nasa itchura nga. Baklang pasosyal na galling din naman sa Kanal.
ReplyDeleteTalagang hindi niya nya maintindihan where the hate is coming no? Grabe sobrang entitled!
ReplyDeleteWag pairalin yang ganyan sa Pilipinas,sa ibang bansa yan uso.Get out and live somewhere else!
ReplyDeleteMarami ring against sa parehas nyang ideology. Ke lalaking tao, iibahin ang pronoun. If he thinks he can twist facts, wag nyang isama ang iba na diretso ang pag iisip.
DeletePls pakisabitan ng pronoun tag ang leeg nyo para alam namin kung paano kayo iaaddress. Kasi kahit nakabihis babae na pero boses kapre naman, mapapa "he" ka pa rin.
ReplyDeleteAla na kasing leeg bes lol
Delete2:06 muntik ako mabulunan lol
DeleteIsang higanteng karatula in red. Padalhan yan ng karatulang maisasabit sa leeg. Somebody also sue this abusive so-called educated moral authority. Abusado!
DeleteNakita ko na Yan noon dito sa cebu. Sobrang ingay at feeling sikat na sikat!
ReplyDeleteAnd the statement of the resto just rubbed salt into the wound ng staff.
ReplyDeleteExactly. Sila pa ung nag sorry jan kay jude in behalf of the waiter. How dare they apologize for the waiter??? E sya nga dapat mag sorry for bullying the wait staff!!
DeleteJude is a friend of the owner of the resto kaya lakas ang loob nya na manghihiya sa waiter.
DeleteClose friend daw kasi nung owner yan. No wonder magka ugali
DeleteClose friend ni Jude yung owner and also part of LGBTQ+ community. Kaya wala sya pake sa staff nya ata. Mas pinaboran si sir Jude
DeleteDapat iboycott yang resto na yan, hindi sila marunong mag alaga ng empleyado!
DeleteSo malaman5sa malamang natatanggal pa sa trabaho si waiter. Wow grabe.
DeleteA lot of Cebuanos nagboycott na po sa resto and even gave 1 star review.
DeleteKahit magtransition ka pa, built mo pa rin lalaki. Innate na tawagin kang sir at nagsorry naman yung staff. Masyadong kayong entitled, mas demanding pa kayo sa tunay na mga babae
ReplyDeleteMarami din naka experience sa pagtataray niya pag tinawag siyang sir ng crew or ng staff sa isang event.
ReplyDeleteMay babaeng staff din noon sa isang event na nahimatay sa kakaiyak dahil pinahiya din siya ni Jude. Nagalit dahil natawag siyang sir.
Ah so talagang namamahiya siya ng tao para lang iinsist na babae siya. Well, sana tawagin siya ng lahat na sir hahaha
DeleteTawagin siya sa X at sa IRL na sir para mahighblood na.
DeleteHe should also adjust, not everyone in the community prefers to be addressed by the opposite title.
ReplyDeleteSir at Mam lang ang Ginawa ng Dyos. Period
DeleteDalawa lang yan he called you Sir kasi alam nyang lalaki ka kahit anong pagpapanggap mong babae ka. Bading ako pero alam kong lalake at babae lang ang nilalang ng Diyos. Kaya dapat lang na iaddress tayo ng tao base sa gender natin at hindi dahil sa sexual preference natin. Matuto tayong maging makatao at huwag ipilit na mag adjust ang mundo para sa mga demands mong walang kapararakan.
ReplyDeleteBIG BIG THANK YOU! SANA LAHAT NG KA COMMUNITY MO GANYAN KALAWAK ANG PAG IISIP. LUV U!
DeleteSana lahat ng member ng LGBTQ ay ganito mag isip
DeleteGanito dapat ang mentality. We respect you for your choice, of what you feel inside. However, kung hindi man kayo matawag sa gusto niyong gender, by mistake at hindi naman sinadya, please understand and let it pass. Wag na palakihin. Or say "mam po ako" with a smile. Then the world will be a better place.
DeleteThe feeling of entitlement on the part of the customer. Nag-apologize na yung server and yet it's not enough? The staff should have called their manager or owner immediately. Kawawa naman yung waiter standing up for two hours just because of an honest mistake (misgendering).
ReplyDeleteThis message goes to the customer: Maybe you have not transitioned enough - your voice, demeanor, overall appearance. Feeling mo babaeng-babae ka na sa paningin mo kaya ang taas ng confidence mo sa sarili mo at nasaktan ang ego mo dahil tinawag ka pa rin na sir.
True. Asan na ang manager nito at pinayagang ganyanin ang crew nya? 🙄 Jusko, yung mukha nman tlagang angkol pero nagfeeling maam. 🤣
DeleteKilala daw ng may ari si Sir accla kaya malamang tanggal pa sa trabaho si waiter.
DeleteSo anong gusto mo? Tumigil muna sila sa trabaho at maglelecture ka pa? Luh ang OA mo!
ReplyDeleteThank you Ogie Diaz! Well said👏👏👏👏
ReplyDeleteKudos to Ogie.
DeleteDapat naglagay siya ng name tag o plakard sa dibdib on how she wants to be addressed kung sa usual na lalaki at babae nga nagkakamali dahil binebase madalas ng tao ang gender ng iba sa haba ng buhok at damit, so dapat maging mas understanding. Sabi nga respect begets respect, you want go be understood, edi intindihin mo din mga tao sa paligid mo. And expect na hindi lahat ng tao mag eefort mag adjust para sayo.
ReplyDeleteMa'am, Sir kahit ano pa tawag sayo in address ka naman with respect kaya dapat di ka magalit!
ReplyDeleteKaya maraming bwisit sa community bec of people like this,
ReplyDeleteFemme ako at these past few days inaddress ako as maam. I hate it. But no big deal. Lalaki ako may t$t& ako at dahil yun ang nasa pagitan ng legs ko Sir ang tamang tawag sa akin. Kahit magka few key man ako, lalaki pa rin ako kht anong gawin ko at dapat pang na Sir ang itawag sa akin. Huwag entitled. Ano yan mag aadjust ang universe para sa isang taong piniling ibahin ang pananamit nya, preference nya etc?
ReplyDeleteYun nga eh, iba iba ang preference ng mga LGBTQIA+, so how can others know what you prefer to be called, diba??? So just ask nicely what you want to be called? No need to educate the whole staff. Their job is to serve your food. Thats it.
DeleteDamage control na lang yang apology ni bakla. Hindi naman genuine. And besides, 2 hours nakatayo yung kausap mo, kahit ba hindi ikaw ang nagpatayo, hello, di ka man lang nakaramdam ng discomfort?! And ano ang pag uusapan niyo na kailanganin na abutin ng 2 hours?! Natawag ka lang na sir?!
ReplyDeleteHalata naman na nagpower trip talaga si Jude Bacalso. Daming excuse.
ReplyDeleteKahit ako sa kanya maiinis din ako eh. Yung tinodo na nya effort nya nagpaganda na’t lahat pero mukha parin syang male traffic enforcer na lalaking lalaki sa patingin ni Kuya Server?? Huwag entitled Sir.
ReplyDeleteHirap din kasi pumili ng anong itatawag na di sya ma offend...sana sinabi na lang nya ng maayos na gusto nyang i refer sya sa ma'am para next time ganyan itawag ng waiter sa kanya at dahil nag sorry na ang waiter di naman sya na hurt physically mas ok na yung patawarin na lang. Eh di tapos!
ReplyDeletePwede naman icorrect na sabihin I want to be addressed as Ms/Maam/Madam. Di na dapat pinalaki pa. Ayan nawalan tuloy ng respeto ang public sayo!
ReplyDeleteYou can identify as a woman pero paki ba ng ibang tao kung ang tingin sayo lalaki pa din. Pwede ka nga mag identify as a tree kung gusto mo!
ReplyDeleteLegit question for our trans people out here sa FP. Offensive ba talaga na pag natawag kayong man or sir na opposite na identified gender niyo?
ReplyDeleteI am a straight woman, pero sa phone lagi akong natatawag na sir kasi ang laki daw ng boses ko at ung name ko pwedeng panlalaki or pambabae (Joelle, pero xempre ung iba Joel ang basa nila dito). Hindi naman ako naooffend, tsaka di ko na kinokorek kasi wapakels naman ako. It was an honest mistake naman.
Or maybe as a straight person, i cannot relate that much sa plight ng mga trans. But i still respect them.
Ako I have a gay friend na kasama ko sa work, tas everytime na tumatawag sya sa phone, parang babae talaga boses nya. Kahit ako minsan akala ko ibang tao kinakausap ko. Pero wala naman sa kanya kung ina-address syang ma’am or sir.
DeleteIto dahilan bakit nagegeneralize at nagiging nega ang LGBT community eh.
ReplyDeleteBago mo baguhin ang gender mo, baguhin mo muna ang ugali mo, SIR!
ReplyDeletebuti nga sir ang tawag, hindi bai o kaya boss or manong.
DeleteWala man lang nagawa yung manager ng Ulli's to intervene when the incident happened, ang lamya lamya.
ReplyDeletePutik napakaaarte nyo! Ako nga natawag ng sir kahit babae ako pero dedma lang at baka wala na sa wisyo yung tao at pagod. Hindi sa inyo umiikot ang mundo
ReplyDeleteKaya nga kaloka
DeleteThat specie mentioned that it was the waiter’s choice to stand there for 2 hours. If indeed that was true, I can understand why. Alam mo yung sa sobrang kahihiyan mo, hindi ka na makagalaw. And the moment you move from where you are, parang magko-collapse ka after. So paralyze ka lang until one good soul touch you and ask you what’s wrong.
ReplyDeleteTeacher ba yan? Di yan dapat pinapayagan magturo kung di marunong rumespeto ng ibang tao! Kung ako employer fired na yan! Walang moral!
ReplyDeleteI hope he gets fired para makatikim naman ng konting humility. Grabe the ego and arrogance.
DeleteNasa local TV show Yan ng cebu. Parang mga lifestyle churva. Feelingera kasi talaga eh mukha namang chicharon!
DeleteKung mukha naman talaga sir e. Kahit naka ballgown pa yan, Malay na nung server
ReplyDeleteNext time lagay mo sa noo mo “Madam” pra knows ng tao kung pano ka iaddress
ReplyDeleteFeeling ba niya magkaka kiffy siya pag tinawag siyang Ma'am?!?!
ReplyDeleteMagbihis babae k man at mag pugpog ng sankaterbang make up. DNA mo lalaki pa din. Dont rub your insecurities to others dahil never ka magiging gurlalu. Know your place and be happy accepted na kayo sa community nowadays. Rspect na lang ibigay sa bawat isa.
ReplyDeleteFeeling mAtaas ka dahil nakabihis ka at naka bibili ka make up.. at ikaw yun umuorder ng pagkain
Put yourself in server shoes.
hormones + man's ego.
ReplyDeleteSarap asinan! Ang sama sama na ng ibang tao sa Mundo. Nakapawalang pusong Bakulaw ka!
ReplyDeleteI am gay but I hate people na abusado and lagpas langit ang sense of entitlement whether they’re straight, gay, trans or whatever the hell pronouns they use.
ReplyDeleteThis vile trans person is an example of why the LGTB community has a hard time being treated properly by society 🙄
Salamat sa malawak mong isip. It is hard to understand a community (differing from what we were used to but trying to understand), when this is what we see and hear. Nakaka kulo ng dugo!!! NO ONE is above another ! Thank you din kay mama Ogs!
DeleteSalamat po di ka katulad nyang nakulaw na yan
DeleteGusto tawaging maam eh muka naman lalaki, taz kung lalaki na mukhang maam tatawaging maam maiinsulto rin? Kaloka! Hirap basahin ng mga entitled na ito.
ReplyDeleteLahat naman ng tao nagkakamali. Honest mistake naman. Mas magandang tawanan mo na lang kaysa pahirapan. Ikaw rin naman papanget kung papalakihin mo pa ganyan bagay. Masstress ka lalabas mga wrinkles mo!
ReplyDeleteKung ako yung server, tinawag pa kitang Manong! You don't even deserve the SIR noh. Paka entitled ng mga to!
ReplyDeleteCommoners like me, hindi alam kung anong pronoun preference mo... so it's your responsibility to correct me POLITELY if I'm not using kung anong gusto mong pronoun.. we will comply naman e, but it's not our responsibility to know, we can only assume. Pasalamat ka nga at tinawag ka pang sir, YES, PASALAMAT KA AT GINAGALANG KA PA.. kahit mukha ka namang angkol. 🙄
ReplyDeletePag naka encounter ang mga empleyado ko ng ganito ipag lalaban ko sila kahit magkaubusan na ng pera sa korte kung kinakailangan kong ihabla ang umapi sa mga empleyado ko ihahabla ko talaga at di ako papayag ng settlement. Sobra na ang ibang miyembro ng lgbtq hindi na tama! Gusto nilang irespeto sila pero wala din silang respeto sa iba. Ok lang sa akin na wala ng lgbtq na tumangkilik ng negosyo ko kung ganyan lang din naman ang gagawin sa mga empleyado ko, anyway marami pa naman straight na tatangkilik sa hanap buhay namin.
ReplyDeleteThis!
Deletedios mio ako nga laging pinipigilan pumasok sa cr ng lalaki pag may janitor or janitress dahil panlalaki daw dun napapangiti nalang ako at sinasabing gay po ako hahaha at sila din tatawa also always mam ang tawag sa akin and i'm ok with that mukha kasi talaga akong babae hahaha kahit boses hahaha anywayssss my point is hindi ko pinupush sarili na i address ako ng certain gender its up to them ke mam or matawag akong sir i dont have any problem with that kasi im confident na sa sarili and i dont need other peoples approval on my happiness or choice... kung anung bet nila itawag keri lang kasi sure ako sa sarili ko. at totoo namang lalaki parin ako bali baligtarin man
ReplyDeleteang mundo!
Ganito naman dapat! Ganito rin tito ko! Mabuhay kayo.
DeleteThis!
DeleteSana more of you ganun ang mindset. We will all adjust, eventually. Bare with us and give us time.
DeleteSa hairstyle pa lang nitong si SIR Jude ay alam mo nang very Karen ang paguugali! The mere fact na sinayang niya yung 2 hours ng staff sa pag lecture niya (since he’s in denial na pinatayo niya) is already an unacceptable behavior!!
ReplyDeleteIt would be best for the LGBTQIA+ community to call out this one, as in CALL OUT. This kind is one of the reasons why the community is having a hard time getting acceptance. More on special treatment vs equality. Maybe mas effective if kapwa LGBTQIA+ mismo ang mag-call out kasi pag general population sasabihin na naman dini-discriminate sila. Pagod na rin kami sa mga ganito, andami ng problema dadagdag pa.
ReplyDeleteYung dating simpleng He/She, Mr./Ms. ay naging napaka komplikado na ngayon. Sex, Gender, Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, Gender Expression at kung anu-ano pa nakakahilo na. Will it be less offensive kung i-address ka na lang na "tao", yung tipong "tao, ano pa ang order niyo?" "tao, kailangan mo ba ng tulong?"
ReplyDeleteI know, right? Dito nga sa US, there are those who want to be referred to as "they" or "them" even if it's just one person. Kelan pa naging plural ang isang tao? The world we live in! I can't relate anymore.
DeleteIf you can’t fit in, entitlement won’t help.
ReplyDeleteAs long as a person has not done the gender transformation process, he/she is still who it is when they were born.
ReplyDelete@3:36 You are wrong. No matter what transformation they do, they will still remain the male or female they are when they were born.
DeleteI applaud Ogie Diaz for his comment. Everything he said was true.
ReplyDeletePasalamat ka hindi vindictive yung mga tao sa restaurant sila pa nag adjust sa ugali mo na yan they could have spat on your food or given you water from the toilet. If you struggle to be a good person at least you be smart dapat alam mo na mag ingat especially to people who are preparing and serving you food.
ReplyDeleteAny lawyer here? Baka pwede kasuhan si 'maam'. Dapat idemanda yang 'sir' ah, este maam na yan for his ah her? mal-treatment of the server. The server deserves some compensation .
ReplyDeleteMaam ang gustong itawag pero Jude ang pangalan. hahahah
ReplyDeleteAt pinanganak syang lalaki
DeleteThis MAN identifies himself as a woman and expect everyone to follow his lies.
ReplyDeleteI have zero respect sa mga ganyan lgbtq+ Di porke delusional ka sa pagkatao mo eh magpaparusa ka ng taong nagtatarabaho ng maayos. Check your mental health dahil for real ikaw ang may problema.
ReplyDeleteSir Jude… that’s why you are in LGBTQ+ community. Travel somewhere and dine in places na very much aware ang mga Tao sa pinaglalaban mo. You are part of the problem why the community still won’t get the respect they deserved.
ReplyDeletePeople like you who shoved their advocacy to other people’s throat and instead of tackling it with dignity and diplomacy, you’d rather do it with utmost rudeness and feel so superior? The LGBTQ+ must be so ashamed of you!. Ayan nag viral ka na. Manahimik ka na Sir!
As a woman, I do not accept him.. we have Karens to be ashamed of. Wag na sya dumagdag
ReplyDeleteKAPAL NG MUKHA.. napaka walang kwenta ng owner ng resto na yan!!!
Sana mula ngayon, lahat ng mga servers tawagin syang "sir" para mabwisit sya 🙄
ReplyDeleteNa.migendered kayo kasi dahil din naman sa inyo yun. Magpakalalaki nalang kasi kayo. Sundin nyo kung anong pagkatao nyo. Accept it. Hindi yung kami pa ang mag.adjust sa inyo at magdemand pa kayo ng kung ano². Mga katulad nyong feeling entitled ang problema sa mundo. Okay hwag na nating ilahat pero pero nakakainis na ang iba sa kanila. The waiter called you sir, so pasalamat ka may respeto sila sayo.
ReplyDeleteThe Philippines is not 'pronoun' woke country. Pronouns are grammatical elements, not elements of identity. Its the woke American lgbtq types that pushed for this as a means to oppress others by guilting and threatening them as a protected political class. Your entitlement does not give you the right to oppress others. You have no right to do that to the server. Abuse is abuse. Somebody should make an example of him from a legal and social perspective. If all are equal why is this dude 'above' the server?
ReplyDeleteSa mga pawoke ng gender identity hype and trend - if you want the world to know how to address you, magsuot ka ng karatula at isulat dun 'Ako ay Maam'. Kung di ka nila tatawahing ganun, sa kanila na yun. What you want others to do for you is not something you can force. Malaking karatula, in big bold letters!
ReplyDeleteJude is RUDE! Kudos to the staff who remained composed even being humiliated. Not all customers are right, for you to do that, taking his 2 hours of work, you should be paying his working hour. He should have done a lot of his work for that 2 hours yet you wsted it by lecturing him with your nonsense. You can just tell him, you can call me Mam (even if you look like Sir!) and that's it. Pabida ka masyado SIR!
ReplyDeleteGod, the hypocrisy of these people! What does it say about this guy's character that he relishes in being petty, as well the owners' who didn't intervene and made some pathetic statement after the incident? Is that what this Jude character teaches his students? Even if the use of the word "sir" to address him was meant to insult him (which I believe that the server was only being politically correct), he should have risen above it or at least quietly ask him to call him ma'am. Lumalabas na mas edukado pa yung server instead of this freak.
ReplyDeleteI'm so proud na sobrang dami ang nagtatanggol sa waiter. Even prouder sa members ng LGBTQ+ who didn't tolerate this pathetic entitled person. So yung owner ng resto friend daw? Kaya may rights sya na maliitin mga workers! I hope some other establishment hires that waiter. I hope maglabasan din yung mga iba pa na ginanyan nya before. Sa ginawa nyang yan, lalo pa sya tatawagin sir or ankol which HE deserves!
ReplyDeletePeople hate the truth. Luckily, the truth does not care...
ReplyDelete“But I get insulted when it comes from a place where there is a lack of respect for what I’ve done, what you see me putting an effort into. Like deliberately calling me sir when you see me in makeup and heels!” She gestures dramatically to her styled hair and ample bosom.“ (from keeta.ph)
ReplyDeletejude you are RUDE and CANCELLED! goodbye raket! wala ng kukuha sa iyo!
ReplyDeleteSalamat Ogie Diaz for being fair on this one and being outspoken about the wrongdoing of this guy who’s so feeling entitled that he thinks he owns the world. Yes Jude, im addressing you as a ‘he’ , ano gagawin mo, patatayuin mo din ako na parang statwa??? Makakahanap ka din ng katapat mo sa kayabangan mo !!!
ReplyDeleteThe owner of this resto is as disgusting at that Jude guy. They were okay with what that Jude guy did. And truthfully, that Jude looks like a guy. He should wear a big sign on the top of his forehead so people won't call him his correct pronoun.
ReplyDeleteEh sa mukha kang sir eh. Sana nag suot ka nang malaking malaking sign na nag-sa-sabi na yung pronoun mo eh She/Her/Ma'am. Nag-ma-liit ka pa nang tao. Sino kaba para tumapak nang tao? Ginanon mo yung tao kase service staff lang siya. But I am 100% certain, you won't say anything if that was someone in a position of power higher than you.
ReplyDeletetry nya yan kay Tulfo
DeleteSana mapansin ito ni Sen Riza para masigurong hindi maabuso ng mga gaya nito "entitiled" ang Sogie Bill sakaling masabatas ito
ReplyDeleteTama sabi ko Ogie - pag wala lang keps - Sir ka!
ReplyDeleteSana nag intervene yung higher management while this was going on. 2 hours lost that could've been productive work hours.
ReplyDeleteAlso for this "Jude" nagkamali na yung tao, nag sorry na. No need to prolong and pahiyain pa yung tao and cause undue stress.
Sir, you are not misgendered! You are sir! You're the one whose not properly addressing yourself by being too demanding to be called by your own preferred pronouns! That was pure entitlement, the poor guy doesn't deserve such harsh treatment, he doesn't wronged you! I dare you educate about those pronouns someone from the rich or same with your status level if they addressed you as "Sir'?! Bet you won't even dare correct them duh!
ReplyDeleteDapat di na pinalaki ng Jude kung nagagawa naman ng waiter ng tama yung trabaho niya. Malay ba nun kung Ma’am ang dapat itawag. Kahit ako magkakamali sa pronoun na gagamitin sa kanya kasi lalaki talaga itsura niya.
ReplyDeleteKorek, lalo na kung mas mukang maton sa waiter ang natawag na sir.
DeleteDati na edukado ang male waiter, alam niya ang male and female. That goes to say Maam or Sir. Male/ lalaki ka, natural kang tawagin Sir! Powertripping ito eh at sinasabi mo na kilala mo ang mga mayari ng store. Hindi mo trabaho ang mageducate, andiyan ka para kumain di maglecture!
ReplyDeleteEpal much si Ogie, parang laging sawsaw
ReplyDeleteSo madami maeepal kung sila ay nakikisimpatya. Basher ka lang 2:00 kaya ,mema ka din.
DeleteHe can have a say just like all of us here lalo pa at member siya ng community.
DeleteAko nga babae na mukha at pusong lalaki pag natatawag pa rin na “ma’m” di naman ako nao-offend ng ganyan. There are much better and more humane ways to correct or mention your preference, especially kung di naman sinadya.
ReplyDeletePlease do not be a disgrace to the community. In general, if we want to be treated fairly and with respect, kailangan ganun din tayo sa iba. It is also better to be kind than to be right, madam!
Most LGBTs gusto nila yung nakapaligid sa kanila yung mag adjust para sa kanila.. masyadong pa importante.. akala nila mas nakaka angat na sa estado compared sa ibang tao
ReplyDeleteHindi ko gets ang angst ni accla. Baka pang-50 na ung waiter sa tumawag sa kanyang sir hahahahaah
ReplyDeleteano ba dapat tawag sau, ma'am? bakit totoong babae ka ba? anong karapatan mo magpatayo ng staff ng ganon? ikaw ba ngpapasahod sa kanila? karma is knocking "BOY"
ReplyDeleteAnong karapatan nung accla para patayuin ung staff/server? POwer trip? Kung ako dun sa staff hindi ko sya susundin. Hindi ko sya amo, hindi sya nagpappasweldo sken.
ReplyDeleteMga entitled naman talaga ang ibang gays at beki na gusto nila automatic tawagin sila na Maam/She/Her. Gusto nila tayo mag adjust kesa sila umakto din sa nararapat. Dahil diyan, ibang tao nalilito kunh sino talaga nag totoong babae or lalaki. Real talk yan!
ReplyDeleteButi pa sa Korea walang pronoun,
ReplyDeleteHahaha!
That person should live there.
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ReplyDeleteSana may crowd nga na hahabol sa kanya at hindi sya tatantanan sa kaka sir sir sir sir sir sir sir.
DeleteTo think na mukha naman talaga siyang sir.
ReplyDeleteSo dapat ma'am sir nalang dapat para sure na, mapalalaki o babae para walang gulo.
ReplyDeleteEwan ko ba even before pa ng gender sensitivity eklavu na yan Pag beki na nakabihis babae and acts like a woman, she and her talaga gamit ko. Lalo na Pag mabait. Gusto ko lang sila maging masaya and to feel na I recognize them. Pero Pag bitchesa naku kuya, manong at sir talaga itatawag ko sa kanila!
ReplyDeleteSIR!? Excuse me lang, ha. Kung gusto nyo po matawag ng Miss/Ma’am dapat po hindi mukang Sir. ahahah chour
ReplyDeleteBe thankful the waiter addressed you "Sir" at hindi "hoy" or "psst".
ReplyDeleteManong
DeleteMainit ulo ni kuya sir
ReplyDeleteHindi ka naman galit mama ogs?
ReplyDeleteHindi!!!! 🤣
DeleteHay naku, pag naipasa ang SOGIE bill baka dumami ang entitled like this one. Tsk tsk
ReplyDeleteGets ko sya e. Sure. Nakaka irita nga naman na matawag na something you don't identify with.
ReplyDeleteHOWEVER, nag kakamali rin naman tayo. Sobrang apak na apak ba ung pagkatao mo dahil sa maling tawag sayo?
Sa management ng restaurant, bat naman umabot sa ganyan? Ni 10 minutes nga di dapat yan nangyari. Di naman yang Jude na yan member ng management nyo, nevertheless nag papa sweldo sa staff nyo.
Some people smh....