Monday, June 24, 2024

Tweet Scoop: No Divorce? Criminalize Infidelity as per Janice de Belen


Images courtesy of Instagram/X: Janice de Belen

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    1. For now, magtiis na lang daw muna sa concubinage at VAWC as last resort ng mga legal wife/partner

      Concubinage, as defined under Article 334 of the RPC, is committed by a married husband by (a) keeping a mistress in the conjugal dwelling; (b) having sexual intercourse under scandalous circumstances with a woman who is not his wife; or (c) cohabiting with her in any other place.

      Adultery per se should be criminalized! Agree to that

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    2. Well dati na namang krimen ang pangangalunya, civil case nga lang, but still illegal, pero dami pa rin naman gumagawa, di ba? So how does it matter?

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    3. Pinagsasabi mo 12:01? Krimen tapos civil case. Huh?

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    4. Marital infidelity is psychological violence under VAWC. So it is already a crime Ate Janice.

      Ang kaso, karamihan ng babae nagtitiis na lang dahil mas importante ang financial support ng anak kesa ipakulong ang tatay. Pano magbibigay pera kung nakakulong?

      Kaya iba pa rin ang divorce. Mas madali hatian ng property at child custody.

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    5. eh ang nagccommit ng concubinage nasa matataas na posisyon ng gobyerno kaya wag ng umasang magkakaron tayo ng divorce.. shield lang nila yung "sanctity of marriage" dahil ayaw ng mga politiko na magkaron ng means ang legal wife to obtain half of what they "work" so hard for. 😏

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    6. 12:01 criminal case vs civil case. Sana alam mo difference

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    7. i am for divorce. but criminalize Infidelity? pwede mo naman idemanda ang cheating husband or wife for adultery / concubinage.

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  2. Bwahahaha! Pak na pak, you go mother!

    Tapos may difference pa talaga yung Adultery at Concubinage na kaso eh ano?! Yan tayo e, walang divorce dovorce kuno pero ok lang mangaliwa, ano?! Kapaplastik!

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    1. magkaiba talaga , it applies differently sa men and women

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    2. kriminal naman talaga ang infidelity ah. Concubinage at VAWC (marital infidelity) ang pwede ikaso sa lalake. Adultery naman sa mga babae. ang daling mapakulong ng lalake, hindi na kelangan ng ebidensya na nakikipagsex sya. basta may relasyon sya sa ibang babae at nagdulot ng emotional o psychological damage sa kanyang asawa (ayon sa interpretasyon ng iba, kahit girlfriend lang pwede rin magsampa ng kaso) pwede na kasuhan ng VAWC

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  3. Someone with a brain

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  4. Janice knows what she’s talking about. She’s been there, done that. These lawmakers are mostly men. They do not know personally what it feels like being a wife in a toxic marriage.

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    1. They know how it is. Takot lang sila sa hatian ng properties at spousal support.

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    2. korek ka jan 10:49!

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  5. Yes, kasi sa Pinas kahit siguro may divorce, hindi pa rin magbibigay ng support yung mga hinayupak na nangaliwa.

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    1. the difference is the court can force the parent to provide what is stipulated on the divorce papers else KULONG sya if he/she fail to fulfill that AGREEMENT. di gaya sa annulment, mas strict ang divorce when it comes to the welfare of a child.

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    2. Ang tanong kung walang lag ayan at totoong may implementation.
      Eh kung puro aregluhan tulad ng kadalasan naman eh pano na mga pamilyang iniwan

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  6. Hahaha akala ko ayaw nya ng divorce. True

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    1. san mo naman nakuha yang akala mo sus

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  7. Hindi din , coz what exactly is classified as ‘infidelity’ ? What if a couple decides to separate and move on with their lives ? If they both find new partners ? Wag mo sabihin maghintay na lang til annulment ?

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    1. 9:56 tell that to maggie wilson. and read up on adultery law sa pinas

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    2. Technically, if a couple filed for divorce, they should not start dating or enter a new relationship until the divorce is final, especially if you have children together and fighting for custody.

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    3. 3:43, hindi realistic iyan sa naglalaban sa divorce na umaabot ng 3 years or more dahil ayaw magkasundo sa hatian ng kayamanan at child custody. Applicable iyan sa mabilis na divorce dahil nagkasundo agad ang parehong panig.

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  8. So true. Sobrang backward talaga ng Pilipinas. Pag ang lalaki maraming side chick e ginoglorify pa na kesyo "tunay na lalaki".

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    1. Tindi pa ng hypocrisy at double standard lalo na sa panig ng simbahan.

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  9. Naku! Kulang ang kulungan! 🤣 I love you Janice

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  10. PAAAAAAAAKKKKKK

    I just hope na hindi misogynist or unfair for women ito dahil as we all know, super unfair ng society sa ating kababaihan.

    Picture lang n may kasama kang ibang lalaki, sasabihan ka na ng suepr masasakit na salita. Pero paglalaki, kahit nakabuntis na lahat lahat, super okay pa. Icocongratulate ka pa. Like, "yan ang tunay na lalaki", or "wala eh, lalaki kami eh", etc.

    Jusko

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    1. Eh paano rin yung mga lgbtq na kinakaliwa?
      Kawawa rin sila. Dami jan gf to gf magasawa si gf ng lalaki tapos babalik sa gf
      Meron din mga bakla na may gf pala ang bf
      Db infidelity din yun kawawa din

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  11. Yes, let's criminalize infidelity :) :) :) You will be amazed on how many women gets away with infidelity ;) ;) ;)

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    1. Feeling ko itong si smiley bitter sa mga babae dahil hindi sya nabiyaan ng matres 😉

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    2. 11:36 pansin ko din yan 😂 mukha nga bitter sa babae

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    3. Si Smiley positive lagi ang comments pag mga bagets na sexy starlets ang post dito sa FP. The rest, negative ang comments nya on other topics. Bwisit yan sa mga accomplished independent women.

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  12. Baka may pagasa pang mapasa pa ang divorce Janice kesa macriminalize ang infidelity. 🤣 Maski mambabatas eh maraming salawahan dyan. 🤣

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  13. Parang mas bet ko un!

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  14. Beauty and brainy si Janice..Ganda ng kutis.Mababait sila ni Gelli.Dad was the VP of our ad agency

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  15. Korek si mareng Janice. Tama yan. Ayaw ng divorce? Then criminalize infidelity.

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  16. But you can file adultery and concubinage cases right? Yun lang, you can’t charge the woman and man separately. They have to be charged together.

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    1. Ang alam ko concubinage will only apply if binahay ni lalaki si kabit. While adultery applies to married women with kabit

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  17. Sen. Chiz ayaw pa ng divorce e hiwalay/aanuled dn naman sya sa first wife nya. Mga hypocrite!

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    1. tbf, chiz said he wanted more provisions added on the bill to make it accessible for the poor which is why he voted NO, one example that he cited was to allow PAO to handle divorce.

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    2. Eh di mag-pasa siya ng sarili niyang bill.

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  18. yan dapat. if ayaw pumayag sa divorce then criminalize infidelity. para magdala ang mga makakati.

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  19. Hindi na makakalaya asawa ko. Infinite life time ang hatol sa kanya lol

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  20. Pag kasal pwede mag file ang ng adultery.

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  21. May crime naman talaga na adultery and concubinage, under our current laws. it's just harder to prove guilt sa concubinage since our laws are as old as dinosaurs. but with recent jurisprudence, medyo nagbabago na. but better if gagawin namg equal ng congress

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    1. Meron na nga ba talagang tinamaan ng batas ng adultery and concubinage? Feeling ko kasi sa atin, sali-salita lang 'yan pero wala naman akong tunay na narinig na nahatulan dahil diyan.

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  22. Ang nagpasa ng batas puro babaero :)

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    1. Mas lalong magwawala ang mga Lacoste s gobyerno kasi sila naman ang numero Unong doble doble ang sidechicks

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  23. Sana maging legal na ang divorce sa Pilipinas. Kung patuloy na kokontrahin ito dahil sa religion, sige bigyan nyo na lang kami ng assurance na kapag walang divorce ay may special na treatment at lugar ang Pilipinas sa langit. Magiging santo ba tayo pag walang divorce? May annulment nga eh. Mas mahal at matagal, ang divorce mas mabilis. Bakit ba laging kontra?

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    1. Totoo 'yan. Mula divorce hanggang family planning, di ko na rin maintindihan ang simbahan minsan. Buti sana kung ganyan rin sila ka vocal sa pagkondena sa pagnanakaw at corruption. Kaso hinde naman.

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    2. Dahilan lang ang religion.

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  24. Yes, NO to Divorce and punish those who commit infidelity! That’s the only way to lessen immorality

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    1. Ayaw mo lang makipaghatian sa mga ari-arian at magbigay ng alimony.

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    2. And many would die before they see their child or live in peace with their destined partner or many lives be forever attached to their abusers.

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    3. Firing squad Dapat

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  25. Louder!! Louder!!!

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  26. kundi applicable sa inyo ang Divorce wag nyo ipagdamot sa iba..

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  27. Jusko, eh di andaming kulong! Di magkakasya ang mga yan sa kulungan, kahit pa magsiksikan.

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    1. Nku lahat halos ng politiko kulong

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    2. 80% ng lalaki sa pinas kulong

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  28. The mere thought 🤭

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  29. Susko naman Janice. Move on na te! Tagal tagal na eh

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    1. Parang ang ganitong comment, nasapul dahil nanloloko ng kapwa, kumukuha ng di kanila or worse, nakikiapid sa may asawa. Wala naman akong nakita sa sinabi ni Janice na nagpa conclude na di siya naka move on.

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    2. malamang may firsthand experience si mamsh janice when it comes to an unfaitful husband kaya nya nasabi yan. with what she have endured, women like her should be supported and not be told to "move on" just cause di mo narasan ang narasan nya 1:24. also, wala naman syang sinabing masama about anyone. 🙄😮‍💨

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    3. Move on ka na rin to the 21st century.
      Pang dark ages ang mentality mo eh 😅

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  30. Tayo na lang sa buong mundo ang walang divorce. Pero ang daming may mga kabit at may mga anak sa labas.

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    1. Sinabi mo. As if naman numero uno tayo sa pag sunod sa turo ng Diyos.

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    2. This is what happens when religion controls politics.

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    3. IT has nothing to do with religion. Dahilan lang nila iyan dahil madaling sabihin. Ang totoong dahilan ay dahil takot silang makipaghatian sa mga naipundar na kayamanan at pagbibigay ng spousal at Child support .

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  31. I agree with Janice!

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  32. Naku malabo yan janice kasi sa daming lalaki na may mga kabit at side chicks sa pinas at mga nakaupo pa sa gobyerno, di yan magiging favor sa kanila.

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  33. Daming reasons for divorce. Hindi lang infidelity.

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  34. Yes to divorce pa din! imagine having a criminal unfaithful husband and still being married to him cause there is no divorce??!!! no way!

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    1. Paano kung maging abusado ang mga pinoys sa pagpapakasal tapos gumawa ng script na maghihiwalay din

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    2. 7:56, kaya nga may court hearing ang divorce.

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  35. Super agree! Especially against the husband and the mistress!

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  36. Nakupow ate Janice asa pa! Mga politico nga ang maraming kabit eh paano papasa yan ? lol

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  37. Oo nga. Bakit sa babae, pag may kasong adultery, may kulong. Pag lalake, pag may kasong concubinage, wala kang nababalitaang nakulong.

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  38. gusto ko yan pero buti kung pumayag ang mga senador na gawin batas yan, e sila ang numero unong unfaithful

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  39. Yes to this! The heartbreak of infidelity, nakakabaliw. Imagine kung may anak ka tapos mabaliwbaliw ka sa ginawa ng partner mo. Kahit wala kang anak, napakahirap ng trauma.

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    1. Firing squad Dapat o putulan

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  40. meron naman existing laws against infidelity. eh bakit di ba alam ni janice yun? eh di sana yun ang ikinaso nya dati dun sa ex nya. yun lang, sabi nila mahirap i prove.

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    1. civil case lang kasi sya not a criminal case duh

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    2. 7:43 di mo ba alam yan naging grounds nya s annulment nila? Slow ko ka teh

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    3. 10:06 ikaw ang slow. try reading Ph laws. kung gusto ni janice na i criminalize ang infidelity, eh di sana concubinage ang ikinaso nya sa ex nya. hindi annulment ang ginawa nya, kung gusto nya talaga ng parusa.

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    4. 9:14 duh. under existing Ph laws, krimen ang adultery at concubinage

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  41. Pwede si Janice maging senator mas magaling sya mag isip

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    1. Di ren. parang wala sya masyado alam sa existing Ph laws.

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  42. Di ba pwedeng both? File for divorce and then file for a VAWC?

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  43. Yeah, with proper evidence, dapat pati yung K na proud pa at sya daw ang pinili ay kasamang managot! Kawawa naman kasi yung mga legal wife/hubby na matino naman, pero hindi parin naging sapat ang effort nila dahil sa mga maling taong minahal nila. Kawawa din mga kids.

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  44. Dapat talaga may Divorce law. Mahirap maging single parent at walang habol yung ina pagdating sa child support. Yung ibang tatay buhay binata lang. İsa pa maraming couples naman ang naghiwalay na at may kanya kanya nang partners, kaya wag sabihin ng iba jan na nape-preserve ang sanctity of marriage dito. Yung mga pulitikong humaharang sa bill na yan for sure Maraming binahay na kabit yan. Hay buhay. Kaloka talaga sa pinas!

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  45. ang daming matalino!
    Mukang malabo na maipasa sa senate ang divorce bill, nakakalungkot - paurong talaga

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