It hurts us when we see our loved ones throw away their lives, or walk the wrong path to their destruction. My little brother was like this. Our parents do not know to hurt him, but something was wrong, no matter how we tried as a family to help, intervene, he falls back to the same, to the point of stealing our bank cards, phones, jewelry. Only by sending him to rehab was his many issues addressed. It turned out his GF got pregnant and they both decided to have an a******n pero he felt so guilty, that he m*****red their child. By behaving the way he did, he thought he was paying for it. We also take responsibility for not knowing or giving him the advise and guidance regarding premarital sex. We needed to heal as a family rin, to support him. Its hard.
I have a nephew na ganyan din. Lahat ng attention, love, support binigay naman sa kanya but he is too weak to fight his demons. Twice narehab at ang laki ng nagastos at anguish sa family just so he could straighten his life.
11:04 at 11:34 salamat! Ang hirap at ang sakit. Hurting sila mama at papa, di na alam ang gagawin. May galit din - bakit ganun ang choice ng kapatid namin? Self-blame din - ano ba pagkukulang namin. Ako, ankng klaseng kapatid ako at bakit wala akong alam kung nakatira naman kami together as a family (granted, may weekdays dorm siya). Bakit wala siyang paki sa hurt at paghihirap ng mga kapatid at pamilya niya na makita siya na ganyan? Up to now, still healing pa rin kami. Pero si papa at si mama, they have become more open and are stronger as a couple. Kami naman na mga anak, worried kami pero always willing na mag intervene at gawin ang part namin.
Napaiyak ako sa interview niya..this is what a mothers love is all about. Switching topic, ang ganda ganda talaga ng mukha ni Teresa! Pareho sila ni Bing! Kahit American Western standards pa, standout ang beauty niya!
Ganyan talaga ang nanay na mahal ang anak. At least pumayag si Diego dahil maraming tao ang ayaw at in denial na may problema sila.
ReplyDeleteso honest, i love her
DeleteOk. yan naman po talaga tamang gawin sa mga junakis na naligaw ng landas.
DeleteIt hurts us when we see our loved ones throw away their lives, or walk the wrong path to their destruction. My little brother was like this. Our parents do not know to hurt him, but something was wrong, no matter how we tried as a family to help, intervene, he falls back to the same, to the point of stealing our bank cards, phones, jewelry. Only by sending him to rehab was his many issues addressed. It turned out his GF got pregnant and they both decided to have an a******n pero he felt so guilty, that he m*****red their child. By behaving the way he did, he thought he was paying for it. We also take responsibility for not knowing or giving him the advise and guidance regarding premarital sex. We needed to heal as a family rin, to support him. Its hard.
ReplyDeleteHugs po
Deletehugs!
Deleteprops to you and your parents for being able to acknowledge the problem. most families are too in denial that they fail to help the troubled person.
DeleteI have a nephew na ganyan din. Lahat ng attention, love, support binigay naman sa kanya but he is too weak to fight his demons. Twice narehab at ang laki ng nagastos at anguish sa family just so he could straighten his life.
Delete11:04 at 11:34 salamat! Ang hirap at ang sakit. Hurting sila mama at papa, di na alam ang gagawin. May galit din - bakit ganun ang choice ng kapatid namin? Self-blame din - ano ba pagkukulang namin. Ako, ankng klaseng kapatid ako at bakit wala akong alam kung nakatira naman kami together as a family (granted, may weekdays dorm siya). Bakit wala siyang paki sa hurt at paghihirap ng mga kapatid at pamilya niya na makita siya na ganyan? Up to now, still healing pa rin kami. Pero si papa at si mama, they have become more open and are stronger as a couple. Kami naman na mga anak, worried kami pero always willing na mag intervene at gawin ang part namin.
Delete10:58 I hope healing is on your family's way, especially your brother. Stay strong my friend!
DeleteBless you for standing in the gap for your son 🙏
ReplyDeleteNapaiyak ako sa interview niya..this is what a mothers love is all about. Switching topic, ang ganda ganda talaga ng mukha ni Teresa! Pareho sila ni Bing! Kahit American Western standards pa, standout ang beauty niya!
ReplyDeleteDoes she still act on TV? Pwede nya palitan si Cherie Gil, they look similar. Yung mga yayamanin na role na mataray.
ReplyDeleteNasa mga gma serye ata sya
Deletesabi na may mali sa lalaking to e
ReplyDeleteGood for him lalo na now na tatay na din sya
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