Love how Ellen handles it. She defends JLC at the same time alam din nia not to satisfy chismosa who are somewhat dictating how they should behave (subtle demanding she should post photo with JLC na possible if she did may masasabi pa din mga tao).
11:32 kc they dont owe you or anyone else an explanation. Mga marites na katulad mo dpat nakiki marites na lang hindi yung pala desisyon kayo sa kung anong ipopost nung tao
12:00 that's so backwards. Kids are smart and with the right guidance from all the adults, hindi yan maguguluhan. Swerte nga si kiddo dahil lahat ng involved ay mahal sya at walang bangayan
@12:00 actually, children are resilient. kung na-explain nila sa bata yun, hindi sya maguguluhan. it's just the society ang nagsasabi na dapat mom and dad are together or married. as long as present ang mom and dad sa life ng anak nila, the child will be ok and not naguguluhan.
12:00 Matatalino ang mga bata and you will be amazed at how they can grasp these realities esp when parents and people around them explain things to them and when they are surrounded by love and support.
pinagsasabi mo 12:00 halatang wala ka alam. Lumaki ako dalawa father ko. Pero alam ko kung sino bioligical father at step father ko. Di ako naguguluhan. Kinekwento ng nanay ko bata pa lang ako bat kelangan nila maghiwalay. Happy pa nga ako naghiwalay sila kundi hindi magbabago papa ko. Mema ka.
Na appreciate kita @1:47. Gsto ko na din mkpaghiwalay kaso tinitiis pra sa mga bata maliit pa eh 5yo at 6mos old. Pag laki pa onti ng bunso ko.. co parenting din gsto ko pra di sila affected much. Sna maintindihan nila its for my sanity
1219 malamang ang daming shunga sa thread nato. Nastuck sa mentality na dapat ang magkasama ang nanay at tatay maski araw araw nag aaway at lasenggo pa ang tatay. Hindi ako c 147 pero ganyan ang setup sa bahay namin dati. May nanay at tatay pero minsan gusto mo nlang mawala kasi ang toxic sa bahay. Pati trauma at stress araw arawin mo. 🙄
because they respect each other and love their son dearly… Respect din for both Derek and JL.. their relationship is like Patrick Jen Den and the new wifey of Patrick
11:40 kudos to them both dahil disente sila pareho. Ang hirap kasi if hindi matino or responsable yung ka coparent mo, then how will you trust them with the well being of the child? The fact na chill sila lahat -- Ellen, JLC, Derek-- means they all trust one another to step up.
Kase nagawa na din naman niya lahat ng gusto niya nun. Ginusto niya din magkaanak talaga sabi nga niya kahit wala tatay eh. Kaya responsible talaga siya
i love that Ellen is always on JL's side! she's always defending him tuwing may bashers si JL kasi she knows that JL will not talk or say anything to defend himself. good job Ellen, you proved me so wrong. Elias is one lucky kid to have such a loving, wonderful mom and 2 amazing dads.
Gragraduate at Gragraduate ka talaga sa Party era ano tapos you will become a responsible mom na, like Anne, Solen, Isebel at Ellen and to name a few pa.
Hindi kc bitter si Ellen hindi katulad nung ibang iniiwan or naghiwalay. Mas iniisip nya kapakanan ng anak nya kesa sarili nya hindi latulad nung iba f mga babae na pag naiwan sa socmed ang takbo
That's how it should be done. You enjoy and live life to the fullest in your 20's. Pag 30's medyo mellow na at walang regrets at gusto ng tahimik na buhay. Na enjoy pa nila youth nila. Yung mga restricted sa parents, sila pa yung maaga mabuntis.
Ellen and all those other women you mentioned strike me as very secure with themselves. Alam nila ano direction nila sa buhay so once tapos na ang party girl phase nila, ready na sila for the next chapter. Hindi mo nakikita na trying to relive their 20s and pinapabayaan ang mga anak.
They're all financially secure din, so kahit na ano mangyari, like Ellen's unexpected pregnancy, they know they'll be okay because money is not a problem. Mas mahirap kung wala ka na ngang pera tapos pabaya ka pa sa buhay.
Dapat talaga masompalan yang mga ganyang chismosa sa buhay ng iba hahahahahaha. Nabuhay na ang mga tao na dapat may "proof" para masabi mo na mabuting tao ka
Ganyan talaga pag confident ang babae sa kanyang financial status, personality and physical looks. Hindi nagiging bitter sa buhay. Good vibes lang lagi.
Hindi naman binawalan ni Victor na makita ni Maggie ang anak niya. Bigla na lang nagtago si Maggie dahil sa mga kaso niya na ang pinakamalaki ay ang hinahanap na pera sa business kung saan niya dinala.
It’s 2024. Co-parenting works. Tigilan nyo na ang makikitid na way of thinking. I’m co-parenting with my ex and though it’s not rainbows and butterflies, natuto kaming magsama sa events like graduation and birthdays para sa anak namin. Also, our daughter fully understands the setup kasi nag cocommunicate kami sa kanya.
Sana ganito lahat ng separated / divorced parents. I never expected Ellen to be such a good co-parent. Kudos to her! I hope Maggie Wilson and Victor Consunji can one day be like this.
ano kaya ang masasabi ng mga chismosang pala desisyon tungkol sa isyu na ito? pasok maritess#1!
ReplyDeleteFirst comment ka. So malamang ikaw ang Maritess #1. Comment ka na. Nahiya ka pa
DeleteLove how Ellen handles it. She defends JLC at the same time alam din nia not to satisfy chismosa who are somewhat dictating how they should behave (subtle demanding she should post photo with JLC na possible if she did may masasabi pa din mga tao).
DeleteAlangan naman i post pa ni Ellen si JLC eh di naman na sila. JLC can make his own post of pics during that event.
DeleteBakit sobrang galit? Pinost nila publicly so may magtatanong talaga or mag comment, pwede naman sabihin ng mahinahon.
ReplyDeleteDi nga patanong yung comment eh. Atribida comment lng so cant blame Ellen kung naasar sya.
DeleteMukha bang nagtatanong yung nag comment? Pakibasa at pakiintindi Bhe. Pwede namang i-comprehend mo
Deletemuna bago ka mag comment.
Parang hindi nman patanong ung pagkakasabi nung nag comment
Delete11:32 kc they dont owe you or anyone else an explanation. Mga marites na katulad mo dpat nakiki marites na lang hindi yung pala desisyon kayo sa kung anong ipopost nung tao
DeleteAlanga namang post nya picture nila with JL kasi. Kun gnay pic si JL bahala sya post sa IG nya. Ganon lang kasimple.
Deletedi po nagtatanong ang commenter. paladecision siya. may pa "should"2 pa siyang sinasabi. dapat lang siyang lecture-an.
Delete11:32 nakita mo ba yunh comment? know the difference muna of a question V a statement.
DeletePareho silang mali.
DeleteSi condescending Maritess, prescribing much?
At si Ellen, feeling attacked ate?
When you share publicly, be ready for trolls, judgmental people, and Maritesses. They come with the territory, and you can't please everyone.
lol yung ikaw na intrusive marites pero pag nasoplak ka nanghihingi ng “mahinahon” anteh the entitlement
DeleteHuh?????? I dont even like Ellen pero sa kanya ako this time. Kaloka mga pakiealamera hahahaha alangan naman si JLC ipost nya jan juskolord
DeleteJudgemental kasi yung comment.
DeleteIsa ka pa june 18 11:33 hindi naman tanong yung basher sinasabi talaga magkaiba un😂
DeleteBaka si John Lloyd pa nga ang nag-picture niyan dahil maayos naman ang communication nila para sa anak nila.
ReplyDeleteDi ba naguguluhan minsan ang bata. Her mother is married to someone who's not his father. At such tender and young age, namulat na sa complication
DeleteMaayos nga ang set up nila eh. Mukang happy yung bata kasi di madrama co parenting arrangement ng mom and dad nya.
Delete12:00 - Mukha namang maayos na step dad si Derek and loving si JL. Swerte nga ng kiddo and Ellen to be in a healthy environment actually
Delete12:00, no, dahil nakakasama niya naman pareho ang biological parents niya regularly. Mas marami ngang nagmamahal sa kanya.
Delete12:00 that's so backwards. Kids are smart and with the right guidance from all the adults, hindi yan maguguluhan. Swerte nga si kiddo dahil lahat ng involved ay mahal sya at walang bangayan
Delete@12:00 actually, children are resilient. kung na-explain nila sa bata yun, hindi sya maguguluhan. it's just the society ang nagsasabi na dapat mom and dad are together or married. as long as present ang mom and dad sa life ng anak nila, the child will be ok and not naguguluhan.
Delete12:00 lagot ka kay Ellen, haha.
Delete12:00 Matatalino ang mga bata and you will be amazed at how they can grasp these realities esp when parents and people around them explain things to them and when they are surrounded by love and support.
Deletepinagsasabi mo 12:00 halatang wala ka alam. Lumaki ako dalawa father ko. Pero alam ko kung sino bioligical father at step father ko. Di ako naguguluhan. Kinekwento ng nanay ko bata pa lang ako bat kelangan nila maghiwalay. Happy pa nga ako naghiwalay sila kundi hindi magbabago papa ko. Mema ka.
DeleteNa appreciate kita @1:47. Gsto ko na din mkpaghiwalay kaso tinitiis pra sa mga bata maliit pa eh 5yo at 6mos old. Pag laki pa onti ng bunso ko.. co parenting din gsto ko pra di sila affected much. Sna maintindihan nila its for my sanity
Delete147 apektadong apektado ka. Sino kino convince mo kami o sarili mo. Happy ka pala eh apaka defensive mo. Triggered ka sa tanong
Delete12:19, ikaw ang triggered. Nag share lang naman si 1:47 ng story nya. At hindi ako si 1:47.
Delete1219 malamang ang daming shunga sa thread nato. Nastuck sa mentality na dapat ang magkasama ang nanay at tatay maski araw araw nag aaway at lasenggo pa ang tatay. Hindi ako c 147 pero ganyan ang setup sa bahay namin dati. May nanay at tatay pero minsan gusto mo nlang mawala kasi ang toxic sa bahay. Pati trauma at stress araw arawin mo. 🙄
Deletemas maguguluhan yung bata if hindi magkasundo magulang pero pinipilit magsama
Delete12:00 so ano gusto mo maging setup nila? Sige nga. Wag magsama sa isang bahay si derek at ellen kahit kasal na sila?
DeleteHindi na nag iisip mga basher noh? Hahaha
ReplyDeleteDa! Lagot na si Bisaya!
ReplyDeleteButi maayos sina ellen at john loyd. Walang damutan sa anak di tulad ng ibang celebrities. Hindi madrama sa buhay itong si ellen.
ReplyDeletei concur
Deletebecause they respect each other and love their son dearly… Respect din for both Derek and JL.. their relationship is like Patrick Jen Den and the new wifey of Patrick
Delete11:40 kudos to them both dahil disente sila pareho. Ang hirap kasi if hindi matino or responsable yung ka coparent mo, then how will you trust them with the well being of the child? The fact na chill sila lahat -- Ellen, JLC, Derek-- means they all trust one another to step up.
DeleteNo offense meant kay Ellen. Pero akala ko talaga, magiging pabayang ina sya. Im so wrong pala. She is such a good mother.
ReplyDeleteJudgemental ka kase
DeleteNagwalwal sya during her younger years mas ok nga yun nalabas nya lahat kesa Naman saka nagka edad dun nag walwal mas chaka yun
DeleteThat's why we should never judge a person can't change because of a dark past
DeleteKase nagawa na din naman niya lahat ng gusto niya nun. Ginusto niya din magkaanak talaga sabi nga niya kahit wala tatay eh. Kaya responsible talaga siya
DeleteAng gwapings ni Elias.
ReplyDeleteEllen is reallya glowing and pretty.
ReplyDeletei love that Ellen is always on JL's side! she's always defending him tuwing may bashers si JL kasi she knows that JL will not talk or say anything to defend himself. good job Ellen, you proved me so wrong. Elias is one lucky kid to have such a loving, wonderful mom and 2 amazing dads.
ReplyDeleteSiyempre tatay ng anak niya iyon, at maayos naman sila.
DeleteDahil hindi pabayang ama si John LLoyd. Yun lang yun!
DeleteNung una hindi rin sila maayos. Meron pa nga restraining order dati para kay JL. Both of them nag-mature talaga for Elias.
Deletehands down kay ellen par ipagtanggol si JLC. nice to know they are coparenting well and that JLC is not a deadbeat dad
ReplyDeleteGragraduate at Gragraduate ka talaga sa Party era ano tapos you will become a responsible mom na, like Anne, Solen, Isebel at Ellen and to name a few pa.
ReplyDeleteEarly 20s pa lang naman sila noong time na iyon.
DeleteTingin ko mas responsible adults ang mga nakaexperience ng freedom during their younger years.
DeleteWala yan sa ganyan, 1:15. nasa tao talaga yan.
DeleteHindi kc bitter si Ellen hindi katulad nung ibang iniiwan or naghiwalay. Mas iniisip nya kapakanan ng anak nya kesa sarili nya hindi latulad nung iba f mga babae na pag naiwan sa socmed ang takbo
Delete1:15 hindi lahat, my sister is still pariwara
DeleteThat's how it should be done. You enjoy and live life to the fullest in your 20's. Pag 30's medyo mellow na at walang regrets at gusto ng tahimik na buhay. Na enjoy pa nila youth nila. Yung mga restricted sa parents, sila pa yung maaga mabuntis.
DeleteEllen and all those other women you mentioned strike me as very secure with themselves. Alam nila ano direction nila sa buhay so once tapos na ang party girl phase nila, ready na sila for the next chapter. Hindi mo nakikita na trying to relive their 20s and pinapabayaan ang mga anak.
DeleteThey're all financially secure din, so kahit na ano mangyari, like Ellen's unexpected pregnancy, they know they'll be okay because money is not a problem. Mas mahirap kung wala ka na ngang pera tapos pabaya ka pa sa buhay.
3:08 Ibig sabihin lang, hindi pa nag-mature ate mo. Marami pa siyang bagay na gustong gawin at hindi kasama doon ang anak o asawa.
DeleteDapat talaga masompalan yang mga ganyang chismosa sa buhay ng iba hahahahahaha. Nabuhay na ang mga tao na dapat may "proof" para masabi mo na mabuting tao ka
ReplyDeleteGanyan talaga pag confident ang babae sa kanyang financial status, personality and physical looks. Hindi nagiging bitter sa buhay. Good vibes lang lagi.
ReplyDeleteI really admire Ellen & JL. Grabe sobrang toxic nina Victor Consunji & Maggie Wilson!
ReplyDeleteHuwag ka ng mandamay ng ibang parents. Magkakaibang circumstances nila at magkakaibang tao sila.
DeleteIsama mo na din si Pokie at ex na pina-deport niya!
DeleteKorek! Victor Consunji & Pokwa are the most toxic and selfish. Kawawa mga kids.
DeleteHindi naman binawalan ni Victor na makita ni Maggie ang anak niya. Bigla na lang nagtago si Maggie dahil sa mga kaso niya na ang pinakamalaki ay ang hinahanap na pera sa business kung saan niya dinala.
DeleteThat true. Victor won't even let Maggie communicate with their son via internet. Mother and son haven't talked in over a year.
DeleteNaawa din ako kay maggie. Makikita mo talaga yung totoong kulay ng tao kung pano nya itrato ang nanay ng anak nya
DeleteTrina, take note. Ganito sana set up nyo ni Carlo.
ReplyDeleteMag rereach out ba si Carlo kung sakali?
DeleteCarlo take note, effort naman diyan. Lol
DeleteDba nga si T ang may ayaw ipahiram yung bata
DeleteIt’s 2024. Co-parenting works. Tigilan nyo na ang makikitid na way of thinking. I’m co-parenting with my ex and though it’s not rainbows and butterflies, natuto kaming magsama sa events like graduation and birthdays para sa anak namin. Also, our daughter fully understands the setup kasi nag cocommunicate kami sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteayan nakahanap ng katapat ang mga pakialamerang chismosa. kayo, on a scale of 1 to cristy, anong level ang pagka pakialamerang chismosa nyo?
ReplyDeleteAng eepal ng pinoy netizens.. Nakakahiya na maging pinoy.
ReplyDelete11:12 Dinamay mo pa nationality. Nakakahiya maging ganyang tao. Period.
Delete2:53 preach!
DeleteSana ganito si Trina. Di bitter
ReplyDeleteSana umaattend din si carlo diba
DeleteSa mga pakialamerong NEGAtizens, magtanong kayo ng maayos. Makikitid kasi utak nyo
ReplyDeleteSana ganito lahat ng separated / divorced parents. I never expected Ellen to be such a good co-parent. Kudos to her! I hope Maggie Wilson and Victor Consunji can one day be like this.
ReplyDeleteIt will never happen. There has been too much damage caused between Maggie & Victor
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