Millenial here, and this is so True! Sa amin nga oa na minsan, mas lalong OA ngayon! Everything is offensive now, and parents are disposable items sa kanila.
I agree with you. Maybe because of the fact that they got used to the new technology right now, so maybe it is a factor on why they're sensitive, di rin sila sanay sa pagod, kasi yung mindset nila is, may gagawa na nun for them eh, so bakit pa namin gagawin? Therefore, making them sensitive, kasi hindi na sila nagiging physically active, kaya mas nagiisip sila, instead of taking action.. tumatalino nga sila, physically, humihina naman
Teh no no. I was trying so much di ma offend. I just think oh baka he or she didn’t mean what she said. So what happened I treated my boss same way, I allowed her to say anything to me with benefit of the doubt yun pala people in the office even the old ones were bothered why I keep allowing the abuse. Now, someone complained her. Minsan may advantages rin na ganyan sila. Some people kasi don’t knw their boundaries.
7 years ago napansin ko na to noon hiring company namin. Grabe reklamador ilang buwan pa lang “i dont think ill grow here.” “Ang toxic ng meeting, im mentally drained.” Sure walang trabahong di nakaka stress pero yung tipong 5-6 months resign na. Na issue pa noon kung company ba problema at mabilis umalis mga fresh grads. Years later may study na mabilis nga talaga ma burn out generation nila
This generation is inconsiderate and disrespectful. It's very rare na you can see kids who are really well mannered. Even with simple things iba na talaga.
@11:24 I guess palala na ng palala. @11:27pm. Buti sana if bantay sarado yan ng parents 24/7, konting common sense.. nowadays ang daming factors, mas kasama pa ng bata ang soc meds kesa parents. I’m a millenial pero I know mas malaki ang outside influence ngayon.
It really depends sa nakasanayan ng bata, it's more of what they see at home than what is told them. Kung nakikita na nilang bastos ang parents nila, kahit anong sabi sa kanilang "gawin mo to ha", useless din yun, kasi sa isip nila, sasabihin nila "eh ginagawa rin naman yun ni papa dati eh, bakit hindi ko pwedeng gawin?"
2:11 outside influence ng peers na mga gen X at millenials din ang parents. Pinalaki mga bata sa harap ng ipad, ginawan ng social media kahit sobrang bata dahil di kayang tyagaing alagaan at disiplinahin tapos magugulat kayong lumalaking walang manners, vain ar selfish ang mga bata.
No, you can't blame lahat sa parents. I guess it's also the Influence of social media. Lack of values and GMRC education sa schools. Iba na ang environment ngayon. I agree, kids Lack empathy nowadays.
"its because of the social media" lol isinisi sa iba. paano hindi magiging ganyan yan elementary pa lang minsan nga 2 yrs old pa lang binibilhan na ng sariling gadgets makapag payabang lang na kaya nilang bilhan ng magarbo yung mga anak nila. aminin...
Ay may girl at guy friends na unang naiisip pagdating dito. Yung tarnished reputation at arrogance na yun will always follow them especially her, can't see her the same anymore.
1214, gen z, right? Can’t take the statement at face-value so you deflected by doing a personal attack at the one who posted. Proving the message is right, isn’t it?
1:04 totoo naman huh. sana nag reflect muna bago magpaka ipokrita kasi nawawalan ng credibility. paano ka nga naman seseryosohin kung ikaw mismo wala nun. ano to pa goody goody lang? eme eme ganun?
Kulang na sa GMRC mga bata ngayon. Makaranas lang ng konteng hirap umaalma na agad. Kagagawan din yan ng mga ibang magulang yan. Sobra nilang iniispoil.
Truth. BUT they also have good traits we can learn from. The bad ones we can guide them into unlearning. Their ability to set boundaries and say NO is something other generations can learn from. This is where Gen X and Millenials are weak at - causing these generations to be full of anxiety for swamped tasks and responsibilities they have on their plates. Gen Z knows how to strike that balance perhaps because that's how we raised them to be. We forgot to teach them that values such as 'respect' and 'utang na loob' can take them a long long way in life.
This! I mentioned it above. I have a boss who doesn’t know boundaries and always anxious not in good mood every morning and will say anything she wants. We need to set boundaries.
Guys stop blaming the kids. Blame the parents who allowed this culture to exist in their homes. It is the neglect, the reliance on gadgets, the lack of quality time. Kids fundamentally need attention, discipline and validation. If they don’t get it from home, they will seek it elsewhere. They will turn to the internet who then teaches them to be ungrateful and entitled.
Hindi mo mababantayan anak mo 24 hours. Marami bata now na iba ang ugali sa bahay at iba sa labas. Lalo mo isstrict bata lalo magrerebelde and hindi naman lahat completo and family. At mostly hindi by choice. Maraming bata talaga ngayon bastos. Like babanggain ang isang obvious naman senior citizen tapos sya pag galit o magtutulogtulogan sya jeep para hindi magpasa ng bayad.
it's the socmed. i posted something about this sa reddit and ended up getting downvoted by gen Zs hahahah socmed plus the hunger to be on the same level of freedom sa mga western. mga overly sensitive and di mo ma pagsabihan kasi feeling nila lahat karapatan nila lol this is actually my fear as a parent cos I feel like mas malakas talaga ang influence ng external forces these days
This mejo totoo, andami kasing pacool na millenials. Yung mga pamangkin ko gen z din naman, pero hindi sila katulad nung sinasabi sa internet. Marunong magbilang ng spanish, marunong ng cursive, magalang sa nakakatanda. Hindi palasagot. Marespeto. Nasa pagpapalaki pa din yan
Hindi kailangang 24/7 bantayan to be able to instill in them proper values. Kasama na rin sa good parenting yung pagpili ng magandang environment para sa mga anak niyo. Ang daming parents kasi iniiwan lang sa harap ng ipad ang mga anak kaya puro negative influence talaga nakukuha. Nagtaka pa kayo. Lazy parenting lead to this.
I hope the statement will not only look at the problem on the current generation, but will make people think the reason WHY. The surge of social media did not only change gen z. I’ve seen parents who compromised the values and boundaries they learned from their parents. Common reasons? Iba na raw ang mga kabataan ngayon, or it’s already 2024 (or whatever year it is)! Try observing outside or in restaurants. Families who eat out are on their phones more often than not, instead of having conversations. At home, do you still talk during meal time or still busy with your phones? How will this generation learn proper communication verbally as well as expressing their emotions, understanding other people’s reactions and feelings, when they spend more time communicating with their phones because we just don’t talk to them? I hope the message of the post will not be lost by targeting only the current generation. - From a Gen X Parent
True. My moms a boomer tas laging nagrereklamo the grandkids (they're gen alpha na actually) are always on their phones pero sya rin panay cellphone. When I leave my 2 y/o with her cellphone din ibibigay nya.
i desl with this problem with my daughter every single day. sobrang disobedient, tapos sumasagot lagi gaslighting me. glued on tiktok, tapos puro dark yung content
This applies to every generation though. A boomer would have viewed Gen X being like this when Gen X were younger. When the Millenials came, the Gen X were saying the same except that the boomers and Gen Xs viewed them as worse. And now we have the Gen Zs, and we still say the same except that now they are being branded as the worst.
Though I somewhat agree to this we also have to realize that there are lots of boomers and millennials who are very tactless. A lot of them thinks it’s ok to invade boundaries. A lot of boomers and millennials grew up in a harsh abusive environment that they deemed as normal. No they were not normal. So, stop treating other people like your trauma.
I admire gen z for being vocal and sticking up for others and calling out injustices. But hindi naman fair talaga mundo and I do hope there are some things that they can accept and maging resilient. Yan yung fear ko for my kid. She's technically notnhen z na but ayoko syang maging weak at palaging may mental health crisis.
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DeleteParang barbie si Coleen super ganda at talino pa
DeleteMga bata ngayon masyadong snowflakes, konting issue affected agad at daming drama.
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DeleteTrueeeee! Ako noon ang problema ko lang kung paano tipirin ang load ng prepaid card sa loob ng isang buwan
DeleteAgree with this. This gen z are weaklings. And too sensitive for life.
DeleteMillenial here, and this is so True! Sa amin nga oa na minsan, mas lalong OA ngayon! Everything is offensive now, and parents are disposable items sa kanila.
DeleteThe boomers/ gen x raised the millenials/gen z, so that's on the previous generation how kids nowadays turned out the way they did.
DeleteTrue .Kahit sa work, the entitlement reeks everywhere.Victim mentality over ownership and accountability.Sumobra sa pagka- woke .
Delete2:19 or it could also be because of the influence of their peers and social media.
DeleteI agree with you. Maybe because of the fact that they got used to the new technology right now, so maybe it is a factor on why they're sensitive, di rin sila sanay sa pagod, kasi yung mindset nila is, may gagawa na nun for them eh, so bakit pa namin gagawin? Therefore, making them sensitive, kasi hindi na sila nagiging physically active, kaya mas nagiisip sila, instead of taking action.. tumatalino nga sila, physically, humihina naman
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Deletesiguro kasi nauso rin yong "my child, my rules" ng parents? Makanti lang ng konti ang mga anak eh kung kani kanino na nagrereklamo.
DeleteAndaming ipinaglalaban masyado ng kabataan ngayon. Kaumay
DeleteTeh no no. I was trying so much di ma offend. I just think oh baka he or she didn’t mean what she said. So what happened I treated my boss same way, I allowed her to say anything to me with benefit of the doubt yun pala people in the office even the old ones were bothered why I keep allowing the abuse. Now, someone complained her. Minsan may advantages rin na ganyan sila. Some people kasi don’t knw their boundaries.
Delete2:19 I don't agree with you. Generation nowadays are imfluenced with what they see and hear on social media. Gaya gaya pa sa ibang lahi. FACT yan!
Delete7 years ago napansin ko na to noon hiring company namin. Grabe reklamador ilang buwan pa lang “i dont think ill grow here.” “Ang toxic ng meeting, im mentally drained.” Sure walang trabahong di nakaka stress pero yung tipong 5-6 months resign na. Na issue pa noon kung company ba problema at mabilis umalis mga fresh grads. Years later may study na mabilis nga talaga ma burn out generation nila
Delete2-29 agree! wala na rin patience mga kabataan ngayon, ayaw magsimula sa mababa. Feeling high and mighty na talaga
Delete2:29 sometimes company naman talaga ang may problema. 6 months lang ako sa first company ko pero 5 years na ako sa 2nd (present) company ko.
DeleteThis generation is inconsiderate and disrespectful. It's very rare na you can see kids who are really well mannered. Even with simple things iba na talaga.
ReplyDeleteironic kasi older generation claim the same sa younger ones. Nung bata kayo ganun sabi nung matatanda
DeleteSaan ba sila nagmula at sino ang nagdisiplina sa kanila? Di ba tayo rin na feeling perfect ang generation natin.
Delete@11:24 I guess palala na ng palala. @11:27pm. Buti sana if bantay sarado yan ng parents 24/7, konting common sense.. nowadays ang daming factors, mas kasama pa ng bata ang soc meds kesa parents. I’m a millenial pero I know mas malaki ang outside influence ngayon.
DeleteIt really depends sa nakasanayan ng bata, it's more of what they see at home than what is told them. Kung nakikita na nilang bastos ang parents nila, kahit anong sabi sa kanilang "gawin mo to ha", useless din yun, kasi sa isip nila, sasabihin nila "eh ginagawa rin naman yun ni papa dati eh, bakit hindi ko pwedeng gawin?"
Delete2:11 common sense din. Kung nagabayan mo yan ng tama, hindi papa-influence yan kahit anong gawin ng iba.
Delete2:11 good example ng mga old generations na kasalanan ng lahat maliban sa kanila. Mayroon at mayroon masisisi huwag lang ang sarili.
Delete2:11 outside influence ng peers na mga gen X at millenials din ang parents. Pinalaki mga bata sa harap ng ipad, ginawan ng social media kahit sobrang bata dahil di kayang tyagaing alagaan at disiplinahin tapos magugulat kayong lumalaking walang manners, vain ar selfish ang mga bata.
DeleteNo, you can't blame lahat sa parents. I guess it's also the Influence of social media. Lack of values and GMRC education sa schools. Iba na ang environment ngayon. I agree, kids Lack empathy nowadays.
Delete11:24 yes! Ganyan lagi sinasabi ko kapag may nagcocomplain sa younger generations. lagi may reklamo sa mga nakababata.
DeleteIts because of the internet. Ang dali mainganya mamanipula mangopya hndi ko nmn nilalahat haha baka may maiyak dine pxenxa
Delete"its because of the social media" lol isinisi sa iba. paano hindi magiging ganyan yan elementary pa lang minsan nga 2 yrs old pa lang binibilhan na ng sariling gadgets makapag payabang lang na kaya nilang bilhan ng magarbo yung mga anak nila. aminin...
DeleteAy may girl at guy friends na unang naiisip pagdating dito. Yung tarnished reputation at arrogance na yun will always follow them especially her, can't see her the same anymore.
ReplyDeleteWow... that first pix is lit :D :D :D Didn't even noticed the message ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDelete10:43 the true penoy doing penoy things
DeleteWe created them, sadly.
ReplyDeleteKakaawaan ang sarili at ipopost sa tiktok
ReplyDeleteAnnoying naman talaga Gen Z. Mashado silang entitled and sensitive sa lahat. The real world is harsh and cruel. Face it! Stop complaining
ReplyDeleteI used to think same way but then I realized na no way I will allow people to be cruel and harsh on me. Do not put your trauma on me.
DeleteNow that’s a very genz reaction @2:00pm. You cannot control everything. Else, magpaka ermitanyo ka.
DeleteNewgens do not know how to apologize. As if kabawasan ng pagkatao nila.
ReplyDeleteComing from someone who had a share of doing things that can affect others negatively. Naging accountable ba sya dun
ReplyDeleteSus totoo naman yung nirepost ni Coleen about today’s generation! Masyado kayong maraming opinion mas madalas wala na sa lugar
Delete1214, gen z, right? Can’t take the statement at face-value so you deflected by doing a personal attack at the one who posted. Proving the message is right, isn’t it?
Delete1:04 totoo naman huh. sana nag reflect muna bago magpaka ipokrita kasi nawawalan ng credibility. paano ka nga naman seseryosohin kung ikaw mismo wala nun. ano to pa goody goody lang? eme eme ganun?
DeleteSasabihin pa ng nga mga new generations na guilt trip sila based on this post.
ReplyDeleteTama!
ReplyDeleteEntitled sila! Un lang un!
ReplyDeleteKulang na sa GMRC mga bata ngayon. Makaranas lang ng konteng hirap umaalma na agad. Kagagawan din yan ng mga ibang magulang yan. Sobra nilang iniispoil.
ReplyDeleteThis generation is the worst generation! Madyadong mga pa-cool pero mga balat sibuyas! Lahat ginagawang issue!
ReplyDeleteTruth. BUT they also have good traits we can learn from. The bad ones we can guide them into unlearning. Their ability to set boundaries and say NO is something other generations can learn from. This is where Gen X and Millenials are weak at - causing these generations to be full of anxiety for swamped tasks and responsibilities they have on their plates. Gen Z knows how to strike that balance perhaps because that's how we raised them to be. We forgot to teach them that values such as 'respect' and 'utang na loob' can take them a long long way in life.
ReplyDeleteThis! I mentioned it above. I have a boss who doesn’t know boundaries and always anxious not in good mood every morning and will say anything she wants. We need to set boundaries.
DeleteGuys stop blaming the kids. Blame the parents who allowed this culture to exist in their homes. It is the neglect, the reliance on gadgets, the lack of quality time. Kids fundamentally need attention, discipline and validation. If they don’t get it from home, they will seek it elsewhere. They will turn to the internet who then teaches them to be ungrateful and entitled.
ReplyDeleteHindi mo mababantayan anak mo 24 hours. Marami bata now na iba ang ugali sa bahay at iba sa labas. Lalo mo isstrict bata lalo magrerebelde and hindi naman lahat completo and family. At mostly hindi by choice. Maraming bata talaga ngayon bastos. Like babanggain ang isang obvious naman senior citizen tapos sya pag galit o magtutulogtulogan sya jeep para hindi magpasa ng bayad.
Deleteit's the socmed. i posted something about this sa reddit and ended up getting downvoted by gen Zs hahahah socmed plus the hunger to be on the same level of freedom sa mga western. mga overly sensitive and di mo ma pagsabihan kasi feeling nila lahat karapatan nila lol this is actually my fear as a parent cos I feel like mas malakas talaga ang influence ng external forces these days
DeleteThis mejo totoo, andami kasing pacool na millenials. Yung mga pamangkin ko gen z din naman, pero hindi sila katulad nung sinasabi sa internet. Marunong magbilang ng spanish, marunong ng cursive, magalang sa nakakatanda. Hindi palasagot. Marespeto. Nasa pagpapalaki pa din yan
DeleteWow. Swerte mo naman if 24 7 you can look after them. Panu naman those who are working.
DeleteHindi kailangang 24/7 bantayan to be able to instill in them proper values. Kasama na rin sa good parenting yung pagpili ng magandang environment para sa mga anak niyo. Ang daming parents kasi iniiwan lang sa harap ng ipad ang mga anak kaya puro negative influence talaga nakukuha. Nagtaka pa kayo. Lazy parenting lead to this.
DeleteI hope the statement will not only look at the problem on the current generation, but will make people think the reason WHY. The surge of social media did not only change gen z. I’ve seen parents who compromised the values and boundaries they learned from their parents. Common reasons? Iba na raw ang mga kabataan ngayon, or it’s already 2024 (or whatever year it is)! Try observing outside or in restaurants. Families who eat out are on their phones more often than not, instead of having conversations. At home, do you still talk during meal time or still busy with your phones? How will this generation learn proper communication verbally as well as expressing their emotions, understanding other people’s reactions and feelings, when they spend more time communicating with their phones because we just don’t talk to them? I hope the message of the post will not be lost by targeting only the current generation. - From a Gen X Parent
ReplyDeleteTrue. My moms a boomer tas laging nagrereklamo the grandkids (they're gen alpha na actually) are always on their phones pero sya rin panay cellphone. When I leave my 2 y/o with her cellphone din ibibigay nya.
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ReplyDeleteAyaw nilang patalo haha tas pag wala ng mairebutt sasabihan ka ng boomer lol
ReplyDeletei desl with this problem with my daughter every single day. sobrang disobedient, tapos sumasagot lagi gaslighting me. glued on tiktok, tapos puro dark yung content
ReplyDeleteBakit mo kasi binigyan ng access sa tiktok
DeleteThis applies to every generation though. A boomer would have viewed Gen X being like this when Gen X were younger. When the Millenials came, the Gen X were saying the same except that the boomers and Gen Xs viewed them as worse. And now we have the Gen Zs, and we still say the same except that now they are being branded as the worst.
ReplyDeleteDami talagang drama ng new gen ngayon. Matatawa ka na lang sa mga pinoproblema nila akala mo end of the world na.
ReplyDeleteThough I somewhat agree to this we also have to realize that there are lots of boomers and millennials who are very tactless. A lot of them thinks it’s ok to invade boundaries. A lot of boomers and millennials grew up in a harsh abusive environment that they deemed as normal. No they were not normal. So, stop treating other people like your trauma.
ReplyDeleteI admire gen z for being vocal and sticking up for others and calling out injustices. But hindi naman fair talaga mundo and I do hope there are some things that they can accept and maging resilient.
ReplyDeleteYan yung fear ko for my kid. She's technically notnhen z na but ayoko syang maging weak at palaging may mental health crisis.