I dont know the circumstances but sana bawas sa negativity, stress. Kung baga we're preparing our body to hold a life so dapat paghandaan by being healthy in body, mind and spirit.
What happens to her is what always happens to me. Lagi nawawalan ng heartbeat. I admire her courage. I had it twice, she had it four times, grabe yun sakit.
naiinis ako na lagi akong tinatanong kelan ako ikakasal. ngayon yung nasa isip ko is baby na lang since parang malabo akong makahanap ng matinong lalake
10:45 Kawawa ang bata kasi di complete ang parents BY choice. Understandable kung may namatayan ng asawa or nakipaghiwalay, pero yung talagang wala dahil lang sa gusto mo magbaby? May studies about sa emotional impact ng incomplete set of parents
Anon 10:08 I was recently diagnosed with stage 1 ovarian cancer so I had a full hysterectomy. I grieved because I don’t know if I made the right decision of not having kids. I understand you.
12:09 I prefer to remain child-free but if 10:45 wants to have a baby, who am I to discourage her? While it's not impossible naman talaga for children to experience emotional setbacks if they don't grow up with a set of parents, malay ba natin if 10:45 will find someone who can serve as a father to her child or if may ibang tao sa buhay nya who can act as the paternal figure. At marami din namang well-adjusted people na walang 2 magulang.
Pero 10:45, kung di mo kakayanin alagaan, turuan maging mabuting tao o balak mo gawing retirement fund ang baby mo then wag na nga lang hehe
Anon 12:09 Are you expecting 10:45 to just settle for any man para lang magkaron ng complete set of parents yun future baby? What if she's more than capable of providing for the child on her own kaya ganun statement niya?
12:09 it's not about having a "complete" set of parents. It's about the love you surround your kid(s) with. Single mom ko (early passing ng dad), but I never felt "incomplete" gaya ng sinabi mo.
12:09 ano ka ba so mas peg mo ha "buo" na family kahit na dysfunctional? You'd think na a person wants to have a baby kasi they will love the child. Ewan ko ano ang point ng magbaby lang just because
12:09 you don’t need a complete family to raise a child. Im a single mom and my brothers are there to complete the gap of not having a father. They go to all his football and basketball games. They were the one who taught him how to ride his bike. My child has never looked for his father. He is a happy teenager.
12:09 It’s how you raise your kids kahit di complete. Ang dami ngang complete dyan wla naman kwenta ang ama. Mas may emotional trauma pa iyong mga bata na lumaki sa toxic family kysa lumaki sa tahimik na buhay at loving single parent.
@everyone, Nuances and your specific experiences don't override scientific researches and studies. Saka how sure kayo totally na walang issues mga batang ganyan lumaki? Those manifest in different things. Even a child with two sets of parents grow up with issues kahit mukhang healthy ang family, how much more pa kaya yung mga lumaki sa single parent households?
However, again, I said "BY" choice. Yung gusto mo lang mag-aanak kasi you're feeling lonely just to subject a child to that kasi wala kang mahanap na marunong lalake.
1:44 Kindly re-read my statement. 2024 na may comprehension issues pa rin. "BY" choice. You all care so much about your feelings but not about other people.
Hindi ko kinakampihan si 1209 or I disagree with single parents here. But I noticed that the comments were more on how the single parents feel. I think it would be good to include in our reflection on the feelings and impact on kids raised by single parents, coz ultimately, it’s about them and not us parents.
12:09 You unintentionally offended some single moms. Yung ibang single mom, they chose to be a single mom and broke up with the father of their child because that's the best her and for the child. Kesa makitang binubugbog siya ng partner niya.
12:09 Ano bang title, sino bang author, at kailan pinublish ang reference wherein you read the studies that you were telling? Kung magsheshare ka about studies, wag mong i-share if sa internet mo lang nabasa. Alam mo naman ang internet.
I'm a single mom of a 14 year old BY CHOICE and I'm not offended by 12:09. Akala ko mas madali yung mabuntis ka lang kahit wala ang tatay kasi isa lang ang responsibilidad at iisipin mo. Bilang magulang, kakayanin. Pero nakakalimutan natin kung ano yung impact sa bata. I wasn't aware na my child's classmates were actually teasing him for not having a dad. Literal na akala nila walang tatay ang anak ko because I never discussed the identity of the father dahil nong nabuntis ako, nakipaghiwalay ako due to physical abuse. Bilang magulang kasi iniisip lang natin yung mga kakayanin natin para sa mga anak natin. Nakakalimutan natin na may isa pang tao na apektado sa mga desisyon natin. More often than not, hindi tayo aware na may emotional effect ito sa bata.
1226 402 i think ibig sabihin is to CONCEIVE alone by choice. bale it doesnt encompass cases na humiwalay after nagconceive na kasi talaga naman things happen and minsan maghihiwalay. pero yung gagawin ng selifsh parents yan di naisip yung bata saka kung gusto niya bang umpisa pa lang isa lang parent niya while iba dalawa? parang ano yun laruan na pag gusto mo gagawin mo? mga taong iniisip sarili lang o yung gusto nila CLEARLY are not meant to be parents. when youre a parent sa sobrang huli ka sa lahat, isusuka mo yung laging huli ka na youll want moments kumain ka lang magisa just to for once get to enjoy a meal without having to give up your food or your time. ang nakakatawa diyan maski sinusuka mo as a parent, ikaw pa rin ang kusang gustong magbigay at maglagay sa sarili mo na dehado at puros sakripisyo because you love the child so much it is worth it.
402 So sorry that's your situation. But then again, hindi literal na complete nuclear family ang need ng mga bata. Ang daming batang successful na naging kontento na sa nanay lang nila, lolo at lola. Nasa sa iyo yan papaano mo ieexplain sa bata.
12:09 My husband was raised by a single mom and he turned out to be good and successful in life. Lahat tayo ibat iba ang kulang sa buhay pero it’s up to the person if you are going to look at the glass half empty or half full.
But she is too busy to carry a child. Kung gusto talaga mag anak focus muna sana dun. Priorities. We canr deny stress, age, not having enough sleep is a factor. Sana so her part din. Iba ang saya pag may anak talaga, i hope she will still have soon.
Agree... Alam naman nya na mahirap siya mag buntis dapat complete bed rest.. Alam ko na yan agad advice ng doctor esp on the first trimester as I know from friends' and family members' experiences and nagkaka baby naman
While I understand her grieving, I see your point. I was in her situation 2 years ago. I had 2 jobs, and we were TTC for almost a year with no luck. That’s when I finally decided to take a break from work and focus on my own health and well being. I learned to prioritize my physical health and manage stress. 2 months after, we successfully conceived our rainbow baby.
As someone who had to undergo infertility treatments for 8 years, I can attest to what 10:09 said. Even the specialists themselves advised me about keeping stress at low levels and hinahabol din yung age. I had to quit my job at one point and really prioritize yung treatments. That's the only time I conceived and succesfully given birth.
Yung mga hirap magbuntis sadly, most Really have to sacrifice and stop working… bawal din lakad lakad but bed rest 90-100%…… and iwas stress because malaking factor na maka-affect negatively
11:01 sure, maraming nagwowork kahit pregnant and goodfor them but for those na gustong magbuntis o sensitivr ang pregnancy, doctors often, if not always advise na umiwas sa stress at pagod.
2:12 dear you and heart are completely different in terms of money. she isnt even carrying herself, they got a surrogate. she didnt ask anyone for any of your unsolicited advice. edi ikaw na magaling dahil nabuntis. kaloka ka
Medyo salbahe ka rin ano, 11:56? Nag share lang si 2:12 ng experience, based sa sinabi ni 10:09, and yet nahanapan mo pa rin ng masama. Nowhere did she mention na pareho sila ni Heart or anyone in particular. Actually, ikaw ang full of apathy.
11:56, privy ka sa financial circumstances ni 2:12? Malamang may kaya siya to afford years of treatment. Ang mahal niyan ah! I tried din pero di ko matuloy tuloy because of the expense. Tsaka di naman si Heart pinapatungkol niya kungdi in general. Sa mga may balak magbuntis. Unsolicited advice to you, improve your reading comprehension.
I feel your pain, Heart. Ang hirap, ang sakit ng di magkaanak kahit gustong gusto. Yung isang bagay na normal na nangyayari sa napakaraming babae sa mundo, pero for us seems unattainable is parang unfair. Be kind, people. This is a heartbreaking experience for women in the same situation. For me, after several failed pregnancies, the opportunity to adopt came up unexpectedly. I love being a Mom to this child now.
THIS. I always say how unfair it is how people who don’t want to have kids or are not ready for them are the ones that so easily get pregnant. While the ones who badly want children have it so hard and have to go through soooo many hardships. Hay, i feel for Heart especially during Mother’s day.
Napakahirap. I cannot even put into words. Andali sa iba pero sobrang suntok sa buwan para sa akin. Hindi ka makakaget over sa loneliness, you just have to live with it
Sinabi niyo pa. I had 2 miscarriages, ang sakit sakit sa puso. Mapapaisip ka nga talaga, bakit nga ba yung iba ang dali lang nila magkaanak. Now, I am at the point in my life na ayaw ko na magtry. I am almost 40 na.siguro 1 lang talaga ang binigay ni God sa amin.
You can’t have everything in life siguro di pa maibibigay s kanya. Humanly possible kelangan nya ng emotionally, menatally and physically rest kung gusto nya magkaaanak
Yung iba hindi naintindihan may surrogate po sila iba nagcarry ng baby parang kay paris hilton. Heart can take ivf again or baka may nakafreeze pa silang eggs. God will bless them in His time.
tingin ko IVF but the "baby" was nasa tube pa rin kasi early stages pa lang.. malamang hinihintay na maging stable but unfortunately, di umabot sa stage na yun. In heart's letter, sinabi niya na ready siya - i guess, pinaghahandaan niya talaga yung gagawin na paglipat sa kanya ng "baby'. I hope, in God's perfect time, ibigay sa kanila ang baby na matagal na nilang pangarap
Mag take a break muna si heart sa career nya then bigla sya mawawala ng ilang months tapos bigla na lang sya manggulat pak nag post buntis na sya I can imagine it happening in God's tine
maybe their genes are not compatible for her to carry the baby to term or her body isn't conducive to conceiving because of her current lifestyle and eating habits. there could be numerous physical, mental, emotional and medical reasons that none of us know of but if nothing seems to work then she should let her body rest and think about having others carry the baby for her. it wouldn't make her less of a mother if she went through that route.. or maybe just lift it all up to Him.. but it's her life, her body, her decision
Hugs to you Heart! Ako I had one miscarriage last 2017. But up until now pag nakakarinig ako ng ganitong story, i can still feel the pain. Naiiyak pa rin ako. Less than 2 months lang sya at ganon lang bigla lang nawala. And because of that, natakot na ko. That's my first and I tell myself na ok lang kahit wala ng anak. Ayoko lang maramdaman ulit yung same pain. Sana dumating din ang para sayo Heart :)
Haaaay. Nasa iyo na ang lahat, fame, money, maganda buhay pero alam mo yun may mga ganito nangyayari no? Naging mabait ka naman, naging Mabuti ka tao , ma papa question ka talaga minsan “baket anu ba nagawa ko masama ?Hangang minsan nawawalhan kana ng pag asa at tiwala sa diyos kasi nakakapagod
Actually may chance siya if surrogate pero not legal yata sa atin. pero if surrogate may chance bec baka yung body niya attacks the baby thinking it is a foreign body not recognizing it. pag masyadong malakas immune response ganyan eh.
There are treatments for APAS. I have APAS too. I miscarried tapos the second time I got pregnant, my OB had me tested for APAS so I can get treated asap. Mag 1 yr old na baby ko.
My heart totally breaks for Heart. I can almost feel her pain. I know how painful it is as I have also miscarried 2x. But don't lose hope because in God's perfect time He will grant your wishes. God granted mine in my late 30's. Will be praying for you and all the struggling mama's out there💗.
@12:09 complete set of parents doesn't guarantee happy childhood. I raised my daughter alone. But I made sure she has all the love of a complete parents. She grew up to be a responsible, God fearing and goal oriented person. And I am proud to say she is now an Engineer, Civil Engineer.
I agree with you. Lumaki rin ako walang tatay. Pero never ko naramdaman na may kulang kasi yung pamilya ko, buhos pagmamahal sa akin. Lumaki ako ng maayos, may disiplina at mapagmahal din.
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I dont know the circumstances but sana bawas sa negativity, stress. Kung baga we're preparing our body to hold a life so dapat paghandaan by being healthy in body, mind and spirit.
ReplyDeleteang busy nya din kasi, ang daming ganap nya sa life
DeleteYou don't know the circumstances and yet you're quick to judge.
DeleteAnd pano mo nalaman na hindi sya prepared at sya ba ang nag carry?
DeleteWhat happens to her is what always happens to me. Lagi nawawalan ng heartbeat. I admire her courage. I had it twice, she had it four times, grabe yun sakit.
DeleteHindi naman sya yung nag carry
DeleteYou don't know the circumstances nga db? Lol
DeleteKahit hindi sya ang nagcarry pero sa kanya galing and she’s all stressed out so syempre affected yun eggs nya
DeleteNot the same pero at 36 years of age, I miss the children I fear I will not have.
ReplyDeletenaiinis ako na lagi akong tinatanong kelan ako ikakasal. ngayon yung nasa isip ko is baby na lang since parang malabo akong makahanap ng matinong lalake
Deleteim afraid i already lost mine 😔
Delete10:45 Kawawa ang bata kasi di complete ang parents BY choice. Understandable kung may namatayan ng asawa or nakipaghiwalay, pero yung talagang wala dahil lang sa gusto mo magbaby? May studies about sa emotional impact ng incomplete set of parents
DeleteAnon 10:08 I was recently diagnosed with stage 1 ovarian cancer so I had a full hysterectomy. I grieved because I don’t know if I made the right decision of not having kids. I understand you.
Delete12:09 paladesisyon ka po
Delete12:09 I prefer to remain child-free but if 10:45 wants to have a baby, who am I to discourage her? While it's not impossible naman talaga for children to experience emotional setbacks if they don't grow up with a set of parents, malay ba natin if 10:45 will find someone who can serve as a father to her child or if may ibang tao sa buhay nya who can act as the paternal figure. At marami din namang well-adjusted people na walang 2 magulang.
DeletePero 10:45, kung di mo kakayanin alagaan, turuan maging mabuting tao o balak mo gawing retirement fund ang baby mo then wag na nga lang hehe
Anon 12:09 Are you expecting 10:45 to just settle for any man para lang magkaron ng complete set of parents yun future baby? What if she's more than capable of providing for the child on her own kaya ganun statement niya?
Delete12:09 it's not about having a "complete" set of parents. It's about the love you surround your kid(s) with. Single mom ko (early passing ng dad), but I never felt "incomplete" gaya ng sinabi mo.
Delete12:09 ano ka ba so mas peg mo ha "buo" na family kahit na dysfunctional? You'd think na a person wants to have a baby kasi they will love the child. Ewan ko ano ang point ng magbaby lang just because
Delete12:09 you don’t need a complete family to raise a child. Im a single mom and my brothers are there to complete the gap of not having a father. They go to all his football and basketball games. They were the one who taught him how to ride his bike. My child has never looked for his father. He is a happy teenager.
Delete12:09 It’s how you raise your kids kahit di complete. Ang dami ngang complete dyan wla naman kwenta ang ama. Mas may emotional trauma pa iyong mga bata na lumaki sa toxic family kysa lumaki sa tahimik na buhay at loving single parent.
DeleteI hope more people consider adoption.
Delete@everyone, Nuances and your specific experiences don't override scientific researches and studies. Saka how sure kayo totally na walang issues mga batang ganyan lumaki? Those manifest in different things. Even a child with two sets of parents grow up with issues kahit mukhang healthy ang family, how much more pa kaya yung mga lumaki sa single parent households?
DeleteHowever, again, I said "BY" choice. Yung gusto mo lang mag-aanak kasi you're feeling lonely just to subject a child to that kasi wala kang mahanap na marunong lalake.
1:44 Kindly re-read my statement. 2024 na may comprehension issues pa rin. "BY" choice. You all care so much about your feelings but not about other people.
Delete10:45 Children aren't the cure to loneliness OR what society demands of you.
DeleteHindi ko kinakampihan si 1209 or I disagree with single parents here. But I noticed that the comments were more on how the single parents feel. I think it would be good to include in our reflection on the feelings and impact on kids raised by single parents, coz ultimately, it’s about them and not us parents.
Delete12:09 You unintentionally offended some single moms. Yung ibang single mom, they chose to be a single mom and broke up with the father of their child because that's the best her and for the child. Kesa makitang binubugbog siya ng partner niya.
Delete12:09 Ano bang title, sino bang author, at kailan pinublish ang reference wherein you read the studies that you were telling? Kung magsheshare ka about studies, wag mong i-share if sa internet mo lang nabasa. Alam mo naman ang internet.
DeleteI'm a single mom of a 14 year old BY CHOICE and I'm not offended by 12:09. Akala ko mas madali yung mabuntis ka lang kahit wala ang tatay kasi isa lang ang responsibilidad at iisipin mo. Bilang magulang, kakayanin. Pero nakakalimutan natin kung ano yung impact sa bata. I wasn't aware na my child's classmates were actually teasing him for not having a dad. Literal na akala nila walang tatay ang anak ko because I never discussed the identity of the father dahil nong nabuntis ako, nakipaghiwalay ako due to physical abuse.
DeleteBilang magulang kasi iniisip lang natin yung mga kakayanin natin para sa mga anak natin. Nakakalimutan natin na may isa pang tao na apektado sa mga desisyon natin. More often than not, hindi tayo aware na may emotional effect ito sa bata.
1226 402 i think ibig sabihin is to CONCEIVE alone by choice. bale it doesnt encompass cases na humiwalay after nagconceive na kasi talaga naman things happen and minsan maghihiwalay. pero yung gagawin ng selifsh parents yan di naisip yung bata saka kung gusto niya bang umpisa pa lang isa lang parent niya while iba dalawa? parang ano yun laruan na pag gusto mo gagawin mo? mga taong iniisip sarili lang o yung gusto nila CLEARLY are not meant to be parents. when youre a parent sa sobrang huli ka sa lahat, isusuka mo yung laging huli ka na youll want moments kumain ka lang magisa just to for once get to enjoy a meal without having to give up your food or your time. ang nakakatawa diyan maski sinusuka mo as a parent, ikaw pa rin ang kusang gustong magbigay at maglagay sa sarili mo na dehado at puros sakripisyo because you love the child so much it is worth it.
Delete402 So sorry that's your situation. But then again, hindi literal na complete nuclear family ang need ng mga bata. Ang daming batang successful na naging kontento na sa nanay lang nila, lolo at lola. Nasa sa iyo yan papaano mo ieexplain sa bata.
Delete12:09 My husband was raised by a single mom and he turned out to be good and successful in life. Lahat tayo ibat iba ang kulang sa buhay pero it’s up to the person if you are going to look at the glass half empty or half full.
DeleteBut she is too busy to carry a child. Kung gusto talaga mag anak focus muna sana dun. Priorities. We canr deny stress, age, not having enough sleep is a factor. Sana so her part din. Iba ang saya pag may anak talaga, i hope she will still have soon.
ReplyDeleteSurrogate cla bax.
Deleteparang totoo to may mga ka work ako before na ung mga asawa nila panggabi di sila nagkaka anak then nung pandemic, aba nag buntis
DeleteHow did you you know she was carrying?
DeleteWho are to know and say what her priorities are and should be. And hello, daming nagwowork kahit pregnant noh.
DeleteAgree... Alam naman nya na mahirap siya mag buntis dapat complete bed rest.. Alam ko na yan agad advice ng doctor esp on the first trimester as I know from friends' and family members' experiences and nagkaka baby naman
DeleteThis!. If she knows naman madali siya mag miscarriage sana di muna sya masyado magwork. As in bed rest muna. Sana sa next baby niya magpahinga muna.
DeleteWhile I understand her grieving, I see your point. I was in her situation 2 years ago. I had 2 jobs, and we were TTC for almost a year with no luck. That’s when I finally decided to take a break from work and focus on my own health and well being. I learned to prioritize my physical health and manage stress. 2 months after, we successfully conceived our rainbow baby.
DeleteFrom the looks of it, they tried surrogacy this time around. Sad lang the baby didn't make it.
Delete1101 iba iba ang tao, ang slow mo naman. Meron nga mga sensitive nagbubuntis at kelangan bed rest di ba?
DeleteAs someone who had to undergo infertility treatments for 8 years, I can attest to what 10:09 said. Even the specialists themselves advised me about keeping stress at low levels and hinahabol din yung age. I had to quit my job at one point and really prioritize yung treatments. That's the only time I conceived and succesfully given birth.
DeleteYung mga hirap magbuntis sadly, most
DeleteReally have to sacrifice and stop working… bawal din lakad lakad but bed rest 90-100%…… and iwas stress because malaking factor na maka-affect negatively
11:01 sure, maraming nagwowork kahit pregnant and goodfor them but for those na gustong magbuntis o sensitivr ang pregnancy, doctors often, if not always advise na umiwas sa stress at pagod.
Delete2:12 dear you and heart are completely different in terms of money. she isnt even carrying herself, they got a surrogate. she didnt ask anyone for any of your unsolicited advice. edi ikaw na magaling dahil nabuntis. kaloka ka
DeleteMedyo salbahe ka rin ano, 11:56? Nag share lang si 2:12 ng experience, based sa sinabi ni 10:09, and yet nahanapan mo pa rin ng masama. Nowhere did she mention na pareho sila ni Heart or anyone in particular. Actually, ikaw ang full of apathy.
Delete-not 11:56, obviously.
11:56, privy ka sa financial circumstances ni 2:12? Malamang may kaya siya to afford years of treatment. Ang mahal niyan ah! I tried din pero di ko matuloy tuloy because of the expense. Tsaka di naman si Heart pinapatungkol niya kungdi in general. Sa mga may balak magbuntis. Unsolicited advice to you, improve your reading comprehension.
DeleteI feel your pain, Heart. Ang hirap, ang sakit ng di magkaanak kahit gustong gusto. Yung isang bagay na normal na nangyayari sa napakaraming babae sa mundo, pero for us seems unattainable
ReplyDeleteis parang unfair. Be kind, people. This is a heartbreaking experience for women in the same situation. For me, after several failed pregnancies, the opportunity to adopt came up unexpectedly. I love being a Mom to this child now.
THIS. I always say how unfair it is how people who don’t want to have kids or are not ready for them are the ones that so easily get pregnant. While the ones who badly want children have it so hard and have to go through soooo many hardships. Hay, i feel for Heart especially during Mother’s day.
DeleteNapakahirap. I cannot even put into words. Andali sa iba pero sobrang suntok sa buwan para sa akin. Hindi ka makakaget over sa loneliness, you just have to live with it
DeleteOur 14 year old is also adopted. We got her when she was only 4 hours old. Best decision that my husband and I ever made.
DeleteSinabi niyo pa. I had 2 miscarriages, ang sakit sakit sa puso. Mapapaisip ka nga talaga, bakit nga ba yung iba ang dali lang nila magkaanak. Now, I am at the point in my life na ayaw ko na magtry. I am almost 40 na.siguro 1 lang talaga ang binigay ni God sa amin.
DeleteYou can’t have everything in life siguro di pa maibibigay s kanya. Humanly possible kelangan nya ng emotionally, menatally and physically rest kung gusto nya magkaaanak
ReplyDeleteHow did u know she didn't do any of that?
Delete12:18 heart herself told the world via her social media kung ano ang buhay niya nitong past months.
Delete12:18 tama!
DeleteYung iba hindi naintindihan may surrogate po sila iba nagcarry ng baby parang kay paris hilton. Heart can take ivf again or baka may nakafreeze pa silang eggs. God will bless them in His time.
ReplyDeleteSo hinde naging successful ? Iba ang nag carry ng anak niya? Ang alam ko naman naka ivf siya
Delete12:15 ivf talaga pag may surrogate. Sa ibang babae lang iimplant yung embryo.
DeleteSan evidence ??
Deletetingin ko IVF but the "baby" was nasa tube pa rin kasi early stages pa lang.. malamang hinihintay na maging stable but unfortunately, di umabot sa stage na yun. In heart's letter, sinabi niya na ready siya - i guess, pinaghahandaan niya talaga yung gagawin na paglipat sa kanya ng "baby'. I hope, in God's perfect time, ibigay sa kanila ang baby na matagal na nilang pangarap
Delete8:31 Pag naka freeze pa yung embryo wala pang heartbeat. Pag 6 weeks at pregnancy na maririnig ang heatbeat.
DeleteI wish you healing and peace. May mga bagay na kahit anong paghahanda eh hindi talaga sa iyo nakatadhana.
ReplyDeletePokwang , asunta de Rossi nagka anak super late na din, kung ibibigay you will defy all odds
ReplyDeleteNot yet the time for her
Maybe it's time for surrogacy
ReplyDeleteDennis and jen almost did it
Mag take a break muna si heart sa career nya then bigla sya mawawala ng ilang months tapos bigla na lang sya manggulat pak nag post buntis na sya
ReplyDeleteI can imagine it happening in God's tine
maybe their genes are not compatible for her to carry the baby to term or her body isn't conducive to conceiving because of her current lifestyle and eating habits. there could be numerous physical, mental, emotional and medical reasons that none of us know of but if nothing seems to work then she should let her body rest and think about having others carry the baby for her. it wouldn't make her less of a mother if she went through that route.. or maybe just lift it all up to Him.. but it's her life, her body, her decision
ReplyDeleteSurrogacy na sila this time baks pero di pa rin nagwork.
DeleteYun na nga apparently surrogate na to.
DeleteHugs to you Heart! Ako I had one miscarriage last 2017. But up until now pag nakakarinig ako ng ganitong story, i can still feel the pain. Naiiyak pa rin ako. Less than 2 months lang sya at ganon lang bigla lang nawala. And because of that, natakot na ko. That's my first and I tell myself na ok lang kahit wala ng anak. Ayoko lang maramdaman ulit yung same pain. Sana dumating din ang para sayo Heart :)
ReplyDeleteHaaaay. Nasa iyo na ang lahat, fame, money, maganda buhay pero alam mo yun may mga ganito nangyayari no? Naging mabait ka naman, naging Mabuti ka tao , ma papa question ka talaga minsan “baket anu ba nagawa ko masama ?Hangang minsan nawawalhan kana ng pag asa at tiwala sa diyos kasi nakakapagod
ReplyDeleteIkaw na rin nagsabi, you can’t have it all. She needs to give something to make space for something else.
Delete*give up
Delete-12:52 AM
let her be, let her heal. wala tayong alam. we cope differently respect her and their angels.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it’s the quaity of eggs or sprm na di healthy kaya di nabubuo. Stress is the main cause. she has to stop travelling too much.
ReplyDeleteNaccheck yung sperm and embryos kung good quality bago ma implant so no, probably hindi yan yung cause.
DeleteOmg. 4 na dapat ang babies ni Hearty.
ReplyDeletePray lang.
God works in mysterious ways :D :D :D And there's a reason for everything ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteAng gasgas ng quote na yan. So explain how it was God's work to delete 4 unborn babies.
Delete1:04 because humanly possible merong reproductive problem
DeleteSome things are just not meant to be. Whether she carries or by surrogate .. so sad
ReplyDeleteActually may chance siya if surrogate pero not legal yata sa atin. pero if surrogate may chance bec baka yung body niya attacks the baby thinking it is a foreign body not recognizing it. pag masyadong malakas immune response ganyan eh.
DeleteThere are treatments for APAS. I have APAS too. I miscarried tapos the second time I got pregnant, my OB had me tested for APAS so I can get treated asap. Mag 1 yr old na baby ko.
DeleteI'm not a fan of H, but ang sakit nito. I wish her happiness and peace. In God's time, H will have her own ❤️
ReplyDeletebuti ka pa may compassion and sympathy to her kahit hindi fan. yung iba dito, hindi na nga supportive, very adamant to give unsolicited advice pa
DeleteMy heart totally breaks for Heart. I can almost feel her pain. I know how painful it is as I have also miscarried 2x. But don't lose hope because in God's perfect time He will grant your wishes. God granted mine in my late 30's. Will be praying for you and all the struggling mama's out there💗.
ReplyDeletehiatus muna sana just like audrey hepburn who also had 4 miscarriages… hugs
ReplyDeleteWala sa circulation kaya yon biglang nagpasabog ng di totoo. Paawa effect.
ReplyDeleteYup
DeleteWow baks grabe naman kayo
Deletegrabe utak mo, naisip mo pa yun? how can a person fake grief? you have no compassion
Delete@12:09 complete set of parents doesn't guarantee happy childhood. I raised my daughter alone. But I made sure she has all the love of a complete parents. She grew up to be a responsible, God fearing and goal oriented person. And I am proud to say she is now an Engineer, Civil Engineer.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. Lumaki rin ako walang tatay. Pero never ko naramdaman na may kulang kasi yung pamilya ko, buhos pagmamahal sa akin. Lumaki ako ng maayos, may disiplina at mapagmahal din.
DeleteI couldn't even begin to imagine what it must be like to lose a baby. So sorry for your loss, Heart.
ReplyDeleteIn God’s perfect time… don’t lose hope and faith. Take heart
ReplyDeleteANG GANDA NI HEART DITO. HINDI MEGA PAYAT, HINDI OVER ANG LIPS. FRESH!
ReplyDeleteThis is terribly sad. Baby dust to Heart and Chiz
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