Sa mga katulad nyong can afford lang ang annulment pero pano pag wlang pera na nasa abusive marriage pala? Magtitiis na lang then makikisama sa iba at magkaka anak outside of marriage? Daming ganyan.
1:07 anong pinagsasasabe mo accla. kaya nga gusto ng divorce para makalayas sa asawang walang silbe and abusive. binigyan tayo ng utak gamitin natin hindi yan display girl.
107 mas okay ng layasan ng asawa through divorce kesa naman magsuffer ka in an abusive marriage. kaya ang daming mag-asawa jan commiting bigamy and concubinage dahil napakatagal magprocess ng annulment bukod pa sa ubod ng mahal kaya di ko gets mentally ng iba kung bakit ayaw payagan yung mga mag-asawa lalo na yung nasa physically abusive relationship na maghiwalay. being beaten up destroys you not just physically.
kung ayaw ng iba ng divorce di wag silang mag divorce pero wag nilang pigilan yun gusto ng divorce!bakit ayaw nilang ipatupad?di naman sila apektado kung ayaw nila
Not everyone is lucky to have found a good partner like you. When you say no to divorce, you are saying yes to recurring abuse, to suffering for the rest of the lives of those trapped in a loveless and abusive marriages.
Not really. You are giving someone the opportunity to take marriage lightly and because there is a divorce, they can get away from the responsibility and you anytime, and find a partner, again and again and again ... oh well.
Grabe c 316, perfect ka tih? Isa pa, bakit tayong mga Pinoy lang ang walang divorce. 🙄Magsama nga kayo nyang Richard na pabigat lang sa senado wala nmang ambag.
10:42 where did you get the idea that divorce is easy? There are parameters involved. Even in the States and here in Canada, you have to show proof or be living separately for one year. Ano ba tingin nyo sa divorce, pipila ka lang sa office tapos divorce na? No. I don’t know about Las Vegas but in most countries with divorce bill, Hindi rin madali ang divorce… some even go for counselling before actually resorting to divorce. Divorce will just give people a chance on being happy again and having control over their lives… who are we to say no to that? If you don’t want divorce then don’t but for people who are in an abusive relationship at least if divorce is passed, they have an option to reclaim their life. It’s a basic human right to be free. And divorce will always give women the right to ask for alimony…
Annulment means the marriage was never valid to begin with. When you use annulment to separate fron your spouse, mukhang t@ng@ lang na maghahanap kayo ng butas kung bat hindi valid ang kasal nyo. Kaya siya mahal. From "wrong religious denomination" (hi kris and james!), to parties not present kuno (hello diether and kristine), to psychological incapacity kuno (ano yan, may sapak? So ano tawag sa pumatol sa may sapak?). Nagiging circus.
Divorce means that the marriage was valid but broke somewhere down the line, That recognition is important. Mas at peace kayo when you part ways.
Gets ko na yung pagNo-no nya,dahil daw religious ang pinoy,dahil sa religion,hay naku goma,di mo alam na sobrang huli na yung mindset mo,isipin mo yung mga asawang inaabuso na gusto ng makawala sa mga partners nila,mga anak din ang nagsa-suffer dahil nakikita nilang hindi magkasundo ang mga parents nila,mas trauma kaya sa mga anak yung hindi nya pagsuporta🙄🙃
Yan lang ba ang na pick up mo sa entire speech nya? How about the part where he mentioned that divorce will lead to more cases of infidelity as people may feel that they can easily get out if they find someone better? And how about the part where he spoke about the destructive and devastating impact of divorce to children? Just observe the moral values of the people in those countries legalizing divorce. Kung makapag palit ng asawa, parang nagpalit lang ng damit. Yes, there are abusive marriages, which is why I think they can instead focus on amending the existing law to take into consideration abusive marriages and to address all other issues surrounding it.
Helloo at least hindi na kasal if meron man silang iba sa ibang bansa, unlike sa pinas kahit may asawa dami namang kabit left and right, front at back pa!! Mas masakit yan sa mga bata!! Mas walang moral values yang kabit ng kabit then pag lalaki hirap pang kasuhin gosh!!! Kung maka judge ka sa ibang bansa akala mo may moral values sa pinas, lol!! Mas malala pa kamu sa pinas
12:36am: Lol anong impact sa children pinagsasabi mo eh kung hiwalay na talaga yung magasawa physically. May impact na ang separatio and all other things before divorce. Divorce is about making it official.
Infedilty will happen with or without Divorce. Cheating could happen in differrent types of relationship!
They can put rules or entry criteria to divorce. Minimum number of years together, unless violent or abusive relationship. Proof of counseling, or attempt to make the marriage work. Kaya nga sila mambabatas, di ba?
Stop shoving religiosity down everyone's throats, pwede ba?! The government is there to serve alll. Pero kung ipipilit nila abg religion, pwes... Kung ina-allow nila ang bosho sa mga muslim, pwede bang i-allow nila ang divorce sa mga hindi religious?
12:36 sa naobserve ko, karamihan ng mga lalaking Pilipino na may asawa, ang mindset is norma lang mambabae. Kawawa mga babae. Yes may mga babae rin nanglalalaki pero sa culture talaga natin parang "ok lang mambabae or magkaron ng kabit" kasi masyadong baby mga lalaki ng batas natin. Pansin ko sa ibang bansa, mas takot sila mambabae mas may respeto sila sa wives nila. Dapat ganon. Hindi balanse dito sa Pinas. Masyado kawawa mga babae.
This made mas sad. Mukhang wala na ata talaga pag asa na ma approve ang divorce. Hay forever na tayong naka tali sa minsan nating nagawa na wrong decision
2:24 masyado sexist mga Pilipinong lalaki. Parang mindset pa nung 1980's sa ibang bansa. Toxic masculinity here is so high pa unlike in other more developed countries.
Ok lang mambabae kasi natural daw yan sa lalaki. 😂 At kaylangan walang divorce para walang choice ang misis ng mga cheaters kundi magstay kasi kasal. Nakakaloka!
Ha ha :) :) :) Divorce will never ever happen in penas :D :D :D You know why? :) :) :) Ay huwag nalang, ma cancel na naman ako dito ;) ;) ;) But keep on dreaming :D :D :D
Tama.yung ayaw ng divorce di wag nilang gawin,pero para pigilan yung gustong magdivorce di tama,di naman sila madadamay kung ayaw nila ng divorce at yun e yung may gusto lang
12:34 pinapahintulutan po sa bible ang divorce with only one reason , which is infidelity. Madali lang naman mag google tapos verify wth your own bible. Para di ka nagbibigay ng misinformation.
etong mga relihiyosong to hindi mo alam saan ka lulugar. sana daw wag magpakasal kung hindi kilala yung jowa. pag nag live in naman kasalanan naman sa diyos, pag hindi naman nagpakasal for such a long time ang sasabihin walang plano sa buhay. so saan kame lulugar mga ante? lol
Yung mga politicians na ito need to realize that we didn't vote for them because of your religion but because naniwala tayo na they have their kababayan's best interest.
Kung personal beliefs nio pala and religion sa pag gawa nio ng batas eh di wag na lang tayo magpolitiko.
We put up na nga with your corruption and stealing from people, mano ba naman yung makakaginhawa sa mga nasa abusive relationships.
May mga downsides ang divorce, pero gawan nio ng paraan na ma address yun. Pede naman lagyan ng safeguards. Wala naman sa sinabing ground for divorce na kapag ayaw na and nakahanap ng better as one reason for divorce. Kaya bakit yung argument nia?
Sabi ng prof ko nung college, it means the state can't interfere with the church but the church can interfere with the state. kasi nga voters din ang mga pari at madre. bale yung state lang talaga limited diyan. yun ang pagkakaintindi ko ha. Paki korek na lang po ako.
Wow. In the first place, yung mga sinasabi mong "kulong sa relationship" yan yung may mga red flags na simula pa lang inignore na at tinuloy pa din ang pagpapakasal.
I’m pro-divorce pero I think I understand what’s going on here. Politicians are too afraid to make a stand kasi they’re afraid of losing votes. That’s a reality in this country. I live in a small city in the province. I hate the fact na may mga tricycle sa main highway. Nakakatrapik sa daan for multiple reasons and it only carries a few people. But instead of thinking of mass transit solution, LGU is too afraid kasi tricycle drivers are passionate voters. Divorce will never fly here for the same reason.
Spain nga na dun galing ang pagiging Katoliko natin may divorce. masyado lang self righteous mga Pinoy. Pede din mag move on at maghangad ng second chances sa marriage life.
That's for you to say.How about the effect for having abusive partner to wife and kids.Husband who have multiple affairs.No way out since they couldn't afford annulment and bear the misery for life ganoon.I bet a lot of Catholics wanted it too who can't afford annulment.And Catholic is only one of so many religion in Philippines how about the rest.
D b dpat sa pag gawa ng batas, utak ang pinapairal? Hindi dahil sa religion keme keme? Paano ung mga asawang na abuse at patuloy n inaabuse ng mga partner nla? Tiis n lng? Pagsa langit n lng din natin? It’s about time na. Di nman porke’t available na ang divorce, gnon gnon rin lng nman kadali ang process non.as if prang nagpapalit palit k lng ng damit.
No to Divorce. Magiging parang ibang bansa na lang tayo na pag ayaw na, hiwalay agad. Knowing at the back of their minds, pwede naman maghiwalay at hindi pinag iisipang mabuti ang pagpapakasal. Marriage is no joke. If you feel something is off, wag ka na magpakasal at wag ipilit.
Then strengthen the grounds for divorce. But make it available to those who need to get out of abusive relationships because products of such relationships always suffer in unimaginable ways.
KUNG AYAW NG DIVORCE< WAG MAG APPLY NG DIVORCE??! GETS? Susko di nmn para sanyo lng ung Divorce. Imaginin mo ung couple na nag aaway parati tapos ung anak nakikita ung abuse, gets mo????? Mas ok pang mag sama kasi kasal sa harap ng diyos pero kapalit buhay nmn???! hayy
in a lot of cases that "something off" happens DURING a marriage lalo na yung mga nambubogbog ng asawa, meron ka na bang naencounter na nangliligaw pa lang ay binubogbog ka na? kaya we need divorce dito sa Pinas.
Panoodin or basahin mo yung news about divorce here in the Philippines. The grounds for divorce here is different and stricter, para maiwasan yan. Hindi ka pwedeng mag file ng divorce dahil sawa ka na lang.
832 ayoko nga, maski yata grade 1 alam na kaylangan ang divorce sa Pilipinas seeing their parents na nag aaway kada araw. Anong something off, eh hindi nman lahat eh abusado sa start ng relasyon. Have you heard yung lovebombing na mga partners, yun pala abusado. Ang perfect mo siguro o kaya isa kang relihiyosong ipokrito. Natatawa nlang tlaga ako sa mga taong ganyan.
Catholic ako Wala pa ako asawa at anak. Pero sa Totoo lang, it’s about time na magkaroon na ng divorce sa Pilipinas. Naawa lang ako sa mga couples nasa toxic relationship - minsan pa abusive bawal ba sila sumaya at maging Malaya ulit? Malayo pa ito malalakbay kasi dadaaan pa sa senate which most nasa senate are no to divorce ilan lang sila to divorce isa na din si Rissa
Can’t compare kasi wala namang divorce here pero in other countries na meron, mas mahal ng konti ang annulment or rather mas mahabang process. Annulment is mahal dito sa pilipinas dahil it takes a long time to resolve which means mas mahal ang cost ng lawyer. My sister has filed for annulment more than 5 years ago hanggang ngayon wala pa.
Honest question po, kapag po nagpa divorce how much po kaya will it cost? Mahirap lang po ako pero matagal na kami hiwalay ng Ex ko. May asawa at anak na din po cya sa kinakasama nya
There are pros and cons talaga. While it's true that divorce will give some couples a ticket to easily bail out, there are also those that are suffering in an abusive marriage and can't afford annulment. This isn't a black and white case. There's lots of grey areas here.
Honestly though, is it our right to dictate the lives of others? If they want to keep divorcing and having different husbands and wives, who are we to stop them? It's their life and their consequence.
i am PRO divorce pero sana naman ayusin nyo muna ang siste ng child support. kawawa ang mga batang affected sa paghihiwalay kung kanino at saan na lang maiiwan
dapat automatic kaltas na sa sahod eh. kung sino yung main na nag aalaga sa bata dun mapupunta yung pera. dumadami yung mga katulad ni Paolo eh sa totoo lang para walang kawala.
Isa pa tong hindi na dapat ibinoboto eh. Nakakaloka Goma. Tayo nlang ang walanh divorce dahil sa kaipokritohang rason na yan. Bakit yung teenage pregnancy ba bumaba dahil sa Catholic country tayo at religiyosos kuno, diba hindi? Hay Pinas, hopeless! Lol
True, religion should not be part of the discussion on divorce. Will the church be there to support the battered women? Will they emforce the parent to provide child support?
I’m pro divorce pero ayoko ng tulad sa US na parang ang dali. Gusto ko yung may mediation process to assess kung pwede pa reconcile. Kung pwede pa ma reconcile, have the couple go through therapy and if di na talaga, then agree on terms of separation. And may waiting period like 6 months. I am married and I am secured in my marriage. Having a divorce bill does not scare me.
Honestly, hindi siya easy. Divorce in the USA needs to be agreed upon by both parties. When one party disagrees, the divorce will take even longer and will need additional documents/proofs/etc.
Maraming factors ang divorce sa US. Kapag agree kayo pareho ay madali. Kapag hindi kayo agree pareho ay mahirap. Matagal at mahirap ang hatian ng properties, child custody, spousal support, etc.
Divorced are not for happily married couple obviously bakit ba ayaw nyo at anong pake nyo sa mga may gusto mag divorce kinakabahan ba kayo na iwan kayo ng partner nyo?
Natatakot ang karamihan dyan sa mga lalaking nasa pwesto kasi may mga kab@t ang mga yan at nagtitiis nalng ang mga asawa. Ang hirap pala magpaannul ng kasal.
Yes to divorce para magkaroon din ng laws regarding child support and alimony pag naghiwalay. Lalo na pag iniwan ng husband/wife yung career nila to care for the children.
There are only few countries in the world like Philippines that do not legalize divorce. Pity are those to women who suffer abuse in the hands of their husbands. We're in 2024 now and the country is still backwards in the issue of divorce.
To give an idea lang sa cost ng annulment: in 2020 I asked a friend na lawyer kasi some people I know were considering getting one. 300k all-in package daw, mas mabilis ma-grant than usual.
I once read this from Bishop Fulton “wrong is wrong even when everybody’s doing it. Right is right even when nobody’s doing it”
Pilit man ituwid ng panahon ngayon ang mali mananatiling tama at malinaw ang utos ng Diyos. Bilang tumira sa Amerika nakita ko ang damage ng divorce sa mg tao. Napakadali lang sa kanila ang marriage. I stand with you Richard!
Ma flex lang na nasa abroad? What do you mean? Where I live in the States, divorce is meant to give you your freedom back and the right to be happy again. I know so many people who are so relieved they got out of a messed up marriage, and the kids suffer while the parents are together fighting and bickering at each other. Kids nowadays understand that for parents to be good parents, they have to be whole and happy. Mas maraming negative effects ang mga nagsasama under one roof pero puro away… it’s more traumatic for the kids
Left n right ang mga nangangaliwa diyan sa pinas.no divorce talaga dahil walang money to file for it. Basta hiwalayan mo Basta toxic ang relationship ninyo. Walang kwenta ang batas sa pinas kaya Bakit pa mag papass ng law about divorce.
People still separate in the Philippines anyway - just without the rights that divorce would impose. It's ludicrous that anyone of sound mind would even contest this..how many Filipino men have extramarital affairs, children on the side, issues with domestic abuse? Are those the morally superior he wants to "protect"??
Ayaw ng mga politicians na may divorce, kasi baka maisipan ng mga missis nilang i divorce sila, kung ang iba sa mga yan walang prenup, baka mahati yaman nila.
I'm pro divorce. I had an annullment in Manila and it took 3 years. Funny thing is I financed the whole thing! My ex didn't care about the charges as long as he won't contribute. Which I hemmed and hawwed for years because of the cost. My friends, all three got theirs annulled too without their ex's support which is rotten to say the least! Some people don't present the way they really are before marriage and theres no reason why a person live a life of sin or made a mistake when they were young or they've been lied to.
OMG Richard! Just becoz your marriage is perfect ... Pls be an advocate for those whose marriage is not. The hypocrisy of not having divorce far outweighs the benefits of one.
Curious ako sa magiging alimony rules kung maisabatas nga ang divorce dito. Hindi alam ng marami na unlike annulment, divorce requires alimony/spousal financial support.
No to divorce. Yes to amendment of the annulment law. Make it cheaper and faster so abused spouses can avail of it. Parang sa small claims, mabilis lang. Pero for serious grounds only. Divorce kasi kahit mababaw ginagrant. Mawawala talaga ang sanctity of marriage. Parang sa Las Vegas kahit lasing pwede magpakasal tapos divorce na lang later on. Nagiging joke na lang ang marriage.
So what kung mababaw? Pala desisyon kayo para sa iba. So para lang sa mailan Ilan na “mababaw” ang dahilan Kaya no kayo sa divorce ? E paano naman yung mga nasa abusive relationship at marsmi sila ha… Sanctity of marriage kayo jan- with or without divorce naman, spouses cheat. Open your eyes.
Bakit kasi naka focus jan sa divorce bill masyado. Gawan na muna ng batas yung mga bago magpapakasal dapat dumaan sila sa mahirap na proseso saka na approvahan yan. For sure maiiwasan yung mga naghihiwalay lalo pag may anak na. Lumalaki na populasyon ng pinas tapos keri keri lang magpadami ng legal.
Pag annulment walang alimony. Pag divorce meron. Kaya hindi rin basta bastang option ang divorce because there’s alimony/spousal support involved. Spousal support pwedeng habang buhay yan, pwedeng one-time big-time payment, pwedeng may specific timeframe lang depende sa financial capability ng either party. So di ko alam kung pabor pa to sa mayayaman who can afford alimony, o pahirap sa mga di masyadong afford. Child support nga di mapatupad ng maayos dito pano pa kaya ito.
Lahat nalang ng utos ng Diyos sinuway na nating mga tao! Sige apprubahan nayan pati lalaki sa lalaki , babae sa babae magpakasal na din pag nagsawa divorce nalang din. Ang dali nalang mabuhay habang napako ang Diyos natin sa crus.
105 antih, naiintidihan mo ba ang binabasa mong Bible? Kasi mukhang mas malala ka pa kay Goma. Basahin mo ulit bago ka ngumawa dyan looking like a f@@l.
goma, wag ka idealista, real talk! hindi lahat ay pare-parehas na may masayang pagsasama at pamilya. Akala ko malakawak ang pag iisip mo pero wala ka palang pinag kaiba sa makikitid na utak na pulitiko. sayang naman ang paghalal sayo at backwards pala ang mga paniniwala mo sa divorce. Pilipinas na lang at Vatican ang natitirang bansa na walang divorce. Yung Spain nga na sumakop sa atin meron nyan tapos tayong mga Pilipino ay kumakapit sa bulok na paniniwala.
3:19 anak nanaman?!! try mong isipin muna yung mental health ng mga partner na nasa abusive relationship. paano mo maalagaan ng maayos anak mo kung hindi ka maayos emotionally and mentally?! pag wala sa sitwasyon manahimik huh.
Mas affected sila if nakikita nila na laging nagaaway ang magulang at may iba nang kinakasama both parents nila. That’s traumatic and confusing for kids. Bakit mo naman iisipin na ganyan 3:19? Di naman sila iiwanan, andyan ang parents. Kaloka ka. Very close minded talaga karamihan sa atin
Akala nio naman mura ang process ng divorce. Sa umpisa pa lang pag may nakita na kau na red flag, don't get married. When you get married, make sure kilala nio na at least 80% ang magiging spouse nio. And don't have kids yet.
Daming threatened sa pagpapasa ng divorce bill e kung confident kayo sa marriage nyo there’s no reason for you to feel insecure.
Ang right to divorce a spouse should be included in basic human rights. Pero ano ba maasahan sa bansa natin, napakaraming violations ng human rights. Oo may freedom of speech tayo pero yung quality of life natin napakababa at nasa laylayan ng priority ng gobyerno. Lahat na ng bansa may divorce jusko naman!! Mas marami at malala ang epekto ng kawalan ng divorce sa bansa kesa sa pagkakaron nito. Does the government even research how many married couples have separated? How many children are born illegitimate and carry the shame simply because their mother or father can’t afford annulment?? How many women are being victimized by abusive partners? Napakaraming pang-aapak sa human rights na nangyayari bunga ng kawalan ng divorce. Kung pwede lang ako lumuhod isa isa sa mga b*** at walang puso politiko na to gagawin ko maipasa lang ang divorce.
Kahit i allow ng government ang divorce, religion can still exercise their rights to refuse divorce. If against sa divorce ang isang religion pwede nila ipagbawal un sa mga kaanib nila. Example sa INC bawal kumain ng dugo because of their beliefs. So allow divorce for those who need them.
Divorce will never be accepted sa atin dahil sa mindset ng mga Pinoy. Binasa ko mga comments and mapapakamot ka na lang ng ulo. Not because may divorce, hiwalay na agad or mas marami manloloko. It depends yan sa relationship nyo and sa integrity nyong mag-asawa. And pag divorce mas mapoprotect ang mga kids, dahil susunod dyan yung legal na proseso na dapat sustentuhan ang mga bata or bigyan ng alimony ang spouse, ang mga tatay dapat magpatuloy ng obligation sa mga anak. Di matatapos responsibility dahil naghiwalay. Mas mabibigyan ng rights ang mga bata unlike now, sumama sa mga kabit at iniwan ang obligasyon sa mga naiwan na magulang na nagaalaga ng mga anak. I am all for divorce. If marriage is not working, end it amicably and legally.
Sa mga katulad nyong can afford lang ang annulment pero pano pag wlang pera na nasa abusive marriage pala? Magtitiis na lang then makikisama sa iba at magkaka anak outside of marriage? Daming ganyan.
ReplyDeleteNgeehhh kasi baka mabilis pa sa alas kwatro na layasan kayo ng mga asawa niyo
DeleteHow about mas takot ang mga lalaki na mabilis pa sa alas kwarto lalayasan ng mga wife nilang ubos na ang pasensya?
DeleteAnd what's wrpng with that?
Daming abusive marriages at palikerong mga asawa dyan, everyone deserves a proper legal chance of moving forward.
1:07 anong pinagsasasabe mo accla. kaya nga gusto ng divorce para makalayas sa asawang walang silbe and abusive. binigyan tayo ng utak gamitin natin hindi yan display girl.
Delete107 mas okay ng layasan ng asawa through divorce kesa naman magsuffer ka in an abusive marriage. kaya ang daming mag-asawa jan commiting bigamy and concubinage dahil napakatagal magprocess ng annulment bukod pa sa ubod ng mahal kaya di ko gets mentally ng iba kung bakit ayaw payagan yung mga mag-asawa lalo na yung nasa physically abusive relationship na maghiwalay. being beaten up destroys you not just physically.
DeleteKaya dapat pagisipan ng mabuti bago magpakasal. You know, ever heard of the consequences one's actions?
Delete156 kaylangan ba buong buhay mo pagdusahan ang consequence na yan? At bakit Pinoy lang ang kaylangan may consequence? 🤣
Delete1:56 hindi ba dapat yung abusive yung may consequences bakit mo naman ipipilit sa victim yan. r u ok? lels the brain i cant.
Deletekung ayaw ng iba ng divorce di wag silang mag divorce pero wag nilang pigilan yun gusto ng divorce!bakit ayaw nilang ipatupad?di naman sila apektado kung ayaw nila
DeleteNot everyone is lucky to have found a good partner like you. When you say no to divorce, you are saying yes to recurring abuse, to suffering for the rest of the lives of those trapped in a loveless and abusive marriages.
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DeleteSo very true💯
DeletePerfect explanation. I couldn’t agree more
DeleteThen find a good partner. Bago kayo magpakasal siguraduhin nyong mabuting tao pakakasalan nyo at mamuhay kayo ng ayon sa salita ng Diyos.
DeleteNot really. You are giving someone the opportunity to take marriage lightly and because there is a divorce, they can get away from the responsibility and you anytime, and find a partner, again and again and again ... oh well.
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DeleteExactly @11:54
DeleteI mean, hindi naman porket walang divorce e hindi mo na pwedeng iwan yung asawa mo.
DeleteSwerte nila Richard at ang marriage nila ay ok despite of those "issues" about him. Talagang sobrang in love si Lucy sa kanya.
DeleteIt’s not about luck, you have all the time to know your future husband or wife
DeleteGrabe c 316, perfect ka tih? Isa pa, bakit tayong mga Pinoy lang ang walang divorce. 🙄Magsama nga kayo nyang Richard na pabigat lang sa senado wala nmang ambag.
Deletekung walang divorce wag nang pakasal
Delete10:42 where did you get the idea that divorce is easy? There are parameters involved. Even in the States and here in Canada, you have to show proof or be living separately for one year. Ano ba tingin nyo sa divorce, pipila ka lang sa office tapos divorce na? No. I don’t know about Las Vegas but in most countries with divorce bill, Hindi rin madali ang divorce… some even go for counselling before actually resorting to divorce. Divorce will just give people a chance on being happy again and having control over their lives… who are we to say no to that? If you don’t want divorce then don’t but for people who are in an abusive relationship at least if divorce is passed, they have an option to reclaim their life. It’s a basic human right to be free. And divorce will always give women the right to ask for alimony…
DeleteThis reeks of privilege.
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DeleteL O U D E R ! ! !
DeleteHindi lahat ng Pilipino Katoliko. Hindi lahat pinalad sa pagpili ng asawa.
ReplyDeleteAnnulment is too costly! And almost impossible. Sayang ang mga buhay. Unnecessary suffering na pinapahintulutan ng gobyerno natin.
ReplyDeleteAnnulment means the marriage was never valid to begin with. When you use annulment to separate fron your spouse, mukhang t@ng@ lang na maghahanap kayo ng butas kung bat hindi valid ang kasal nyo. Kaya siya mahal. From "wrong religious denomination" (hi kris and james!), to parties not present kuno (hello diether and kristine), to psychological incapacity kuno (ano yan, may sapak? So ano tawag sa pumatol sa may sapak?). Nagiging circus.
DeleteDivorce means that the marriage was valid but broke somewhere down the line, That recognition is important. Mas at peace kayo when you part ways.
Gets ko na yung pagNo-no nya,dahil daw religious ang pinoy,dahil sa religion,hay naku goma,di mo alam na sobrang huli na yung mindset mo,isipin mo yung mga asawang inaabuso na gusto ng makawala sa mga partners nila,mga anak din ang nagsa-suffer dahil nakikita nilang hindi magkasundo ang mga parents nila,mas trauma kaya sa mga anak yung hindi nya pagsuporta🙄🙃
ReplyDeleteYan lang ba ang na pick up mo sa entire speech nya? How about the part where he mentioned that divorce will lead to more cases of infidelity as people may feel that they can easily get out if they find someone better? And how about the part where he spoke about the destructive and devastating impact of divorce to children? Just observe the moral values of the people in those countries legalizing divorce. Kung makapag palit ng asawa, parang nagpalit lang ng damit. Yes, there are abusive marriages, which is why I think they can instead focus on amending the existing law to take into consideration abusive marriages and to address all other issues surrounding it.
Delete12:36 kids are better with divorced parents than parents living on the same home fighting everyday
DeleteHelloo at least hindi na kasal if meron man silang iba sa ibang bansa, unlike sa pinas kahit may asawa dami namang kabit left and right, front at back pa!! Mas masakit yan sa mga bata!! Mas walang moral values yang kabit ng kabit then pag lalaki hirap pang kasuhin gosh!!! Kung maka judge ka sa ibang bansa akala mo may moral values sa pinas, lol!! Mas malala pa kamu sa pinas
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DeleteLol anong impact sa children pinagsasabi mo eh kung hiwalay na talaga yung magasawa physically. May impact na ang separatio and all other things before divorce. Divorce is about making it official.
Infedilty will happen with or without Divorce. Cheating could happen in differrent types of relationship!
At divorce is mutual agreement - anong easy to get out pinagsasabi mo diyan?
DeleteKaya mabuti pang wag nang magpakasal
DeleteThey can put rules or entry criteria to divorce. Minimum number of years together, unless violent or abusive relationship. Proof of counseling, or attempt to make the marriage work. Kaya nga sila mambabatas, di ba?
DeleteStop shoving religiosity down everyone's throats, pwede ba?! The government is there to serve alll. Pero kung ipipilit nila abg religion, pwes... Kung ina-allow nila ang bosho sa mga muslim, pwede bang i-allow nila ang divorce sa mga hindi religious?
223 Right!
DeleteAyaw nila ng divorce dahil tarot na maghatian sa properties nila, at sa spousal support.
Delete12:36, kung ayaw mong mag-divorce, eh di huwag kang mag-divorce.
Delete12:36 sa naobserve ko, karamihan ng mga lalaking Pilipino na may asawa, ang mindset is norma lang mambabae. Kawawa mga babae. Yes may mga babae rin nanglalalaki pero sa culture talaga natin parang "ok lang mambabae or magkaron ng kabit" kasi masyadong baby mga lalaki ng batas natin. Pansin ko sa ibang bansa, mas takot sila mambabae mas may respeto sila sa wives nila. Dapat ganon. Hindi balanse dito sa Pinas. Masyado kawawa mga babae.
DeleteHindi lahat religious Goma!!! Bad trip tong mga artistang naging pulitiko na wala sa realidad!
DeleteChat gpt
ReplyDeleteCge boto pa ng komedyante
ReplyDeleteThis made mas sad. Mukhang wala na ata talaga pag asa na ma approve ang divorce. Hay forever na tayong naka tali sa minsan nating nagawa na wrong decision
ReplyDeleteayun nga
DeletePatawa ka. Sa dami ng pilipino sanga sanga ang mga kabit, sa mga di makawala sa domestic abuse, wala na ang sanctity of marriage ang sinasabi mo.
ReplyDeleteExactly!! Yan yang mga thinking ng pinoy na masyadong shallow at sarado!!
Delete2:24 masyado sexist mga Pilipinong lalaki. Parang mindset pa nung 1980's sa ibang bansa. Toxic masculinity here is so high pa unlike in other more developed countries.
DeleteOk lang mambabae kasi natural daw yan sa lalaki. 😂 At kaylangan walang divorce para walang choice ang misis ng mga cheaters kundi magstay kasi kasal. Nakakaloka!
Delete1:15 much worst pa marami pa ding babae yung agree sa mga lalake. nakakaawa alipin pa din hahahaha
DeleteNanalo pala to. Alam mo Goma magpaint ka na lang ng b***t din ka lang naman magaling. Nagsenador ka pa
ReplyDeletehahaha
DeleteDi po sya senador
DeleteHoy accla basahin mo yung title. Congressman nga. Hahaha
DeleteHa ha :) :) :) Divorce will never ever happen in penas :D :D :D You know why? :) :) :) Ay huwag nalang, ma cancel na naman ako dito ;) ;) ;) But keep on dreaming :D :D :D
ReplyDeleteoh shut up. you'll never get married anyway
DeleteSino ba ikaw para ma cancel eh nagtatago ka sa pagiging anonymous hhaahhaha
DeleteEto na naman si manong na toxic.
DeleteNot smiley pero 2:32 halos lahat tayo dito anonymous hahahah ano ba.
Deletekung ayaw ng divorce, eh di huwag kang mag avail. pero huwag mong limit ang options ng iba lalo na ang nasa abusive relationship.
ReplyDeleteTama.yung ayaw ng divorce di wag nilang gawin,pero para pigilan yung gustong magdivorce di tama,di naman sila madadamay kung ayaw nila ng divorce at yun e yung may gusto lang
DeleteHindi naman para sa iyo yan Mr Gomez! Para yan sa mga mag asawang wala ng chance mag kasundo o nasa abusive relationship.
ReplyDeleteYes to divorce! Non sense ka Goma wag kang selfish!!
ReplyDeleteReligious ba kamo? Eh bakit hindi ka nagbabasa ng Bible? Nasa Bible din naman ang divorce🤦🏼🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♂️
ReplyDeleteDi pinapahintulutan sa bible ang divorce. Gets ko ang sagot ni Goma.
Delete12:43 Pinapahintulutan ang divorce sa bible if adultery is commited. Read more.
Delete12:43 isa ka pang di nagbabasa ng Bible or nakakaintindi nito. Bible study ka muna ha.
Delete12:43 huh? basahin and intindihin mo ang Bible, para maliwanagan ka. anong wala są Bible and divorce. not 12:16 though.
DeleteKasi puwede sa Bible ang maraming asawa. Pilipinas na lang ang walang divorce sa mundo.
Delete12:34 pinapahintulutan po sa bible ang divorce with only one reason , which is infidelity. Madali lang naman mag google tapos verify wth your own bible. Para di ka nagbibigay ng misinformation.
DeleteUngollow na lang ako sa youtube mo, walang kwentang pulitiko na to!
Deleteetong mga relihiyosong to hindi mo alam saan ka lulugar. sana daw wag magpakasal kung hindi kilala yung jowa. pag nag live in naman kasalanan naman sa diyos, pag hindi naman nagpakasal for such a long time ang sasabihin walang plano sa buhay. so saan kame lulugar mga ante? lol
ReplyDeleteYang mga so called religious people akala mo perpekto kung makajudge sobrang wow,
DeleteWala eh, di na pinapairal yung logical thinking.
DeleteYung mga relihiyoso kasi hindi marunong mag-isip so they just regurgitate what they've been told to believe.
DeleteYang mga relihiyiso ang isa sa pinaka ipokritong nilalang sa buong mundo. Learn it the hard way. Lol
DeleteApaka walang sense ng rason nya. Thank God wala ako dyn sa Pinas. Pero syempre concern padin ako. Un lang naman.
ReplyDeleteYung mga politicians na ito need to realize that we didn't vote for them because of your religion but because naniwala tayo na they have their kababayan's best interest.
ReplyDeleteKung personal beliefs nio pala and religion sa pag gawa nio ng batas eh di wag na lang tayo magpolitiko.
We put up na nga with your corruption and stealing from people, mano ba naman yung makakaginhawa sa mga nasa abusive relationships.
May mga downsides ang divorce, pero gawan nio ng paraan na ma address yun. Pede naman lagyan ng safeguards. Wala naman sa sinabing ground for divorce na kapag ayaw na and nakahanap ng better as one reason for divorce. Kaya bakit yung argument nia?
Richard forgets about separation of the State and the Church.
ReplyDeleteKasi nandun ang voters lol
DeleteSabi ng prof ko nung college, it means the state can't interfere with the church but the church can interfere with the state. kasi nga voters din ang mga pari at madre. bale yung state lang talaga limited diyan. yun ang pagkakaintindi ko ha. Paki korek na lang po ako.
DeletePaano na ang mahihirap mong constituents na cant afford magpaannul, tiis na lang?
ReplyDeletekung ayaw nyo ng divorce e di wag kayo magfile, kawawa naman ung kulong sa relationship
ReplyDeleteWow. In the first place, yung mga sinasabi mong "kulong sa relationship" yan yung may mga red flags na simula pa lang inignore na at tinuloy pa din ang pagpapakasal.
Delete1248 then these people badly need divorce! Jusko antih, ewan ko nlang talaga sa ibang Pinoy. Ang shunga like Goma! 😂
DeleteKaya dapat wag nang pakasal,maganda live in na lang
Delete12:48, di ba dapat wala kang pakialam kung ano ang gawin nila sa relationship nila? kung red flag man yan, di ka naman affected so pabayaan mo sila.
DeleteI’m pro-divorce pero I think I understand what’s going on here. Politicians are too afraid to make a stand kasi they’re afraid of losing votes. That’s a reality in this country. I live in a small city in the province. I hate the fact na may mga tricycle sa main highway. Nakakatrapik sa daan for multiple reasons and it only carries a few people. But instead of thinking of mass transit solution, LGU is too afraid kasi tricycle drivers are passionate voters. Divorce will never fly here for the same reason.
ReplyDeleteSpain nga na dun galing ang pagiging Katoliko natin may divorce. masyado lang self righteous mga Pinoy. Pede din mag move on at maghangad ng second chances sa marriage life.
ReplyDelete"masyado lang self righteous ANG IBANG Pinoy", fixed it for you mars 😆
DeleteExactly! 50% lang ang Catholics sa Spain. Sadly, mga Pinoy ay talagang entrenched pa rin sa colonial mentality.
Delete1150 isama mo na ang pagiging gullible at mahilig maniwala sa fakenews. Lol
DeleteReligion is the excuse every creepy people use to impose on others.
ReplyDeleteThat's for you to say.How about the effect for having abusive partner to wife and kids.Husband who have multiple affairs.No way out since they couldn't afford annulment and bear the misery for life ganoon.I bet a lot of Catholics wanted it too who can't afford annulment.And Catholic is only one of so many religion in Philippines how about the rest.
ReplyDeleteMay mga women din na may kabit, hindi lang mga lalaki
Delete5:24 oo na jusko hindi lang nadamay yung babae eh. si OA
DeleteD b dpat sa pag gawa ng batas, utak ang pinapairal? Hindi dahil sa religion keme keme? Paano ung mga asawang na abuse at patuloy n inaabuse ng mga partner nla? Tiis n lng? Pagsa langit n lng din natin? It’s about time na. Di nman porke’t available na ang divorce, gnon gnon rin lng nman kadali ang process non.as if prang nagpapalit palit k lng ng damit.
ReplyDeleteIt will. Money talks. Do not be naive.
ReplyDeleteNo to Divorce. Magiging parang ibang bansa na lang tayo na pag ayaw na, hiwalay agad. Knowing at the back of their minds, pwede naman maghiwalay at hindi pinag iisipang mabuti ang pagpapakasal. Marriage is no joke. If you feel something is off, wag ka na magpakasal at wag ipilit.
ReplyDeleteKaya mas mabuti na mangaliwa diba? 😂
DeleteThen strengthen the grounds for divorce. But make it available to those who need to get out of abusive relationships because products of such relationships always suffer in unimaginable ways.
Deleteoh tapos pag 10yrs na ang relationship and ayaw ng kasal anong reasoning niyo sa susunod? "walang plano yung partner mo sayo"
Delete1:35 Kain ka na masustansyang gulay. Kailangan ng brain cells yun 😄
DeleteKUNG AYAW NG DIVORCE< WAG MAG APPLY NG DIVORCE??! GETS? Susko di nmn para sanyo lng ung Divorce. Imaginin mo ung couple na nag aaway parati tapos ung anak nakikita ung abuse, gets mo????? Mas ok pang mag sama kasi kasal sa harap ng diyos pero kapalit buhay nmn???! hayy
Deletein a lot of cases that "something off" happens DURING a marriage lalo na yung mga nambubogbog ng asawa, meron ka na bang naencounter na nangliligaw pa lang ay binubogbog ka na? kaya we need divorce dito sa Pinas.
DeleteSo paano yung mga inaabuso ng asawa? Tiis na lang? Maraming sa umpisa lang mabait but after a few years, nag-iiba ng ugali.
DeletePanoodin or basahin mo yung news about divorce here in the Philippines. The grounds for divorce here is different and stricter, para maiwasan yan. Hindi ka pwedeng mag file ng divorce dahil sawa ka na lang.
Delete832 ayoko nga, maski yata grade 1 alam na kaylangan ang divorce sa Pilipinas seeing their parents na nag aaway kada araw. Anong something off, eh hindi nman lahat eh abusado sa start ng relasyon. Have you heard yung lovebombing na mga partners, yun pala abusado. Ang perfect mo siguro o kaya isa kang relihiyosong ipokrito. Natatawa nlang tlaga ako sa mga taong ganyan.
DeleteCatholic ako
ReplyDeleteWala pa ako asawa at anak.
Pero sa Totoo lang, it’s about time na magkaroon na ng divorce sa Pilipinas. Naawa lang ako sa mga couples nasa toxic relationship - minsan pa abusive bawal ba sila sumaya at maging Malaya ulit? Malayo pa ito malalakbay kasi dadaaan pa sa senate which most nasa senate are no to divorce ilan lang sila to divorce isa na din si Rissa
Totoo ba mas mahal ba ang annulment kysa sa divorce? How long will it take ma process ang divorce?
ReplyDeleteCan’t compare kasi wala namang divorce here pero in other countries na meron, mas mahal ng konti ang annulment or rather mas mahabang process. Annulment is mahal dito sa pilipinas dahil it takes a long time to resolve which means mas mahal ang cost ng lawyer. My sister has filed for annulment more than 5 years ago hanggang ngayon wala pa.
DeleteYears, filing pa lang you need half a million, ex kay sunshine cruz it took 20 years
DeleteAnnulment is such a money grab for all involved.
Deleteeh kamusta naman yung kay zsazsa and dolphy.. nafinalize lang ang annulment ni z nung sumakabilangbuhay na si mang pidol (rip).
DeleteMas mahal divorce because of the alimony.
DeleteYung sa cousin ko, nagretire na yung judge di pa din naggrant yung annulment. Hay
DeleteNaloka ako sa thread nato. Grabe ganyan ka hassle magfile ng annulment at ang mahal pa.
DeleteBakit ang tatagal na ng annullment cases ngayon? Dati 1- 2 years lang tapos siya. Sa magulang ko mabilis lang.
DeleteHonest question po, kapag po nagpa divorce how much po kaya will it cost? Mahirap lang po ako pero matagal na kami hiwalay ng Ex ko. May asawa at anak na din po cya sa kinakasama nya
ReplyDeleteWala pang divorce d2 sa Pilipinas. Tayo at vatican na lng ang natatangi sa buong mundo na walang divorce.
DeleteWalang bilang opinion mo Goma. Dapat sayo maging pabigat na lang sa bubong ng kung sino. Wala ka namang silbi Jan sa kongreso.
ReplyDeleteKorek. Mgaluto na lang sya sa channel nya.
DeleteAgree magluto namlang siya sa youtube channel niya at magfarming. Walang silbing lawmaker. Sino kaya writer niya
DeleteThere are pros and cons talaga. While it's true that divorce will give some couples a ticket to easily bail out, there are also those that are suffering in an abusive marriage and can't afford annulment. This isn't a black and white case. There's lots of grey areas here.
ReplyDeleteHonestly though, is it our right to dictate the lives of others? If they want to keep divorcing and having different husbands and wives, who are we to stop them? It's their life and their consequence.
Deletei am PRO divorce pero sana naman ayusin nyo muna ang siste ng child support. kawawa ang mga batang affected sa paghihiwalay kung kanino at saan na lang maiiwan
ReplyDeletedapat automatic kaltas na sa sahod eh. kung sino yung main na nag aalaga sa bata dun mapupunta yung pera. dumadami yung mga katulad ni Paolo eh sa totoo lang para walang kawala.
DeleteIsa pa tong hindi na dapat ibinoboto eh. Nakakaloka Goma. Tayo nlang ang walanh divorce dahil sa kaipokritohang rason na yan. Bakit yung teenage pregnancy ba bumaba dahil sa Catholic country tayo at religiyosos kuno, diba hindi? Hay Pinas, hopeless! Lol
ReplyDeleteTrue, religion should not be part of the discussion on divorce. Will the church be there to support the battered women? Will they emforce the parent to provide child support?
DeleteI’m pro divorce pero ayoko ng tulad sa US na parang ang dali. Gusto ko yung may mediation process to assess kung pwede pa reconcile. Kung pwede pa ma reconcile, have the couple go through therapy and if di na talaga, then agree on terms of separation. And may waiting period like 6 months. I am married and I am secured in my marriage. Having a divorce bill does not scare me.
ReplyDeleteDon't say that to women who suffer abuse everyday. For these women, the faster the better they can be free from their abusive husbands.
DeleteHonestly, hindi siya easy. Divorce in the USA needs to be agreed upon by both parties. When one party disagrees, the divorce will take even longer and will need additional documents/proofs/etc.
Deletetalaga ba?
DeleteIt's not the same. Please read the bill.
DeleteMaraming factors ang divorce sa US. Kapag agree kayo pareho ay madali. Kapag hindi kayo agree pareho ay mahirap. Matagal at mahirap ang hatian ng properties, child custody, spousal support, etc.
DeleteIt is not just the face that did not age well. Unfortunately.
ReplyDeleteDivorced are not for happily married couple obviously bakit ba ayaw nyo at anong pake nyo sa mga may gusto mag divorce kinakabahan ba kayo na iwan kayo ng partner nyo?
ReplyDeleteTrue! Anong kinakatakot nila na magkaroon ng divorce sa Pinas kung talagang masaya at maayos naman ang marriage nila?
DeleteNatatakot ang karamihan dyan sa mga lalaking nasa pwesto kasi may mga kab@t ang mga yan at nagtitiis nalng ang mga asawa. Ang hirap pala magpaannul ng kasal.
DeleteYes to divorce para magkaroon din ng laws regarding child support and alimony pag naghiwalay. Lalo na pag iniwan ng husband/wife yung career nila to care for the children.
ReplyDeleteAng yaman kaya ni Lucy.
ReplyDeleteThere are only few countries in the world like Philippines that do not legalize divorce. Pity are those to women who suffer abuse in the hands of their husbands. We're in 2024 now and the country is still backwards in the issue of divorce.
ReplyDeleteNgaun q lang nalaman na close minded pla si goma..,nakakadissapoint.
ReplyDeleteMarami kasing lalaki ang takot sa child support and alimony laws once divorce is finalized here.
ReplyDeleteTo give an idea lang sa cost ng annulment: in 2020 I asked a friend na lawyer kasi some people I know were considering getting one. 300k all-in package daw, mas mabilis ma-grant than usual.
ReplyDeleteI once read this from Bishop Fulton “wrong is wrong even when everybody’s doing it. Right is right even when nobody’s doing it”
ReplyDeletePilit man ituwid ng panahon ngayon ang mali mananatiling tama at malinaw ang utos ng Diyos. Bilang tumira sa Amerika nakita ko ang damage ng divorce sa mg tao. Napakadali lang sa kanila ang marriage. I stand with you Richard!
Eh di huwag kang mag-divorce.
DeleteMa flex lang na nasa abroad? What do you mean? Where I live in the States, divorce is meant to give you your freedom back and the right to be happy again. I know so many people who are so relieved they got out of a messed up marriage, and the kids suffer while the parents are together fighting and bickering at each other. Kids nowadays understand that for parents to be good parents, they have to be whole and happy. Mas maraming negative effects ang mga nagsasama under one roof pero puro away… it’s more traumatic for the kids
DeleteLeft n right ang mga nangangaliwa diyan sa pinas.no divorce talaga dahil walang money to file for it. Basta hiwalayan mo Basta toxic ang relationship ninyo. Walang kwenta ang batas sa pinas kaya Bakit pa mag papass ng law about divorce.
ReplyDeletePeople still separate in the Philippines anyway - just without the rights that divorce would impose. It's ludicrous that anyone of sound mind would even contest this..how many Filipino men have extramarital affairs, children on the side, issues with domestic abuse? Are those the morally superior he wants to "protect"??
ReplyDeletegive chance to those who wants to be happy. Yung iba nkatali padin sa dating asawa kahit matagal ng hiwalay. Yung mga anak nagiging legitimate
ReplyDeletepro divorce. lalo na if abused na ang isang party sa relationship. why stay?
ReplyDeleteLucy is very religious ... influence din niya kay Goma.
ReplyDeleteLol.
DeleteLow IQ man. The Bible allows for divorce. He obviously doesn’t read it.
ReplyDeleteAyaw ng mga politicians na may divorce, kasi baka maisipan ng mga missis nilang i divorce sila, kung ang iba sa mga yan walang prenup, baka mahati yaman nila.
ReplyDeleteI'm pro divorce. I had an annullment in Manila and it took 3 years. Funny thing is I financed the whole thing! My ex didn't care about the charges as long as he won't contribute. Which I hemmed and hawwed for years because of the cost. My friends, all three got theirs annulled too without their ex's support which is rotten to say the least!
ReplyDeleteSome people don't present the way they really are before marriage and theres no reason why a person live a life of sin or made a mistake when they were young or they've been lied to.
Divorce should be the last resort but shouldn't be limited to wealthy people who can pay for the legal fees.
ReplyDeleteOMG Richard! Just becoz your marriage is perfect ... Pls be an advocate for those whose marriage is not. The hypocrisy of not having divorce far outweighs the benefits of one.
ReplyDeleteCurious ako sa magiging alimony rules kung maisabatas nga ang divorce dito. Hindi alam ng marami na unlike annulment, divorce requires alimony/spousal financial support.
ReplyDeleteGoodluck Sa next term mo goma Kung tatakbo Ka pa.
ReplyDeleteNo to divorce. Yes to amendment of the annulment law. Make it cheaper and faster so abused spouses can avail of it. Parang sa small claims, mabilis lang. Pero for serious grounds only. Divorce kasi kahit mababaw ginagrant. Mawawala talaga ang sanctity of marriage. Parang sa Las Vegas kahit lasing pwede magpakasal tapos divorce na lang later on. Nagiging joke na lang ang marriage.
ReplyDeleteSo what kung mababaw? Pala desisyon kayo para sa iba. So para lang sa mailan Ilan na “mababaw” ang dahilan Kaya no kayo sa divorce ? E paano naman yung mga nasa abusive relationship at marsmi sila ha… Sanctity of marriage kayo jan- with or without divorce naman, spouses cheat. Open your eyes.
DeleteBakit kasi naka focus jan sa divorce bill masyado. Gawan na muna ng batas yung mga bago magpapakasal dapat dumaan sila sa mahirap na proseso saka na approvahan yan. For sure maiiwasan yung mga naghihiwalay lalo pag may anak na. Lumalaki na populasyon ng pinas tapos keri keri lang magpadami ng legal.
ReplyDeleteIt's case to case basis, Rep. Gomez
ReplyDeletePag annulment walang alimony. Pag divorce meron. Kaya hindi rin basta bastang option ang divorce because there’s alimony/spousal support involved. Spousal support pwedeng habang buhay yan, pwedeng one-time big-time payment, pwedeng may specific timeframe lang depende sa financial capability ng either party. So di ko alam kung pabor pa to sa mayayaman who can afford alimony, o pahirap sa mga di masyadong afford. Child support nga di mapatupad ng maayos dito pano pa kaya ito.
ReplyDeleteDivorce is available for Filipino-Muslims. Bakit hindi pwede sa lahat ng Pilipino?
ReplyDeleteWell if you really read the Bible, God hates divorce & He says people are stubborn. There are only 2 conditions He allows it. Adultery & abandonment.
ReplyDeleteThis is unbiblical. The Bible actually allows divorce on certain grounds. It’s sad that these “Christians” can’t even even read their Bibles properly
ReplyDeleteThe government does not have a religion!
DeleteI'm for Divorce Bill, but I respect his stand. I respect people in general who are firm with their beliefs and are not easily swayed by the majority.
ReplyDeleteKung bubugbugin ang anak niya ng mapapangasawa nito. Same pa din kaya ang stand niya?
ReplyDeleteDi daw sila dukha at may pang gastos for annulment.So wapakels daw siya sa atin ganern.
DeleteCall Richard to rescue
DeleteThis! He’s saying no kasi masaya sila…. So selfish of him
DeleteRegardless of one's religion, divorce should be an option.
ReplyDeletedivorce should be an option to loveless marriages.
ReplyDeleteAlam ko costly din ang mag divorce. Pero yun nga mas madali ang process.
ReplyDeleteGo ako sa divorce, kasi may annulment din naman na, ganun din yun.
Tigilan mo pagiging conservative mo Goma after years in Palibhasa? are you kidding me?
ReplyDeleteLahat nalang ng utos ng Diyos sinuway na nating mga tao! Sige apprubahan nayan pati lalaki sa lalaki , babae sa babae magpakasal na din pag nagsawa divorce nalang din. Ang dali nalang mabuhay habang napako ang Diyos natin sa crus.
ReplyDelete105 antih, naiintidihan mo ba ang binabasa mong Bible? Kasi mukhang mas malala ka pa kay Goma. Basahin mo ulit bago ka ngumawa dyan looking like a f@@l.
DeleteRead the Bible properly because what you are saying is unbiblical.
Deletegoma, wag ka idealista, real talk! hindi lahat ay pare-parehas na may masayang pagsasama at pamilya. Akala ko malakawak ang pag iisip mo pero wala ka palang pinag kaiba sa makikitid na utak na pulitiko. sayang naman ang paghalal sayo at backwards pala ang mga paniniwala mo sa divorce. Pilipinas na lang at Vatican ang natitirang bansa na walang divorce. Yung Spain nga na sumakop sa atin meron nyan tapos tayong mga Pilipino ay kumakapit sa bulok na paniniwala.
ReplyDeleteDapat kung majority sa Pinas gusto ng divorce ibigay na. Hindi naman yung makaka affect sa ayaw ang divorce. Kaloka.
ReplyDeleteHindi ka nag iisip kahit sa mga anak ng kinasal makakaapekto yon ano nalang sila parang ginawa lang sa mundo para iwanan
DeleteHindi 319, tuloy ang buhay. Anong klaseng pag iisip yan.
Delete3:19 anak nanaman?!! try mong isipin muna yung mental health ng mga partner na nasa abusive relationship. paano mo maalagaan ng maayos anak mo kung hindi ka maayos emotionally and mentally?! pag wala sa sitwasyon manahimik huh.
DeleteMas affected sila if nakikita nila na laging nagaaway ang magulang at may iba nang kinakasama both parents nila. That’s traumatic and confusing for kids. Bakit mo naman iisipin na ganyan 3:19? Di naman sila iiwanan, andyan ang parents. Kaloka ka. Very close minded talaga karamihan sa atin
DeleteAkala nio naman mura ang process ng divorce. Sa umpisa pa lang pag may nakita na kau na red flag, don't get married. When you get married, make sure kilala nio na at least 80% ang magiging spouse nio. And don't have kids yet.
ReplyDeleteTama si Goma
ReplyDeleteDaming threatened sa pagpapasa ng divorce bill e kung confident kayo sa marriage nyo there’s no reason for you to feel insecure.
ReplyDeleteAng right to divorce a spouse should be included in basic human rights. Pero ano ba maasahan sa bansa natin, napakaraming violations ng human rights. Oo may freedom of speech tayo pero yung quality of life natin napakababa at nasa laylayan ng priority ng gobyerno. Lahat na ng bansa may divorce jusko naman!! Mas marami at malala ang epekto ng kawalan ng divorce sa bansa kesa sa pagkakaron nito.
Does the government even research how many married couples have separated? How many children are born illegitimate and carry the shame simply because their mother or father can’t afford annulment?? How many women are being victimized by abusive partners? Napakaraming pang-aapak sa human rights na nangyayari bunga ng kawalan ng divorce. Kung pwede lang ako lumuhod isa isa sa mga b*** at walang puso politiko na to gagawin ko maipasa lang ang divorce.
Kahit i allow ng government ang divorce, religion can still exercise their rights to refuse divorce. If against sa divorce ang isang religion pwede nila ipagbawal un sa mga kaanib nila. Example sa INC bawal kumain ng dugo because of their beliefs. So allow divorce for those who need them.
ReplyDeleteAGREE WITH GOMA! MAG ISIP MUNA KASI BAGO MAGPAKASAL! Take ur time.
ReplyDeleteno to divorce means di ka pwedeng magkamali and you can guarantee the future selves of you and your partner. who can do that???
ReplyDeleteyung perfect partner today, pwedeng magluko nang katakut takot tomorrow.
richard is narrowminded porke siya nakajackpot kay lucy. as in…masaya ako sa buhay ko, bahala kayo diyan sa mala-impiyernong buhay ninyo.
It’s so stupid to bring up values and religion when talking about being against divorce because how is it different to having an annulment??
ReplyDeleteDivorce will never be accepted sa atin dahil sa mindset ng mga Pinoy. Binasa ko mga comments and mapapakamot ka na lang ng ulo. Not because may divorce, hiwalay na agad or mas marami manloloko. It depends yan sa relationship nyo and sa integrity nyong mag-asawa. And pag divorce mas mapoprotect ang mga kids, dahil susunod dyan yung legal na proseso na dapat sustentuhan ang mga bata or bigyan ng alimony ang spouse, ang mga tatay dapat magpatuloy ng obligation sa mga anak. Di matatapos responsibility dahil naghiwalay. Mas mabibigyan ng rights ang mga bata unlike now, sumama sa mga kabit at iniwan ang obligasyon sa mga naiwan na magulang na nagaalaga ng mga anak. I am all for divorce. If marriage is not working, end it amicably and legally.
ReplyDeleteFrom outside looking in - I'm hopeful pa rin sana makapasa to sa Senate, sana talaga.. it's about time Ph!
ReplyDeleteThe separation of church and state shall be inviolable
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