I feel sorry for the kid. By doing this it's like she's saying her love and approval depends on the kid keeping up with the vow she did with the mom re his (a man's) biological need until what, he's 30? Parang sinabi mo rin sa anak mo na wag huminga, kumain or mag toilet for 20 years
No, her son is not out of wedlock. She was married to Anthony Linsangan, who passed away dahil nagkasakit. Ok lang din naman na hindi ka maniwala sa purity ring, but you do mot need to make that assumption just to make a point.
12.13 Korek mars! mga tao maghahanap talaga ng mali...kala mo ang peperpek sa layp! Atupagin nyo yung magandang kinabukasang mabibigay nyo sa anak nyo o magiging anak nyo periodt
Goodluck with that! I personally find it better if a couple experiences that and even lives in together before marriage. I'm definitely not the traditional type, but I find that you learn so much about each other beforehand. Some ppl wait and once they get married, all hell breaks loose because they're not uses to the big changes which leads to either divorce or annulment. Also, nothing wrong with sex just as long you're both consenting adults. Imagine finding out after marriage that you're not compatible because you decided to wait. Yikes!
Agree, baks. Ang hirap kasi satin dito sa Pinas ultra conservative na nagiging wala na sa hulog.
Cohabiting is the best litmus test to see if you and your partner are really meant for each other. Kasi you get to see the real him/ her by being with your partner 24/7. So makikita mo talaga lahat ng quirks niya, ung values niya, ung ugali niya na lalabas lang when you're in a relaxed setup.
Both of you get to see the real you and it's up to you to decide if you're able to accept the person and tolerate all his flaws and quirkiness. If all his flaws are a dealbreaker, at least nskita mo na agad bago pa kayo matali sa isa't isa. You could freely bail out kasi nga di pa kayo kasal.
1054 antih, walang divorce sa Pinas kaya live in muna tapos pakasal kapag sure na. Hindi nman sinabing kapag naglive in eh 100% sure na kayo na tlaga but it is better than na magkagulatan sa ugali ang mag asawa.
I agree as well. I don’t believe and support live in before pero I think it would’ve helped a lot kung naglive in muna kami ni hubby before getting married.
I agree with you! Im a single mom and I have a 14yr old son. I have a close relationship with my son and i always tell him, that when he gets to that point to aways be safe. I am definitely not the traditional filipino mom. Maybe because I was raise in the US since i was 2 and im now 39. Teens will be teens, some or most of them will experience pre-marital sex. Might as well have that talk with them while they are still young.
1:20 this person is not controlling it's called having an opinion. I'm sickened by controlling parents especially sa ganyang aspeto. Respect your kids. kagaya ka siguro ni camille Kaya di mo naintindihan.
1053 I have kids at mas maigi pa na education about sex at safe sex ang ituro dyan sa mga anak kesa sa ganyang kaipokritohan. Iwas teenage pregnancy na rin.
11:46 I think Camille was not the one who "gave a ceremony". Nagparticipate lang sila sa activity na ito. I remember there was an organisation who invited selected high school students in our school and they conducted a talk about being responsible students including topics on pre marital s*x. Then there was a twist in the end, the parent were asked to bring a token like a ring to give to their son/daughter, tinawag siyang purity ring because yun nga may vow din to stay pure until marriage
Hindi ko maintindihan mga ganitong parents, when my mom knew na may bf na ko during my college days daig ko pa yung may nakakahawang sakit. The whole clan is condemning me for a having a bf and assuming where doing it already. Mga tito and tita ko asking me na layuan mga anak nila para daw di maging malandi tulad ko. It is traumatic and very painful na majudge ka na hindi pure just because your in a relationship. My dad even told me na wag ng mag-aral kasi mag-aasawa lang ako at di naman ako magiging carrier ng apelyido nya. He left us for someone younger than me and had a son from that woman. My mother blamed me everyday for that saying I ruined her future and her clan's future. Telling me I am a cursed to them.
U definitely came frlm a narcissistic, toxic family and you were assigned by the parents to be the family escape goat. Research more about it and you'll understand why people treated u like that. Now that youre of age, u go zero communication with them if thats what will heal u. Protect yourself and ur peace.
Kaloka ganyang kamag-anak. Tama ang sabi ng iba dito na protect your peace. Wa’g ka nlng mag communicate pa sa kanila para di na makadagdag ng problema pa. Hope you’re ok! Hugsss
To each his own but nasa FB tayo, so i’ll be a mahadera.
I’d rather my children be honest with me rather than impose impossible rules. This kind of thing is a big pressure. And I’d prefer that if they decide to do it, they can be open about it. Then we can talk about sex education and safe sex. I always tell my son that no is a complete sentence. If partner may slight hesitation, don’t force but respect.
Iba na ang panahon ngayon. While the values remain, we need to adapt to the times. Talk and teach our children na naaayos sa environment na ginagalawan nila. So they don’t end up ignorant also. If sex is not a taboo subject and if kids today can talk about it with parents with no judgement, it might help lessen teen pregnancy.
This is mind-conditioning. Before age of 18, fine. But not when the son is of legal age and can decide what he does for his body, then there will be shame when public sees the ring missing.
Ako lang ba pero mas okay na turuan nya ang anak nya to respect and be responsible to his future partner rather than purity? Sex kasi is normal na now a days pero madaming manloloko and di kayang panindigan ung responsibilidad nila. Anyways anak nya yan
Hay naku your son will be confused in a lot of things when the time comes and may not know or unsure what he likes and don't like, let people experiment and teach them to be safe ans responsible
Ako siguro if I have a son, lalo pa me gf na, I will give him condom, teach him about responsibility while in a sexual relatonship and of course repercussions of his actions. Sabihin ko tlga I will not support him if gets someone pregnant. He has to paddle his own canoe.
True baks. Isa lang tlaga ang wish ko sa mga junakis na they be truthful if time comes na gusto na nila to engage in that situation para may education about safe sex at walang buntisan na magaganap kasi ang hirap ng buhay.
1:18, her son was not born out of wedlock but she got preggo before getting married. She left the country to ‘study’ then got married, tapos mga 3 weeks later she delivered her baby. The pregnancy math doesn’t math.
It’s like she’s scared history would repeat itself and maging lola siya ng maaga?
Define purity, Camille. Para saan? Bakit? This is more than weird. Kinikilabutan ako para sa anak mong lalake na ipinost monpa sa IG na sinusuutan mo ng ring.
Napaka OA naman nyan. Okay lang pag kayo lang pamilya huwag i post para malaman ng buong mundo na uliran kang ina. Why not teach your son to how to respect women and being open to you so you and your husband can guide him in his relationships in the future.
Ang hirap kase sa Pinas, walang sense of accountability and responsibility ang mga tao. Pag may nabuntis, walang law na obliged yung guy na mag support. Kaya pag naka buntis, kawawa ang bata and tung babae. Tapos yung guy bubuntisin nanaman ang susunod na magiging gf. Sa US , pag naka buntis ka, obliged ka mag support or pwede pa abort ang babae,my body my choice ang peg nila, although I dont agree with this. Pero mas careful sila na magbuntis at magpabuntis dahil wala silang takas.
May law naman pero some doesn’t want to be bothered pa by the other party. Minsan pride na lang din ang umiiral. Pwede naman magfile ng VAWC under economic abuse para makakuha ng child support.
Sasabihan kasi ang babae na nabuntis na naghahabol sa lalaki or pera. Usually, walanh trabaho ang lalaki kaya paano makakapagbigay ng suporta? 😂 Ang dami pang Marites na manghahamak kung bakit pa maghahabol at Hindi nlang buhayin mag isa. 🤣
I get that it's not for all. I personally wouldn't do a ceremony like this. However, I also feel we need to be careful about comments we make on how others parent their children.
She put herself out there and made this public so everyone will give their opinion. Mainam nga yun para hindi isipin o maramdaman ng ibang magulang na hindi tama yung pagpapalaki nila sa anak nila kung hindi nila bibigyan ng purity ring.
Ayaw ko i-pressure anak ko na hwag mag pre marital eklavu. I will say syempre mas prefer ko na Sana hwag Pero if ever gagawin nya it has to be with someone na she truly loves and to practice safe eklavu. I don't want my kid to end up thinking having eklavu thoughts make them wrong or evil. Pag tao na normal and bata pa it is natural to have those urges.
Parents controlling their son's sex life and forcing them to wear purity ring like it's the end all and be all of their life. Like their persoonhood is based on whether they have sex or not. Jeez. Wrong values being taught here.
Jusko. At may ceremony pa nga! Kung ano ano na lang ginagawang practice ng mga magulang lately. Kala siguro nila nakakatulong sila sa mga kabataan ngayon. In reality, bibigyan lang nila sila ng dagdag na problema in the future.
Tama naman ang karamihan dito. Nakikimarites lang tayo pero sana di na siya nagpost about the purity ring. Parang she opened herself and Nate to criticism. May magaabang na if the kid will take off the ring before getting married.
Suddenly, there's a lot of expert parents here or non- parents who think they know better. Judging people because they chose to make a vow to be pure before marriage. Mind you, these are the very people who cry of discrimination and the very people who call christians judgementals. Ironic
Sana turuan rin ng safe sex, consent and respect. Infantilism like that hindi aya helpful and mas lalo ma confuse yung bata lalo na when meron pressure and temptation.
The majority of people believe that cohabitation, living together before getting married is better pero come to think of it very high parin ang percentage ng separation, annulment, divorce and broken family ke married or Hindi. So if Camille and her family want to live in a traditional Christian way let them be. For sure they prayed and talked about it. Teenagers, nowadays you can’t impose on them what they want or need to do. Not even the clothes they have to wear. They are much more privileged. They speak up and use their voice. At the end of the day Divine intervention and madaming dasal ang need ni Camille. Whatever the outcome is si Lord parin ang mag glorify.
I am a mother of two boys. For me, it's their bodies and their rules. I am more focused on teaching them the right way and raising them to be good people.
Out of topic but Camille is aging gracefully. Before si Angelica talaga yung nagbloom nung nagdalaga sila pero now Camille is looking good and fresh sa age nya. Ano secret? Also gwapo ng panganay nya.
Walang masama na maghangad si Camille na maging matino yung anak nya pero overkill lang na may pa ceremony and share sa soc med. It really is a private matter and should just stay in the family.
Poging binata.
ReplyDeleteThose things dont work you know.
ReplyDeleteOh maybe sa mga katulad mo. Depende kasi un sa core values ng family at ng bata.
DeleteAgree! Remember the Jonas brothers & their purity rings? 😂
DeleteDepende yan sa tao, sa pamilya, sa environment niya. Kung nasa bahay lang lagi yang bata, gagana yang ring.
Delete11:08 ang baba talaga ng tingin niyo sa taong nag premarital s**. Mga religious pero judgemental naman.
DeleteSelena Gomez had one before.
DeleteI find this extreme. Ok lang sana sa babae, mas posible, pero sa anak na lalake? Wala na tayo sa panahon ni Moises.
Delete12:12 sino namang tao ang nasa bahay lang hanggang magpakasal?
DeleteTaylor swift had too.
DeleteI feel sorry for the kid. By doing this it's like she's saying her love and approval depends on the kid keeping up with the vow she did with the mom re his (a man's) biological need until what, he's 30? Parang sinabi mo rin sa anak mo na wag huminga, kumain or mag toilet for 20 years
DeleteJonas brothers too
DeleteTapos pag nag asawa na magloloko pa rin kasi di nakapag maximize nung pagka bata.
DeleteSo, what are the odds that it works?
DeleteCurious lang me.
11:15 parang hubby ko maaga kami naging in serious relationship . Super loyal nya. We’re both Christians. When we got married, dun nagloko.
DeletePero she gpt pregnant before outside marriage dba? Babae pa sya ha
ReplyDeleteNo, her son is not out of wedlock. She was married to Anthony Linsangan, who passed away dahil nagkasakit. Ok lang din naman na hindi ka maniwala sa purity ring, but you do mot need to make that assumption just to make a point.
Delete1:18 nabuntis sya ano ka ba. Kaya nagpakasal. Nag sorry pa nga sya noon.
DeleteAt 1:18 - conceived before marriage. May pa-press release pa mag-aaral sa US yan
DeleteTrue. Siya nga nabuntis before kinasal at eexpect niya yang purity ring sa anak nya
DeleteMostly sa pinas pag may pakwan na sa tyan, matic pipilitin sila ipakasal ng magulang at balae.
DeleteYou’re not with your son 24/7 even if he wears that, no guarantee he won’t do it.. duh..
ReplyDeleteWho are you to judge the son’s life choices? Kilala mo? Palaki mo?
DeleteWhat a horrible thing to blurt out...what an ugly, hateful soul.
Delete12.13 Korek mars! mga tao maghahanap talaga ng mali...kala mo ang peperpek sa layp! Atupagin nyo yung magandang kinabukasang mabibigay nyo sa anak nyo o magiging anak nyo periodt
Delete12:07 nahiya ako sa spelling mo
Delete1.28 hahaha ang perpek mo eh
DeleteMaybe it works to some extent. kasi isipin nyo, you're about to do the deed, hot na hot ka na.
Delete... tapos makikita mo ring mo
... tapos maalala mo nanay mo
...ok, wala ka nang gana!
Goodluck with that! I personally find it better if a couple experiences that and even lives in together before marriage. I'm definitely not the traditional type, but I find that you learn so much about each other beforehand. Some ppl wait and once they get married, all hell breaks loose because they're not uses to the big changes which leads to either divorce or annulment. Also, nothing wrong with sex just as long you're both consenting adults. Imagine finding out after marriage that you're not compatible because you decided to wait. Yikes!
ReplyDeleteAgree, baks. Ang hirap kasi satin dito sa Pinas ultra conservative na nagiging wala na sa hulog.
DeleteCohabiting is the best litmus test to see if you and your partner are really meant for each other. Kasi you get to see the real him/ her by being with your partner 24/7. So makikita mo talaga lahat ng quirks niya, ung values niya, ung ugali niya na lalabas lang when you're in a relaxed setup.
Both of you get to see the real you and it's up to you to decide if you're able to accept the person and tolerate all his flaws and quirkiness. If all his flaws are a dealbreaker, at least nskita mo na agad bago pa kayo matali sa isa't isa. You could freely bail out kasi nga di pa kayo kasal.
Para sayo yan para iba hinde. Baket may ibang live in partners hinde rin successful ah.
Delete11:14 So agree on this. Conservative type pa ako ha pero agree ako dito.
Delete1054 antih, walang divorce sa Pinas kaya live in muna tapos pakasal kapag sure na. Hindi nman sinabing kapag naglive in eh 100% sure na kayo na tlaga but it is better than na magkagulatan sa ugali ang mag asawa.
DeleteI agree as well. I don’t believe and support live in before pero I think it would’ve helped a lot kung naglive in muna kami ni hubby before getting married.
Delete8:29 Same! Kung naglive in kami ni hubby kahit 1 year, i dont think magpapakasal ako sa kanya. And yet here we are.
DeleteI agree with you! Im a single mom and I have a 14yr old son. I have a close relationship with my son and i always tell him, that when he gets to that point to aways be safe. I am definitely not the traditional filipino mom. Maybe because I was raise in the US since i was 2 and im now 39. Teens will be teens, some or most of them will experience pre-marital sex. Might as well have that talk with them while they are still young.
DeleteThat is weird
ReplyDeleteDaming echos ng mga ito jusko
ReplyDeleteanak nya yan, wag nyo syang pakilamanan.
ReplyDeletegawin nyo ang gusto nyo sa sarili nyong anak. maritess lang kayo.
Controlling your child’s s*x life is not something a parent should do. If the child wants to take that oath, let him do it himself.
Delete11:55 and controlling a stranger's belief is not something a chismosa should do. Nakakaloka ang pagka righteous nito.
DeletePag wala namang ambag sa palaki, huwag na mag comment as if meron.
Delete1:20 this person is not controlling it's called having an opinion. I'm sickened by controlling parents especially sa ganyang aspeto. Respect your kids. kagaya ka siguro ni camille Kaya di mo naintindihan.
Delete1:20 nakaka loka ang comprehension skills mo. Balik ka sa school.
Delete1154 question may anak kana ba?
Delete11:40 hindi nya property ang anak nya. Kilabutan ka sa pinag sasasabi mo.
Delete1053 I have kids at mas maigi pa na education about sex at safe sex ang ituro dyan sa mga anak kesa sa ganyang kaipokritohan. Iwas teenage pregnancy na rin.
DeleteHopefully gusto talaga ng anak nya yan kasi baka dumating ang araw na pag awayan nila yan tapos pinublic pa internet is forever pa naman.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you beks. Baka one day he decided to do something else. Baka ibato pa sa kanya yan similar to the Jonas Brothers
DeleteThat’s creepy, giving your son a ceremony to make him promise to be “pure” until marriage.
ReplyDeleteSame here. Dapat encourage lang kids to keep a promise to God but a promise to the parents they wont have sex until marriage, ang creepy nga.
Delete11:46 I think Camille was not the one who "gave a ceremony". Nagparticipate lang sila sa activity na ito. I remember there was an organisation who invited selected high school students in our school and they conducted a talk about being responsible students including topics on pre marital s*x. Then there was a twist in the end, the parent were asked to bring a token like a ring to give to their son/daughter, tinawag siyang purity ring because yun nga may vow din to stay pure until marriage
DeleteReality speaking, this is only more possible with daughters
ReplyDeleteI agree
DeleteIt’s weird to give your son that, more so make it public. Grabe lahat na lang talaga for the gram!
ReplyDeleteHindi ko maintindihan mga ganitong parents, when my mom knew na may bf na ko during my college days daig ko pa yung may nakakahawang sakit. The whole clan is condemning me for a having a bf and assuming where doing it already. Mga tito and tita ko asking me na layuan mga anak nila para daw di maging malandi tulad ko. It is traumatic and very painful na majudge ka na hindi pure just because your in a relationship. My dad even told me na wag ng mag-aral kasi mag-aasawa lang ako at di naman ako magiging carrier ng apelyido nya. He left us for someone younger than me and had a son from that woman. My mother blamed me everyday for that saying I ruined her future and her clan's future. Telling me I am a cursed to them.
ReplyDeleteHugssss, baksss
DeleteU definitely came frlm a narcissistic, toxic family and you were assigned by the parents to be the family escape goat. Research more about it and you'll understand why people treated u like that. Now that youre of age, u go zero communication with them if thats what will heal u. Protect yourself and ur peace.
Delete12:28 im sorry to hear that. How are you doing now if I may ask?
DeleteWhat a horrible family you have. Cutting ties should be normalized. I wouldn't want to raise my children surrounded by people like that.
DeleteVirtual Hug for you.
DeleteIm so sorry to hear that. I hope you are in a better place, and that you know none of those are your fault.
DeleteMas maigi pang walang kamaganak kesa sa ganyan 1228. Nakakaloka. Kumusta ka?
DeleteKaloka ganyang kamag-anak. Tama ang sabi ng iba dito na protect your peace. Wa’g ka nlng mag communicate pa sa kanila para di na makadagdag ng problema pa. Hope you’re ok! Hugsss
DeleteI dont know pero I find this weird.
ReplyDeleteI feel like yun mga ganto lalo lang ichachallenge at ilalapit sa temptation ng mga friends.
ReplyDeleteWrong! Teach your son safe sex.
ReplyDeleteExactly! S** is not wrong.
DeleteIn your ideal, but what is God's ideal?
DeleteTrue baks. Yan tlaga ang goal ko bilang nanay na practice safe sex yung mga junakis ko.
Delete1:18 jusko dinamay na naman si God!
DeleteGod's ideal is for you to not control anyone. Be a good role model and care for your children but they are not your property.
Delete11:26AM
Delete10:10am
Iba talaga ang ideal ng tao vs Biblical ideal
`Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. ' (Proverbs 22:6.)
5:34 lol sa verse na yan "train" not "control" or "manipulate"
DeletePressure
ReplyDeleteTo each his own but nasa FB tayo, so i’ll be a mahadera.
ReplyDeleteI’d rather my children be honest with me rather than impose impossible rules. This kind of thing is a big pressure. And I’d prefer that if they decide to do it, they can be open about it. Then we can talk about sex education and safe sex. I always tell my son that no is a complete sentence. If partner may slight hesitation, don’t force but respect.
Iba na ang panahon ngayon. While the values remain, we need to adapt to the times. Talk and teach our children na naaayos sa environment na ginagalawan nila. So they don’t end up ignorant also. If sex is not a taboo subject and if kids today can talk about it with parents with no judgement, it might help lessen teen pregnancy.
Agree!
DeleteThis is mind-conditioning. Before age of 18, fine. But not when the son is of legal age and can decide what he does for his body, then there will be shame when public sees the ring missing.
ReplyDeleteAko lang ba pero mas okay na turuan nya ang anak nya to respect and be responsible to his future partner rather than purity? Sex kasi is normal na now a days pero madaming manloloko and di kayang panindigan ung responsibilidad nila. Anyways anak nya yan
ReplyDeleteTotoo! Consent and being aware of consequences ang mas mahalaga. Deciding based on conscience and not because mommy put purity ring on me.
DeleteMust be the same purity ball that my friend and her son attended sa halagang 6k hehe
ReplyDeleteHay naku your son will be confused in a lot of things when the time comes and may not know or unsure what he likes and don't like, let people experiment and teach them to be safe ans responsible
ReplyDeleteAko siguro if I have a son, lalo pa me gf na, I will give him condom, teach him about responsibility while in a sexual relatonship and of course repercussions of his actions. Sabihin ko tlga I will not support him if gets someone pregnant. He has to paddle his own canoe.
ReplyDeleteIto dapat pag may girlfriend na. Dapat prepared palagi kahit gusto nila maging pure minsan hindi napipigilan. It's better to be safe than sorry..
DeleteTrue baks. Isa lang tlaga ang wish ko sa mga junakis na they be truthful if time comes na gusto na nila to engage in that situation para may education about safe sex at walang buntisan na magaganap kasi ang hirap ng buhay.
Delete1:18, her son was not born out of wedlock but she got preggo before getting married. She left the country to ‘study’ then got married, tapos mga 3 weeks later she delivered her baby. The pregnancy math doesn’t math.
ReplyDeleteIt’s like she’s scared history would repeat itself and maging lola siya ng maaga?
Naging self righteous yata siya.
DeleteThe more reason she should not be doing this. This is creepy and hypocritical
DeleteOh no! Camille you are the mom but I think you should stay on your lane. Your son has a mind of his own. Who are you to decide?
ReplyDeleteDefine purity, Camille. Para saan? Bakit? This is more than weird. Kinikilabutan ako para sa anak mong lalake na ipinost monpa sa IG na sinusuutan mo ng ring.
ReplyDeleteNapaka OA naman nyan. Okay lang pag kayo lang pamilya huwag i post para malaman ng buong mundo na uliran kang ina. Why not teach your son to how to respect women and being open to you so you and your husband can guide him in his relationships in the future.
ReplyDeleteAng hirap kase sa Pinas, walang sense of accountability and responsibility ang mga tao. Pag may nabuntis, walang law na obliged yung guy na mag support. Kaya pag naka buntis, kawawa ang bata and tung babae. Tapos yung guy bubuntisin nanaman ang susunod na magiging gf. Sa US , pag naka buntis ka, obliged ka mag support or pwede pa abort ang babae,my body my choice ang peg nila, although I dont agree with this. Pero mas careful sila na magbuntis at magpabuntis dahil wala silang takas.
ReplyDeleteMay law naman pero some doesn’t want to be bothered pa by the other party. Minsan pride na lang din ang umiiral. Pwede naman magfile ng VAWC under economic abuse para makakuha ng child support.
DeleteSasabihan kasi ang babae na nabuntis na naghahabol sa lalaki or pera. Usually, walanh trabaho ang lalaki kaya paano makakapagbigay ng suporta? 😂 Ang dami pang Marites na manghahamak kung bakit pa maghahabol at Hindi nlang buhayin mag isa. 🤣
DeleteI get that it's not for all. I personally wouldn't do a ceremony like this. However, I also feel we need to be careful about comments we make on how others parent their children.
ReplyDeleteShe put herself out there and made this public so everyone will give their opinion. Mainam nga yun para hindi isipin o maramdaman ng ibang magulang na hindi tama yung pagpapalaki nila sa anak nila kung hindi nila bibigyan ng purity ring.
DeleteMy friend attended this event din with her sons. Nakita ko lang sa stories niya sa IG la lang.
ReplyDeleteAyaw ko i-pressure anak ko na hwag mag pre marital eklavu. I will say syempre mas prefer ko na Sana hwag Pero if ever gagawin nya it has to be with someone na she truly loves and to practice safe eklavu. I don't want my kid to end up thinking having eklavu thoughts make them wrong or evil. Pag tao na normal and bata pa it is natural to have those urges.
ReplyDeleteWeird
ReplyDeleteParents controlling their son's sex life and forcing them to wear purity ring like it's the end all and be all of their life. Like their persoonhood is based on whether they have sex or not. Jeez. Wrong values being taught here.
ReplyDeleteJusko. At may ceremony pa nga! Kung ano ano na lang ginagawang practice ng mga magulang lately. Kala siguro nila nakakatulong sila sa mga kabataan ngayon. In reality, bibigyan lang nila sila ng dagdag na problema in the future.
ReplyDeleteTama naman ang karamihan dito. Nakikimarites lang tayo pero sana di na siya nagpost about the purity ring. Parang she opened herself and Nate to criticism. May magaabang na if the kid will take off the ring before getting married.
ReplyDeletetrue ,for me this is too personal to be shared to the public
DeleteSuddenly, there's a lot of expert parents here or non- parents who think they know better. Judging people because they chose to make a vow to be pure before marriage. Mind you, these are the very people who cry of discrimination and the very people who call christians judgementals. Ironic
ReplyDeleteNobody said here they are experts. Just exchanging opinions and views hun. Besides, that's the purpose of this forum.
DeleteSana turuan rin ng safe sex, consent and respect. Infantilism like that hindi aya helpful and mas lalo ma confuse yung bata lalo na when meron pressure and temptation.
ReplyDeleteTo each his own.
ReplyDeleteThe majority of people believe that cohabitation, living together before getting married is better pero come to think of it very high parin ang percentage ng separation, annulment, divorce and broken family ke married or Hindi. So if Camille and her family want to live in a traditional Christian way let them be. For sure they prayed and talked about it. Teenagers, nowadays you can’t impose on them what they want or need to do. Not even the clothes they have to wear. They are much more privileged. They speak up and use their voice. At the end of the day Divine intervention and madaming dasal ang need ni Camille. Whatever the outcome is si Lord parin ang mag glorify.
This isn't good parenting for me.
ReplyDeleteSa mga comments mo makikita what kind of world we live in now…. indeed the last days.
ReplyDeleteJust because nag s** sinner na and it will contribute to his decision to end the world. How shallow.
DeleteI am a mother of two boys. For me, it's their bodies and their rules. I am more focused on teaching them the right way and raising them to be good people.
ReplyDeleteMas mahirap daw kung babae anak mo kasi siya magdadala. Pero kung lalaki bahala na sila
DeleteOut of topic but Camille is aging gracefully. Before si Angelica talaga yung nagbloom nung nagdalaga sila pero now Camille is looking good and fresh sa age nya. Ano secret? Also gwapo ng panganay nya.
ReplyDeleteNot holding my breath, but expecting next news to be a shotgun wedding.
ReplyDeleteWalang masama na maghangad si Camille na maging matino yung anak nya pero overkill lang na may pa ceremony and share sa soc med. It really is a private matter and should just stay in the family.
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