Lagi naman mare-realize mo ang pag ma mahal mo sa magu lang pag wala na sila.lalo na pag parent ka na din. Ang daming sana…. Nag spend ka ng maraming time sa kanila pero impossible kung Mayroon ka rin family mo. I miss my nanay at Tatay din.their memories will be forever sa puso natin.
Yung lifestyle niya hindi glamorosa. Pero siguro she gave up glamour for authenticity and true love. Authentic love, authentic relationships. I get this. I grew up in a very rich home pero without much attention from my parents. My parents always left us to the helpers, we had many helpers many drivers, we flew business class, sometimes first class, but NOTHING can make up for the lack of time, companionship and love. Kami yung achievers lahat, and my parents dont even show up to our graduation. They come from a time when parents didnt show up. When we marry, we get minimum tens of millions from our parents but again, my childhood was very sad. When you come from that kind of background, you etiher make the same mistakes or you go completely against it. Having come from certain relationships, we know which path Andi chose to take and I applaud her for having the courage to live an authentic life, free of the trappings of wealth. I hope and pray, Philmar makes her THAT happy that she can overlook all the rest. When I am happy with my hubs, I don't need a single cent, and the times I was angry, not even several millions could appease me. When your love bucket is full, you're content.
Ganda ng message mo sis nakakarelate ako. I also grew up into a priviledged life byahe dito byahe dyan. Yaya all around. Pero super busy sa businesses parents. Ngayon nakapangasawa ako and di man sya mayaman eh sobrang saya ko as in nagpapasalamat ako sa Diyos na may katuwang ako na napupunuan yung pagmamahal na matagal ko nang hinahanap.
Sobrang kuntento nako kung ano meron ako. Di ako nakikipagsabayan sa kung ano dapat meron na mga mamahaling gamit. Pinakaimportante is may peace of mind, good health and inner joy. Bonus na lang yung iba. Araw araw I thank God na pinaparanas niya sa akin ito.❤️
Just remember that if your parents did not sacrifice working, you will not experience all that... It is definitely very difficult not to know if you will be able to afford paying the doctors, hospitals and medications when you were sick. A lot of people just die without even knowing what illness they had.
Thanks 6:28 AM. Ok naman ako with the delulu label, preferable to being bitter, malevolent, petty and cruel for the sake of it, don't you think?
4:08 AM Yes I agree. I am grateful because I get to enjoy mamy freedoms.I get to choose to be available for my kids since my parents and husband earn/ed well enough for us. Also, things changed drastically and improved. When we had kids, my parents made time for them the way they never did for us. I have a better relationship with my parents now than before. I also choose to be present for them now that they're in old age.
Wala namang perfect. Minsan kasama mo nga wala namang pera. Minsan yaya lang kasama mo malaki naman baon mo. Walang perfect talaga. Sa perception na lang ng bawat isa nagkakaiba
11:28 Alam mo batotoy sa Pinas ang disparity ng mayaman sa mahirap ay malaki. As in huge gap. Kung may mga super poor eh may mga super rich din. Hindi gaya sa mga first world countries gaya ng Norway almost equal mga tao. Hindi nakakagulat ang tens of millions. Un iba nga hundreds pa. At ano naman mapapala niya na sabihin niya un para mainggit ka eh pare pareho lang tayong anonymous dito
Ang lahat ng namatayan ay palaging may pagsisisi, kahit ang alam mo ay ginawa mo na ang lahat noong buhay pa. Pakiramdam mo ay may kulang pa rin sa lahat ng ginawa mo.
Yung post pamamaalam, para sa namatay. Ano namang assurance natij na never syang nakapag-thank you at i love you sa nanay nya? Nabasa mo lahat ng messages nya ever?
Sus ganyan naman talaga halos lahat ng anak pag feeling pinapakilaman eh lumalayo ang loob kse nga feelinh nila wla na silanh ginawang tama kaka sermon di nila alam na kaya ganun mha nanay eh dahil nag aalala
6:30, reality ang sinabi ni 12:58... Lahat ng tao ay naiinis kapag sinasabihan ng magulang. Kapag ikaw ba ang sinasabihan ng magulang mo ay palaging tanggap mo lang? Hindi mo naramdaman na pinakielaman ka? Talaga lang?
shower the people you love with love, most especially while they are alive. give them a living eulogy. don’t wait till they are gone and will never hear your spoken feelings again.
Kaya dapat talaga sa showbiz hindi niyo sinasabi lahat ng nangyayari sa pamilya niyo. Tuloy ang tingin ng ibang tao kay Andi ay masamang anak. Malay ba naman natin sa relasyon nila mag ina. May mga mag nanay na away bati , normal yun.
Ang daming perfect na anak at nanay dito. Hindi natin alam ang buong detalye ng buhay nila. Jaclyn accepted the fact that all her kids are grown up. She continued working and her sentiments of being sad are just normal sa isang nanay na malayo ang anak. Binigyan niyo na agad ng masamang meaning kesyo masamang anak si Andi at hindi niya sinabi yan mga yan sa nanay niya. Susko hindi lahat ng mag ina ay sobrang close at very vocal sa mga lambing.
Parang Andi found her peace malayo sa limelight.
ReplyDeleteLagi naman mare-realize mo ang pag ma mahal mo sa magu lang pag wala na sila.lalo na pag parent ka na din. Ang daming sana…. Nag spend ka ng maraming time sa kanila pero impossible kung Mayroon ka rin family mo. I miss my nanay at Tatay din.their memories will be forever sa puso natin.
ReplyDeleteKapag nawalan ng mahal sa buhay, palaging masakit. Parang hindi pa rin enough amg nagawa mo para sa kanila.
DeleteAng ganda ng pagkakasulat.
ReplyDeleteIba talaga dating pag tagalog nuh. To think Englisera si Andi, grabe un tagos sa puso un pgkakasulat.
ReplyDeletePag englisera nagtagalog, puro praise. Pag tagalog nagingles, lahat grammar nazi. Wala na paglalagyan sa mundong ito.
DeleteChatGPT po try mo
DeleteAndie was my batchmate at Miriam. She is very articulate and one of the top students in our class.
DeleteYung lifestyle niya hindi glamorosa. Pero siguro she gave up glamour for authenticity and true love. Authentic love, authentic relationships. I get this. I grew up in a very rich home pero without much attention from my parents. My parents always left us to the helpers, we had many helpers many drivers, we flew business class, sometimes first class, but NOTHING can make up for the lack of time, companionship and love. Kami yung achievers lahat, and my parents dont even show up to our graduation. They come from a time when parents didnt show up. When we marry, we get minimum tens of millions from our parents but again, my childhood was very sad. When you come from that kind of background, you etiher make the same mistakes or you go completely against it. Having come from certain relationships, we know which path Andi chose to take and I applaud her for having the courage to live an authentic life, free of the trappings of wealth. I hope and pray, Philmar makes her THAT happy that she can overlook all the rest. When I am happy with my hubs, I don't need a single cent, and the times I was angry, not even several millions could appease me. When your love bucket is full, you're content.
ReplyDeleteThis is beautiful. Salamat at may classmate ako dito na may sense, may puso. I will remember to keep my love bucket full.
DeleteYou Will get by…. My prayers For you!
DeleteGanda ng message mo sis nakakarelate ako. I also grew up into a priviledged life byahe dito byahe dyan. Yaya all around. Pero super busy sa businesses parents. Ngayon nakapangasawa ako and di man sya mayaman eh sobrang saya ko as in nagpapasalamat ako sa Diyos na may katuwang ako na napupunuan yung pagmamahal na matagal ko nang hinahanap.
DeleteSobrang kuntento nako kung ano meron ako. Di ako nakikipagsabayan sa kung ano dapat meron na mga mamahaling gamit. Pinakaimportante is may peace of mind, good health and inner joy. Bonus na lang yung iba. Araw araw I thank God na pinaparanas niya sa akin ito.❤️
Just remember that if your parents did not sacrifice working, you will not experience all that... It is definitely very difficult not to know if you will be able to afford paying the doctors, hospitals and medications when you were sick. A lot of people just die without even knowing what illness they had.
Delete9:48 isa nanamang delulu story teller letter sender.
Delete6:28 sino kausap mo?
DeleteThanks 6:28 AM. Ok naman ako with the delulu label, preferable to being bitter, malevolent, petty and cruel for the sake of it, don't you think?
Delete4:08 AM Yes I agree. I am grateful because I get to enjoy mamy freedoms.I get to choose to be available for my kids since my parents and husband earn/ed well enough for us. Also, things changed drastically and improved. When we had kids, my parents made time for them the way they never did for us. I have a better relationship with my parents now than before. I also choose to be present for them now that they're in old age.
Wala namang perfect. Minsan kasama mo nga wala namang pera. Minsan yaya lang kasama mo malaki naman baon mo. Walang perfect talaga. Sa perception na lang ng bawat isa nagkakaiba
DeleteMas prefer ko yang ganyang rich problems kesa naghihikahos sa buhay na hndi mo n alam kung saan ka kukuha ng pangkain ng buong pamilya mo.
DeletePasalamat ka na lang nagsikap parents Mo for you guys. Kesa sama sama kayo, natutulog Naman sa kariton
DeleteDaming delulu mga auntie magising kayo tens of millions pinagsasabi. Dapat mag saing ka na daming kuda.
Delete11:28 Alam mo batotoy sa Pinas ang disparity ng mayaman sa mahirap ay malaki. As in huge gap. Kung may mga super poor eh may mga super rich din. Hindi gaya sa mga first world countries gaya ng Norway almost equal mga tao. Hindi nakakagulat ang tens of millions. Un iba nga hundreds pa. At ano naman mapapala niya na sabihin niya un para mainggit ka eh pare pareho lang tayong anonymous dito
Delete11:28 6:28 andaming gusto maging writer dito hahaha mga mega mayayamang nasa chismis site hahaha
Delete1:20 magtrabaho kayo ui nang Hindi naiinggit sa mayayaman. Anong akala nyo, pang-poor lang ang FP?
DeleteNilibing ba urn nya or dinala sa house sa siargao
ReplyDeleteBaka bahay nya yan sa siargao?
DeleteDuring the inurnment yan. Yung green sa background diyan nakalagak ang mga cremated remains ng mga namatay.
DeleteNilibing na yung urn. Yung lugar na yan is her final resting place
DeleteSa Christ the King yan. Nalalabas naman mga urn with permission din
DeleteSana ng buhay pa si Jackyn ginawa mo yang post na yan.
ReplyDeleteMy gosh ang sama ng ugali mo!
Delete11:18 real talk lang un. Ano masama sa sinabi ni 10:49 nabubuhay ka kasi sa pantasya
DeleteWhen someone dies there will always be what ifs. We don’t know what happens behind close door. Maybe nasabihan nya na mom nya.
DeleteAng lahat ng namatayan ay palaging may pagsisisi, kahit ang alam mo ay ginawa mo na ang lahat noong buhay pa. Pakiramdam mo ay may kulang pa rin sa lahat ng ginawa mo.
Delete11:18 Masama agad ugali for saying the truth? Sus. I agree with anon 10:49 and 1:48
Delete1:48 not the right time to say that. napakacrass.
DeleteI agree with you 10:49.
DeleteYes. I was thinking same. I never saw her make a vlog with Jaclyn in it.
DeleteYung post pamamaalam, para sa namatay. Ano namang assurance natij na never syang nakapag-thank you at i love you sa nanay nya? Nabasa mo lahat ng messages nya ever?
Delete1:48 Baka ikaw ante, sure kaba na di narinig ng mother nya yan nung buhay pa? Paki explain
DeleteGanun talaga walang perfect relationship. Nagkaayos naman sila before mawala si Ms. Jaclyn. Yun ang mas importante.
DeleteTRUTH!
DeleteAtleast ngayon ma rrealized ni Andi yung dating akala nyang “toxic trait” ni mader, pagmamahal pala yun.
ReplyDeleteSus ganyan naman talaga halos lahat ng anak pag feeling pinapakilaman eh lumalayo ang loob kse nga feelinh nila wla na silanh ginawang tama kaka sermon di nila alam na kaya ganun mha nanay eh dahil nag aalala
DeleteIkaw ba ay hindi naging ganyan?
DeleteSadly, huli na niya na-realize. None of these words narinig ni JJ. May she rest in peace.
Delete12:58 eto yung comment ng mga titang iniiwasan mo sa reunion. Masyadong ma "know it all" may pa sus sus pa sa statement.
Delete6:30 hahaha korek! Titang mapanlait pero walang ambag kundi chismis at puna!
Delete6:30, reality ang sinabi ni 12:58... Lahat ng tao ay naiinis kapag sinasabihan ng magulang. Kapag ikaw ba ang sinasabihan ng magulang mo ay palaging tanggap mo lang? Hindi mo naramdaman na pinakielaman ka? Talaga lang?
Delete10:49 korek.
ReplyDeleteshower the people you love with love, most especially while they are alive. give them a living eulogy. don’t wait till they are gone and will never hear your spoken feelings again.
This is so true!
DeleteNaiiyak ako tuwing binabasa ko ito. Ilang ulit ko nang binabasa, umiiyak pa rin ako. Isang magulang po ako.
ReplyDeletesame here...Im a grandma...
DeleteAng ayaw ni Andi ay noong nag-rant si Nanay niya sa mga Ejercito sa social media. Gusto na ni Andi na manahimik kahit inayawan siya.
ReplyDeletePero andaming videos ni Andi na sya mismo nagchichika na ayaw sa kanya ng partido ni Jake
DeleteKaya dapat talaga sa showbiz hindi niyo sinasabi lahat ng nangyayari sa pamilya niyo. Tuloy ang tingin ng ibang tao kay Andi ay masamang anak. Malay ba naman natin sa relasyon nila mag ina. May mga mag nanay na away bati , normal yun.
ReplyDeleteAng daming perfect na anak at nanay dito.
ReplyDeleteHindi natin alam ang buong detalye ng buhay nila. Jaclyn accepted the fact that all her kids are grown up. She continued working and her sentiments of being sad are just normal sa isang nanay na malayo ang anak. Binigyan niyo na agad ng masamang meaning kesyo masamang anak si Andi at hindi niya sinabi yan mga yan sa nanay niya. Susko hindi lahat ng mag ina ay sobrang close at very vocal sa mga lambing.