Ito mga comment na ito. Andi is still grieving Let her be! If you don’t know what to say sa isang nag luluksa wag na mag salita ay mag comment manhimik na lang kayo Or sarili niyo na lang. Haaay these people
nope. c ms jaclyn n mismo ngsabi na ndi man lng xa binati ni andi nung bday nya.so pra san mga post nya ngaun? totoo ung sinabi nung commenter, truth hurts
12:23 and why mention the obvious? Para saktan si Andi? Do you think her mother will like that? Its pretty much none of our business. So let Andi be. This is what i despise about other people, hilig mangeelam or mag comment about other people’s life. Why not observe and be quiet na lang. mag intrimitidang ke babastos.
11:26 teh, search the internet or better dito sa FP mismo for you to see na Andi really didnt greet or even care kay Jaclyn nung buhay pa siya. Si Jaclyn mismo ang nagsabi yan.
Tapos na yun. Bakit kailangan pa balikan ang nakaraan? We don’t know what happened after her Mom posted that. May update ba nakuha kailangan ba I post bawat galaw nila? Wala tayo alam. Oo truth hurts pero lumugar siya sa tama! Delicadeza iha….
Eh sa totoo naman talagang keber lang si Andi when Miss Jaclyn was still alive. The fact na she didn't liked or comments even one single post of her Nanay kasi nga hindi siya nakafollow nito even after her nanay's death says a lot. Kaya never ko nagustuhan itong si Andi after her controversy with Albie. Hindi nga naman siya marunong magsorry.
delicadeza na lang sana. grieving yun tao tapos gaganyanin mo... as if may mapapala ka dyan. ito nakakainis sa mga online marites na pwede naman magmarites pero sana ilugar, hindi yun parang mas maalam pa sa buhay ng iba. i believe na kahit naging maganda or not yun relationship nila nun buhay pa nanay nya, there's still love between them, normal part ng isang relatuonship ang tampuhan or samaan ng loob.
Ang tagal na po ng interview na Yun ni ogie d Kay jacklyn wag nga kayo pakialamera. Kami din ng anak ko galit bati but at the end of the day we're still family. Grieving for the loss of a loved one takes time even decades. I lost my tatay in 2009 but I'm still grieving to this dahil mahal na mahal ko tatay ko no matter what differences we may have had.
1:06 teh kulang ka na nga sa review, nagmamagaling ka pa. Nakapost po d2 sa FP what Andi did after Jaclyn said na malungkot sya and no one from her family greet her. ANDI SAID NARCISSIST AND SELFISH SI JACLYN - yan ang sabi ni Andi.
Sobrang sakit ng namatayan na may guilt. Kaya hayaan niyo na si Andi. Hindi nakakatuling kunv ipapamukha niyo pa sa kanya yung mali niya. Alam na niya yun. Wala na siyang magagawa kaya doble ang sakit sa kanya. Let her grieve.
Totoo naman. Too late the hero. Wala ng purpose ang mga hanash niya online. Nagkakausap ba sila ng nanay niya in private? Eh bakit sabi ng nanay niya eh hindi man lang siya binati kahit noong birthday niya. Google niyo na lang para sa resibo
They are in speaking terms as her family was scheduled to meet her the same week Jaclyn passed away. Just because it's not posted it means you know the whole story based on what's just posted. Lahat ng family my issue, kalokohan Lang ang goody goody na family
Kahit mag away away pa kayo hindi nyo mababalik yung buhay ng tao. Alam din ni Andi na kahit ngumawa ngawa sya ngayon di yun mangyayari. Kaya pabayaan nyo na lang sya magluksa.
Actually, meron. Balikan mo IG ni Andi. Tignan mo yung birthday greeting niya sa mom niya 2020/2021. Since when ba pinag-uusapan natin? Hehe. Just making sure. Kasi kung nagka-issue sila, perfect ba relationship niyo ng mom mo?
I think everyone has regrets when someone close to them dies. There’s always something we could have done or said better. We’re all confident we still have time pero sometimes wala na pala. I don’t think it’s right to rub it in someone’s face. It benefits no one.
I agree with you. Even if there may be truth to what the commenter so rudely pointed out, it is very heartless to say something like that to someone who is grieving. People are very bold when shielded by their keyboard.
diko magets ano mapapala nila n napamukha nila sa grieving person what her moms sentiments were as if naman centrum complete pagkatao ng ngcomment. respeto sana sa mga naiwan. the person is grieving, give her a break.
Ikr, gusto ata nila mandatory ipost yon weekly or monthly schedule or mas maganda siguro minute by minute galawan nila para nga naman informed yon mga pakialemerang marites.
12:07 eh kung ayaw pala nyang pakielamanan ang buhay nya, eh bakit todo post sya?? Bakit todo socmed sya?? Get away from socmed, ganyun dapat!! Hndi ung magpapavictim tpos kapag kinall out, asking for decency and mind gour own business ang peg biglaan.
Hayaan nyo sya at ng malaman nya mga kamalian nya. I’ve been watching interviews ni Ms. Jaclyn at very happy syang pakawalan mga anak nya to be independent. Very proud din sya. Anong sinukli sakanya? Didn’t greet her on her bday, pinaparinggan pa being narcissistic mom.
Good point! Yes, tama rin na malaman ng mga anak ni Jaclyn ang mga naging pagkukulang nila. Masakit mabasa mga ganyan comments pero minsan napakasakit ng katotohanan. And sometimes that’s how we really learn.
Shut up your toxic guilt tripping mentality . You don’t know their family set up . Based lang sa mga napapanood mo . Shame on you . She is grieving and you want her to feel more miserable ????
She obviously posting a lot now for herself kasi she probably regrets not doing it when jane was still alive. We don't need to remind her. She probably already knows. And it will haunt her forever.
5:05 kaya nga eh. Simple happy birthday post sa socmed hndi nya magwa gawa. Instead yan ang ginawa nya - throwing stone to her mother. Narcissist and selfish when Jaclyn did everything for her to the point na mukhang ewan n nga sya kakatanggol. Never believe her antics
Kung sino sinong ichinachat ng nanay nya para makasama manood ng sine, magbonding kahit sa bahay lang dahil sa sobrang lungkot. May mga chat na lumabas kahit ideny
Hindi kung sino sino ang mga yon . Mga close friends po niya. Perfect po ba ang buhay ninyo ? Mayroon po tayong kanya kanyang family dynamics . Bakit po napaka toxic ninyo ?
same thing with my sis. our mom just died and she was at odds with her for the longest time kahit na ang daming tulong binigay ng mom sa kanya. this sister kept on saying sorry during her eulogy pero too late. she posts a lot of throwback photos of ma on her socials saying she misses her etc. smh.
seems to me na ikaw ang paboritong anak dahil lakas mo maka-judge sa kapatid mo. maybe instead of judging her, talk to her and try to understand how she felt back then. may mga relationships din kase na ganyan sa pamilya pero di ibig sabihin walang love.
1:08 oo nga ganun talaga. kaya kapag buhay pa ang magulang, mag effort na mag reachout. More on pagsisisi kasi ang pinapakita pero nasa huli naman talaga yon at iyon ang pinakamasakit.
423 I was never the favorite. She actually was. It's not judging, I saw it for what it was. There was love for sure specially when the sister needed help in whichever form. But it's more love that the parent gave than what was received. I cannot control that no matter how I try to understand where the sister was coming from. Got rid of the parent when she was of no use anymore. Now she regrets it big time, she said so herself.
905 - I never claimed to be a perfect child nor claimed that my relationship with my parents were. Expressing love on social media after the death of a love one is actually useless for me, even if some say its part of the grieving process. You do that to let other people know, and it makes you feel good that other people know. Ironic how you did not express the same sentiment when the person was alive.
pak na pak na comment 12:50. ang peperfect ng mga tao dito parang walang mga sala!!!! kung makahusga kay andi na parang may mga karapatan sabihin na walang respeto ang anak sa nanay. WALA TAYONG MGA ALAM.
She's still grieving. Can't people be more considerate? Ang sakit mawalan ng magulang. Kung makajudge akala ang perfect nilang mga anak. I am not Andi or a fan of hers, but as someone who has already lost a parent, people should leave her be. Many of us have regrets when we lose our parents, the last thing we need is someone who rubs salt into the wounds.
Kung noon nya toh ginawa baka si Jaclyn na ang happiest mom kahit malayo mga anak nya sakanya. Mukang yun lang naman ang magpapasaya sakanya. Imagine being alone dahil mag isa ka nalang sa bahay and being lonely dahil di ka naaalala ng mga anak mo. Kaya siguro dami nyang anak anakan sa showbiz dahil she’s longing.
Kaya I am really praying so hard to go home to Pinas this year to see my parents. Pls. help me pray mga baks. 2019 pa ang last uwi ko. They're not getting any younger. I am learning so much from Ms. Jaclyn's passing.
Ang dami talagang marites sa Pilipinas. Why can't people just send out condolences? As if naman lahat perfect ang relationship with parents. Siguraduhin niyo nalang na naipakita niyo kung gano niyo kamahal mga mahal niyo sa buhay bago pumanaw.
Kaya i really don't like and not convince sa mga ganitong drama, this is in general, para saan pa e wala na sana habang buhay pa nasabi nyo yan. In their face
I don't understanding how others can be rude and intrusive over a stranger's life. Just like ALL mothers and daughters, I am sure Andi wasn't a perfect daughter, just as Miss Jaclyn wasn't a perfect mom. All families have disagreements. There are days I don't feel like talking to my mom, especially when I know we're going to argue. Over the years, we've hurt each other and healed together. Lahat naman ng pamilya may issue. But my mom and my relationship is our story, just like Andi and Miss Jaclyn is theirs. Kahit kapamilya ka pa, kaibigan, tsismosang kapitbahay, troll sa social media, you don't know everything that goes on in that relationship. And lets not forget there's LIFE OUTSIDE OF SOCIAL MEDIA. Not everything needs to be posted. What we are getting are clips, not the whole movie. Grief is a painful thing. When my dad died, some relatives and family friends made us feel guilty instead of offering us comfort. Trust me, anyone suffering from a death of a parent or loved one already has enough self-guilt, no need to add more salt to the wound. The least we can do is to be humane. If we can't afford to be empathetic, at least be considerate and leave that person alone to go through his grief. This world is already riddled with pain and suffering, let's choose kindness.
Kung private naman pala nya kinakausap nanay nya noon (like some.people here claim), then sana private na lang din sya mag-grieve. Posting publicly opens you to attack, specially since d nya ginagawa dati. Of course people will think she's doing this for herself, not for her mom. Makabawi man lang sa guilt. I feel bad for her but indeed, nasa huli ang pagsisisi
bilang nanay, feel ko din iyong, pag mamahal ng mga anak, 2 din anak ko, parehong, may asawa na, minsan talaga iba iyong binabati ka kahit hindi mo bday, o anomang okasyon, lambing ba ng isang nanay. Masakit tangapin pero nanay ka laging umaadjust sa mga anak. 😘😘 mahal in ninyo Nanay ninyo, habang buhay pa. Pag nawala na…. Bale wala iyong post post mo, dahil hindi na niya mababasa o maki kita. kahit, maldita, nagger, pala sita si mudra ninyo. Iyon ang signal niya dahil LOVE NA LOVE kayo, 😘😘😘ngayon parent na rin kayo I apply na ninyo iyan sa inyo.😊👍
How can people be so heartless. She’s grieving. What we see on socmed is just too little. Hindi nyo sila kasama sa bahay hindi nyo sila kilala. Be kind, it’s free.
Jaclyn said it herself in her interviews which you can find online na di siya naalala o kinikumusta man lang ng mga anak nya kaya she felt alone and depressed.
Yung mga nega commenters huyyy pakisilip nga buhay, ugali at puso nyo. Iba iba ang paraan ng pagpapakita ng pagmamahal at depende sa nakasanayan. Ako hindi na hindi rin sweet pero mas pipiliin ko ang nanay ko kesa sa asawa ko. Hindi ako naga-aylabyu sa nanay ko pero love ko sya. ganun din mga anak ko pero mahal nila ako.
Kapag mahal mo magulang mo kahit gano ka busy never mo makkalumutan greet on her/his birthday khit pa nga late ng 1 day of kumustahin man lang kahit sandali lang!
malay mo in private sila nagbabatian. or andi greets her mom in her heart and offers her messages to God para mapaabot kay mommy nya. we never know them. kahit sa nagtatampong mga anak at magulang, there is still love and care in there. minsan nahihiya lang tayo
Hindi ko kinakaya ang kasamaan ng ugali ng ibang tao dito. Kayo na mga perpektong mga anak at nanay. Sana pino post niyo maya’t maya ang nanay niyo ha para matuwa ang mga tao sa inyo.
ang biggest fear ko talaga.. mawalay mga magulang ko na hindi kami bati o nagtatampo sila sa akin. yung bang disappointed sila sa akin no matter what i do because i am a disapppinting child no matter what? yung never akong naka measure up man lang sa gusto nilang mangyari para sa akin. bangungot ko yang guilt and dismay nila sa akin habang gising at habang tulog ako. char. hahaha
Nakakalungkot talaga pag ganito yung kung kailan namatay? Vocal din po si ms Jaclyn jose sa mga interviews na mas magaling na ina sa knya si andi and nakikinig na sya kay andi kasi usually daw tama sya. So bat ang nega po ng sinasabi nyo? Lahat po ng pamilya ay di perperkto . Maging sensitive po tayo sa pag sasalita natin. Im sure kahit kayo sa pamilya nyo ay may kanya kanyang issues.
She doesn't need to be "perfect" daughter. No one is perfect. All we are saying is sana she was kinder and more understanding and more loving sa mother niya habang nabubuhay pa ito. Yun lang.
Kahit sinong anak ata, kahit gano kayo kaclose will have regrets pag namatayan ng magulang. I lost my dad, i took care of him till his last days but still andami pa din regrets. Ang sama ng ugali ng mga taong pinipilit pang ipaalala yung mga 'bad things' that happened. Im sure kahit di nyo sabihin yun she regrets whatever happened to them. Tao lang tayo, we all make mistakes, naiinis sa magulang minsan, pero di ibig sabihin nun masama na tayo anak. Yung mga basher churo ang kulang sa pagmamahal...
Ito mga comment na ito. Andi is still grieving Let her be! If you don’t know what to say sa isang nag luluksa wag na mag salita ay mag comment manhimik na lang kayo Or sarili niyo na lang. Haaay these people
ReplyDeletenope. c ms jaclyn n mismo ngsabi na ndi man lng xa binati ni andi nung bday nya.so pra san mga post nya ngaun? totoo ung sinabi nung commenter, truth hurts
Delete12:23 and why mention the obvious? Para saktan si Andi? Do you think her mother will like that? Its pretty much none of our business. So let Andi be. This is what i despise about other people, hilig mangeelam or mag comment about other people’s life. Why not observe and be quiet na lang. mag intrimitidang ke babastos.
Delete11:26 teh, search the internet or better dito sa FP mismo for you to see na Andi really didnt greet or even care kay Jaclyn nung buhay pa siya. Si Jaclyn mismo ang nagsabi yan.
DeleteTapos na yun. Bakit kailangan pa balikan ang nakaraan? We don’t know what happened after her Mom posted that. May update ba nakuha kailangan ba I post bawat galaw nila? Wala tayo alam. Oo truth hurts pero lumugar siya sa tama! Delicadeza iha….
DeleteEh sa totoo naman talagang keber lang si Andi when Miss Jaclyn was still alive. The fact na she didn't liked or comments even one single post of her Nanay kasi nga hindi siya nakafollow nito even after her nanay's death says a lot. Kaya never ko nagustuhan itong si Andi after her controversy with Albie. Hindi nga naman siya marunong magsorry.
Delete1:06 you’re asking what happened after her mom posted that? Andi retaliate by posting that her mom is narcissist!
Deletedelicadeza na lang sana. grieving yun tao tapos gaganyanin mo... as if may mapapala ka dyan. ito nakakainis sa mga online marites na pwede naman magmarites pero sana ilugar, hindi yun parang mas maalam pa sa buhay ng iba. i believe na kahit naging maganda or not yun relationship nila nun buhay pa nanay nya, there's still love between them, normal part ng isang relatuonship ang tampuhan or samaan ng loob.
DeleteIt's true. You can watch Ogie D.'s interview with her. May mga hinanakit sya kay Andi.
DeleteWe actually do know how Ms Jaclyn din naman as a mother. Syempre siya matanda, na interview malamang nasa kanya ang sympathy ng tao.
DeleteMatagal na iyon. Alam niyo ba kung ano pa ang mga nangyari sa kanila pagkatapos noon?
DeleteAng tagal na po ng interview na Yun ni ogie d Kay jacklyn wag nga kayo pakialamera. Kami din ng anak ko galit bati but at the end of the day we're still family. Grieving for the loss of a loved one takes time even decades. I lost my tatay in 2009 but I'm still grieving to this dahil mahal na mahal ko tatay ko no matter what differences we may have had.
Delete1:06 teh kulang ka na nga sa review, nagmamagaling ka pa. Nakapost po d2 sa FP what Andi did after Jaclyn said na malungkot sya and no one from her family greet her. ANDI SAID NARCISSIST AND SELFISH SI JACLYN - yan ang sabi ni Andi.
Delete6:28 bakit di ang idol mo ang hanapan mo ng delicadeza???
DeleteAffected much naman tong mga to. Kamag Anak na kayo? Mas galit pa kayo sa mga relatives ah
DeleteSobrang sakit ng namatayan na may guilt. Kaya hayaan niyo na si Andi. Hindi nakakatuling kunv ipapamukha niyo pa sa kanya yung mali niya. Alam na niya yun. Wala na siyang magagawa kaya doble ang sakit sa kanya. Let her grieve.
DeleteTotoo naman. Too late the hero. Wala ng purpose ang mga hanash niya online. Nagkakausap ba sila ng nanay niya in private? Eh bakit sabi ng nanay niya eh hindi man lang siya binati kahit noong birthday niya. Google niyo na lang para sa resibo
ReplyDeleteYes ito din yong concern ko sana, this yr lang na post sa fb na miss na ni Jacqueline Jose yong mga anak nya
DeleteGanoon na nga. Dinadaan na lang sa mga ganyan na throwback at poems pero hindi na maenjoy ni Jaclyn Jose lahat ng yan.
DeleteKasi guilty sya. Hayaan mo na.
DeleteThey are in speaking terms as her family was scheduled to meet her the same week Jaclyn passed away. Just because it's not posted it means you know the whole story based on what's just posted. Lahat ng family my issue, kalokohan Lang ang goody goody na family
DeleteBaka naman one birthday lang yun?
Deletemay kasabihan nga na give flowers while still alive, do not wait till they are gone
DeleteKahit mag away away pa kayo hindi nyo mababalik yung buhay ng tao. Alam din ni Andi na kahit ngumawa ngawa sya ngayon di yun mangyayari. Kaya pabayaan nyo na lang sya magluksa.
Delete6:33 did we see any bday post from her children since then? No. Kahit nga ung nagdinner sila ay kita parin na may alitan sila. So no
DeleteActually, meron. Balikan mo IG ni Andi. Tignan mo yung birthday greeting niya sa mom niya 2020/2021. Since when ba pinag-uusapan natin? Hehe. Just making sure. Kasi kung nagka-issue sila, perfect ba relationship niyo ng mom mo?
DeleteI think everyone has regrets when someone close to them dies. There’s always something we could have done or said better. We’re all confident we still have time pero sometimes wala na pala. I don’t think it’s right to rub it in someone’s face. It benefits no one.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. Even if there may be truth to what the commenter so rudely pointed out, it is very heartless to say something like that to someone who is grieving. People are very bold when shielded by their keyboard.
Deletediko magets ano mapapala nila n napamukha nila sa grieving person what her moms sentiments were as if naman centrum complete pagkatao ng ngcomment. respeto sana sa mga naiwan. the person is grieving, give her a break.
DeleteTrue! Kaso karamihan sa pinoy they rub it in your face ang mga pagkakamali parang sila ang perfect.
Delete💯💯💯
DeleteThen don't post publicly, grieve in private. Like how she's been very private about her relationship with her mom.
DeleteLesson learned for us. Wag na natin antayin mamatay mga magulang natin. Let gonof whatever tampo you have, kausapin nyu sila
DeleteLahat naman talaga ng namatayan ng mahal sa buhay ay palaging may pakiramdam na sana sana. Hindi pa rin enough ang nagawa natin sa pakiramdam natin.
DeleteAng daming pakialamera sa mundong ito. Leave her alone.
ReplyDeleteIkr, gusto ata nila mandatory ipost yon weekly or monthly schedule or mas maganda siguro minute by minute galawan nila para nga naman informed yon mga pakialemerang marites.
DeleteDaming epal at pakielamerang pinoy
ReplyDeletetotoo nman ung sinabi nung commenter
ReplyDeleteI agree with you
DeleteSo what kung totoo man o hindi? Ano ang pakielam ng commenter sa buhay nila?
Delete12:07 eh kung ayaw pala nyang pakielamanan ang buhay nya, eh bakit todo post sya?? Bakit todo socmed sya?? Get away from socmed, ganyun dapat!! Hndi ung magpapavictim tpos kapag kinall out, asking for decency and mind gour own business ang peg biglaan.
Delete5:43, iyan ang way of grieving niya. Isa ka pala sa mga perfect na anak. Sunod ka lang ng sunod sa gusto ng magulang mo?
DeleteHayaan nyo sya at ng malaman nya mga kamalian nya. I’ve been watching interviews ni Ms. Jaclyn at very happy syang pakawalan mga anak nya to be independent. Very proud din sya. Anong sinukli sakanya? Didn’t greet her on her bday, pinaparinggan pa being narcissistic mom.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Cguro gusto lang itama ni Andi ngayon yung mga masasamang nasabi nya against her mom dati.
DeleteGood point! Yes, tama rin na malaman ng mga anak ni Jaclyn ang mga naging pagkukulang nila. Masakit mabasa mga ganyan comments pero minsan napakasakit ng katotohanan. And sometimes that’s how we really learn.
DeleteShut up your toxic guilt tripping mentality . You don’t know their family set up . Based lang sa mga napapanood mo . Shame on you . She is grieving and you want her to feel more miserable ????
Delete7:27 ano pang guilt tripping when she’s really guilty of it?
Delete6:50 uy uy uy feeling perfect ka Dyan I'm sure mas masahol ka pa loser
DeleteShe obviously posting a lot now for herself kasi she probably regrets not doing it when jane was still alive. We don't need to remind her. She probably already knows. And it will haunt her forever.
ReplyDeleteQueue word, "for herself". Which she always prioritize herself over everything.
Deletecue words ba beks
DeleteYeah herself. When Jacklyn asks for a simple bday greeting, she accused her mom of being selfish and narcissists.
DeleteAgree
Delete5:05 kaya nga eh. Simple happy birthday post sa socmed hndi nya magwa gawa. Instead yan ang ginawa nya - throwing stone to her mother. Narcissist and selfish when Jaclyn did everything for her to the point na mukhang ewan n nga sya kakatanggol. Never believe her antics
DeleteLike Kanye said - If you admire somebody, you should go ahead and tell them. People never get the flowers while they can still smell them.'
ReplyDeleteKung sino sinong ichinachat ng nanay nya para makasama manood ng sine, magbonding kahit sa bahay lang dahil sa sobrang lungkot. May mga chat na lumabas kahit ideny
ReplyDeleteHindi kung sino sino ang mga yon . Mga close friends po niya. Perfect po ba ang buhay ninyo ? Mayroon po tayong kanya kanyang family dynamics . Bakit po napaka toxic ninyo ?
DeleteMalayo ang bahay nila sa isa't isa.
DeleteNasa huli talaga pagsisisi Andi. Alam nya na mali nya at mga dapat ganito dapat ganun ginawa ko. Hayaan nyo na sya pagnilayan yon.
ReplyDeletesame thing with my sis. our mom just died and she was at odds with her for the longest time kahit na ang daming tulong binigay ng mom sa kanya. this sister kept on saying sorry during her eulogy pero too late. she posts a lot of throwback photos of ma on her socials saying she misses her etc. smh.
ReplyDeleteAnd that makes her a bad person na? Let her grieve ganun talga
Deleteseems to me na ikaw ang paboritong anak dahil lakas mo maka-judge sa kapatid mo. maybe instead of judging her, talk to her and try to understand how she felt back then. may mga relationships din kase na ganyan sa pamilya pero di ibig sabihin walang love.
Delete1:08 oo nga ganun talaga. kaya kapag buhay pa ang magulang, mag effort na mag reachout. More on pagsisisi kasi ang pinapakita pero nasa huli naman talaga yon at iyon ang pinakamasakit.
DeleteHindi ka naniniwala na nami-miss niya ang nanay niyo? Smh
Delete423 I was never the favorite. She actually was. It's not judging, I saw it for what it was. There was love for sure specially when the sister needed help in whichever form. But it's more love that the parent gave than what was received. I cannot control that no matter how I try to understand where the sister was coming from. Got rid of the parent when she was of no use anymore. Now she regrets it big time, she said so herself.
Delete11:43, ay naku, ikaw na ang perfect na anak.
Delete9:05 disgusting. Youre very disgusting
Delete905 - I never claimed to be a perfect child nor claimed that my relationship with my parents were. Expressing love on social media after the death of a love one is actually useless for me, even if some say its part of the grieving process. You do that to let other people know, and it makes you feel good that other people know. Ironic how you did not express the same sentiment when the person was alive.
DeleteAng galing ng mga bashers . Paki ninyo. Good kung perfect ang life ninyo sa family. Di ninyo alam ang tunay na dynamic ng mga ibang tao.
ReplyDeleteCorrect
Deletepak na pak na comment 12:50. ang peperfect ng mga tao dito parang walang mga sala!!!! kung makahusga kay andi na parang may mga karapatan sabihin na walang respeto ang anak sa nanay. WALA TAYONG MGA ALAM.
DeleteShe's still grieving. Can't people be more considerate? Ang sakit mawalan ng magulang. Kung makajudge akala ang perfect nilang mga anak. I am not Andi or a fan of hers, but as someone who has already lost a parent, people should leave her be. Many of us have regrets when we lose our parents, the last thing we need is someone who rubs salt into the wounds.
ReplyDeleteExactly! Ang mga ganyan na mean comments ay hindi pa nakakaramdam na mawalan ng magulang.
DeleteKung noon nya toh ginawa baka si Jaclyn na ang happiest mom kahit malayo mga anak nya sakanya. Mukang yun lang naman ang magpapasaya sakanya. Imagine being alone dahil mag isa ka nalang sa bahay and being lonely dahil di ka naaalala ng mga anak mo. Kaya siguro dami nyang anak anakan sa showbiz dahil she’s longing.
ReplyDeleteOo nga ‘no? Grabe ng kalungkutan kaya sa iba naghanap ng pagmamahal.
DeleteKung May mali man sya it’s between her and God na yun.
ReplyDeleteKaya I am really praying so hard to go home to Pinas this year to see my parents. Pls. help me pray mga baks. 2019 pa ang last uwi ko. They're not getting any younger. I am learning so much from Ms. Jaclyn's passing.
ReplyDeleteAng dami talagang marites sa Pilipinas. Why can't people just send out condolences? As if naman lahat perfect ang relationship with parents. Siguraduhin niyo nalang na naipakita niyo kung gano niyo kamahal mga mahal niyo sa buhay bago pumanaw.
ReplyDeleteGuilty si Andy. Nagsisisi sya. Happy na kayo???
ReplyDeleteWhy are you so defensive dear? Chill ka lang.
DeleteKaya i really don't like and not convince sa mga ganitong drama, this is in general, para saan pa e wala na sana habang buhay pa nasabi nyo yan. In their face
ReplyDeleteI don't understanding how others can be rude and intrusive over a stranger's life. Just like ALL mothers and daughters, I am sure Andi wasn't a perfect daughter, just as Miss Jaclyn wasn't a perfect mom. All families have disagreements. There are days I don't feel like talking to my mom, especially when I know we're going to argue. Over the years, we've hurt each other and healed together. Lahat naman ng pamilya may issue. But my mom and my relationship is our story, just like Andi and Miss Jaclyn is theirs. Kahit kapamilya ka pa, kaibigan, tsismosang kapitbahay, troll sa social media, you don't know everything that goes on in that relationship. And lets not forget there's LIFE OUTSIDE OF SOCIAL MEDIA. Not everything needs to be posted. What we are getting are clips, not the whole movie. Grief is a painful thing. When my dad died, some relatives and family friends made us feel guilty instead of offering us comfort. Trust me, anyone suffering from a death of a parent or loved one already has enough self-guilt, no need to add more salt to the wound. The least we can do is to be humane. If we can't afford to be empathetic, at least be considerate and leave that person alone to go through his grief. This world is already riddled with pain and suffering, let's choose kindness.
ReplyDeleteKung private naman pala nya kinakausap nanay nya noon (like some.people here claim), then sana private na lang din sya mag-grieve. Posting publicly opens you to attack, specially since d nya ginagawa dati. Of course people will think she's doing this for herself, not for her mom. Makabawi man lang sa guilt. I feel bad for her but indeed, nasa huli ang pagsisisi
ReplyDeleteMarunong ka pa sa kanya.
DeleteGet over yourself, she can do what she likes
Deletebilang nanay, feel ko din iyong, pag mamahal ng mga anak, 2 din anak ko, parehong, may asawa na, minsan talaga iba iyong binabati ka kahit hindi mo bday, o anomang okasyon, lambing ba ng isang nanay. Masakit tangapin pero nanay ka laging umaadjust sa mga anak. 😘😘 mahal in ninyo Nanay ninyo, habang buhay pa. Pag nawala na…. Bale wala iyong post post mo, dahil hindi na niya mababasa o maki kita. kahit, maldita, nagger, pala sita si mudra ninyo. Iyon ang signal niya dahil LOVE NA LOVE kayo, 😘😘😘ngayon parent na rin kayo I apply na ninyo iyan sa inyo.😊👍
ReplyDeleteKorek! Ako nga Nanay ko na ang nababad trip at sumusuko sa kakakausap ko sa kanya haha pati tatay ko imbierna na sa daldal ko haha
DeleteHow can people be so heartless. She’s grieving. What we see on socmed is just too little. Hindi nyo sila kasama sa bahay hindi nyo sila kilala. Be kind, it’s free.
ReplyDeleteWhat do we really know about their lives? How they were as mother and daughter?
ReplyDeleteJaclyn said it herself in her interviews which you can find online na di siya naalala o kinikumusta man lang ng mga anak nya kaya she felt alone and depressed.
DeleteCnabi mismo ni Jacklyn Jose sa interview nya dai
DeleteThat one interview doesn’t define their whole relationship
Delete8:22 but theres a lot of interviews proves na Andi didnt appreciate her mother tho.
DeleteYung mga nega commenters huyyy pakisilip nga buhay, ugali at puso nyo. Iba iba ang paraan ng pagpapakita ng pagmamahal at depende sa nakasanayan. Ako hindi na hindi rin sweet pero mas pipiliin ko ang nanay ko kesa sa asawa ko. Hindi ako naga-aylabyu sa nanay ko pero love ko sya. ganun din mga anak ko pero mahal nila ako.
ReplyDeleteKapag mahal mo magulang mo kahit gano ka busy never mo makkalumutan greet on her/his birthday khit pa nga late ng 1 day of kumustahin man lang kahit sandali lang!
Deletemalay mo in private sila nagbabatian. or andi greets her mom in her heart and offers her messages to God para mapaabot kay mommy nya. we never know them. kahit sa nagtatampong mga anak at magulang, there is still love and care in there. minsan nahihiya lang tayo
DeleteHindi ko kinakaya ang kasamaan ng ugali ng ibang tao dito. Kayo na mga perpektong mga anak at nanay. Sana pino post niyo maya’t maya ang nanay niyo ha para matuwa ang mga tao sa inyo.
ReplyDeleteKailangan din lahat ng sinasabi ng magulang sa kanila ay hindi kinokontra. Sunod lang palagi. Tingnan natin kung merong tao na ganoon.
Deleteang biggest fear ko talaga.. mawalay mga magulang ko na hindi kami bati o nagtatampo sila sa akin. yung bang disappointed sila sa akin no matter what i do because i am a disapppinting child no matter what? yung never akong naka measure up man lang sa gusto nilang mangyari para sa akin. bangungot ko yang guilt and dismay nila sa akin habang gising at habang tulog ako. char. hahaha
ReplyDeleteHindi lang sa magulang. Pati rin sa anak, kapatid, pinsan, tito, tita, etc.
DeleteIt doesnt matter . Honestly buhay nila mag ina yan. Im sure theres valid reasons sa relationship nila . At wala na tau don. Let her be !
ReplyDeleteLet her be. Nagsisisi yung tao kc hindi pinapansin ang nanay nya nung buhay pa kaya ngayon nag express ng love nya.
ReplyDeleteNagparinig na siya noon sa mga anak na sana kumustahin sya at lambingin sa tawag or text..pero parang hindi talaga every day ang communication nila.
ReplyDeleteKailangan ba everyday?
DeleteNakakalungkot talaga pag ganito yung kung kailan namatay? Vocal din po si ms Jaclyn jose sa mga interviews na mas magaling na ina sa knya si andi and nakikinig na sya kay andi kasi usually daw tama sya. So bat ang nega po ng sinasabi nyo? Lahat po ng pamilya ay di perperkto . Maging sensitive po tayo sa pag sasalita natin. Im sure kahit kayo sa pamilya nyo ay may kanya kanyang issues.
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't need to be "perfect" daughter. No one is perfect. All we are saying is sana she was kinder and more understanding and more loving sa mother niya habang nabubuhay pa ito. Yun lang.
ReplyDeletePaano mo nalaman na she wasn't kind noong buhay pa ang nanay niya?
DeleteKahit sinong anak ata, kahit gano kayo kaclose will have regrets pag namatayan ng magulang. I lost my dad, i took care of him till his last days but still andami pa din regrets. Ang sama ng ugali ng mga taong pinipilit pang ipaalala yung mga 'bad things' that happened. Im sure kahit di nyo sabihin yun she regrets whatever happened to them. Tao lang tayo, we all make mistakes, naiinis sa magulang minsan, pero di ibig sabihin nun masama na tayo anak. Yung mga basher churo ang kulang sa pagmamahal...
ReplyDeletePareho tayo. Pakiramdam ko ay hindi pa rin enough ang nagawa ko. Ganyan naman talaga.
Deleteif may kaalitan kayo…ask if you will have regrets sakaling mawala siya tomorrow. if yes, makipagbati ka na. if no, carry on as you like.
ReplyDelete