Actually ang dami ko kakilalang bi and gay men na ganyan ang reasoning. They dont want wives ofc they only want kids as companion when they get older. Maybe they’re afraid they’ll be alone pagtanda if they cant find a partner
Sa panahon ngayon hindi ko maisip Bakit may mga taong nag aanak pa tapos Hindi naman stable ang life at kahit Sabihin pa na stable choice parin yon if you can handle the responsibility or not , Hindi naman talaga responsibilidad ng anak ang magulang pag tanda neto dahil hindi mo naman choice na Isilang ka so wag Sabihin na mag anak para lang may mag alaga ako na accept ko na ang future ko mag isa I’m in my 30’s and I never had a relationship ever so minsan naisip ko din paano ako pag tanda , pero ni minsan hindi yan pumasok sa isip ko na mag anak para may mag alaga sana ma isip Yan Nung mga mag aanak bago sila gumawa.
Honor thy mother and father. Ang pagsbi at alaga sa magulang implicitly written in the Bible. Though we don’t want to hear na Alagaan sha ng anak pero duty ng anak to honor their parents thru service. Tyo kasi marunong tyo na mashado pra Makaiwas k Lord. Anyway kung May Tao na ayaw maganak sure buhay nyo yan euro yung gusto like mark at tlgang aalagaan sha ma Swerte sha kayo lahat malas
Baka naman hndi literal n mag alaga like carer pero para may pamilya sila at hndi tatandang mag isa. Mahhirap n pilipino lng naman ung literal n mag aalaga ng magulang eh
My Friend was told by her mom that she was born so that she can look after them when they are old. She was raised to serve her family. Half of her kita goes to her parents she even supports her siblings na fave ng mama niya since she is the eldest. She is now 35, single, can't be in relationships or get married with her longtime BF because she is sending the kids of her siblings to school and maintaining her parents kasi maliit lang pension nila. her bF wants to breakup and marry someone else he met, he has been waiting for so long, 10 years na. Sobrang controlled siya ng family niya siblings niya are free to do whatever, pero siya walang freedom. She had great grades and I told her she is stupid. She says she knows and she cries about this. Pero she feels guilty when thinking of getting married. Nakakaawa din BF niya. I said if you want to serve your family, then let him go. I told her you deserve to be happy and free too. Pero she was raised to have that mentality eh. For me, parang MB wants to have kids to serve him in old age. That is unfair.
Ang cultura kasi ng pinoy ay yong isinisiksik nila sa utak mo from the very beginning na mas mahalaga ang family kaysa sarili mo kaya ang ending is ikaw na kumikita sila lang ang iniisip at yong moocher feeling nila ok lang maging moocher dahil family member mo sila. Dapat magkipagasawa na siya at icut na niya yang support para sa pamangkin at kapatid. Kung matanda na ang magulang niya i would understand if the support will continue. Super pangit ang family culture natin talaga .
You should not get married so that someone will take care of you. It's unfair for your future partner. You want to get married because you want to spend your life with this person, not as your caregiver. That's a turnoff.
I have a friend na ganyan. He knows he can't forever be with a man lalo takot siyang mag out so he wants to find a girl na innocent, virgin, naive para he can be bakla on the side with a wife on the other side. Sabi ko na lang gudlak, I won't support that kasi unfair sa babae. Sisirain lang ang buhay. Find someone who can accept you like yung mga asawa nila mama ogs at arnel.
Nadedepress daw si accla kasi ayaw niya mag isa pagtanda niya. Bet pa naman nun half his age. Mag 40s na kami. I mean I am trying to comprehend pero di ko talaga magets bakit may mga taong ganito.
taking care of your wife/husband is one of the duties in the marriage. for sickness and an in health remember? guys, don't marry this girl. she's a red flag
Sorry kayo, 2:52 & 7:05. I'm happily married and living comfortably in the US of A! Sana kayo rin! We got married because we wanted to spend our lives together until we're old. It never crossed my mind that I will marry this person because I want someone to take care of me when I'm old and sick. Of course, it's part of the covenant but you won't get married for that reason alone. That's a backward mentality.
I want to have kids pero hindi para may mag alaga sa akin kundi para may mapagbigyan ako ng pagmamahal na kaya kong ibigay. Personally having kids will complete me pero hindi investment ang mga anak. You decided to bring them to this word so provide for them till kya na nilang mabuhay on their own.
Mag-anak para may pamanahan? Puwede namang gastusin ang pera mo para sa sarili mo at kung kanino mo gustong ibigay habang buhay ka pa. Plus puwede kang gumawa ng will.
ipon ipon para maka employ ng caregivers. children are not there for your convenience. disgusting mentality, daming ganyan sa pinas and asian countries.
Siguro kung di aya na abuse nung bata iba talaga ang mark ngayon. Kaya lesson sa mga magulang lagi bantayan mga anak kahit kamag anak pa yan di natin alam ang panahon ngayon
Hindi rin ako agree sa sinabi ni Mark about sa pagkakaroon ng anak (for context I have 2 young kids). But I kind of get where he's coming from. Aminin man natin o hindi mahirap tumanda mag isa especially if LGBTQIA++. I guess he kust wants a family that he can call his own. Masama ba yun?
It’s not a good reason to have a child, expecting them to take care of you when you’re old. They will have their own life and own family too. Why not save for your future to afford a private nurse just in case your kids turn out to be living far away from you and can’t take care of you? I can say that I’m not a bad child but I’m not perfect and noone is, I can’t take care of my parents because half of my life I’m living abroad but I support them financially
Your children are not responsible to take care of u when u get old. Thats the role of a parent. I have 2 kids and i dont expect them to take care of me. Maswerte na lang ako pag aalagaan ako but im not expecting really
Susme, ang OA naman ng mga comments. I didn't find anything offensive with what he said regarding having a child. He could have said it that way kasi mahirap i-verbalize any logical reason why you would want a child. Can any one here give a politically correct reason why you would want a child? Lahat ng reason ay unreasonable onenway or another for sure. Iwas din sa kape mga mimosang sa sobrang hyper ng ka-OAn. Daming mga drama. If may hang ups kayo sa pamilya nyo, gawan nyo ng paraan. Hindi yung si MB hinuhusgahan nyo. Andami na nya ipinundar sa buhay. Masasabing he's halfway (syenpre dapat ndi nambubugbog, nangangaliwa, etc.) being a good partner and provider in life na compared to jerks and deadbeats na pa-PC and pa-macho. Uminit ulo ko. Haha! I'm a mom and yes, mayaman ako at hindi nag eexpect na paglilingkuran ng mga anak sa pagtanda. I bought many investments for my children. My children are my life, but I also look forward to growing old and enjoying being a lola while spending quality couple time with my husband.
Na off lang ako sabi nya gusto nya magka anak para may mag alaga sa kanya pag tanda nya
ReplyDeleteSame
DeleteMarami pa rin talagang ganyan.
DeleteHindi dapat ganun ang motivation. Paano kung opposite pala ang mangyari?
DeleteActually ang dami ko kakilalang bi and gay men na ganyan ang reasoning. They dont want wives ofc they only want kids as companion when they get older. Maybe they’re afraid they’ll be alone pagtanda if they cant find a partner
DeleteSa panahon ngayon hindi ko maisip Bakit may mga taong nag aanak pa tapos Hindi naman stable ang life at kahit Sabihin pa na stable choice parin yon if you can handle the responsibility or not , Hindi naman talaga responsibilidad ng anak ang magulang pag tanda neto dahil hindi mo naman choice na Isilang ka so wag Sabihin na mag anak para lang may mag alaga ako na accept ko na ang future ko mag isa I’m in my 30’s and I never had a relationship ever so minsan naisip ko din paano ako pag tanda , pero ni minsan hindi yan pumasok sa isip ko na mag anak para may mag alaga sana ma isip Yan Nung mga mag aanak bago sila gumawa.
DeleteFilipino mindset
DeletePag Filipino, takot tumanda mag-isa anooooh??? Dibale nang mahirap basta mag aanak para may investment na din at retirement plan
DeleteSame. Kung companionship sana yung sinabi ok pa
DeleteMeron talagang ganyan. Lalo na sa old ways. Wag na kayong ano
DeleteDami kong irerecomendang caregivers. Un naman pala hanap nya e
DeleteHonor thy mother and father. Ang pagsbi at alaga sa magulang implicitly written in the Bible. Though we don’t want to hear na Alagaan sha ng anak pero duty ng anak to honor their parents thru service. Tyo kasi marunong tyo na mashado pra Makaiwas k Lord. Anyway kung May Tao na ayaw maganak sure buhay nyo yan euro yung gusto like mark at tlgang aalagaan sha ma Swerte sha kayo lahat malas
DeleteBaka naman hndi literal n mag alaga like carer pero para may pamilya sila at hndi tatandang mag isa. Mahhirap n pilipino lng naman ung literal n mag aalaga ng magulang eh
DeleteKahit meron kang partner o asawa naman, isa sa inyo ang maiiwan pa rin sa mundo at ang isa naman ay mawawala.
DeleteSame observation 12:50. Kaya gusto magkananak para sa sarili nya. Taga alaga pag tanda. Hay.
DeleteLabo ng prinsipiyo ni ateng about family ha. Hanap ka po ng home for the aged kesa gamitin mo family mo for your personal use.
DeleteUgaling pinoy kasi yan, amoecha na gnyan pa rin pananaw nila mag aanak para may mag alaga sa knila jusmio
DeleteImbes na mag ipon ka para sa pagtanda mo you can afford a private nurse!
DeleteMy Friend was told by her mom that she was born so that she can look after them when they are old. She was raised to serve her family. Half of her kita goes to her parents she even supports her siblings na fave ng mama niya since she is the eldest. She is now 35, single, can't be in relationships or get married with her longtime BF because she is sending the kids of her siblings to school and maintaining her parents kasi maliit lang pension nila. her bF wants to breakup and marry someone else he met, he has been waiting for so long, 10 years na. Sobrang controlled siya ng family niya siblings niya are free to do whatever, pero siya walang freedom. She had great grades and I told her she is stupid. She says she knows and she cries about this. Pero she feels guilty when thinking of getting married. Nakakaawa din BF niya. I said if you want to serve your family, then let him go. I told her you deserve to be happy and free too. Pero she was raised to have that mentality eh. For me, parang MB wants to have kids to serve him in old age. That is unfair.
DeleteYung anak talaga ang gagawing caregiver, ganern?!? SO WRONG. Someday, pwedeng ipakita itong video na ito sa anak nya kung biyayaan man sya?
DeleteDude, start computing. Mas mura ang caregiver kesa magpalaki ng anak. May home for the aged din, go figure.
Ang cultura kasi ng pinoy ay yong isinisiksik nila sa utak mo from the very beginning na mas mahalaga ang family kaysa sarili mo kaya ang ending is ikaw na kumikita sila lang ang iniisip at yong moocher feeling nila ok lang maging moocher dahil family member mo sila. Dapat magkipagasawa na siya at icut na niya yang support para sa pamangkin at kapatid. Kung matanda na ang magulang niya i would understand if the support will continue. Super pangit ang family culture natin talaga .
DeleteGood for you Mark.
ReplyDeleteSalamat naman mark. Umabot ng 15 yrs.
ReplyDeleteMatagal na pala siyang nag-out, di ko knows! Akala ko patuloy pa din niyang itinatago.
ReplyDeleteYou should not get married so that someone will take care of you. It's unfair for your future partner. You want to get married because you want to spend your life with this person, not as your caregiver. That's a turnoff.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend na ganyan. He knows he can't forever be with a man lalo takot siyang mag out so he wants to find a girl na innocent, virgin, naive para he can be bakla on the side with a wife on the other side. Sabi ko na lang gudlak, I won't support that kasi unfair sa babae. Sisirain lang ang buhay. Find someone who can accept you like yung mga asawa nila mama ogs at arnel.
DeleteNadedepress daw si accla kasi ayaw niya mag isa pagtanda niya. Bet pa naman nun half his age. Mag 40s na kami. I mean I am trying to comprehend pero di ko talaga magets bakit may mga taong ganito.
taking care of your wife/husband is one of the duties in the marriage. for sickness and an in health remember? guys, don't marry this girl. she's a red flag
DeleteFor sure single yang si 2:29. lol
Delete+ 1 7:05
Sorry kayo, 2:52 & 7:05. I'm happily married and living comfortably in the US of A! Sana kayo rin! We got married because we wanted to spend our lives together until we're old. It never crossed my mind that I will marry this person because I want someone to take care of me when I'm old and sick. Of course, it's part of the covenant but you won't get married for that reason alone. That's a backward mentality.
DeleteKahit hindi niya i-announce, alam na ng marami
ReplyDeleteHindi naman guarantee na aalagaan ka ng anak pagtanda. Swerte swerte din😢😢😢😢
ReplyDeleteKailangan din kasing magtrabaho ng anak.
DeleteMagtrabaho kayong magulang para may pambayad kayo sa mag alaga sa inyo. Kung mahal nyo mga anak nyo eh wag kayong pabigat sa kanila.
Deleteso truelaloo yung chismis noon
ReplyDeletebakit mark? di mo ba afford ang home for the aged? kaw talaga. aanak lang para gawing caregiver. wag ganun. may buhay din ang anak.
ReplyDelete357 iba pa rin tih kapag may anak or kamaganak na dumadalaw sayo sa nursing home. Jusko, hindi mo alam gaano kasalbahi ang ibang caregiver.
DeleteI want to have kids pero hindi para may mag alaga sa akin kundi para may mapagbigyan ako ng pagmamahal na kaya kong ibigay. Personally having kids will complete me pero hindi investment ang mga anak. You decided to bring them to this word so provide for them till kya na nilang mabuhay on their own.
ReplyDeletePareho tayo baks ❤️
DeleteSame here❤️
Deleteso your reason of wanting kids is to complete you? hmm! that sounds selfish!
DeleteDapat mag aanak ka para sa kanila mo ipapamana amg kayamanan mo di ung sila mag aalaga di ba, npaka pinoy mentality hayyyy
DeleteMag-anak para may pamanahan? Puwede namang gastusin ang pera mo para sa sarili mo at kung kanino mo gustong ibigay habang buhay ka pa. Plus puwede kang gumawa ng will.
Deletehwag gawing caregiver and anak or asawa.
ReplyDeleteipon ipon para maka employ ng caregivers. children are not there for your convenience. disgusting mentality, daming ganyan sa pinas and asian countries.
ReplyDeleteGanito sya magisip? Turn off naman. Kawawa ang mga bata na bunga ng ganitong mindset.………..
ReplyDeleteSiguro kung di aya na abuse nung bata iba talaga ang mark ngayon. Kaya lesson sa mga magulang lagi bantayan mga anak kahit kamag anak pa yan di natin alam ang panahon ngayon
ReplyDeleteHindi rin ako agree sa sinabi ni Mark about sa pagkakaroon ng anak (for context I have 2 young kids). But I kind of get where he's coming from. Aminin man natin o hindi mahirap tumanda mag isa especially if LGBTQIA++. I guess he kust wants a family that he can call his own. Masama ba yun?
ReplyDeleteThe purpose is selfish so it's bad.
DeleteIt’s not a good reason to have a child, expecting them to take care of you when you’re old. They will have their own life and own family too. Why not save for your future to afford a private nurse just in case your kids turn out to be living far away from you and can’t take care of you? I can say that I’m not a bad child but I’m not perfect and noone is, I can’t take care of my parents because half of my life I’m living abroad but I support them financially
DeletePano na lang kung yung anak mo mag move out of the country dahil sa career or sa family? Sasama ka? Pipigilan mo kasi need nyang alagaan ka?
ReplyDeleteYour children are not responsible to take care of u when u get old. Thats the role of a parent. I have 2 kids and i dont expect them to take care of me. Maswerte na lang ako pag aalagaan ako but im not expecting really
ReplyDeleteFor real.
DeleteGood for you and your kids. Maswerte sila ganyan mindset mo. Di tulad ng iba dyan, asa sa mga anak.
DeleteGinawa mo p care giver anak mo
ReplyDeleteObvious na he wants kid but wife no
ReplyDeleteSusme, ang OA naman ng mga comments. I didn't find anything offensive with what he said regarding having a child. He could have said it that way kasi mahirap i-verbalize any logical reason why you would want a child. Can any one here give a politically correct reason why you would want a child? Lahat ng reason ay unreasonable onenway or another for sure. Iwas din sa kape mga mimosang sa sobrang hyper ng ka-OAn. Daming mga drama. If may hang ups kayo sa pamilya nyo, gawan nyo ng paraan. Hindi yung si MB hinuhusgahan nyo. Andami na nya ipinundar sa buhay. Masasabing he's halfway (syenpre dapat ndi nambubugbog, nangangaliwa, etc.) being a good partner and provider in life na compared to jerks and deadbeats na pa-PC and pa-macho. Uminit ulo ko. Haha! I'm a mom and yes, mayaman ako at hindi nag eexpect na paglilingkuran ng mga anak sa pagtanda. I bought many investments for my children. My children are my life, but I also look forward to growing old and enjoying being a lola while spending quality couple time with my husband.
ReplyDeleteHaving a child is not some kind of insurance or assurance to be your caregiver . That’s not what they’re born for.
ReplyDelete