Eh sa marriage ang vow eh for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer. So it has both sides of the coin. Both easy and hard. Marriage is both easy and hard. But you didn't choose your hard Carla. You took the easy way out.
When you read something like this , iba iba ang impact niyan sa taong nagbabasa. Iba kay Carla, iba sa iyo 7:04. Ni literal mo masyado so I guess mahina ang comprehension mo ð
7:04 alam mo ba ang pinagdaanan niya. Sa tingin mo mababaw lang ang dahilan kaya nag decision siya na makipaghiwalay. It's not an easy choice to choose divorce kaya there's why she chose it.
Di ko maintindihan yung ibang maritess dito… sa break up nila daniel/kathryn halos ipako sa krus yung lalaki dun pero dito parang si Carla pa may sala ah. Kahit siguro wala cheating (granting) na involved dito eh may other reasons naman so we don’t have the right to invalidate Carla’s feelings.
3:04 ganun talaga pag nasukol ka na at wala ka ng maisip para pagtanggol idol mo. Titirahin mo un nag comment na ni anino hindi mo nakita onkilala. Mag aral ka na lang. Baka sakaling magka comprehension ka pa. Simple logic lang yan. Di mo gets.
Carla was the one who gave up on their marriage. Marriage is hard nga. So bakit ka nag give up. Shunga ng mga fantards ni Carla dito. Walang naintindihan.
True @ 3:58pm. Minsan mas mahirap pa nga makipaghiwalay at piliin na maglet go. Ako, 10 years in the marriage bago ko ginive up, sana pala nong una pa lang, may mga red flags pero jinustify ko pa. Ending, hiwalayan lang din, kung kelan 4 na anak namin saka ako naglet go kasi feeling ko cycle lang at paulit-ulit lang talaga. Ayun, gumaan ang life ko kasama ng mga anak ko, walang toxic in laws, walang cheater na husband, nashift lang focus ko sa kids ko at paano kami makakabangon. 2 years fast forward, may sarili na ako house, wala pinakikisamahan, walang nagkokontrol, kaya umalagwa ang career na dati ginive up ko. Mas mahirap maglet go kasi andon yung regrets, na nasayang pala yung ilang taon, andon yung uncertainties. Kaya wala tayo sa position to say kasi iba ibang circumstances talaga.
635 may mga taong worth it ipaglaban lalo nat kasal. Obviously, Tom is not. ð Ok pa nga yan kasi wala pang anak. Lol, isa pa may pera nman sila pang annulment.
Its not positive at all its very negative, the word HARD itself is negative and toxic. And its the word that has been repeated and is stuck to you therefore its negative. That word applies maybe to one or two but not to all situation mentioned. Its too toxic. Besides when marriage gets too hard doesnt mean you can just give up because you can choose which hard you prefer. People might get the wrong idea and think you can just give up whenevr it feels hard.
9:14 who isn't? Lahat tayo proud and happy at first sa partners natin until we find out the other side of them. Normal reaction yan beshy. Ang hindi dapat i-normalize eh yung ipaalam mo sa taong-bayan ang other side ng partner mo word per word. In this case, I think Carla did her best to keep quiet about it.
Ok na ako sa unang statement pero yung iba parang di tama. Like debt vs financially disciplined. For those born with privilege, they will probably not get to experience being in debt vs someone born in poverty na uutang for para lang maitawid ibang bagay. Pareho namang hindi nila choice to be born sa circumstances nila. O kaya obesity vs being fit. Minsan may medical condition na hirap mag papayat or maging fit. But I do agree life is hard, but some I believe have it harder than others. -11:55pm
8:06 kasi wala naman silang problem during those times or kung meron man misunderstanding lang? jusko. wala ka bang nakita man lang sa mga celebrities na after being together for decades tsaka nag divorce? google mo madami sila accla. life is hard and also unexpected, hindi porket ok ka kahapon ok ka the next day.
Looks like another raging pokwang teleserye :D :D :D I just love soc med... they basically tell you who they are without telling you who they are ;) ;) ;)
Who are you to dictate kung kelan mag he-heal and mag-mu move on ang tao. They have been together for years and was even married. Let them heal at their own pace.
sana mas pinili nila mahalin ang isat isa, at ipaglaban ang kanila pagsasama kesa pilin yung mahirap na paghihiwalay? pero hindi nga sguro ganon kadali patawarin at kalimutan ang ginawa sakit na nararamdaman nya, kesa yung pagmamahal na meron sya or sila..
Sunshine found peace because she found a man after Cesar. Michelle found peace because she wasn’t really a celebrity to begin with so she can choose to live life privately. Huwag niyong ikumpara si Carla because her situation is different. Pareho silang industriyang ginagalawan ni Tom so that pain would always go back. I’m sure if she also finds a new love, she’ll be at peace, too.
Other people are saying na Nega si Carla, di pa nag move on, harsh at kung anu-ano pa. Hello!!! You didn't experience what she's gone through kaya wag nyo i-invalidate feelings niya.
So, asan na yung nagsasabi na maraming inis kay Pokwang dahil hindi sya kagandahan? ð Just look at this article, kung sino pang maganda at mukhang naagrabyado yun pa ang binabash. Nakakaloka! ðĪĢ
Girl akala mo ba kapag sinabi mong let go magagawa mo yan in a few weeks or months? Proseso yan that will take years depende if you found someone or something that would somehow help you change your perspective in life.
Feeling ko ang pinakamalakas na emosyon na nararamdaman ni Carla is regrets, hindi galit or anything kundi regrets na bakit pa sya nagpakasal sa lalaking ito, after 7 years ng bf/gf, within 3 months of marriage nagcrumble na!
12.17 i think ang ibig niyang sabihin ay kung hindi pa siya nakakapagmove-on, sana ay gawin niya 'yun ng tamihik. hindi 'yong guguluhin niya 'yong tao sa pamamagitan ng posting cyptic message on socmed.
11:08 So ang pagmo-move on pala para sayo eh yung ipa-prioritize mo yung nararamdaman ng netizens at hindi yung feelings mo? Nakakahiya naman sayo kung pakiramdam mo eh ginugulo ka ng mga cryptic post niya. And who are you to dictate how she or other people should move on?
Oo nga noh? sa ganitong paraan hindi makikihati si Tom sa kahit ano man if nagkatuluyan sila at nag decide maghiwalay. Kung red flag si Tom, si Carla ay mukhang nasusunod lage.
@4:05 Ayoko kay smiley pero di sya ang nalilito, ikaw ang kulang sa reading comprehension and yung nasa taas mo. Smiley is obviously referring to Carla, ano nakakalito doon?
12:36 naintindihan ko po madam what smiley was trying to convey- masyado lang magulo ang subject- verb agreement niya, including pronouns used. Masyado kasi siyang focused sa mga smileys niya- that’s what I was trying to imply. Thank you for letting me know who is her, ay who she is pala. Di lang ikaw ang may functioning hypothamalus. So condescending!
It is hard Carla.
ReplyDeleteEh sa marriage ang vow eh for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer. So it has both sides of the coin. Both easy and hard. Marriage is both easy and hard. But you didn't choose your hard Carla. You took the easy way out.
DeleteDi nagets ni Carla un message. Simple logic lang yan. Marriage is hard. Choose your hard. So choose your marriage. Ginawa ba ni Carla un?!?!
DeleteHindi nya isinali na hard nung nagmahalan sila
Delete7:04 di ka naman angry niyan? Lol
DeleteHindi nyo mageget ung pinagdaanan nya kasi iba iba personality natin.
DeleteWhen you read something like this , iba iba ang impact niyan sa taong nagbabasa. Iba kay Carla, iba sa iyo 7:04. Ni literal mo masyado so I guess mahina ang comprehension mo ð
Delete7:04 alam mo ba ang pinagdaanan niya. Sa tingin mo mababaw lang ang dahilan kaya nag decision siya na makipaghiwalay. It's not an easy choice to choose divorce kaya there's why she chose it.
DeleteDi ko maintindihan yung ibang maritess dito… sa break up nila daniel/kathryn halos ipako sa krus yung lalaki dun pero dito parang si Carla pa may sala ah. Kahit siguro wala cheating (granting) na involved dito eh may other reasons naman so we don’t have the right to invalidate Carla’s feelings.
Delete3:04 ganun talaga pag nasukol ka na at wala ka ng maisip para pagtanggol idol mo. Titirahin mo un nag comment na ni anino hindi mo nakita onkilala. Mag aral ka na lang. Baka sakaling magka comprehension ka pa. Simple logic lang yan. Di mo gets.
DeleteCarla was the one who gave up on their marriage. Marriage is hard nga. So bakit ka nag give up. Shunga ng mga fantards ni Carla dito. Walang naintindihan.
DeleteTrue @ 3:58pm. Minsan mas mahirap pa nga makipaghiwalay at piliin na maglet go. Ako, 10 years in the marriage bago ko ginive up, sana pala nong una pa lang, may mga red flags pero jinustify ko pa. Ending, hiwalayan lang din, kung kelan 4 na anak namin saka ako naglet go kasi feeling ko cycle lang at paulit-ulit lang talaga. Ayun, gumaan ang life ko kasama ng mga anak ko, walang toxic in laws, walang cheater na husband, nashift lang focus ko sa kids ko at paano kami makakabangon. 2 years fast forward, may sarili na ako house, wala pinakikisamahan, walang nagkokontrol, kaya umalagwa ang career na dati ginive up ko. Mas mahirap maglet go kasi andon yung regrets, na nasayang pala yung ilang taon, andon yung uncertainties. Kaya wala tayo sa position to say kasi iba ibang circumstances talaga.
Delete635 may mga taong worth it ipaglaban lalo nat kasal. Obviously, Tom is not. ð Ok pa nga yan kasi wala pang anak. Lol, isa pa may pera nman sila pang annulment.
Deletesi ANON 7:04 si Carla pa talaga yung tinuruan. the audacity. hoy accla just so you know, Cum Laude sa La Salle yan. hahahaha
DeleteMarriage is hard, only if u marry the wrong one
DeleteI like the message though.
ReplyDeleteNote to herself
ReplyDeleteTrue!
DeleteWala parin talaga clear reason bat naghiwalay but wishing a healing for both
ReplyDeleteganda ng message
ReplyDeleteNega naman si Carla.Hard words.Use positive words to be happy.
ReplyDeleteHappiness is hard. Hahaha!
Deleteikaw kaya bumalik trauma mo? happy ka ba
DeleteWhen will Pinoys stop telling people what to do, palaging Mamaru!
DeleteWag pairalin ang toxic positivity 10:21.
DeleteSiya Nega, ikaw toxic.
DeleteSana isinali nya din Loving your for 7 years is hard
DeletePakialamera
DeletePositive yung words na yan, if you will comprehend the meaning.
Delete10:21 ikaw nga unang word mo nega agad eh then you’re telling her about positivityð
DeleteToxic mindset. Let her be. Ano ba paki mo? Pag ikaw maging sad sana may mag sabi sayo. Wag kang nega. Be happy. O diba? Gaslighter na toxic
DeleteIts not positive at all its very negative, the word HARD itself is negative and toxic. And its the word that has been repeated and is stuck to you therefore its negative. That word applies maybe to one or two but not to all situation mentioned. Its too toxic. Besides when marriage gets too hard doesnt mean you can just give up because you can choose which hard you prefer. People might get the wrong idea and think you can just give up whenevr it feels hard.
DeleteSana hindi naman maging Pokwang2.0 itong si Anteh. May they find peace in the choices they have made.
ReplyDeleteProud na proud sya nung si Tom ang jowa nya, gwapo, matalino, masipag daw at kaya syang ipagpatayo ng bahay
Delete9:14 who isn't? Lahat tayo proud and happy at first sa partners natin until we find out the other side of them. Normal reaction yan beshy. Ang hindi dapat i-normalize eh yung ipaalam mo sa taong-bayan ang other side ng partner mo word per word. In this case, I think Carla did her best to keep quiet about it.
DeleteI love it.
ReplyDeleteLife is hard talaga in general ðŦ
ReplyDeleteTruth
DeleteThen pray hard
DeleteShe is beautiful inside and out.
ReplyDeleteAng galing ng mua nya dyan, ang ganda and sophisticated nya sa photo.
ReplyDeleteLife is tough and it’s really hard and you have no choice to face it.
ReplyDeleteParang false dichotomy karamihan sa statements dito.
ReplyDeletePlease expound!
Delete12:27 what else is there to expound?
DeleteOk na ako sa unang statement pero yung iba parang di tama. Like debt vs financially disciplined. For those born with privilege, they will probably not get to experience being in debt vs someone born in poverty na uutang for para lang maitawid ibang bagay. Pareho namang hindi nila choice to be born sa circumstances nila. O kaya obesity vs being fit. Minsan may medical condition na hirap mag papayat or maging fit.
DeleteBut I do agree life is hard, but some I believe have it harder than others. -11:55pm
Kasi nagmahalan sila ng 7 years ng wala naman syang reklamo?
Delete8:06 kasi wala naman silang problem during those times or kung meron man misunderstanding lang? jusko. wala ka bang nakita man lang sa mga celebrities na after being together for decades tsaka nag divorce? google mo madami sila accla. life is hard and also unexpected, hindi porket ok ka kahapon ok ka the next day.
Deletei agree. she looks stunning and absolutely gorgeous.
ReplyDeleteLooks like another raging pokwang teleserye :D :D :D I just love soc med... they basically tell you who they are without telling you who they are ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteDyosa niya diyan.
ReplyDeleteMove forward its been a year or more than.
ReplyDeleteWho are you to dictate kung kelan mag he-heal and mag-mu move on ang tao. They have been together for years and was even married. Let them heal at their own pace.
DeleteSuch an inspirational message. Keep going Carla.
ReplyDeleteLife can be easy if mas dedma ka lang. Life can be easy if yung focus mo ay hindi sa mga earthly things na all fleeting
ReplyDeleteliving in 3d and ego pinapairal.
DeleteSana d photoshopped/filtered kc bet ko ganyang shape ng face nya, d ung square haha
ReplyDelete1:12 slow motion ba utak mo o Malabo ang masaya mo sing labo ng pag- iisip o. Manalamin ka teh!
DeleteMukhang contour lang naman mhie.
DeleteForgive yourself
ReplyDeletesana mas pinili nila mahalin ang isat isa, at ipaglaban ang kanila pagsasama kesa pilin yung mahirap na paghihiwalay? pero hindi nga sguro ganon kadali patawarin at kalimutan ang ginawa sakit na nararamdaman nya, kesa yung pagmamahal na meron sya or sila..
ReplyDeleteTrue. Marami ding masasakit na hiwalayan like Sunshine Cruz, Michelle Van Eimeren marami pang iba pero they chose peace
DeletePuro sana-sana until you get to be in her shoes.
DeleteSunshine found peace because she found a man after Cesar. Michelle found peace because she wasn’t really a celebrity to begin with so she can choose to live life privately. Huwag niyong ikumpara si Carla because her situation is different. Pareho silang industriyang ginagalawan ni Tom so that pain would always go back. I’m sure if she also finds a new love, she’ll be at peace, too.
Delete8:07 Carla opted for peace kasi kung hindi eh malamang alam na nating mga maritess ang reason for their falling out. Unless may alam ka.
DeleteSobrang ganda naman nya huhu
ReplyDeleteOther people are saying na Nega si Carla, di pa nag move on, harsh at kung anu-ano pa. Hello!!! You didn't experience what she's gone through kaya wag nyo i-invalidate feelings niya.
ReplyDeleteNow na nagbalik Pilipinas si Tom.I wish them well kahit na magkahiwalay.Magagaling naman silang artista.Focus na lang sila sa kanikanilang career.
ReplyDeleteTumigil na siya!
ReplyDeleteIkaw din! ð
Deletemove on na lang kasi walang mangyayari kung babalikan pa ang nakaraan...
ReplyDeleteForgiveness is hard. Hatred is Hard. Choose your hard.
ReplyDeleteDiko sya feel..
ReplyDeletesame, she's beautiful but....
DeleteFeel ko sya. Sana d mo maranasan kung ano napagdaanan nya
Delete7:24 - curious lang ako kung anong napagdaanan nya. Hindi ko kasi alam but it will give me an insight what brought her to separate from her ex-husband
DeleteI love her post!
ReplyDeleteSince her ex hubby is in town, parelevant na naman si Ante kaya may mga ganyang hanash. Wag ako day! Hahaha
ReplyDeletechrue baks
DeleteBased from your comment, mas mahanash ka kesa kay Carla. Hayaan mo yung tao sa pinagdadaanan niya. Kaloka kayo!
DeleteSo, asan na yung nagsasabi na maraming inis kay Pokwang dahil hindi sya kagandahan? ð Just look at this article, kung sino pang maganda at mukhang naagrabyado yun pa ang binabash. Nakakaloka! ðĪĢ
DeleteGrabe namang mukha yan SOBRA SOBRANG GANDA
ReplyDeletePretty niya! Yung beauty niya hindi nakakasawa
ReplyDeleteGandang ganda ko talaga kay Carla
ReplyDeleteShe's so beautiful
ReplyDeleteSana ganyan nalang si Pokwang. Hahahah
ReplyDeleteMy gosh. Girl, nakakulong ka parin sa past mo. Let go already!
ReplyDeletePaladesisyon ka sa kanya? Ikaw ang niloko?ðĪŠ
DeleteGirl akala mo ba kapag sinabi mong let go magagawa mo yan in a few weeks or months? Proseso yan that will take years depende if you found someone or something that would somehow help you change your perspective in life.
DeleteFeeling ko ang pinakamalakas na emosyon na nararamdaman ni Carla is regrets, hindi galit or anything kundi regrets na bakit pa sya nagpakasal sa lalaking ito, after 7 years ng bf/gf, within 3 months of marriage nagcrumble na!
Delete12.17 i think ang ibig niyang sabihin ay kung hindi pa siya nakakapagmove-on, sana ay gawin niya 'yun ng tamihik. hindi 'yong guguluhin niya 'yong tao sa pamamagitan ng posting cyptic message on socmed.
Delete11:08 So ang pagmo-move on pala para sayo eh yung ipa-prioritize mo yung nararamdaman ng netizens at hindi yung feelings mo? Nakakahiya naman sayo kung pakiramdam mo eh ginugulo ka ng mga cryptic post niya. And who are you to dictate how she or other people should move on?
DeleteTaray nag-explain ka pa talaga 11:08 eh ang pangit naman ng definition mo ng moving on.
Delete1.59 and 2.04 I got it. mala Pokwang pala ugali ninyong dalawa. There's nothing to explain sa mga bagay na hindi ninyo naintindihan. I don't care.
DeleteUnless it’s a change of heart or something really evil, I will choose to give it another try.
ReplyDeleteGood for you if that’s what you want to do, but hindi ikaw si Carla eh. Kanya kanya tayo ng coping mechanism.ð
DeleteOo nga noh? sa ganitong paraan hindi makikihati si Tom sa kahit ano man if nagkatuluyan sila at nag decide maghiwalay. Kung red flag si Tom, si Carla ay mukhang nasusunod lage.
DeleteWalang kawalan for Tom. She values her house more than her relationship :) :) :) At least Tom knows her priorities ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeleteConfusing ka po. Tom? Her? Sinong she at her tinutukoy mo?
DeleteSino ba si Tom na her? Sa dami ng smiley ba yan, pati ikaw nalito na. Lol smileypamore!
DeleteLol 12:52. Reading comprehension teh
DeleteGets ko ang sinasabi mo 10:47am
Delete@4:05 Ayoko kay smiley pero di sya ang nalilito, ikaw ang kulang sa reading comprehension and yung nasa taas mo. Smiley is obviously referring to Carla, ano nakakalito doon?
Delete12:36 naintindihan ko po madam what smiley was trying to convey- masyado lang magulo ang subject- verb agreement niya, including pronouns used. Masyado kasi siyang focused sa mga smileys niya- that’s what I was trying to imply. Thank you for letting me know who is her, ay who she is pala. Di lang ikaw ang may functioning hypothamalus. So condescending!
Deleteang ganda ni carla sa pic na yan na enhamce ang beauty!
ReplyDeletekung makasalita parang siya lang nahirapan. Pareho kayo nahirapan uy!
ReplyDeletePronouns her/his confusing
ReplyDeleteMay missing sa post ni miss Carla - another hard is- REGRET-
ReplyDelete