Pls. Angelica is not a typical mom. She is a rich celebrity. Delegation is the key. Kung may iniinda siyang sakit, let go being OCD. the fact that she posted this in socmed means she wants attention. More than anything, baka she needs therapy or professional help to address her mental health.
Ako whenever na maisip ko yung ganyan, mag ccount nalang ako ng blessings. Small things like, a roof above our head, nakakaen ng maayos kami. I feel you. Para kang nasa kumunoy, na hinahatak ka pababa. Being tired is okay, feeling mo gusto mo mag give up is okay. Admit it. That’s the only way you can break through! Trust me, after ma admit mo sa sarili mo yan, bigla mo nalang magagawa yung 1st sentence ko. Marami tayo mare. Iiyak natin, wipe our tears and wear our crown again. It’s a never ending journey, pero PINILI natin to. Kaya lalaban tayo momshie! Amen!
Angge importante ang tulog. Good quality sleep actually. Otherwise, your health will soon deteriorate. How can you take care of your dawter if you're sick
Para sa akin unhealthy and unwise yang nag o OA na sya sa wifehood and motherhood nya. Nothing wrong with getting help, lalo nat may sakit sya. She made it sound like di help ng mr at ibang tao sa bahay nila. It doesnt make u less of a mom kung i balance mo Angge
I wake up before 6am to work. I finish my work at 9pm. If I have free time, ako pa nagluluto sa umaga. Tas pag gabi, kahit pagod na, para lang walang away, pagbibigyan pa si mister.
Buhay nanay at asawa sadyang kay hirap. Gusto ko nang magpahinga at umuwi sa amin, magpadala nalang ako ng pera. Kaso ang selfish ko naman pag ganun ako.
wala lang. Minsan nagsisisi ako, sana di nalang ako nag asawa. Ewan. Mabait naman asawa ko, walang chicks, doesn't smoke nor drink. Di rin nag momobile games. My marriage isnt perfect, but I am burned out, to the point na naiisip ko nang iwan mag ama ko. I will work and just send money to them.
Yeah..you get a nanny and a maid. Para may Me Time ka..at ang pagpapamilya ay isang responsibilidad at sinumpaan gampanan habang buhay. FAMILY FIRST..THEN, PAMPER YOURSELF AFTER.. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!"
don't be afraid to get help from other people. also, you need to talk your hubby, too. baka kailangan lang ng shared duties at home para di ka ma-burn out. been there also. I can feel you
Motherhood is not for you kung naiisip mo yan. Kaso kawawa naman yung anak mo. Ano na lang iisipin niya kung sakaling lumaki siyang wala ka. Nakakalungkot talaga na may mga babaeng ganyan mag-isip. Bakit kailangang yung bata ang mag-suffer in the end. Nakakalungkot.
@9:52 married life was/is not really for you. I do not know if you are catholic kasi sa teachings dapat ng church may tatlong vocations tayo na dapat malaman married life, single blessedness and religious life. Kaya ganito ka gulo ang buhay ng iba kapag di nagampanan ang bokasyon. Like may mga pari or religious na pasaway kasi that vocation is not for them. May mga nagkapamilya at nagka anak pero di rin satisfied and empty pa rin ang buhay nila because probably their vocation either religious or single blessedness.
Your kind - the judgmental kind - is one of the reasons why most likely mothers get burned out..
You invalidate her feelings of despair.. Akala mo they, who are in that miserable state, do not know what you are making them feeling guilty of.. Kaya nga sa mga ganitong anonymous convos na Lang sila nakakapaglabas ng emosyon nila, yet they still get invalidated..
Hubby needs to be mindful and dapat ma sense niya when you’re tired and let you sleep and rest . Love making and having s** is not a one way process . When you said pagbigyan, that is so unfair for you even you’re tired. ❤️ - I just remember my late mom , that was so her when I was growing up . She just disclosed to me when I was a young adult . She said she wanted to leave us . And also the word pagbigyan . She was a working mom too just like you however my dad was a weakling and mama’s boy . Didn’t have a stable job and a very good career just like my mom who was the main provider. My mom was burnt out and endure for many years . Until she went abroad to make more money for us and to give me the best future . When I arrived here in the US 15 years ago, she opened up all how she felt when she was we with us growing up. And she said she finally had me time when she was away and sending us money. Now she is resting in peace and finally got the peace she always wanted .
Sa mga nagcocomment na kumuha ng helper. You can try pero swertehan talaga. Sobrang hirap makahanap these days. Tapos pag meron madalas incompetent or worse dishonest. Added expense na stress pa.
Sad to hear that 9:52, I hope you could talk to someone and give yourself some me time before what you feel turns to depression. Let it all out, ask for guidance and help.
9:52, i feel you. Pareho tayo pero ako naman i’m asking God kung pwede magbakasyon ako ng 1 year to live alone and take care of myself but know that is impossible. Napapagod na rin ako. I feel like a zombie. Still moving but dead inside. I also feel like a hamster, a sad hamster. I move a lot but I’m not getting anywhere.
Kung ayaw mo ng maid… pede din cleaners or taga laba lang once a week. Malaking help na yun. Kung di afford, ayun lang… tulungan na lang with hubby. Kung batugan asawa, ay ambot hahaha bahala kayo sa buhay nyo ginusto nyo yan.
I am 9:52. Sa mga nagsabi ng kind and understanding words. Thank you. Sa mga nag invalidate naman, gets ko kayo. Sadyang may ganyang klaseng mga tao talaga.
may nagsabi na motherhood is not for me yata. I love my kids so much. They're the reason I work hard. I don't want them to go through what I went through.
Maswerte pa rin ako kasi mabait asawa ko, walang bisyo. Walang malulubhang sakit kaming mag anak. I also believe that I can never find a man as kind as my husband. Thanks to the internet, I am able to vent my frustrations in life. I express my thoughts here on FP and I also watch chinese , korean or japanese dramas, which makes me happy.
I am not a bad mother. Otherwise, I would leave my husband and kids na. I have the means to get away from my family because I work remotely with good remuneration packages. But I am not doing it because I am a work in progress and ayoko maimpyerno.
kayo naman, nagvivent lang ako dito..These things can't be disclosed with friends. Alam nyo na mangyayari, pag chichismisan ka.
952pm be kind to yourself and communicate what you feel to your husband, para matulungan ka nya sa gawaing bahay and pagbantay sa anak nyo. You should never brush off what you feel. Do things that you love in order to ease your stress and lift your mood. God bless you and your family.
2:14AM I am also childfree. Matinding sacrifice ang maging isang wife & mother + working pa. Reading the comments here, saludo ako sa mga moms. But motherhood is also not for me.
Baks, papuntang depression na yan. As in, yung feeling na pagod na pagod ka. Minsan nga maski wala kang ginagawa pero pagod ka pa rin. Sobrang na burnout din ako with my kids. Parang yung buong buhay mo umikot nlang sa mga anak mo. I am lucky na nakaya kaming suportahan ng asawa ko pero lagi pa rin akong galit dati. Now that I am working, medyo bumuti yung mood ko. Nasa preschool kasi yung mga anak ko at nakakapagtrabaho ako part time. Baka kaylangan mo ng bagong hobby or maski ilang days na magbakasyon ng ikaw lang mag isa baka makatulong.
Mahirap din maghanap ng maid, lalo na yaya. Kahit may pera, mahirap pa rin to find good help tas i ttrain mo pa. Na experience na namin yan. Buntis pa lang ako naghanap na kami via referral and we got one na yaya and helper tas yun pala buntis naman kaya kailangan din umalis eventually. Nag agency kami tas complete naman sa papers NBI clearance, vaccination card, etc) pero panay bale tas nambudol pa ng ibang kasambahay sa subdivision. Hanggang eventually nag give up na kami sa kakahanap ng yaya and decided na kami na lang hands on sa baby. We did get kasambahay and sya sa linis, laba, etc pero lahat ng alaga sa baby (na toddler na ngayon) kami din. Set up is not perfect sorta works for us and keeps us sane but syempre pagod pa rin. Meron talagang mga bagay na kailangan i give up, at least temporarily habang toddler pa kid namin. I guess at least di sya lalaking pala asa sa yaya. Sana makahanap ka din ng set up that will work for you.
2:14 and 3:28, I’m also a woman who is happily married and childfree too I know deep in my heart that having a great marriage for almost 16 years now is because of not having children . I have an amazing and doting husband as well who is my best friend, my activity partner, ( workout & travel buddy. He said I am his business strategist and a his coach as well. I don’t have Filipino friends by choice here in the US because even I’m turning 45 now , they usually say ( why wala kang anak ? Kelan ka magkakaroon ng anak ? Look at me I have children…) I didn’t want to say to those people , why do you care ? ) Anyway, I’m so happy to learn that may mga childfree here . ❤️
Wagas naman yung motherhood is not for you. Its a phase mommy. Kami ng husbaand ko away nung first years ni baby. Dagdag mo pa yung stepkids niya na sawsawero.
Naisip ko din yang "kailangan ako ng mag ama ko" and I understand na baby pa anak nya, pero si Greg sifuro naman kayang ibigay kay Angelica yung oras para matulog. Hindi naman nya PA si Angelica.
Kung pipilitin niya gawin lahat, mahihirapan siya. Pag napapanood ko naman vlog nila, may mga kasama naman sila sa house. Isa lang naman din pa ang baby nila. Kung may toddler at new born siya naku yun ang nakaka baliw
as a hands on and working mom, mahirap talaga i-balance ang mga bagay bagay. don't shame someone dahil lang keri mo, eh kaya din nila. plus may sakit pa tong si angleica. sisi agad di muna makipag-empathize.
10:12 exactly!! Dba yan pinapangarap nya. Ano akala nya sa buhay may asawa madali?! Buti nga sya walang financial issue. Ano pa kaya ung pagod ka na problemado ka pa sa budget. Di na lang mag pasalamat. Dami hanash
Actually kaya hindi ako nagrereklamo, lalo na yung mag hanash sa soc med. Sa asawa ko lang. Hahaha sya naman din nag insist na mag fertility treatment kami kaya may anak na kami ngayon. Tas lagi ko iniinsist na maging involved sya kaya ayan, hati kami sa pagpa kain, ligo, diaper change, etc. Ang hindi lang nya magawa is yung pag breastfeed and minsan ako talaga hinahanap ng kid namin. Tanggap na namin yung loss of autonomy hanggang medyo mas independent na yung bata. And no, wala kaming yaya, sablay mga nakukuha namin kaya nag decide na lang kami na tyagain na hands on.
Hindi naman surprising ito. Angge has always had a victim mentality and ganito na siya kahit sa mga karelasyon niya. Most likely she actually gets lots of help but does not realize it cause she cannot see beyong her self centeredness.
May kilala ako na hindi naman sila financially stable pero nag-anak ng tatlo. Tapos nagrereklamo na nahihirapan. Aba ginusto nyo yan. Tapos pag may emergency damay kami lahat dahil wala silang pera. Kainis talaga ang 3rd world mentality..
10:15AM I have a similar story. Nakikinig ako sa radio may caller. Saleslady sya 3 kids. Di ko matandaan work ng husband. Nahihirapan daw sila mag budget. Sorry ha sana naisip nila mag family planning? Di pala kaya bumuhay ng 3 anak. Haay.
Ganyan talaga kapag nanay ka. Pwede kang magreklamo, pero bawal sumuko. This week lang, medyo nakaramdam ako ng pagod. Hindi ko alam pero first time nangyari na iba yung pagod ko. Maybe because galing ako sa trangkaso. So ang nangyari, naglaba ako, naglinis ng bahay, nag-padede ng bata tapos nagluto. Nung tanghalian na, maliligo na sana ko nung pagkakain namin. Ineexpect ko hugasan ng mister ko yung mga pinagkainan namin. Abay, hindi. So ang ginawa ko, nagdabog ako. As in dabog. Ayun, sa akin pa nagalit ang mister ko. Pero kinabukasan, inabutan kong nagtitiklop ng mga bagong labang damit. Minsan talaga, kailangan mo din mag-reklamo para makaramdam.
Single ako & I have a friend na modern mom. Nakakatuwa sila ng husband nya coz open ang communication nila, so I learn something from my friend. Pag nagsabi si friend na "I need you to listen to me now" & nakikinig naman si hubby. I think in life (not just in relationships) we have to be honest, tell how we feel, let people know if we need help & if we want them to help - kahit obvious.
Andaming commenter na nagsasabi sa itaas na puro reklamo si Angge. Alam nyo po kung reader talaga kayo ng FP alam niyo na may sakit po si Angelica as in "sakit" google nyo nalang. Hindi po kaartehan yan. Kung maalwan buhay nyo at parang reyna sa bahay na sinisilbihan pasalamat nalang kayo kay Lord. Don't invalidate other's feelings mas lalo na kung hindi ka pa naging nanay o nagpaka-nanay.
People who do this, are the worst. They make it sound like they are being forced to do things, even when they are sick or exhausted. However, the truth is... people around them are probably telling them to take it easy, to rest, etc.
Alam mo 10:45 obviously hindi ka pa nanay. Ang mga nanay bawal na magkasakit kc kahit may sakit ka hindi naman titigil ang obligasyon mo bilang ina. Hindi pedeng mag sick leave or vacation leave. Tsaka maliit pa anak nyaxsa tingin mo maiintindihan ng anak nya.
She has the Martyr Complex. It's a real psychological disease. I'm pretty sure those people around her are probably telling her to take a rest, but she chooses not to.
@12:56 and? Did you even bother to read what I said? If she has an even more serious disease the less she needs to act like a martyr and actually take the rest she needs. Also, as others have pointed out, she has the money to hire a nanny. Additionally, by doing this kind of posting, she's only making her husband look bad. He doesn't seem to be the type of guy who would force her to take care of the baby. So why is she making it sound like that?
OA. Maraming mothers na mas madaming anak at kelangan pa kumayod just to put food on the table. Walang tulog din sila at pagod na pagod pa. Wala ding kasambahay to help them. How about ipahinga mo yan kesa mag drama at mag IG ka
Darating talaga siguro sa point ng pagiging nanay ang mapagod at magreklamo.Yun kahit masama ang pakiramdam mo at gusto mo pa matulog hindi pwede need mo gumawa ng lahat para sa kanila lalo na at malit ang mga anak nyo swerte ka din kung helpful sa mga gawain at pagaalaga ng bata ang asawa mo itong sa akin gagalaw lang pang sinabi ko na tulungan ako ang hirap mag me- time.Naranasan ko lahat yan bilang ako lang magisa dito sa malayoUmiiyak din pero. günusto ko ito kaya kinaya ko naman at sa awa ng Diyos malaki na anak ko ngayon.
1213 Pwede ma overwhelmed. Pwede mag rest. Tao lang tayo eh. Pero yung kadramahan na paulit ulit na instead matulog sya on her free time eh nakuha pang mag post sa IG. So asan ang priorities nya don?
Nag eemote lang yan. Her fiance is a hardworking man, taking care of the family business and providing a good life to Angelica and the baby. He also helps with household chores plus they have nannies for the baby.
May nanny nman yan c Angge. Maski pa wala c Greg pwede nman syang matulog. Kung natatakot sya, then matulog sya na andun din sa same room yung anak nya na may ibang nagbabantay. Lol
Kaya nga mahirap naman talaga. Pero to post in socmed... binibigyan lang nya ng opportunity na paghimasukan ng mga tao yung relationship nilang magasawa. Na parang lagi siyang hirap kasi walang tumutulong sa kanya. Unfair yan sa partner nya. She needs to change her victim mindset.
makapag inarte itong si angelica kala mo hirap na hirap sa buhay. apaka out of touch! for sure may nannies and maids yan, plus she’s got access to the best health providers/ psychologists out there.
Kaya ako when I say need ko magsleep, I sleep! Bininigay ko ang bata sa tatay niya para maka sleep ako. Kaka panganak ko lang last Oct. Actually pasa PPD ako now eh. Nakaka depress talaga knowing na may work na ako next week, plus may anak pa ako padedehin. Pero need talaga ng help So ang sistema is may tagalinis naman kami ng bahay, pati taga laba.
Nakakapagod mag alaga plus nagrerecover ka pa. Pero ayun, pahinga konna lang yung ngiti ng anak ko.
Correct me if I'm wrong pero may adverse effects sa mga bata if you ignore them when they cry as babies...it affects their attachment style pr something.
Kapit lang Ange, ganyan ang nanay. I had 1 1/2 yr old adopted daughter when I deliver my son at 45 yr old. Pag iyak ni baby daughter, iyak din si baby boy, iyak din ako, sabay kaming umiiyak . Tuliro si husband so ok lang.
Grabe ang comments. Sa Isang simpleng post najudge na si Angge ng bongga hahaha. Dami talaga marites na doctors, PhD in motherhood, marriage experts, psychologists
Hindi naman kasi iisang post lang. May pattern yata siya ng pagiging ganyan yung tinatawag daw nilang victim mentality? Imbes ipahinga na lang, ipopost pa. Para saan? Why post things like this to put yourself, and your loved ones under scrutiny and judgment. May support group naman siya siguro like family and friends why the need for this.
I used to liked her. I know artista sya but she can hire a nanny sa dami nilang pera. For sure she can the take rest that she want. Ako lng to ha pero why need to post it on social media pa instead of itutulog nya n lng lol.
Kapag ginusto mong magka anak at magka asawa, dapat gustuhin mo rin or kasama mong mamahalin ang hardships na mararamasan mo. Hindi dahil nagkatuluyan na kayo ng crush na crush mo. Hindi dahil magkakaroon na kayo ng bulinggit. Hindi dahil mangyayari na ang mga kilig fantasies mo. Hindi dahil sa mga yun. Yakapin mo din pati mga super challenges that goes with those fantasies mo. Kapag ginusto mo magka anak, ang kakambal nyan ay puyat, walang matinomg tulog ng mga 5 years lol. Kapag naman lumaki na sila, challenge sa outside world. You must teach them about life at puyat parin kapag nagkakasakit kahit 20 years old na sila lol! Sa asawa naman, pangangalabit kahit wala ka sa mood. Kaya siguro nauuwi sa hiwalayan. Hindi kana kasing game sa intimacy compared noong dalaga't binata palang kayo. At marami pang mga ugly challenges. Pero, wag naman masyado magpaka uliran, yan pag vent out ng feelings ok lang. Pero be strong. At pahinga lang ng isip. Love yourself. You can pause for awhile. Then bounce back. Dahil for life na ang commitment mo e. Lalo sa bata. Sa mga parents sila naka depend.
nag-vent out nga sya e, kaso ayan na-judge pa. nakakapagod maging nanay, period. at nakakapagod din maging tatay. minsan kahit nagpapahinga ka na, mga anak at asawa mo pa rin iniisip mo, kaya nakakapagod. but that doesn't mean nagrereklamo na. may mga araw lang talaga na ramdam mo yung, gusto mo lang matulog pero hindi ka makatulog kasi nga iniisip mo yung pamilya mo. victim mentality agad. ibig sabihin lahat ng magulang na nakaramdam ng pagod pavictim na, jusme.
Okay lang naman mag-vent na pagod eh pero she always makes it sound na walang tumutulong sa kanya na para bang walang pake yung mga nasa paligid nya. Ganun ba yung asawa nya, asa lang sa kanya kahit na obvious na may sakit sya?
Ode matulog ka. Hayaan mo muna yung mister mo na siya muna mag alaga sa anak NINYO. Sana ialis sa isip natin na, kahit lalaki ka marunong Kang mag alaga ng ANAK/BATA.
Ako sinasabihan ko talaga husband ko na I need to sleep if sobrang Pagod na ako. Automatic siya na bahala sa mga anak and baby namin. If I need to wake up early for work the next day, siya na rin gumigising Kay baby para tuloy2 tulog ko. Tulongan lang.
Sa mga nanay,...wag magpaka hero. If kaya naman ng budget, kuha ng yaya at kasambahay. Sometimes we want to maintain an image na we are strong independent woman, kaya lang yong balik sa health natin hindi kayang gamutin ng words na yan. Kaya kung carry naman sa budget, prioritize your health and get some help.
Tumpak. Mas maganda yung best version mo nakikita ng anak mo kesa nandyan ka nga lagi sa tabi ng anak mo pero depress ka naman. Balance lifestyle ang habolin, siguro hintayin nalang ni Angge mag 2 years old para makita niya ang development ng anak niya tapos back to work kung gusto niya
instead of kuha ka sa sarili mo na alam nating ilang takes yan tapos nag isip ka pa mg pavictim na caption na alam nating ilang ulit din yan eh sana umidlip ka na. Dami hanash nito
Angelica has this pattern of putting her loved ones in a bad light. Naalala ko yung nagreklamo sya dahil baby lang daw nya ang dinadalaw at hindi sya. 🥴
Yes. Ang weird no. Syempre pag nanganak ka gusto nila makita ang baby mo. Di naman ibig sabihin non wala silang pakisayo just because nakatuon ang attention sa baby. Parang naging masama pa yung kaibigang dumalaw.
Hate ko yung mga nagsasabing kung kinaya ko, kaya mo rin. I'm not ranting but I have my hands full with my 2 y/o tas choice namin wag na mag yaya. Kaya decision muna namin na wag muna sundan. Tas may older gen x tita ako na sinasabihan ako na sundan na, nagawa nyang mag travel with 2 young kids na walang yaya. Di daw nya alam bat maraming millenials na hindi daw up to what she or the choices she made. Paki ba nya. Masaya kahit pagod kami sa isa naming kid and thats that. Nakakainis.
Angelica is also human like us. Hindi porket “mayaman” “may katulong” etc, wala na siyang karapatan mapagod. We don’t know what happens behind camera. So people here who are so quick to judge at nakakalimot na tao din kayo at napapagod, get a life.
Human like us but with a lot of advantages- strong support system and MONEY. People aren't quick to judge. Angge already has a pattern of playing the victim. We will never forget how she complained about her friends na mas concern daw sa baby niya kesa sa kanya. What kind of a mother feel that way about her own child?
Inassume ko may sakit ang asawa. Wag masyado galit para hindi biased. Hehe angge, okay lang na hands on ka pero don’t try to buy into the illusion na you are less than a great wife and mom just because you delegate. Sa true umpisa pa lang yan 😅
Valid ang nararamdaman nya since maliit pa ang baby nya. Pero minsan ang post nito laging sob, may one time na nabasa ko , dinalaw na nga sya ng friend nya , nag comment pa sya na dinadalaw lang sya gawa ng anak nya hindi dahil sa kanya. Ang weird naman non, kung ako nanganak at sabik ang mga tao na makita ang anak ko, I won't mind. Hindi naman ako masasaktan na na left out ako at di ako pansinin at nakatuon ang attention sa cute kong baby. Parang andaming negative emotions si angge na pinopost lately. Bahala ka te.
Jusko ang OA mo Angle! Nung gusto mong mag-anak dapat alam mo consequences, di lahat puro sarap mas madami need isakripisyo. Sa kaeeemote mong ganyan parang kasalanan pa nung baby mo at bf mo kaya ka miserable. Try mo kaya matulog kesa mag post.
valid naman ang ganyang feeling. ang d ko ma gets e yung ipo post pa about it with matching pitiful selfie. pagod at antok na nga, pero nag take time pa na mag-inarte sa socmed!
Honestly, when you put out something like this in public, you also put your partner in a bad light- para bang you’re showing na ikaw lang kumikilos and that you can’t work together as a team. I’m not saying na you can’t complain, but there’s no need for you to post something like this kasi people can always interpret it wrongly. Sana tinext niya nalang si Greg. Or like magpatherapy siya. Kaloka
I can relate. Ganyan talaga pag nanay at wife na lalo na pag hands on. May times na kailangan talaga bumangon kahit pagod at kulang sa tulog.
ReplyDeleteAt may iniinda pang sakit si Angge kasi. Mahirap sa kanya lalo na kapag kinarga si baby.
DeleteWelcome to motherhood, it's exhausting but rewarding at the same time.
DeleteDi ko gets bakit naiyak sya sa pagod at di man lang makapag nap. Im sure magsabi lamg sya sa mr nya, pagpapahingahin syA
Delete12:35 may yaya din ang anak nila
DeleteParang hindi healthy. Pwede naman sya magpahinga kung kailangan. Ano ba ang kailangan sa kanya ng mag-ama nya na hindi man lang sya maka nap?
Deletewalang yaya? im sure she can afford 5 staff!
DeletePls. Angelica is not a typical mom. She is a rich celebrity. Delegation is the key. Kung may iniinda siyang sakit, let go being OCD. the fact that she posted this in socmed means she wants attention. More than anything, baka she needs therapy or professional help to address her mental health.
DeleteAko whenever na maisip ko yung ganyan, mag ccount nalang ako ng blessings. Small things like, a roof above our head, nakakaen ng maayos kami. I feel you. Para kang nasa kumunoy, na hinahatak ka pababa. Being tired is okay, feeling mo gusto mo mag give up is okay. Admit it. That’s the only way you can break through! Trust me, after ma admit mo sa sarili mo yan, bigla mo nalang magagawa yung 1st sentence ko. Marami tayo mare. Iiyak natin, wipe our tears and wear our crown again. It’s a never ending journey, pero PINILI natin to. Kaya lalaban tayo momshie! Amen!
DeleteAngge importante ang tulog. Good quality sleep actually. Otherwise, your health will soon deteriorate. How can you take care of your dawter if you're sick
DeleteUng mga ganitong post di mo magets kung anong gusto… pagod daw pero nakapagpost pa, walang time/ super busy pero updated mga soc meds… balakayojan
DeletePa self pity na lng sya. May yaya sya not one but two. Kaya hindi ko ma gets bakit need pa nya i post yung ganyan na feeling pa victim na naman
DeleteBaka she need to drive.
DeletePara sa akin unhealthy and unwise yang nag o OA na sya sa wifehood and motherhood nya. Nothing wrong with getting help, lalo nat may sakit sya. She made it sound like di help ng mr at ibang tao sa bahay nila. It doesnt make u less of a mom kung i balance mo Angge
DeleteI wake up before 6am to work. I finish my work at 9pm. If I have free time, ako pa nagluluto sa umaga. Tas pag gabi, kahit pagod na, para lang walang away, pagbibigyan pa si mister.
ReplyDeleteBuhay nanay at asawa sadyang kay hirap. Gusto ko nang magpahinga at umuwi sa amin, magpadala nalang ako ng pera. Kaso ang selfish ko naman pag ganun ako.
wala lang. Minsan nagsisisi ako, sana di nalang ako nag asawa. Ewan. Mabait naman asawa ko, walang chicks, doesn't smoke nor drink. Di rin nag momobile games. My marriage isnt perfect, but I am burned out, to the point na naiisip ko nang iwan mag ama ko. I will work and just send money to them.
Kuha ka na po ng katulong mommy. Unwind din paminsan-minsan. Mag me time ka po. Hugs mommy.
DeleteYeah..you get a nanny and a maid. Para may Me Time ka..at ang pagpapamilya ay isang responsibilidad at sinumpaan gampanan habang buhay. FAMILY FIRST..THEN, PAMPER YOURSELF AFTER..
Delete"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!"
I so know what you mean about pagod na Pero Kylangan pagbigyan c Mister. Hirap magpanggap when all you want to do is sleep for 7 hours solid
Deletedon't be afraid to get help from other people. also, you need to talk your hubby, too. baka kailangan lang ng shared duties at home para di ka ma-burn out. been there also. I can feel you
DeleteU need me-time and kasambahay
Delete10:39 kahit may maid, ang buhay ng nanay ay ganyan.
DeleteTalk to someone. Ask for help. Take care of your mental health. We all go through something like this at times. Pray. I wish you well. Hugs
DeleteMotherhood is not for you kung naiisip mo yan. Kaso kawawa naman yung anak mo. Ano na lang iisipin niya kung sakaling lumaki siyang wala ka. Nakakalungkot talaga na may mga babaeng ganyan mag-isip. Bakit kailangang yung bata ang mag-suffer in the end. Nakakalungkot.
DeleteThis doesn't sound good. Nakipagusap ka na ba kay mister about this?
DeleteThis solidifies my decision to be childfree. Marriage without kids is SOOO much easier lalo na kung madaming ambag asawa mo
Delete@9:52 married life was/is not really for you. I do not know if you are catholic kasi sa teachings dapat ng church may tatlong vocations tayo na dapat malaman married life, single blessedness and religious life. Kaya ganito ka gulo ang buhay ng iba kapag di nagampanan ang bokasyon. Like may mga pari or religious na pasaway kasi that vocation is not for them. May mga nagkapamilya at nagka anak pero di rin satisfied and empty pa rin ang buhay nila because probably their vocation either religious or single blessedness.
Delete12:12
DeleteYour kind - the judgmental kind - is one of the reasons why most likely mothers get burned out..
You invalidate her feelings of despair.. Akala mo they, who are in that miserable state, do not know what you are making them feeling guilty of.. Kaya nga sa mga ganitong anonymous convos na Lang sila nakakapaglabas ng emosyon nila, yet they still get invalidated..
Hubby needs to be mindful and dapat ma sense niya when you’re tired and let you sleep and rest . Love making and having s** is not a one way process . When you said pagbigyan, that is so unfair for you even you’re tired. ❤️ - I just remember my late mom , that was so her when I was growing up . She just disclosed to me when I was a young adult . She said she wanted to leave us . And also the word pagbigyan . She was a working mom too just like you however my dad was a weakling and mama’s boy . Didn’t have a stable job and a very good career just like my mom who was the main provider. My mom was burnt out and endure for many years . Until she went abroad to make more money for us and to give me the best future . When I arrived here in the US 15 years ago, she opened up all how she felt when she was we with us growing up. And she said she finally had me time when she was away and sending us money. Now she is resting in peace and finally got the peace she always wanted .
DeleteSa mga nagcocomment na kumuha ng helper. You can try pero swertehan talaga. Sobrang hirap makahanap these days. Tapos pag meron madalas incompetent or worse dishonest. Added expense na stress pa.
DeleteSad to hear that 9:52, I hope you could talk to someone and give yourself some me time before what you feel turns to depression. Let it all out, ask for guidance and help.
DeleteRest momshie, i feel for you. Kahit may yaya, iba ang pagod ng nanay,bit you deserve a break too. Kahit a few hours a week . Sending love and light.
Delete9:52, i feel you. Pareho tayo pero ako naman i’m asking God kung pwede magbakasyon ako ng 1 year to live alone and take care of myself but know that is impossible. Napapagod na rin ako. I feel like a zombie. Still moving but dead inside. I also feel like a hamster, a sad hamster. I move a lot but I’m not getting anywhere.
DeleteKung ayaw mo ng maid… pede din cleaners or taga laba lang once a week. Malaking help na yun. Kung di afford, ayun lang… tulungan na lang with hubby. Kung batugan asawa, ay ambot hahaha bahala kayo sa buhay nyo ginusto nyo yan.
DeleteI am 9:52.
DeleteSa mga nagsabi ng kind and understanding words. Thank you.
Sa mga nag invalidate naman, gets ko kayo. Sadyang may ganyang klaseng mga tao talaga.
may nagsabi na motherhood is not for me yata. I love my kids so much. They're the reason I work hard. I don't want them to go through what I went through.
Maswerte pa rin ako kasi mabait asawa ko, walang bisyo. Walang malulubhang sakit kaming mag anak. I also believe that I can never find a man as kind as my husband. Thanks to the internet, I am able to vent my frustrations in life. I express my thoughts here on FP and I also watch chinese , korean or japanese dramas, which makes me happy.
I am not a bad mother. Otherwise, I would leave my husband and kids na. I have the means to get away from my family because I work remotely with good remuneration packages. But I am not doing it because I am a work in progress and ayoko maimpyerno.
kayo naman, nagvivent lang ako dito..These things can't be disclosed with friends. Alam nyo na mangyayari, pag chichismisan ka.
952pm be kind to yourself and communicate what you feel to your husband, para matulungan ka nya sa gawaing bahay and pagbantay sa anak nyo. You should never brush off what you feel. Do things that you love in order to ease your stress and lift your mood. God bless you and your family.
Delete2:14AM I am also childfree. Matinding sacrifice ang maging isang wife & mother + working pa. Reading the comments here, saludo ako sa mga moms. But motherhood is also not for me.
DeleteBaks, papuntang depression na yan. As in, yung feeling na pagod na pagod ka. Minsan nga maski wala kang ginagawa pero pagod ka pa rin. Sobrang na burnout din ako with my kids. Parang yung buong buhay mo umikot nlang sa mga anak mo. I am lucky na nakaya kaming suportahan ng asawa ko pero lagi pa rin akong galit dati. Now that I am working, medyo bumuti yung mood ko. Nasa preschool kasi yung mga anak ko at nakakapagtrabaho ako part time. Baka kaylangan mo ng bagong hobby or maski ilang days na magbakasyon ng ikaw lang mag isa baka makatulong.
DeleteMahirap din maghanap ng maid, lalo na yaya. Kahit may pera, mahirap pa rin to find good help tas i ttrain mo pa. Na experience na namin yan. Buntis pa lang ako naghanap na kami via referral and we got one na yaya and helper tas yun pala buntis naman kaya kailangan din umalis eventually. Nag agency kami tas complete naman sa papers NBI clearance, vaccination card, etc) pero panay bale tas nambudol pa ng ibang kasambahay sa subdivision. Hanggang eventually nag give up na kami sa kakahanap ng yaya and decided na kami na lang hands on sa baby. We did get kasambahay and sya sa linis, laba, etc pero lahat ng alaga sa baby (na toddler na ngayon) kami din. Set up is not perfect sorta works for us and keeps us sane but syempre pagod pa rin. Meron talagang mga bagay na kailangan i give up, at least temporarily habang toddler pa kid namin. I guess at least di sya lalaking pala asa sa yaya. Sana makahanap ka din ng set up that will work for you.
Delete2:14 and 3:28, I’m also a woman who is happily married and childfree too I know deep in my heart that having a great marriage for almost 16 years now is because of not having children . I have an amazing and doting husband as well who is my best friend, my activity partner, ( workout & travel buddy. He said I am his business strategist and a his coach as well. I don’t have Filipino friends by choice here in the US because even I’m turning 45 now , they usually say ( why wala kang anak ? Kelan ka magkakaroon ng anak ? Look at me I have children…) I didn’t want to say to those people , why do you care ? ) Anyway, I’m so happy to learn that may mga childfree here . ❤️
DeleteWagas naman yung motherhood is not for you. Its a phase mommy. Kami ng husbaand ko away nung first years ni baby. Dagdag mo pa yung stepkids niya na sawsawero.
Deleteay ang arte mo naman ngayon matulog ka kung need mo ang sipag ni greg mag alaga sa anak niyo. parang walang silbi ni greg sa sinabi mo
ReplyDeletegalit yan?? teh may iniindang sakit din naman si angge. hinga ka ng malalim
DeleteNaisip ko din yang "kailangan ako ng mag ama ko" and I understand na baby pa anak nya, pero si Greg sifuro naman kayang ibigay kay Angelica yung oras para matulog. Hindi naman nya PA si Angelica.
Delete12:07 kung nay iniinda syang sakit, ipagawa nya sa asawa nya yung hindi nya kaya. Sya pa ba magpapakain, magpapaligo, magbibihis kay Greg?
DeleteKorak. Madrama kasi at need pa talagang pucturan sariling umiiyak at I post.
DeleteInutil ba asawa mo daizz! Susme love yourself and sleep for your physical strength if you are sleepy & tired. Mahirap sa konsensya pero… naman!
ReplyDeleteKung pipilitin niya gawin lahat, mahihirapan siya. Pag napapanood ko naman vlog nila, may mga kasama naman sila sa house. Isa lang naman din pa ang baby nila. Kung may toddler at new born siya naku yun ang nakaka baliw
Deleteas a hands on and working mom, mahirap talaga i-balance ang mga bagay bagay. don't shame someone dahil lang keri mo, eh kaya din nila. plus may sakit pa tong si angleica. sisi agad di muna makipag-empathize.
DeleteDi ko maintindihan yun pinipiling magka pamilya pero panay reklamo. Lol ginusto nyo yan
ReplyDeleteHindi yan pagrireklamo be. Human nature ang napapagod. If not, robot yan
Delete10:12 exactly!! Dba yan pinapangarap nya. Ano akala nya sa buhay may asawa madali?! Buti nga sya walang financial issue. Ano pa kaya ung pagod ka na problemado ka pa sa budget. Di na lang mag pasalamat. Dami hanash
Deletehuuhhh? bawal na magreklamo porket pinili magpamilya? lungkot ng buhay mo siguro. kaw siguro yung taong mahilig umasa sa iba
DeleteActually kaya hindi ako nagrereklamo, lalo na yung mag hanash sa soc med. Sa asawa ko lang. Hahaha sya naman din nag insist na mag fertility treatment kami kaya may anak na kami ngayon. Tas lagi ko iniinsist na maging involved sya kaya ayan, hati kami sa pagpa kain, ligo, diaper change, etc. Ang hindi lang nya magawa is yung pag breastfeed and minsan ako talaga hinahanap ng kid namin. Tanggap na namin yung loss of autonomy hanggang medyo mas independent na yung bata. And no, wala kaming yaya, sablay mga nakukuha namin kaya nag decide na lang kami na tyagain na hands on.
DeleteHindi naman surprising ito. Angge has always had a victim mentality and ganito na siya kahit sa mga karelasyon niya. Most likely she actually gets lots of help but does not realize it cause she cannot see beyong her self centeredness.
DeleteExactly.
Delete12:17 ditto.
DeleteExactly. Marriage and motherhood are both CHOICES. You are free to opt out
DeleteMay kilala ako na hindi naman sila financially stable pero nag-anak ng tatlo. Tapos nagrereklamo na nahihirapan. Aba ginusto nyo yan. Tapos pag may emergency damay kami lahat dahil wala silang pera. Kainis talaga ang 3rd world mentality..
Delete12:17 hahahaha TRUe yan
Delete10:15AM I have a similar story. Nakikinig ako sa radio may caller. Saleslady sya 3 kids. Di ko matandaan work ng husband. Nahihirapan daw sila mag budget. Sorry ha sana naisip nila mag family planning? Di pala kaya bumuhay ng 3 anak. Haay.
DeleteGanyan talaga kapag nanay ka. Pwede kang magreklamo, pero bawal sumuko. This week lang, medyo nakaramdam ako ng pagod. Hindi ko alam pero first time nangyari na iba yung pagod ko. Maybe because galing ako sa trangkaso. So ang nangyari, naglaba ako, naglinis ng bahay, nag-padede ng bata tapos nagluto. Nung tanghalian na, maliligo na sana ko nung pagkakain namin. Ineexpect ko hugasan ng mister ko yung mga pinagkainan namin. Abay, hindi. So ang ginawa ko, nagdabog ako. As in dabog. Ayun, sa akin pa nagalit ang mister ko. Pero kinabukasan, inabutan kong nagtitiklop ng mga bagong labang damit. Minsan talaga, kailangan mo din mag-reklamo para makaramdam.
ReplyDeleteYun lang naman. 😆
Laban lang momshie! Pwede magpahinga pagfeel mo na overload ka na, itreat out mo sarili mo kasi deserve mo yon.
DeleteTrue! Speak so you can be heard!
DeleteSingle ako & I have a friend na modern mom. Nakakatuwa sila ng husband nya coz open ang communication nila, so I learn something from my friend. Pag nagsabi si friend na "I need you to listen to me now" & nakikinig naman si hubby. I think in life (not just in relationships) we have to be honest, tell how we feel, let people know if we need help & if we want them to help - kahit obvious.
Delete@3:41pm Agree! Kesa maging passive-aggressive, mas maganda maging honest and straightforward sa partner para maayos kung ano man issue
DeleteHa? Ano raw? ito na talaga ang world mo Angelica as mother and soon to be wife!
ReplyDeleteluh bawal maging emotional? kaw na walang feelings LOL
DeleteTrue. Di ba sya nag research before wanting a child/fam
DeleteNapaka OA! Masyado pabebe
ReplyDeleteOA agad ante? overwhelmed lang siguro
DeleteAndaming commenter na nagsasabi sa itaas na puro reklamo si Angge. Alam nyo po kung reader talaga kayo ng FP alam niyo na may sakit po si Angelica as in "sakit" google nyo nalang. Hindi po kaartehan yan. Kung maalwan buhay nyo at parang reyna sa bahay na sinisilbihan pasalamat nalang kayo kay Lord. Don't invalidate other's feelings mas lalo na kung hindi ka pa naging nanay o nagpaka-nanay.
ReplyDeleteHa? Eh kilala sya dati bilang mataray at palengkera na kala mo laki ng angat nya sa majority ng kababaihan. Anyare at ngayon puro reklamo?
DeleteBut, she makes it sound like the people around her do not consider that she's sick (making them look awful).
DeletePeople who do this, are the worst. They make it sound like they are being forced to do things, even when they are sick or exhausted. However, the truth is... people around them are probably telling them to take it easy, to rest, etc.
DeleteAlam mo 10:45 obviously hindi ka pa nanay. Ang mga nanay bawal na magkasakit kc kahit may sakit ka hindi naman titigil ang obligasyon mo bilang ina. Hindi pedeng mag sick leave or vacation leave. Tsaka maliit pa anak nyaxsa tingin mo maiintindihan ng anak nya.
DeleteShe has the Martyr Complex. It's a real psychological disease. I'm pretty sure those people around her are probably telling her to take a rest, but she chooses not to.
DeleteArte because she can ask help from her husband and helpers. Bat paring martyr na martyr sya ngayon.
Delete12:12 either OA ka or no one supports you.
DeleteAnon 12:12 alam mo ba kung anong sakit ni Angelica? Sakit sa buto po. Hindi lang simpleng sakit na karaniwan sa mga.nanay like headache or pagod.
Delete@12:56 and? Did you even bother to read what I said? If she has an even more serious disease the less she needs to act like a martyr and actually take the rest she needs. Also, as others have pointed out, she has the money to hire a nanny. Additionally, by doing this kind of posting, she's only making her husband look bad. He doesn't seem to be the type of guy who would force her to take care of the baby. So why is she making it sound like that?
DeleteOA. Maraming mothers na mas madaming anak at kelangan pa kumayod just to put food on the table. Walang tulog din sila at pagod na pagod pa. Wala ding kasambahay to help them. How about ipahinga mo yan kesa mag drama at mag IG ka
ReplyDeleteShut up ka na lang 1049.
Deleteedi ikaw na po ang strong independent woman. di ba pwedeng ma-overwhelm ang isang tao?
DeleteMay kasambahay pa nga yan eh
DeleteTrue napaka OA talaga niyan
DeleteDarating talaga siguro sa point ng pagiging nanay ang mapagod at magreklamo.Yun kahit masama ang pakiramdam mo at gusto mo pa matulog hindi pwede need mo gumawa ng lahat para sa kanila lalo na at malit ang mga anak nyo swerte ka din kung helpful sa mga gawain at pagaalaga ng bata ang asawa mo itong sa akin gagalaw lang pang sinabi ko na tulungan ako ang hirap mag me- time.Naranasan ko lahat yan bilang ako lang magisa dito sa malayoUmiiyak din pero. günusto ko ito kaya kinaya ko naman at sa awa ng Diyos malaki na anak ko ngayon.
DeleteHahaahahahaaaha tama. 11:21 why will she shut up? Ano.
Delete1121 I’d say you and Angelica should shut up. Mag pahinga na kayo sa socmed at hindi yung kaOAyan ang pinopost nyo
Delete1213 Pwede ma overwhelmed. Pwede mag rest. Tao lang tayo eh. Pero yung kadramahan na paulit ulit na instead matulog sya on her free time eh nakuha pang mag post sa IG. So asan ang priorities nya don?
Delete1257 Tumpak!
DeleteWeaponize incompetence lang yan sa fiance mo. Kaya naman nya sarili nya noh
ReplyDeletePostpartum ba yan?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, etong ganto baka maging mitsa ng hiwalayan hmmm
Mukhang understanding naman yon guy.
DeleteNag eemote lang yan. Her fiance is a hardworking man, taking care of the family business and providing a good life to Angelica and the baby. He also helps with household chores plus they have nannies for the baby.
DeleteItong mga ganitong post inilalagay nya sa alanganin yung loved ones niya. Kahit ba malawak pang intindi ng iba, paano kung sumagad.
Deletepa oa na ng pa oa mga artista sa socmed. yun mga simpleng problema iniinda pa. mabubuhay mag ama mo kahit matulog ka jusko.
ReplyDeleteHahaha “mabubuhay mag ama mo kahit matulog ka” - mismo!
DeleteMay nanny nman yan c Angge. Maski pa wala c Greg pwede nman syang matulog. Kung natatakot sya, then matulog sya na andun din sa same room yung anak nya na may ibang nagbabantay. Lol
DeleteBakit ang arte. Ginusto mo yan. Nag anak ka. Yan na ang buhay mo. Need ba laging ipost.
ReplyDeleteTumpak!
DeleteKaya nga mahirap naman talaga. Pero to post in socmed... binibigyan lang nya ng opportunity na paghimasukan ng mga tao yung relationship nilang magasawa. Na parang lagi siyang hirap kasi walang tumutulong sa kanya. Unfair yan sa partner nya. She needs to change her victim mindset.
Deletemakapag inarte itong si angelica kala mo hirap na hirap sa buhay. apaka out of touch! for sure may nannies and maids yan, plus she’s got access to the best health providers/ psychologists out there.
DeleteKaya ako when I say need ko magsleep, I sleep! Bininigay ko ang bata sa tatay niya para maka sleep ako. Kaka panganak ko lang last Oct. Actually pasa PPD ako now eh. Nakaka depress talaga knowing na may work na ako next week, plus may anak pa ako padedehin.
ReplyDeletePero need talaga ng help So ang sistema is may tagalinis naman kami ng bahay, pati taga laba.
Nakakapagod mag alaga plus nagrerecover ka pa. Pero ayun, pahinga konna lang yung ngiti ng anak ko.
Bat kasi hindi ka mag hire madam ng kasambahay maski para sa gawing bahay lang talaga since ayaw mo ipaalaga sa iba ang baby mo
ReplyDeletePero may time mag post?
ReplyDeletemas may time siya mag-self pity kesa magpahinga
DeleteAs long as hindi gutom ang baby, kung umiiyak, hayaan mo umiyak, mapapagod din yun at mututulog.
ReplyDeleteCorrect me if I'm wrong pero may adverse effects sa mga bata if you ignore them when they cry as babies...it affects their attachment style pr something.
Delete420 girl, hindi nman everytime na umiiyak ang bata eh pabayaan mo nlang. Isa pa, may nanny yan c Angge maski hands on nman silang dalawa ni Greg.
DeleteSo did she pressed record and cried or cried first and then pressed record :) :) :) That is always a mystery to me ;) ;) ;)
ReplyDeletehow and why you are still using the colon/semicolon close parenthesis instead of emojis is a mystery to me
DeleteKaya ayoko mag anak mas bet ko me time char
ReplyDeletesame sizt. kanya kanyang preferences
DeleteMay time ka namang mag post…ay enebeyen!!!
ReplyDeleteTrue di b oa
DeleteKapit lang Ange, ganyan ang nanay. I had 1 1/2 yr old adopted daughter when I deliver my son at 45 yr old. Pag iyak ni baby daughter, iyak din si baby boy, iyak din ako, sabay kaming umiiyak . Tuliro si husband so ok lang.
ReplyDeleteang ingay naman sa bahay nyo. hahahaha. nakakainis ganyan kasama sa house. hahaha
Deletedapat naki-iyak din si husband para choir! charot
DeleteAno ginagawa ng bf nya?
ReplyDeleteMadami. Pa victim lang to what’s new
DeleteWelcome to the real world. Yan pa lang crayola to the max ka na.
ReplyDeletekaya nga, partida 1 pa lang anak, hindi pa kasal, full time stay at home mom with yaya
DeleteGrabe ang comments. Sa Isang simpleng post najudge na si Angge ng bongga hahaha. Dami talaga marites na doctors, PhD in motherhood, marriage experts, psychologists
ReplyDeleteHindi naman kasi iisang post lang. May pattern yata siya ng pagiging ganyan yung tinatawag daw nilang victim mentality? Imbes ipahinga na lang, ipopost pa. Para saan? Why post things like this to put yourself, and your loved ones under scrutiny and judgment. May support group naman siya siguro like family and friends why the need for this.
DeleteItulog mo yan. Dami nyang hanash recently
ReplyDeleteI used to liked her. I know artista sya but she can hire a nanny sa dami nilang pera. For sure she can the take rest that she want. Ako lng to ha pero why need to post it on social media pa instead of itutulog nya n lng lol.
ReplyDeleteShe can get all the assistance she’d need and if she wants to. Hindi naman sha yung tipong sha lang ang aasahan. Di ko gets yung gnyan
ReplyDeleteShe has a victim mentality. She could get a lot of help if she wants to, they are financially capable.
ReplyDeleteKapag ginusto mong magka anak at magka asawa, dapat gustuhin mo rin or kasama mong mamahalin ang hardships na mararamasan mo. Hindi dahil nagkatuluyan na kayo ng crush na crush mo. Hindi dahil magkakaroon na kayo ng bulinggit. Hindi dahil mangyayari na ang mga kilig fantasies mo. Hindi dahil sa mga yun. Yakapin mo din pati mga super challenges that goes with those fantasies mo.
ReplyDeleteKapag ginusto mo magka anak, ang kakambal nyan ay puyat, walang matinomg tulog ng mga 5 years lol. Kapag naman lumaki na sila, challenge sa outside world. You must teach them about life at puyat parin kapag nagkakasakit kahit 20 years old na sila lol!
Sa asawa naman, pangangalabit kahit wala ka sa mood. Kaya siguro nauuwi sa hiwalayan. Hindi kana kasing game sa intimacy compared noong dalaga't binata palang kayo. At marami pang mga ugly challenges.
Pero, wag naman masyado magpaka uliran, yan pag vent out ng feelings ok lang. Pero be strong. At pahinga lang ng isip. Love yourself. You can pause for awhile. Then bounce back. Dahil for life na ang commitment mo e. Lalo sa bata. Sa mga parents sila naka depend.
Ang pag aalaaga at gabay sa anak ay forever!
Deletenag-vent out nga sya e, kaso ayan na-judge pa. nakakapagod maging nanay, period. at nakakapagod din maging tatay. minsan kahit nagpapahinga ka na, mga anak at asawa mo pa rin iniisip mo, kaya nakakapagod. but that doesn't mean nagrereklamo na. may mga araw lang talaga na ramdam mo yung, gusto mo lang matulog pero hindi ka makatulog kasi nga iniisip mo yung pamilya mo. victim mentality agad. ibig sabihin lahat ng magulang na nakaramdam ng pagod pavictim na, jusme.
DeleteOkay lang naman mag-vent na pagod eh pero she always makes it sound na walang tumutulong sa kanya na para bang walang pake yung mga nasa paligid nya. Ganun ba yung asawa nya, asa lang sa kanya kahit na obvious na may sakit sya?
DeletePapansin lang yang si angge sa yaman nila malamang me yaya naman sila diba nga dalaga palang sya ganyan na yan
ReplyDeleteOde matulog ka. Hayaan mo muna yung mister mo na siya muna mag alaga sa anak NINYO. Sana ialis sa isip natin na, kahit lalaki ka marunong Kang mag alaga ng ANAK/BATA.
ReplyDeleteAko sinasabihan ko talaga husband ko na I need to sleep if sobrang Pagod na ako. Automatic siya na bahala sa mga anak and baby namin. If I need to wake up early for work the next day, siya na rin gumigising Kay baby para tuloy2 tulog ko. Tulongan lang.
ReplyDeleteSa mga nanay,...wag magpaka hero. If kaya naman ng budget, kuha ng yaya at kasambahay. Sometimes we want to maintain an image na we are strong independent woman, kaya lang yong balik sa health natin hindi kayang gamutin ng words na yan. Kaya kung carry naman sa budget, prioritize your health and get some help.
ReplyDeleteTumpak. Mas maganda yung best version mo nakikita ng anak mo kesa nandyan ka nga lagi sa tabi ng anak mo pero depress ka naman. Balance lifestyle ang habolin, siguro hintayin nalang ni Angge mag 2 years old para makita niya ang development ng anak niya tapos back to work kung gusto niya
DeleteAgree din ako sa short vacation away with gfs. Especially if she needs to recharge
Deleteinstead of kuha ka sa sarili mo na alam nating ilang takes yan tapos nag isip ka pa mg pavictim na caption na alam nating ilang ulit din yan eh sana umidlip ka na. Dami hanash nito
ReplyDeleteAngelica has this pattern of putting her loved ones in a bad light. Naalala ko yung nagreklamo sya dahil baby lang daw nya ang dinadalaw at hindi sya. 🥴
ReplyDeleteYes. Ang weird no. Syempre pag nanganak ka gusto nila makita ang baby mo. Di naman ibig sabihin non wala silang pakisayo just because nakatuon ang attention sa baby. Parang naging masama pa yung kaibigang dumalaw.
DeleteSus, get someone to help you. Simple lang naman solusyon.
ReplyDeletemag-hire ng yaya vs mag-self pity
ReplyDeleteHate ko yung mga nagsasabing kung kinaya ko, kaya mo rin. I'm not ranting but I have my hands full with my 2 y/o tas choice namin wag na mag yaya. Kaya decision muna namin na wag muna sundan. Tas may older gen x tita ako na sinasabihan ako na sundan na, nagawa nyang mag travel with 2 young kids na walang yaya. Di daw nya alam bat maraming millenials na hindi daw up to what she or the choices she made. Paki ba nya. Masaya kahit pagod kami sa isa naming kid and thats that. Nakakainis.
ReplyDeleteAngelica is also human like us. Hindi porket “mayaman” “may katulong” etc, wala na siyang karapatan mapagod. We don’t know what happens behind camera. So people here who are so quick to judge at nakakalimot na tao din kayo at napapagod, get a life.
ReplyDeleteHuman like us but with a lot of advantages- strong support system and MONEY. People aren't quick to judge. Angge already has a pattern of playing the victim. We will never forget how she complained about her friends na mas concern daw sa baby niya kesa sa kanya. What kind of a mother feel that way about her own child?
DeleteInassume ko may sakit ang asawa. Wag masyado galit para hindi biased. Hehe angge, okay lang na hands on ka pero don’t try to buy into the illusion na you are less than a great wife and mom just because you delegate. Sa true umpisa pa lang yan 😅
ReplyDeletetsk tsk si angge di na alam anong gusto
ReplyDeleteValid ang nararamdaman nya since maliit pa ang baby nya. Pero minsan ang post nito laging sob, may one time na nabasa ko , dinalaw na nga sya ng friend nya , nag comment pa sya na dinadalaw lang sya gawa ng anak nya hindi dahil sa kanya. Ang weird naman non, kung ako nanganak at sabik ang mga tao na makita ang anak ko, I won't mind. Hindi naman ako masasaktan na na left out ako at di ako pansinin at nakatuon ang attention sa cute kong baby. Parang andaming negative emotions si angge na pinopost lately. Bahala ka te.
ReplyDeleteJusko ang OA mo Angle! Nung gusto mong mag-anak dapat alam mo consequences, di lahat puro sarap mas madami need isakripisyo. Sa kaeeemote mong ganyan parang kasalanan pa nung baby mo at bf mo kaya ka miserable. Try mo kaya matulog kesa mag post.
ReplyDeleteKung pagod, eh di magpahinga. Wag ng mag IGS
ReplyDeletevalid naman ang ganyang feeling. ang d ko ma gets e yung ipo post pa about it with matching pitiful selfie. pagod at antok na nga, pero nag take time pa na mag-inarte sa socmed!
ReplyDeleteThis! Jusko, imbes na itulog, “teka where’s my CP ba, ok action, huhu iyak mega cry para maganda sa pic… ok picture 1,2,3!” 🤡🤡🤡
DeleteHonestly, when you put out something like this in public, you also put your partner in a bad light- para bang you’re showing na ikaw lang kumikilos and that you can’t work together as a team. I’m not saying na you can’t complain, but there’s no need for you to post something like this kasi people can always interpret it wrongly. Sana tinext niya nalang si Greg. Or like magpatherapy siya. Kaloka
ReplyDeleteNagmukang walang kwenta at palaasa yung mga taong nakapaligid sa kanya especially Greg and her baby.
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