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Friends from her past are amazed at the seeming transformation of Pretty Celebrity (PC). Prior to PC hitting her fame and turning into one of the country's admired celebrities, she had a horrible secret. As she projects being a kind person in her online and public appearances, friends could not help but recall how PC had placed other people into a fearful state.One of the worst identities is that of a bully. Current times are revealing the impact of bullying on its victims after time has passed. PC was allegedly a bully during her younger days, targeting the ones who were weaker. PC’s target was worse than expected. They were not ordinary students. Rather, her victims were the ones who needed understanding. Apparently, PC’s bullying targeted a peer who was physically challenged.
There is no denial that even when she was young, PC looked attractive and definitely, a head turner. Hence, she could easily have had the attention and the following of her friends then. Still, she chose to intimidate a peer who might not be as attractive as her. Was it then popular to be a bully?
Hopefully, as PC is sharing her family life as well, may her kids, who have lifestyle perks grow up to be truly kind and caring, and not use their advantages to bully ordinary kids.
‘You should never make fun of something that a person can't change about themselves.’ ― Phil Lester
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ReplyDeleteNot M. She never projects being kid, in fact she always says she's true to herself and to others. What you see is what you get. She has no problem keeping her long time friends and still friends with her HS barkada
DeleteTruth,This is not M, never nman nyang prinoject na kind sya,kaya nga most people know her as maldita not bully and aminado sya dun
DeleteFriends with HS "Barkada.. Ikaw na mismo nag sabi, BARKADA.. Ang pinag uusapan ay ang mga tingin nya di nya ka level Kaya binubully nya
Deletekeeping a friend does not mean you cant be a bully. anybody can be a bully. sometimes we are not aware but most of the time we are.
DeleteAgree, 11:43.
Delete11:43AM but that doesnt mean na hindi sya bully sa iba during their high school days. Ang bully naman have friends e.
DeleteAng hirap. Ang tanong ko na lang, nagbago na ba? Hehe
ReplyDeleteSorry na 😅 pero pag bully na maganda isa lang naiisip ko agad si M
ReplyDeleteSi C din na snake self confessed bully yun. Nung newbie pa siya lagi napapaaway si C sa clubs at matapobre din
DeleteI doubt it's her. Kasi she's still friends with her old friends back in school.
Delete1112 agree na hindi ito c M pero tih hindi katakataka if friends pa rin yang nasa bi at hs friends nya. Same ugali eh. Lol
Delete1112 pabalik balik ka dyan sa shes still friends with here classmates eh hindi nga yan dahilan para hindi ka mabansagang bully. what if mga bully din pala barkada nya? oh eh di they are birds of the same feather. dyeske mahirap bang intindihan na hindi prerequisite ng pagiging bully ang loyalty sa friends?
Delete@6:26 eh d naman sya ganun kaganda dati, dami pinaayos nun
Deleteisa lang pumapasok sa isip ko pag pretty and bully.. si M
ReplyDeleteSame but I think this one is older. Maybe si K?
DeleteM or K - not sure kung sino sa kanila
ReplyDeleteMga klasmeyts, I was a former bully back in HS. Wala ako sinaktan physically, but I've caused a lot of emotional hurt (possible trauma) on someone. Ung person na nagawan ko ng kasalanan, we're on peaceful terms now (typical fb friends who greet eachother on bdays, etc). Pero everytime I encounter topics like bullying, nakokonsensya ako dahil naaalala ko ung mga ginawa ko tapos di man lang ako nakapag sorry sa kanya. Para kasing nabrush off lang ung nangyari samin nung HS as immaturity.
ReplyDeleteWe're in our mid-30s now at gusto ko pa din magsorry sa kanya, but I'm scared because I don't know how she'll react at sobrang nahihiya din ako sa kanya.
If you were a victim of bullying, would you accept an apology from your bully?
Para sa akin, dahil di ko pa naranasan na mag sorry ang bully, posible naman. At least nakokonsensya ka na. Kung sincere naman ang paghingi ng tawad, malaki ang chance na mapatawad ka niya. Baka sakali rin mag heal siya.
DeleteSure. Past this past. As you stated, you’re older now in your 30s so hopefully the victim will be receptive.
DeleteFor me yes, lalo na nung mga elementary and HS days. It's been a long time and lahat tayo nag mmature. It's something I'd really welcome and would gladly put behind me.
DeleteAng mahihirapan ako and hindi ko rin ieexpect na mag sorry eh yung mga adult bullies in the workplace. Those people are the worst. At dahil sa mga yun nag push talaga ako sa career para maiwan sila at "Who you" na lang sila sa conventions.
Reality check: Ang sarap sabihan ng NO. She has all the right to never forgive you, to forget about you, to move on. You changed her life if not ruined it. You know how many people carry childhood bullying until sa pagtanda at pagkamatay nila? No matter if she accepts you, forgives you, or marries you, YOU ALTERED someone's life. The only justice here is that you carry your guilt for as long as she can remember your crime.
DeletePero syempre as Pinoy, sasabihin nya, 'Ano yun? Ano ka ba, ok lang yun. Wala yun. Nakalimutan ko na.' Mark my words, she has only forgiven you in words. Sugat yan, kung di sya naputulan ng paa, may peklat.
Ask for forgiveness, then leave her alone, permanently. Disappear from her life and let her move on. She doesn't have to accept your apology, you don't deserve acceptance. Believe me, she'll be thankful you didn't give her the burden of being fake or awkward 'friends' just because you said sorry.
I would appreciate if a person who bullied me years ago acknowledged his/her mistakes at nagsorry. It means nag mature ka na rin. Hindi pa huli ang lahat siszt.
DeleteI was a victim of bullying before, we say we're ok but we are actually not. Mahirap iexplain. Kung ikaw sya at magsososorry ka sakin ngayon, since ok na nman ako ngayon, sasabihin kong ok na ako at Wag mo na uulitin sa iba. Pero it doesn't mean na mkakalimutan ko yun, at yung trauma na nagawa mo sakin, I think forever na yun kasi I am afraid of my children's life to be honest. Ayoko naranasan nila yung naranasan ko before sa mga bully na katulad mo.
DeleteYes, do it!
DeleteGinawa ko to recently sa dalawang nabully ko at pareho silang mGanda ang response sakin. Ni diko nga kame FB friends, nagkaron lang ng reunion sa chat.
DeleteHello. As a victim of bullying in HS na tila nakalimutan na lang yung mga nagawa, please still apologize. It depends sa tao if they will accept it but if you are genuine, you acknowledged the fault, and you don't bully anybody anymore, most likely papatawarin ka nila. Gaya ng sabi mo nabrush off na lang as immaturity yung past. Di natin alam if bothered pa ba or hindi ai victim. But for your own peace of mind, mas okay siguro na mag apologize na lang. 😊
DeleteHindi
DeleteAs someone bullied in school, oo naman. Matagal na akong naka-move on, pero for closure na lang siguro ng both sides.
Deleteyes.
DeleteNo, matagal na pala. Baka ayaw nya na din halungkatin ang past. Just be nice NOW.
DeleteFor you to get scared means andun yung ego na baka mapahiya ka lang. Regardless anong response nya you did something wrong. Have some humility at mag sorry ng maayos. Ano man ang response nya sa kanya na yun. Hu knows start un ng healing process nyong dalwa. Read 1 Peter 5:6
Deletesame tayo baks bully din ako. at nong nabigyan ako ng chance na magsorry later on nong nagmature na, I made sure she understands that although everything was intentional I was sorry for it and regretted what I have done. so friends na kami ngayon.
DeleteI would if it was me. It will help them heal I think. Coz lagi mo dala dala kasi yan kahit older ka na. Masakit pa rin.
DeleteI was bullied in high school. By standards sa pinas kakaiba ako, matangkad, sobrang payat, di kagandahan.. Yung group leader nila, he called me so many names, dinosaur, denver, dina atbp. during that time, bilang teenager, ang sakit, nakakahiya halos ayaw mo pumasok. iniiwasan mo ang group nila dahil tutuksuhin ako lagi tapos magtatawanan sila para i-point out ang biggest insecurities ko. Masayang masaya ako nun ng natapos ang high school. Alam ko sasabihin nyo ang liit na bagay pero may impact yung ginawa nila sa akin, bumaba ang self confidence ko. Hindi ako connected sa kanila in any social media. Pero now at the age of 35 at nasa ibang bansa, natatawa nalang ako pag naalala ko yun. nasa maling lugar lang pala ako sa pinas kasi ngayon, naaccept ko na height ko. Although, iniiwasan ko parin ang gathering ng mga kabayan dito, feeling ko kasi pag nagtatawanan sila ako pinag uusapan. Nakalimutan ko na pero pag may mga ganitong topic, sila agad pumapasok sa isip ko
DeleteI’m well into my 30s and if I were to get an apology from my bullies, I would really appreciate it. Do it, huwag ka mahiya!
DeleteI commend you for regretting your actions and I hope if you have children (or plan to have), teach them to never ever bully and if they have enough courage to do so, step up when they see someone being bullied.
DeleteAs a victim of bullying, (GS all the way to HS - meron ako physical defect eh so it made me an easy target), I developed anxiety and disorders that I'm still battling with to this day. Sadly, kahit na it was a long time ago, bitbit ko padin and can be triggered occasionally. While yes, I do understand na it can just be brushed off as immaturity then, I often wished na sana naging mas mabait mga bata then (un na itsura ko eh ano magagawa ko?).
This is just me lang ah; I do not hate my bullies but I don't think I'd like to see them, talk to them, befriend them. I don't want anything to do with them lang.
Ang mean ng tao pag pangit ka :(
100% yes. An apology is always a welcome step in the healing process, and giving or receiving one is never too late.
DeleteYes.
DeleteI was bullied in high school. I am in my 40s now and i had forgiven those who bullied me even if they had not apologized. Pag nakakausap ko sila wala ng akong sama ng loob sa kanila. But I had carried the grudges for a long time. Two of my bullies died on their early 30s and they died na andun pa rin iyong sama ng loob ko sa kanila. I may had forgiven them but i will never ever forget that they bullied me.
DeleteI was mean to the new girl for an entire school year. But I started feeling guilty every time I saw her. I'm happy I found the courage to apologize kahit months before our graduation ko na nagawa. Thankfully she accepted my apology naman. It's never too late to say sorry, classmate. Of course it's up to the person to accept our apology or not. But I suggest you do it for your growth and peace of mind anyway. You might learn something new about yourself if you allow yourself to be vulnerable and remorseful.
DeleteIt actually would mean a lot. It may bring you peace din. 😊
DeleteI was bullied during my grade school days and until now, I still have ill feelings for that person who bullied me. We parted ways when we graduated from grade school, hindi siya nag hs sa school namin and I was relieved. She made my life like a living hell during my gr 7 and until now I can still remember it like it was just yesterday. Halos half of my gr 7, nasa clinic ako nag iimbento ng sakit para di makapasok or nagtatago ako sa cr (so it means nag cucut ako ng class para sa kanya). Maaappreciate ko kung mag sordy siya sakin Kahit 20yrs ago na yun. Tinanggalan niya ko ng right maging masaya ng isang taon during my childhood days.
DeleteSo if kaya mo mag sorry for your peace of mind dahil sa ginawa mo nung kabataan mo, gawin mo. Hindi masaya mabully! Not mad at her anymore but if ever she messages me and mag sorry siya, maaappreciate ko. Pero if hindi, ok lNg din. I can sleep at noght knowing wala akong inagrabyadong tao nung bata ako. Lol
Yes! Come clean.
DeleteWe no longer don’t care, it doesn’t matter if you apologize or not, the trauma is already there and can no longer be forgotten. Pag may topic related to bullying, naaalala namin ang scary and hurtful past. So for you, kahit may character development ka pa, you will forever carry it sa iyong conscience, and yang na ffeel mo na guilt which is long term, deserved mo yan :)
Deletei'll let success be the answer to my bully hahaha
Deletesiguro i'll just choose to walk away. siguro enough na ang konsensya to haunt u for the rest of ur life lol
Delete3:00, ikaw ata ang classmate ko nung HS! Hehe ✌🏼
DeleteNasa mid 30’s na rin ako.
Pero seriously, yung sagot sa question mo, from me (na maraming beses nabully since elem to HS) yes naman ofcourse, mapapatawad ka nya & baka nga matagal na!, matagal na panahon na yun na if ever naman nag cause ng emotional trauma yung ginawa mo sa kabatch mo eh 100% may lesson din syang nakuha doon. It made her stronger! Believe me. 🙂
God Bless your beautiful soul ✨
You're scared and nahihiya sa binully mo? Pero nung time na binubully mo siya nung kabataan mo, hindi mo naisip kung gaano siya katakot at yung kahihiyan na inabot niya sa pinaggagagawa mo. Pero isang sorry di mo magawa hanggang ngayon.
Deleteyes you should it’s not too late. it could be therapeutic for you and the other person
Delete1:35 bullying din yang ginagawa mo ano ba?!
DeleteYES. Because victims of bullying still has this lingering question... "bakit kaya nagpaprosper ang buhay ng mga ingratang bully na yan?" It is a way to let them know that you've changed and that you are different from how you were years ago.
DeleteApologize sincerely but don't force your friendship on her porke't nagsorry ka na. Better yet, just leave her alone to get on with her life.
Delete7:46 no it's not bullying. I stated facts. Nang bully siya nung kabataan niya and I'm sure it had an effect dun sa taong binully niya, yung emotional trauma. Pero ngayon takot sya mag sorry? If sincere siya, hindi siya magdadalawang isip mag sorry just because baka ano isipin sa kanya lalo na if good naman ang intentions niya.
DeleteYung mga basher ni M patawa. Hindi yan sya bully, schoolmate ko sya.
ReplyDeleteLuh obviously joke lang kasi ang ingay niya lately so siya unang papasok sa isip
DeleteBakit ikaw lang ba schoolmate nya?
DeleteThis does not give you the right to discredit another person's bullying experience. Interactions vary. Lawakan ang pag-iisip.
DeleteBasher kaagad?? Eh kung yun ang hula. Kamote spotted. Saka tigilan mo ako s classmate fantasy mo ha bumenta n yan
DeleteSchoolmate din siya ng sister ko. Mabait naman daw siya.
Delete6:58 hindi lang ako schoolmate nya, pero kung kalat na bully sya, malamang malalaman ng buong school.
DeleteAng hirap…dami kasing magaganda pero di ko magets na BULLY pala sya😳😳😳!
ReplyDeleteYung mga humuhula na si M daw…. Ansabi she projects being a kind person in her online and public appearances… kayong mga bashers na nya nagsasabi na maldita sya diba?
ReplyDeleteExactly why they sort of “protest” her playing innocent or blameless kasi nga it’s the opposite. Hence, them calling her maldita to refute the persona she was projecting back then
DeleteShe won’t show it in public ano ka ba!?! Saka basher na ba pag yun lang ang hula?? Isa pa tong pabigat sa pinas e
DeleteYeah, wala na silang kilala kundi si M, mga pathetic hater ni M for life.
DeleteOne name comes to mind when I hear the word bully and it's what most people are putting forth too. However, this could be a different person. FP's clues might be to mislead us 😉
ReplyDeleteVery C.
ReplyDeleteC who?
Deletesya din guess ko
DeleteM? D?
ReplyDeleteI know D (celebrity mom with kids) was a school bully and leader of the mean girls club. my cousin was chubby then and nakukwento nya sa amin na lagi nangunguna itong si D sa pag-bully sa kanya. eventually, D got kicked out of their school. yes, confirmed ito na kicked out sya dun sa school na yun. nawa'y hindi manahin ng mga anak nya.
Sino si D?
DeletePacopy, mga FP classmates! Di ako familiar.
ReplyDeleteJ I think. gf ni G.
ReplyDeleteMay anak na 'to
DeleteMay her kids
May kids na nga eh
DeleteBagsak ka sa reading comp girl
DeleteMay kids daw hmm
ReplyDeleteNako wag naman sana ang favorite tita ko na vlogger. Sino kaya ito?
ReplyDeletekamukha nga nya ung drawing..
DeleteThis is K, wife of S. Bully talaga yan.
ReplyDeleteThanks sa clue.
DeleteTalaga ba? Kilala mo sya personally or may friend ka bang na bully nya? Pero tingin ko sa kanya e may pagkabully nga to
DeleteHala really? It says na she’s sharing her family life as well so maybe! Maybe this is why I feel like something is off about her. Parang plastic
DeleteIs this the chinita vlogger? Really panu sya bully nuon?
DeleteHala baks, true yan?
DeleteI'm not surprised. She's got nega vibes all over her kaya I don't buy that persona she projects.
DeleteI dont think this is K, kasi sabi sa clue pretty , she had plastic surgery di ba and
Deletelifestyle perks
Di naman pretty at head turner yang sinabi mo during her younger years, although may mean girl vibe nga sya.
Deletenaku ang hirap, ang dami kayang pretty celebrities na bully noong kabataan nila.
ReplyDeleteAlam ko imposible pero sana mawala na mga bully sa mundo. Nabully ako nung gradeschool and until now na middle age nako dala dala ko padin. Nagkaroon ako ng social anxiety, chronic depression and low self esteem. Nilalabanan ko pero ang lalim ng sugat na dinulot na sakit. Sa nagtanong sa taas if mapapatawad ko yung nagbully sakin ang sagot ko oo pero sadly mahirap kalimutan😞
ReplyDeleteNot M. Schoolmate ko sya from gradeschool till nagtransfer na sa high school. Wala naman syang issue with bullying.
ReplyDeleteDi ako yan ha.
ReplyDeletehndi c m kc feeling ko naging bully lang sya nung naging artista sya lumaki ang ulo
ReplyDeleteI think naman si A na goodie goodie ang image sa TV. Asawa niya c E. Member sya ng mga magaganda. Tingin ko lang naman.
ReplyDeleteI think it's C, na may sikat na sikat na family. Well, she seems to have changed naman na and they have nice kids naman na and very Christian na sila, lalo the hubby.
ReplyDeleteDi ako naniniwa sa ganyan. Usually sa mga kakilala ko once maldita or may arttitude yun na talaga yun di na mgbabago. Sabi nga you can teach old dogs new tricks.
DeleteMatapobre din yan. Lol, hindi na ako magtataka if sya yan.
Deletesya din hula ko
Deletenpakahirap man neto. sirit na FP Igive mo na namesung. kalerks
ReplyDeleteC na matapobre. Tapos God fearing na sya bigla simula nung nag asawa.
ReplyDeleteMahirap mahulaan kasi transformed na si PC sa public. Kung mabait lang din, alam natin na si S yan. Pero di ba unimaginable kasi never nagalit yan in public, lagi nakasmile and sobrang bait sa family.
ReplyDeleteDefinetely not M noh!. She's known to be so prangka hindi bait-baitan ang peg. Her high school friends and college friends are still her friends up to this date. M friends in showbiz are not just her kaedad kahit yung mas matanda pa sa kanya kasundo niya. Yung iba dito sadyang galit lang kay M.
ReplyDeleteGirl, hindi tlaga c M yan kasi iba nman ang pagkakilala ng mga Marites dyan, wag ka na magalit. 😂 Pero hindi yan nakikipagfriend sa kaedaran nyang magaganda at sikat. Lol, either mas bata or matanda.
DeleteSi K na moody at laging nagnap kapag taping na. Walang makalait diyan kahit nun pa.
ReplyDeleteSa mga parents dito, teach your kids to fight back! I know controversial itong advice ko but my goodness dina uso ang binato ka nang bato, batuhin mo tinapay. Worked for me 20+ yrs ago and worked for my now adult son as well. Wag papaapi. Basta wag lang mauuna mang bully pero dapat ikaw ang last. If someone teases you, tease them back. If pisikalan naman, hit them back! Dont just cry in the corner. Sa bahay ka na humagulgol. Dont let your bullies see your vulnerability.
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