kagigil yung gantong comment. she is struggling with mental health, NO ONE is perfect. siguro naman kahit ikaw may problema sa buhay. does that mean that your life is in shambles?
11:10 Teh nireview mo ba mabuti yang comment mo bago mo pinost? Struggling with mental health and has problems pero tinatanong mo pa if that means your life is in shambles? Ano sa tingin mo?
the older I get.. dun ko na realize na Friends do not exist. People are design to break trust.. learn to survive and be happy alone.. i'm tired na sa Humanity..
True iyan. My mother would always warn us against these type of people na mga user friendly. Tapos yung mga hilig mangutang tapos hu u ka na pag bayaran.
@12:44 AM ginawa ng business yang pagpapautang 😂 walang nagpapautang ng walang interest sa panahon ngayon... sa interest pa lang sobra sobra na, di na makaahon yung nangutang. gabaan sana kayo 😂
Kaya wag na wag magpapautang sa friend ksi yan ang mkakasira sa inyo, bigyan mo nalamg ng pera kahit konti para lang wla masabi at wla ka na rin expectation sa bayaran
1:08 ESPECIALLY TO YOUR FAMILY. Grabe ibebelittle and sisiraan ka pa sa lahat ka pa if hndi ka pinautang and/or sinisingil mo na sila. Gamit na gamit ang kadugo or family card
Yes! Been there done thar. One example yung need mo mag reply haha! kung di ko bet sagutin ang message then dedma lang.kung ayaw mo umattend ng party nila then don’t. lalo yung mag nininang sa Binyag! NO! Dedma! Hahaha
Para sa ikapapanatag ng buhay natin, let’s help without expecting anything in return. Also, when we are the ones receiving the offer for help, let’s make sure to express enough gratitude and be willing to return the favor. If not, don’t accept any help na lang. In addition, let’s try to live our lives within our means. Mamuhay ayon sa kakayanan. Let’s not expect and bother others for help in every step of the way. It’s not other people’s responsibility to help and support us. Kahit pa marami silang pera, it doesn’t mean they are required to help us. And let’s be very grateful no matter how big or small the help that we receive.
Help is not limited to financial means. Help needed most of the time are time and someone to talk to. And not everyone have people who can give time and emotional support. What I always remember is the saying "You can't give something you don't have." Sa flight nga, the FA always tell you to look after yourself first before attending to others in case of emergency.
Bakit moba kasi sinuportahan? Help is help without expecting anything in return. Isipin mo nalang na mas maganda ung ikaw ung nakakatulong kesa ikaw ung tinutulungan. Kasi ang mga matutulungin mas lalo nabebless.
Kapag pinautang ka wag na wag kalimutan magpasalamat ng sobra. Kapag wala pang pambayad magsabi ng totoo at humingi ng pasensya.
Kapag nagpa utang ibig sabihin kusa yun. Yong iba pag nagpa utang at bayad na. Basta may chance manumbat, isinusumbat pagpapautang nila, ultimo mga anak nong umutang kelangan tumanaw ng utang na loob, para bang sa kanila nanggaling ikinabuhay nong umutang.
Pag tumulong never expect something in return. Kc hindi tulong yong ginawa pag ganon. As long as magpasalamat yong tinulungan malaking bagay na yun na naappreciate yong tulong na ginawa. Kc paano kung walang pambalik na tulong yong tinulungan. Kaya pag ganon wag na tumulong para walang samaan ng loob.
As decent people, let us aim to be the ones able to help when needed. Magsikap tayo para hindi na natin kailanganin pa ung tulong ng iba. If and when we receive help from others, konting hiya naman at wag mag expect na libre ang lahat. Be a decent human being and try to return the favor kahit pa sabihin nilang hindi na kailangan bayaran, magpakita naman ng hiya na mag alok ibalik kung ano mang binigay. Mas ibbless ka din kung marunong kang tumanaw ng utang na loob at magbayad ng tama. Ang hirap kasi sa mga humihingi ng tulong feeling entitled na dapat palagi silang bigyan nung mga mas nakakaangat sa buhay. Remember, it’s not required to help. But it is REQUIRED to be thankful and to pay for what you owe someone
Dapat sa umpisa pa lang malinaw kung either bigay at hindi na need bayaran, or utang at kelangan mabayaran within a certain period of time. And dapat i-honor ng parehong kampo ung agreement. Walang bastusan at lokohan
Meron talaga mga ganyang friends, ok na ok sa umpisa pero once na naka feel cla ng insecurity sa kaibigan nila.. ganyan na mangyayari dededmahin ka na nila
I hope Maxene heals from her traumas. She loves giving advice but I don’t think she’s okay deep down. She really needs to spend time away from social media and find what can truly give her peace.
People pleaser din ba yung you just have a passion in helping people, like you are happy when you get to help someone like family/friends or even strangers without asking in return? Kasi ganun ako.. bali wala sakin if ever they dont return the favor. Im willing and happy but is it consider people pleaser?
What she's saying is true but, does it apply to her? Sobrang suportado siya her whole life and career. Why does it feel na she wants to be oppressed so bad? Para masabing may trauma?
same I was the only one reaching out to a friend for more than a month, ayaw sumabay sa coffee, lunch or dinner, kahit busy magreply di ba or wala sa mooc, like minsan ganun namam tapos one time nagchat, ayun mangungutang... i replied pa rin syempre friend eh , shunga nga siguro din ako
Maxene is the type of person who advices people on how to live while her own life is in shambles :) :) :)
ReplyDeleteAnd how exactly is her life in shambles?
DeleteWith your consistent comments, I feel like you are in shambles. I hope you let go of the negativity and heal. :) :) :)
Deletekagigil yung gantong comment. she is struggling with mental health, NO ONE is perfect. siguro naman kahit ikaw may problema sa buhay. does that mean that your life is in shambles?
DeleteIkaw nga din laging shambles hahahah
Delete10:51 not in good terms with some members of her family, with friends, failed marriage, doing yoga and meditation but can't find inner peace and calm.
Delete11:10 Teh nireview mo ba mabuti yang comment mo bago mo pinost? Struggling with mental health and has problems pero tinatanong mo pa if that means your life is in shambles? Ano sa tingin mo?
Deletenote to self ba yan
DeleteThose people are not your friends. Pero if true friends talaga, then okay lang.
ReplyDeletethe older I get.. dun ko na realize na Friends do not exist. People are design to break trust.. learn to survive and be happy alone.. i'm tired na sa Humanity..
ReplyDeletehuugs.. halos same tyo pero ito kumakapit.. if need m ng friend n makakawentuhan, andito ako ha..
DeleteTrue iyan. My mother would always warn us against these type of people na mga user friendly. Tapos yung mga hilig mangutang tapos hu u ka na pag bayaran.
ReplyDelete@12:44 AM ginawa ng business yang pagpapautang 😂 walang nagpapautang ng walang interest sa panahon ngayon... sa interest pa lang sobra sobra na, di na makaahon yung nangutang. gabaan sana kayo 😂
DeleteKaya wag na wag magpapautang sa friend ksi yan ang mkakasira sa inyo, bigyan mo nalamg ng pera kahit konti para lang wla masabi at wla ka na rin expectation sa bayaran
DeleteApplicable din to sa pamilya.
ReplyDelete1:08 ESPECIALLY TO YOUR FAMILY. Grabe ibebelittle and sisiraan ka pa sa lahat ka pa if hndi ka pinautang and/or sinisingil mo na sila. Gamit na gamit ang kadugo or family card
DeleteBigyan nalang ng konting pera para di ka magmukha masama, if nangungutang nga 10k bigyan mo 1k hehe
Delete5:27 eh di parang subtle mong tinolerate ang pangungutang sayo kasi u still give them the money
DeleteYes! Been there done thar. One example yung need mo mag reply haha! kung di ko bet sagutin ang message then dedma lang.kung ayaw mo umattend ng party nila then don’t. lalo yung mag nininang sa Binyag! NO! Dedma! Hahaha
ReplyDeletePara sa ikapapanatag ng buhay natin, let’s help without expecting anything in return. Also, when we are the ones receiving the offer for help, let’s make sure to express enough gratitude and be willing to return the favor. If not, don’t accept any help na lang. In addition, let’s try to live our lives within our means. Mamuhay ayon sa kakayanan. Let’s not expect and bother others for help in every step of the way. It’s not other people’s responsibility to help and support us. Kahit pa marami silang pera, it doesn’t mean they are required to help us. And let’s be very grateful no matter how big or small the help that we receive.
ReplyDeleteSuper agree! Wag mag expect ng kapalit, di ka rin nmn obligado na tumulong at tulungan
DeleteHelp is not limited to financial means. Help needed most of the time are time and someone to talk to. And not everyone have people who can give time and emotional support. What I always remember is the saying "You can't give something you don't have." Sa flight nga, the FA always tell you to look after yourself first before attending to others in case of emergency.
DeleteBakit moba kasi sinuportahan? Help is help without expecting anything in return. Isipin mo nalang na mas maganda ung ikaw ung nakakatulong kesa ikaw ung tinutulungan. Kasi ang mga matutulungin mas lalo nabebless.
ReplyDeleteKapag pinautang ka wag na wag kalimutan magpasalamat ng sobra. Kapag wala pang pambayad magsabi ng totoo at humingi ng pasensya.
DeleteKapag nagpa utang ibig sabihin kusa yun. Yong iba pag nagpa utang at bayad na. Basta may chance manumbat, isinusumbat pagpapautang nila, ultimo mga anak nong umutang kelangan tumanaw ng utang na loob, para bang sa kanila nanggaling ikinabuhay nong umutang.
Pag tumulong never expect something in return.
DeleteKc hindi tulong yong ginawa pag ganon.
As long as magpasalamat yong tinulungan malaking bagay na yun na naappreciate yong tulong na ginawa.
Kc paano kung walang pambalik na tulong yong tinulungan. Kaya pag ganon wag na tumulong para walang samaan ng loob.
Hahhaha yan ang common speech ng kamag anak kong linta.
DeleteMismo!
DeleteAs decent people, let us aim to be the ones able to help when needed. Magsikap tayo para hindi na natin kailanganin pa ung tulong ng iba. If and when we receive help from others, konting hiya naman at wag mag expect na libre ang lahat. Be a decent human being and try to return the favor kahit pa sabihin nilang hindi na kailangan bayaran, magpakita naman ng hiya na mag alok ibalik kung ano mang binigay. Mas ibbless ka din kung marunong kang tumanaw ng utang na loob at magbayad ng tama. Ang hirap kasi sa mga humihingi ng tulong feeling entitled na dapat palagi silang bigyan nung mga mas nakakaangat sa buhay. Remember, it’s not required to help. But it is REQUIRED to be thankful and to pay for what you owe someone
DeleteDapat sa umpisa pa lang malinaw kung either bigay at hindi na need bayaran, or utang at kelangan mabayaran within a certain period of time. And dapat i-honor ng parehong kampo ung agreement. Walang bastusan at lokohan
DeleteMeron talaga mga ganyang friends, ok na ok sa umpisa pero once na naka feel cla ng insecurity sa kaibigan nila.. ganyan na mangyayari dededmahin ka na nila
ReplyDeleteKaya dedmahin na rin pag na feel mo na dedma sila sayo, unti unti mong layuan
DeleteBaka naman toxic ka din kasi.
DeleteUnconditional kase dapat
ReplyDelete10:36 sadyang may mapag abusong tao noh!!!!!
DeleteMaybe, but you are also allowed na tumangging tumulong whenever you want and not be judged or called mayabang, madamot etc
DeleteShe's prob. taking to herself too
ReplyDeleteFriends aren't forever.
ReplyDeleteI hope Maxene heals from her traumas. She loves giving advice but I don’t think she’s okay deep down. She really needs to spend time away from social media and find what can truly give her peace.
ReplyDeletePeople pleaser din ba yung you just have a passion in helping people, like you are happy when you get to help someone like family/friends or even strangers without asking in return? Kasi ganun ako.. bali wala sakin if ever they dont return the favor. Im willing and happy but is it consider people pleaser?
ReplyDeleteYes you are a people pleaser coz you don’t have boundaries Ante.
DeleteWhat she's saying is true but, does it apply to her? Sobrang suportado siya her whole life and career. Why does it feel na she wants to be oppressed so bad? Para masabing may trauma?
ReplyDeletesame I was the only one reaching out to a friend for more than a month, ayaw sumabay sa coffee, lunch or dinner, kahit busy magreply di ba or wala sa mooc, like minsan ganun namam
ReplyDeletetapos one time nagchat, ayun mangungutang... i replied pa rin syempre friend eh , shunga nga siguro din ako