36? So kapag 46 na sya 10 years old palang si bean. You know what that means right? Kaya I encourage my niece to have a kid na hanggat bata pa since kasal na sya anak nalang kulang para lumaki agad at maalagaan sya when she’s no longer have the energy. You cannot take back the time ika nga diba as much as possible spend time with your kid.
Mas maganda sigurong wag tayong makialam sa kung anong mga bet ng iba sa buhay lalo na kung di naman natin alam what happens in private. Their life, their choice.
I don’t usually comment, pero sa mga ganito na comment nakakainis. Wag ka pakelamera! Madaming PERSONAL reasons bakit di pa nagkaka-anak ang mag asawa. Again PERSONAL, meaning di ka involved. So let them be, timeline nila yan. Wag ka atrimidida!
Ay wow. May Pala dessisyon Po Tau dto Ng buhay ng may Buhay. Mi anong pakielam m Sa edad. Age is just a number walang Kang pake at d mo alam anung energy nila in what age. Merong ke babata nga pero walang energy or kaht utak man lang to take care of kids. aga nga nag anak pero not mentally, emotional and most especially financially stable to provide for the kids. Ang Dami dto s pinas anak Ng anak tas Bata ang mga nag sususffer. Please your age stereotyping to have kids are long gone. You don't know people's personal perspective in life. Balik ka Sa cave mi.
Parang ganyan din ako kay 11:57, maraming lectures, reminders, imparting knowledge/wisdom etc., so my own adult kids are trying to avoid me as much as they can...sad. But sometimes we can't help being like this....
Hello 11:57, buti na lang hindi kita tita. 39 yrs old ako nagka-baby. Pero okay lang kasi nag-aral and nagtrabaho muna ako para maayos ang future namin ng family ko.
@11:57 ouch! i was 38 when i had my son, he's now 4. ang tagal naming naghangad at naghintay. lahat na ginawa. turned out burned out si hubby for years. after 3 months of R&R and without any effort, we were blessed. so please, never mock people who had or will have kids at a later age, by choice or not.
I agree with all of you na wag diktahan at pakialaman but I see OP's point naman. I have a cousin na mid 30's na sila nagkafirst baby. Then she had another one a year and a half later. She couldn't keep up and was so stress out with perimenopausal symptoms and raising young children. Same with her husband who started showing health issues. It's not just them but their kids suffering kasi they can't give the time and attention the kids wanted. Kahit simpleng grocery shopping lang, parang lagi silang galing sa battle.
Ante, I'm 46 and my eldest is 9 and my bunso is 6. I've married late because it's my choice. Dahil ayoko na magpakasal just because I need to dahil tumatanda na ako. We have our retirement plan - to travel with our kids. Our kids are not our retirement plan. They have life of their own to enjoy.
girl, have you not seen how 46 women looks like nowadays? Mas muka pang 20s kesa sa mga totoong 20s. And ang katotohan at mas importante ay mentally and fimancially stable ka before having kids. No one knows how long you are gonna live. So just make the most out of your life.
Wag po paladesisyon. To each, his own. Hindi po one way street ang pagpaplano ng kinabukasan and u can never b sure of ur future. Madami nga dyan maraming anak pero pinabayaan pa din pagtanda. Hayaan c angge, alam nya po ginagawa nya.
di porke maaga naganak, guarantee na yun na they will spend their good years with their kids. una, yung iba mas malala nagbubuhay binata/dalaga. pangalawa, dahil sobrang aga nga, mga di pa yan established sa career. araw araw yan magtatrabaho, di rin makikita ng bata. look at angelica naman. at 36 pa lang, halos retided na, nasa bahay lagi with her kid. sa yaman nya, mas extended ang lifespan nya, with medical insurance and all. mas gugustuhin ko nang maging anak ni angelica p, kesa kung sinong maaga naganak pero alanganin budget sa totoo lang.
Hello at age 10 years old ang bata hindi mo na need habul-habulin… every parents can manage even at age 50 or 60 years old… habang lumalaki ang bata, they can eventually control themselves, maryosep… ako nga at my age 61 still taking care of my 10 year old grandson’s needs
11:57 AM - Love ko ung pag ka concern mo. Kaso, di ntn alam kung ano issue nila kaya di pa nila time. Dapat di ntn pinapakelaman ung mga ganyang bagay. Hindi biro ang pagkakaron ng anak. Bukod sa mahirap mahal pa. unless ikaw mag papa aral since excited kang mag ka baby sila dba? Chill lng. Mamaya di ka na iinvite sa reunion nyan
36 is just about right to have imho. Na-enjoy mo ang buhay, naka-ipon ka na (hopefully) and you still have enough time and energy to see your kids grow. Masyadong pa-cool lang yung gusto magka-anak ng bata para ka-barkada ang magiging anak.
I am in this situation, I had my first daughter at 26 and the second at 36. Medyo nagsisisi talaga ako kase makikita mo ang bilis ng buhay. 48 na ako at 12 years old pa lang sya . I feel so old and my daughter still that young who needs her mom. I hope God will give me a long life para makita ko pa sya at 30 or married with kids.
Highblood ako sayo tita. Masakit ka mgsalita. 37 na ako pero gusto ko mgkaanak. Ngayon lang po nakatagpo ng matinong asawa. Ano magagawa ko ba eh tagal dumating sakin. Pwede nyo na po tapalan bibig nyo para walang basurang lumalabas.
11:57 does it matter ba? The important thing about motherhood walang pinipiling edad Basta magampanan mo ang pagiging Nanay. Yung time mo with your kid ang dapat mong I -count hi di ang edad. Yung mentality mo kasi paurong!
Tita mawalang galang po, maikwento ko lang, 40 po ako at nakapagtapos ng medisina at nakapag training maging specialist sa larangan ko (sa buto, at iba pang movement, muskuloskeletal conditions). Kung nanganak po ako ng maaga, hindi po ako makakarating dito o kaya di ko nabantayan anak ko at lumaki anak ko sa yaya. Ngayon po nasa magandang sitwasyon kaming mag asawa sa trabaho at hawak namin oras namin para mabantayan at masaksihan paglaki ng 2 y/o namin. Sapat at lubos pa kita namin para magawa etong desisyon namin na to at kahit may pang yaya kami, eto pinili namin dahil eto nakikita naming ikabubuti ng paglaki nya. Masasabi kong napa swerte ng anak ko kasi nabibigay naming mag asawa sa kanya lahat ng gusto nya: oras namin, materyal na bagay at mga byahe abroad. Di naman kami sobrang pagod at nakakasabay naman kami. Kung maaga kami nag anak di namin marararating ganitong sitwasyon sa aming buhay kaya wag po lahatin na lahat ay mag asawa at mag anak ng maaga.
Sila pala ang magka mukha. Yung bukas kasi ng mukha ni bean, minsan kamukha ng daddy
ReplyDelete11:48 malamang sila parents eh..
DeleteSi Angelica talaga kamukha ni bean in my opinion.
ReplyDeleteNope nope nope... the old photo is blurry... but Bean is a copy of her dad with a hint of Angge... yun lang yun
DeletePag tumatawa kamukha nung daddy
DeleteTruely. Si angge ang mas kamukha ng anak nya.
Delete36? So kapag 46 na sya 10 years old palang si bean. You know what that means right? Kaya I encourage my niece to have a kid na hanggat bata pa since kasal na sya anak nalang kulang para lumaki agad at maalagaan sya when she’s no longer have the energy. You cannot take back the time ika nga diba as much as possible spend time with your kid.
ReplyDeleteMas maganda sigurong wag tayong makialam sa kung anong mga bet ng iba sa buhay lalo na kung di naman natin alam what happens in private. Their life, their choice.
Delete11:57 ikaw yung tita na iniiwasan sa mga reunion
DeleteLol. It is none of your business when a person wants or not to have a child. Juskopo!
DeleteHindi ba pwede mag invest muna????
DeleteWag naman ganyan encouragement anteh. Paano kung maaga nga nag baby at di pa sila ready? The kid will suffer. Ready as in financially and mentally
DeletePwede ba? Stop pushing your beliefs on other people. I am guessing ikaw yung isa sa mga tiyahing kinakainisan sa family gathering 😝
DeleteSpoken like a real boomer. Kadiri yung mga ganitong mentality na ang tingin sa anak retirement plan at tagapag-alaga.
DeletePakielamera 🙄 ikaw yung tita na ayaw na tita ng mga pamangkin nya 🤣 nag-anak para may mag-alaga sa kanya pag tanda. Wag ganon mamsh.
DeleteHindi mo kailangang diktahan ang choices ng tao, papano kung nahihirapang magka anak o hindi tlga magka anak?
DeleteMga tulad mo toxic ang thinking.
DeleteI don’t usually comment, pero sa mga ganito na comment nakakainis. Wag ka pakelamera! Madaming PERSONAL reasons bakit di pa nagkaka-anak ang mag asawa. Again PERSONAL, meaning di ka involved. So let them be, timeline nila yan. Wag ka atrimidida!
Delete1157 pakelamera yaarrnn? Ikaw magpapaaral? Ikaw magpapagatas? Yaan mo sila susme.
DeleteNahiya naman si Son Ye Jin na 40-41 when she got married and gave birth na.
Delete42 si Angelina Jolie sa twins niya.
50 si Janet Jackson.
40s rin si Penelope Cruz.
Hindi lahat may true love agad to get married, be pregnant, and have kids.
Ay wow. May Pala dessisyon Po Tau dto Ng buhay ng may Buhay. Mi anong pakielam m Sa edad. Age is just a number walang Kang pake at d mo alam anung energy nila in what age. Merong ke babata nga pero walang energy or kaht utak man lang to take care of kids. aga nga nag anak pero not mentally, emotional and most especially financially stable to provide for the kids. Ang Dami dto s pinas anak Ng anak tas Bata ang mga nag sususffer. Please your age stereotyping to have kids are long gone. You don't know people's personal perspective in life. Balik ka Sa cave mi.
DeletePaladesisyon ka naman masyado madam!
DeleteParang ganyan din ako kay 11:57, maraming lectures, reminders, imparting knowledge/wisdom etc., so my own adult kids are trying to avoid me as much as they can...sad. But sometimes we can't help being like this....
Delete11:57 mag asawa ka kahit 18 ka para lola ka by 36 granting 18 din magaasawa anak mo. Pano kung mas maaga
Delete11:57 girl sasabihin na namin 'yung matagal nang gustong sabihin ng pamangkin mo sa'yo.. manahimik ka pls and mind your own business.
Delete‘Wag po masyadong pakialamera Tita.It is not up to you kung kailan dapat mag anak pamangkin nyo po.When they are ready,they will surely know.
Delete2:04 natumbok m
DeleteMaritess ka talaga! Maraming countries na late 30s na nagaanak. Dito lang naman sa atin na wala pang 40 may mga apo na!
DeleteHello 11:57, buti na lang hindi kita tita. 39 yrs old ako nagka-baby. Pero okay lang kasi nag-aral and nagtrabaho muna ako para maayos ang future namin ng family ko.
DeleteIkaw yung Tita na ‘ay tumaba ka’ ang unang bungad sayo. Pakialamera.
Delete@11:57 ouch! i was 38 when i had my son, he's now 4. ang tagal naming naghangad at naghintay. lahat na ginawa. turned out burned out si hubby for years. after 3 months of R&R and without any effort, we were blessed.
Deleteso please, never mock people who had or will have kids at a later age, by choice or not.
O tapos pag bata pa pero hindi ready at financially stable, ano gagawen?
DeleteI agree with all of you na wag diktahan at pakialaman but I see OP's point naman. I have a cousin na mid 30's na sila nagkafirst baby. Then she had another one a year and a half later. She couldn't keep up and was so stress out with perimenopausal symptoms and raising young children. Same with her husband who started showing health issues. It's not just them but their kids suffering kasi they can't give the time and attention the kids wanted. Kahit simpleng grocery shopping lang, parang lagi silang galing sa battle.
DeleteShe's 36 and accomplished. Que ver mo sa life choices ng tao??? Mag anak para may mag alaga pag tanda, nakaka tawa ka accla!
DeleteAnte, I'm 46 and my eldest is 9 and my bunso is 6. I've married late because it's my choice. Dahil ayoko na magpakasal just because I need to dahil tumatanda na ako. We have our retirement plan - to travel with our kids. Our kids are not our retirement plan. They have life of their own to enjoy.
Deletegirl, have you not seen how 46 women looks like nowadays? Mas muka pang 20s kesa sa mga totoong 20s. And ang katotohan at mas importante ay mentally and fimancially stable ka before having kids. No one knows how long you are gonna live. So just make the most out of your life.
Deletesa panahon ngayon 30’s na mag anak mga babae dahil ready na sila mentally kesa masyadong bata di naman kayang buhayin
DeletePaano kung may fertility issues? Isip isip din mamsh. Toxic mo
DeleteWag po paladesisyon. To each, his own. Hindi po one way street ang pagpaplano ng kinabukasan and u can never b sure of ur future. Madami nga dyan maraming anak pero pinabayaan pa din pagtanda. Hayaan c angge, alam nya po ginagawa nya.
Deleteante na paladesisyon. E bat kayo po walang anak?
Deletedi porke maaga naganak, guarantee na yun na they will spend their good years with their kids. una, yung iba mas malala nagbubuhay binata/dalaga. pangalawa, dahil sobrang aga nga, mga di pa yan established sa career. araw araw yan magtatrabaho, di rin makikita ng bata. look at angelica naman. at 36 pa lang, halos retided na, nasa bahay lagi with her kid. sa yaman nya, mas extended ang lifespan nya, with medical insurance and all. mas gugustuhin ko nang maging anak ni angelica p, kesa kung sinong maaga naganak pero alanganin budget sa totoo lang.
DeleteHello at age 10 years old ang bata hindi mo na need habul-habulin… every parents can manage even at age 50 or 60 years old… habang lumalaki ang bata, they can eventually control themselves, maryosep… ako nga at my age 61 still taking care of my 10 year old grandson’s needs
Delete11:57 AM - Love ko ung pag ka concern mo. Kaso, di ntn alam kung ano issue nila kaya di pa nila time. Dapat di ntn pinapakelaman ung mga ganyang bagay. Hindi biro ang pagkakaron ng anak. Bukod sa mahirap mahal pa. unless ikaw mag papa aral since excited kang mag ka baby sila dba? Chill lng. Mamaya di ka na iinvite sa reunion nyan
Deletehaaay naku toxic neto
DeleteYuck! Know it all and pakialamera. Kadiri
DeleteAyan na namam ang mga titang pala desisyon! Haynako
DeleteSi Anon 11:57 yung tita mong nakakabwisit tuwing reunion. You know haha!
DeleteLol, what a backward mindset...dahil dyan lumulubo ang populasyon pero yung ekonomiya natin naghihingalo, dagdag pa ang mga kurakot na pulitiko.
Delete36 is just about right to have imho. Na-enjoy mo ang buhay, naka-ipon ka na (hopefully) and you still have enough time and energy to see your kids grow. Masyadong pa-cool lang yung gusto magka-anak ng bata para ka-barkada ang magiging anak.
Deletesi 11:57 MamaRu., Mamarunong masyado .
DeleteI am in this situation, I had my first daughter at 26 and the second at 36. Medyo nagsisisi talaga ako kase makikita mo ang bilis ng buhay. 48 na ako at 12 years old pa lang sya . I feel so old and my daughter still that young who needs her mom. I hope God will give me a long life para makita ko pa sya at 30 or married with kids.
Delete11:57 kakadiri ka mag isip. Iniiwasan ka ng mga tao sa reunion.
DeleteHighblood ako sayo tita. Masakit ka mgsalita. 37 na ako pero gusto ko mgkaanak. Ngayon lang po nakatagpo ng matinong asawa. Ano magagawa ko ba eh tagal dumating sakin. Pwede nyo na po tapalan bibig nyo para walang basurang lumalabas.
Delete11:57 siya yung tita na gusto mong hindi kasali sa gc
DeleteHugs, 7:44. yang katulad ni commenter ay mga atribidang narrow-minded. Hindi lawakan ang brain, masyadong backward and yes, offensive.
Delete11:57 does it matter ba? The important thing about motherhood walang pinipiling edad Basta magampanan mo ang pagiging Nanay. Yung time mo with your kid ang dapat mong I -count hi di ang edad. Yung mentality mo kasi paurong!
Deleteso kinakausap ka pa ba ng niece mo @11:57? lol
DeleteTita mawalang galang po, maikwento ko lang, 40 po ako at nakapagtapos ng medisina at nakapag training maging specialist sa larangan ko (sa buto, at iba pang movement, muskuloskeletal conditions). Kung nanganak po ako ng maaga, hindi po ako makakarating dito o kaya di ko nabantayan anak ko at lumaki anak ko sa yaya. Ngayon po nasa magandang sitwasyon kaming mag asawa sa trabaho at hawak namin oras namin para mabantayan at masaksihan paglaki ng 2 y/o namin. Sapat at lubos pa kita namin para magawa etong desisyon namin na to at kahit may pang yaya kami, eto pinili namin dahil eto nakikita naming ikabubuti ng paglaki nya. Masasabi kong napa swerte ng anak ko kasi nabibigay naming mag asawa sa kanya lahat ng gusto nya: oras namin, materyal na bagay at mga byahe abroad. Di naman kami sobrang pagod at nakakasabay naman kami. Kung maaga kami nag anak di namin marararating ganitong sitwasyon sa aming buhay kaya wag po lahatin na lahat ay mag asawa at mag anak ng maaga.
DeleteWow! Kamukha ni Angelica si Bean parang twins 💖💖💖❤️❤️.maganda talaga na itabi ang old pictures brings back memories
ReplyDeleteKamuka ni Bean si daddy niya
ReplyDeletecarbon copy!
ReplyDeleteAng kyot kyot talaga ni Bean!
ReplyDeleteOh sya pala ang kamukha ni baby bean cutie 🥰
ReplyDeleteThis child's smile is infectious!
ReplyDeleteKamukha niya ang daddy. The shape of the face, the forehead and the cheekbones are very daddy. Fairer version nga lang siya
ReplyDeleteAngge and Gregg maka hawig din ...Kaya may face expression si Amila na minsan hawig ni Gregg at minsan kay Angge
ReplyDeleteGrabe Bean! ang kyooot mo talaga and when you smile mapapasmile ka na lang din 💗
ReplyDeleteAh si angge pala talaga ang hawig ni bean. Para kasing si gregg sa mga vlogs nila
ReplyDeleteMas hawig ng Dad, kakorte lang ng face and nose ni Angelica....
ReplyDeleteSi daddy Greg pa din ang kamukha ni baby Bean pero may resemblance ng konti kay Angelica ngayon ko lang napansin.
ReplyDeleteKamukha din naman nya pero yung shape ng face saka eyes kay Daddy Greg talaga eh.
ReplyDelete