Na off din ako nung napanuod ko yun. My daughters will not say that to me ever kasi hindi naman nila naririnig sa bahay na we call each other names at alam nilang not nice un. I tried watching their stories kasi funny daw. Di naman ako nag enjoy lol. Gusto ko si melai pero parang naover yata ung sa korea sila haha. Anyway kanya kanya naman pagpapalaki yan. Di naman nakikita ano tlg sila sa bahay. Who are we to judge. And also, di sila pala po at opo kasi bisaya man sila. Di naman ganyan sa bisaya kasi.
Hindi ako nagagandahan sa mga ginagawa ng anak nya at ni melai na making face similar to that of a mnky. Pinili nila un syempre un ang reactiong ng makakanood. So ano na?!
Melai advice lang as a mother, you're over exposing your kids sa social media, hinay hinay lang momshie by doing it di natin ma control ang sasabihin ng ibang tao
Out of curiosity, I searched for the alleged video. I was taken aback, too when I heard the daughter uttered those words. Kabiruan ko rin at times mga kids ko, a late teen and an adult. Never kong na-imagine, they will say that about me, even when they were very young. What I found more inexcusable, is that instead of self-reflection or even accountability, it seems that Melai would rather hush this up and justify her daughter's behavior. True, over exposed na rin mga anak niya sa social media. Akala niya katatawan yung pagiging rude at impertinent ng bata.
Yun na nga po momshie.. Bata PA sila kaya pwede pa pangaralan. May times kasi na nawawala na yung paggalang sa iyo. Just teach the Ate to be nicer to you. Or better yet, do not expose them too soon and too much on social media.
Lumalaking may attitude yung panganay nya. And dahil people around her laugh about it, naaliw, she thinks tama yung ginagawa nya. May napanood ako kasama nila si Regine, and parang sumingit or may sinabi yung bata na kala mo kasing edad lang nya si Regine.
Agreed 12:08 12:24. dahil exposed mga anak Nyo sa social media, tumatatak sa isip ng tao kung walang disiplina ng mga bata. Yes gusto Lang Masaya pero Dapat May bounderies.. pag sobra di na maganda. And melai (in general) di lahat ng madasalin maganda ugali.
Kids abroad grow up confidently kasi hinahayaan silang makipag-usap sa mga matatanda as if they were the same age. Kaya tayo lumalaking walang confidence at hindi competent sa trabaho because we cant communicate well with adults. if the child was there, she has every right to talk kahit pa mas matanda si regine sa kanya. Mas disrespectful yung nag-uusap mga tao sa harap mo tapos di ka pinapansin.
3:04 many clips na po and guestings na napanood na may attitude ang bata. Kaya nga may suggestions na sa mga magulang to nip the bud before it is full grown. Love lang namin si Melai. And gusto namin for her and the family to be more positive.
6:56 ,for sure pinagsabihan na ni Melai yung mga anak nya. She’s a kid , feeling nyo am pe perfect nyo. Let the parents correct the kid , hindi yung paulit ulit na i point out yung mali ng bata.
Actually naoff rin ako nong napanuod ko yong isang my day nya sa IG nya na tinawag syang "mukhang onggoy ka mommy" hindi nalang ako nag comment but it's true melai parang sobra yong mga anak mo hindi nila alam kong kelan sila mag jojoke at mag bebehave
Or Melai if sa nyo joke yun. Keep it to your selves dahil ndi lahat maiintindihan ang dynamics nyo as family. For othersnnakaka offend yun and sa iba, ok lang yung ganung biruan.
Some millennial parents now are bringing up their kids na parang mag tropa na lang kaya the way they talk to older people kala mo magsing edad na lang. Wala na yung values na respeto sa nakatatanda (kahit man lang sa pakikipag-usap).
Wala namang rules how to talk to elders especially if different language. Po at opo are used in tagalog pero in bisaya it’s not. Some families dont use those words because iba ang family dynamics. Also if they talk like they’re friends it doesn’t mean wala na silang respect sa parents. It’s better that way kesa super galang when talking to parents pero they cant open up to their parents mainly because of that fake respect. A lot of pinoys cannot express their emotions toward parents dahil dyan kasi “bawal ka magalit sa parents mo” “bawal sumagot sa parents/elders”
3:09 it’s not just about po at opo mam. It goes beyond that. You can talk to older people in such a manner na your showing respect. Politely disagreeing, acknowledging his opinion or advice kahit di mo susundin. Things like that. Lawakan mo isip mo. There are other ways to show respect sa mga matatanda.
3:09 Tinamaan ka ba at malayo dun sa in-express ni 1:03 sagot mo? May boundaries ka dapat as a person, and that does not stop even with your kids. Being kind to your kids so they feel free to open up to you does not mean pwedeng tropa-tropa na agad kayo. If you set boundaries for how people treat you, you get the respect you need.
3:09 That's not the point. This is more on HOW YOU SAY IT, not what you say. Po and opo is definitely the issue. It's the manner how kids nowadays talk to older people. May mga magulang kasi na akala nila being friends with your kids is cool. Kaya kung kausapin na lang sila parang magbarkada lang. Here;s an example I came up with: Ma, nakaluto ka na ba? VS Ma, kakain na ba tayo? (Para sa akin magkaiba yung dating. Ewan ko lang sa iba. Hehe)
Hindi naman po at opo ang usapan ateng 3:09. Kung paano makapag-usap ang anak sa nanay ang point. Do you think it’s normal to call your mother mukang unggoy even as a joke? Kung kaya niyang sabihin yan sa sarili niyang ina, hindi na ako magtataka kung ganyan niya biruin mga kaklase niya in the future.
Ewan ko ba tawang tawa ako sa panganay nila may comedic timing tlga. My kids would never call me Monkey tho just cos they are so protective of me. Pero may inside jokes kami na for sure off sa iba. The only difference is we don’t broadcast it for people to judge
Exactly the point. You live private lives. Ito, hinahabol ang clout baka sakaling maging celebrity endorser siguro ang anak. Kaya napupuna ng tao because people can tell yun naman ang habol: Content.
Melai, keep your kids from social media, maba bash/bully lang sila and you won't like it. A little privacy for the kids, when they are of age if they can do it themselves.
Correct naman at may point si Melai pero sana as a mother, sana di na nya yun inupload kasi meron at meron talagang tao na iba at pangit ang dating sa kanila ng ganun. Sa mga fans ni Melai, gets na yung joke at ganun talaga sila eversince pero sa mga hindi, magrereact talaga at ang anak pa ang napasama.
If there's an action, there's a reaction. Niupload mo yung video na parang binabastos ka ng anak mo, it will be interprted in many ways.
Dapat tinawanan na lang ba nating lahat? Eh baka hindi okay sa iba na makita ung isang anak na tinatawag ma unggoy ung nanay kahit pabiro. I would never.. anyway, pamilya mo nga naman yan. Walang makikialam kung hindi mo hinayaan. Ayoko na pala panoorin videos neto. Unfollow na lang. Sorry. Bye. Ako lang naman to but you're selling yourself and your kids on social media and I will not buy na lang. Hindi ako kawalan alam ko haha
Ako naman, I'm glad people also speak up. Like you said, siya pala nag upload. Akala ko live kaya di napara yung sinabi nung bata. At saka the antics are meant to up yung followers. Sabay ang content, di magandang behavior so yes, pag-ingatan rin who to 'follow' and be ready to comment lalo na if children niyo mismo naka kita na normalized ang ganitong behavior.
3:11 yung iba lang halos i condemn or i crucify na yung bata because of that mistake. I’m sure she didn’t mean harm , even Melai. Kung alam lang ni Melai siguro yung reaction ng mga tao hindi nya ia upload yung video
Honestly they way magsalita yung kids no filter talaga e even on national tv like sa magandang Buhay, yung mga sinabi ng kids kina regine at Jolina ang off talaga yes nagtawanan sila but the kids. Needs to learn na be more aware at sensitive sa mga sinasabi kasi magiging habit nila yan
Melai also makes fun of herself, kaya naririnig ng mga anak nya.. And as a mom, pag anak mo nagsabi nun, wala lang yun kasi ikaw nakakaalam ng respect nila sayo, puedeng nagiging joke joke nila yun sa bahay.. Siguro nga di na dapat naeexpose sa SM pero whatever is in SM di naman license to bash.. We can have our opinion pero if makakabash lalo sa nga bata, sa sarili mong post nalang, since opinion mo naman yun..
Kay melai naman nila lahat nakuha ang behavior na yan. Just look how she talks and make awful facial expressions. Tapos ung kids tuwang tuwa pa sya na pinapa make face similar with that of a monkey.
Magandang dynamics yung parang tropa lang pero may limitations rin. Telling someone na mukha syang unggoy will never be okay, baka masabi nya pa yan sa ibang tao. Correct the attitude baka mapick up pa ni bunso.
Or better yet do not expose the kids in social media. They are getting by naman, no need extra income using the kids. She’s not only exposing her sa mga marites and ‘perfect’ netizens but also pedophile and potential child abduction. It’s common here sa US. They are still minors, magulang talaga dapat ang magprotect sa kanila from the dangers of social media. I know a friend na natagpuan nila ang picture ng minor nilang anak in a porn site. So ingat ingat lang din. I know totally ibang topic ito kasi I don’t want to judge how she raises her kids pero as a mom katulad nya, may advice is to not expose her children sa social media.
Yung bunso ko minsan pag nagaasaran kami sinasabihan namin ng pangit ang isat isa 😄. Pero not sure yung statement na bumili ng maraming pampaganda pero mukha pa din unggoy kung tama bang sabihin ng bata yun sa nanay nya. And to think na mas kamukha ni melai mga anak nya krsa kay jayson.
can't be helped. May mga walang hiya sa internet. Matatapang kasi anonymous. Take it from korean celebs never sila nga upload ng pictures ng anak nila. Kaya di sila na susubject sa kung ano anong bashings.
Kahit Pa sabihing joke2x Lang yun the fact na Upload Pa din online di Maganda ang impact talaga.Better di nalang na Upload para di na ma bash mga bata.And Sana Lang wag ma Exposé mga bata Sobra sa socmed:/.Bata Pa anak ni Melai alam na ang salitang ganyan so halos tawag kay Melai unggoy DIN kasi alam ng bata ehh :/.Meaning to say naririnig nya yan sa mga tao sa bahay nila tsk tsk not a good joke talaga.
There should not be an excuse to her kid’s behavior . Not even as a joke. If the kid cam easily say that to her own mom, then she will most likely do that to others too. Wag mo nang kunsintihin kahit pa joke yan.
Even if tropa ko, I would never say mukhang unggoy just to poke fun of that person. I never comment on someone else's physical attributes because people have their own insecurities. It is not as if he/she choose to look that way (unless fashion/make up choice or enhancements na di bumagay kasi these are within our control). Kahit biruan lang yan, may tendency na madala ng bata yung ganyang ugali paglabas ng bahay. Nandyan yung mindset na 'sa mommy ko nga okay lang na ganyanin ko, ibang tao pa kaya?'. Seryoso kami masyado to not get it as a joke, siguro nga, coz a lot of young people nowadays have body dysmorphia and struggling with mental health because of these 'innocent jokes' about his/her looks. You put it out public kaya magkocomment talaga kaming mga marites.
Even through this last post, one gets a bit of a sense na ang habol talaga is more social media following. Maybe Melai should shelve the cam use a bit and encourage the children to engage in activities that do not revolve around performing for laughs, likes, viewership or gaining attention.
Nako pano kaya to? Panda tawag sa akin mga anak ko Kasi majubis daw ako.sabi nila, _cute mo nay, para kang panda" o kaya " uy ung panda nanonood Netflix o". Natatawa ako e. Dapat ba ako magalit?
Kung okay lang sayo na tawagin ng anak mo ng ganyan eh di walang problema. Pero pagsabihan mo rin na huwag nilang gawin sa ibang tao kasi ikaw rin ang mapapahiya kung ibang tao pa ang magsabi sa kanila na mali na magbiro tungkol sa itsura ng isang tao.
Kung ako makaka witness ng ganyang exchange niyo ng anak niyo, wala man akong sasabihin, I will come away with thinking medyo na didisrespect ka. Pero kung lambingan na kayo kayo lang, ang paminsan minsan okay lang. Plus sa tingin ko ang panda is known to be cute, whereas ang unggoy in the context of how Melai's daughter used it, hindi.
Not good kc kahit jokes yun. Magkamukha kame ni melai pero sabi ng anak ko maganda mama nya. She respect & love me kahit jokes she will not say anythind bad to me
And because you taught your kid to be that way, at least you don't fear she'd also 'slip' and say patawa things without thinking of the consequence of the insult. Kaya naging ganyan yan, narinig nila at inadvertently encouraged rin sila nila Melai to behave that way.
I think the best way to look at it is to ask herself kung sasabihin ba niya yung joke na yun sa sarili niyang nanay and if she thinks it’s okay for her kid to say the same thing to other people. If yes, that’s that’s the upbringing na gusto niya sa anak niya. Iba iba kasi ang values ng bawat magulang na gusto nila para sa pamilya nila.
Dapat kasi sa mga magulang wag na isama mga anak nila lalo nat minor pa. They need to protect them from cruel world of socmed. Baka di pa nga nila maintindihan ung pros and cons ng socmed. Di naten alam ung prossible trauma nila paglaki.
Mas maraming views siguro pag kasama ang mga anak, at saka baka sakaling kuning endorser ang mga anak niya ng mga pambatang products, dagdag kita, kaya ineexpose niya.
Was it live? When I watched it, couldn't shake the feeling nagulat rin mismo si Melai na sinabi ng anak niya pero parang ginawa na lang niya na joke-joke kasi nga't na view na ng tao na may pagka preska yung daughter sa sarili niyang ina.
Sana, the soonest na nagsalita ng ganoon yung anak niya, she nipped it in the bud and corrected it instead of playing it off as if 'normal' sa kanila yun. If she did that, I'd have thought of her as being authentic kasi sino ba namang nanay ang matutuwa na ganoon magsalita ang anak nila.
Kung sabagay, iba iba ang tao pero kung ako yoon, medyo mapapahiya ako na makita ng tao na my daughter things its okay to speak that way.
Nung sang linggo lang gusto ng mga tao magka reality show sila melai. Parang di dapat…IMO kids are too young to be exposed sa reality show/socmed. The joke, kung yan man ang dynamics nila, wala tayo magagawa. But that should not have been uploaded.
I-limit niya rin kasi exposure ng mga bagets sa social media platforms niya. Ano for the clout na lang? Yes, bata pa mga yan pero for sure one day mababalikan yung post and sasabihin ng tao na “yan yung bata sinabihan niya na mukhang unggoy ang mom niya”. kamusta ang reputation and mental health kapah lumaki na?
I agree na bastos at hindi funny yung unggoy comment ng anak niya. Pero hayaan niyo si Melai kung ganyan gusto niyang way sa pagpapalaki sa anak nila. Siya naman mammroblema later on kung lumaking bastos anak niya. As parents na may anak na napanood yung video nila, the best we can do is to explain sa mga anak natin na bad yung ganung comment na sasabihin mong mukhang unggoy ang kahit sinong tao.
Gv melai 😊
ReplyDeleteTo call her "unggoy" na mukha, mali yun. May limit dapat.
DeleteMelai should not have uploaded that video kasi. Bastos pakinggan ..
Kung di niyo gets humour nila. Wag niyo panoodin. Ganun lang un. Eh un mga SHUNGA bash ng bash nood naman ng nood. Duh!
Delete1:10 yup kahit siya nabastusan eh.. dinaan na lang niya sa biro pero yung eldest niya talaga walang preno ang bunganga.
DeleteNa off din ako nung napanuod ko yun. My daughters will not say that to me ever kasi hindi naman nila naririnig sa bahay na we call each other names at alam nilang not nice un. I tried watching their stories kasi funny daw. Di naman ako nag enjoy lol. Gusto ko si melai pero parang naover yata ung sa korea sila haha. Anyway kanya kanya naman pagpapalaki yan. Di naman nakikita ano tlg sila sa bahay. Who are we to judge. And also, di sila pala po at opo kasi bisaya man sila. Di naman ganyan sa bisaya kasi.
DeleteHindi ako nagagandahan sa mga ginagawa ng anak nya at ni melai na making face similar to that of a mnky. Pinili nila un syempre un ang reactiong ng makakanood. So ano na?!
DeleteIt's her fault din kasi she posted the video kaya anak nya yung na bash.
DeleteMelai advice lang as a mother, you're over exposing your kids sa social media, hinay hinay lang momshie by doing it di natin ma control ang sasabihin ng ibang tao
ReplyDeleteagree. pimagkakakitaan kasi nila yung exposure ng kids. jan lumaki yung channel. kaso ayan di nya maiiwasan kapag may nega comments
DeleteOut of curiosity, I searched for the alleged video. I was taken aback, too when I heard the daughter uttered those words. Kabiruan ko rin at times mga kids ko, a late teen and an adult. Never kong na-imagine, they will say that about me, even when they were very young. What I found more inexcusable, is that instead of self-reflection or even accountability, it seems that Melai would rather hush this up and justify her daughter's behavior. True, over exposed na rin mga anak niya sa social media. Akala niya katatawan yung pagiging rude at impertinent ng bata.
DeleteYun na nga po momshie.. Bata PA sila kaya pwede pa pangaralan. May times kasi na nawawala na yung paggalang sa iyo. Just teach the Ate to be nicer to you. Or better yet, do not expose them too soon and too much on social media.
ReplyDeleteLumalaking may attitude yung panganay nya. And dahil people around her laugh about it, naaliw, she thinks tama yung ginagawa nya. May napanood ako kasama nila si Regine, and parang sumingit or may sinabi yung bata na kala mo kasing edad lang nya si Regine.
DeleteAgreed 12:08 12:24. dahil exposed mga anak Nyo sa social media, tumatatak sa isip ng tao kung walang disiplina ng mga bata. Yes gusto Lang Masaya pero Dapat May bounderies.. pag sobra di na maganda. And melai (in general) di lahat ng madasalin maganda ugali.
DeleteKids abroad grow up confidently kasi hinahayaan silang makipag-usap sa mga matatanda as if they were the same age. Kaya tayo lumalaking walang confidence at hindi competent sa trabaho because we cant communicate well with adults. if the child was there, she has every right to talk kahit pa mas matanda si regine sa kanya. Mas disrespectful yung nag-uusap mga tao sa harap mo tapos di ka pinapansin.
DeleteWow naman. Clip lang yung nakita nyo dami nyo nang conclusion.
Delete3:04 how do you know na yan lang nakita namin e palagi naman silang may video
DeleteTry mo kayang sabihin na mukhang unggoy ang nanay mo, then record mo ha? Then post. G?
Delete3:04 many clips na po and guestings na napanood na may attitude ang bata. Kaya nga may suggestions na sa mga magulang to nip the bud before it is full grown. Love lang namin si Melai. And gusto namin for her and the family to be more positive.
DeleteAng ganda ng pagpapalaki ng mga anak. Ang cool noh, yung tawaging unggoy nanay nya, Sana ganyan lahat ang pagpapalaki sa anak ung joke time ba!
Delete6:56 ,for sure pinagsabihan na ni Melai yung mga anak nya. She’s a kid , feeling nyo am pe perfect nyo. Let the parents correct the kid , hindi yung paulit ulit na i point out yung mali ng bata.
DeleteI really like Melai and her kids! Fun fun fun lang.
ReplyDeleteBakit anong nangyari
ReplyDeletePabirong sinabi ng daughter na madami daw pinamili ang mommy nya na pampaganda pero mukha pa din daw unggoy.
DeleteSaveh???? Grabe naman yan, for sure naririnig ng bata yan sa matatanda kaya ginagaya. Hindi naman nila maiisip yan at that age.
DeleteTalaga 12:14? At her age ganyan na isip niya. Not good.
Deletenarinig yan sa matatanda Kaya nagaya ng bata,akala nila Tama yung naririnig sa mga matatanda
DeleteMedyo off nga yun pagkasabi ng unggoy, pero for the kid to say that it means she's heard it from an adult
Delete8:08 Kaya nga turuan ang bata
DeleteWe don't know what are they inside their home so don't quick to judge also bata yan ganun tlga. Basta pangaralan lang ng tama sa bawat mali.
ReplyDeletePero personally, exposing your children in social media is wrong madaming salbahe sa sm
Agree
DeleteEverything begins at home. Yan ang pinalaki mo sa kanila kaya yan ang output. Ano pa?
DeleteActually naoff rin ako nong napanuod ko yong isang my day nya sa IG nya na tinawag syang "mukhang onggoy ka mommy" hindi nalang ako nag comment but it's true melai parang sobra yong mga anak mo hindi nila alam kong kelan sila mag jojoke at mag bebehave
ReplyDeletedapat Kasi pag narinig ni Melai yun pag sabihin agad na mali yun,akala siguro ng bata Tama yung sinasabi nya
DeleteOr Melai if sa nyo joke yun. Keep it to your selves dahil ndi lahat maiintindihan ang dynamics nyo as family. For othersnnakaka offend yun and sa iba, ok lang yung ganung biruan.
DeleteSome millennial parents now are bringing up their kids na parang mag tropa na lang kaya the way they talk to older people kala mo magsing edad na lang. Wala na yung values na respeto sa nakatatanda (kahit man lang sa pakikipag-usap).
ReplyDeleteWala namang rules how to talk to elders especially if different language. Po at opo are used in tagalog pero in bisaya it’s not. Some families dont use those words because iba ang family dynamics. Also if they talk like they’re friends it doesn’t mean wala na silang respect sa parents. It’s better that way kesa super galang when talking to parents pero they cant open up to their parents mainly because of that fake respect. A lot of pinoys cannot express their emotions toward parents dahil dyan kasi “bawal ka magalit sa parents mo” “bawal sumagot sa parents/elders”
Delete3:09 it’s not just about po at opo mam. It goes beyond that. You can talk to older people in such a manner na your showing respect. Politely disagreeing, acknowledging his opinion or advice kahit di mo susundin. Things like that. Lawakan mo isip mo. There are other ways to show respect sa mga matatanda.
Delete3:09 Tinamaan ka ba at malayo dun sa in-express ni 1:03 sagot mo? May boundaries ka dapat as a person, and that does not stop even with your kids. Being kind to your kids so they feel free to open up to you does not mean pwedeng tropa-tropa na agad kayo. If you set boundaries for how people treat you, you get the respect you need.
Delete3:09 That's not the point. This is more on HOW YOU SAY IT, not what you say. Po and opo is definitely the issue. It's the manner how kids nowadays talk to older people. May mga magulang kasi na akala nila being friends with your kids is cool. Kaya kung kausapin na lang sila parang magbarkada lang. Here;s an example I came up with:
DeleteMa, nakaluto ka na ba? VS Ma, kakain na ba tayo?
(Para sa akin magkaiba yung dating. Ewan ko lang sa iba. Hehe)
*definitely NOT the issue.
Delete- 6:32
Hindi naman po at opo ang usapan ateng 3:09. Kung paano makapag-usap ang anak sa nanay ang point. Do you think it’s normal to call your mother mukang unggoy even as a joke? Kung kaya niyang sabihin yan sa sarili niyang ina, hindi na ako magtataka kung ganyan niya biruin mga kaklase niya in the future.
DeleteEwan ko ba tawang tawa ako sa panganay nila may comedic timing tlga. My kids would never call me Monkey tho just cos they are so protective of me. Pero may inside jokes kami na for sure off sa iba. The only difference is we don’t broadcast it for people to judge
ReplyDeleteExactly the point. You live private lives. Ito, hinahabol ang clout baka sakaling maging celebrity endorser siguro ang anak. Kaya napupuna ng tao because people can tell yun naman ang habol: Content.
DeleteMelai, keep your kids from social media, maba bash/bully lang
ReplyDeletesila and you won't like it. A little privacy for the kids, when they are of age if they can do it themselves.
Okay naman pala accent ni Melai. Iniiba lang niya para magpaka-funny.
ReplyDeleteWe really have to put boundaries sa pag papalaki ng anak. Our kids should not lose their respect to us.
ReplyDeleteCorrect naman at may point si Melai pero sana as a mother, sana di na nya yun inupload kasi meron at meron talagang tao na iba at pangit ang dating sa kanila ng ganun. Sa mga fans ni Melai, gets na yung joke at ganun talaga sila eversince pero sa mga hindi, magrereact talaga at ang anak pa ang napasama.
ReplyDeleteIf there's an action, there's a reaction. Niupload mo yung video na parang binabastos ka ng anak mo, it will be interprted in many ways.
ReplyDeleteDapat tinawanan na lang ba nating lahat? Eh baka hindi okay sa iba na makita ung isang anak na tinatawag ma unggoy ung nanay kahit pabiro. I would never.. anyway, pamilya mo nga naman yan. Walang makikialam kung hindi mo hinayaan. Ayoko na pala panoorin videos neto. Unfollow na lang. Sorry. Bye. Ako lang naman to but you're selling yourself and your kids on social media and I will not buy na lang. Hindi ako kawalan alam ko haha
Ako naman, I'm glad people also speak up. Like you said, siya pala nag upload. Akala ko live kaya di napara yung sinabi nung bata. At saka the antics are meant to up yung followers. Sabay ang content, di magandang behavior so yes, pag-ingatan rin who to 'follow' and be ready to comment lalo na if children niyo mismo naka kita na normalized ang ganitong behavior.
Delete3:11 yung iba lang halos i condemn or i crucify na yung bata because of that mistake. I’m sure she didn’t mean harm , even Melai. Kung alam lang ni Melai siguro yung reaction ng mga tao hindi nya ia upload yung video
DeleteHonestly they way magsalita yung kids no filter talaga e even on national tv like sa magandang Buhay, yung mga sinabi ng kids kina regine at Jolina ang off talaga yes nagtawanan sila but the kids. Needs to learn na be more aware at sensitive sa mga sinasabi kasi magiging habit nila yan
ReplyDeletePara kasing ine-encourage ang pa kenkoy kenkoy, di naman ginagabayan ng tamang limitations. Everything is for social media clout.
DeleteOkay lang bastusin ka ng anak mo for the content? Scripted ba yun melai? Okay bye. HAHAHAHHAHAHA
ReplyDeleteHindi siya for fun fun lang behhhh, kase may ibang batang nanonood sainyo.. ganyan ba dapat? No.
Exactly. Forda content.
DeleteKahit joke Yun it's still off. Meaning nasa mind ng bata ganyan.
ReplyDeleteKasalanan din yan ng ina over expose mga anak sa social media.
ReplyDeleteNa off din ako nung napanood ko yun .over yung eldest kaya lang si Melai naman pala nag upload nun
ReplyDeleteMelai also makes fun of herself, kaya naririnig ng mga anak nya.. And as a mom, pag anak mo nagsabi nun, wala lang yun kasi ikaw nakakaalam ng respect nila sayo, puedeng nagiging joke joke nila yun sa bahay.. Siguro nga di na dapat naeexpose sa SM pero whatever is in SM di naman license to bash.. We can have our opinion pero if makakabash lalo sa nga bata, sa sarili mong post nalang, since opinion mo naman yun..
ReplyDeleteKay melai naman nila lahat nakuha ang behavior na yan. Just look how she talks and make awful facial expressions. Tapos ung kids tuwang tuwa pa sya na pinapa make face similar with that of a monkey.
DeleteMagandang dynamics yung parang tropa lang pero may limitations rin. Telling someone na mukha syang unggoy will never be okay, baka masabi nya pa yan sa ibang tao. Correct the attitude baka mapick up pa ni bunso.
ReplyDeleteforda views at forda money kasi. ikaw ang nanay dapat yung inupload siguraduhin mong hindi magboomerang sa anak mo
ReplyDeleteOr better yet do not expose the kids in social media. They are getting by naman, no need extra income using the kids. She’s not only exposing her sa mga marites and ‘perfect’ netizens but also pedophile and potential child abduction. It’s common here sa US. They are still minors, magulang talaga dapat ang magprotect sa kanila from the dangers of social media. I know a friend na natagpuan nila ang picture ng minor nilang anak in a porn site. So ingat ingat lang din. I know totally ibang topic ito kasi I don’t want to judge how she raises her kids pero as a mom katulad nya, may advice is to not expose her children sa social media.
DeleteYung bunso ko minsan pag nagaasaran kami sinasabihan namin ng pangit ang isat isa 😄. Pero not sure yung statement na bumili ng maraming pampaganda pero mukha pa din unggoy kung tama bang sabihin ng bata yun sa nanay nya. And to think na mas kamukha ni melai mga anak nya krsa kay jayson.
ReplyDeletecan't be helped. May mga walang hiya sa internet. Matatapang kasi anonymous. Take it from korean celebs never sila nga upload ng pictures ng anak nila. Kaya di sila na susubject sa kung ano anong bashings.
ReplyDeleteYeah. With all the dangers ng social media, it is the responsibility of parents to protect their kids.
DeleteKahit Pa sabihing joke2x Lang yun the fact na Upload Pa din online di Maganda ang impact talaga.Better di nalang na Upload para di na ma bash mga bata.And Sana Lang wag ma Exposé mga bata Sobra sa socmed:/.Bata Pa anak ni Melai alam na ang salitang ganyan so halos tawag kay Melai unggoy DIN kasi alam ng bata ehh :/.Meaning to say naririnig nya yan sa mga tao sa bahay nila tsk tsk not a good joke talaga.
ReplyDeleteThere should not be an excuse to her kid’s behavior . Not even as a joke. If the kid cam easily say that to her own mom, then she will most likely do that to others too. Wag mo nang kunsintihin kahit pa joke yan.
ReplyDeleteI felt pretty uncomfortable watching it. In my head, was saying something like, 'ngek, mali na 'to'. Kaso parang pinanagutan na lang na joke time.
DeleteEven if tropa ko, I would never say mukhang unggoy just to poke fun of that person. I never comment on someone else's physical attributes because people have their own insecurities. It is not as if he/she choose to look that way (unless fashion/make up choice or enhancements na di bumagay kasi these are within our control). Kahit biruan lang yan, may tendency na madala ng bata yung ganyang ugali paglabas ng bahay. Nandyan yung mindset na 'sa mommy ko nga okay lang na ganyanin ko, ibang tao pa kaya?'. Seryoso kami masyado to not get it as a joke, siguro nga, coz a lot of young people nowadays have body dysmorphia and struggling with mental health because of these 'innocent jokes' about his/her looks. You put it out public kaya magkocomment talaga kaming mga marites.
ReplyDeleteI love this comment! Agree.
DeleteSa mga toys ako nakatingin. Sobrang dami. Sarap ikahon at idonate lahat hahaha
ReplyDeleteMany find it cute or nakakaaliw pag ang bata ganyan magsasagot pero pag lumaki na yan nakakahiya na yan.
ReplyDeleteEven through this last post, one gets a bit of a sense na ang habol talaga is more social media following. Maybe Melai should shelve the cam use a bit and encourage the children to engage in activities that do not revolve around performing for laughs, likes, viewership or gaining attention.
DeleteNako pano kaya to? Panda tawag sa akin mga anak ko Kasi majubis daw ako.sabi nila, _cute mo nay, para kang panda" o kaya " uy ung panda nanonood Netflix o". Natatawa ako e. Dapat ba ako magalit?
ReplyDeleteKung okay lang sayo na tawagin ng anak mo ng ganyan eh di walang problema. Pero pagsabihan mo rin na huwag nilang gawin sa ibang tao kasi ikaw rin ang mapapahiya kung ibang tao pa ang magsabi sa kanila na mali na magbiro tungkol sa itsura ng isang tao.
DeleteKung ako makaka witness ng ganyang exchange niyo ng anak niyo, wala man akong sasabihin, I will come away with thinking medyo na didisrespect ka. Pero kung lambingan na kayo kayo lang, ang paminsan minsan okay lang. Plus sa tingin ko ang panda is known to be cute, whereas ang unggoy in the context of how Melai's daughter used it, hindi.
DeleteNot good kc kahit jokes yun. Magkamukha kame ni melai pero sabi ng anak ko maganda mama nya. She respect & love me kahit jokes she will not say anythind bad to me
ReplyDeleteAnd because you taught your kid to be that way, at least you don't fear she'd also 'slip' and say patawa things without thinking of the consequence of the insult. Kaya naging ganyan yan, narinig nila at inadvertently encouraged rin sila nila Melai to behave that way.
DeleteI think the best way to look at it is to ask herself kung sasabihin ba niya yung joke na yun sa sarili niyang nanay and if she thinks it’s okay for her kid to say the same thing to other people. If yes, that’s that’s the upbringing na gusto niya sa anak niya. Iba iba kasi ang values ng bawat magulang na gusto nila para sa pamilya nila.
ReplyDeleteDapat kasi sa mga magulang wag na isama mga anak nila lalo nat minor pa. They need to protect them from cruel world of socmed. Baka di pa nga nila maintindihan ung pros and cons ng socmed. Di naten alam ung prossible trauma nila paglaki.
ReplyDeleteMas maraming views siguro pag kasama ang mga anak, at saka baka sakaling kuning endorser ang mga anak niya ng mga pambatang products, dagdag kita, kaya ineexpose niya.
DeleteDiscipline your daughter
ReplyDelete7:25 Your parents did not right? Telling a parent to discipline their child is like telling your parents they failed with you.
DeleteOh the struggle to churn out content.
ReplyDeleteWas it live? When I watched it, couldn't shake the feeling nagulat rin mismo si Melai na sinabi ng anak niya pero parang ginawa na lang niya na joke-joke kasi nga't na view na ng tao na may pagka preska yung daughter sa sarili niyang ina.
ReplyDeleteSana, the soonest na nagsalita ng ganoon yung anak niya, she nipped it in the bud and corrected it instead of playing it off as if 'normal' sa kanila yun. If she did that, I'd have thought of her as being authentic kasi sino ba namang nanay ang matutuwa na ganoon magsalita ang anak nila.
ReplyDeleteKung sabagay, iba iba ang tao pero kung ako yoon, medyo mapapahiya ako na makita ng tao na my daughter things its okay to speak that way.
Nung sang linggo lang gusto ng mga tao magka reality show sila melai. Parang di dapat…IMO kids are too young to be exposed sa reality show/socmed. The joke, kung yan man ang dynamics nila, wala tayo magagawa. But that should not have been uploaded.
ReplyDeleteDi lang yun, ang dating nila sa akin, they'd do anything for laughs and ratings.
DeleteI love Melai. But it is her responsibility to protect her children. She needs to learn what she should share and what she shouldn't share.
ReplyDeleteI-limit niya rin kasi exposure ng mga bagets sa social media platforms niya. Ano for the clout na lang?
ReplyDeleteYes, bata pa mga yan pero for sure one day mababalikan yung post and sasabihin ng tao na “yan yung bata sinabihan niya na mukhang unggoy ang mom niya”. kamusta ang reputation and mental health kapah lumaki na?
I agree na bastos at hindi funny yung unggoy comment ng anak niya. Pero hayaan niyo si Melai kung ganyan gusto niyang way sa pagpapalaki sa anak nila. Siya naman mammroblema later on kung lumaking bastos anak niya. As parents na may anak na napanood yung video nila, the best we can do is to explain sa mga anak natin na bad yung ganung comment na sasabihin mong mukhang unggoy ang kahit sinong tao.
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