Wednesday, August 23, 2023

Heart Evangelista and Chiz Escudero Talk about Love, Marriage, Friendship, Heartbreak


Image and Video courtesy of YouTube: Love Marie Escudero

103 comments:

  1. I clicked cause it was another adulting episode but I stayed for Chiz’s nuggets of wisdom. Heart’s thoughts and medyo all over the place here and she has a hard time really condensing her thoughts.

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    1. It seems all over the place because she reserves to reveal the truth.

      Reading between the lines, Heart may have believed her ex-team more than Chiz, to which she regretted rin.

      Chiz was right all along. Never be too trusting rin kasi with people kahit ano pa.

      Some would use your secrets and weaknesses against you rin, be it sa gossip or paninira.

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    2. i agree. she has flight of ideas. she is not articulate talaga sa english pinipilit pa rin. pwede naman tagalog

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    3. I am not a fan of Heart but I dont dislike her naman. I liked this vlog because it explained a lot of things left unsaid. But what i liked and tumaas ang respect ko kay Chiz (altho una naiinis ako sa earring niya lol and his eyebrows) when Heart admitted they hadnt talked dor a long time but paramg he was silently waiting until she got over her magulo and confused phase.
      Dont judge her for having a hard time explaining her feelings. Mahirap not to divulge too much na gaagwan nanaman ng intriga

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    4. Teenager pa lang sya ganyan na sya. Sabog sabog magsalita. Hilong hilo ako jan dati pag nakikinig/nanonood ng interviews nya kaya nililipat ko agad pag sya nagsasalita

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  2. lapit na takwarents adulting paren?

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    1. teh, learning and navigating through life doesn't stop. As you get older, you'll experience different hardships and scenarios. You can't apply the same method and solutions to every problem.

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    2. Kaya nga 🙄

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    3. Don’t take “adulting” as literal being an adult lol. No one is a perfect “adult”. Even our grandparents make mistakes. If you’re not evolving as you get older then you’re regressing.

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    4. wow naman kay 11:49 & 12:13 kayo na mga walang problema sa buhay. mga mare, kung di niyo bet at di para sa inyo, then wag panoorin, duh. and i think yung ibang questions naman eh fan submissions, so may mga taong nag-aaask for help. and you don't know naman kung ilang taon yung mga nagtatanong. calm yo tits

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    5. See.. your comment is precisely why it doesn't matter what adult age you are, yet there is always room to be more MATURE. There is still a large amount of 'adults' who act immature, I for one is guilty of it sometimes. One way of acting mature is to just let people be the way they are. Don't yuck their yum, ika nga.

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    6. niliteral nmn neto ang adulting

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    7. She can only milk this cow for so long.

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    8. Ai, sad ako sa level ng understanding mo. Level ka gurl ng way of thinking mo, makakabuti yan sayo.

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    9. 11:49 napak ageist mo.

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    10. Sabi nga diba, growing old is natural, as in wla ka nang magagawa but growing up is a choice, as in you can be 50 but has a mindset of a 12 year old. Kaya wala sa edad ang adulting. 😂

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    11. Accla kaya nga adulting kasi navigating life as adults.

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    12. 11:49 patawa ka hahahaha

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    13. Tbh madaming pilipino na matanda na pero walang pinagkatandaan. Hindi mo maikacategorize as adults in the truest sense, and hindi lang siya nagapply sa mga sheltered na mayayaman.

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    14. Pabebe ksi since then.

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    15. @12:41 alam mo ba pinagsasabi mo? She can only milk this cow for so long?? If you are referring to Chiz kaya nga kumakayod si Heart para she has her own money. Di naman tamad ang bata.

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    16. 1:00 ageist? I’m turning 50 this year. All I’m saying is she never mature talaga years go by. She always wanted validation or attention? Good thing there’s cheese beside her,

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    17. 12:41 so don't watch Kung ayaw mong mag contribute SA income nya. Basta ako pag Hindi panoorin Baka may matutunan ako at maentertain na rin

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    18. 12;43 turning 50 na and judgemental pa rin. Yikes

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    19. 1243 aw eh di ikaw na ang mature pero nakikichismis ka rin like us mas feelingera ka nga lang kasi nga 50 ka na! 😂

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    20. Anoh b dapat ang age limit ng adulting??

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  3. Ito yun pinanghinayangan ko na baka mawala sa vlogs ni Hearf when they were thought to be splitting up. I love their adulting episodes. Kahit na adult na din ako I get so many nice tips from them.

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    1. Ahaha! Ako din parang andami ko natututunan Kay chiz

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  4. Her most viewed video kay chiz! Like ko talaga ang adulting with chiz

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  5. Si Heart parang hindi nagmamature, need nya adulting lol

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    1. So perfect adult ka eh di ikaw na ang mature perfect adult… that’s why you comment like that because you’re perfect adult duh

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    2. Parang di natuto. Paulit ulit ang topic

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    3. Just watched the vlog its raw and full of wisdom..Hearts still processing her feeling about her exGT i feel..she’s sad but learning and her husband supports her there for her the whole time…sending love to Heart

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    4. I kinda like her Humor nga ehh ! Like what adulting do u mean lol I myself ayuko ung too much serious sa buhay yet andon ung limitations & boundaries as individual ganernnn !

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    5. I beg to disagree. Ahe may not be maturing according to your standards. But if you watched it closely. She did. The favt that she admitted her mistakes and thanked Chiz for his patience. And chiz in return did not say Intold you so or I knew this was going to happen

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  6. sometimes i find it awkward to watch "interviews" like these. sometimes, it feels pretentious. ako lang naman..

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    1. Then dont watch it if you feel it is pretentious

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    2. True. Especially kung maya’t maya may ka falling out ka. Sad.

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    3. 12:37 Don’t watch it if you feel that way. Its only for her gullible fans.

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  7. Hindi ko tinapos. Parang sila lang nakakaintindihan. Si Chiz, tawa ng tawa, hindi naman funny.

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    1. Talaga? Baka ikaw lang hanggang dyan ang level
      Of understanding mo. A lot of us understood the silent words. Kawawa ka naman

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    2. Same 12:53. Parang walang flow ang thoughts ni Heart. Ang gulo lol.

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  8. Laging word salad si heart

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    1. Hindi naman. Mas nangingibabaw nga mababa tingin nya s sarili nya calling herself a "lemon" so many times. I don't think that's spewing word salad. If you look at it without hate, you'd see vulnerability. And with vulnerability comes authenticity.

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    2. Oo nga. Turuan mo kaya Miss know it all

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  9. Heart is looking for words of affirmation, someone who can show empathy. The way I see it Chiz shows a different LoL, kung saan bahala na si Heart maginterpret.

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  10. Nangalay ako makinig kay Heart kasi parang putol-putol na ewan yung statements nya. She's not that articulate talaga, inglesera lang. Tama si 11:44pm

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    1. She was very emotional edi good for you at perfect ka parin kahit emotional na. She can’t articulate well kasi cautious na sya sa sasabihin nya to not shade obvious naman

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  11. couldn't finish it. it's so showbiz and oa hahaha.

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  12. Parang unli wisdom pag si chiz ang kasama mo sa bahay. Ang swerte ni heart to have chiz

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  13. I love this couple dahil real talk lang, hindi pabebe for the media making an illusion na perfect couple sila because walang ganun! Dito sa Escudero couple may matututunan tlga.

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  14. I truly enjoyed this episode of theirs. Ganda. Dami ko natutunan and mga bits and pieces na we need to remind ourselves with.

    You can see how Chiz yields so much wisdom and calm, and Heart is so relatable with her just wanting to have true friends... don't we all? And at some point, nakaexperience rin naman tau ng ganyang betrayal from friends...and we know its never easy, especially pag naging totoo ka tlg sknla.

    I can see how Heart is hurting sa mga nangyari. They don't need to go into details for us to kinda assume what transpired between her and her "friends"/glam team. We can conclude na hnd lang kasamahan sa work ang naging trato nya saknla but as friends and clearly, that's the reason why she is hurting... trinato nya sila as friends tlg.

    Bago pa mas humaba etong comment ko haha gusto ko lng ulitin un snb ni Heart na ngbgay ng new perspective for me... ung mkkita mo real friends mo in your happiest state din. Truly, hindi lahat ng masaya for you wants the best for you..

    May we all find a husband/partner like Chiz is to Heart, may the husband/partner be like a steady rock for us whenever we are vulnerable and may we find friends who are truly genuine and know how to reciprocate the trust, goodness and generosity we give them in any shape, way or form.

    I wanna reiterate what Heart said, let's all be kind to one another. :)

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    1. Agree ako dito classmate! Ive been betrayed by my high school friends, pinagbintangan pa akong mamam*tay tao dahil pinabayaan ko daw yaya ko, not knowing ung real story behind. Yung walang wala kaming pera pero hindi naman ako humingi sa kanila ng pang gastos, tapos kung ano ano pang chismis ang binato sakin. Eto after 5 years, ung tinuring kong “bestfriend” na syang nagtraydor sa akin. Inaadd ako ulit sa FB na parang walang nangyari. THE AUDACITY. Totoo na lets be kind to one another kasi iba iba talaga experience nating lahat.

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    2. Exactly. Everything she sad i can relate to

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    3. Well said 3:30 am..

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    4. 3:20 naiyak ako. Ang ganda ng huling message mo. God bless you

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    5. 8:38 inadd ka kasi gusto ka nya utangan. Ahaha!

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  15. Ninakaw daw diary nya ng mga kilala nya.

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    1. Haha girl hindi literal ninankaw. Ganung feeling daw kase she opened up to the wrong people not knowing they will use all her weaknesses against her based on her rants or stories on a bad bay ganun.

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    2. Hindi ko pa napapanood. Pero totoo?

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    3. Ah ok akala ko ninakaw diary. Ahaha!

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  16. Amazing interview. I love it.

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    1. Same baks. Dami ko napulot na aral. Full of wisdom and calmness.

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  17. I love heart pero this vids smells like a total shade against her ex friends. Parang di tuloy pang adult yung galawan na ganyan. Umikot nalang sa topic about ex friends na dapat closed doors na usapan lang

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    1. Diko pa napanuod pero oks lang yan. Gusto ko pa dn malaman real story kahit pahapyaw haha. And sabi ko abt ex GT ang topic, well maybe she's still hurt from the falling out

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    2. Tipid nga magbigay details para hindi ma-shade ang former friends eh. General ang topic nila and it’s a good topic to discuss.

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    3. No naman. That i think was the truth and what most of us have gone through in our friendships. Ay teka. Sorry baka it hasnt happened to you because you are a loner

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    4. 1114 grabe ka naman sa loner. 😂 Pero I do agree na as loner hindi ko pa naranasan yang mag open up tapos ichichismis ka lang pala. Ang sakit cgro nyan. Maski nga simple things na ishare mo sa ibang tao, binibigyan pa ng malisya, what more yung vulnerability mo pa.

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    5. @11:14am it happened to me a lot of times already pero parang ang immature naman na sa edad nyang yan puro falling out with friends ang topic which reeks parinig to her ild freinds. People come and go and she shouldn't make a big deal out of it. Ayaw daw nya pag usapan but she literally made a vid about it. Sana next topic naman nila is how to be mature on handling those situations

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  18. You need to trust yourself. As long as may pera ka, you'll be ok. I'm not saying na money = happiness but it does help when you want to learn and explore to find yourself. Maybe the career that you're doing is not your purpose kasi why are you so stressed sa fashion week, it should bring you more joy than stress. If you really love what you're doing hindi ka magiging ganyan. Do what makes you happy kasi sa tingin ko yun lang ang kulang sa life mo.

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    1. 759 matanong kita if may work ka, masaya ka ba tlaga sa work mo? Most of the time ba hindi ka stress sa trabaho mo? Just wondering kasi naiistress nga c Heart sa work na gustung gusto nya. Paano nalang ako at yung iba na hindi gusto ang work but badly needs it. Mukhang mas out touch ka pa kesa kay Heart. Naloka ako. 😂

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    2. 646 haist classmate, relate ako sa comment mo. Un ndi ka na masaya sa work pero madami bayarin kaya tiis tiis lang. Buti sana kung pag ayaw ko na, alis lang ako. Pero it doesn't work that way.

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    3. Huwow. Ikaw na po walang stress sa life. Minsan nastress din ako sa family ko, so hindi ko pala talaga sila love? Ganun? Lol

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    4. Its a good stress i guess. Yung nakaka stress din ang may baby pero masaya ka naman.

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    5. 7:59 i turned my hobby/talent into business, so i should know. mas iba ang stress pag work mo ang hobby mo. ang dami mong gustong patunayan lalo hindi to basta basta to pay the bills. yes, i enjoy it more than anything in the world pero syempre like heart, may client ako. may sineserve ako . dun nagkakapressure/anxiety. pero yung craft, mahal namin. deadlines and requirements will get to you kahit gano ka pa kapassionate. moreso kung perfectionist ka like us

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    6. Fashion Week is stressful for everyone, even designers themselves. She is literally putting herself as a decor in these shows/parties which is very anxiety-inducing. Your worth as a fashionista is tested every fashion week, thats multiple times a year in diff major cities.

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  19. After watching it, may connect talaga sa naging marital problems nila ni Chiz yung breakup ni Heart with her glam team. Lucky for Heart, si Chiz ang napangasawa niya.

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    1. baka nakita ni chiz overgiving si H sa GT nya, to the point na naaabuse na. pero blinded si H

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  20. Behind the glamour she is really unhappy. I know she made a "joke" about rivotril and lexotan but that line sobrang bigat. You sound like a good person. Hope you find genuine friends, happiness and peaceful sleep that doesn't need chemicals.

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    1. I agree. Naalala ko tuloy song ni Britney Spears na Lucky. Heart is really beautiful -no argument there- but you can see that her eyes are lonely.

      I think that’s why she surrounds herself with all these luxury and keeps herself busy —to fill a void. I hope one day she finds what will truly make her content and at peace. Everyone deserves that ❤️

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    2. Having anxiety does not mean one is unhappy its just that you are a worrier 100xx. I can relate to heart I honestly can’t be wanting in my life right now great husband and financially set. But the anxiety is a b*** talaga and I’m on medication for it. But does not mean I am unhappy, I just have something I struggle with. Which is same here with heart is saying.

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  21. I remember yung super down moment niya last year was when she was getting IVF injections and was getting a lot of intrusive comments about conceiving. It affected her a lot if you check her old videos. I can only surmise it depressed the heck out of her and maybe that’s how she saw Chiz and the rest of Pinoy society as the enemy kaya she spent so much time in Paris to get away from it all. She still seems to be on anxiety and depression meds based sa mga sinabi niyang gamot. Makes me sad for her. She’s a fragile person. I hope she gets all the support she needs. Good for Chiz for standing by and being her rock. It’s not easy being with someone riddled with depression and anxiety, and during tough times even our closest friends won’t have the stamina for it. I can relate. I wish her well.

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  22. Medyo magulo ang thoughts and expressions ni Heart kase di sya makapag detalye ng pangyayari. Ang sarap maging asawa ng katulad ni Chiz, secure, full of wisdom, pero di demeaning. Ang swerte ni Heart kay Chiz.

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    1. Kaya nga si chiz talaga ang dapat abangan pag usapang maturity eh. Heart is good when it comes to fashion and serving visuals while chiz is the one serving intellectual realness. Medyo gulong gulo ako pag sya na nagsasalita sa video. Parang andame nyang gustong sabihen na pinipigilan nya den lol

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    2. Shes trying to give safe answers kaya magulo bukod sa gulong gulo utak nya because of betrayal.

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  23. So nagka problems nga marriage nila. Good thing Chiz stayed. It would ruin Heart for sure if he gave up on her. Naging collateral na lang GT ni Heart sa pagbabalikan nila, i guess

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    1. Feeling ko tuloy ayaw ni Chiz relasyon ni H with her GT. Nakikita nya siguro masyadong givsung si H, kontra sya siguro. until nagkabukingan na, at tama pala instincts nya. hula ko lang

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  24. Ayaw ko sana panuorin but basing on the comments baka makatulong sa akin. Feeling ko kasi magkasing ugali kami ni Heart but poor version ako. 😂 I feel like on the verge of depression. Ang dami ko ding anxiety eh. Lol

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  25. I feel like they are stronger now and that she has built more trust on Chiz after the fallout with her friends. Sometimes you just need someone to slap you to be reminded of what to do and what not to do.

    Although, medyo all over the place ang interview this time. I agree na ang daming shade 😂 This is not adulting pero more on reflections 😆

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  26. Naawa ako kay Heart. Sabi nya sige na kasalanan ko na lahat. Then she cried.

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  27. H seems like a good person but it seems she has a lot of issues, not in a negative way but more about personal baggage, insecurities. I hope she finds joy and peace. I cried while watching the vlog because she seems so raw and vulnerable esp. when she talked about about the part when Chiz told her not to say anything because he knows her heart. Hoping to also find a partner as understanding as Chiz.

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    1. I am sad for her, 11:08. I blame her parents.

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  28. Heart is my idol but this time mas gusto ko na si chiz na lang ng magsalita ng magsalita. As her guest she should let her husband do the talking while she asked those questions.

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  29. parang nagbobolahan lng silang dalawa, ang cringey ni Chiz, at bakit defensive sa pagigign senador vs. sa pagsama sama nya sa fashion week?

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    1. 1120 natural nasa Senado sya tapos sasama sa asawa nya na sobrang glamour ang work na parang out of touch na for him knowing masa ang pinagsisilbihan. Pero anong magagawa nya yan ang reality ng buhay nya. Kaya kaylangan nya mag explain kundi todo bash ang mga tao sa kanya kasi Senador sya. Lol, just look at Arjo and M.

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    2. Syempre. Tingnan mo nalang ginawa niyo kay Aljur oh.

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    3. Arjo pala not Aljur hahaha

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  30. Chiz is so sensible. sarap kausap

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  31. Dear Heart, it's not because you're younger kaya marami ka pang di alam. you're already 38. it's just that, you're living a very sheltered life (nothing wrong , not your fault). marami kang bagay na hindi maeexperience at hindi maiintindihan because of your status. and thats okay.

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