In Japan, there are places you can't visit if you have tattoos so you're asked to cover them up. Hindi lang sa Pinas ang ganyan.
I do see both sides though. I can understand why a family event would call for some "modesty". But this also could've been a teaching moment for kids abt not judging a book by its cover.
10:59 there are still some people who are not comfortable with tats,if you and I are ok with it let’s respect others who are not especially if it’s their event.
May binabagayan ang tattoo. Hindi lahat ng okayson at pagkakataon eh pasok un tattoo mo. Trabaho yan. May mga requirements sila. Kasi baka imbes sa interview ang focus ng mga nanonood eh dun sa mga tatoo niya. Nakakadistract kumbaga. And if they're paying you to do the job, wala kang pakialam sa requirements ng kumpanya. May karapatan sa personal choice si Mikee at nagpatatoo. Karapatan din ng kumpanya mamili. So wag entitled pwede ba!
2:04 the question is WHY? Why are they uncomfortable? Kasi truthfully, may judgment pa rin when it comes to tattoos. Historically, Filipinos are tattoed naman talaga before the Spanish came.
Mahirap pala kunin itong si Mikee. Un magbabayad sa kanya ang magaadjust hahahah Kung ayaw ng tattoo eh sundin mo dahil bayad ka naman sa ilang oras na tatakluban mo yan. Un pagrant niya sa social media only affirms un pagka feeling entitled ng mga woke generation ngayon. Hindi obligation ng employer mag adjust sa inyo
3:56 just respect that they are uncomfortable with tats for their event don’t push your own preference to other people. Let us respect each other choices!!!
The messenger was polite and friendly, but the message itself wasn’t. Let me give you an example: “Hi po, for tomorrow’s event, kindly cover po your face kasi po hinde daw po maganda tignan. :) thank you so much po :) :)” See? Kahit na gaano ka-sweet and polite at tadtad ng “po” at smiley face, yung message itself was offensive. Hope i was able to explain more clearly.
Ang layu nman ng example mo 12:51. Ang liit ng pabor ng requester. Iba-iba nman kasi characters ng tao, and if yun ang request kasi "may bata" nga, anong problema? The problem is yours kasi ang bilis mong ma offend. "REQUEST" nga ng magulang eh.
You exaggerate it 12:51 AM. It is their event, it is their call on how it is presented. Even in these times, a tattoo is a symbol of rebelliousness, at least majority of them still are done for such reason. Just saying...
Si 12:51 si smiley behind bitter life, anong aasahan nyo e lahat halos ng comments nyan sablay. Pilit na pilit mag English tapos wala pang sense. May pa "more clearly" pa si accla.
Sobrang sensitive naman tong Mikee na to. Wala naman masama sinabi yun nag message sa kanya. O sya noted, di ka na kukunin hindi dahil sa tattoos mo but for your nega attitude.
12:47 Baka ikaw. I see the point in 11:04. Stop feeling entitled. Magpapatatoo ka tapos pag di bagay sa event eh maglulupasay ka? How stup* can you get?
2:38 read 12:51's comment above ng maintindihan mo. Pati, WTH invite someone kung alam mo nman pala n against un sa iyong tradition and likes?? Napakabastos nila kamo
2:38AM Lols, bakit si Mikee na known na may tattoo ang kinuha eh ayaw naman pala nila na may visible tattoo or conservative pala yung event. Sino kaya ang stup*d?
Totoo 2:38. Ang dami pa ring tao na di comfortable sa tatoo. Kasalan pa nila yun? Mabuti nga nag request ng maayos. Napaka sensitive ni Mikee ah. Parang if di nasunod gusto nya, edi wag daw.
actually, I don't see the point na i-rant pa to sa social media. yes, we get it, nakaka-offend siya in a way. pero we also have to understand na may limitasyon din ang mga companies/organizers and at the end of the day, nasa kanila ang mga desisyon sa mga bagay-bagay. tutal, siya naman 'tong umayaw sa request na mag-long sleeves eh di tapos na usapan di ba? pinapalaki pa eh
the point is, kilala naman si Mikee & it's known to them na he has a lot of tattoos. so, if the event requires na mas better na walang tattoos ang magho-host, sana hindi na lang siya ang kinuha in the first place.
1:52 kasi malamang gusto nila yung talent/hosting. Duh. And yung tattoo naman eh pwede icover dahil di naman yun kelangan sa talent/hosting nya. Wala naman mali kung yun ay hilingin ng client mo. Like the tattoos are like accessories too(okay na may meaning, like jewelries may value, k?) so instead na iwewear mo pa sya, since it’s permanent cover mo na lang kasi di kelangan sa event, okay? Di naman bawal ang tattoos
7:28 ikaw gumamit ng utak. Pasalamat nga siya kinonsider pa siya sa trabaho. May requirements ang employer. Kailan pa nangyari na ang employer dapat mag adjust? Sabihin mo sa sarili mo yan. Utak mo asan?
If that's the parents' request, so be it. Remember, there are still conservative and traditional families who have different values like you and you have to respect and accept that. They could find another person who can impart good things like you, and you can find other families who may accept you as a role model for their children. I find this post unnecessary to be honest. This will only invite hate and negative comments against those families.
11:05 well, deserve ng family n yan to be bashed. Alam nmn pala nila na hndi naaayon sa conservative logic and tradition nila ang tao and yet un ang iinvite nila. Eh sila pala ang shunga eh. Maghanap sila na naaayon tlga sa gusto nil. Hndi ung magpapakarude sila. Shungangers lang
Big tattoos madumi talaga tingnan I am sorry. Kung maliit lang or paisa-isa keri lang. Aesthetic at maganda ang dating. Pero kung parang mapa na sa katawan, sorry pero mukhang mabaho eh sa true lang tayo. Wag pakaipokrita na 2023 na ngayon
Feeling entitled si Tito mo Mikee un lang un. Expecting everyone to accept his tattoos kahit di bagay sa event. Halimbawa children's party o show tapos may patattoo hahahah
sus eto na naman tong mga pa woke. e sa ayaw ng iba sa tattoo bakit ba pinipilit nyong tanggapin sila ng lahat ng tao. i have tattoos choice ko un, preference ko un. lung ayaw ng iba preference nila un. live and let live susko!
12:53 honestly what does 2023 have to do with anything?…. Some ppl are still not comfortable with exposing their kids to certain things like marking your body everywhere with tattoos. What’s the problem? Ppl with values will not change miski 2023 na.
I’m just confused - sa mga nega comment, I mean fine you could reject request na hindi nameet yung belief mo like “tattoo should not be a problem” if you’re crying out for people to respect your decision in your body, bakit naging nega yung family who have the decision for their own event.. Ika nga desisyon mo yan, panindigan mo yan.. Family dont know want tattoos to be exposed, find someone to hire na walang tattoos or willing to cover theirs, people who don’t want being restricted then just reject the offer and move to somewhere who are more open minded. Bakit isang road lang dapat umintindi?
This! Bakit ang mga non traditional lagi sinasabi dapat respect their preference pero ang traditional hindi pwde? Maayod naman nagsabi ng request ang organizer sa kanya. There was no disrespect sa reply nya. But when he made a post about it, medyo ang off na. Entitled much. Grow up. Hindi umiikot ang mundo sayo at sa preference mo
8am. Sensitivities? Kung yan ang ite-train, buong taon siguro di pa matatapos ang taining sa sobrang daming sensitivities ng mga tao. Kung ang point niyo is 2023 na at hindi na dapat issue ang tattoo, ang point ko naman is 2023 na kaya dumagdag na naman ang mga ikasesensitive ng mga tao. As in lahaaaat nalang ng bagay ngayon kina-ka-hurt ng mga tao. STOP encouraging victim mentality. Lahat nalang ginagawang issue na parang kinakawawa at inaapakan ang karapatan.
The HR was just being honest. So dahil 2023 na, di na pala uso ang honesty? Half truths nalang dapat para di ma offend ang kausap? Wow.
May certain employers na prefer nila wala tattoo. Some nga naglolongsleeve during interviews, tas tattoo reveal once may contract na lol. Baka gusto mo sya hire, ikaw na magHire services nya😂 anoba nmn yung day event to hide it, may ganyan din tlg tao meron lagi gusto patunayan😂 tska turn off yung mga ganyan nagpopost ng PM ewww, paPeymus din
12:07 maghanap n lng kamo sila ng pasok sa gusto nila. Ung walang tattoo!! Hndi ung alam nila n may tatto tpos sya pa ang gusto mong ihire. Ang daming dami nmn dyan.
12:07 Bat pa nila hinire yan kung sensitive pala sila dun? Nakakabawas ba yun sa kakayahan nya gawin ang trabaho? Just because the practice is common doesn’t make it right.
To each his own. Hindi pa "art" ang tats sa pinas. Associated pa rin siya sa criminals, tambay sa kanto, and jail. And yes, nagpapanggap pang conservative.
People with piercings sa ilong, labi tenga, and those with tattoos have the same mindset— yung mga tipong ayaw mapag sabihan. In a professional setting, sumusunod ka dapat sa kung ano ang appropriate. Inuuna kasi ang pa-woke bago respeto.
I mean they know fully well na marami syang tattoo dapat di na sya kinuha dba? it’s his prerogative na tumanggi… it’s like inviting someone but saying only accept some parts of you
11:16 pawoke? respeto? How are tattoos pawoke and how is having them disrespectful? And it's not like he invited himself to that event. They knew he has tattoos so why invite him in the first place kung may issue sila with those?
And what is considered appropriate anyway?
Lawakan ang pang-unawa at bawasan ang kakitiran ng utak. 2023 na.
11:16 huh? Are we in the same page here? Gurl, hndi si mikee ang lumapit sa knila, SILA ANG LUMAPIT SA KANYA. The fact n alam nila na may tattoo siya and all and yet they still want to invite him. Tpos ipapamukha pa sayo n "we really dont want u. Nagkataon lang na basketball player ka lng" is sooooo disrespectful. Sula itong unprofessional. So puhlez lang ha. Before ka magpaka "pRof3s5ion@L" dyan, intindihin mo muna ang totoong sitwasyon ha. Hndi ung gagawa ka ng sarili mong kwento tpos magpapavictim and self righteous ka dyan.
pa woke? No. i have piercings and tattoos, i work in a corporate setup and sa company ko we can freely express ourselves. as long as na appropriate pa din ang attire and most importantly, we do our job well.
Merong taong may tattoo but willing to hide them if it is required for work. Meron namang not willing to compromise. Turns out this Mikee is not willing to compromise. Let him be. So if someone wants to hire him, they know it's all (including his tattoos) or nothing for him.
Gusto nya tlg iparating yung msg nya kun ano preference ng client, para walang misunderstanding. Not her fault. Mali yung tumanggi kana tas pPpst pa private convo, unethical at kabiteran yun😂
Npakayabang naman. Iba ibang tao or client ay may kanya kanyang preference. Kelangan pa gatasan yang issue about tattoo. Lagi na lang. Masyado mayabang hindi naman sya nidiscriminate or whatnot. Eh kung sa ganung paraan gusto palakihin nung magulang mga anak nila.
So why get a person covered in tattoos and ask him to cover it instead of simply getting someone who fits your image rquirement? ie: host na walang tattoo.
11:35 THEN WHY HIRED HIM KUNG AYAW PALA NILA SA MAY TATTOO?! Obvious nman na alam nila n may tattoo ang tao and yet ung ang ipupush nila and ipapaadjust sa gusto nila. Buti sana kung mismo si Mikee ang lumapit, pero hndi eh SILA ITONG NAG INVITE!
Kinukuja nga sya para sa services nya pero may preference or request ang client. Sa trabaho di pwedeng yung gusto mo. Mag adjust ka din! Okay lang naman sa client na may tattoo sya basta maglong sleeves sya para sa event. Kung nidiscriminate sya dahil sa tattoo eh di sana di na sya nicontact ng mga yan kasi alam naman na meron sya. May gusto lang tlga lagi patunayan yang Mikee. May yabang talaga. Nakakahiya din pinost pa private message ng client.
I don't get the number 1? He was asked naman to wear longsleeves? Susunod naman daw siya? Pero ang response niya is hindi siya comfy to wear longsleeves? Please enlighten me what he was trying to say?
He was asked to wear long sleeves to hide his tattoos. Shonga rin yung natanong. Sana sinabi na lang “Can you please wear long sleeves as this is a formal event.” Tapos sana at walang ganito.
Nakakaoffend yung na-invite ka at alam nilang may tattoo ka tapos biglang paki takpan koya. Kaloka.
Kasi dinugtungan ng “to cover the tattoos”, so there was an implication na hindi okay that he’s inked. Ok na sana if the person who sent the message didn’t mention that part.
From my understanding, he meant that if he was told that it was a formal event and longsleeves is required, he was willing to comply and will not look into it na dahil sa tatts nya. It was delivered kasi to him in a way na they wanted to have the tattoo covered. So he must wear longsleeves to cover the tattoos not because it was a formal event.
My reason pa kc why he should wear longsleeve. Prang nmention eh. Pwd nmn attire lang. Maybe thats the reason sinulat nya number 1. He doesnt like the reason
Accla, yung ibig nyang sabihin instead of mentioning his tattoos pwede namang sabihij na wear formal o long sleeves lang. Yung wala na ka eclavuhan na dahil ganito ganyan
He was comfortable wearing long sleeves, pero ang hindi siya comfortable is pinagsusuot siya nun to cover the tattoos. Magkaiba kasi yung pinag long sleeves ka dahil maybe theme pero to cover tattoos na alam naman nila na meron siya e bakit siya pa din yung kinuha, yun yung ayaw niya.
He was asked to cover his tattoos, hence long sleeves. Okay lang sana if he was asked to wear long sleeves kasi it was a formal event. Yung reason behind the long sleeves is what irked him. Context is key. IMO, good of him to decline. 2023 na, anubey.
He is not comfortable on people asking him to cover his tattoo which i understand him! TF is wrong with his tattoo.. ang aarte huh! Grabe napaka backward ng mindset ! Jusko! Dami nga kawatan dyan sa senado! D nyo pinagtatakip ng mukha 😏
He wasnt comfy to be asked to cover his tattoos. Kung sinabi sakanya “ please wear longsleeves” okay lang pero sinundan pa kasi ng “to cover tattoos” which reveals the reason for such request
Susunod siya if yun ang proper dress code. But he was only being asked to wear long sleeves “to cover the tattoos”. That’s when he became uncomfortable and probably offended too.
I think issue pa din if the person said na long sleeves dapat attire. Im sure mapapaisip si guy bakit? Tapos pag nasa event ma shock sya na sya lang naka ganun. Mas mabuti na rin yung nasabi. His decison to accept or reject.
Ok lang naman tumanggi if ayaw niya yung way na sinabihan siya. Pero rather than be angry he should be thankful they are honest with him. Mas gusto ata niya magbulag-bulagan.
1:01 AM binasa ko ng paulit ulit and I was a bit slow that’s why I asked mga Ka-FP to englighten me. It was a genuine question. Wag kang G na G diyan at keyboard warrior. I was asking a genuine question!
You had your pov on getting Tats, and you eventually got it. Don't forget that not all people have same pov like you. Respect and acceptance is a two-way access.
The client naman has a right not to hire people with tattoos of the industry is on the conservative side. Kaya lang, from the get go, they knew that Mikee had tattoos. Why approach him in the first place kung ayaw pala ng tattoos?
In the same way, Mikee has a right to decline a job if he isn’t comfortable doing it. Respectful naman ang exchange of messages so it shouldn’t be blown out of proportion.
Maayos naman pagka Sabi nung nag message right? Or Dapat sinabi na lang please wear smart casual and Dapat Naka coat? Ganun ba gusto niya makuha response?
I’m not against people who has tattoos. Sa akin lang Sa case na ito Sana iniisip Niya Kaya ka nga kinuha diba kasi gusto ka nila to be their guest Coz you have potential to inspire the kids and plus you are being paid naman e. Nag request lang sila Kung “maaari” Pwede ka mag long sleeve yun lang. Mahirap ba sumunod? You are the one who is thinking negative about it . You will speak for like how many hours? Hinde ka naman aabot buo araw magsasalita dun. Pwede ka naman mag palit after your talk! Trabaho lang at Kasama Yan sa work mo Hinde Lahat ng Oras tama ka. Next time before you make talks like this Dapat May agreement kana regarding sa wardrobe sa mga clients mo ha. This is not about being judge mental it’s about professionalism. Tagal mo na ganyan sa work Dapat Alam mo yan. 🙄
Next time kung ayaw nila sa may tattoo wag sila kumuha ng may tattoo. Period. Dami mo sinabi. Pag binayaran ko va services mo tapos pina cover ko kukha mo, papayag ka?
As a professional I will do it! @604 trabaho e. Ako kasi ang tao marunong makinig, Makisama at umunawa. Sabagay Hinde Lahat ng tao Tulad ko mag isip. Madami ako sinabi kasi comment ko yan, May problema ka?
Parang hindi naman meant to offend yung katext niya. Maganda pa nga ang pagkarequest and explanation. Masyado naman sensitive to. Sabi niya he’d be ok if they asked him to wear long sleeves beforehand, which they did, so ano ang problema niya? Nothing wrong with parents not wanting to expose their kids to something they don’t agree with. And vice versa.
Exactly. Binasa ko yung orig post nyan yung mga comments namumuwersa na respetuhin dW ang may tattoo at tanggapin na lang. I mean wala naman pwersahan hindi namna binasatos. Parang respeto na lng din sa di preferred, wav mamilit.
Hindi naman nega ang arrive sa akin. Sabi ng mikee, kebs naman na sana if sinabi na lang na mag formal/suite, instead of takpan mo arms mo kasi may mga pamilya. Baka sports event kasi kaya malay ba natin kung casual ang pormahan - professional tita with visible tattoos
Naawa ako sa nag message sa Kanya Kahit Hinde naman pinakita yung name this will affect him or her sa work niya - mental health. Pag ako ma papahiya ako- ginagawa ko lang trabaho ko at ito sinasabi ng boss ko. Sana Hinde na lang I post e. Lahat na lang ngayon post na sa social media Konti mali lang mega comment agad parang ang Laki Laki ng kasalan mo Tapos lahat ng comment nag react magagalit or bash ka agad. Sana naisip din ni mike ito,haay
Ilagay rin kase sa lugar. Pinakiusapan ka lang dahil may mga bata. O ikaw, kung may anak kang 5 years old at sabihin sayong "DADDY, MAGPAPA TATTOO AKO KASE DI BA SABI MO WALA NMANG MASAMA SA MAY TATTOO DI BA?", at ang lahat ng ito ay dahil na amuse sya sa isang nakita nya sa pinuntahan nilang family event sa school dahil may tattoo ang host, O ano, papatatuan mo ba? Madali pang maimpluwensyahan ang mga bata dahil mura pa isip nila. Yun lng ang oinaki usap sayo. Masyado kang entitled at pa advocate ng ku g ano anong pauso sa mundo, Ghourlll
Ikaw ang entitled! Dami mo nasabi at ang dami mo pa comments, ikaw siguro un kachat. I don’t have tats pero anong masama kung meron? Go out and travel, meet new people para lumawak naman un mindset mo. Wag kang babad sa fp. 2023 na ganyan pa din thinking mo dzai!! Sa ibang countries even nurses or doctors may tats, bec nakaka bawas ba ang tats sa skills and pagkatao nila? Of course not! Jusko
Di sabihin mong totoo na 5 yr old kids cannot have tats. When you're 18 then you can decide for yourself whether you want to have it done or not. Pinoy kasi sanay na pag may tats ka ex convict ka or masama kang tao. Yung mga binoto ninyo sa Senado ang kikinis ng balat at walang tats. Kumusta naman ang Phils na pinapatakbo ng mga makikinis na balat? Zero progress but 100% inflation rate. Wala yan sa tats. Nasa accomplishments yan ng tao
Kung ako yan, sasabihin ko, "pwede ka magpa tattoo pag 18 ka na, pag nasa legal age ka na. As of now, wag muna." Ganun ka-simple. Kung hindi ka marunong mag explain at magturo sa bata, sana hindi ka na lang nag anak. Magappalaki ka lang mg batang narrow-minded at judgmental na galit sa mga sinasabi mong advocates.
1:13 Wala naman kc tlagang masama sa pagpapatattoo. Nagiging masama lang sya sa mga taong makikitid ang utak. Tattoo is a form of art. Grabe parin kc ang discrimination sa mga may tattoo. Does having a tattoo makes you less of a person? Pag may tattoo ba hindi mo kayang gawin ung trabaho ng taong walang tattoo? Mas magaling ba ang mga taong malilinis ang balat kesa sa may tattoo? Dapat nga habang bata pa parents enlighten them and teach them not to discriminate people based on how they look.
11:37, ang response nya is hindi sya comfortable being asked to cover his tattoo. Kung sinabi lang daw na need to wear longsleeves, kahit walang reason, he'd comply. Kaya lang, nagbigay pa ng reason si ate na it's to cover the tats.
Sana hindi na nya pinost ang convo kasi transparant naman ung kausap nya about why he needs to wear long sleeves, i.e. to cover his tattoos. Wala naman syang magagawa kung ganun ang gusto ng clients eh. If traditional and conservative ang audience, the agent needs to communicate to him.
Share ko lang yung lalaking lawyer na nagtatrabaho sa office ni dad, laging naka long sleeves. Pero kita ang tattoo sa neck niya. Wala naman sumisita sa kanya sa court at sa mismong office.
Kaloka ang mindset ng iba dito. Bakitnsiya inimbita alam naman nila na may mga tattoo siya and what made them think that it would be okay to tell him to hide his tattoos kahit polite ang way ng pag sabi bastos pa rin. Jusku. Yung iba dito utak biya!
Eto sana sagot ni mikee: "Ah okay I'll do that. Thanks for letting me know. See you at the event! " Eh masaya sana lahat di ba??? Hindi naman pinapabura yung tattoo. Masyadong sensitive si guy lol
Sa mga nagsasabi na 2023 na ganito pa rin mindset, well sa corporate world hindi ka ihire if meron kang tats. Aviation industry, hospitality industry, medical industry hindi usually naghahire ng mga taong super daming tattoos. Sa true lang, marumi tingnan. Bawal ka din magdonate ng dugo.
You can donate po ng blood after a year of having your tats. Also, may screening sa donors & donated blood will go through lab tests before mapunta sa blood banks.
It's their preference and we should respect that, same thing people accepted what you do to your body. It's your body you're rules di ba? Just because people did not prefer having your tats exposed at an event doesn't mean they hate younor they are looking down on you. Ang dami dami nang anti-insertnounhere idadagdag nyo pa yan. Aware man o Hindi ang mga naghire sayo about your tattoos that's out of the question since di pa naman paid and naexecute yung service pwede pang maiba agreement or they can still change their minds di ba. He could've just said no and leave it that but nagpost pa sa socmed to what, incite hate?
Gaya sa magdodonate ng blood, ang alam ko bawal magdonate ang may tats. Sa medical practioner, pinapatakpan yung mga tats like ayan wearing long sleeves or patanggal mo otherwise go work elsewhere.
Kumbaga "boss" mo ang client mo kahit freelancer ka. Pero in this case, kilala siya bilang may tats so bakit pa kasi siya kinuha?
Ang issue kasi, hndi si Mikee ang lumapit. It was them who approach him. It was them who despite knowing n may tattoo ay sya parin ang pinili nila and they want him to cover it. So ano ito? They want him and dont like him at the same time? Contradicting kamo si client kasi sila itong shunga
Sa tingin ba ng mga conservative parents these kids na they are protecting have not seen tattoos? Ang tattoo is a form of expression. Doesn't make a person bad kung meron sila. Isn't that what parents should be trying to teach kids? Tolerance? Acceptance? Being non judgemental? Marami pa ring hypocrites sa atin.
I think some parents hindi naman sa masama agad ang tingin nila pag may tattoo, siguro yung worried lang sa mga ibang opportunities na ayaw sa tattoo. I remember kabilin bilin ng dad ko wag magpatattoo lalo na yung visible kasi may companies abroad na ayaw ng tattoo. Ofw dad ko. Nakita niya kaso first hand. Yung iba namang field like Cabin Crew pwede naman as long as maitatago sya sa uniform or doon lang sa upper arm.
Kaya ka nga parent para kausapin yung bata and explain things to give more context. Paano yung mga cultures na May tattoo talaga like the Pacific Islanders kelangan din nila itago yun? It is who they are, when your kids ask questions explain mo. Wala naman masama.
Ok, so you just announced to the world mas importante sa yo yung tattoos mo than hanapbuhay. Maayos yung pag ask pero feel mo insensitive, but they are actually being honest about it. Insensitive ka rin naman para siraan sila dahil diyan, or feeling mo damdamin mo lang ang importante. But honestly, if personal relationship yan maiintindihan ko. Pero dahil hanapbuhay I am sorry to say your thinking is very childish.
I would rather someone say things honestly to my face than be pretentious. Sa mga pawoke dyan, the expectation of people understanding all your sensitivities and emotions is impractical and impossible. I would downright say trying to achieve such and expect it from everyone is rather unhealthy. You would find yourself pulled on different directions all the time. Mas nakakadepress actually pag di ka natutong harapin at tanggapin ang totoong mundo.
Hay naku bakit nya pa pinost? Kainis ng mga ganyan. Di nag iisip. Mga taong mas gustong may kaaway sila kesa piliin nlang peace of mind nila. Choose your battle always. May mga bagay na di na kelangan patulan or palakihin.its better to be kind than to be right
bakit si Mikee kasi kinuha? Hindi naman siguro lingid sa kaalaman nila na marami syang tattoos. Good job din kay Mikee polite ang pagtanggi nya kahit medyo may angas to haha
Ang issue sakin is not the tattoo kasi maayos naman tinanong at nadecline naman nya walang bastusan. Ang issue for me ay yung pag post pa nya. Unethical for me kasi private convo yon.
i find him cute and astig coz of his tatts..napasilip lang ako sa fb page nya, medyo narcissist lang sya! but him posting this private convo pa on public is kinda off. like, wag na ipost. he's aware naman na some people don't like guys who has tattoos all over their bodies, so di na need na ipost for emphasis.
ah kaya pala now I know. dun ko kasi naconfirmed na narcissist sya when he went shopping with his gf and he was like capturing it all on video while he's trying all those clothes and flex it on the mirror and parang he's like showing it all off to her followers that those clothes looks good on him, i mean he's full of himself,hahaha! sorry na if judgmental ako pero muntik ko na kasi sya maging crush pero di ko na tinuloy kasi prang mayabang sya! hehehe
He is professional anchor and host diba? Sana Hinde na lang niya ipost. He made a big deal about it sa Totoo lang. Gumawa siya nag sarili niya issue. Akala mo ika sira ng Oras at imahe niya ang request nag invite sa Kanya. Sana nababasa niya mga comments Dito. You are easily replaced! Learn the word Maki sama .
Wala masama mag tattoo Madami ako friends May tattoo Pero Oras ng formal Naka suot sila ng maayos esp sa work field.
Honestly common naman to among a lot of industries especially for front liners like cabin crew. Buti nga he’s just being asked to wear something that can cover it and it was phrased as a question pa. For some airlines, di pwede at all if you have a tattoo, even if it’s just small or even if kaya man matago sa uniform.
It’s not his fault for having a tattoo, but at the same time the client is not at fault for having their own preferences.
I remember. One of mikee’s posts was a celebration w mvp and tv5’s bosses… and he was trying to cover his tattoo.. bkit k mvp ok lang icover ang tattoo mo pero dun sa isang event hindi?
Ok lang naman kung ayaw ng client ng may tattoo pero bakit pa sila lumapit sa taong may tattoo? Sana host na walang tattoos nalang sa una palang. Common sense, diba.
It’s like saying to an overweight person, “Confirmed na po. They’re just asking if you’re okay to wear long sleeves to cover your flabby arms. The audience po kasi are fitness enthusiasts”.
Girl! Pinag-isipan mo ba mabuti at binasa yang comment mo?! Actually kung gagamitan mo ng common sense, overweight people are the best people to be invited by fitness enthusiast kasi goal nila is to be fit and healthy di ba? And also, all the more that they will be required to show their flabs to compare yung before and now once na-achieve nila yung goal nila. Esep esep beshy. Ito kasi iba. Parents must have invited him to inspire young kids. They probably just want him to look formal and professional in front of the children.
Parang off topic ka na. Ang topic, hosting. Naging ala ‘Biggest Loser’ na yung concept haha. Layo, girl.
The point is, will you invite a tattooed person to host an event if you don’t want a tattooed host in the first place? Tapos sasabihin mo, oops, cover your tattoos. Sana Robi Domingo type nalang ininvite mo.
Will you invite hypothetically invite an overweight person to host a fitness event if the audience want a like-minded and fit person? Tapos sasabihin mo, oops, toned lahat dito, hide your flabby arms.
Hindi naman siguro siya pupunta doon na mukhang basura. Sa bata pala siya magsasalita hindi sa board of directors so bakit kelangan long sleeves? Maybe in his speech he might talk about his tattoos ang what it means to him? Basta mukha ka namang naligo at hindi Naka sando and chinelas kelangan pa bang sabihin ano ang isuot?
This kind of mentality talaga is so hypocritical. People get judged because of things like tattoos or even piercings pa nga. Marami namang issues na pwedeng pagtuunan ng pansin. Jusq ito parin ang problema sa pinas at sa iba pang “conservative” countries. May pa conservative pa eh ang taas naman ng teenage pregnancy at corruption LOL
He's not being judged. In fact, parents see him as a role model in terms of realizing his passion and dreams. Since speaker siya, gusto nila formal and appropriately dressed siya for the occasion. Some people now are just overly sensitive and make a mountain out of a molehill.
Judger ng ibang families talaga. Buti pinost to ni guy para aware rin yung mga nagiinvite jan na sana same ang trato sa mga guests nila, regardless kung ano man itsura nila. I don’t agree with most of the comments here. He didn’t state the name of the one he was messaging so wala naman siyang naagrabyado. Kahit nga yung iba nagpopost kahit wala namang katuturan pinopost nila. So why stop him? Eh awareness din yan isa iba
Sorry, pero di na maalis sa mentality ng mga tao lalo na ng mga pinoy na ang tattoo ay kadikit na sa mga bilanggo't pusakal kaya kahit ano pang explanasyon nyo..PANGIT TALAGANG TINGNAN!
It's 2023, why are Filipinos still so sensitive and judgemental about tattoos? 🙄
ReplyDeleteIn Japan, there are places you can't visit if you have tattoos so you're asked to cover them up. Hindi lang sa Pinas ang ganyan.
DeleteI do see both sides though. I can understand why a family event would call for some "modesty". But this also could've been a teaching moment for kids abt not judging a book by its cover.
10:59
DeleteFYI
MANY companies especially in the hotel industry asks their employee/s to wear bandage or apply cosmetic make up to hide tattoos
10:59 there are still some people who are not comfortable with tats,if you and I are ok with it let’s respect others who are not especially if it’s their event.
DeleteMay binabagayan ang tattoo. Hindi lahat ng okayson at pagkakataon eh pasok un tattoo mo. Trabaho yan. May mga requirements sila. Kasi baka imbes sa interview ang focus ng mga nanonood eh dun sa mga tatoo niya. Nakakadistract kumbaga. And if they're paying you to do the job, wala kang pakialam sa requirements ng kumpanya. May karapatan sa personal choice si Mikee at nagpatatoo. Karapatan din ng kumpanya mamili. So wag entitled pwede ba!
Delete2:04 then dont invite people with tats kung hndi nman pala sila comfortable dito. Napakabastos nila
Delete2:04 the question is WHY? Why are they uncomfortable? Kasi truthfully, may judgment pa rin when it comes to tattoos. Historically, Filipinos are tattoed naman talaga before the Spanish came.
DeleteHindi kasi wholesome tignan. Filipino culture ksi conservative sa mga ganyan. Kahit mga anak ko pinagbawalan ko nga. Nadudumihan kasi ako tignan
DeleteAgree with 2:33. Their event, their rules.
Deleteeto na naman tayo eh. stop shoving your life choices down other people’s throats just because it’s “2023 na” 🙄
DeleteYou have to understand that ther'a a stigma associated with tattoos because it is assoicated with gangs.
DeleteIn Japan, most onsens do not allow customers with tattoo and they're not making noise.
Respect on other people's preference. He was asked to cover and it is his choice not to cover it.
I wonder if you will allow your kids to have tattoo if they are still 5 or 6 yo. They have a valid reason for asking him to cover it.
Karapatan nila magpatattoo.
DeleteKarapatan din ng employer ang mamili.
I guess they wanted his hosting services. It would have worked kung pinag-long sleeves na lang siya since formal occassion naman.
10:51 it would work if they hired other (ung walang tattoo) or if sinabi ng maglong sleeve dhil formal ang invite. She/he not said the tattoo
DeleteMahirap pala kunin itong si Mikee. Un magbabayad sa kanya ang magaadjust hahahah Kung ayaw ng tattoo eh sundin mo dahil bayad ka naman sa ilang oras na tatakluban mo yan. Un pagrant niya sa social media only affirms un pagka feeling entitled ng mga woke generation ngayon. Hindi obligation ng employer mag adjust sa inyo
Delete3:56 just respect that they are uncomfortable with tats for their event don’t push your own preference to other people. Let us respect each other choices!!!
Deleteparang ok nmn ang approach and walang ibang ibig sbhn.or ako lng ba to n nde makaintndi
ReplyDeleteHndi mo nga gets........
DeleteThe messenger was polite and friendly, but the message itself wasn’t. Let me give you an example: “Hi po, for tomorrow’s event, kindly cover po your face kasi po hinde daw po maganda tignan. :) thank you so much po :) :)” See? Kahit na gaano ka-sweet and polite at tadtad ng “po” at smiley face, yung message itself was offensive. Hope i was able to explain more clearly.
Delete1251. OA naman example mo.
DeleteAng layu nman ng example mo 12:51. Ang liit ng pabor ng requester. Iba-iba nman kasi characters ng tao, and if yun ang request kasi "may bata" nga, anong problema? The problem is yours kasi ang bilis mong ma offend. "REQUEST" nga ng magulang eh.
DeleteThey could have just said it was a formal event, long sleeves required. Ended it there. Same result, less mess.
Delete12:51 OA mo
DeleteNot the same 1251. It is not as if I choose to be born ugly. However, it is definitely one's choice to have a tattoo or not. -not 1102
DeleteYou exaggerate it 12:51 AM. It is their event, it is their call on how it is presented. Even in these times, a tattoo is a symbol of rebelliousness, at least majority of them still are done for such reason. Just saying...
DeleteSi 12:51 ang OA. berks ba kayo nun nagra rant na si mikey. Susme para un lang naka announce agad sa socmed. Tama lang na di sya kinuha. Bad manners
DeleteTattoo ang pinapa cover sa kanya hindi mukha. OA naman ng example ni 12:51. Metaphor failed
DeleteSi 12:51 si smiley behind bitter life, anong aasahan nyo e lahat halos ng comments nyan sablay. Pilit na pilit mag English tapos wala pang sense. May pa "more clearly" pa si accla.
DeleteSobrang sensitive naman tong Mikee na to. Wala naman masama sinabi yun nag message sa kanya. O sya noted, di ka na kukunin hindi dahil sa tattoos mo but for your nega attitude.
ReplyDeleteSya na ang naglagay ng sarili nyang interpretation, maybe yun kasi ang nasa isip nya
DeleteKonting reading comprehension sis. Baka mas wala kumuha sayo dahil jan
DeleteNah. For sure kilala nila si tito mikee na madaming tats, so bakit pa nila kinuha tapos papacover ang tats?
Delete12:47 Baka ikaw. I see the point in 11:04. Stop feeling entitled. Magpapatatoo ka tapos pag di bagay sa event eh maglulupasay ka? How stup* can you get?
Delete2:38 read 12:51's comment above ng maintindihan mo. Pati, WTH invite someone kung alam mo nman pala n against un sa iyong tradition and likes?? Napakabastos nila kamo
Delete2:38AM Lols, bakit si Mikee na known na may tattoo ang kinuha eh ayaw naman pala nila na may visible tattoo or conservative pala yung event. Sino kaya ang stup*d?
Delete12:28, 2:38 - sis di mo talaga nagets. Okay lang yan, you can ask a friend na iexplain sayo 🤭
Delete- not 12:47
2:38 ay may naglupasay? asan? napaka dramatic mo naman. 😂
Delete2:38 Si Mikee yung kinuha knowing may tattoos siya. Hindi naman siya ang nagpumilit makuha ang trabaho. Jusko dai. Utak naman pls
DeleteTotoo 2:38. Ang dami pa ring tao na di comfortable sa tatoo. Kasalan pa nila yun? Mabuti nga nag request ng maayos. Napaka sensitive ni Mikee ah. Parang if di nasunod gusto nya, edi wag daw.
Deleteactually, I don't see the point na i-rant pa to sa social media. yes, we get it, nakaka-offend siya in a way. pero we also have to understand na may limitasyon din ang mga companies/organizers and at the end of the day, nasa kanila ang mga desisyon sa mga bagay-bagay. tutal, siya naman 'tong umayaw sa request na mag-long sleeves eh di tapos na usapan di ba? pinapalaki pa eh
Deletethe point is, kilala naman si Mikee & it's known to them na he has a lot of tattoos. so, if the event requires na mas better na walang tattoos ang magho-host, sana hindi na lang siya ang kinuha in the first place.
Delete1:52 kasi malamang gusto nila yung talent/hosting. Duh. And yung tattoo naman eh pwede icover dahil di naman yun kelangan sa talent/hosting nya. Wala naman mali kung yun ay hilingin ng client mo. Like the tattoos are like accessories too(okay na may meaning, like jewelries may value, k?) so instead na iwewear mo pa sya, since it’s permanent cover mo na lang kasi di kelangan sa event, okay? Di naman bawal ang tattoos
Delete7:28 ikaw gumamit ng utak. Pasalamat nga siya kinonsider pa siya sa trabaho. May requirements ang employer. Kailan pa nangyari na ang employer dapat mag adjust? Sabihin mo sa sarili mo yan. Utak mo asan?
DeleteHay naku wag nyo na kkunin sa event yang si tito mikey. Maarte!
DeleteIf that's the parents' request, so be it. Remember, there are still conservative and traditional families who have different values like you and you have to respect and accept that. They could find another person who can impart good things like you, and you can find other families who may accept you as a role model for their children. I find this post unnecessary to be honest. This will only invite hate and negative comments against those families.
ReplyDeleteK...................😬🙄🤷♀️
DeleteSo why ask a tattooed person to host a ‘conservative’ event in the first place?
DeleteThis!
DeleteThat's the thing, parents not wanting tattoos to be seen by children imparts negative connotation too. 2023 na bakit bothered parin mga tao sa tattoo?
Deletethis is literally the problem. lol
Delete11:05 well, deserve ng family n yan to be bashed. Alam nmn pala nila na hndi naaayon sa conservative logic and tradition nila ang tao and yet un ang iinvite nila. Eh sila pala ang shunga eh. Maghanap sila na naaayon tlga sa gusto nil. Hndi ung magpapakarude sila. Shungangers lang
DeleteBig tattoos madumi talaga tingnan I am sorry. Kung maliit lang or paisa-isa keri lang. Aesthetic at maganda ang dating. Pero kung parang mapa na sa katawan, sorry pero mukhang mabaho eh sa true lang tayo. Wag pakaipokrita na 2023 na ngayon
DeleteFeeling entitled si Tito mo Mikee un lang un. Expecting everyone to accept his tattoos kahit di bagay sa event. Halimbawa children's party o show tapos may patattoo hahahah
Deletesus eto na naman tong mga pa woke. e sa ayaw ng iba sa tattoo bakit ba pinipilit nyong tanggapin sila ng lahat ng tao. i have tattoos choice ko un, preference ko un. lung ayaw ng iba preference nila un. live and let live susko!
Delete12:53 honestly what does 2023 have to do with anything?…. Some ppl are still not comfortable with exposing their kids to certain things like marking your body everywhere with tattoos. What’s the problem? Ppl with values will not change miski 2023 na.
DeleteI’m just confused - sa mga nega comment, I mean fine you could reject request na hindi nameet yung belief mo like “tattoo should not be a problem” if you’re crying out for people to respect your decision in your body, bakit naging nega yung family who have the decision for their own event.. Ika nga desisyon mo yan, panindigan mo yan.. Family dont know want tattoos to be exposed, find someone to hire na walang tattoos or willing to cover theirs, people who don’t want being restricted then just reject the offer and move to somewhere who are more open minded. Bakit isang road lang dapat umintindi?
DeleteThis! Bakit ang mga non traditional lagi sinasabi dapat respect their preference pero ang traditional hindi pwde? Maayod naman nagsabi ng request ang organizer sa kanya. There was no disrespect sa reply nya. But when he made a post about it, medyo ang off na. Entitled much. Grow up. Hindi umiikot ang mundo sayo at sa preference mo
Deletenag OA ung 'and you can find other families who may accept you as a role model for their children" talaga ba accla??
DeleteThe convo shouldve stopped at “theyre asking if you can wear long sleeves”
ReplyDeleteOh tapos rereact sya na idinaan pa sa ganun eh gusto kasi takpan tats nya? Need talaga nya magpost about tattoo nya lagi, noh?
DeleteAgree. Medyo condescending yung “to cover the tattoos”.
Delete100%
DeleteHindi pa na-train ng HR sa sensitivities yung kausap nya, most likely coordinator. TMI much?
DeleteNope. They are just being honest. At least he should know in the industry he cannot do whatever he wants. Bakit need ipilit if ayaw?
Delete8am. Sensitivities? Kung yan ang ite-train, buong taon siguro di pa matatapos ang taining sa sobrang daming sensitivities ng mga tao. Kung ang point niyo is 2023 na at hindi na dapat issue ang tattoo, ang point ko naman is 2023 na kaya dumagdag na naman ang mga ikasesensitive ng mga tao. As in lahaaaat nalang ng bagay ngayon kina-ka-hurt ng mga tao. STOP encouraging victim mentality. Lahat nalang ginagawang issue na parang kinakawawa at inaapakan ang karapatan.
DeleteThe HR was just being honest. So dahil 2023 na, di na pala uso ang honesty? Half truths nalang dapat para di ma offend ang kausap? Wow.
My gosh pinas, until now ganyan pa din mind set jan?
ReplyDelete11:07 bakit di ba puede iba-iba mindset natin?
DeleteMay certain employers na prefer nila wala tattoo. Some nga naglolongsleeve during interviews, tas tattoo reveal once may contract na lol. Baka gusto mo sya hire, ikaw na magHire services nya😂 anoba nmn yung day event to hide it, may ganyan din tlg tao meron lagi gusto patunayan😂 tska turn off yung mga ganyan nagpopost ng PM ewww, paPeymus din
DeleteLet them be, if that’s what they want. Respect each other’s opinion.
Delete12:07 maghanap n lng kamo sila ng pasok sa gusto nila. Ung walang tattoo!! Hndi ung alam nila n may tatto tpos sya pa ang gusto mong ihire. Ang daming dami nmn dyan.
Delete12:07 Bat pa nila hinire yan kung sensitive pala sila dun? Nakakabawas ba yun sa kakayahan nya gawin ang trabaho? Just because the practice is common doesn’t make it right.
DeleteTo each his own. Hindi pa "art" ang tats sa pinas. Associated pa rin siya sa criminals, tambay sa kanto, and jail. And yes, nagpapanggap pang conservative.
Deletenot only in Pinas dear.
DeletePeople with piercings sa ilong, labi tenga, and those with tattoos have the same mindset— yung mga tipong ayaw mapag sabihan. In a professional setting, sumusunod ka dapat sa kung ano ang appropriate. Inuuna kasi ang pa-woke bago respeto.
ReplyDeleteI mean they know fully well na marami syang tattoo dapat di na sya kinuha dba? it’s his prerogative na tumanggi… it’s like inviting someone but saying only accept some parts of you
Delete11:16 pawoke? respeto? How are tattoos pawoke and how is having them disrespectful?
DeleteAnd it's not like he invited himself to that event. They knew he has tattoos so why invite him in the first place kung may issue sila with those?
And what is considered appropriate anyway?
Lawakan ang pang-unawa at bawasan ang kakitiran ng utak. 2023 na.
11:16 huh? Are we in the same page here? Gurl, hndi si mikee ang lumapit sa knila, SILA ANG LUMAPIT SA KANYA. The fact n alam nila na may tattoo siya and all and yet they still want to invite him. Tpos ipapamukha pa sayo n "we really dont want u. Nagkataon lang na basketball player ka lng" is sooooo disrespectful. Sula itong unprofessional. So puhlez lang ha. Before ka magpaka "pRof3s5ion@L" dyan, intindihin mo muna ang totoong sitwasyon ha. Hndi ung gagawa ka ng sarili mong kwento tpos magpapavictim and self righteous ka dyan.
DeleteSa pilipinas lang ganyan. Sa ibang bansa nga kung ano ano ang piercing pero they work at marketing brands na high end pa.
Delete1236. Skills nya ang kailangan. Hindi ang tattoo. Very disrespectful to upload in socmed a private convo.
Deletepa woke? No. i have piercings and tattoos, i work in a corporate setup and sa company ko we can freely express ourselves. as long as na appropriate pa din ang attire and most importantly, we do our job well.
DeleteOoooh, I love you 1:21AM
DeleteMerong taong may tattoo but willing to hide them if it is required for work. Meron namang not willing to compromise. Turns out this Mikee is not willing to compromise. Let him be. So if someone wants to hire him, they know it's all (including his tattoos) or nothing for him.
DeleteHaha kasalanan nung nag relay ng message, napaka transparent at honest ni ate hahahaha
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteGusto nya tlg iparating yung msg nya kun ano preference ng client, para walang misunderstanding. Not her fault. Mali yung tumanggi kana tas pPpst pa private convo, unethical at kabiteran yun😂
DeleteNpakayabang naman. Iba ibang tao or client ay may kanya kanyang preference. Kelangan pa gatasan yang issue about tattoo. Lagi na lang. Masyado mayabang hindi naman sya nidiscriminate or whatnot. Eh kung sa ganung paraan gusto palakihin nung magulang mga anak nila.
ReplyDeleteNadiscriminate nga! Pinapacover nga yung tattoos diba?
DeleteSo why get a person covered in tattoos and ask him to cover it instead of simply getting someone who fits your image rquirement? ie: host na walang tattoo.
Deleteeh kung preference pala walang tattoo bakit sya pa kinuha? aware naman siguro sila na may tattoo sya
Delete11:35 THEN WHY HIRED HIM KUNG AYAW PALA NILA SA MAY TATTOO?! Obvious nman na alam nila n may tattoo ang tao and yet ung ang ipupush nila and ipapaadjust sa gusto nila. Buti sana kung mismo si Mikee ang lumapit, pero hndi eh SILA ITONG NAG INVITE!
DeleteKinukuja nga sya para sa services nya pero may preference or request ang client. Sa trabaho di pwedeng yung gusto mo. Mag adjust ka din! Okay lang naman sa client na may tattoo sya basta maglong sleeves sya para sa event. Kung nidiscriminate sya dahil sa tattoo eh di sana di na sya nicontact ng mga yan kasi alam naman na meron sya. May gusto lang tlga lagi patunayan yang Mikee. May yabang talaga. Nakakahiya din pinost pa private message ng client.
Delete2:38 galit na galit naman to, inom ka muna tubig uy
DeleteI don't get the number 1? He was asked naman to wear longsleeves? Susunod naman daw siya? Pero ang response niya is hindi siya comfy to wear longsleeves? Please enlighten me what he was trying to say?
ReplyDeleteHe was asked to wear long sleeves to hide his tattoos. Shonga rin yung natanong. Sana sinabi na lang “Can you please wear long sleeves as this is a formal event.” Tapos sana at walang ganito.
DeleteNakakaoffend yung na-invite ka at alam nilang may tattoo ka tapos biglang paki takpan koya. Kaloka.
Haha. Oo nga.
DeleteKasi dinugtungan ng “to cover the tattoos”, so there was an implication na hindi okay that he’s inked. Ok na sana if the person who sent the message didn’t mention that part.
DeleteFrom my understanding, he meant that if he was told that it was a formal event and longsleeves is required, he was willing to comply and will not look into it na dahil sa tatts nya. It was delivered kasi to him in a way na they wanted to have the tattoo covered. So he must wear longsleeves to cover the tattoos not because it was a formal event.
DeleteHindi sya comfy sa reason na need mag long sleeves coz of his tattoos. Kung nag end ung request sa "please wear long sleeves." Ok sya dun.
DeleteYung point nya is pinapasuot sya ng longsleeves specifically to cover the tattoos, not because dahil yun yung required attire sa event.
DeleteMy reason pa kc why he should wear longsleeve. Prang nmention eh. Pwd nmn attire lang. Maybe thats the reason sinulat nya number 1. He doesnt like the reason
DeleteAccla, yung ibig nyang sabihin instead of mentioning his tattoos pwede namang sabihij na wear formal o long sleeves lang. Yung wala na ka eclavuhan na dahil ganito ganyan
DeleteHe was comfortable wearing long sleeves, pero ang hindi siya comfortable is pinagsusuot siya nun to cover the tattoos. Magkaiba kasi yung pinag long sleeves ka dahil maybe theme pero to cover tattoos na alam naman nila na meron siya e bakit siya pa din yung kinuha, yun yung ayaw niya.
DeleteHe was asked to cover his tattoos, hence long sleeves. Okay lang sana if he was asked to wear long sleeves kasi it was a formal event. Yung reason behind the long sleeves is what irked him. Context is key. IMO, good of him to decline. 2023 na, anubey.
DeleteHe is not comfortable on people asking him to cover his tattoo which i understand him! TF is wrong with his tattoo.. ang aarte huh! Grabe napaka backward ng mindset ! Jusko! Dami nga kawatan dyan sa senado! D nyo pinagtatakip ng mukha 😏
DeleteHe wasnt comfy to be asked to cover his tattoos. Kung sinabi sakanya “ please wear longsleeves” okay lang pero sinundan pa kasi ng “to cover tattoos” which reveals the reason for such request
Deletebasahin mo ulit para magets mo
DeleteSusunod siya if yun ang proper dress code. But he was only being asked to wear long sleeves “to cover the tattoos”. That’s when he became uncomfortable and probably offended too.
DeleteI think issue pa din if the person said na long sleeves dapat attire. Im sure mapapaisip si guy bakit? Tapos pag nasa event ma shock sya na sya lang naka ganun. Mas mabuti na rin yung nasabi. His decison to accept or reject.
DeleteOk lang naman tumanggi if ayaw niya yung way na sinabihan siya. Pero rather than be angry he should be thankful they are honest with him. Mas gusto ata niya magbulag-bulagan.
Delete1:01 AM binasa ko ng paulit ulit and I was a bit slow that’s why I asked mga Ka-FP to englighten me. It was a genuine question. Wag kang G na G diyan at keyboard warrior. I was asking a genuine question!
DeleteSalamat for explaining it mga ka FP!
-11:37
You had your pov on getting Tats, and you eventually got it. Don't forget that not all people have same pov like you. Respect and acceptance is a two-way access.
ReplyDeleteAng yabang ng dating. Di ko alam ano pinaglalaban nya. Eh sa yun ang gusto nung kumukuha sakanya. Need pa ba ipost?
ReplyDeleteMay na alala ako nag viral, hiring taga chop chop ng lechon dapat daw walang tattoo kaloka
ReplyDeleteIf I'm that parent, I'll respect your refusal. Just respect mine too, of refusing your tattoos to be seen by kids. My event. My rules!
ReplyDeleteParang iba yung explanation nya at yung dating nung reply nya sa message.
ReplyDeleteThe client naman has a right not to hire people with tattoos of the industry is on the conservative side. Kaya lang, from the get go, they knew that Mikee had tattoos. Why approach him in the first place kung ayaw pala ng tattoos?
ReplyDeleteIn the same way, Mikee has a right to decline a job if he isn’t comfortable doing it. Respectful naman ang exchange of messages so it shouldn’t be blown out of proportion.
Mikee already decline it when he saw that response tho
DeleteBut he's the one who blown it out of proportion by posting thier convo.
DeleteWhen he posted about it, it blew out of proportion. Dapat hindi na nya pinost. Tapos sasabihin nya wag gawing big deal. Hay naku
DeletePag “family day” bawala ngvtatoo ahahahaha🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteMejo dirty naman talaga tingnan ang full sleeve tattoo.
ReplyDeletehalaaaa.... family day ng kid namin very very soon... :o duon kaya yung event na nabanggit?
ReplyDeleteentitled na sya at may karapatan na sya tumanggi
ReplyDeleteMaayos naman pagka Sabi nung nag message right? Or Dapat sinabi na lang please wear smart casual and Dapat Naka coat? Ganun ba gusto niya makuha response?
ReplyDeleteIlang commenters na nag explain sa taas. Back read ka sa comments kung bakit offensive kay Mikee yung "text" ni ate.
DeleteDi ko gets kung bakit kelangan pa ipost yung convo. Nag decline ka na nga, ipapahiya mo pa yung nag invite.
ReplyDeleteAng sensitive lang kalalaking tao. Ang laki pa ng katawan.
ReplyDeleteTulad ng comment sa taas. Parang ganto lang yan. "ihire ka nmin as a model pero hndi kasama ang ulo mo kasi pangit tignan". Hndi ka mahuhurt?
DeleteDapat lang. Imagine sabihan ka na kukunin ka pero kailangan tapalan mo yung tattoo mo my gosh. Bakit niyo siya kinuha e alam niyong ganyan itsura niya
DeleteMga mindset na ganito nakakairita. Babae oang pwede maging sensitive? Maliliit na katawan lang pwede mag reklamo? 2023 na, kelan ba kayo mauubos?
DeleteHmm so kailangan babae ka tapos maliit katawan para maging sensitive?
DeleteLol
DeleteI’m not against people who has tattoos. Sa akin lang Sa case na ito Sana iniisip
ReplyDeleteNiya Kaya ka nga kinuha diba kasi gusto ka nila to be their guest Coz you have potential to inspire the kids and plus you are being paid naman e. Nag request lang sila Kung “maaari” Pwede ka mag long sleeve yun lang. Mahirap ba sumunod? You are the one who is thinking negative about it . You will speak for like how many hours? Hinde ka naman aabot buo araw magsasalita dun. Pwede ka naman mag palit after your talk! Trabaho lang at Kasama
Yan sa work mo Hinde Lahat ng Oras tama ka. Next time before you make talks like this Dapat May agreement kana regarding sa wardrobe sa mga clients mo ha. This is not about being judge mental it’s about professionalism. Tagal mo na ganyan sa work Dapat Alam mo yan. 🙄
Next time kung ayaw nila sa may tattoo wag sila kumuha ng may tattoo. Period. Dami mo sinabi. Pag binayaran ko va services mo tapos pina cover ko kukha mo, papayag ka?
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DeleteAs a professional I will do it! @604 trabaho e. Ako kasi ang tao marunong makinig, Makisama at umunawa. Sabagay Hinde Lahat ng tao Tulad ko mag isip. Madami ako sinabi kasi comment ko yan, May problema ka?
DeleteParang hindi naman meant to offend yung katext niya. Maganda pa nga ang pagkarequest and explanation. Masyado naman sensitive to. Sabi niya he’d be ok if they asked him to wear long sleeves beforehand, which they did, so ano ang problema niya? Nothing wrong with parents not wanting to expose their kids to something they don’t agree with. And vice versa.
ReplyDeleteExactly. Binasa ko yung orig post nyan yung mga comments namumuwersa na respetuhin dW ang may tattoo at tanggapin na lang. I mean wala naman pwersahan hindi namna binasatos. Parang respeto na lng din sa di preferred, wav mamilit.
DeleteHindi naman nega ang arrive sa akin. Sabi ng mikee, kebs naman na sana if sinabi na lang na mag formal/suite, instead of takpan mo arms mo kasi may mga pamilya. Baka sports event kasi kaya malay ba natin kung casual ang pormahan - professional tita with visible tattoos
ReplyDeleteNaawa ako sa nag message sa Kanya Kahit Hinde naman pinakita yung name this will affect him or her sa work niya - mental health. Pag ako ma papahiya ako- ginagawa ko lang trabaho ko at ito sinasabi ng boss ko. Sana Hinde na lang I post e. Lahat na lang ngayon post na sa social media Konti mali lang mega comment agad parang ang Laki Laki ng kasalan mo Tapos lahat ng comment nag react magagalit or bash ka agad. Sana naisip din ni mike ito,haay
ReplyDeletePasikat naman kasi yan guy na yan. Tanda na pero hindi parin professional. Hindi na dapat ipost pa.
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DeleteFor him makikinabang siya sa clout, pero yung empleyado malalagot sa boss
DeleteIlagay rin kase sa lugar. Pinakiusapan ka lang dahil may mga bata. O ikaw, kung may anak kang 5 years old at sabihin sayong "DADDY, MAGPAPA TATTOO AKO KASE DI BA SABI MO WALA NMANG MASAMA SA MAY TATTOO DI BA?", at ang lahat ng ito ay dahil na amuse sya sa isang nakita nya sa pinuntahan nilang family event sa school dahil may tattoo ang host, O ano, papatatuan mo ba? Madali pang maimpluwensyahan ang mga bata dahil mura pa isip nila. Yun lng ang oinaki usap sayo. Masyado kang entitled at pa advocate ng ku g ano anong pauso sa mundo, Ghourlll
ReplyDeleteIkaw ang entitled! Dami mo nasabi at ang dami mo pa comments, ikaw siguro un kachat. I don’t have tats pero anong masama kung meron? Go out and travel, meet new people para lumawak naman un mindset mo. Wag kang babad sa fp. 2023 na ganyan pa din thinking mo dzai!! Sa ibang countries even nurses or doctors may tats, bec nakaka bawas ba ang tats sa skills and pagkatao nila? Of course not! Jusko
DeleteAy so ganun dapat maglong sleeve ang mga basketball player sa mga sporting events para di nila mainfluence magpatattoo ang mga bata? Kaloka
DeleteDi sabihin mong totoo na 5 yr old kids cannot have tats. When you're 18 then you can decide for yourself whether you want to have it done or not. Pinoy kasi sanay na pag may tats ka ex convict ka or masama kang tao.
DeleteYung mga binoto ninyo sa Senado ang kikinis ng balat at walang tats. Kumusta naman ang Phils na pinapatakbo ng mga makikinis na balat? Zero progress but 100% inflation rate.
Wala yan sa tats. Nasa accomplishments yan ng tao
Kung ako yan, sasabihin ko, "pwede ka magpa tattoo pag 18 ka na, pag nasa legal age ka na. As of now, wag muna." Ganun ka-simple. Kung hindi ka marunong mag explain at magturo sa bata, sana hindi ka na lang nag anak. Magappalaki ka lang mg batang narrow-minded at judgmental na galit sa mga sinasabi mong advocates.
Delete1:13 Wala naman kc tlagang masama sa pagpapatattoo. Nagiging masama lang sya sa mga taong makikitid ang utak. Tattoo is a form of art. Grabe parin kc ang discrimination sa mga may tattoo. Does having a tattoo makes you less of a person? Pag may tattoo ba hindi mo kayang gawin ung trabaho ng taong walang tattoo? Mas magaling ba ang mga taong malilinis ang balat kesa sa may tattoo? Dapat nga habang bata pa parents enlighten them and teach them not to discriminate people based on how they look.
Delete11:37, ang response nya is hindi sya comfortable being asked to cover his tattoo. Kung sinabi lang daw na need to wear longsleeves, kahit walang reason, he'd comply. Kaya lang, nagbigay pa ng reason si ate na it's to cover the tats.
ReplyDeleteOA, for sure pag boss mo sa TV5 nagsabi na takpan mo tattoo mo, susunod ka lang, di ka na hahanash
ReplyDeleteUghhhh ano ba this is so annoying!!! Napaka ipokrito talaga ng ibang tao, nakakahiya yung ganyan.
ReplyDeleteSana hindi na nya pinost ang convo kasi transparant naman ung kausap nya about why he needs to wear long sleeves, i.e. to cover his tattoos. Wala naman syang magagawa kung ganun ang gusto ng clients eh. If traditional and conservative ang audience, the agent needs to communicate to him.
ReplyDeleteHi 113. So paano na, bawal ma expose AT ALL ang mga bata sa mga may tattoo kasi gagayahin at gugustuhin nila agad agad? May mga anak ka ba?
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DeleteDiba? At least nagiging totoo lang yung naginvite sa kanya. Hindi naman sya niloloko or what.
DeleteKorek yan din naisip ko
DeleteShare ko lang yung lalaking lawyer na nagtatrabaho sa office ni dad, laging naka long sleeves. Pero kita ang tattoo sa neck niya. Wala naman sumisita sa kanya sa court at sa mismong office.
ReplyDeleteKaloka ang mindset ng iba dito. Bakitnsiya inimbita alam naman nila na may mga tattoo siya and what made them think that it would be okay to tell him to hide his tattoos kahit polite ang way ng pag sabi bastos pa rin. Jusku. Yung iba dito utak biya!
ReplyDeleteEto sana sagot ni mikee: "Ah okay I'll do that. Thanks for letting me know. See you at the event! " Eh masaya sana lahat di ba??? Hindi naman pinapabura yung tattoo. Masyadong sensitive si guy lol
ReplyDeleteSa mga nagsasabi na 2023 na ganito pa rin mindset, well sa corporate world hindi ka ihire if meron kang tats. Aviation industry, hospitality industry, medical industry hindi usually naghahire ng mga taong super daming tattoos. Sa true lang, marumi tingnan. Bawal ka din magdonate ng dugo.
ReplyDeleteYou can donate po ng blood after a year of having your tats.
DeleteAlso, may screening sa donors & donated blood will go through lab tests before mapunta sa blood banks.
Siguraduhin lang nila na yung kahit isa sa parents ng mga bata walang tattoo ha
ReplyDeleteIt's their preference and we should respect that, same thing people accepted what you do to your body. It's your body you're rules di ba? Just because people did not prefer having your tats exposed at an event doesn't mean they hate younor they are looking down on you. Ang dami dami nang anti-insertnounhere idadagdag nyo pa yan. Aware man o Hindi ang mga naghire sayo about your tattoos that's out of the question since di pa naman paid and naexecute yung service pwede pang maiba agreement or they can still change their minds di ba. He could've just said no and leave it that but nagpost pa sa socmed to what, incite hate?
ReplyDeletedito sa work place namin sa hospital. pina pa cover talaga ang may tattoo
ReplyDeleteBy doing that he shot the messenger
ReplyDeletePolicy is policy.
ReplyDeleteGaya sa magdodonate ng blood, ang alam ko bawal magdonate ang may tats. Sa medical practioner, pinapatakpan yung mga tats like ayan wearing long sleeves or patanggal mo otherwise go work elsewhere.
Kumbaga "boss" mo ang client mo kahit freelancer ka. Pero in this case, kilala siya bilang may tats so bakit pa kasi siya kinuha?
Ang issue kasi, hndi si Mikee ang lumapit. It was them who approach him. It was them who despite knowing n may tattoo ay sya parin ang pinili nila and they want him to cover it. So ano ito? They want him and dont like him at the same time? Contradicting kamo si client kasi sila itong shunga
DeleteYes, it boils down to preference but why invite him in the first place, eh alam naman nilang tattooed yung tao?
ReplyDeleteSa tingin ba ng mga conservative parents these kids na they are protecting have not seen tattoos? Ang tattoo is a form of expression. Doesn't make a person bad kung meron sila. Isn't that what parents should be trying to teach kids? Tolerance? Acceptance? Being non judgemental? Marami pa ring hypocrites sa atin.
ReplyDeleteI think some parents hindi naman sa masama agad ang tingin nila pag may tattoo, siguro yung worried lang sa mga ibang opportunities na ayaw sa tattoo. I remember kabilin bilin ng dad ko wag magpatattoo lalo na yung visible kasi may companies abroad na ayaw ng tattoo. Ofw dad ko. Nakita niya kaso first hand. Yung iba namang field like Cabin Crew pwede naman as long as maitatago sya sa uniform or doon lang sa upper arm.
DeleteKaya ka nga parent para kausapin yung bata and explain things to give more context. Paano yung mga cultures na May tattoo talaga like the Pacific Islanders kelangan din nila itago yun? It is who they are, when your kids ask questions explain mo. Wala naman masama.
DeleteOk, so you just announced to the world mas importante sa yo yung tattoos mo than hanapbuhay. Maayos yung pag ask pero feel mo insensitive, but they are actually being honest about it. Insensitive ka rin naman para siraan sila dahil diyan, or feeling mo damdamin mo lang ang importante. But honestly, if personal relationship yan maiintindihan ko. Pero dahil hanapbuhay I am sorry to say your thinking is very childish.
ReplyDeleteI would rather someone say things honestly to my face than be pretentious. Sa mga pawoke dyan, the expectation of people understanding all your sensitivities and emotions is impractical and impossible. I would downright say trying to achieve such and expect it from everyone is rather unhealthy. You would find yourself pulled on different directions all the time. Mas nakakadepress actually pag di ka natutong harapin at tanggapin ang totoong mundo.
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DeleteI dont know him, just saw him sa reels, parang mayabang.
DeleteHay naku bakit nya pa pinost? Kainis ng mga ganyan. Di nag iisip. Mga taong mas gustong may kaaway sila kesa piliin nlang peace of mind nila. Choose your battle always. May mga bagay na di na kelangan patulan or palakihin.its better to be kind than to be right
ReplyDeletebakit si Mikee kasi kinuha? Hindi naman siguro lingid sa kaalaman nila na marami syang tattoos. Good job din kay Mikee polite ang pagtanggi nya kahit medyo may angas to haha
ReplyDeleteAng issue sakin is not the tattoo kasi maayos naman tinanong at nadecline naman nya walang bastusan. Ang issue for me ay yung pag post pa nya. Unethical for me kasi private convo yon.
ReplyDeleteParang ang off pinost nya pa tlga to.
ReplyDeletei find him cute and astig coz of his tatts..napasilip lang ako sa fb page nya, medyo narcissist lang sya! but him posting this private convo pa on public is kinda off. like, wag na ipost. he's aware naman na some people don't like guys who has tattoos all over their bodies, so di na need na ipost for emphasis.
ReplyDeleteHahaha college classmate ko yan, confirmed narcissist nga. Typical jock na mahangin dahil athlete
Deleteah kaya pala now I know. dun ko kasi naconfirmed na narcissist sya when he went shopping with his gf and he was like capturing it all on video while he's trying all those clothes and flex it on the mirror and parang he's like showing it all off to her followers that those clothes looks good on him, i mean he's full of himself,hahaha! sorry na if judgmental ako pero muntik ko na kasi sya maging crush pero di ko na tinuloy kasi prang mayabang sya! hehehe
DeleteHe is professional anchor and host diba? Sana Hinde na lang niya ipost. He made a big deal about it sa Totoo lang. Gumawa siya nag sarili niya issue. Akala mo ika sira ng Oras at imahe niya ang request nag invite sa Kanya. Sana nababasa niya mga comments Dito. You are easily replaced! Learn the word Maki sama .
ReplyDeleteWala masama mag tattoo Madami ako friends May tattoo Pero Oras ng formal Naka suot sila ng maayos esp sa work field.
Honestly common naman to among a lot of industries especially for front liners like cabin crew. Buti nga he’s just being asked to wear something that can cover it and it was phrased as a question pa. For some airlines, di pwede at all if you have a tattoo, even if it’s just small or even if kaya man matago sa uniform.
ReplyDeleteIt’s not his fault for having a tattoo, but at the same time the client is not at fault for having their own preferences.
Prefer nila walang tattoo sabay kuha ng May tattoo
DeleteKids can see tattoos in the tv, internet or streets.. it’s better for parents to just educate their kids. Give the pros and cons of having a tattoo..
ReplyDeleteone problem that is not being discussed here is he posted screenshots of their conversation which is supposed to be private. Hello data privacy.
ReplyDeleteI remember. One of mikee’s posts was a celebration w mvp and tv5’s bosses… and he was trying to cover his tattoo.. bkit k mvp ok lang icover ang tattoo mo pero dun sa isang event hindi?
ReplyDeleteOk lang naman kung ayaw ng client ng may tattoo pero bakit pa sila lumapit sa taong may tattoo? Sana host na walang tattoos nalang sa una palang. Common sense, diba.
ReplyDeleteIt’s like saying to an overweight person, “Confirmed na po. They’re just asking if you’re okay to wear long sleeves to cover your flabby arms. The audience po kasi are fitness enthusiasts”.
Girl! Pinag-isipan mo ba mabuti at binasa yang comment mo?! Actually kung gagamitan mo ng common sense, overweight people are the best people to be invited by fitness enthusiast kasi goal nila is to be fit and healthy di ba? And also, all the more that they will be required to show their flabs to compare yung before and now once na-achieve nila yung goal nila. Esep esep beshy.
DeleteIto kasi iba. Parents must have invited him to inspire young kids. They probably just want him to look formal and professional in front of the children.
Parang off topic ka na. Ang topic, hosting. Naging ala ‘Biggest Loser’ na yung concept haha. Layo, girl.
DeleteThe point is, will you invite a tattooed person to host an event if you don’t want a tattooed host in the first place? Tapos sasabihin mo, oops, cover your tattoos. Sana Robi Domingo type nalang ininvite mo.
Will you invite hypothetically invite an overweight person to host a fitness event if the audience want a like-minded and fit person? Tapos sasabihin mo, oops, toned lahat dito, hide your flabby arms.
You missed the point completely.
Hindi naman siguro siya pupunta doon na mukhang basura. Sa bata pala siya magsasalita hindi sa board of directors so bakit kelangan long sleeves? Maybe in his speech he might talk about his tattoos ang what it means to him? Basta mukha ka namang naligo at hindi Naka sando and chinelas kelangan pa bang sabihin ano ang isuot?
DeleteThis kind of mentality talaga is so hypocritical. People get judged because of things like tattoos or even piercings pa nga. Marami namang issues na pwedeng pagtuunan ng pansin. Jusq ito parin ang problema sa pinas at sa iba pang “conservative” countries. May pa conservative pa eh ang taas naman ng teenage pregnancy at corruption LOL
ReplyDeleteHe's not being judged. In fact, parents see him as a role model in terms of realizing his passion and dreams. Since speaker siya, gusto nila formal and appropriately dressed siya for the occasion. Some people now are just overly sensitive and make a mountain out of a molehill.
DeleteJudger ng ibang families talaga. Buti pinost to ni guy para aware rin yung mga nagiinvite jan na sana same ang trato sa mga guests nila, regardless kung ano man itsura nila. I don’t agree with most of the comments here. He didn’t state the name of the one he was messaging so wala naman siyang naagrabyado. Kahit nga yung iba nagpopost kahit wala namang katuturan pinopost nila. So why stop him? Eh awareness din yan isa iba
ReplyDeleteAnywhere you go? there are limitations or protocol you need to follow. Hirap sa ibang pinoy? WALANG PROTOCOL or WALANG SINUSUNOD
ReplyDeleteIt is a job that they are offering. Its good that he declined if he finds that offending.
Lol sa Pilipinas nalang bawal tattoo. Sa US at ibang countries it’s not a big deal pag may tattoo sa work.
ReplyDeleteSorry, pero di na maalis sa mentality ng mga tao lalo na ng mga pinoy na ang tattoo ay kadikit na sa mga bilanggo't pusakal kaya kahit ano pang explanasyon nyo..PANGIT TALAGANG TINGNAN!
ReplyDeleteLol sa Pilipinas nalang bawal tattoo. Sa US at ibang countries it’s not a big deal pag may tattoo sa work.
ReplyDeleteLuh anong kinalaman ng tattoo niya. Kung magaling siya host yun pagtuunan ng pansin hindi ang tattoo niya.
ReplyDeletePakayabang nito kala mo naman magaling
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