Yup! Naka 2 points na sa insensitivity tong si Bernal. 1st, nung nag announce sya ng pregnancy. “We weren’t even trying” daw. And then eto nanaman sya. She should be called out. Ok lang naman maging excited maging mommy, kaso napaka insensitive nya sa ibang babae
So sinong gumawa sa katawan ko because I've been trying to conceive for 10 years now but I've been unfortunate? First time was ectopic. One of my tubes was removed pero sabi ng OB ko, the other is still healthy kaya may chance pa na magka-baby. My partner and I are still trying. Minsan nawawalan na ako ng pag-asa pero there's still that part of me na hoping pa din.
Wag mawalan ng pag asa...Perhaps you've tried looking to other options like assistive reproductive technology kung kaya ng budget or kaya pag ipunan? I've had an ectopic pregnancy din then di na nasundan for a few years. Went to a fertility specialist and binigyan kami ng choice, artificial insemination or IVF. Cheaper yung artificial insemination but smaller chance na mabuntis so went for IVF and conceived eventually. Na CS ako and dun nakita na blocked pala fallopian tube na remaining so I really couldn't have conceived naturally.
Had the same experience. Have you tried HSSG? Was able to conceive again after 5 yrs from having ectopic with the help of meds (provera), HSSG (to flush out my remaining tube), controlling hypothyroid, and diet.
Isang mahigpit na yakap sis! Wla ako sa katayuan para mag advice sa’yo pero ang masasabi ko lng ipagdadasal kita sis. Ang Diyos lng ang may alam kung bakit delayed pa iyong hinihingi mo sa knya.
Pagpasensyahan mo na yung mga taong ganyan magsalita. They may not know better. Let's just educate them on how to be more sensitive para sa susunod they will think first before they spesk. I really hope things work out for you!
1:58 It's not God. It's all up to our body sis. Let's not use God pagdating sa ganitong bagay because we need to consider those who weren't able to conceive. Ibig bang sabihin nun eh hindi hinayaan ng Diyos na magkaanak sila? Hindi di ba?
God has nothing to do whether a woman conceives or not. It all depends on our body. I had a baby 13 years ago. Pero never na nasundan because of infection. Peritonitis to be exact. Sabi ng doctor, because of the strong medicines I will be taking, possible na hindi na ako mabuntis. My son was 3 that time kaya sa isip ko, okay lang kasi may anak naman na ako. But 3 years after I recover from it, I was hoping to have one last child pero wala na talaga no matter how my partner and I tried. I'm already 40 now so hindi na ako nag-eexpect.
I gave birth at 41 yrs old to my bunso. So possible pa at this age. But honestly i wont recommend the same thing unless siguro you have a strong family support system and there would be relatives who can help take care of them. How i wished someone told me honestly how hard it would be to have a young kid at this age. Walang nag “real talk” sakin. Ok lang naman daw magkaanak pa kami bec we can afford to have another one. Ang nakakalimutang important factor is our strength and mortality. Now im always worried for our kids esp the bunso, na what will happen to them when we are gone.
Ito yung taong laging hindi pinagiisipan ang ginagawa at sinasabi. Laging failed, laging all about her. Tama nga sila, narcissistic ka. Edi ikaw na privileged, ante.
Bakit naman contradicting ang statements mo madam Kris. Your body is God-created while ang baby mo ikaw ang gumawa? Why everything should be all about you. Tsk
pinagsasabi nitong he or she? nakalimutan ata nyang nagpa gender reveal at baby shower na sila in full pink pa sya hahahha oh well, pregnancy brain hahahaha
Bakit may he or she about sa baby niya? Diba confirm na babae yung anak nila. Well pls enlighten me kasi di ko gets bakit meron he or she kung may gender na. Or baka may something?
she already had her baby reveal with the blue and pink dinos. the pink won. she even had the baby shower already. remember her pink dress and ironically covering her "baby" with that big pink bow
To add salt to the wound, rubbing pa nga nya that she’s “privileged”. Usually, keber lang ako pag mag ganito, pero hindi talaga maganda dating nung construction ng sentence nya about dun. Kinda boastful sounding. For me lang naman
5:44, the modal verb is important, kasi andun mo malalaman kung ano gusto niya ipaintindi. Hindi niya sinabing "dapat", sinabi niya "maaari". She never said SHE is the only one "privileged". She was talking about what a privilege it is to be a woman not just herself but A woman. She is talking about isang malaking pribelihiyo ang maging isang babae dahil may kakayahan ang babae na magconceive. Intindihin mo mabuti, hindi emosyon agad pinapairal, o kung hindi emosyon, preconceived notion na taklesa siya kaya lahat ng sasabihin niya mali.
11:04-nagaral ka ba? Whole context sinasabi mo? Siguro minadali mo pagbasa noh? Tapos nainis ka agad, kasi may whole context ka na? Dali mo kasi magjudge ng ibang tao kaya di mo iniintindi mabuti yung sinasabi niya. Ano tingin mo sa sarili mo? Perfect ka?
Yeah, been married for 20 yrs now. We gave up trying on our 10th and accepted God’s plan for us. So ngayong nabasa ko post nya, napaisip ako kung sino ba talaga ang may gawa sa akin.
Same thoughts here 4:51. This is why I don't think God has something to do with it because if we can thank God for having a baby, should we hate Him for not giving us one?
What she said was a fact. It is a medical fact. Baka kayo sensitive. What other women are going through does not change the fact that women were created talaga to bring life to this world. That was not an opinion, FACT yon.
Bakit pa kailangan i-mention yung God created women’s body to conceive. Medyo insensitive si ateng
ReplyDeleteSyempre, it’s all about her. Kapag wala syang capabilities to conceive for sure iba ang hanash nyan
DeleteYup! Naka 2 points na sa insensitivity tong si Bernal. 1st, nung nag announce sya ng pregnancy. “We weren’t even trying” daw. And then eto nanaman sya. She should be called out. Ok lang naman maging excited maging mommy, kaso napaka insensitive nya sa ibang babae
DeleteTama naman! God created women to conceieve and only real women. Anong insensensitive dun?
Delete2:04 at merun p yan n kala mo hirap n hirap s pagbubuntis e gala nmn ng gala.
DeleteNapaka tone deaf nga talaga nya, ayan na naman syaaaaa.
DeleteDi po lahat ng babae madaling mabuntis, kaya sana maging sensitive sya sa post nya. So sya lant anak ng Dios? Ksi sya madali magbuntis?
Delete337 no need to rub it in sa mga ttc na nahihirapan.
DeleteSo sinong gumawa sa katawan ko because I've been trying to conceive for 10 years now but I've been unfortunate? First time was ectopic. One of my tubes was removed pero sabi ng OB ko, the other is still healthy kaya may chance pa na magka-baby. My partner and I are still trying. Minsan nawawalan na ako ng pag-asa pero there's still that part of me na hoping pa din.
ReplyDeleteWag mawalan ng pag asa...Perhaps you've tried looking to other options like assistive reproductive technology kung kaya ng budget or kaya pag ipunan? I've had an ectopic pregnancy din then di na nasundan for a few years. Went to a fertility specialist and binigyan kami ng choice, artificial insemination or IVF. Cheaper yung artificial insemination but smaller chance na mabuntis so went for IVF and conceived eventually. Na CS ako and dun nakita na blocked pala fallopian tube na remaining so I really couldn't have conceived naturally.
DeleteHad the same experience. Have you tried HSSG? Was able to conceive again after 5 yrs from having ectopic with the help of meds (provera), HSSG (to flush out my remaining tube), controlling hypothyroid, and diet.
DeleteIsang mahigpit na yakap sis! Wla ako sa katayuan para mag advice sa’yo pero ang masasabi ko lng ipagdadasal kita sis. Ang Diyos lng ang may alam kung bakit delayed pa iyong hinihingi mo sa knya.
DeletePagpasensyahan mo na yung mga taong ganyan magsalita. They may not know better. Let's just educate them on how to be more sensitive para sa susunod they will think first before they spesk. I really hope things work out for you!
DeleteHug sis. Kapit lang and praying for you.
Delete1:58 It's not God. It's all up to our body sis. Let's not use God pagdating sa ganitong bagay because we need to consider those who weren't able to conceive. Ibig bang sabihin nun eh hindi hinayaan ng Diyos na magkaanak sila? Hindi di ba?
DeleteGod has nothing to do whether a woman conceives or not. It all depends on our body. I had a baby 13 years ago. Pero never na nasundan because of infection. Peritonitis to be exact. Sabi ng doctor, because of the strong medicines I will be taking, possible na hindi na ako mabuntis. My son was 3 that time kaya sa isip ko, okay lang kasi may anak naman na ako. But 3 years after I recover from it, I was hoping to have one last child pero wala na talaga no matter how my partner and I tried. I'm already 40 now so hindi na ako nag-eexpect.
ReplyDeleteI gave birth after 13 years at 40yo and again at 42.. keep trying!
DeleteI gave birth at 41 yrs old to my bunso. So possible pa at this age. But honestly i wont recommend the same thing unless siguro you have a strong family support system and there would be relatives who can help take care of them. How i wished someone told me honestly how hard it would be to have a young kid at this age. Walang nag “real talk” sakin. Ok lang naman daw magkaanak pa kami bec we can afford to have another one. Ang nakakalimutang important factor is our strength and mortality. Now im always worried for our kids esp the bunso, na what will happen to them when we are gone.
DeleteIto yung taong laging hindi pinagiisipan ang ginagawa at sinasabi. Laging failed, laging all about her. Tama nga sila, narcissistic ka. Edi ikaw na privileged, ante.
ReplyDeleteKla ata sya lng may kaya magpa 4D
DeleteBakit naman contradicting ang statements mo madam Kris. Your body is God-created while ang baby mo ikaw ang gumawa? Why everything should be all about you. Tsk
ReplyDeletepinagsasabi nitong he or she? nakalimutan ata nyang nagpa gender reveal at baby shower na sila in full pink pa sya hahahha oh well, pregnancy brain hahahaha
ReplyDeletesame sentiment when i first read it.. very insensitive for someone going through infertility
ReplyDeleteBakit may he or she about sa baby niya? Diba confirm na babae yung anak nila. Well pls enlighten me kasi di ko gets bakit meron he or she kung may gender na. Or baka may something?
ReplyDeleteShe's probably saving it for gender reveal party. Knowing her, di papahuli sa mga ganyang event yan.
Deleteshe already had her baby reveal with the blue and pink dinos. the pink won. she even had the baby shower already. remember her pink dress and ironically covering her "baby" with that big pink bow
DeleteTapos na sis ang gender reveal slash parang bday celeb nya..weeks ago p.
DeleteTapos na po ang grnder receal at shes having baby girl with all pink ootd pa sya nun
DeleteTo add salt to the wound, rubbing pa nga nya that she’s “privileged”. Usually, keber lang ako pag mag ganito, pero hindi talaga maganda dating nung construction ng sentence nya about dun. Kinda boastful sounding. For me lang naman
ReplyDeleteShe’s always like that pa humble brag…
Delete“I created for 9 months” haha sya lang pala gumawa ng baby nya. Bye hubby.
ReplyDeleteTrue! Di man lang sinali ang husband eh di naman nya yan mabubuo mag isa npaka “humble” tlga ng babaeng ito
DeleteUumm hindi lahat bg babae need mag conceive Ha Kris? Logic din ateng kung mag cocomment ng ganyan. Wag puros awra utak din.
ReplyDeleteTactless as it may be. She never said “shall” or “must” conceive. She said MAY conceive. Huwag masyadong sensitive. Inistress niyo sarili niyo.
ReplyDeletewhatever verb she uses we know nmn the essence of what she’s trying to say. Try to read it until the “privileged” part.
DeleteWag assuming. Walang na-stress dito. Tsismisan lang.
Delete11:04 bilang nagmagaling ka naman na sa grammar, look at the whole context na lang. What do you think she's trying to imply?
Delete5:44 ok ate kris noted on the verbs you used haha
Delete5:44, the modal verb is important, kasi andun mo malalaman kung ano gusto niya ipaintindi. Hindi niya sinabing "dapat", sinabi niya "maaari". She never said SHE is the only one "privileged". She was talking about what a privilege it is to be a woman not just herself but A woman. She is talking about isang malaking pribelihiyo ang maging isang babae dahil may kakayahan ang babae na magconceive. Intindihin mo mabuti, hindi emosyon agad pinapairal, o kung hindi emosyon, preconceived notion na taklesa siya kaya lahat ng sasabihin niya mali.
Delete11:04-nagaral ka ba? Whole context sinasabi mo? Siguro minadali mo pagbasa noh? Tapos nainis ka agad, kasi may whole context ka na? Dali mo kasi magjudge ng ibang tao kaya di mo iniintindi mabuti yung sinasabi niya. Ano tingin mo sa sarili mo? Perfect ka?
Hindi pa ba alam ang gender? Bakit he or she/ him or her?
ReplyDeleteAlam na, nag gender reveal na sila parang 2mos ago
DeleteYeah, been married for 20 yrs now. We gave up trying on our 10th and accepted God’s plan for us. So ngayong nabasa ko post nya, napaisip ako kung sino ba talaga ang may gawa sa akin.
ReplyDeleteSame thoughts here 4:51. This is why I don't think God has something to do with it because if we can thank God for having a baby, should we hate Him for not giving us one?
DeleteWhat she said was a fact. It is a medical fact. Baka kayo sensitive. What other women are going through does not change the fact that women were created talaga to bring life to this world. That was not an opinion, FACT yon.
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