ganyan kasi ang older generation, kapag kasal ka na ratatatatattaat ng tanong kung kelan ka mag-aanak, kung makatanong akala mo may ibibigay na ambag sa pagatas ng anak lols
Exactly and only pinoy ask the stupid question. Every time I go back to the Philippines for a visit, my annoying family keep asking stupid question of when I’m going to have a baby then there’s this line of uyyy tumaba ka. Kakabwisit!
AnonymousJune 28, 2023 at 6:28 AM anong only pinoy ka dyan. Dito ako sa Greece at 5 years na akong kasal at wala pang anak. Madalas ako matanong bakit wala pa kaming anak ng hubby ko. At mga Greeks ang palatanong at hindi kapwa Pinoy ko.
Una, kailan ka magkaka bf/gf? Sunod, kailan kayo mag aasawa? Wala ba kayong balak mag asawa? Sunod, kailan kayo mag aanak? Wala pa kayong balak mag anak? Bakit wala pa kayong baby? Sunod, kailan niyo susundan? Wala pa bang kasunod? Sundan na yan! Ganyan ang ugali ng nakararaming Pilipino lalo na mga boomers. Mga magulang natin at tito tita. Yung tipong ang sole purpose lang ng buhay mo eh mag asawa at mag anak.
pagtanda mo magiging ganyan ka rin. every generation becomes exactly like their parents. millennial po ako kaya huwag kang ano. but what the younger generation hates they would become when they grow older—in a different context nga lang. why I'm saying this, because few years from now yung iniisip mo na progressive ka that will change with the next generation, their definition will be different from ours. kaya huwag masyadong hard sa boomers, ha.
Yup, pero di lang naman boomers, even gen X and millenials mapagtanong nyan lalo na yung feeling nila one step ahead sila because may bf/husband/anak na sila. If you defend your choice, they would quote from the bible in an attempt to make you feel smaller than them 🙄 Then they end up borrowing money bec they can’t afford their life 😂. I love the look on their faces when I reject their ask.
Tas may kilala ako na 6 na anak kasi they kept on getting pregnant kasi natural birth control method lang sila due to religious reasons then mga tao naman stop na daw. Aware naman sila madami na sila anak but yun nga, religious reasons kaya di sila nag aartificial contraception. Di mo talaga ma please lahat.
Tinanong lang naman kung aattend ng MU sa El Salvador just like what former titleholders annually do ang dami nang kuda. May gusto ba patunayan si atih? Hahaha
Actually I think so. Baka nga may gusto siyang patunayan. Sa atin lang may prestige ang pageant girls. People from the west look down on pageant queens. Iba na din yung dynamics kapag kasal ka na kasi part ka na ng circle nung pinakasalan mo.
12:37 i think kailangan nya explain kung bakit di na sya masyado magiging active sa pageantry. Then nilatag nya reasons iba na yung direksyon nya at mga pagkakaabalahan nya. Wala na siya dapat patunayan for me. Asa kanya na lhat oh. Achieve sa career pati sa love- pogi, mabait, matalino, mayaman, most importantly mahal siya mahal nya at galing sa magandang angkan si hubby.
naku e2 nanamann ung haters ni pia.ig nya yan,natural mdami xa kuda,tinanung xa at di lang yang MU Elsalvador ang tanung sknya.magtaka ka kung nagkukuda xa sa ig ng ibang tao.
May point naman yung commenter… she could easily just replied “no, but I’m grateful for the invitation”. No need to discuss what her future plans since it wasn’t asked…lahat tayo may pagkamayabang in our own way, human nature na yan… in this case, she’s simple bragging about her future international collaborations and ganaps… but it’s okay… lahat tayo dumadaan sa simple bragging…and gusto may patunayan…hayaan na lang si atih
pero only in the philippines where the celebrities make patol sa lahat ng issues. they don't even have to answer that question. just disregard and let it die. minsan maraming celebrities lang talaga dito who wants to make an impression, whatever that is
715 hello, maski nga c Jennifer Aniston sinagot na nga bakit wala syang anak. 🙄 Bakit c Pia, hindi? Eh ang kulit pa nman nating Pinoy tapos ang dami pa at paulit ulit. Lol
Oh god. Check boundaries girl. That’s very personal. I hope di ka nagtatanong ng ganun. Di mo alam kung may problem sa pagaanak or ayaw magka anak ng isang babae or wala pa sa priority. And it’s not anyone’s business but the couple or just the woman’s (if single).
Its very intrusive. Not to mention there are couples facing infertility issues who want to keep it to themselves because it pains them to talk about it.
Loaded question kasi yun beks, intrusive din. Sa filipino culture kasi may expectation na women should have kids between early-mid twenties. Filipinas who are 27 and older na walang pamilya or prospects magkapartner are usually shunned and looked down upon. Usually when filipinos ask when a woman is gonna have kids may implication na matanda ka na, the clock is ticking. Also, hindi siya appropriate na topic sa small talk, kasi madaming scenarios when couples don't want any kids, o di kaya they have been trying but hindi sila magkaanak. Imagine asking someome who's had 8 miscarriages kung kailan sila magkakaanak. It's just ignorant and rude.
Ang bastos ng tanong na ganyan, why don't you get it? It's even taught in school as topics to avoid, along with health, finances and politics. Di kayo tinuruan? It's too personal and should never be asked. What if a couple is facing infertility issues or have other health challenges?
True. Kami 8 yrs of infertilty treatments. During that time, we avoided attending reunions, gatherings, parties kasi ang dami masyadong tanong at suggestions na intrusive at insensitive. Then nung nagkaanak naman, panay tanong kung ampon namin or we had a surrogate. Maloloka ka talaga.
Besh, isipin mo. Bakit ka makikialam sa matris at personal life plans ng ibang tao? Ikaw kelan ka magpapatayo ng bahay? Kelan ka magkaka 1 billion sa bank account mo? Ano'ng sabi ng doctor mo about your fertility? Bakit ka pinanganak, planned baby ka ba ng mga magulang mo or accident lang? Lels These are very personal and can be hard to answer for some people.
Sometimes naiisip ko na people should just start answering this question honestly and see kung paano magrereact yung taklesang nagtanong. Like, "may plano kami pero naka 8 miscarriages na ako" or "gusto ko pero infertile ako" I wonder kung paano magrereact yung nagtanong once they realize the weight of the question theyve just asked.
Ito naman kasing mga Mosang na ito kung makapagtanong akala mo naman trophy ang pagaasawa o pagaanak. Hindi siya achievement no. May mga babae na gusto ng ibang achievement. So unless bilyonaryo napangasawa mo at wala kayong prenuptial eh personal choice mo lang yan at di achievement.
Kasi they’re still stuck in their ways… old school thinking na dapat we should be privy to everyone’s personal business. What gain are we going to get by knowing their plans to have a family soon or not?
in the first place, malalaman ba ng public that they are being asked these questions? nope. these celebrities are the one bringing that question in public.
718 Pinoy ka ba tlaga? Hello, kamag anak mo nga at kapitbahay nagtatanong nyan. Kay Pia pa kaya na may faneys tlaga. Feeling close pa nman ang mga fans ngayon. 😂
Only in pinas yang gnyang questions. Or typical pinoys all over the world. Nung una sabi sakin 34 ka na kelan ka mag aasawa. Then d ka pa buntis? Wala pang laman tyan mo? Nung nagkaanak naman. Oh kelan mo susundan yan. Malungkot pag isa lang anak. Magbuntis ka na ulit babae naman! Like seriously kau ba bubuhay sa anak ko. La naman ambag sa buhay ko 🤦♀️. Nasa ibang bansa p ko nito ha. Pano nalang kung sa pinas ako.
I have been asked the same question from my family in pinas. If they only knew what I went through with my failed IVF and I was dying from the inside. The ignorance of most people in pinas is so heart wrenching.
Pia and most millenials doing the work for all of us. Still miss universing after all these years. #iconicPia Sana matigil na yang ganyang kitid na pag iisip for the next generation.
We live abroad and we went through fertility treatments, but its seems that we are now at the end of our journey. We are starting to accept that we cannot conceive.
Not one friend, co-worker, distant cousin, neighbor here asked us about having a baby. Literally none.
This is toxic Pinoy culture and it has no place in the modern world. Sana before makisawsaw, pag-isipan muna what if may pinagdaanan?
Kaya nga mas maganda manirahan jan. Dito mag attend lang ako ng party may magtatanong kung kelan or bakit ako walang asawa. So rude and intrusive. Tapos yung nagtanong either hiwalay sa asawa or hindi masaya sa buhay and I lead a better life than them. God, I hate people who think na ultimate goal ang asawa at anak.
If you get asked, just say, “oh you mean what are our plans?” Then share something not too personal. If they insist, just smile. If hindi pa rin huminto, just say, “oh you have to excuse me. i need to use the restroom” or maybe say, “let’s talk about you naman!” Tingnan mo kung hindi huminto pag sa kanila ang spotlight. Lol
Sa gatherings that question is usually used as an ice breaker. Even if you manage to produce an heir, they’d tell you, “sundan mo na!” Or, “girl naman!” Or “boy naman!” Lol It never stops, Pia. You can get creative and subtly make corrections being the beauty queen that you are :)
I understand that those are personal questions. But you also don't open Q&A on social media and be sort of pissed by the type of questions you get. It is different when out of the blue, people starts bugging you with those questions - but you opened your IG for questions, so you should know what you're getting into.
8:03 tao kasi makikitid ang utak, eh kubg desisyin nila na wag muna mag anak o Di mag anak anung problema dun. Juice ko over populated na ang mundo, maaawa naman kayo s future ng mga next gen
8:03 gurl, super dami pong nagtatanong and nangengealam kay pia about her marriage and family plan. D2 pa lang nga lang sa FP na filtered ang mga comments ang dami n nagsasabi na sana magbaby n raw agad sila dhil sayang ang lahi, ang legacy, etc. Whats more pa kaya sa social medias na super daming nangengealam. Buti nga hndi bitter or hurt ang sagot ni pia eh.
Bakit kasi ganyan mga Pinoy lalo matatanda. Nagpunta ako sa church last Sunday church pa yon ha marami isang older lady na after malaman na wala akong anak sandamakmak na unsolicited advice na binigay sa akin. Pakialamero at paladesisyon tayong mga Pinoy sa buhay ng iba sakit na yata nila yon.
ANG GWAAAAAAPO NI HUBBY! and she is right! she can have a kid when she's freaaaaaking ready. 2023 ang dami pa ding 1900s ang mindset.
ReplyDeleteThe fans are just excited to see Pia move forward in life with Jeremy. Hindi sila namimilit.
Deleteganyan kasi ang older generation, kapag kasal ka na ratatatatattaat ng tanong kung kelan ka mag-aanak, kung makatanong akala mo may ibibigay na ambag sa pagatas ng anak lols
Deletei dont know but iba talaga pag dark and pinoy. d ko lang talaga type ang foreigner.
DeleteI get hurt when im being asked with these questions. It's a sensitive topics. I never asked anyone about this, im so careful. Stu**$ people.
ReplyDeleteExactly and only pinoy ask the stupid question. Every time I go back to the Philippines for a visit, my annoying family keep asking stupid question of when I’m going to have a baby then there’s this line of uyyy tumaba ka. Kakabwisit!
DeleteAnonymousJune 28, 2023 at 6:28 AM anong only pinoy ka dyan. Dito ako sa Greece at 5 years na akong kasal at wala pang anak. Madalas ako matanong bakit wala pa kaming anak ng hubby ko. At mga Greeks ang palatanong at hindi kapwa Pinoy ko.
DeleteYes. These questions are kind of a universal thingy. It's just that Pinoys are more aggressive in asking haha.
DeleteUna, kailan ka magkaka bf/gf? Sunod, kailan kayo mag aasawa? Wala ba kayong balak mag asawa? Sunod, kailan kayo mag aanak? Wala pa kayong balak mag anak? Bakit wala pa kayong baby? Sunod, kailan niyo susundan? Wala pa bang kasunod? Sundan na yan! Ganyan ang ugali ng nakararaming Pilipino lalo na mga boomers. Mga magulang natin at tito tita. Yung tipong ang sole purpose lang ng buhay mo eh mag asawa at mag anak.
ReplyDeleteTapos pag may adult ka nang anak na wala pang asawa at anak, parang loser ka dahil wala ka pang apo.
Delete1:22 umabot na pala sa apo ngayon. Dati kailan yan susundan lang. Hahaha.
DeleteMay kasunod pa na may expiration ang babae kaya dapat maganak ka na.
Deletepagtanda mo magiging ganyan ka rin. every generation becomes exactly like their parents. millennial po ako kaya huwag kang ano. but what the younger generation hates they would become when they grow older—in a different context nga lang. why I'm saying this, because few years from now yung iniisip mo na progressive ka that will change with the next generation, their definition will be different from ours. kaya huwag masyadong hard sa boomers, ha.
DeleteYup, pero di lang naman boomers, even gen X and millenials mapagtanong nyan lalo na yung feeling nila one step ahead sila because may bf/husband/anak na sila. If you defend your choice, they would quote from the bible in an attempt to make you feel smaller than them 🙄 Then they end up borrowing money bec they can’t afford their life 😂. I love the look on their faces when I reject their ask.
DeleteTapos kung wala pa gf/bf, ay baka tomboy/ bakla yan.
DeleteNever ending cycle of people's lives just revolving around having children...so crazy! Like there's nothing else worth pursuing.
DeleteTas may kilala ako na 6 na anak kasi they kept on getting pregnant kasi natural birth control method lang sila due to religious reasons then mga tao naman stop na daw. Aware naman sila madami na sila anak but yun nga, religious reasons kaya di sila nag aartificial contraception. Di mo talaga ma please lahat.
DeleteTinanong lang naman kung aattend ng MU sa El Salvador just like what former titleholders annually do ang dami nang kuda. May gusto ba patunayan si atih? Hahaha
ReplyDeleteshe just explained kung bakit hindi na dapat tanungin if invited ba sya or pupunta sya sa MU, read mo ulit
Delete12:37, normal lang din naman yung sagot nya.
DeleteIkaw ata ang may gustong patunayan atih.
DeleteActually I think so. Baka nga may gusto siyang patunayan. Sa atin lang may prestige ang pageant girls. People from the west look down on pageant queens. Iba na din yung dynamics kapag kasal ka na kasi part ka na ng circle nung pinakasalan mo.
Deletemarami lang syang gustong gawin.
Delete12:37 i think kailangan nya explain kung bakit di na sya masyado magiging active sa pageantry. Then nilatag nya reasons iba na yung direksyon nya at mga pagkakaabalahan nya. Wala na siya dapat patunayan for me. Asa kanya na lhat oh. Achieve sa career pati sa love- pogi, mabait, matalino, mayaman, most importantly mahal siya mahal nya at galing sa magandang angkan si hubby.
Deletenaku e2 nanamann ung haters ni pia.ig nya yan,natural mdami xa kuda,tinanung xa at di lang yang MU Elsalvador ang tanung sknya.magtaka ka kung nagkukuda xa sa ig ng ibang tao.
DeleteAww bitter ka
DeleteMay point naman yung commenter… she could easily just replied “no, but I’m grateful for the invitation”. No need to discuss what her future plans since it wasn’t asked…lahat tayo may pagkamayabang in our own way, human nature na yan… in this case, she’s simple bragging about her future international collaborations and ganaps… but it’s okay… lahat tayo dumadaan sa simple bragging…and gusto may patunayan…hayaan na lang si atih
DeleteOnly in Pinas! Mga marites talaga walang alam sa boundaries. Mga pakialamera!
ReplyDeletepero only in the philippines where the celebrities make patol sa lahat ng issues. they don't even have to answer that question. just disregard and let it die. minsan maraming celebrities lang talaga dito who wants to make an impression, whatever that is
Delete715 hello, maski nga c Jennifer Aniston sinagot na nga bakit wala syang anak. 🙄 Bakit c Pia, hindi? Eh ang kulit pa nman nating Pinoy tapos ang dami pa at paulit ulit. Lol
DeleteAno po yung masama sa tanong? Di ko talaga gets haha mas inapproriate pa nga sakin yung “jowa mo?” na tanong.
ReplyDeleteit’s really offending. you don’t really know what the couples going through so better don’t ask the question. wait until they willing to share
Delete12:48 "Jowa mo?" yan ba tanong sayo. baka kasi it's either panget ang jowa mo or ikaw ang panget. Hahahahahaha
DeleteOh god. Check boundaries girl. That’s very personal. I hope di ka nagtatanong ng ganun. Di mo alam kung may problem sa pagaanak or ayaw magka anak ng isang babae or wala pa sa priority. And it’s not anyone’s business but the couple or just the woman’s (if single).
Deletegirl, imagine kung may isa sa kanila na fertility issue.
DeleteIts very intrusive. Not to mention there are couples facing infertility issues who want to keep it to themselves because it pains them to talk about it.
Deleteits basically none of your business so why ask? what if the person is having a hard time conceiving a baby?
DeleteLoaded question kasi yun beks, intrusive din. Sa filipino culture kasi may expectation na women should have kids between early-mid twenties. Filipinas who are 27 and older na walang pamilya or prospects magkapartner are usually shunned and looked down upon. Usually when filipinos ask when a woman is gonna have kids may implication na matanda ka na, the clock is ticking. Also, hindi siya appropriate na topic sa small talk, kasi madaming scenarios when couples don't want any kids, o di kaya they have been trying but hindi sila magkaanak. Imagine asking someome who's had 8 miscarriages kung kailan sila magkakaanak. It's just ignorant and rude.
DeleteMasama siya kasi it is PERSONAL. It has nothing to do with you. It is none of your business to mind about.
DeleteHindi ko rin gets kung bakit kailangan pang usisain ang sagot. Kasama ba sila sa kama at plano ng pamilya? Matres ba nila ang magdadala?
Delete4:05 then huwag sagutin if it's intrusive.
DeleteAng bastos ng tanong na ganyan, why don't you get it? It's even taught in school as topics to avoid, along with health, finances and politics. Di kayo tinuruan? It's too personal and should never be asked. What if a couple is facing infertility issues or have other health challenges?
DeleteIt’s a personal question parang tinatanong ka na rin about sex life mo. Kakainis
DeleteUm it’s very perosnal and tactless
DeleteTrue. Kami 8 yrs of infertilty treatments. During that time, we avoided attending reunions, gatherings, parties kasi ang dami masyadong tanong at suggestions na intrusive at insensitive. Then nung nagkaanak naman, panay tanong kung ampon namin or we had a surrogate. Maloloka ka talaga.
DeleteBesh, isipin mo. Bakit ka makikialam sa matris at personal life plans ng ibang tao? Ikaw kelan ka magpapatayo ng bahay? Kelan ka magkaka 1 billion sa bank account mo? Ano'ng sabi ng doctor mo about your fertility? Bakit ka pinanganak, planned baby ka ba ng mga magulang mo or accident lang? Lels These are very personal and can be hard to answer for some people.
Delete7:16 how about not asking it in the first place? Kunsabagay, why do other people want to know kung kailan gusto mag anak ng ibang tao? Curious lang?
DeleteSometimes naiisip ko na people should just start answering this question honestly and see kung paano magrereact yung taklesang nagtanong. Like, "may plano kami pero naka 8 miscarriages na ako" or "gusto ko pero infertile ako" I wonder kung paano magrereact yung nagtanong once they realize the weight of the question theyve just asked.
Delete1:52 PM kahit na sabihin mo pa yan sasabihin lang sayo "baka after 8 miscarriages IM SURE makakabuo din" as if ang dali dali lang sakanila noh?
DeleteIto naman kasing mga Mosang na ito kung makapagtanong akala mo naman trophy ang pagaasawa o pagaanak. Hindi siya achievement no. May mga babae na gusto ng ibang achievement. So unless bilyonaryo napangasawa mo at wala kayong prenuptial eh personal choice mo lang yan at di achievement.
ReplyDeleteAgain, toxic Asian culture kasi. Tanong ng tanong ng mga personal na tanong. Too insensitive. Kakakasal lang nila. Let them enjoy each other muna
ReplyDeleteif I know ganyan ka rin. yang mga holier than thou mag-lecture na mga katulad ninyo eh reeks in hypocrisy.
Delete7:17 Siguro natamaan ka. Hahaha wag kasi pala desisyon.
Delete7:17 sorry to burst your bubble but I’m not like that 😏 hindi ako katulad mo. Lecturan kta, know your boundaries ateng.
DeleteKasi they’re still stuck in their ways… old school thinking na dapat we should be privy to everyone’s personal business. What gain are we going to get by knowing their plans to have a family soon or not?
ReplyDeletein the first place, malalaman ba ng public that they are being asked these questions? nope. these celebrities are the one bringing that question in public.
Delete718 Pinoy ka ba tlaga? Hello, kamag anak mo nga at kapitbahay nagtatanong nyan. Kay Pia pa kaya na may faneys tlaga. Feeling close pa nman ang mga fans ngayon. 😂
DeleteOnly in pinas yang gnyang questions. Or typical pinoys all over the world. Nung una sabi sakin 34 ka na kelan ka mag aasawa. Then d ka pa buntis? Wala pang laman tyan mo? Nung nagkaanak naman. Oh kelan mo susundan yan. Malungkot pag isa lang anak. Magbuntis ka na ulit babae naman! Like seriously kau ba bubuhay sa anak ko. La naman ambag sa buhay ko 🤦♀️. Nasa ibang bansa p ko nito ha. Pano nalang kung sa pinas ako.
ReplyDeleteI have been asked the same question from my family in pinas. If they only knew what I went through with my failed IVF and I was dying from the inside. The ignorance of most people in pinas is so heart wrenching.
ReplyDeleteNakakainis talaga! Pati mga “friends” mong minsan mo lang makita yun ang bungad sayo. Nakakawalang gana
ReplyDeletePia and most millenials doing the work for all of us. Still miss universing after all these years. #iconicPia Sana matigil na yang ganyang kitid na pag iisip for the next generation.
ReplyDeleteIt's so weird to ask people about getting pregnant. It's basically asking them, when are you gonna have s** unprotected??
ReplyDeleteVery uneducated talga for me yung iniinsist na “ Uy mag anak kana pra may legacy” Yuck! very squammy at slapsoil mgs ganung tao. Paladesisyon.
ReplyDeleteWe live abroad and we went through fertility treatments, but its seems that we are now at the end of our journey. We are starting to accept that we cannot conceive.
ReplyDeleteNot one friend, co-worker, distant cousin, neighbor here asked us about having a baby. Literally none.
This is toxic Pinoy culture and it has no place in the modern world. Sana before makisawsaw, pag-isipan muna what if may pinagdaanan?
Good on Pia for calling this out!
Kaya nga mas maganda manirahan jan. Dito mag attend lang ako ng party may magtatanong kung kelan or bakit ako walang asawa. So rude and intrusive. Tapos yung nagtanong either hiwalay sa asawa or hindi masaya sa buhay and I lead a better life than them. God, I hate people who think na ultimate goal ang asawa at anak.
Deletetoxic Pinoy trait talaga ung ganyan, wala sanang pakialamanan ng matris
ReplyDeleteIf you get asked, just say, “oh you mean what are our plans?” Then share something not too personal. If they insist, just smile. If hindi pa rin huminto, just say, “oh you have to excuse me. i need to use the restroom” or maybe say, “let’s talk about you naman!” Tingnan mo kung hindi huminto pag sa kanila ang spotlight. Lol
ReplyDeleteSa gatherings that question is usually used as an ice breaker. Even if you manage to produce an heir, they’d tell you, “sundan mo na!” Or, “girl naman!” Or “boy naman!” Lol It never stops, Pia. You can get creative and subtly make corrections being the beauty queen that you are :)
I understand that those are personal questions. But you also don't open Q&A on social media and be sort of pissed by the type of questions you get. It is different when out of the blue, people starts bugging you with those questions - but you opened your IG for questions, so you should know what you're getting into.
ReplyDeletepeople have to learn their boundaries. 🙄
Delete8:03 tao kasi makikitid ang utak, eh kubg desisyin nila na wag muna mag anak o Di mag anak anung problema dun. Juice ko over populated na ang mundo, maaawa naman kayo s future ng mga next gen
Delete8:03 gurl, super dami pong nagtatanong and nangengealam kay pia about her marriage and family plan. D2 pa lang nga lang sa FP na filtered ang mga comments ang dami n nagsasabi na sana magbaby n raw agad sila dhil sayang ang lahi, ang legacy, etc. Whats more pa kaya sa social medias na super daming nangengealam. Buti nga hndi bitter or hurt ang sagot ni pia eh.
DeleteBakit kasi ganyan mga Pinoy lalo matatanda. Nagpunta ako sa church last Sunday church pa yon ha marami isang older lady na after malaman na wala akong anak sandamakmak na unsolicited advice na binigay sa akin. Pakialamero at paladesisyon tayong mga Pinoy sa buhay ng iba sakit na yata nila yon.
ReplyDelete