12:31 Poor people don’t have a monopoly on hardships and struggles. Things may be harder for you because of your lack of financial resources, but it doesn’t erase the fact that other people have struggles as well just because you can’t relate to them. Unfortunately for you, not only are you poor, but you also live a miserable life and still have time to invalidate the experiences of other people you have never lived a day as.
I wish more people could understand that depression is a biological insufficiency in producing certain neurotransmitters that allow us to function healthily. If everyone could just “look at the bright side” as a solution for depression then it wouldn’t even be an issue or condition.
His wealth enables him to have the resources he needs to treat his mental health and allows him more freedom to take care of himself, but depression does not care whether you are wealthy or poor. If rich people were so lucky, then they wouldn’t have depression either but depression doesn’t care. You could have the most severe depression of your life and it will not care how much money you have in the bank. So to the people who invalidate their experiences, do you think when these people are so depressed they’re unable to function and they’re thinking of taking their own life, their money in the bank is going to magically cure their depression and they could pay to just not have it? Stop thinking from a poor person’s mindset and be more empathetic. Stop invalidating other people’s struggles and competing in a “whose life is worse” contest that nobody even signed up for.
Jusko Michael palitan tayo. Ako na lang mayaman tas sadboi. Ikaw yung middle class na di pwedeng magkasakit o mawalan ng trabaho kasi kelangan kumita. Dapat sa ganito ineexpose sa realidad ng buhay.
Rich people are more prone to depression due to the fact that they can’t buy happiness. They have all the material wealth but still empty inside and they dont know what else can make them happy
wala naman pinipili ang depression. you can see a successful person in the outside yet that person could have struggles internally. ilang artista na ba ang nag suicide due to depression? kaloka comment mo Anon 12:31 and Anon 2:28, sino kayo para invalidate yung feelings nya?
Siguro lifestyle nila, masyadong pinakataas taas ni Jinky status nila because they have money. Para ngang sheltered ang mga anak nila, parang di alam paano mabuhay in real world. Mukhang hirap din sa career,daming pwedeng pag-aralan may money naman sila magdoctor, abugado, chef, etc.
2:28 AM iba ang pananaw mo sa kanya. Ikaw yata ang wala sa realidad na iba iba tayo. Ever wondered bakit madaming nagpapakamatay na mayayaman at successful in life? Di mo alam kasi di naman ikaw sila kaya wag kang magmarunong jan!!
@Kaylin Thank you. Sana lahat ng tao maintindihan what depression is and have more empathy. I lost my husband because of this disorder. Walang pinipili ang depression. Mayaman ka man o mahirap.
12:31 parehas lang nagkakaroon ng problema ang mga mayaman at mahirap. Sobrang bitter mo sa youngster na wala namang ginagawang masama sayo. Your life must be so sad.
12:31 and 2:28 dahil dukha kayo, huwag nyong akoin lahat nG miseries sa mundo. Mga mayayaman nagkakaroon din ng depression. Anthony Bourdain and Robin William were famous , established and rich but they suffered depression and committed S. Wag nyo iinvalidate and feelings ng iba .
Please dont invalidate hs feelings kesyo mayaman. Alam mo bang lahat ng tao may kanya kanyang kahinaan? Mayaman man o mahirap? Ang mahirap sayo pwedeng hindi mahirap para sa kanila at ang mahirap sa kanila pwedeng kayang kaya mo. Nakakainis mga tulad mong tao12:31
Gasgas na yan accla. Money CAN buy you happiness. Sa mga depressed people na may pera may mga resources sila to get help pero ang mga mahirap na depressed ay wala. Parehas nagkakaron ng problema ang rich and poor people,pero walang advabtage na parehas ang problemang hinaharqp mo tapos mahirap ka.
Depende parin sa kung anong klaseng problema meron ka like kung connected yan sa pera at maso-solve ng pera katulad ng pinapalayas na kayo sa nirerentahan nyong bahay tapos wala kayong malipatan o kaya malubhang sakit na nagagamot naman kaso wala kang pangpaospital, eh di syempre money can buy you happiness. Yung mga problema sa pamilya at mga kaso na naabuso sila, hindi maso-solve ng pera yan.
515 true. Kaya nga karamihan sa mga mahihirap maski depress pero may work eh kinakaya nlang ang araw araw kasi walang choice. Karamihan kasi sa mayayaman gaya nila mula pagkabata hindi na alam ang struggle sa buhay. As in lahat madali. Ano ba gagawin ng mga yan aside from traveling eh nakakaburyong din nman kapag nasa isang country ka. Lol
5:15 but that's the problem eh, it's not about money or having the means to buy things you want or getting the help you need. Wealthy people are in a different level of unhappiness na 'di pa narereach ng mga taong walang kaya. Go look over Maslow's hierarchy of needs for you to see that success/problems doesn't stop at having enough money
I feel him. But at the end of the day, you have generational wealth oh dear. Laban lang! Look at the bright side.
Share ko lang, imagine us also being depressed at the same time eh we have to work our as* off for our family and ourselves. Imagine living paycheck to paycheck, bills, rent, hospitals, medicines, school etc., sa true lang tayo….. mauuna muna yan bago isipin yung sarili natin, lalong nakakapanlumo :(
Don't minimize his problems. Your economic status does not make your suffering more valid than his. We all have struggles and you won't know his until you've walked in his shoes -albeit expensive shoes :)
Just imagine the pressures that his name and generational wealth bring. He might feel like he wants to have an identity of his own and live a normal life but don't know how to. Be kind.
Behhh mas gusto ko pa yung busy!! Para walang time mag overthink. Usually yan kasi problem ng mga rich kids. Walang magawa sa buhay kaya ayan daming time mag overthink. Blessing in disguise na din kapag busy ka sa trabaho noh. Be thankful ka nalang
Wag pong ewan. It's called a disorder for a reason. hindi nila choice maging depressed. Their brain function that takes care of happy stuff is compromised. Pag depressed, it doesnt mean they dont see or appreciate the bright side. They do but it doesnt give them good feelings. Imagine being happy pero hindi mo mafeel yung kilig or burst of joy that you normally feel sa dibdib mo. Heaviness and hollowness sa dibdib usually nafifeel nila all day, as in all day. It's not their fault, and it's very difficult to pull themselves out of it each day. Effort yang mga yan teh, araw araw. Shut up.
Toxic positivity yarn. You make it look like hindi sya lumalaban. Most people depressed got their kasi they've been "laban ng laban" lang for a long time. Nagbreak down na yung katawan nila kasi laging fight time all the time, they are now malfunctioning.
So porke mayaman sya people cant have empathy for him na? Depression can cause people to really take their lives what's saddest is having everything and feeling like nothing's worth living for. That is worse than living paycheck to paycheck but masaya naman.
1:01 di mo kailangan icompare mahirap o mayaman. Lahat may pinagdadaanan. Kung ang mg ulam ng tuyo kanyang kaya mo, ang mayaman hindi. Porket living paycheck to paycheck kayo lang pwede maging malungkot.
People who invalidate the experiences of other people who are more financially capable in life are the same people who say, “Don’t use the sight of kahirapan to teach the middle class or upper class to be grateful”, yet so many of these comments are berating this kid’s struggles with depression with their stories of how much harder their life is because they’re poor and they have depression, and you’re telling the kid to “look on the bright side and be grateful because other people have it worse” like HUH?!??
Pero ironically, mas madaming depressed na nakakaangat sa buhay. Mga mahihirap kasi, kayod ng kayod. Pag-uwi sa bahay, tulog kasi pagod. May diversion kasi at may outlet na totoong sumasalamin sa ordinaryong buhay. Nakikisalamuha sa mas madaming tao araw araw. Mantakin mong sumusuong sa pila ng dyip at tren para pumasok sa trabaho. Wala masyadong pinagkucompare-an ng sarili kundi kawangis din nilang simple lang ang buhay. Walang time para isiping mahina sila.
1:27 Ang point niya is pano kung may depression ka tapos wala ka pang pera? Ang iiisipin mo siyempre mag hanap buhay muna kesa isipin ang mental health problem mo. Uunahin muna ang gutom kesa sa mental health. Sometimes you just can’t help but compare. Yes it’s not his problem kung rich siya pero at least he can afford to talk to the therapist or take antidepressants because he’s rich. And at the end of the day hindi niya poproblemahin kung ano ang uulamin bukas. Gets mo?
Dapat dito sa mga nagcocomment mag reasearch about depression. Mental health po yan. It's not about how rich or poor you are. May work ka man o wala. Old or young. Haist
Jusko kayo! Everyone’s feeling is valid! Ke mayaman or mahirap! Bat parang kasalanan ng bata na naging mahirap na depressed kayo? Hahaha. Grabe mga utak ang pupurol
dibaaaa. super entitled ang mga tao na yan. edi kayo na strong. jusko what rights do we have to tell another person if what they're feeling is real/true or not? ikaw ba siya? pinagdadaanan niyo ba yan? nakakagigil mga know-it-all dito.
actually hindi lang pagsakay sa public transport, basta anything na may alone and quite time ka, makakapag isip isip ka. For me while naghuhugas ng pinggan, naliligo, nagddrive, dyan bigla na lang nagiisip isip ng kung ano man.
jusko ko mga ibang comment dito mga walang empathy. ang mga mahihirap lang daw may karapatang magka- depression. shunga lang. depression is a mental disease walang pinipiling tao mayaman ka man or mahirap. even children can have it.
Maybe in the future di ma sustain ang billionaire status for for sure millionaire parin sila, if taga gensan ka ang dami nilang negosyo at properties dito kahit dito na sila tumira isa sila sa richest dito
Pacquiao should hire an excellent business advisor. He should try mass production or invest in natural resources dahil dun talaga maraming pera. I saw na may pacquaio coffee sya dun sa Running Man episode pero the public don't know about it. Dapat nuon pa yan ginawa nung kasikatan nya sa boxing at ipromote ng todo, strike while the iron is hot ika nga pero bat hanggang ngayon, ni commercial wala parin yang pacquaio coffee? With his celebrity status, solid sana na negosyo yan kesa sa isang grocery lang, unless maging nationwide chain yang grocery.
LMAO! Anong 3Billion pesos? Masyado mo namang minamaliit ang yaman ni Pacquiao eh yung bahay na lang nya sa Forbes 1B pesos nya nabili years ago yun. Libre namang mag google, Pacquiao's estimated earnings in his boxing career ay umabot ng 500-600 million DOLLARS. His match with Mayweather alone eh 130M DOLLARS na nakuha nya dun, hindi pa kasali ang pay per view. Pacquiao is probably the most generous celebrity because half of those earnings, he gave to charities but still doesn't make him poor. His wealth is still hundreds of millions of DOLLARS.
Dude, you must hate pacquiao so much if you think his wealth is only 3 billion PESOS. LOL! Kulang pa yan para sa lahat ng bahay including the one in Forbes park na billion pesos ang halaga.
His boxing match with Mayweather alone earned him 130million DOLLARS.
True yan nung wala ako work lahat na lang napapansin and big deal sa kin. Nung balik work na realize ko may mas bigger deal pa sa mga first world problems ko. These nepo babies have no grasp of the real world na. Lumaki sa gated village, friends with other nepo babies. Sa sobrang daming pera wala nang contentment.
meh not a good point. depression is depression, imo i guess it just how you handle it and how much it is affecting you. kung wala kang time ma-depress dahil madami kang pinoproblema, i think that's just denying the fact na you're not depressed. once you're not that busy, ano na lang natira sayo? problems and depression.
11:23 karamihan sa poor people kasi they accept their reality na life is hard, sure may problema sila pero bihira sa kanila ang magpapalamon nalang sa kalungkutan kasi life goes on, sa little things nakukuha nilang maging happy and nakakahanap talaga sila source ng happiness kahit ganon sitwasyon nila. Rich people kasi ang dami nilang time mag isip at lagi nilang iniisip kung ano ang wala sa kanila at yun ang nagpapalungkot sa kanila.it's not denying na depress ka it's accepting na life is hard, life is unfair, hindi umiikot ang mundo sayo kaya laban lang sa buhay palagi.
@11:23 When the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
People nowadays, especially the so-called nepo babies who don't have real life skills, have become so 'soft'. Those people who've had it hard in life since the onset, they're subjected to character-building early on.
Sa showbiz palang eh, sino ung mga nag-thrive ngayon? Ung mga dumaan sa butas ng karayom, ung mga nag-umpisa sa ilalim, ung mga walang connections, etc. Ung mga nepo babies na kahit anak pa ng mega/ultra/intergalactic star, hindi na nila alam i-market mga sarili nila.
Money can’t buy happiness talaga. Siguro he got rejected, he may lose something/someone, marami siyang problema at wala masabihan or no reason at all. Sometimes you gotta question yourself why, yun ang sisira ng mentalidad ng tao. Kaya importante na may nasasabihan ng problema
Valid naman kesyo mahirap or may kaya, pag tinamaan ng depression, difficult to battle. Pero aminin natin, better to be depressed ng may panggastos kesa nalulunod ka sa ganyan pero dagdag sa ibang problema like anong kakainin, pambayad sa utang etc.
you just can't say na okay lang ma-depress kasi may panggastos. sobrang kitid ng pag-iisip na yan. it just shows how ignorant you are when it comes to this kind of issue
Ang ewan ng iba dito. Nagcocomment wala naman alam sa depression. Maraming pwede makacause ng depression. It's primarily a chemical imbalance, minsan walang control yung tao lalo na wala syang alam sa mga gantong bagay. Pwede rin triggered by trauma kaya naiimbalance. Pansin nyo ba may mass depression and anxiety the past 2-3 years? Sudden and drastic life changes is a form of trauma. Kaya nung biglang change lifestyle tayong lahat, naimbalance yung brain function natin. Wag po tayong aanga anga maka minimize sa suffering ng ibang tao. Kahit di ka doctor madaling mag google to educate yourself on the matter.
I don’t understand why you have to compare your feelings to him just because he’s rich and you’re not. Don’t lecture him! This is his own battle at wala kayong karapatang isingit yang sarili niyo sa buhay at issue niya.
Oh wow the comments here are so uneducated. Do you mean to say if you're wealthy, then you have no right to say you're depressed? For all I know, you're also the ones saying money can't buy happiness yet here you are being so ironic with your statements about this being RK problems 🙄 yan rason kaya walang asenso sa buhay nyo, you only see your own issues and think other people are making a big deal out of their own issues.
Parents,spend so much time with your children. Sa akin lang ha,kakulangan sa.atensyon ng magulang para sa mga bata ang pinag uugatan ng lahat. Instead if scrolling your cp,makipaglaro kayo sa mga anak nyo,hug them always,talk to them always. Dahil kapag kinalakihan nila ang sistemang binabalewala nyo mga anak nyo,dyan na magkakaroon ng emotional problem ang mga yan
WOW the comments!! I can really say that some of the people here are pure a-hole. When will you guys ever learn that depression is a mental disorder??? Do you guys honestly think na ginusto nya maging ganyan? Walang taong gustong maging malungkot ng walang dahilan. I hope this won’t happen to you guys. Literally SMFH.
I think one of the reasons is lack of attention/ time with parents. He said he felt so alone. Daming ganap sa buhay ng parents hindi na matutukan ang mga anak. Parents dapat una makapansin na may something sa anak pero di na napansin sa dami ng ginagawa
A child of famous personality (with a lot of achievements) living under shadow their parent shadow's has cons. Society can be cruel dahil they have the privileges and tend to compare them to their parents. Or judges them. I just hope he found peace and self worth.
Nasa kanya yun how he chose to see himself. Either as a victim trapped in his parents shadow with nowhere to go?! Or someone who got lucky in the birth lottery and actually uses his privileges to pursue his passions and be thankful everyday on his charmed life
1:12 libre naman i-google ang depression. kung mentality lang din ang answer the depression, sana pala ganun na lang din kadali labanan ang ibang sakit. may sakit ka, sabihin mo "kaya yan, laban lang" "wag mong isipin yan" "look at the bright side". lahat siguro ng sakit gagaling agad pag nasabihan ng ganyan
My pre-teen son sometimes say things that worry us (na he might hurt himself). My husband and I honestly dont know why bec we are close to our kids and they have a much better life. Maybe they have a low adversity quotient. One advantage of those in the low and middle class families (like me growing up) is that you become stronger bec of the hardships encountered at a young age pa lang. It has been said na depression is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain, so possible na when the brain is focused on a lot of things such as work, household chores, putting food on the table, lack of money, etc, then the brain is busy and becomes balanced. Also many factors lead to depression. And money and fame dont buy happiness. So even some famous rich people died by suicide or drug overdose.
The stigma of Filipino people about mental health is dominating on this thread.
Kung comparing lang naman, rich people have more tendency to be depressed because they already have everything and they can’t find purpose of their existence anymore. Unlike mga mahihirap na they are thriving para maabot yung mga bagay na wala pa sila.
But really, anyone can be depressed lalo na sa panahon ngayon when perfection is being rubbed on your face through social media.
Depression is an illness, at wala namam pinipili yan mahirap o mayaman. Also, nasa chromosomes rin, like habang bata nag dedevelop yun brain so hanggat maari healthy lifestyle, walang severe stress, trauma para ma fully develop yung part ng brain na nakaka affect sa e.q.
Baka maraming mag bash pero kahit gaano kayaman, it's not okay na mag anak ng marami. Hindi lang pera yung bubuhay sa anak, kasi yung pera kaya yan kitain once lumaki na. Pero yung gabay ng magulang, walang kapalit yun. Nakakaawa kasi ang dami pa din sa pinas na mararami kung mag anak.
Malaking bagay talaga yung support system, kaya mga classmates always check on your loved ones. Yung simpleng kamusta lang & tell them na you're just one call/ text away. Or kahit sa mga co workers & nakapaligid sa aten, be nice kase di natin talaga alam yung battles nila.
Yung parents galing sa hirap yung tatay ilang years nag papasuntok sa ulo bago yumaman pero yung next generation feeling lost and walang direksyon ang buhay agad. Was he too young to remember nung galing pa sila sa hirap? Too bad pacqiao’s son dont know how to be grateful and content anymore. No responsibilities no goal in life too much time in his hands kung ano anong problema tuloy naiisip
Ou nga naman naranasan naman nya yung hirap as in hirap talaga pero bakit nga ba diba? nasobrahan na yata sa yaman... daming pwede nyang gawin maximize ang make his own diba?
I don't know if I will be depressed with a lot of money, God loving, and supportive parents. I would ask them that I go study abroad, live on my own, and use their connections to help people. Hay it's mentality rin talaga. 😌
Between him and the older brother, he's the smart one. Narerepresent pa nya school nya sa mga quiz bee contest nuon. Sana i-pursue nya ang higher learning kasi he can still do music naman on the side.
Valid naman siguro yung kay Michael, pero yung iba ngayon, nagseself diagnosis na may depression sila.
And not defending naman yung nagsasabing mas mahirap magkaganyan sa mga mahihirap, I feel you. Yes, di naman iniinvalidate ang depression, pero mas focused kumbaga sa pagtreat ng condition ang mayayaman dahil wala silang iintindihin na "depressed ako and sobrang down, pero di ako pwede lumiban sa trabaho," or "depressed ako and kailangan ko ng medical expert para suriin ako pero wag na kasi nakakaguilty na sa akin pa mapupunta yung pambayad sa upa ng bahay."
And then you wonder why so many successful people commit suicide because of depression. Akala kasi natin, just because they have money, fame, beauty, etc. wala na silang problema o wala na silang karapatang mamroblema o malungkot. We question and invalidate their feelings immediately kapag sinabi nilang depressed sila and try to compare ourselves to them. This is why they feel alone. No one actually listens to them nor acknowledge their feelings. Tapos kapag may nabalitang nagpakamatay, magtataka kayo kung bakit when you are also part of the problem.
Walang mayaman, mahirap sa depression. It is a mental health problem, di yan namimili. Nakakalungkot lang na equated ang pera sa happiness. Yes, it can buy you things, take you to places, pero yung stability ng mental health ng tao, di lang dun masusukat sa yaman o sa comfort na dala ng pera. Eto yung literal na money cannot buy happiness.
This is the sad part: It's tough to have depression and be rich. Coz NO one believes you. & if they do, they just don't care enough. It can be really lonely.
Poor or rich, it doesn't matter. Depression is depression. Bakit kailangan pang may boundaries? It's like ppl's skin color, no matter what they're still human.
rich or poor same lang na may mga insecurities dba nga he got bullied because of his looks. when you are young madali tayo maaffect ng opinion ng ibang tao. tapos he was having a hard time to find friends kasi they take advantage of him. at ang depression may chemical imbalance un sa brains. I also think it was a joke until I met someone na nag ttake ng meds for bipolar disorder. suicidal. nakakalungkot. so it was not a joke and something out of control.
grabe naman mga tao dito. just because he's rich thata doesn't mean safe sya sa depression. anong ba yan? depression is a disease of the brain. why can't people understand that?
Aww poor little rich boy problems. Sad little rich boy.
ReplyDelete12:31 Poor people don’t have a monopoly on hardships and struggles. Things may be harder for you because of your lack of financial resources, but it doesn’t erase the fact that other people have struggles as well just because you can’t relate to them. Unfortunately for you, not only are you poor, but you also live a miserable life and still have time to invalidate the experiences of other people you have never lived a day as.
DeleteI wish more people could understand that depression is a biological insufficiency in producing certain neurotransmitters that allow us to function healthily. If everyone could just “look at the bright side” as a solution for depression then it wouldn’t even be an issue or condition.
DeleteHis wealth enables him to have the resources he needs to treat his mental health and allows him more freedom to take care of himself, but depression does not care whether you are wealthy or poor. If rich people were so lucky, then they wouldn’t have depression either but depression doesn’t care. You could have the most severe depression of your life and it will not care how much money you have in the bank. So to the people who invalidate their experiences, do you think when these people are so depressed they’re unable to function and they’re thinking of taking their own life, their money in the bank is going to magically cure their depression and they could pay to just not have it? Stop thinking from a poor person’s mindset and be more empathetic. Stop invalidating other people’s struggles and competing in a “whose life is worse” contest that nobody even signed up for.
Jusko Michael palitan tayo. Ako na lang mayaman tas sadboi. Ikaw yung middle class na di pwedeng magkasakit o mawalan ng trabaho kasi kelangan kumita. Dapat sa ganito ineexpose sa realidad ng buhay.
Delete2:28 hindi dahil mayaman sya e wala na syang karapatang maging malungkot. sama ng ugali mo
DeleteRich people are more prone to depression due to the fact that they can’t buy happiness. They have all the material wealth but still empty inside and they dont know what else can make them happy
Deletewala naman pinipili ang depression. you can see a successful person in the outside yet that person could have struggles internally. ilang artista na ba ang nag suicide due to depression? kaloka comment mo Anon 12:31 and Anon 2:28, sino kayo para invalidate yung feelings nya?
DeleteSiguro lifestyle nila, masyadong pinakataas taas ni Jinky status nila because they have money. Para ngang sheltered ang mga anak nila, parang di alam paano mabuhay in real world. Mukhang hirap din sa career,daming pwedeng pag-aralan may money naman sila magdoctor, abugado, chef, etc.
Delete2:28 AM iba ang pananaw mo sa kanya. Ikaw yata ang wala sa realidad na iba iba tayo. Ever wondered bakit madaming nagpapakamatay na mayayaman at successful in life? Di mo alam kasi di naman ikaw sila kaya wag kang magmarunong jan!!
Delete@Kaylin Thank you. Sana lahat ng tao maintindihan what depression is and have more empathy. I lost my husband because of this disorder. Walang pinipili ang depression. Mayaman ka man o mahirap.
Delete12:31 parehas lang nagkakaroon ng problema ang mga mayaman at mahirap. Sobrang bitter mo sa youngster na wala namang ginagawang masama sayo. Your life must be so sad.
Delete12:31 and 2:28 dahil dukha kayo, huwag nyong akoin lahat nG miseries sa mundo. Mga mayayaman nagkakaroon din ng depression. Anthony Bourdain and Robin William were famous , established and rich but they suffered depression and committed S. Wag nyo iinvalidate and feelings ng iba .
DeletePlease dont invalidate hs feelings kesyo mayaman. Alam mo bang lahat ng tao may kanya kanyang kahinaan? Mayaman man o mahirap? Ang mahirap sayo pwedeng hindi mahirap para sa kanila at ang mahirap sa kanila pwedeng kayang kaya mo. Nakakainis mga tulad mong tao12:31
DeleteMoney can't buy you happiness talaga. Just be grateful that your family is blessed abundantly.
ReplyDeleteYou think he's not grateful just because he's depressed? Depressed people = ungrateful??
DeleteGasgas na yan accla. Money CAN buy you happiness. Sa mga depressed people na may pera may mga resources sila to get help pero ang mga mahirap na depressed ay wala. Parehas nagkakaron ng problema ang rich and poor people,pero walang advabtage na parehas ang problemang hinaharqp mo tapos mahirap ka.
Delete5:15 Yes money might buy you happiness but not real, genuine joy
Delete5:15 I agree.
DeleteDepende parin sa kung anong klaseng problema meron ka like kung connected yan sa pera at maso-solve ng pera katulad ng pinapalayas na kayo sa nirerentahan nyong bahay tapos wala kayong malipatan o kaya malubhang sakit na nagagamot naman kaso wala kang pangpaospital, eh di syempre money can buy you happiness.
DeleteYung mga problema sa pamilya at mga kaso na naabuso sila, hindi maso-solve ng pera yan.
515 true. Kaya nga karamihan sa mga mahihirap maski depress pero may work eh kinakaya nlang ang araw araw kasi walang choice. Karamihan kasi sa mayayaman gaya nila mula pagkabata hindi na alam ang struggle sa buhay. As in lahat madali. Ano ba gagawin ng mga yan aside from traveling eh nakakaburyong din nman kapag nasa isang country ka. Lol
Delete5:15 but that's the problem eh, it's not about money or having the means to buy things you want or getting the help you need. Wealthy people are in a different level of unhappiness na 'di pa narereach ng mga taong walang kaya. Go look over Maslow's hierarchy of needs for you to see that success/problems doesn't stop at having enough money
DeleteAhh valid naman pero basta ewan
ReplyDeleteRKs problem
ReplyDeleteI feel him. But at the end of the day, you have generational wealth oh dear. Laban lang! Look at the bright side.
ReplyDeleteShare ko lang, imagine us also being depressed at the same time eh we have to work our as* off for our family and ourselves. Imagine living paycheck to paycheck, bills, rent, hospitals, medicines, school etc., sa true lang tayo….. mauuna muna yan bago isipin yung sarili natin, lalong nakakapanlumo :(
my god why compare?!
Deletenapaka backward ng mental health education ng pinoy
his conditoon is not your and yours is not his either.
besides, if you are able to work, you may not be clinically depressed
1:09 exactly. Not invalidating anyone’s feeling but this is so true for us.
DeleteDon't minimize his problems. Your economic status does not make your suffering more valid than his. We all have struggles and you won't know his until you've walked in his shoes -albeit expensive shoes :)
DeleteThe richest family in America lost their wealth in 2 generations. As if this family will be rich for a long time
DeleteJust imagine the pressures that his name and generational wealth bring. He might feel like he wants to have an identity of his own and live a normal life but don't know how to. Be kind.
Delete1:44 not validating his feeling? Eh ano yang comment mo?
DeleteBehhh mas gusto ko pa yung busy!! Para walang time mag overthink. Usually yan kasi problem ng mga rich kids. Walang magawa sa buhay kaya ayan daming time mag overthink. Blessing in disguise na din kapag busy ka sa trabaho noh. Be thankful ka nalang
DeleteWag pong ewan. It's called a disorder for a reason. hindi nila choice maging depressed. Their brain function that takes care of happy stuff is compromised. Pag depressed, it doesnt mean they dont see or appreciate the bright side. They do but it doesnt give them good feelings. Imagine being happy pero hindi mo mafeel yung kilig or burst of joy that you normally feel sa dibdib mo. Heaviness and hollowness sa dibdib usually nafifeel nila all day, as in all day. It's not their fault, and it's very difficult to pull themselves out of it each day. Effort yang mga yan teh, araw araw. Shut up.
DeleteToxic positivity yarn. You make it look like hindi sya lumalaban. Most people depressed got their kasi they've been "laban ng laban" lang for a long time. Nagbreak down na yung katawan nila kasi laging fight time all the time, they are now malfunctioning.
DeleteSo porke mayaman sya people cant have empathy for him na? Depression can cause people to really take their lives what's saddest is having everything and feeling like nothing's worth living for. That is worse than living paycheck to paycheck but masaya naman.
ReplyDeletesa totoo lang naawa ako sa bata. ung struggle nya na feeling mag isa sya dahil lahat ayaw sa kanya just because he’s rich.
DeleteWell said...
DeleteSige makipagpalit kayong lahat sa someone barely living paycheck to paycheck then tell us if mas masaya pa ring maging mahirap basta hindi ‘depressed’
Delete1:01 di mo kailangan icompare mahirap o mayaman. Lahat may pinagdadaanan. Kung ang mg ulam ng tuyo kanyang kaya mo, ang mayaman hindi. Porket living paycheck to paycheck kayo lang pwede maging malungkot.
DeletePeople who invalidate the experiences of other people who are more financially capable in life are the same people who say, “Don’t use the sight of kahirapan to teach the middle class or upper class to be grateful”, yet so many of these comments are berating this kid’s struggles with depression with their stories of how much harder their life is because they’re poor and they have depression, and you’re telling the kid to “look on the bright side and be grateful because other people have it worse” like HUH?!??
ReplyDeletethis exactly.
Deletewala kayong alam sa nararamdaman nya. you don’t know how hard it is lalo na kung lahat ng tao want something from you
Agreed
DeleteHis feelings are valid. Just because he’s rich doesn’t mean wala na siyang karapatang madepress. Walang pinipiling estado ng buhay ang depression.
ReplyDeleteignorant people. nakakainis lang mabasa mga comment nila
DeleteAgree, there are things that money can’t buy and there’s always that emptiness when someone is depressed.
DeletePero ironically, mas madaming depressed na nakakaangat sa buhay. Mga mahihirap kasi, kayod ng kayod. Pag-uwi sa bahay, tulog kasi pagod. May diversion kasi at may outlet na totoong sumasalamin sa ordinaryong buhay. Nakikisalamuha sa mas madaming tao araw araw. Mantakin mong sumusuong sa pila ng dyip at tren para pumasok sa trabaho. Wala masyadong pinagkucompare-an ng sarili kundi kawangis din nilang simple lang ang buhay. Walang time para isiping mahina sila.
DeleteBakit daw sya na depressed, baks?
ReplyDeleteAh kaya pala may sarili syang condo, he's living alone nga nakita ko Instagram nya
ReplyDelete1:27 Ang point niya is pano kung may depression ka tapos wala ka pang pera? Ang iiisipin mo siyempre mag hanap buhay muna kesa isipin ang mental health problem mo. Uunahin muna ang gutom kesa sa mental health. Sometimes you just can’t help but compare. Yes it’s not his problem kung rich siya pero at least he can afford to talk to the therapist or take antidepressants because he’s rich. And at the end of the day hindi niya poproblemahin kung ano ang uulamin bukas. Gets mo?
ReplyDeleteThis!! Sa nagsasabi ng wag magcompare lol para sa inyo ito yung yung reason.
Deletelet us not invalidate anyone's feelings kahit sino pa yan. the kids especially. their feelings are real.
ReplyDeleteMukhang mabait na bata. I just wish someone like Karen Davila interviewed him baka mas interesting yung mga tanong at guided siya.
ReplyDeleteDapat dito sa mga nagcocomment mag reasearch about depression. Mental health po yan. It's not about how rich or poor you are. May work ka man o wala. Old or young. Haist
ReplyDeleteTrue. Nakakagulat na andami pa ring ignorante. Educate yourself, guys!
DeleteJusko kayo! Everyone’s feeling is valid! Ke mayaman or mahirap! Bat parang kasalanan ng bata na naging mahirap na depressed kayo? Hahaha. Grabe mga utak ang pupurol
ReplyDeletedibaaaa. super entitled ang mga tao na yan. edi kayo na strong. jusko what rights do we have to tell another person if what they're feeling is real/true or not? ikaw ba siya? pinagdadaanan niyo ba yan? nakakagigil mga know-it-all dito.
DeleteMasarap pa din pala sumakay ng public transport nakakatulong sa sanity ng isang tao....good luck love love love
ReplyDeleteactually hindi lang pagsakay sa public transport, basta anything na may alone and quite time ka, makakapag isip isip ka. For me while naghuhugas ng pinggan, naliligo, nagddrive, dyan bigla na lang nagiisip isip ng kung ano man.
Deletejusko ko mga ibang comment dito mga walang empathy. ang mga mahihirap lang daw may karapatang magka- depression. shunga lang. depression is a mental disease walang pinipiling tao mayaman ka man or mahirap. even children can have it.
ReplyDeleteRIGHT?! kagigil sila eh.
DeleteThey don’t have a thriving business. Their wealth won’t last. They all still need to work
ReplyDeleteDear madami sila passive income in GenSan alone. May buildings si Pacquiao na even SM ginagawang office. Diverse ang investment nila fyi.
DeleteMaybe in the future di ma sustain ang billionaire status for for sure millionaire parin sila, if taga gensan ka ang dami nilang negosyo at properties dito kahit dito na sila tumira isa sila sa richest dito
DeletePacquiao should hire an excellent business advisor. He should try mass production or invest in natural resources dahil dun talaga maraming pera. I saw na may pacquaio coffee sya dun sa Running Man episode pero the public don't know about it. Dapat nuon pa yan ginawa nung kasikatan nya sa boxing at ipromote ng todo, strike while the iron is hot ika nga pero bat hanggang ngayon, ni commercial wala parin yang pacquaio coffee? With his celebrity status, solid sana na negosyo yan kesa sa isang grocery lang, unless maging nationwide chain yang grocery.
DeleteAng laki mg farm nila. May shrimp farm farm pa yata yan sila. Kaya tama c 357. For sure, nakatrust fund din yan. Lol
DeletePacquiao's estimated fortune of Php3B does not include him in the list of billionaires though.
DeleteLMAO! Anong 3Billion pesos? Masyado mo namang minamaliit ang yaman ni Pacquiao eh yung bahay na lang nya sa Forbes 1B pesos nya nabili years ago yun. Libre namang mag google, Pacquiao's estimated earnings in his boxing career ay umabot ng 500-600 million DOLLARS. His match with Mayweather alone eh 130M DOLLARS na nakuha nya dun, hindi pa kasali ang pay per view. Pacquiao is probably the most generous celebrity because half of those earnings, he gave to charities but still doesn't make him poor. His wealth is still hundreds of millions of DOLLARS.
DeleteDude, you must hate pacquiao so much if you think his wealth is only 3 billion PESOS. LOL! Kulang pa yan para sa lahat ng bahay including the one in Forbes park na billion pesos ang halaga.
DeleteHis boxing match with Mayweather alone earned him 130million DOLLARS.
Poor people kasi walang time madepress kasi busy sila to survive in life, rich people daming time mag isip.
ReplyDeleteNatawa ako dito, pero good point.
DeleteTrue yan nung wala ako work lahat na lang napapansin and big deal sa kin. Nung balik work na realize ko may mas bigger deal pa sa mga first world problems ko. These nepo babies have no grasp of the real world na. Lumaki sa gated village, friends with other nepo babies. Sa sobrang daming pera wala nang contentment.
Delete9:16 you nailed it!
Deletemeh not a good point. depression is depression, imo i guess it just how you handle it and how much it is affecting you. kung wala kang time ma-depress dahil madami kang pinoproblema, i think that's just denying the fact na you're not depressed. once you're not that busy, ano na lang natira sayo? problems and depression.
DeleteWalang time ma-depress? Wala ka lang talagang depression lol
Delete11:23 karamihan sa poor people kasi they accept their reality na life is hard, sure may problema sila pero bihira sa kanila ang magpapalamon nalang sa kalungkutan kasi life goes on, sa little things nakukuha nilang maging happy and nakakahanap talaga sila source ng happiness kahit ganon sitwasyon nila. Rich people kasi ang dami nilang time mag isip at lagi nilang iniisip kung ano ang wala sa kanila at yun ang nagpapalungkot sa kanila.it's not denying na depress ka it's accepting na life is hard, life is unfair, hindi umiikot ang mundo sayo kaya laban lang sa buhay palagi.
Delete@11:23 When the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
DeletePeople nowadays, especially the so-called nepo babies who don't have real life skills, have become so 'soft'.
Those people who've had it hard in life since the onset, they're subjected to character-building early on.
Sa showbiz palang eh, sino ung mga nag-thrive ngayon? Ung mga dumaan sa butas ng karayom, ung mga nag-umpisa sa ilalim, ung mga walang connections, etc.
Ung mga nepo babies na kahit anak pa ng mega/ultra/intergalactic star, hindi na nila alam i-market mga sarili nila.
Money can’t buy happiness talaga. Siguro he got rejected, he may lose something/someone, marami siyang problema at wala masabihan or no reason at all. Sometimes you gotta question yourself why, yun ang sisira ng mentalidad ng tao. Kaya importante na may nasasabihan ng problema
ReplyDeleteMay mga times talaga na mas malungkot ang rich kids. Superficial lang ang happiness because of material things.
ReplyDeleteKaya mas bilib ako sa mga family o magulang na kahit mayaman hindi pinalaki ng privilege ang mga anak nila, hindi sheltered.
DeleteValid naman kesyo mahirap or may kaya, pag tinamaan ng depression, difficult to battle. Pero aminin natin, better to be depressed ng may panggastos kesa nalulunod ka sa ganyan pero dagdag sa ibang problema like anong kakainin, pambayad sa utang etc.
ReplyDeleteyou just can't say na okay lang ma-depress kasi may panggastos. sobrang kitid ng pag-iisip na yan. it just shows how ignorant you are when it comes to this kind of issue
Deletepeople romanticize poverty so much they think rich people deserve to be sad because they have money. it doesn't work that way.
ReplyDeleteAng ewan ng iba dito. Nagcocomment wala naman alam sa depression. Maraming pwede makacause ng depression. It's primarily a chemical imbalance, minsan walang control yung tao lalo na wala syang alam sa mga gantong bagay. Pwede rin triggered by trauma kaya naiimbalance. Pansin nyo ba may mass depression and anxiety the past 2-3 years? Sudden and drastic life changes is a form of trauma. Kaya nung biglang change lifestyle tayong lahat, naimbalance yung brain function natin. Wag po tayong aanga anga maka minimize sa suffering ng ibang tao. Kahit di ka doctor madaling mag google to educate yourself on the matter.
ReplyDeleteI don’t understand why you have to compare your feelings to him just because he’s rich and you’re not. Don’t lecture him! This is his own battle at wala kayong karapatang isingit yang sarili niyo sa buhay at issue niya.
ReplyDeleteOh wow the comments here are so uneducated. Do you mean to say if you're wealthy, then you have no right to say you're depressed? For all I know, you're also the ones saying money can't buy happiness yet here you are being so ironic with your statements about this being RK problems 🙄 yan rason kaya walang asenso sa buhay nyo, you only see your own issues and think other people are making a big deal out of their own issues.
ReplyDeleteSa sobrang dami ng pera and spare time kung ano anong problema na lang naiisip
ReplyDeleteParents,spend so much time with your children. Sa akin lang ha,kakulangan sa.atensyon ng magulang para sa mga bata ang pinag uugatan ng lahat. Instead if scrolling your cp,makipaglaro kayo sa mga anak nyo,hug them always,talk to them always. Dahil kapag kinalakihan nila ang sistemang binabalewala nyo mga anak nyo,dyan na magkakaroon ng emotional problem ang mga yan
ReplyDeleteWOW the comments!! I can really say that some of the people here are pure a-hole. When will you guys ever learn that depression is a mental disorder??? Do you guys honestly think na ginusto nya maging ganyan? Walang taong gustong maging malungkot ng walang dahilan. I hope this won’t happen to you guys. Literally SMFH.
ReplyDeleteI think one of the reasons is lack of attention/ time with parents. He said he felt so alone. Daming ganap sa buhay ng parents hindi na matutukan ang mga anak. Parents dapat una makapansin na may something sa anak pero di na napansin sa dami ng ginagawa
ReplyDeletelaban lang, kaya natin to.
ReplyDeleteA child of famous personality (with a lot of achievements) living under shadow their parent shadow's has cons. Society can be cruel dahil they have the privileges and tend to compare them to their parents. Or judges them. I just hope he found peace and self worth.
ReplyDeleteNasa kanya yun how he chose to see himself. Either as a victim trapped in his parents shadow with nowhere to go?! Or someone who got lucky in the birth lottery and actually uses his privileges to pursue his passions and be thankful everyday on his charmed life
Delete1:12 libre naman i-google ang depression. kung mentality lang din ang answer the depression, sana pala ganun na lang din kadali labanan ang ibang sakit. may sakit ka, sabihin mo "kaya yan, laban lang" "wag mong isipin yan" "look at the bright side". lahat siguro ng sakit gagaling agad pag nasabihan ng ganyan
DeleteMy pre-teen son sometimes say things that worry us (na he might hurt himself). My husband and I honestly dont know why bec we are close to our kids and they have a much better life. Maybe they have a low adversity quotient. One advantage of those in the low and middle class families (like me growing up) is that you become stronger bec of the hardships encountered at a young age pa lang. It has been said na depression is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain, so possible na when the brain is focused on a lot of things such as work, household chores, putting food on the table, lack of money, etc, then the brain is busy and becomes balanced. Also many factors lead to depression. And money and fame dont buy happiness. So even some famous rich people died by suicide or drug overdose.
ReplyDeleteThe stigma of Filipino people about mental health is dominating on this thread.
ReplyDeleteKung comparing lang naman, rich people have more tendency to be depressed because they already have everything and they can’t find purpose of their existence anymore. Unlike mga mahihirap na they are thriving para maabot yung mga bagay na wala pa sila.
But really, anyone can be depressed lalo na sa panahon ngayon when perfection is being rubbed on your face through social media.
Wag ka magsocial media problem solved.
DeleteDepression is an illness, at wala namam pinipili yan mahirap o mayaman. Also, nasa chromosomes rin, like habang bata nag dedevelop yun brain so hanggat maari healthy lifestyle, walang severe stress, trauma para ma fully develop yung part ng brain na nakaka affect sa e.q.
ReplyDeleteBaka maraming mag bash pero kahit gaano kayaman, it's not okay na mag anak ng marami. Hindi lang pera yung bubuhay sa anak, kasi yung pera kaya yan kitain once lumaki na. Pero yung gabay ng magulang, walang kapalit yun. Nakakaawa kasi ang dami pa din sa pinas na mararami kung mag anak.
ReplyDeleteMalaking bagay talaga yung support system, kaya mga classmates always check on your loved ones. Yung simpleng kamusta lang & tell them na you're just one call/ text away. Or kahit sa mga co workers & nakapaligid sa aten, be nice kase di natin talaga alam yung battles nila.
ReplyDeleteI've read in another news that He was bullied in school because he's not (typical) handsome daw.
ReplyDeleteYung parents galing sa hirap yung tatay ilang years nag papasuntok sa ulo bago yumaman pero yung next generation feeling lost and walang direksyon ang buhay agad. Was he too young to remember nung galing pa sila sa hirap? Too bad pacqiao’s son dont know how to be grateful and content anymore. No responsibilities no goal in life too much time in his hands kung ano anong problema tuloy naiisip
ReplyDeleteit's not about being grateful and content. please go read ms kaylin's post/comment above
DeleteOu nga naman naranasan naman nya yung hirap as in hirap talaga pero bakit nga ba diba? nasobrahan na yata sa yaman... daming pwede nyang gawin maximize ang make his own diba?
DeleteSobrang bata pa nya nuon bago yumaman ang tatay nya plus, wala namang kinalaman ang depression sa kayamanan.
DeleteI don't know if I will be depressed with a lot of money, God loving, and supportive parents. I would ask them that I go study abroad, live on my own, and use their connections to help people. Hay it's mentality rin talaga. 😌
ReplyDeleteanother ignorant when it comes to depression.
DeleteDiosko day, basa basa rin kung ano yang depression. What causes it, what is it, how does it manifest. Mga ganern. Napaka ignorant ng comment mo.
Deletenapaka ignorante mo naman.
DeleteHe tried to fit in. Too much socmed din kaya naddpress
ReplyDeleteBetween him and the older brother, he's the smart one. Narerepresent pa nya school nya sa mga quiz bee contest nuon. Sana i-pursue nya ang higher learning kasi he can still do music naman on the side.
ReplyDeleteValid naman siguro yung kay Michael, pero yung iba ngayon, nagseself diagnosis na may depression sila.
ReplyDeleteAnd not defending naman yung nagsasabing mas mahirap magkaganyan sa mga mahihirap, I feel you. Yes, di naman iniinvalidate ang depression, pero mas focused kumbaga sa pagtreat ng condition ang mayayaman dahil wala silang iintindihin na "depressed ako and sobrang down, pero di ako pwede lumiban sa trabaho," or "depressed ako and kailangan ko ng medical expert para suriin ako pero wag na kasi nakakaguilty na sa akin pa mapupunta yung pambayad sa upa ng bahay."
Agree, there you go.
DeleteNagseself-diagnosis at nagseself-heal nalang ung iba.
It's good rin to be surrounded by faithful and/or strong support system. Malaking bagay talaga.
And then you wonder why so many successful people commit suicide because of depression. Akala kasi natin, just because they have money, fame, beauty, etc. wala na silang problema o wala na silang karapatang mamroblema o malungkot. We question and invalidate their feelings immediately kapag sinabi nilang depressed sila and try to compare ourselves to them. This is why they feel alone. No one actually listens to them nor acknowledge their feelings. Tapos kapag may nabalitang nagpakamatay, magtataka kayo kung bakit when you are also part of the problem.
ReplyDeleteWalang mayaman, mahirap sa depression. It is a mental health problem, di yan namimili. Nakakalungkot lang na equated ang pera sa happiness. Yes, it can buy you things, take you to places, pero yung stability ng mental health ng tao, di lang dun masusukat sa yaman o sa comfort na dala ng pera. Eto yung literal na money cannot buy happiness.
ReplyDeleteThis is the sad part: It's tough to have depression and be rich. Coz NO one believes you. & if they do, they just don't care enough. It can be really lonely.
ReplyDeleteIt's still better to be depressed and RICH than to be depressed and POOR.
ReplyDeleteWag kayong plastic.
Poor or rich, it doesn't matter. Depression is depression. Bakit kailangan pang may boundaries? It's like ppl's skin color, no matter what they're still human.
Deleterich or poor same lang na may mga insecurities dba nga he got bullied because of his looks. when you are young madali tayo maaffect ng opinion ng ibang tao. tapos he was having a hard time to find friends kasi they take advantage of him. at ang depression may chemical imbalance un sa brains. I also think it was a joke until I met someone na nag ttake ng meds for bipolar disorder. suicidal. nakakalungkot. so it was not a joke and something out of control.
ReplyDeletegrabe naman mga tao dito. just because he's rich thata doesn't mean safe sya sa depression. anong ba yan? depression is a disease of the brain. why can't people understand that?
ReplyDelete