She’s just good with words… that’s how I see it… but what she needs is to also touch the ground and be grounded… listen to other people not to argue or teach them but to empathize… you don’t want a therapist who also is not healed from her own trauma…you need a therapist who went to school for that, has the communication skills- who knows how to listen… and has experience…
I think what Max is struggling is. she has this egocentric vibes. Yung kanyang perception lang yung aware sya, and hndi nya matanggap na yung ibang tao may own perception of things. Her teaching and her talks are full of thoughts and wisdom kaso para syang ngging "toxic" kapag inaaply na nya yun sa ibang tao. Kaya siguro people around her ayaw na sya to be around kasi konting kibot puro nalang sya pangaral.. people like her can be draining of energy, and then magtataka sya bat inaawayan sya ng tao.
Yup! She’s giving me -KANYE WEST vibes. I trust ACTIONS more than words. Kaya kahit anunv positive post niya. It’s all noise to me kasi di niya na baback-upan ng actions.
Nakaka miss si francis M. Naalala ko pa dati pag bday nya sa EB ang sinasabi nyang wish nya ay makitang makapagtapos ng college lahat ng mga kids nya at ayaw nya muna sila mag full time sa showbiz without a degree. Pero di yata natupad un. Nakapag college ba silang lahat mga mars?
It’s also healthy to accept the fact that we can never control how other people think and what they say. You’re a mental health advocate, remember the Circle of Influence? Your message is good but people should know when to stop putting effort to those who do not match the energy they’re giving that’s one of the secrets to have a peaceful and happy life
exactly. minsan you have to know when enough is enough. or you have to accept your limitations and the things you can change. we cannot control the perception and behavior of others. to want them to see how we see things is ideal. rather than forcing a conversation, we just need to accept what we can do and let go of the things we couldn't.
Exactly. Live and let live. Learn to accept your differences and find peace within. That's the best we can aim for really. You can only control your own thoughts, beliefs, words and actions.
maybe tell that to your family muna kesa mag lecture sa iba.ypu needntheir support badly,ginawa mong therapy ang social media w/c is ok rin pero sa laki ng pamilya mo parang walang effect yata.
the problem is, most parents refuses to acknowledge their part sa mental health problems ng mga anak nila. most of the time they will gaslight their kids—as merely a bad seed or crazy—instead of accepting their own contribution/fault.
I’m curious, too. Pia doesn’t follow Maxene on social media, but follows Saab. It seems that on socmed, at least, dedma nila si Maxene. I kind of see why!
According to my Psychology class.. childhood trauma yung mga needs na hindi mo na meet during formative yrs at because its called trauma dala dala mo yun hanggang nasa adult life. For example attachment style, reward or punishment, and neglect ng caregivers.
Parang nakakaawa si Maxene kasi mukha siyang nagpaparinig sa family niya and craves their attention, pero at the same time nakakarindi rin yung pagka-sanctimonious niya.
I think thats the problem with Maxene, she always uses her mental health to make things and people go her way.. Even people with mental health needs to proactively communicate with their family members, cause it is part of their healing too. And also she should learn to accept as well that there is no perfect family. One of the reason why her healing is not that progresive at all. She must learn to accept it's not always her way.
6.39 baks, yung 2 eldest sa lahat, si pia ang mom nila. ang boy na naka green stripes and ang girl na kandong ni fm. u can see them in their siblings' ig posts.
I tried doing this with my family. Just the mention of counselling was very unacceptable with my senior parents, like, hindi naman baliw, bakit kailangan gawin yun? My younger brother also said they were too old to do that. At the end, walang nangyari. Galit-galit pa rin kami.
Agree naman ako sa mga sinabi ni Max. Kaso lang she's all talk kasi. Kahit yung mga previous interviews nya na she's healing, na marami sya narerealizw because of therapy... Sure tama naman. Pero parang hindi nya naapply sa life nya. Sa dami ng issues nya sa life hindi naman pwede isisi sa childhood trauma or miscommunication lahat. Take accountability din, Max. Ikaw ang common denominator sa lahat ng failed relationships mo
Madalas kasi nagkakahiyaan kaya dapat mauna ka na
ReplyDeleteKamukhang-kamukha ni Vito si Saab. 🤍
ReplyDeleteI see pancho on a wig!
DeleteMaxene should be my therapist. I am impressed.
ReplyDeleteShe’s just good with words… that’s how I see it… but what she needs is to also touch the ground and be grounded… listen to other people not to argue or teach them but to empathize… you don’t want a therapist who also is not healed from her own trauma…you need a therapist who went to school for that, has the communication skills- who knows how to listen… and has experience…
DeleteAyusin nya muna sarili nya
DeleteComing from you na ilang yrs hindi kinibo si Saab? Hahaha
ReplyDeleteI think what Max is struggling is. she has this egocentric vibes. Yung kanyang perception lang yung aware sya, and hndi nya matanggap na yung ibang tao may own perception of things. Her teaching and her talks are full of thoughts and wisdom kaso para syang ngging "toxic" kapag inaaply na nya yun sa ibang tao. Kaya siguro people around her ayaw na sya to be around kasi konting kibot puro nalang sya pangaral.. people like her can be draining of energy, and then magtataka sya bat inaawayan sya ng tao.
ReplyDeleteCorrect! Also, people don’t want to deal with others who think their truth is the only truth. Kumbaga useless lang ang usapan.
DeleteI agree! Some people likes to impose their thoughts and beliefs on others. We should be teachable. We’re not always right.
DeleteYup! She’s giving me -KANYE WEST vibes. I trust ACTIONS more than words. Kaya kahit anunv positive post niya. It’s all noise to me kasi di niya na baback-upan ng actions.
DeleteVery draining nga is the correct term. Nakaka pagod sila kasama.
Delete3:19, no surprise there. Idol nya talaga si Kanye, lol. she would sometimes even quote him and she was super proud nung finollow back sya ni Kanye.
DeleteNakaka miss si francis M. Naalala ko pa dati pag bday nya sa EB ang sinasabi nyang wish nya ay makitang makapagtapos ng college lahat ng mga kids nya at ayaw nya muna sila mag full time sa showbiz without a degree. Pero di yata natupad un. Nakapag college ba silang lahat mga mars?
ReplyDeleteNakapag college lahat pero di nakapag tapos. Ang nakatapos lang ata si maxene sa ateneo? Hindi ko sure sa iba.
DeleteSi Sab alam ko tapos sa Ateneo…
DeleteSi Saab creative writing sa Ateneo. Si Frankie sa UP
DeleteSaab graduated from Ateneo in 2009, Maxx in 2010. Frank naman graduated from UPD in 2015 or 2016 i think
DeleteOn point Maxene on point. Ramdam kita! Some parents thinks its Just drama but i hope it is Just drama. Haaay
ReplyDeleteIt’s also healthy to accept the fact that we can never control how other people think and what they say. You’re a mental health advocate, remember the Circle of Influence? Your message is good but people should know when to stop putting effort to those who do not match the energy they’re giving that’s one of the secrets to have a peaceful and happy life
ReplyDeleteexactly. minsan you have to know when enough is enough. or you have to accept your limitations and the things you can change. we cannot control the perception and behavior of others. to want them to see how we see things is ideal. rather than forcing a conversation, we just need to accept what we can do and let go of the things we couldn't.
Deleteit's clear naman na accepted nya, kaya nga she dreams of it na lang diba. she's not imposing, the tone of narrative is more of hopeful.
DeleteExactly. Live and let live. Learn to accept your differences and find peace within. That's the best we can aim for really. You can only control your own thoughts, beliefs, words and actions.
Delete08:03 dreaming of it means she’s still hasn’t accepted
DeleteThey fell apart nung nawala father nila. I wonder kung meron favoritism mom nila kaya she can’t keep her child together noon
ReplyDeleteSolid naman sila. After lang nung kay saab at max naghiwahiwalay
Delete12:27, sa dami ng anak nya meron pa sa first relationship nya mahirap to manage lalo na at iba iba ang personality tapos yung iba nasa showbiz pa.
Deletemaybe tell that to your family muna kesa mag lecture sa iba.ypu needntheir support badly,ginawa mong therapy ang social media w/c is ok rin pero sa laki ng pamilya mo parang walang effect yata.
ReplyDeleteTHIS
DeleteMaxene looks like Pancho. And Saab looks like Vito. Cute!
ReplyDeleteHaha cute ni baby Saab. Kamukha niya bunso niya. And look at Pia. 5 kids at the time pero yung katawan, grabe sexy.
ReplyDeleteganda ng mom nila
ReplyDeletethe problem is, most parents refuses to acknowledge their part sa mental health problems ng mga anak nila. most of the time they will gaslight their kids—as merely a bad seed or crazy—instead of accepting their own contribution/fault.
ReplyDeleteCurious ako ano ba talagang mga childhood trauma nya.
ReplyDeleteI’m curious, too. Pia doesn’t follow Maxene on social media, but follows Saab. It seems that on socmed, at least, dedma nila si Maxene. I kind of see why!
DeleteAccording to my
DeletePsychology class.. childhood trauma yung mga needs na hindi mo na meet during formative yrs at because its called trauma dala dala mo yun hanggang nasa adult life. For example attachment style, reward or punishment, and neglect ng caregivers.
baka andami nila so hati yung atensyon sa kanila lahat, tapos celebrities pa kaya expected na perfect ka
DeleteMadami…. Friend!
DeleteGanda ni Pia!
ReplyDeleteParang nakakaawa si Maxene kasi mukha siyang nagpaparinig sa family niya and craves their attention, pero at the same time nakakarindi rin yung pagka-sanctimonious niya.
ReplyDeleteI think thats the problem with Maxene, she always uses her mental health to make things and people go her way.. Even people with mental health needs to proactively communicate with their family members, cause it is part of their healing too. And also she should learn to accept as well that there is no perfect family. One of the reason why her healing is not that progresive at all. She must learn to accept it's not always her way.
ReplyDelete*Off topic
ReplyDeleteLucky ni Pia, mabait si FM na step dad sa kids nya
clearly, some commenters here lacks reading comprehension.
ReplyDeleteConscious communication pero parinig sa instagram ang ginawa HAHA
ReplyDeleteWhy so affected lol
DeleteFrancis M became the father figure of Pia's kids from her previous marriage. Ang ganda ni Pia. Nanligaw din sa kanya si Gabby.
ReplyDelete12:51, oh ngayon ko lang nalaman na may mga anak pala si pia from previous marriage...so sino ang mga anak ni francis m?
DeleteYung brother ata ni Gabby yung naging bf nya
Delete6 :39 From Maxene to Arkin.
Delete6.39 baks, yung 2 eldest sa lahat, si pia ang mom nila. ang boy na naka green stripes and ang girl na kandong ni fm. u can see them in their siblings' ig posts.
DeleteI think it also has to do with PH culture. Dapat igalang ang magulang, bawal mangatwiran. Sila lang ang tama kasi papunta ka pa lang, pabalik na sila.
ReplyDeleteI tried doing this with my family. Just the mention of counselling was very unacceptable with my senior parents, like, hindi naman baliw, bakit kailangan gawin yun? My younger brother also said they were too old to do that. At the end, walang nangyari. Galit-galit pa rin kami.
ReplyDeleteAgree naman ako sa mga sinabi ni Max. Kaso lang she's all talk kasi. Kahit yung mga previous interviews nya na she's healing, na marami sya narerealizw because of therapy... Sure tama naman. Pero parang hindi nya naapply sa life nya. Sa dami ng issues nya sa life hindi naman pwede isisi sa childhood trauma or miscommunication lahat. Take accountability din, Max. Ikaw ang common denominator sa lahat ng failed relationships mo
ReplyDeleteKorek. I’ve been waiting for her to walk her talk.
DeleteInstead of posting it just say it in private.
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