I've never experienced what she went thru pero it looks like she will never truly heal or move on from what happened kung ganito palagi nyang ginagawa na hanggang puro patama sa post na lang. Get a good lawyer and fight your case. I really do hope you get the justice yoy deserve but please tama na sa mga patama posts mo. You're only hurting yourself
Anon 120. Baka naman she already approached a lawyer. Impossible to think na she didn't explore this option but maybe bec it was such a long time ago with no hard evidence, mahihirapan din sya to defend her case.
I dont like violence against women and children pero for her to really find her peace is to file a case and indict the guy if talagang true.
Not this kind of passive aggressive comments sa social media, walang magagawa yang pagpaparinig mo if you will not file a case. Kasi even if nag file ng case yung other party kung hindi ka naman kasali dun at di naririnig side mo eh di magtititiis ka.
Kat is a victim. How can you moved on Kung walang Justice!? Yung mga nag cocomment dto bashing Kat parang mga walang pakiramdam at d nag IISIP. Kung mangyari sa inyo ang nangyari sa kanya hinde ba kau mag sa Salita??
Ito yung biktima na nakakairita. She reminds me of Jodi’s character in Mea Culpa. Mas nakakainis pa yung character ni Jodi na bida kesa kay Bela na kontrabida 😄
Try nyo po maging victim na katulad nya. Wala tayo sa lugar diktahan ang dapat maramdaman o gawin ng isang biktima. Kaya nga po sya sa social media na lang naglalabas kasi wala ng other way. Mahirap ipaglaban na sa korte ang rape na nangyare na ng sobrang tagal. Madami pong biktima ng mga ganitong bagay na di nabibigyan ng hustisya sa buong mundo. Madami na pong series or documentary ng sexual abuse. Manuod po kayo para maging aware kayo sa pakiramdam ng mga biktima.
Mej kairita na si Kat. I feel her pain pero at some point you have to either take action or move on. Nastuck na sya dyan sa phase na yan na sobrang hurt sya pero not willing to name anyone or do anything.
I'm not a rape victim but I'm with you and every silent reader here with the same circumstances. Shame on those people who tells you, that you should have fought for your own justice. Especially at that time, It is the adults around you that should have protected you not abuse you.
Okay. I’m now officially imbey with her na. Hindi sa kinakampihan ko yung “act” na nangyari (or kung meron man, not sure) pero kung may ipinapaglaban si ate diba dapat dinadaan nya sa tamang proseso para makasuhan din ang dapat kasuhan. Yun lang po.
I understand your concerns too 12:56 pero she seems so brave on social media with her posts at dami din nyang mga patama. Why doesn't she transfer that bravery and file a case?
12:56 Malakas lang ang loob niya sa social media. Pero when confronted na to identify these people, ayaw niya magsalita. Takot rin makasuhan si gurl kase she can’t back up her claims.
so papaano siya makakakuha ng justic kung hindi niya idadaan sa proseso 12:56? so anong gusto niyang mangyari, that someone will do it for her and maki-ride na lang siya or mag-benefit sa work ng iba. if siguro tinulungan niya yung nagdemanda at nag-file din siya ng case eh more chances of winning noh?
Lahat po ng kaso ay mabagal ang proseso. Matagal bago ka makakuha ng hustisya. Lalo na kung matagal na nangyare. Bulok ang justice system dito sa pilipinas baka di nyo alam.
C'est la vie. Life is unfair. Dapat matuto tayong lumaban. Wag tayong umasa na may mangyayari at wag nating isisi sa ibang tao kung wala naman tayong ginawa.
Ay true. This is not even about her. If hindi na kaya ipaglaban kung ano uung nangyari sa kanya sana man lang minemention nya ying about sa specific case. She is making everything and wvery issue dun sa lalaki na yun about her.
Bakit ang dami nagsasabi na malakas ang connection ni Vhong? Saan? Papaano? Siguro hindi lang ako aware - pero dun sa mga nagsasabi na palakasan ang sistema, paki-explain.
Not to side with vhong pero he was jailed for quite some time din and have to pay the bail para makalabas. Now if he has connections as stated hindi ba dapat mas short yung jail time or na prevent yung stint nya sa jail?
Girl, if you are really telling the truth, file a case. Huwag kang makisawsaw da case ni deniece. Her case doesn’t have anything to do with yours. Kaya napagsasabihan lang attention-seeker e. Anyway, I hope you find healing in ways that will work for you.
Do we still call it injustice if he was acquitted of the accusation that he didn’t actually commit assuming na hindi talaga nya totoong ni-r@p€ si D? On the other hand, can we say justice have been served for her when he get acquitted considering the points above kahit na hindi sya yung nag laban at nagpakahirap sa kaso???
ParA magkaroon ka ng inner peace, kasuhan mo ang may mga kasalanan sa’yo. You’re trying to get your justice through Denice . Magkaiba kayo, your story is not the same. Kasi kung pareho kayo ng story eh di case dismissed ka din. Please get therapy … o di kaya mag aral ka maging lawyer or mag volunteer ka sa mga rape center . Hope you heal.
Hindi ko magetz anong gusto nyang mangyari. Hindi sya mag file ng case so passive aggressive posts na lang? Baka lalo syang hindi mag heal. And imbes na makakuha sya ng sympathy, naiinis na tuloy ang marami sa kanya. She is anchoring on deniece’s case eh mahina pala. Oh well, iba iba naman tayo coping mechanism.
She should file a case instead of making kuda all the time. She can only find her peace if she fights for it once & for all. Get the justice you deserve if talagang may atraso ang tao sa iyo.
wow, ang lakas pala ni vhong.. kahit sa supreme court, may kapit? may friends? sino ba si vhong to have high profile "friends"?
kumuda ka na naman kat alano.
kung totoong may mga friends yan na malalakas, edi nde na sana yan nakulong ng ilang buwan.. or if ever, naging maganda selda nya all by himself, with tv/cellphone and all those privileges.
sige granting na totoo ang kay Kat. choice nya na di nagsamapa ng kaso before. so to Kat, tama na. choice mo yun eh hindi din naman makakatulong sayo mentally if makikisawsaw ka sa kaso ng iba. kahit pa found guilty si vhong sa kaso kay deniece, never ka pa din matatahimik kasi hindi sayo ang justice na yun para kay deniece yun, kahit pa pareho kayong nabiktima, iba ang laban mo sa kanya, laban na never mo hinarap kaya whatever the circumstances be eh malamang ganyan lagi ang reaction mo
If the affidavits filed by the victim are full of inconsistencies, Vhong being acquitted is no surprise. That's how justice work. He may or may not have done something wrong with these girls, but you can't say that he has connections when the affidavits speak for themselves.
what do you mean by that? "friends"? the decision that was made was based on merits. yung nangyari, sa kanya yun. iba yung sa'yo. magsampa ka para maipaglaban mo yung karapatan mo.
Puro naman di mga reliable yung ibang “witness” or ibang victims kuno. Yung isa nga diman lang maalala ang exact date kelan sya na rape ni Vhong ginawa pang excuse ang pagka probinsyana nya kaya di nya maalala. Ano namang kinalaman ng pagiging probinsyana sa pagkamakalimutin? 😂 Kaya wala ring nangyari dun sa mga ibang accusers kasi katawa tawa yung mga sinabi nila.
If the incident really happened, sana nun nagfile si Deniece, ginawa na din nya. I mean mali if nangyari talaga yun, pero may guts sya na magparinig sa socmed, bring it in court. If she not that mentally stable to do it, may family and friends syang pwedeng sumuporta.
Is she a victim of Vhong? She always have something to say on everything that goes on with Vhong’s case. Hindi lang ba siya nakikisawsaw sa case against Vhong?
Tama cya all along! Kaya Ayaw niya magdemanda kc she knew that her case would be dismissed kc nga walang proof! Dapat once na-rape ka, pa-Medico legal agad
Dun sa mga naiirita na kamo paulit ulit lang sya, sana talaga hindi nyo pagdaanan yung nangyari sa kanya. Napakahirap mag come to terms sa ganyang pangyayari. Sa rape ambilis 'mapanis' ng ebidensya, kung di ako nagkakamali iilang araw lang ang meron sya. Kung yung mga sandaling yun e busy ka pang matulala o sisihin ang sarili mo o mandiri sa sinapit mo e wala na agad. Napakahirap patunayan sa korte. Magiging he said-she said na lang yan. Sa mga ganitong pagkakataon na lang sya nakakapaglabas ng saloobin nya. Kung totoo man o hindi nasa sa kanya na yun. Pwede nyo namang hindi na lang sundan yung mga sagot nya kung nakakainis sa inyo.
True. I was a victim myself when I was 14 more than 20 years ago. Paano ko mapapatunayan yun eh sa trauma andami nang butas ng ala ala ko. For those saying naiinis or naiirita kayo, you can just move along and let her cope in her own way. Unless napagdaanan nyo ito, wala kayong karapatan mag demand kay Kat at ibang biktima ng rape kung ano dapat nilang gawin or dapat nilang maramdaman.
I supported Kat for a long time and I understand how she feels. Pero there will come a time that you will have to either do something or move on from it. Or kahit man lang sana talk from a POV na stronger kana from the thing that happened to you. Your kind of mindset only enables her to get stuck in the kawawa mode and not do anything about it. Hindi na fresh ang nangyari kay Kat, she is not willing to talk about what actually happened, she is not even reaching out publicly sa supposed victim ng alleged rapist nya. At this point she is just making everything about herself publicly.
Grabe ano bang friends eh nakulong na nga yung tao nang ilang buwan. Hindi naman mayaman yang si V or madaming mga konek para manaig. Sadyang madami lang inconsistencies.
If you will not fight the system, you will never win. Take the rape case of Maggie dela riva, she suffered far more worse but she took the rapists to court and won.
haaaay whats new? alam naman na natin na kukuda siya.
ReplyDeletehaaaay whats new? alam naman na natin na kukuda siya.
ReplyDeleteI've never experienced what she went thru pero it looks like she will never truly heal or move on from what happened kung ganito palagi nyang ginagawa na hanggang puro patama sa post na lang. Get a good lawyer and fight your case. I really do hope you get the justice yoy deserve but please tama na sa mga patama posts mo. You're only hurting yourself
Deletetrue. feeling main character na naman
DeleteAnon 120. Baka naman she already approached a lawyer. Impossible to think na she didn't explore this option but maybe bec it was such a long time ago with no hard evidence, mahihirapan din sya to defend her case.
DeleteI dont like violence against women and children pero for her to really find her peace is to file a case and indict the guy if talagang true.
DeleteNot this kind of passive aggressive comments sa social media, walang magagawa yang pagpaparinig mo if you will not file a case. Kasi even if nag file ng case yung other party kung hindi ka naman kasali dun at di naririnig side mo eh di magtititiis ka.
I agree with you, 1:20 AM. A lawyer and a therapist.
DeleteKat is a victim. How can you moved on Kung walang Justice!? Yung mga nag cocomment dto bashing Kat parang mga walang pakiramdam at d nag IISIP. Kung mangyari sa inyo ang nangyari sa kanya hinde ba kau mag sa Salita??
DeleteIto yung biktima na nakakairita. She reminds me of Jodi’s character in Mea Culpa. Mas nakakainis pa yung character ni Jodi na bida kesa kay Bela na kontrabida 😄
DeleteTry nyo po maging victim na katulad nya. Wala tayo sa lugar diktahan ang dapat maramdaman o gawin ng isang biktima. Kaya nga po sya sa social media na lang naglalabas kasi wala ng other way. Mahirap ipaglaban na sa korte ang rape na nangyare na ng sobrang tagal. Madami pong biktima ng mga ganitong bagay na di nabibigyan ng hustisya sa buong mundo. Madami na pong series or documentary ng sexual abuse. Manuod po kayo para maging aware kayo sa pakiramdam ng mga biktima.
DeleteMej kairita na si Kat. I feel her pain pero at some point you have to either take action or move on. Nastuck na sya dyan sa phase na yan na sobrang hurt sya pero not willing to name anyone or do anything.
DeleteFile a case gurl!!!!
Deletekairita na siya
ReplyDeleteInaatay ko nga lang itong si ate eh. Hahahha! Forever na lang ganyan yan si Ms. Kat WRONG.
DeleteShe will be forever bitter from the look of things. Ayaw magmove on ni madam. She is only hurting herself.
Deletesyempre magpapatama na naman. dami na namang kuda. at first maaawa ka pero pagtagal, kainis na. redundant.
ReplyDeleteSeriously what friends? Mayaman ba? Meron political connections? Baka magaling si attorney at inconsistent naman ang kalaban
ReplyDeleteIm a rape victim and I never got my justice too. I was only 15. Im with you.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry sis. I hope you get the justice that you deserve soon. I pray for your complete healing and peace of mind. More blessings for you sis.
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Know na kahit this person was able to get away with it here on earth, kay God hindi. He knows the truth and will not let it slide!! Hugs sayo!!
DeleteI'm not a rape victim but I'm with you and every silent reader here with the same circumstances. Shame on those people who tells you, that you should have fought for your own justice. Especially at that time, It is the adults around you that should have protected you not abuse you.
DeleteSo sorry, sis. Unfair talaga justice system :(
DeleteIm so sorry for what happened to you. Prayers.
DeleteOkay. I’m now officially imbey with her na. Hindi sa kinakampihan ko yung “act” na nangyari (or kung meron man, not sure) pero kung may ipinapaglaban si ate diba dapat dinadaan nya sa tamang proseso para makasuhan din ang dapat kasuhan. Yun lang po.
ReplyDeletePaulit-ulit. Hindi nga lahat may lakas ng loob na nagsalita, it takes time.
DeleteI understand your concerns too 12:56 pero she seems so brave on social media with her posts at dami din nyang mga patama. Why doesn't she transfer that bravery and file a case?
Delete12:56 pero may lakas loob magparinig?
Delete1:26 Nagparinig ba sya noong recent lang nangyari sa kanya? Kulang kasi kayo sa empathy. Hindi nyo alam pinagdaraanan ng mga taong ganyan.
Delete12:56 Malakas lang ang loob niya sa social media. Pero when confronted na to identify these people, ayaw niya magsalita. Takot rin makasuhan si gurl kase she can’t back up her claims.
DeleteShe may not have a solid proof kaya ganun but doesn’t mean di nangyari. Madami dami din cases na ganyan. Sad .
Deleteso papaano siya makakakuha ng justic kung hindi niya idadaan sa proseso 12:56? so anong gusto niyang mangyari, that someone will do it for her and maki-ride na lang siya or mag-benefit sa work ng iba. if siguro tinulungan niya yung nagdemanda at nag-file din siya ng case eh more chances of winning noh?
Delete12:56, waa pa siyang lakas ng loob magsalita sa lagay na yan? 🤦🏻♀️
Delete1:15 and 1:26 apir!
DeleteLahat po ng kaso ay mabagal ang proseso. Matagal bago ka makakuha ng hustisya. Lalo na kung matagal na nangyare. Bulok ang justice system dito sa pilipinas baka di nyo alam.
DeleteEto ka na naman eh
ReplyDeleteTama yung commenter hano oi baks san kn haha apir!
ReplyDeleteC'est la vie. Life is unfair. Dapat matuto tayong lumaban. Wag tayong umasa na may mangyayari at wag nating isisi sa ibang tao kung wala naman tayong ginawa.
ReplyDeleteAy true. This is not even about her. If hindi na kaya ipaglaban kung ano uung nangyari sa kanya sana man lang minemention nya ying about sa specific case. She is making everything and wvery issue dun sa lalaki na yun about her.
DeleteBakit ang dami nagsasabi na malakas ang connection ni Vhong? Saan? Papaano? Siguro hindi lang ako aware - pero dun sa mga nagsasabi na palakasan ang sistema, paki-explain.
ReplyDeleteNot to side with vhong pero he was jailed for quite some time din and have to pay the bail para makalabas. Now if he has connections as stated hindi ba dapat mas short yung jail time or na prevent yung stint nya sa jail?
DeleteWho are these friends?
ReplyDeleteTrue naman ganyan kalakaran iha. Kaya ipagpasa Diyos mo na lang talaga. Karma na lang katapat ng mga bad people.
ReplyDeleteTRUE!
DeleteAh ewan ko sayo "ms rhymes with wrong". Hanggang parinig na lang lagi!
ReplyDeleteThis is why she never filed a case… sad reality
ReplyDeleteShe should file one para malaman Ang credibility and madaan sa due process.
DeleteSayang din gastos sa buong hearing, di rin makuha justice. Ipa-sa-dyos nalang nya.
DeleteBecause there is no evidence.
DeleteWe hear you, but stop posting cryptic messages. Be strong.
ReplyDeleteBe straightforward. Fight your battle if you are on the right side.
Girl, if you are really telling the truth, file a case. Huwag kang makisawsaw da case ni deniece. Her case doesn’t have anything to do with yours. Kaya napagsasabihan lang attention-seeker e. Anyway, I hope you find healing in ways that will work for you.
ReplyDeleteDo we still call it injustice if he was acquitted of the accusation that he didn’t actually commit assuming na hindi talaga nya totoong ni-r@p€ si D? On the other hand, can we say justice have been served for her when he get acquitted considering the points above kahit na hindi sya yung nag laban at nagpakahirap sa kaso???
ReplyDeleteKayong mga nagsasalita ng masakit to her, may puso pa ba kayo? Marunong pa ba kayo makiramdam?
ReplyDeleteI am a rape victim at a very young age. I never had justice as I kept silent for fear of retribution. But karma sets in to my rapist after yearss
ReplyDeleteGod never sleeps. He knows your struggles
I am with you
Kapagod ka na teh. Hanap ka din frieeendds. Kasuya ka na
ReplyDeleteKat, you never filed a case. Let Jesus take the wheel.
ReplyDeleteshe won't win due to lack of evidence
DeleteParA magkaroon ka ng inner peace, kasuhan mo ang may mga kasalanan sa’yo. You’re trying to get your justice through Denice . Magkaiba kayo, your story is not the same. Kasi kung pareho kayo ng story eh di case dismissed ka din. Please get therapy … o di kaya mag aral ka maging lawyer or mag volunteer ka sa mga rape center . Hope you heal.
ReplyDeleteMatic na to. Kung sana lumaban at nagsampa sya ng kaso sa "rapist" nya baka napakulong nya pa. Puro soc med posts, wala naman magagawa yan
ReplyDeleteWait nalang tayo sa karma. Sa mga bashers ni kat, bahala na din kayo. Be safe :)
DeleteHindi ko magetz anong gusto nyang mangyari. Hindi sya mag file ng case so passive aggressive posts na lang? Baka lalo syang hindi mag heal. And imbes na makakuha sya ng sympathy, naiinis na tuloy ang marami sa kanya. She is anchoring on deniece’s case eh mahina pala. Oh well, iba iba naman tayo coping mechanism.
ReplyDeleteShe should file a case instead of making kuda all the time. She can only find her peace if she fights for it once & for all. Get the justice you deserve if talagang may atraso ang tao sa iyo.
ReplyDeletewow, ang lakas pala ni vhong.. kahit sa supreme court, may kapit? may friends? sino ba si vhong to have high profile "friends"?
ReplyDeletekumuda ka na naman kat alano.
kung totoong may mga friends yan na malalakas, edi nde na sana yan nakulong ng ilang buwan.. or if ever, naging maganda selda nya all by himself, with tv/cellphone and all those privileges.
At least accuse him directy
ReplyDeletesige granting na totoo ang kay Kat. choice nya na di nagsamapa ng kaso before. so to Kat, tama na. choice mo yun eh hindi din naman makakatulong sayo mentally if makikisawsaw ka sa kaso ng iba. kahit pa found guilty si vhong sa kaso kay deniece, never ka pa din matatahimik kasi hindi sayo ang justice na yun para kay deniece yun, kahit pa pareho kayong nabiktima, iba ang laban mo sa kanya, laban na never mo hinarap kaya whatever the circumstances be eh malamang ganyan lagi ang reaction mo
ReplyDeleteIf the affidavits filed by the victim are full of inconsistencies, Vhong being acquitted is no surprise. That's how justice work. He may or may not have done something wrong with these girls, but you can't say that he has connections when the affidavits speak for themselves.
ReplyDeleteStahp na, mars. Quotang-quota ka na sa kuda.
ReplyDeletewhat do you mean by that? "friends"? the decision that was made was based on merits. yung nangyari, sa kanya yun. iba yung sa'yo. magsampa ka para maipaglaban mo yung karapatan mo.
ReplyDeleteFyi di na sya makakapag file ng case kasi matagal na ang lack of evidence. Kaya puro patama na lang. But i believe her. Di sya maka move on
ReplyDeleteKinuha ba sha na witness ng kampong nila Deniece? I remember meron sila hinanap noon sa Court na mga biktima daw ni Vhong
ReplyDeletePuro naman di mga reliable yung ibang “witness” or ibang victims kuno. Yung isa nga diman lang maalala ang exact date kelan sya na rape ni Vhong ginawa pang excuse ang pagka probinsyana nya kaya di nya maalala. Ano namang kinalaman ng pagiging probinsyana sa pagkamakalimutin? 😂
DeleteKaya wala ring nangyari dun sa mga ibang accusers kasi katawa tawa yung mga sinabi nila.
amaccana accla!! dami mong kuda!!..
ReplyDeleteLife is unfair that girl that is the reality. I hope you heal and find peace.
ReplyDeleteIf the incident really happened, sana nun nagfile si Deniece, ginawa na din nya. I mean mali if nangyari talaga yun, pero may guts sya na magparinig sa socmed, bring it in court. If she not that mentally stable to do it, may family and friends syang pwedeng sumuporta.
ReplyDeleteIs she a victim of Vhong? She always have something to say on everything that goes on with Vhong’s case. Hindi lang ba siya nakikisawsaw sa case against Vhong?
ReplyDeleteKat, if you feel right - why not take it into legal action?
ReplyDeleteDoes it mean you have friends in wrong places?
Tama cya all along! Kaya Ayaw niya magdemanda kc she knew that her case would be dismissed kc nga walang proof! Dapat once na-rape ka, pa-Medico legal agad
Deleteikr..she's just all talk.
DeleteThe Supreme Court gave a 41-page explanation of why the charges were dropped. Shush na
ReplyDeleteDun sa mga naiirita na kamo paulit ulit lang sya, sana talaga hindi nyo pagdaanan yung nangyari sa kanya. Napakahirap mag come to terms sa ganyang pangyayari. Sa rape ambilis 'mapanis' ng ebidensya, kung di ako nagkakamali iilang araw lang ang meron sya. Kung yung mga sandaling yun e busy ka pang matulala o sisihin ang sarili mo o mandiri sa sinapit mo e wala na agad. Napakahirap patunayan sa korte. Magiging he said-she said na lang yan. Sa mga ganitong pagkakataon na lang sya nakakapaglabas ng saloobin nya. Kung totoo man o hindi nasa sa kanya na yun. Pwede nyo namang hindi na lang sundan yung mga sagot nya kung nakakainis sa inyo.
ReplyDeleteTrue. I was a victim myself when I was 14 more than 20 years ago. Paano ko mapapatunayan yun eh sa trauma andami nang butas ng ala ala ko.
DeleteFor those saying naiinis or naiirita kayo, you can just move along and let her cope in her own way. Unless napagdaanan nyo ito, wala kayong karapatan mag demand kay Kat at ibang biktima ng rape kung ano dapat nilang gawin or dapat nilang maramdaman.
I supported Kat for a long time and I understand how she feels. Pero there will come a time that you will have to either do something or move on from it. Or kahit man lang sana talk from a POV na stronger kana from the thing that happened to you. Your kind of mindset only enables her to get stuck in the kawawa mode and not do anything about it. Hindi na fresh ang nangyari kay Kat, she is not willing to talk about what actually happened, she is not even reaching out publicly sa supposed victim ng alleged rapist nya. At this point she is just making everything about herself publicly.
DeleteFile a case wag yang panay parinig
ReplyDeleteGrabe ano bang friends eh nakulong na nga yung tao nang ilang buwan. Hindi naman mayaman yang si V or madaming mga konek para manaig. Sadyang madami lang inconsistencies.
ReplyDeleteIf you will not fight the system, you will never win. Take the rape case of Maggie dela riva, she suffered far more worse but she took the rapists to court and won.
ReplyDeleteHe got a good lawyer. Kat should also get one so she can have closure.
ReplyDeleteThere she goes again, mag file na kasi para matapos na ang bitterness and for her peace of mind
ReplyDelete