Plastic huh? Aminin nyo mga adopted kids nakaramdam din kayo ng inggit sa step siblings nyo at sama ng loob sa bio parents kahit katiting. Ok lang naman wala masama. It’s normal. Ako nga na mismong anak nakakaramdam din ng ganyan so pls lang, too much flowery words na.
Wala naman siyang sinabi na di siya nakaramdam ng sama ng loob kaso nga maganda ung perspective nya sa buhay. Kaya kahit ganun ung naging situation and circumstances nila she chose to forgive na lang. I can't believe may ganito pang hanash.
I'm adopted too and I can relate with Lotlot. Hindi naman siguro flowery words but I can imagine her being grateful lang na she could have lived a different life as an adopted since not all adoption experience is pleasant and good. I was adopted at birth and found out about my adoption story when I was already an adult. It was a roller coaster of emotions, and I can say that it is a long way of healing from my own woundedness but just seeing how my adoptive family has loved me makes me feel more grateful that I was given a chance to experience a family. I never fee the inggit to my sibblings since they never made me feel na hindi ako kadugo. All the questions about my origin and probably the "hate" to bio parents become irrelevant and insignificant. But again, this is not the case for everyone.
I don’t think it’s flowery words, she’s just really grateful, imagine if hindi siya pina-adopt she wouldn’t have what she have right now. Di siya magiging artista, di mapapangasawa si Monching, di magiging anak ang mga anak niya ngayon. She could have led a different life.
If may tampo siya to anyone, parang mas nakakainis yun kasi ingrata yung magiging dating niya since she’s very privileged na nga. So bakit pa siya magtatampo sa biological parents niya.
My hubby is adopted. Sobrang thankful nya sa parents nya. Actually nasa paligid lang yung bio parents pero never nya inisip yung "what if". Wag mo sila idamay kung ungrateful ka sa buhay mo.
Anon 11:59 pls don't invalidate other people's feelings just because it's not the same as yours! Kelangan pa ba isulat ni Lotlot lahat lahat ng hinanakit niya or even what you called inggit sa half siblings niya? Kung ikaw na iingit ka sa kapatid ko wag mo lahatin uy!
That's your opinion. What if hindi talaga sya nakaramdam ng galit kundi curiosity lang? What if hindi sya kasing kitid ng utak mo? May mga kilala kasi akong adopted na tinanggap nila ng maluwag ang reality. Grateful sila sa umampon sa kanila at instead na magalit pinasalamatan nila yung parents nila kasi pinanganak sila. Actually nagmamarunong ka teh. Just because ganun mafefeel mo if ikaw nasa ganung sitwasyon doesn't mean ganun din dapat ma-feel nya. Ang weird mo kailangan mong i-push na parang imposibleng ganun na-feel nya. Kung mapait buhay mo, wag kang mandamay ng iba. And what you just said is an opinion not a fact. Kung meron mang totoo sa pagpapakatotoo mo yun ay totoong epal ka sa buhay.
1:11 Magpapaka totoo si Lotlot at her own time. It's none of your business. Good for you kung na achieve mo na ang level na hindi in denial. You cant dictate the timing of others. Porket ba hindi sinabi sa yo hindi nagpapaka totoo? This is why Filipinos cant have nice things. GRABE kung maka judge.
Kesa ma bad trip sa sinabi mo, mas nanaig ang awa ko sayo. You must have a miserable life. Your heart is full of hatred and negativities. Hope you find peace soon.
I have a friend na sobra ang kabaitan na iisipin mong may mga tao pa ba talagang ganyan kabait. Na kahit inaapi na wala ka pa ring maririnig sa kanya. Seguro ganyan si Lotlot sobrang mabait lang segiro.
Straightforward with just the right amount of emotion, it's not flowery 11:59pm. You are seriously not right in the head if you felt that way towards her.
Sarap na sarap ako basahin ang post nya kasi ang sarap sa puso. You have soo much negativity in your life kaya kht sa ang gandang post may masasabi ka paring pangit yun yun.
Ang pait naman nitong mga nasa taas. Hahahaha. Sana sa pandemic na nangyari, may natutunan naman kayo kaso mukhang wala pa rin. Like being grateful, contentment in life, having a simple yet meaningul life, and surrendering everything to the Lord. SIGURO through the years yan ang natutunan ni Lotlot. At sana yan din matutunan nyo. Para gumaan pakiramdam niyo. Hindi puro pait at hatred. Kapaitan na yan dapat iniwan niyo na nung kasagsagan ng pandemic, nung 2020!!
...but why did they did not take care of lot2x? I know they have reasons but i just could not picture them as mabait but gave away their child for adoption....
Alam nyo yung mas piliin mo nalang ipamigay ang anak mo para sa mas magandang buhay niya, kahit napakasakit sa iyo? Hindi natin alam ano sitwasyon nila noon. Wag naman sana mapaghusga. Kung may galit ka sa magulang mo, settle your problems with them, hindi yung nagkakalat ka.
I dont know the reason why . His late wife was not the mom of Lotlot. And I never knew that Lotlot was Don’s daughter. Nakita ko lang sa news before. So i don’t know the story why. But the couple were very nice people and friendly.
Kahit sino kahit sabihin pa na masaya ka na at blessed sa mga nag adopt sa yo maku curious ka talaga e same thing happended to me i need answers yun lang, nasa nature na ng tao ma curious
Just dropping it here na when you know someone is adopted, wag nyong tawaging "ampon ni ganyan/ganito" na para bang hirap na hirap kayong banggitin na anak din naman yun. Anak sila, period.
Sa case ng biological parents ng hubby ko, sila yung nagsisi na nilet go sya kasi he grew up to be a very good man, tapos yung older brother na naiwan sa puder nila, ayorn busy maging batugan at sugarol at 30s. Although, for sure my hubby wouldn't turn out to be a good man like what he is right now kung lumaki sya sa puder ng bio parents. Kaya thank you mama for raising him well.
I didn’t read any flowery words. Articulate lang sya. She knows what to express herself. Sa edad nya, why choose hate, kung Pwede naman forgiveness especially ok naman ang buhay nya. Maganda nag perspective nya. It’s different for everyone. Let’s be happy for her.
Kung ganyan po ang mindset tama lang na wag na magampon. Amg adoption is para makapagbigay ng maayos na buhay sa bata na nangangailangan ng home and not para magkaobligasyon ang bata na nasa tabi mo forever. I understand the sentiment pero hindi kasi tama yung ganun. Hindi po investment ang batA na kailangan may ROI,kahit tunay na anak pa yan o ampon
Kaya nga ang pag aampon should be a selfless act. Yung makatulong ka sa buhay ng isang batang nangangailangan, hindi para lang mgkaroon ka ng someone to call your child.
Di ka talaga dapat mag ampon anon 10:30. Dapay may respect pa din sa kung ano talagang hinahanap ng puso ng bata. Kung pg tanda nya ay gusto niya makilala ang tunay na magulang, kahit ikaw pa ang bumuhay sa kanya, tao yan hindi yan properties. Maging proud ka nalang sa sarili mo na nakatulong ka mabigyan ng magandang buhay ang bata.
Depende din kasi yan kung naging mabuting foster parent ba ung nag ampon sa inadopt nya. Saka d ntn masisisi ung mga adopted kids kung gusto makilala biological parents.
Her biological parents were not married. Her real mother worked before in Olongapo City during the American Subic Base. Her biological father was a soldier before.
Good thing you all know if you are adopted or not.. mine is still unknown.. grew up with lolo and lola while my so called biological mother is still alive.. take note she never reach out to see me and meet me. But i know where she is.. i tried to come to her but she pushed me away.
Nakakaloka si 11:59, sinabi na nga nya dba naiyak sya kase gusto din nya na totoong anak sya nina Nora.. grabe ka kay lotlot! Di ka nya isasali sa lotlot and friends!! Anyway, happy for her..
Matagal ng nameet ni Lotlot both up parents nya, nagpaaalam sya mismo kina Ate Guy at Sir Boyet.Merong story nun Sa YES maagzine . Pati mga kapatid nya s ama nameet nya. Ngayon after the pandemic nameet nya ulit kasi matanda na rin . So s mga judgmental diyan kapag nagbasa puede bang intindihin nyo naman binabasa nyo
Sanaol. Nakakatouch naman si Lotlot. Mej naiinggit ako. Nag adopt din family namin - we tried our best to be good people and treated my adopted sibling well...pero nagalit sa mundo yung kapatid ko nung nalaman nyang ampon sya. Dami nyang galit sa katawan. Nagrebelde, nagwala, di nagtapos ng pag aaral, nagkaanak nang maaga, walang trabaho. She's 30 plus now but hasn't matured. Minsan nakakapagod na rin intindihin sya. Ang bigat pasanin. Naiiyak ako.
Teary eyed while reading this story.Time is yet to come tlga if you have something to get..and by this time yan n nga ung dream mo na matupad na xempre nakakapgpsaya dn sa puso ntin na makilala mo ung mga magulang mo na matagal mo nang oangarap na makita o makasam...Godbless u Lot,isang kang mabuting tao kaya pinagpala ka .
I'm so moved by what she shared. Everything in God's time with faith and humility.
ReplyDeleteTeary-eyed ako while reading Lot's post. Mabait nga si Miss Nora.
DeletePlastic huh? Aminin nyo mga adopted kids nakaramdam din kayo ng inggit sa step siblings nyo at sama ng loob sa bio parents kahit katiting. Ok lang naman wala masama. It’s normal. Ako nga na mismong anak nakakaramdam din ng ganyan so pls lang, too much flowery words na.
ReplyDeleteNasa place na po sya ng acceptance..more or less naka ramdam man sya ng mga sinabi mo noon pero natabunan na lahat yun ng gratefulness..
DeleteBakit mo lalahatin? Pake mo sa nararamdaman ni Lotlot lol
DeleteHindi lahat masama ang ugali kagaya mo lol. Napaka mo naman ante. Ibang level ha.
DeleteWala naman siyang sinabi na di siya nakaramdam ng sama ng loob kaso nga maganda ung perspective nya sa buhay. Kaya kahit ganun ung naging situation and circumstances nila she chose to forgive na lang. I can't believe may ganito pang hanash.
DeleteI'm adopted too and I can relate with Lotlot. Hindi naman siguro flowery words but I can imagine her being grateful lang na she could have lived a different life as an adopted since not all adoption experience is pleasant and good. I was adopted at birth and found out about my adoption story when I was already an adult. It was a roller coaster of emotions, and I can say that it is a long way of healing from my own woundedness but just seeing how my adoptive family has loved me makes me feel more grateful that I was given a chance to experience a family. I never fee the inggit to my sibblings since they never made me feel na hindi ako kadugo. All the questions about my origin and probably the "hate" to bio parents become irrelevant and insignificant. But again, this is not the case for everyone.
Delete12:34 hindi nga nya direchang sinabi pero yung nacurious lang daw? Huh!!? After all this years? Tumaas talaga kilay ko mare. Ano sya santa?
DeleteFlowery words? How? Parang may galit ka kay Lotlot, 11:59.
DeleteStop projecting 11:59 PM.
DeleteAng tanong, bakit mas marunong ka pa sakanya? Hindi lahat ng tao atichona like you
Delete1:01 hindi sa pagmamarunong pakatotoo nalang kasi sis
DeleteI don’t think it’s flowery words, she’s just really grateful, imagine if hindi siya pina-adopt she wouldn’t have what she have right now. Di siya magiging artista, di mapapangasawa si Monching, di magiging anak ang mga anak niya ngayon. She could have led a different life.
DeleteIf may tampo siya to anyone, parang mas nakakainis yun kasi ingrata yung magiging dating niya since she’s very privileged na nga. So bakit pa siya magtatampo sa biological parents niya.
11:59 and 1:11 wag niyo i project mga kapaitan niyo sa buhay sa ibang tao. hindi dahil ang papait niyo at miserable kagaya niyo
Delete11:59 di ka ba nagbabasa?
DeleteMy hubby is adopted. Sobrang thankful nya sa parents nya. Actually nasa paligid lang yung bio parents pero never nya inisip yung "what if". Wag mo sila idamay kung ungrateful ka sa buhay mo.
DeleteAng hateful mo 11:59! Kainis ka. Iyak na iyak na kami ikaw bitteresa dyan.
Delete1159, such a beautiful testament and then nagpakanega ka. Be happy para you get to be happy for other people as well. God bless!
DeleteAnon 11:59 pls don't invalidate other people's feelings just because it's not the same as yours! Kelangan pa ba isulat ni Lotlot lahat lahat ng hinanakit niya or even what you called inggit sa half siblings niya? Kung ikaw na iingit ka sa kapatid ko wag mo lahatin uy!
DeleteThat's your opinion. What if hindi talaga sya nakaramdam ng galit kundi curiosity lang? What if hindi sya kasing kitid ng utak mo? May mga kilala kasi akong adopted na tinanggap nila ng maluwag ang reality. Grateful sila sa umampon sa kanila at instead na magalit pinasalamatan nila yung parents nila kasi pinanganak sila. Actually nagmamarunong ka teh. Just because ganun mafefeel mo if ikaw nasa ganung sitwasyon doesn't mean ganun din dapat ma-feel nya. Ang weird mo kailangan mong i-push na parang imposibleng ganun na-feel nya. Kung mapait buhay mo, wag kang mandamay ng iba. And what you just said is an opinion not a fact. Kung meron mang totoo sa pagpapakatotoo mo yun ay totoong epal ka sa buhay.
DeleteMedyo mamaru ka sa part na yan accla.
DeleteSo ikaw lang ang may valid na feelings? Kapag iba eh kaplastikan na? Please.
DeleteGirl, ang toxic mo. Dapat iniwan mo na yang ganyang ugali sa 2022.
Delete1:11 Magpapaka totoo si Lotlot at her own time. It's none of your business. Good for you kung na achieve mo na ang level na hindi in denial. You cant dictate the timing of others. Porket ba hindi sinabi sa yo hindi nagpapaka totoo? This is why Filipinos cant have nice things. GRABE kung maka judge.
DeleteKesa ma bad trip sa sinabi mo, mas nanaig ang awa ko sayo. You must have a miserable life. Your heart is full of hatred and negativities. Hope you find peace soon.
DeleteAng bitter mo girl. I pity you more!
DeleteKung binasa mo ng buo sinabi nya dyan na nainggit sya kay Ian at gusto nya na sana daw galing sya stomach (womb) ng mama nya
DeleteI have a friend na sobra ang kabaitan na iisipin mong may mga tao pa ba talagang ganyan kabait. Na kahit inaapi na wala ka pa ring maririnig sa kanya. Seguro ganyan si Lotlot sobrang mabait lang segiro.
DeletePunung puno ka ng poot? Di ka siguro pina breastfeed ng nanay mo
Delete@1:11 a.m eh kung hindi nga nya naramdaman yon alangan naman i push nya lang yon para ma impressed kayong mga maraming nega sa katawan..
DeleteStraightforward with just the right amount of emotion, it's not flowery 11:59pm. You are seriously not right in the head if you felt that way towards her.
DeleteGrabe, ang nega mo. Ang sama siguro ng pakiramdam na maging kapamilya mo
DeleteSarap na sarap ako basahin ang post nya kasi ang sarap sa puso. You have soo much negativity in your life kaya kht sa ang gandang post may masasabi ka paring pangit yun yun.
DeleteNaiwan sa high school pagiisip nito. KJ mo, doon ka nga magcomment sa twitter.
DeleteAng pait naman nitong mga nasa taas. Hahahaha. Sana sa pandemic na nangyari, may natutunan naman kayo kaso mukhang wala pa rin. Like being grateful, contentment in life, having a simple yet meaningul life, and surrendering everything to the Lord. SIGURO through the years yan ang natutunan ni Lotlot. At sana yan din matutunan nyo. Para gumaan pakiramdam niyo. Hindi puro pait at hatred. Kapaitan na yan dapat iniwan niyo na nung kasagsagan ng pandemic, nung 2020!!
DeleteGrabe parang never naman ako nainggit sa mga kapatid ko kahit yung eldest pa nagmana ng family business namin. Baka ikaw lang yun.
DeleteSana ako rin mameet ko pa father ko one day. Mag 31 na ako this yr. Or kahit reply lang sana sa message ko. Sana.
ReplyDelete12:01 harinawa wag ka mawalan ng pag asa. Wish you goodluck.
DeleteSana nga magkita rin kayo. Wishing you the best in life ka fp
Delete1201 Best of luck classmate. Sana, in God's perfect time, mameet mo dad mo.
DeleteHoping your wish will come true. 🙏🏼
DeleteHugsss, Mag memessage yan sayo. Let's claim it!
DeleteI met her father and his late Filipina wife,they are good people,
ReplyDelete...but why did they did not take care of lot2x? I know they have reasons but i just could not picture them as mabait but gave away their child for adoption....
DeleteGood people kamo pero tinapon ang anak?
DeleteOmg. Anon 6:59. Napaka backward minded mo. Maraming possible reasons why a parent have to give up their child and it is not an easy decision to make.
DeleteAlam nyo yung mas piliin mo nalang ipamigay ang anak mo para sa mas magandang buhay niya, kahit napakasakit sa iyo? Hindi natin alam ano sitwasyon nila noon. Wag naman sana mapaghusga. Kung may galit ka sa magulang mo, settle your problems with them, hindi yung nagkakalat ka.
DeleteI dont know the reason why . His late wife was not the mom of Lotlot. And I never knew that Lotlot was Don’s daughter. Nakita ko lang sa news before. So i don’t know the story why. But the couple were very nice people and friendly.
DeleteKahit sino kahit sabihin pa na masaya ka na at blessed sa mga nag adopt sa yo maku curious ka talaga e same thing happended to me i need answers yun lang, nasa nature na ng tao ma curious
ReplyDeleteJust dropping it here na when you know someone is adopted, wag nyong tawaging "ampon ni ganyan/ganito" na para bang hirap na hirap kayong banggitin na anak din naman yun. Anak sila, period.
ReplyDeleteAnak is anak, ke biological or adopted. Mahal pa rin sila.
DeleteAgree. Di ko maisip bakit kailangan pa ilabel na ampon ang isa sa mga anak mo kung inamoin nga. the moment na kinupkop mo, anak mo na yan.
DeleteKa age ko to si Lotlot, nakakatawa ang mga chismis dati kung sino sino ang totoo nyang tatay daw. Pinas talaga, ang daming urban legends.
ReplyDeleteAy naaalala ko rin iyan, kasi kasing-edad ko rin siya. Hahaha
DeleteSa case ng biological parents ng hubby ko, sila yung nagsisi na nilet go sya kasi he grew up to be a very good man, tapos yung older brother na naiwan sa puder nila, ayorn busy maging batugan at sugarol at 30s. Although, for sure my hubby wouldn't turn out to be a good man like what he is right now kung lumaki sya sa puder ng bio parents. Kaya thank you mama for raising him well.
ReplyDeleteIn life, it really depends on how you look at the glass, half full or half empty. Happy for her, she can see the glass as half full.
ReplyDeleteAgree on this. And on the brighter side, the glass is also refillable. 🤍
DeleteBakit kaya nila pina-adopt si Lotlot. At bakit hindi nag reach out yung tatay kay Lotlot at alam naman palang anak niya si Lotlot.
ReplyDeleteI didn’t read any flowery words. Articulate lang sya. She knows what to express herself. Sa edad nya, why choose hate, kung Pwede naman forgiveness especially ok naman ang buhay nya. Maganda nag perspective nya. It’s different for everyone. Let’s be happy for her.
ReplyDeleteKamukha ni Janine ang dad nya
ReplyDeleteMatagal na nya nameet papa niya kasi madami sila photos noon pa
ReplyDeletePinaampon ang anak
ReplyDeleteTapos yung nag ampon kadalasan echepwera.....hanap pa din tunay na magulang
Kaya ako ayaw ko mag ampon
Ilang taon ka naghirap alagaan...huwag na lang in the end babalik sa tunay na magulang na ipinamigay dahil?
Kung ganyan po ang mindset tama lang na wag na magampon. Amg adoption is para makapagbigay ng maayos na buhay sa bata na nangangailangan ng home and not para magkaobligasyon ang bata na nasa tabi mo forever. I understand the sentiment pero hindi kasi tama yung ganun. Hindi po investment ang batA na kailangan may ROI,kahit tunay na anak pa yan o ampon
DeleteKaya nga ang pag aampon should be a selfless act. Yung makatulong ka sa buhay ng isang batang nangangailangan, hindi para lang mgkaroon ka ng someone to call your child.
DeleteDi ka talaga dapat mag ampon anon 10:30. Dapay may respect pa din sa kung ano talagang hinahanap ng puso ng bata. Kung pg tanda nya ay gusto niya makilala ang tunay na magulang, kahit ikaw pa ang bumuhay sa kanya, tao yan hindi yan properties. Maging proud ka nalang sa sarili mo na nakatulong ka mabigyan ng magandang buhay ang bata.
DeleteAmpon nga eh. Hindi iyo in the first place. You take care of her/him out of love, and if they wish to know their roots, you let them also out of love.
DeleteDepende din kasi yan kung naging mabuting foster parent ba ung nag ampon sa inadopt nya. Saka d ntn masisisi ung mga adopted kids kung gusto makilala biological parents.
DeleteHer biological parents were not married. Her real mother worked before in Olongapo City during the American Subic Base. Her biological father was a soldier before.
ReplyDeleteGood thing you all know if you are adopted or not.. mine is still unknown.. grew up with lolo and lola while my so called biological mother is still alive.. take note she never reach out to see me and meet me. But i know where she is.. i tried to come to her but she pushed me away.
ReplyDeleteVery touching story. I was moved. But I hope Ian did not come from the stomach.
ReplyDeletehahahaha natawa ako baks
Deletecs daw beshie
DeleteNakakaloka si 11:59, sinabi na nga nya dba naiyak sya kase gusto din nya na totoong anak sya nina Nora.. grabe ka kay lotlot! Di ka nya isasali sa lotlot and friends!! Anyway, happy for her..
ReplyDeleteMatagal ng nameet ni Lotlot both up parents nya, nagpaaalam sya mismo kina Ate Guy at Sir Boyet.Merong story nun Sa YES maagzine . Pati mga kapatid nya s ama nameet nya. Ngayon after the pandemic nameet nya ulit kasi matanda na rin . So s mga judgmental diyan kapag nagbasa puede bang intindihin nyo naman binabasa nyo
ReplyDelete1159 I personally know Lotlot and nako, napakabait at down to earth na tao. Kaya naniniwala ako sa sinasabi nya.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful story.❤ Di ko gets bat andami pa ring nega. Wish na lang natin sila ng pagmamahal mula sa mga taong nakapaligid sa kanila.
ReplyDeleteSanaol. Nakakatouch naman si Lotlot. Mej naiinggit ako. Nag adopt din family namin - we tried our best to be good people and treated my adopted sibling well...pero nagalit sa mundo yung kapatid ko nung nalaman nyang ampon sya. Dami nyang galit sa katawan. Nagrebelde, nagwala, di nagtapos ng pag aaral, nagkaanak nang maaga, walang trabaho. She's 30 plus now but hasn't matured. Minsan nakakapagod na rin intindihin sya. Ang bigat pasanin. Naiiyak ako.
ReplyDeleteTeary eyed while reading this story.Time is yet to come tlga if you have something to get..and by this time yan n nga ung dream mo na matupad na xempre nakakapgpsaya dn sa puso ntin na makilala mo ung mga magulang mo na matagal mo nang oangarap na makita o makasam...Godbless u Lot,isang kang mabuting tao kaya pinagpala ka .
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