Nasaktan at nalugi na nga eh. Ang haharsh niyo pa. At one point in your lives eh sumugal at humopia din kayo. Un nga lang walang naginterview sa inyo on national TV. LOL
Imagine wala pala siya share sa YouTube at sa Poklee business nila. Nagdemand siya ng accounting nagalit pa. Tapos sa lahat siya gumagastos. Abay kung karelasyon mo pala si Lee ang pera lahat PALABAS walang PAPALOOB LOL BIG PASS AKO SA GANYAN DUDE first date pa lang natin will certainly be our last.
Nakow kaya moral lesson sa mga babae yan. Walang pikutan. Walang pilitan. Mararamdaman niyo naman kapag napilitan lang. Walang effort. Walang gastos. Sa part niya!
Piece of advice sa mga babae. Hindi totoo un magtira kayo para sa sarili niyo. Eto advice ko sa inyo para di kayo malugi at maiwang luhaan, gutay gutay at di mapakinabangan. Sa relasyon, mas lalo kang nagbibigay, mas lalo kang di makakatangap. In relationships, the more you give, the more you will not receive. At napatunayan ko yan. Magmuni muni kayo what it means.
For me, hindi ma-pride si Lee, hindi lang talaga nya mahal si Pokwang. Kung mahal nya si Pokwang, hindi na kelangan pag usapan pa ang pride. Pokwang is so patient and loving to a fault.
1:00 may point ka. dapat sakto lang. walang labis, walang kulang. this video was hard to watch. she was baring her soul, grabe. sana bigyan siya ng Lord ng matino at mabait na lalake.
1:00 am I felt this - you give him your hand, he takes the whole arm. What more if you give it your all? That's why I am not interested in another romantic relationship after ending my marriage. Been there, done that. Now I get to love myself too.
1.00 Anong pinagsasabi mong para hindi maiwang luhaan siya nga itong nang-iwan at nagpalayas? Ang advice ay dapat ganito: kung hindi ka sigurado, huwag mong gawin. Don't play games. Magkaroon ka ng isang salita. Magkaroon ka ng palabra de onor. At don't use the child for your own games. Ganun!
1:15 some people did that somehow umaasa silang matauhan naman yung tao. majority naman kasi sa atin nashushunga sa pag ibig, doble lang siguro yung sa kanya kasi she felt insecure siguro sa klase ng trabaho niya, pinagtatawanan hitsura niya minsan. parang mabilis ma fall si pokie kaya all out siya kahit siya yung kumayod, malamang tinutukso pa yan ng mga tao around her na siya bumubuhay kaya na didivert niya yung galit niya sa lalake. nakagagawa ng decisions, nakakapag salita ng masama out of the box pag sobrang bigat na ng dinadala. naiintindihan ko si pokie, been there done that. fresh pa kasi yung sugat kaya parang lost pa siya, defense mechanism yung pagpaparinig sa social media pero deep inside umaasang mapansin silang mag ina nung partner niya. support around her ang need niya tsaka tama lang yan sa lalake, deserve niya naman malait jusko.
1:15 maybe nagtapang si Pokie to assume the role of main breadwinner, pero wala man lang gifts, flowers, hindi man lang sya sinusuyo o binabati? Or konting support man lang sa anal nila? Hindi porke malakas ka, ok lang na abusuhin ka na ng iba.
Kung di mo matanggap na hindi ka pa rin binalikan,walang magandang patutunguhan ang pagiging bitter mo sa mga posts and comments mo. Believe me! Been there done that! Kahit anong bunyag mo na pinalamon mo lang sya ng 6 years,na ikaw ang bumuhay sakanya,na ginamit ka lang nya,na pinagtanggol mo sya sa lahat,na after that iniwan ka pa rin. Mas lalong di ka nya irerespeto at babalikan. Respeto at pride para sa sarili mo,kaya manahimik ka na lang at ipagpatuloy ang buhay with your daughters. Kopya ka ke sunshine,nanahimik na lang.
i really hope she finds a nice pinoy guy to be her forever. the cultural differences are so vast between her & lee. hindi sila talo & he clearly took advantage of her. stay strong Pokie!
Malamang kahit sa bajay nila ipinamumukha nya kay Lee na palamunin ito na hindi nya kinonsider yung pagigig asawa at ama nito. Ayun nung oinalayas nya after everything hini na talaga siya bibalikan. It takes two to tango.
She is hurting, she has every right to react the way she did. She loved fiercely naively, stupidly and gave so much of herself. I sincerely hope she heals well and if ever she does not find love in another partner, she gets to live happy and free with her beautiful daughters. She has worked hard all her life, done her best for her family. Brave woman, wish you all the best Pokie.
11:19, iyan din ang tingin ko. Siguradong puro sumbat ang ginawa niya kay Lee sa bahay na walang silbi kahit naging house husband naman ito dahil nga siya ang malaki ang kinikita. Tumulong din naman sa business niya. Ganoon naman talaga, kung sino ang malaki ang kita. Parang housewife din iyan na nag-aalaga ng anak.
11:15 Pero sana next time wag ni Pokwang ilagay sa ulo nya na porket mas malakas syang kumita sa lalaki eh mamaliitin na nya at tatawaging palamunin. Masama naman yun kahit totoo pa. Hindi na sya talaga babalikan kasi hiniya na nya at pinalyas.
1:17am agree ako sayo.at sana kung pababalikin nya wag ang bata ang dahil kundi dahil mahal nya talaga.ang mga guys kapag me iba na walang pake sa mga anak.kaya di ba yung mga kunwari 1night stand lang kung di mo pa i pa dna para ma prove na sila ang tatay e wala silang pake sa anak,wala sustento.pero kapag mahal na mahal ang babae kahit lima p ang anak sa ibat ibang lalaki e paninindigan.kahit malaki ang age gap,go sila.pero kapag ayaw na sayo kahit ilan pa ang anak ninyo kahit gano katagal ang pinagsamahan nakakatiis ang mga guys lalo pag me nakita ng iba.ang kelangan marealize ni Lee ay kung gaano sya minahal ni Poke despite of his kakulangan para bumalik sya.na mas mapagmahal si Pokwang,mas mabuting ina,etc.baka rin nag papalipas pa ng sama ng loob dahil pinalayas sya.di ba nakakahiya yon.lalaki ka,foreigner wla ka kamaganak sa Pinas,tapos pinalayas ka.sobrang nakakaaba yun.
11:03, I don't think 11:03 is invalidating Pokwang's feelings or way of coping. As unpopular the opinion might be or unusual it may sound, he/she has a point. Pokwang herself said that she felt Lee never loved nor really cared for her. That he wasn't even that dead set on having a child with her. That came out from Ogie Diaz's vlog. Clear as mud, it was Pokwang who sustained the partnership. Regardless, she tried to salvage it by inviting Lee to mert or spend time with her. Gastos at effort niya lahat yan. Why, to keep the family unit intact for their daughter even if the guy already wanted out. In other words, sobra ng binaba ni Pokwang sarili niya so that the best recourse now, regain her own pride and self-respect. For her own sake and that of her daughters. As hard as it can be, time to accept she has to at it alone now and preserve all her energies to keep her family afloat.
10:10 Iba’t iba ang way ng pagcope ng mga tao. Walang masama if umasa sya na balikan sya, ganyan naman lahat ng naramdaman ng mga nakipaghiwalay. Lalo na for her, may anak sila. Huwag mo sya sisihin. Yes, malamang may pagkukulang din si Pokwang at maybe minaliit nya yung isa pero may reason naman bakit nya ginawa yun. That’s desperation dahil yung tao, if matigas ulo at walang pagbabago, yan na ang last way mo to talk to an abusive partner. You need to tell them who they are and what they are kasi baka matauhan sila. If you’ve been there and done that, then you should have understood her situation. Hindi madali makipaghiwalay at tanggapin. Sa tingin ko, nasa stage pa lang sya ng anger. Kaya dapat show her your empathy.
10.53,kahit anong pagpaparinig naten,pagpoposts,pag kukwento na pinalamon lang naten sila ng matagal na panahon,walang mangyayari. Kids lang ang apektado sa mga ganyan pagkukuda sa mga posts and comments.
Napapanood ko pa dati vlog nila na pinagluluto ni pokwang ng paborito ni lee na callos, may magreregalo ng cake at madaming brazo de mercedes na paborito daw ni lee. Kataka lang na parang nabalewala. Wala ba ni katiting na malasakot at pagmamahal o appreciation? Parang ang kapal naman nung Lee. Eto effort si Pokie, emotionally and financially pinagtatakpan, pinaglaban tapos deadma lang. red flag na rin kasi yung years na kayo magkasama wala man lang engagement. Ganun ba kamanhid yung lalaking yun? Yes naging bitter si Pokie, sinasagot yung bashers para rin pagtakpan si Lee kasi nga mahal nya eh. Mahirap ang struggle ni Pokwang caught between love and hate sana intindihin na lang natin sya. Buti nga nailabas nya kundi sasabog na yan magkasakit pa sya. Pero mabait pa rin si God, may tv show, may show abroad, may mga raket so dun pa lang blessing na despite na failed relationship. Bless you more Pokwang, and bless your ex too. Sana one day lunukin nya na pride nya for Malia’s sake.
Anong kopya ke sunshine dahil nananahimik lang? Dati rin kumukuda si sunshine sa social media dahil sa lack of support ni cesar sa mga anak nya. Natural lang maging bitter minsan para ma release yung hinanakit sa dibdib lalo na nasaksihan pa nung bata na meron ng iba yung tatay. Hindi mo yata tinapos yung interview, hindi na sya umaasa pa dahil ayaw na nya.
Ung kahit bulaklak or pa cake man lang, wala nbigay sa 5 years eh my youtube channel daw si lee. Saan ung pera npupunta? I believe he really just used pokwang's popularity for his advantage. My nkkta pa babae ksama sometimes ng mga friends ni pokwang
hindi naman kasi lahat ng lalaki ay showy with emotions. meron talaga na hindi naman in their character na magbigay ng bulaklak, ma-alala ang anniversary etc. eh di dapat sa una pa lang nakita na ni pokwang yun.
Bulag sa pag-ibig si Mamang. Buti nagising na. Hindi na talaga magbabago ang ugali, lalo lang mag lalala yan kapag tumira na isang bubong. Kaya be careful what you tolerate.
Nafeel ko iyong pain niya kasi nagmahal talaga siya. Kapag may anak, kaya talaga magtolerate kasi iyong bata masaya sa Tatay din eh. Hindi naging maramot si Pokwang na mag give up agad para sa kanya lang.
Kung mag ne negosyo ka wag kang mag ha hire or makikipag partner sa asawa bf gf nanay kapatid kaibigan! Mahirap yan nagka issue lang di lang negosyo magkaka issue pati relationship nyo
Marami akong nakikitang mga negosyo na mag-asawa lang nagpapatakbo at nagpapalakad, esp small businesses, na maayos naman so there are exceptions to the rule din.
Mas ok itong fast talk ng gma 7 kasi all out talaga ang revelation ng mga guest at artista nila walang PABEBE Sa fast talk abs cbn kasi parang ramdam mo meron pigil mga artista nila e kahit nga simple kayo na ayaw sumagot ng diretso
People are so cruel with their comments. When someone is going through something like this, no need to be hurtful. She already admitted that she lied to protect him, because she loves him. She made it clear that she doesn’t want him back; that she will focus on raising her daughter and protect her at all cost. She’s in pain so this is her way to cope with it. I’m not saying it’s okay to speak about it publicly. Keeping it private is better because her daughter will watch this one day.
True. Para kang naglaba ng damit na may pintura. Napakahirap tanggalin maliban nalang buhusan mo ng gas. Pero minsan, kahit buhusan mo ng gas dipa rin matatanggal ang pintura kaya itapon nalang. It's a lost and hopeless case.
Masyado nang malalim yung sugat, Pokwang. Minsan kelangan na lang natin tanggapin ang mga bagay bagay. Ang mahalaga, ikaw alam mo sa sarili mo na totoong nagmahal ka at naging tapat ka.
Unpopular opinion: Let Pokwang deal with her pain the way she wants it. If talking about it helps her, then so be it. Mas magandang malaman ng bata what kind of father she has so he can be more mindful of his actions. Maganda din n ma-realize ni Lee n he can no longer manipulate Pokwang. When all the dust has settled, Pokwang will learn the lesson behind the pain and hopefully come out of it a better, stronger person.
12:18 he can still manipulate using their daughter. Kaya nga napikon na si Pokwang kasi panay post si Lee tungkol kay Tisay akala mo kung sinong good father kung magpabango online yun pala all this time wala sya binigay na support despite having earnings.
12:51, they meant that sana direct nya sinabi na gusto nya magkabalikan. Pokwang said she’d been sending signals to the guy that she wants to get back together.
12.51 ang pangit siguro ng pagkakatanong niya kaya ganun. Maybe her tone is full of disrespect? Take note, huwag mong itulad ang mga American men sa mga lalaking Pinoy co'z they have b*lls. Pinoy men? Not much kaya ina-under.
May pa-signal pa kasi siyang nalalaman. Playing mind games iyon, manipulation. Tapos kung sigawan niya na palamunin kahit totoo rin, nakunsumi rin si Lee.
Sa mga seminar bago kasal, tinuturo kung ano dapat ang trato ng mag asawa sa isa't isa. Isa dun yung speak kindly...lovingly of each other. Walang sinabi na tawagin mong palamunin ang iyong kabiyak. Sobrang sakit niyan.
11:18 she was pushed to that point. Sobrang pasensya nya kay Lee how many years na. Giving Lee control of businesses, walang tulong sa gastusin kahit may earnings naman pala yung guy, at pinagtangol pa nya si Lee when people correctly pointed out that he was using her as sugar mommy. Hindi nagkulang sa pagbigay ng love si Pokwang, si Lee ang nagkulang. Tapos nung finally naubusan na si Pokwang ng pisi and started putting her foot down, sya pay may masama?
Too true. In the years they were together, the guy never really did anything remarkable. With Pokwang's support he could have ventured into many things if he was really motivated to find his footing and support their little family. But none can be seen - outside of their mom and pop biz, and the social media that still relied on Pokie and their kid, there was none. It's like he took it easy and relied on his sugar mommy. Just imagine the kind of damage this has done to Pokie herself and the kind of example this set on the kids around them. Lee had a lavish life with Pokie and was recognized with respect by others since she defended him resolutely. Many Filipina women who are OFWs and marry abroad become like that, marry a batugan national and the OFW becomes the breadwinner, caregiver, housekeeper, etc. That's bot love, that's like funding someone to be your lackey. Grabted the women thought they got lucky and found love, yet in the end they are nothing more than tools for an easier, batugan life for the men they come across. They give so much of themselves , many naively, and end up spent and hurt, having wasted so many years.
12:18 Hay naku maraming kwentong ganyan, and not just with foreigners. Mga babaeng nagiging tagabitbit ng asawa nila. Buti sana kung househusband pero hindi eh, yung babae pa rin yung tagalinis, luto, laba, alaga ng bata on top of being breadwinner.
It goes both ways. Ang daming Pinay dito sa America na na-meet lang sa Facebook yung lalaki, kahit hindi nila mahal, pinakasalan for a better life, kahit matanda na ang lalaki. After maka establish, they divorce and leave the guy. If it is acceptable that way, let's not think that it can't happen the other way around. Just so happened na sikat si Pokwang. Swerte pa sya kasi she has money. Regular people will be heartbroken AND penniless.
1000% kapag binalikan siya ni Lee makikipqgbalikan siya. Hope God gives you the grace of being indifferent. Kapag ganyan ka pa ka affected, mahal mo pa. If wala ka na nararamdaman, dun mo masasabi na makakapag move ok ka na. Sana dumating na sayo yun pokwang. He’s not worth it.
Buo nga kayo at magkasama pero nakikita naman ni Malia kung paano ang Tatay niya. You will normalize it for her. Gusto mo ba magkaroon ng ganyang asawa si Malia in the future?
Napaka unfair tlg ng mundo ikaw na niloko ginamit ikaw pa yung bitter sa pningin ng mga tao dhil naglabas ka ng sama ng loob. U will never know someone's pain till you experience it. D madali mag move on let her be
She keeps saying that it’s for Malia that she wanted to get back with him, pero it doesn’t completely ring true. Feeling ko ayaw niyang aminin na “I’m in love with him kaya I want him back. Not just for Malia, but also for myself.” Ma-pride din.
12:07 I don't think it's pride. Mahirap din kasi aminin na mahal mo pa rin ang isang tao na nanakit at nagmaltrato sayo. Hirap i-explain and most people would not understand.
Ganyan talaga karamihan sa mga kano pag ayaw na ayaw na. Di rin sila katulad ng mga Pinoy na lahat ng occasion i commemorate. Talagang need mo mag adjust or else hopia ka tuwing may okasyon.
Move-on na Pokie, kaso wala ka ng magagawa sa ex mo may bago na siya. Much better focus ka na lang sa anak mo at paunti-unti ipaintindi sa kanya ang sitwasyon ninyo
Kung talagang ang hanap nung lalaki ay 'yong mas mapera sa kanya, pinakasalan niya dapat si Pokie.
Ngayon na nakatikim na siya ng pagmamalatrato ng isang Pokie sa kanya, maghahanap pa ba siya ng isang another Pokie? Malamang hindi na.
As for his financial capacity, unlike other commenters here that judge him very loosely, I would say, I can't comment on this because I didn't see his portfolio.
Know your worth po. The bare minimum hindi nya magawa to give you flowers, greet you on mothers day, or say sorry when he hurt you. He does't feel any remorse. Itapon mo na. If he loves himself more than you, he is makasarili.
Girl lahat naman ganyan lalo pag may anak kayo. Kung wala keri lang paalisin mo na wala naman contribution. Kaso may bata! Walag nanay di umaasa na mabuo pamilya para sa bata.
Yes, but after that, yung business, poklee bottled products, YouTube etc., no flowers, no greetings, No support, no financial transparency, as in sya ang naglabas ng pera for businesses but no accounting in black and white, Wala pa rin after 5 yrs, he never loved her and that was what she realized after 6 yrs.
she have been through a lot and strong ang personality nya so for sure malalampasan nya to.. after all, she has been blessed with two beautiful daughters kahit di okay yung mga tatay
I can understand now kung bakit sila naghiwalay pero kung pinalayas mo at gusto mo pala na magkabalikan, don’t use signals or signs... use words to communicate. Ma pride yung tao kasi pinalayas mo tapos nag comment ka pa sa public ng masasakit tungkol sa kanya, ang dami pa nangbabash, so paano ka nya babalikan? I’m not saying na he doesn’t deserve it, he seems like a loser based on what she said in the interview (if true) pero sa pagka warfreak ni pokwang sa ig, tingin ko thats the way she is when she communicates with him.
'pero sa pagka warfreak ni pokwang sa ig, tingin ko thats the way she is when she communicates with him.' - i so agree with you on this including your 'if true'.
I dont wanna judge Lee just because Pokwang spill everything because its only Pokwang's version of the story. Its unfair to judge him. Maybe, he's a narcs by his look but that is not enough to judge him.
Isang malaking yakap pokie. Madaling sabihan ang kapwa na mag move on or dati pa dapat alam mo na na palamunin. Pero pag inlove ang tao, nagiging bulag tayo sa katotohanan. Na inlove din tayo at one point. So lets let her heal at unawaan nalang naten mga hanash nya sa social media.
Hindi talaga Lahat makikita sa social media ay totoo. Obvious naman na palamunin si Lee pero Pokwang always defends him. At kitang kita na kayod kalabaw c Pokie.
I dont think money is the real issue, issue ni pokwang is binigay mo na lahat, itinaboy ka pa. Ganyan talaga ugali ng mga lalaking insecure kaya mahirap kapag palamunin ang lalaki.
No flowers or chocolates man Lang? That’s harsh. To Pokwang- it’s a blessing in disguise that he left you. Now you can move on and not worry about another mouth to feed, bump into someone in your house without being acknowledged and protect your child thinking that she wants her future husband to be exactly like her dad. 😡 just hang in there…you’re better off without him
Daming nagmamarunong dito, na kesyo dapat tahimik na lang si Pokwang at bakit after everything mahal pa nya si Lee, papalayasin then di kaya panindigan. Well, iba-iba po ang tao. Meron mga matapang na kaya i-let go na lang at mag move on. Meron naman na talagang sasagarin sa kata-try kakainin ang pride para lang mabuo sila ulit, lalo pa may anak silang maliit pa. Yan ang sinasabi nyang di kaya gawin ni Lee na kainin ang pride. Kelan lang naman nagbitaw ng masasakit ng salita si Pokwang. Pinagtatakpan nya pa nga dati kasi nga gusto nya mabuo ulit sila, kahit pagtiiisan nya uling palamunin si Lee. Imagine, sa kanya yung puhunan sa negosyo, then sinabit nya si Lee bilang partner. Ang kalaunan, sya na naitsapwera at wala syang karapatang magtanong. Sabi ng iba baka magkasama pa sila minamaliit nya na si Lee kaya di sya minahal. Hello, common sense and logic lang gagamitin. Di ba nga si Lee na ang humawak ng negosyo nila at inalisan nya si Pokwang ng rights kahit magtanong? Pati youtube channel? Kung minamaliit mo ang tao, ipagkakatiwala mo ba pamamahala ng kabuhayan nyo sa kanya?I want to reserve my judgment muna sana kasi di santo si Pokwang at mukhang di naman siya mabait, pero sa point na ito, mukhang siya talaga ang na-ga-go dito at patuloy na nag-pa-ga-go. Obviously, since alam naman ng lahat kung pano nya pagtakpan si Lee noon, then lately nagbago. It proves na before kinakain nya pride nya for the sake of family. So far, wala akong sympathy kay Lee. Based sa interview ni Pokie, mukhang nanggamit talaga sya at matigas ang puso nya. But in case mainterview sya at super iba ang story nya, then maybe I'll change my view. But I doubt it.
agoy. you gave to much and expected too much in return. and then pinamukha mo sa isa na, hey, ako ang nagpalamon sa 'yo for these many number of years alam mo 'yan! hindi ganon ang love. you humiliate and belittle someone, talagang lalayo ang loob sa 'yo. pag ako ginanyan, love will fly out the window talaga.
Ngayon na lang nagbibitiw ng masasakit na salita si Pokwang. Parang nakalimutan na ng mga tao na nung bagong hiwalay pa lang sila last year, todo defend pa rin si Pokie kay Lee kesyo wala naman daw issue sa pera good father daw ok sila etc. If she wanted to belittle him she could have said something back then pero hindi kasi she was still trying to make things work. Si Lee ang walang pakialam.
Sorry Pokwang ha but i just have no respect for people who wash their dirty linens in public much much more kapag may anak who will suffer in the end. It wouldnt be a huge issue naman if you didnt rant in socmed. 🤦♀️
It takes two tango mamang! You know right from the start the guy doesn’t have a job. After 2 years na wlang syang work at ikaw ang provider you should have stop. But umabot ng 6 years? Why? Dahil minahal mo sya and you think he loves you too. Tapos after mo malaman na hndi ka pala mahal nanunumbat ka? May fault sya but you’re also at fault for allowing it to happen for years. I’m sorry but di lng tlaga ako pabor sa babae 100% esp. if you didn’t protect yourself too. Dapat wise din tayo sa pag ibig.
Grabe naman kayo kay Pokwang parang di kayo nagmahal ng todo. Hayaan nyo na sya to express how she feels if na cheapan kayo sa approach nya kebs na lang. Perfect nyo msydo. Ganyan talaga kapag nasasakatan lalu na binigay mo lahat.
Aww! Yung mga maka comment dito na umasa kase siya keso mayabang siya sa socmed niya... ano ba dapat? Ayan ni-spill na niya lahat ng gusto niyo masama parin siya and ibabalik natin talaga sa kanya na humopia siya magkabalikan sila?? So wrong!! Unang una sa iyak pa lang niya halata naman hibdi yan acting lang nasaktan yung tao. 5 years wala siya hinihingi tapos isang maling move lang ni hindi siya pinaglaban? Tapos may babae pa ata. Masyado mali magisap mga tao dito parang gusto siya i condemn na umasa siya, bakit naman hindi pwede yun eh may anak sila? Kayo kaya mag trabaho ng limang taon na walang katuwang sa mga gastusin nag pandemic pa and hindi naman siya bata na marami pang project, hindi ba kahit papanp may mabubuo naman talaga sama ng loobm yung flowers mababaw lang satin yun, perp sa kanya na nafifeel ginamit siya why kailangan invalidate ng mga tao dito purket strong yung comebacks niya sa bashers sa IG? She's clearly hurting and as a woman kaparehas niya this is something I wouldn't wish sa mga tuta, nanay, o kaibigan ko. Sana mas maging kinder ang mga tao sa mundo natin masyado marami gusto makasakit ng tao.
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Di lumabas din ang totoo na kaya sya nagkakaganyan eh dahil humopia sya.
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Deleteso matatahimik ka na kasi alam mo na ang totoo? masama ba na humopia si pokie?
DeleteNasaktan at nalugi na nga eh. Ang haharsh niyo pa. At one point in your lives eh sumugal at humopia din kayo. Un nga lang walang naginterview sa inyo on national TV. LOL
DeleteWalang masama umada. I,'m sure ginawa mo rin yan.
DeleteImagine wala pala siya share sa YouTube at sa Poklee business nila.
DeleteNagdemand siya ng accounting nagalit pa. Tapos sa lahat siya gumagastos. Abay kung karelasyon mo pala si Lee ang pera lahat PALABAS walang PAPALOOB LOL BIG PASS AKO SA GANYAN DUDE first date pa lang natin will certainly be our last.
natural may anak sila kaya hohopia xa..ikaw nga walang label humohopia..sya pa kaya
DeleteNakow kaya moral lesson sa mga babae yan. Walang pikutan. Walang pilitan. Mararamdaman niyo naman kapag napilitan lang. Walang effort. Walang gastos. Sa part niya!
DeleteAng daming red flagssss sa relasyon nila.
Deletesa iyak pa lang nya, fresh na fresh pa talaga
DeletePiece of advice sa mga babae. Hindi totoo un magtira kayo para sa sarili niyo. Eto advice ko sa inyo para di kayo malugi at maiwang luhaan, gutay gutay at di mapakinabangan. Sa relasyon, mas lalo kang nagbibigay, mas lalo kang di makakatangap. In relationships, the more you give, the more you will not receive. At napatunayan ko yan. Magmuni muni kayo what it means.
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Delete12:36 Bakit nya pinalayas tapos di nya napanindigan? Sya naman may kasalanan nag tapang sya tapos di pala nya kaya.
DeleteFor me, hindi ma-pride si Lee, hindi lang talaga nya mahal si Pokwang. Kung mahal nya si Pokwang, hindi na kelangan pag usapan pa ang pride. Pokwang is so patient and loving to a fault.
Delete1:00 may point ka. dapat sakto lang. walang labis, walang kulang. this video was hard to watch. she was baring her soul, grabe. sana bigyan siya ng Lord ng matino at mabait na lalake.
Delete1:00 AM Sabi nga sa Relationship Matters PH ni Richard at Maricar, it's better if the guy loves the girl more. Not the other way around.
Delete@1:16 Same tayo ng iniisip. Sana huwag na sya balikan ni Pokwang if ever bumalik si Lee. Kailangan ni Pokwang ng taong rerespeto sa kanya
Delete1:00 am I felt this - you give him your hand, he takes the whole arm. What more if you give it your all? That's why I am not interested in another romantic relationship after ending my marriage. Been there, done that. Now I get to love myself too.
DeleteAng mahalaga nagising na sya. Hindi sya minahal. Yun lang yun.
Delete1.00 Anong pinagsasabi mong para hindi maiwang luhaan siya nga itong nang-iwan at nagpalayas? Ang advice ay dapat ganito: kung hindi ka sigurado, huwag mong gawin. Don't play games. Magkaroon ka ng isang salita. Magkaroon ka ng palabra de onor. At don't use the child for your own games. Ganun!
Deletehumopia tagalog slang for umasa hehe
DeleteAng sakit
Delete1:15 some people did that somehow umaasa silang matauhan naman yung tao. majority naman kasi sa atin nashushunga sa pag ibig, doble lang siguro yung sa kanya kasi she felt insecure siguro sa klase ng trabaho niya, pinagtatawanan hitsura niya minsan. parang mabilis ma fall si pokie kaya all out siya kahit siya yung kumayod, malamang tinutukso pa yan ng mga tao around her na siya bumubuhay kaya na didivert niya yung galit niya sa lalake. nakagagawa ng decisions, nakakapag salita ng masama out of the box pag sobrang bigat na ng dinadala. naiintindihan ko si pokie, been there done that. fresh pa kasi yung sugat kaya parang lost pa siya, defense mechanism yung pagpaparinig sa social media pero deep inside umaasang mapansin silang mag ina nung partner niya. support around her ang need niya tsaka tama lang yan sa lalake, deserve niya naman malait jusko.
Delete1:15 maybe nagtapang si Pokie to assume the role of main breadwinner, pero wala man lang gifts, flowers, hindi man lang sya sinusuyo o binabati? Or konting support man lang sa anal nila? Hindi porke malakas ka, ok lang na abusuhin ka na ng iba.
DeleteKung di mo matanggap na hindi ka pa rin binalikan,walang magandang patutunguhan ang pagiging bitter mo sa mga posts and comments mo. Believe me! Been there done that! Kahit anong bunyag mo na pinalamon mo lang sya ng 6 years,na ikaw ang bumuhay sakanya,na ginamit ka lang nya,na pinagtanggol mo sya sa lahat,na after that iniwan ka pa rin. Mas lalong di ka nya irerespeto at babalikan. Respeto at pride para sa sarili mo,kaya manahimik ka na lang at ipagpatuloy ang buhay with your daughters. Kopya ka ke sunshine,nanahimik na lang.
ReplyDeleteHuh? Manahimik?
DeleteSakit naman nito pero totoo. Been there done that din. Best is to keep quiet, move on and focus on your own life.
DeleteI sympathize with you but i hope we can refrain from invalidating others emotions just because we deal with our feelings differently.
DeleteMy thoughts exactly.
DeleteMost of the time when you are quiet the more they hear you. Silent is the best revenge. Silent heals you
Deletei really hope she finds a nice pinoy guy to be her forever. the cultural differences are so vast between her & lee. hindi sila talo & he clearly took advantage of her. stay strong Pokie!
DeleteMalamang kahit sa bajay nila ipinamumukha nya kay Lee na palamunin ito na hindi nya kinonsider yung pagigig asawa at ama nito. Ayun nung oinalayas nya after everything hini na talaga siya bibalikan. It takes two to tango.
DeleteI hope di ka ina. Kapal mo.
DeleteKwento nya yan. Side nya yan. O hope Tito Boy ca interview Lee too. We also need to hear the side of him.
DeleteShe is hurting, she has every right to react the way she did. She loved fiercely naively, stupidly and gave so much of herself. I sincerely hope she heals well and if ever she does not find love in another partner, she gets to live happy and free with her beautiful daughters. She has worked hard all her life, done her best for her family. Brave woman, wish you all the best Pokie.
Delete11:19, iyan din ang tingin ko. Siguradong puro sumbat ang ginawa niya kay Lee sa bahay na walang silbi kahit naging house husband naman ito dahil nga siya ang malaki ang kinikita. Tumulong din naman sa business niya. Ganoon naman talaga, kung sino ang malaki ang kita. Parang housewife din iyan na nag-aalaga ng anak.
DeleteYup, always two sides to every story.
Delete11:23 huh? sizt ok ka lang? layo ata ng kuda mo sa sinabi ni 10:10
DeleteBruha ka 10:10. Kung nanahimik si Pokwang eh di wala tayo napanood. Ikaw na lang manahimik tutal non sense ka
Delete11:25 we don't really need to, we just want to LOL
Delete11:15 Pero sana next time wag ni Pokwang ilagay sa ulo nya na porket mas malakas syang kumita sa lalaki eh mamaliitin na nya at tatawaging palamunin. Masama naman yun kahit totoo pa. Hindi na sya talaga babalikan kasi hiniya na nya at pinalyas.
Delete10:10 everyone has different way to move on. nasa anger/bargaining stage pa sya so let her be and be understanding
Delete1:17 true kasi nakaka turn off din eh.
Delete1:17am agree ako sayo.at sana kung pababalikin nya wag ang bata ang dahil kundi dahil mahal nya talaga.ang mga guys kapag me iba na walang pake sa mga anak.kaya di ba yung mga kunwari 1night stand lang kung di mo pa i pa dna para ma prove na sila ang tatay e wala silang pake sa anak,wala sustento.pero kapag mahal na mahal ang babae kahit lima p ang anak sa ibat ibang lalaki e paninindigan.kahit malaki ang age gap,go sila.pero kapag ayaw na sayo kahit ilan pa ang anak ninyo kahit gano katagal ang pinagsamahan nakakatiis ang mga guys lalo pag me nakita ng iba.ang kelangan marealize ni Lee ay kung gaano sya minahal ni Poke despite of his kakulangan para bumalik sya.na mas mapagmahal si Pokwang,mas mabuting ina,etc.baka rin nag papalipas pa ng sama ng loob dahil pinalayas sya.di ba nakakahiya yon.lalaki ka,foreigner wla ka kamaganak sa Pinas,tapos pinalayas ka.sobrang nakakaaba yun.
DeleteHindi madali magmove on agad esp nasaktan. Iba iba naman tayo ng coping up. Nasaktan sya for herself her family and her daughter.
Delete11:03, I don't think 11:03 is invalidating Pokwang's feelings or way of coping. As unpopular the opinion might be or unusual it may sound, he/she has a point. Pokwang herself said that she felt Lee never loved nor really cared for her. That he wasn't even that dead set on having a child with her. That came out from Ogie Diaz's vlog. Clear as mud, it was Pokwang who sustained the partnership. Regardless, she tried to salvage it by inviting Lee to mert or spend time with her. Gastos at effort niya lahat yan. Why, to keep the family unit intact for their daughter even if the guy already wanted out. In other words, sobra ng binaba ni Pokwang sarili niya so that the best recourse now, regain her own pride and self-respect. For her own sake and that of her daughters. As hard as it can be, time to accept she has to at it alone now and preserve all her energies to keep her family afloat.
DeleteMalaking PAL yung lalaki. Good riddance ! You don’t need a man in your life.
Delete10:10 Iba’t iba ang way ng pagcope ng mga tao. Walang masama if umasa sya na balikan sya, ganyan naman lahat ng naramdaman ng mga nakipaghiwalay. Lalo na for her, may anak sila. Huwag mo sya sisihin. Yes, malamang may pagkukulang din si Pokwang at maybe minaliit nya yung isa pero may reason naman bakit nya ginawa yun. That’s desperation dahil yung tao, if matigas ulo at walang pagbabago, yan na ang last way mo to talk to an abusive partner. You need to tell them who they are and what they are kasi baka matauhan sila. If you’ve been there and done that, then you should have understood her situation. Hindi madali makipaghiwalay at tanggapin. Sa tingin ko, nasa stage pa lang sya ng anger. Kaya dapat show her your empathy.
Delete10.53,kahit anong pagpaparinig naten,pagpoposts,pag kukwento na pinalamon lang naten sila ng matagal na panahon,walang mangyayari. Kids lang ang apektado sa mga ganyan pagkukuda sa mga posts and comments.
DeleteNapapanood ko pa dati vlog nila na pinagluluto ni pokwang ng paborito ni lee na callos, may magreregalo ng cake at madaming brazo de mercedes na paborito daw ni lee. Kataka lang na parang nabalewala. Wala ba ni katiting na malasakot at pagmamahal o appreciation? Parang ang kapal naman nung Lee. Eto effort si Pokie, emotionally and financially pinagtatakpan, pinaglaban tapos deadma lang. red flag na rin kasi yung years na kayo magkasama wala man lang engagement. Ganun ba kamanhid yung lalaking yun? Yes naging bitter si Pokie, sinasagot yung bashers para rin pagtakpan si Lee kasi nga mahal nya eh. Mahirap ang struggle ni Pokwang caught between love and hate sana intindihin na lang natin sya. Buti nga nailabas nya kundi sasabog na yan magkasakit pa sya. Pero mabait pa rin si God, may tv show, may show abroad, may mga raket so dun pa lang blessing na despite na failed relationship. Bless you more Pokwang, and bless your ex too. Sana one day lunukin nya na pride nya for Malia’s sake.
DeleteAnong kopya ke sunshine dahil nananahimik lang? Dati rin kumukuda si sunshine sa social media dahil sa lack of support ni cesar sa mga anak nya. Natural lang maging bitter minsan para ma release yung hinanakit sa dibdib lalo na nasaksihan pa nung bata na meron ng iba yung tatay. Hindi mo yata tinapos yung interview, hindi na sya umaasa pa dahil ayaw na nya.
DeleteAyaw ko kay Pokwang pero ang sakit sakit ng iyak niya kanina sa FWBA.
ReplyDeleteLalo na dun sa part na paghingi ng sorry sa nanay nya
DeleteI believe her dun sa parteng sinabi nya na ramdam nya hindi naman talaga sya minahal ni Mr. Lee
ReplyDeleteUng kahit bulaklak or pa cake man lang, wala nbigay sa 5 years eh my youtube channel daw si lee. Saan ung pera npupunta? I believe he really just used pokwang's popularity for his advantage. My nkkta pa babae ksama sometimes ng mga friends ni pokwang
DeleteMinahal naman siguro noon una, kaya lang nainis na later on. 2021 pa sila hiwalay. Iyong mga nakakita ay 2022 na.
DeleteMukhang nawala ang bulaklak at greetings ay noong naghiwalay na sila, pero umaasa pa rin siya.
Deletehindi naman kasi lahat ng lalaki ay showy with emotions. meron talaga na hindi naman in their character na magbigay ng bulaklak, ma-alala ang anniversary etc. eh di dapat sa una pa lang nakita na ni pokwang yun.
Deleteit comes with the territory 11.04
DeleteSinabi nga na never daw nya nfeel na minahal siya dahil wala daw naibigay pg valentines at mothers day.
DeleteKawawang pokwanggg
ReplyDeleteSinaktan ka na nga at pinagpalit mahal mo parin?
ReplyDeleteHindi basta basta nawawala ang pagmamahal
DeleteYung crush mo nga lang e mahirap na maka move on kahit wala naman
Nakakaiyak naman 😢 naawa ko ke Pokie. Be strong girl kaya mo yan
ReplyDeleteAdults kasi don’t change. Pag may red flags, naku mag isip isip ka na ng plan b.
ReplyDeleteBulag sa pag-ibig si Mamang. Buti nagising na. Hindi na talaga magbabago ang ugali, lalo lang mag lalala yan kapag tumira na isang bubong. Kaya be careful what you tolerate.
ReplyDeleteMamang sa tingin ko you’ll be happier if you’re single. Hayaan mo na si Lee, shunga na lang papatol dyan
ReplyDeleteNafeel ko iyong pain niya kasi nagmahal talaga siya. Kapag may anak, kaya talaga magtolerate kasi iyong bata masaya sa Tatay din eh. Hindi naging maramot si Pokwang na mag give up agad para sa kanya lang.
ReplyDeleteOMG!!!
ReplyDeleteKung mag ne negosyo ka wag kang mag ha hire or makikipag partner sa asawa bf gf nanay kapatid kaibigan!
ReplyDeleteMahirap yan nagka issue lang di lang negosyo magkaka issue pati relationship nyo
Very true.
Deletetotoo to.
DeleteMarami akong nakikitang mga negosyo na mag-asawa lang nagpapatakbo at nagpapalakad, esp small businesses, na maayos naman so there are exceptions to the rule din.
DeleteMas ok itong fast talk ng gma 7 kasi all out talaga ang revelation ng mga guest at artista nila walang PABEBE
ReplyDeleteSa fast talk abs cbn kasi parang ramdam mo meron pigil mga artista nila e kahit nga simple kayo na ayaw sumagot ng diretso
People are so cruel with their comments. When someone is going through something like this, no need to be hurtful. She already admitted that she lied to protect him, because she loves him. She made it clear that she doesn’t want him back; that she will focus on raising her daughter and protect her at all cost. She’s in pain so this is her way to cope with it. I’m not saying it’s okay to speak about it publicly. Keeping it private is better because her daughter will watch this one day.
ReplyDeleteSakit naman nung magkasama sa bahay pero salubungan lang walang usap usap.
ReplyDeleteHopiang munggo yon lang. Aray! Umasa pala talaga sya na magkakabalikan kaya sobrang bitter ngayon.
ReplyDeleteSana magkaroon ka ng emphathy. Kahit konti lang
DeleteIt is useless to love someone who can't love you back
ReplyDeleteTrue.
DeletePara kang naglaba ng damit na may pintura. Napakahirap tanggalin maliban nalang buhusan mo ng gas. Pero minsan, kahit buhusan mo ng gas dipa rin matatanggal ang pintura kaya itapon nalang. It's a lost and hopeless case.
Pag ang lalake talaga tamad walang diskarte sa buhay nakakawala talaga ng respeto yan
ReplyDeleteAgree
DeleteHindi ako babae hindi ako nanay wala akong anak wala rin ako jowa pero iyak ako ng iyak huhu
ReplyDeleteYou have a good heart.
DeleteHormones Yan te
Delete12:54 wala kang puso. Empathy kulang sau.
DeletePwede ring compassion, empathy, or being human enough to feel another’s pain
DeleteWhaaaaat? Mahal mo pa rin kahit hindi ka naman minahal?
ReplyDeleteLove is blind.
DeleteI hope you find peace, Pokwang. Let go and move on.
ReplyDeleteMamsh titigan mong maigi ang mukha ng lalaking iniiyakan mo. Your tears are too precious to be wasted on a person like him!
ReplyDeletePwede pala sila mag guest jan sa GMA?
ReplyDeleteGma na si pokie
DeleteSee, kaya yung mga ibang bashers talaga hindi naman nanonood sa network na binabash nila
DeleteMasyado nang malalim yung sugat, Pokwang. Minsan kelangan na lang natin tanggapin ang mga bagay bagay. Ang mahalaga, ikaw alam mo sa sarili mo na totoong nagmahal ka at naging tapat ka.
ReplyDeleteInlababo much si Pokie.
ReplyDeleteAyaw ko kay Pokwang since ABS-CBN days nya pero naramdaman ko sya sa interview na to. Napaluha nya ako kasi naka relate ako sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteMataas ang pride kasi hinahabol mo Mamang. I wish your heart finds the happiness it deserves.
ReplyDeleteUnpopular opinion: Let Pokwang deal with her pain the way she wants it. If talking about it helps her, then so be it. Mas magandang malaman ng bata what kind of father she has so he can be more mindful of his actions. Maganda din n ma-realize ni Lee n he can no longer manipulate Pokwang. When all the dust has settled, Pokwang will learn the lesson behind the pain and hopefully come out of it a better, stronger person.
ReplyDeleteAyaw na nga siya balikan kaya malamang na walang plano si Lee na mag-manipulate sa kanya, relationship-wise.
DeleteThis. Di lang kay Pokwang but to all. Masakit maloko.
DeleteI agree! Kung yun ang way nya to overcome her pain let her. Kanya kanya naman tayo ng paraan on how to deal with our own pain.
DeleteMost helpful opinion. Please screenshot. Thank you.
DeleteSalamat at may nabasa din akong maayos na comment
Delete12.18 you hit the nail on the head! 'yong iba hindi nagisip. contradicting ang sinabi.
DeleteLove this! We all hurt in different ways, we all lash out in varying degrees, and we all heal in our own ways.
DeleteWe may not agree with how others heal themselves, but let's give them enough freedom, respect, and support on their journey.
Hugs.
12:18 he can still manipulate using their daughter. Kaya nga napikon na si Pokwang kasi panay post si Lee tungkol kay Tisay akala mo kung sinong good father kung magpabango online yun pala all this time wala sya binigay na support despite having earnings.
Delete7:29, house husband siya for 6 years.
DeleteNaku powkie, Americano yan. Ganyan talaga sila, deretsa dapat di ka na nagmix signal. Dapat sinabi mo nalang na gusto mo makipagbalikan.
ReplyDeleteThis! Kapag gusto mong makipagbalikan, sabihin ng diretso. Walang pakipot-kipot pa.
DeleteYun ngang dinerecha nya ng tanong kung ano ng update sa negosyo nila eh nag inarte na yung Lee. So hindi rin dahil sa kung anong nationality nya.
Delete12:51, they meant that sana direct nya sinabi na gusto nya magkabalikan. Pokwang said she’d been sending signals to the guy that she wants to get back together.
DeleteAy talaga ba, yung limang taon na syang binubuhay dapat deretsahin pa rin na tulungan mo naman akong magtrabaho?
Delete12.51 ang pangit siguro ng pagkakatanong niya kaya ganun. Maybe her tone is full of disrespect? Take note, huwag mong itulad ang mga American men sa mga lalaking Pinoy co'z they have b*lls. Pinoy men? Not much kaya ina-under.
DeleteRight. If she did not play games and like drama, there is a big possibility that she wouldn't be crying now.
DeleteMay pa-signal pa kasi siyang nalalaman. Playing mind games iyon, manipulation. Tapos kung sigawan niya na palamunin kahit totoo rin, nakunsumi rin si Lee.
Delete7;25, iyan nga rin ang tingin ko. Pasigaw at pasumbat niya siguro tinanong si Lee.
DeleteSa mga seminar bago kasal, tinuturo kung ano dapat ang trato ng mag asawa sa isa't isa. Isa dun yung speak kindly...lovingly of each other. Walang sinabi na tawagin mong palamunin ang iyong kabiyak. Sobrang sakit niyan.
ReplyDeleteHindi naman sila kasal
Deletehindi sila kasal at di niya asawa. how much more kung asawa. (ex. si paolo c)
Delete11:18 she was pushed to that point. Sobrang pasensya nya kay Lee how many years na. Giving Lee control of businesses, walang tulong sa gastusin kahit may earnings naman pala yung guy, at pinagtangol pa nya si Lee when people correctly pointed out that he was using her as sugar mommy. Hindi nagkulang sa pagbigay ng love si Pokwang, si Lee ang nagkulang. Tapos nung finally naubusan na si Pokwang ng pisi and started putting her foot down, sya pay may masama?
DeleteJusko 12.43,literal na inapply mo nga yung "seminar bago ang kasal". 2023 na,let's cut the BS na porke "hindi kasal",e hindi na nga mag asawa.
DeleteMabait syang tao pero mas mabait syang ina. Mabuti ang nagising ka na sa katotohanan. Mas magiging successful ka kasi wala ka ng palamunin mamang.
ReplyDeleteI feel bad for Pokwang. Classic case of a foreigner picking a hard working Filipina who can be their sugar mama and caregiver.
ReplyDeleteToo true. In the years they were together, the guy never really did anything remarkable. With Pokwang's support he could have ventured into many things if he was really motivated to find his footing and support their little family. But none can be seen - outside of their mom and pop biz, and the social media that still relied on Pokie and their kid, there was none. It's like he took it easy and relied on his sugar mommy. Just imagine the kind of damage this has done to Pokie herself and the kind of example this set on the kids around them. Lee had a lavish life with Pokie and was recognized with respect by others since she defended him resolutely. Many Filipina women who are OFWs and marry abroad become like that, marry a batugan national and the OFW becomes the breadwinner, caregiver, housekeeper, etc. That's bot love, that's like funding someone to be your lackey. Grabted the women thought they got lucky and found love, yet in the end they are nothing more than tools for an easier, batugan life for the men they come across. They give so much of themselves , many naively, and end up spent and hurt, having wasted so many years.
DeleteWala nman yata akong babaeng kakilala na nasa ibang bansa at sya ang bumubuhay sa husband nya. Usually, the man and woman are both working. Lol
DeleteTrue mga foreigner ganyan. Ikaw ang work sila tambay
Delete12:18 Hay naku maraming kwentong ganyan, and not just with foreigners. Mga babaeng nagiging tagabitbit ng asawa nila. Buti sana kung househusband pero hindi eh, yung babae pa rin yung tagalinis, luto, laba, alaga ng bata on top of being breadwinner.
DeleteIt goes both ways. Ang daming Pinay dito sa America na na-meet lang sa Facebook yung lalaki, kahit hindi nila mahal, pinakasalan for a better life, kahit matanda na ang lalaki. After maka establish, they divorce and leave the guy. If it is acceptable that way, let's not think that it can't happen the other way around. Just so happened na sikat si Pokwang. Swerte pa sya kasi she has money. Regular people will be heartbroken AND penniless.
DeleteLet go of him Pokwang. Tanggapin natin na failure sya. Di natin mapipilit na mahalin ka ng isang tao.
ReplyDeleteI find a person desperate who make patol sa isang taong alam mong hindi faithful, irresponsible, user etc.
ReplyDeleteYou feel for her. Iyak talaga ng taong nasasaktan. Pero when she's all cried out and there's no other option, babangon 'yan. Best of luck to you po!
ReplyDelete1000% kapag binalikan siya ni Lee makikipqgbalikan siya. Hope God gives you the grace of being indifferent. Kapag ganyan ka pa ka affected, mahal mo pa. If wala ka na nararamdaman, dun mo masasabi na makakapag move ok ka na. Sana dumating na sayo yun pokwang. He’s not worth it.
ReplyDeleteBuo nga kayo at magkasama pero nakikita naman ni Malia kung paano ang Tatay niya. You will normalize it for her. Gusto mo ba magkaroon ng ganyang asawa si Malia in the future?
Hugs pokie 🥹
ReplyDeleteAng kapal ni Lee na na offend pa kahit hindi niya pera.
ReplyDeleteNapaka unfair tlg ng mundo ikaw na niloko ginamit ikaw pa yung bitter sa pningin ng mga tao dhil naglabas ka ng sama ng loob. U will never know someone's pain till you experience it. D madali mag move on let her be
ReplyDeleteShe keeps saying that it’s for Malia that she wanted to get back with him, pero it doesn’t completely ring true. Feeling ko ayaw niyang aminin na “I’m in love with him kaya I want him back. Not just for Malia, but also for myself.” Ma-pride din.
ReplyDelete12:07 I don't think it's pride. Mahirap din kasi aminin na mahal mo pa rin ang isang tao na nanakit at nagmaltrato sayo. Hirap i-explain and most people would not understand.
DeleteGanyan talaga karamihan sa mga kano pag ayaw na ayaw na. Di rin sila katulad ng mga Pinoy na lahat ng occasion i commemorate. Talagang need mo mag adjust or else hopia ka tuwing may okasyon.
ReplyDeleteWag kayo pakialamera kung yan ang way ni Pokwang para mag-cope sa pinagdadaanan nya.
ReplyDeletethe 5 stages of grief - denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance … kailangan daanan at malagpasan
ReplyDeleteThis is soo chrew!
DeleteOmg. F*ck this guy. Now I understand her anger.
ReplyDeleteMangiyak iyak na ako for pokwang pero yung false eyelashes, hahaha natawa talaga ako. 😂
Same, I feel bad for her Grabe yung lalaki
DeleteMove-on na Pokie, kaso wala ka ng magagawa sa ex mo may bago na siya. Much better focus ka na lang sa anak mo at paunti-unti ipaintindi sa kanya ang sitwasyon ninyo
ReplyDeleteMaybe instead of blasting that loser ex on social media, she should seek a professional therapist to help her understand her feelings.
ReplyDeletetalking to boy is her therapy.
DeleteHindi din nya siguro matiis sampolan si Lee at mga enablers nya.
DeleteNakahanap ng mas Galante yun kano ganun lang yun. Miss Pokie move on na kayo. Buti pa na wala na yun.
ReplyDeleteKung talagang ang hanap nung lalaki ay 'yong mas mapera sa kanya, pinakasalan niya dapat si Pokie.
DeleteNgayon na nakatikim na siya ng pagmamalatrato ng isang Pokie sa kanya, maghahanap pa ba siya ng isang another Pokie? Malamang hindi na.
As for his financial capacity, unlike other commenters here that judge him very loosely, I would say, I can't comment on this because I didn't see his portfolio.
Una sa lahat sobra kang nagexpect. Matanda na yung Lee hindi mo na mababago yan.
ReplyDeleteAwww i feel sorry for her,i feel you mamang,.you dont deserve to be treated that way.
ReplyDeleteKnow your worth po. The bare minimum hindi nya magawa to give you flowers, greet you on mothers day, or say sorry when he hurt you. He does't feel any remorse. Itapon mo na. If he loves himself more than you, he is makasarili.
ReplyDeleteThis!
DeleteIf HURTING you doesn't HURT him, he doesn't LOVE you, he is just USING you.
ReplyDeleteSo parang narcissistic partner abuse lang?
ReplyDeletenarc yan lalaki. narcs ruins everyone in their path. masarap sa una, iyak sa dulo.
ReplyDeleteah humopia pala siya na babalikan pa sya
ReplyDeleteShe has her reasons . Let her be.
DeleteGirl lahat naman ganyan lalo pag may anak kayo. Kung wala keri lang paalisin mo na wala naman contribution. Kaso may bata! Walag nanay di umaasa na mabuo pamilya para sa bata.
Delete10:40, pinagsisihan niya ang pagpapalayas and then nagbibigay siya ng signal na gusto niyang makipagbalikan.
DeleteKaya kahit ano sabihin ni Pokwang, iba talaga ang hagip ko sa guy….
ReplyDeleteuna pa lang alam mo naman na wala syang work sa pinas tinanggap mo naman sya.
ReplyDeleteYes, but after that, yung business, poklee bottled products, YouTube etc., no flowers, no greetings, No support, no financial transparency, as in sya ang naglabas ng pera for businesses but no accounting in black and white, Wala pa rin after 5 yrs, he never loved her and that was what she realized after 6 yrs.
DeleteKaya nga binigyan na nya ng negosyo, para may pagkakitaan si Lee. Pero wala, ayaw pa rin mag ambag kahit singko.
DeleteSo dapat di sumama loob niya ganun kase tanggapin nalang niya na ginamit lang talaga siya? Sana di mangyari sayo yan pinagdaanan niya.
DeleteIt seems more like a situationship than a real relationship..
ReplyDeleteMalamang pattern na talaga nung lalaki yan, I bet ganyan din ginawa nya sa ex nya before poki.
ReplyDeleteMay youtube ba si afam nung sila pa?
ReplyDeleteshe have been through a lot and strong ang personality nya so for sure malalampasan nya to.. after all, she has been blessed with two beautiful daughters kahit di okay yung mga tatay
ReplyDeleteGuys one side palang ang narinig natin.
ReplyDeleteBe strong Pokie!
ReplyDeleteYung si Pokwang lang talaga sinisisi nyo lol. It takes 2 to tango gasgas na gasgas man.
ReplyDeleteAng dami huli tanong ni Tito boy
ReplyDeleteGrabe yung iyak ni Mamang, nakakaawa.💔
ReplyDeleteI can understand now kung bakit sila naghiwalay pero kung pinalayas mo at gusto mo pala na magkabalikan, don’t use signals or signs... use words to communicate. Ma pride yung tao kasi pinalayas mo tapos nag comment ka pa sa public ng masasakit tungkol sa kanya, ang dami pa nangbabash, so paano ka nya babalikan? I’m not saying na he doesn’t deserve it, he seems like a loser based on what she said in the interview (if true) pero sa pagka warfreak ni pokwang sa ig, tingin ko thats the way she is when she communicates with him.
ReplyDelete'pero sa pagka warfreak ni pokwang sa ig, tingin ko thats the way she is when she communicates with him.' - i so agree with you on this including your 'if true'.
DeleteI dont wanna judge Lee just because Pokwang spill everything because its only Pokwang's version of the story.
ReplyDeleteIts unfair to judge him. Maybe, he's a narcs by his look but that is not enough to judge him.
Isang malaking yakap pokie. Madaling sabihan ang kapwa na mag move on or dati pa dapat alam mo na na palamunin. Pero pag inlove ang tao, nagiging bulag tayo sa katotohanan. Na inlove din tayo at one point. So lets let her heal at unawaan nalang naten mga hanash nya sa social media.
ReplyDeleteWarning sa mga pinay. Avoid foreigners gagawin lang kayo breadwinner and caregiver ng mga yan. They are batugan in nature.
ReplyDeleteNot my husband
DeleteDitto
DeleteHindi talaga Lahat makikita sa social media ay totoo. Obvious naman na palamunin si Lee pero Pokwang always defends him. At kitang kita na kayod kalabaw c Pokie.
ReplyDeleteI dont think money is the real issue, issue ni pokwang is binigay mo na lahat, itinaboy ka pa. Ganyan talaga ugali ng mga lalaking insecure kaya mahirap kapag palamunin ang lalaki.
ReplyDeleteNo flowers or chocolates man Lang? That’s harsh. To Pokwang- it’s a blessing in disguise that he left you. Now you can move on and not worry about another mouth to feed, bump into someone in your house without being acknowledged and protect your child thinking that she wants her future husband to be exactly like her dad. 😡 just hang in there…you’re better off without him
ReplyDeleteParang walang flowers lang naman noong nag-aaway na sila palagi.
DeleteDaming nagmamarunong dito, na kesyo dapat tahimik na lang si Pokwang at bakit after everything mahal pa nya si Lee, papalayasin then di kaya panindigan. Well, iba-iba po ang tao. Meron mga matapang na kaya i-let go na lang at mag move on. Meron naman na talagang sasagarin sa kata-try kakainin ang pride para lang mabuo sila ulit, lalo pa may anak silang maliit pa. Yan ang sinasabi nyang di kaya gawin ni Lee na kainin ang pride. Kelan lang naman nagbitaw ng masasakit ng salita si Pokwang. Pinagtatakpan nya pa nga dati kasi nga gusto nya mabuo ulit sila, kahit pagtiiisan nya uling palamunin si Lee. Imagine, sa kanya yung puhunan sa negosyo, then sinabit nya si Lee bilang partner. Ang kalaunan, sya na naitsapwera at wala syang karapatang magtanong. Sabi ng iba baka magkasama pa sila minamaliit nya na si Lee kaya di sya minahal. Hello, common sense and logic lang gagamitin. Di ba nga si Lee na ang humawak ng negosyo nila at inalisan nya si Pokwang ng rights kahit magtanong? Pati youtube channel? Kung minamaliit mo ang tao, ipagkakatiwala mo ba pamamahala ng kabuhayan nyo sa kanya?I want to reserve my judgment muna sana kasi di santo si Pokwang at mukhang di naman siya mabait, pero sa point na ito, mukhang siya talaga ang na-ga-go dito at patuloy na nag-pa-ga-go. Obviously, since alam naman ng lahat kung pano nya pagtakpan si Lee noon, then lately nagbago. It proves na before kinakain nya pride nya for the sake of family. So far, wala akong sympathy kay Lee. Based sa interview ni Pokie, mukhang nanggamit talaga sya at matigas ang puso nya. But in case mainterview sya at super iba ang story nya, then maybe I'll change my view. But I doubt it.
ReplyDeleteThe consequence ng nagmamahal ng tamad na pogi. Lahat pagtatakpan
ReplyDeleteagoy. you gave to much and expected too much in return. and then pinamukha mo sa isa na, hey, ako ang nagpalamon sa 'yo for these many number of years alam mo 'yan! hindi ganon ang love. you humiliate and belittle someone, talagang lalayo ang loob sa 'yo. pag ako ginanyan, love will fly out the window talaga.
ReplyDeleteNgayon na lang nagbibitiw ng masasakit na salita si Pokwang. Parang nakalimutan na ng mga tao na nung bagong hiwalay pa lang sila last year, todo defend pa rin si Pokie kay Lee kesyo wala naman daw issue sa pera good father daw ok sila etc. If she wanted to belittle him she could have said something back then pero hindi kasi she was still trying to make things work. Si Lee ang walang pakialam.
DeleteSorry Pokwang ha but i just have no respect for people who wash their dirty linens in public much much more kapag may anak who will suffer in the end. It wouldnt be a huge issue naman if you didnt rant in socmed. 🤦♀️
ReplyDeleteIt takes two tango mamang! You know right from the start the guy doesn’t have a job. After 2 years na wlang syang work at ikaw ang provider you should have stop. But umabot ng 6 years? Why? Dahil minahal mo sya and you think he loves you too. Tapos after mo malaman na hndi ka pala mahal nanunumbat ka? May fault sya but you’re also at fault for allowing it to happen for years. I’m sorry but di lng tlaga ako pabor sa babae 100% esp. if you didn’t protect yourself too. Dapat wise din tayo sa pag ibig.
ReplyDeleteThat guy is a user and abuser dapat ipa deport na yan! Go back in the states and flip burgers!
ReplyDeleteGrabe naman kayo kay Pokwang parang di kayo nagmahal ng todo. Hayaan nyo na sya to express how she feels if na cheapan kayo sa approach nya kebs na lang. Perfect nyo msydo. Ganyan talaga kapag nasasakatan lalu na binigay mo lahat.
ReplyDeleteAww! Yung mga maka comment dito na umasa kase siya keso mayabang siya sa socmed niya... ano ba dapat? Ayan ni-spill na niya lahat ng gusto niyo masama parin siya and ibabalik natin talaga sa kanya na humopia siya magkabalikan sila?? So wrong!! Unang una sa iyak pa lang niya halata naman hibdi yan acting lang nasaktan yung tao. 5 years wala siya hinihingi tapos isang maling move lang ni hindi siya pinaglaban? Tapos may babae pa ata. Masyado mali magisap mga tao dito parang gusto siya i condemn na umasa siya, bakit naman hindi pwede yun eh may anak sila? Kayo kaya mag trabaho ng limang taon na walang katuwang sa mga gastusin nag pandemic pa and hindi naman siya bata na marami pang project, hindi ba kahit papanp may mabubuo naman talaga sama ng loobm yung flowers mababaw lang satin yun, perp sa kanya na nafifeel ginamit siya why kailangan invalidate ng mga tao dito purket strong yung comebacks niya sa bashers sa IG? She's clearly hurting and as a woman kaparehas niya this is something I wouldn't wish sa mga tuta, nanay, o kaibigan ko. Sana mas maging kinder ang mga tao sa mundo natin masyado marami gusto makasakit ng tao.
ReplyDeleteNagkababae si Lee ay break na sila. Naging house husband si Lee, na kabaligtaran ng housewife. Dapat ba ay ganyan din ang trato sa mga housewife?
DeleteUser friendly until he found a better supply. And the cycle goes on and on.
ReplyDeleteGets ko yun pain ni Pokwang. Pero parang mali n isapubliko p yun detalye lalot tatay xa ng anak mo.
ReplyDeleteMabuti na rin yun para alam na lahat ng mga filipina ang ugali ni lalaki before nila patulan in the future.
DeleteNot meant to be, she might be better off single. Mahirap kasi flex ng flex sa social media most of the time yun magkakahiwalay.
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