When i gave birth a few years ago, gusto ko rin sana magkaganyan kaso naisip ko kailangan kong bantayan baby ko since may work mister ko. Pag nag postpartum depression ako, di na ako makakapag function since ako lang naman mag isa bahay at maapektuhan baby ko. So imbis magdrama, naging busy ako sa pag aalaga sa baby ko.
8:12 She was diagnosed with PPD. Hindi sya “nagddrama” lang. Don’t invalidate her struggles just because you can not afford to do what she did to recover and handle her post partum issues. Chuserang to!
Feeling ko nauso lang naman yan sa panahon natin ngayon. I have 4 kids and I have to work immediately since I just work from home. 2 weeks after giving birth thru CS, never felt any post partum depression since I was too focused on recovery. I had to work 2 weeks after giving birth, but luckily I only rendered 4 hours.
I empathize with you. Ganyan din nangyari sa akin, lakas ng post Partum ko pero wala magaalaga sa anak ko so I had to do the best that I can. That was 19 years ago, di ko alam paano ko nalagpasan. I think yun love ko para sa anak ko yun nagpalakas ss akin. Ngayon my daughter and I are still so close. Sabi nya pag niyayakap nya daw ako may comforting smell daw sya naamoy. Mommy smell daw yun 😅 Kahit daw nakapikit Mata nya malalaman nya if it's me or not.
There are many factors why women suffer from PPD and it could be internal and external. External could include weak family support, lack of financial resources that could lead women to worry about their finances. Having a newborn baby can be overwhelming and entails a lot of expenses. Internal could include chemical or hormonal imbalance or inability to cope with life changing events.
8:12 pm ARE YOU FOR REAL? Gusto mo rin sanang magka PPD? Alam mo ba na seryosong mental illness yan? At hindi DRAMA? Some moms even develop post partum psychoses and kill their own kids. OK KA LANG????
Gosh, this comment reeks ignorance and mukhang di ka babae 812. 😂 Sana lang tlaga ppd is drama wala sanang mga nanay na pinatay ang mga anak nila. Yang sayo 812 hindi yan ppd kundi pabebe yan. 😂
Sis, naoffend ako sa "imbis na magdrama". I had ppd with my first born. Kakaibang lungkot pero alam mo kung anong pinakamasakit? Yung ayaw ko man lang tingnan ang baby ko. Yung pag hawak ko sya hindi ko sya matingnan. Lalo na yung hindi ko sya masabihan na mahal ko sya dahil hindi ko nararamdaman na mahal ko sya. It was dark. Para akong robot. Inaalagaan ko sya, pinapadede, hinehele, pero wala akong pakiramdam towards her. Kung hindi ako nagpagamot hindi ko alam kung anong nagawa ko.
Sa isang banda naisip ko sana nga naexperience mo magkaganyan. Siguro mas naintindihan mo si Kylie. Siguro hindi mo sasabihing nagdadrama lang sya. Pero knowing the struggle, i wouldnt wish it on anybody.
This is the most ignorant comment dito. Gusto mo rin sana magkaganun? Sorry but that’s just dumb! Hindi pagdadrama lang yun. What a way to invalidate her feelings. PPD is real. Maybe hindi nangyari sayo and you should be grateful about it pero you have no right to insinuate na pagddrama lang ang PPD.
Since you’re already online, you could have tried researching about PPD and anxiety first bago ka magcomment ng ganyan. Hindi pagdadrama ang PPD and anxiety. I have an anxiety after giving birth to a preterm baby and had to be in the NICU for 71 days. We werr told he only had 30% chance of surviving and even magsurvive he could be bedboud and in vegetative state. Very similar kami ng pinagdaanan ni Kylie. And kahit ngaun na 1 year old na ang anak ko and he’s doing fine, I still feel the same way, hindi nawawala lahat ng takot. Sobrang ignorante ng comment mo.
It's not just pagddrama. Read up on it muna before saying it's just drama and get over it. It's an actual illness that needs intervention and for some it's even a psychiatric emergency kung saan kailangan ihiwalay uung mom sa kid/s for everyones safety as what I think happened with Kylie if you read between the lines. It can happen to anyone. I myself experienced it. You'd think that a mom with a healthy, rainbow baby conceived through IVF would be immune but I wasn't. I wasn't happy, I felt alone, I did all the things I was supposed to do but I was numb. There were invasive dark thoughts like paano if nahulog si baby sa balcony or nalunod sa tub amd then I'd snap out of it. I read up on it and I'm glad to have gotten the help I needed. My baby is almost 2 years old and although there are still bad days, I can say that the worst is over. Wag nyong sabihing hindi ko mahal anak ko. Mahal ko sya pero nagkasakit ako at nangailangan ako ng tulong.
With all due respect 11:39PM I beg to disagree po. Just because "nung araw wala namang ganyan" doesn't mean PPD or depression in general didn't exist. People are more vocal and more aware now.
Pareho kayo ng Mother ko who never believed in depression. She said "Mahina kasi ang faith" or "Hindi madasalin". I said to her "Ma wag ganyan. You can't empathize coz you don't know". It's a mental health problem at hindi pag-iinarte lang.
Napakainsensitive ng iba dito. Kailangan bang invalidate experience ni Kylie just because? Ang pinagkaiba, celebrity sya puhunan nya hitsura nya at pagiging fresh alam naman natin pag nanay ka last yan sa priority mo pero sa kanya ano gagawin nya nung nawala puhunan nya?? Tapos public pa lahat ng nangyayari sa kanya.unlike kayo kung may struggles hindi as magnified. Ang hirap nung ang daming mata sa yo. Apektado mental health mo. DIBA NGA USUALLY pag may mother in law, di kinakaya ng mga wives kasi may malaking maritess? Imagine sya buong pilipinas maritess sa buhay nya and ang panget ng nangyayari sa kanya kasi sino ba si aljur? Di nga nakakaprovide.tapos galing pa sya sa napakarangyang buhay. Imagine mo yun buhay naibigay ni robin versus nung nagkaanak sya kay aljur. Wala pa nga yatang yaya si Kylie kay Alas dahil di nila afford..
Haha not true. Yung friend kong hindi mayaman (mas may kaya ako kaysa sa kanya) may postpartum depression sya. Ako naman may clinical depression. Matagal na ako may psychiatrist even way before "sumikat" ang mental health. Dati rin ako may paranoia. Nung high school student nga ako, sinabihan pa ako ng bully "diba umiinom ka ng gamot pang baliw?" Tapos ngayon lahat na may mental illness. Kung pwede lang sana i-gatekeep for real ang ganitong conditions. Hay. Kainis.
My friend is experiencing post partum anxiety. Kasi natatakot sya na baka hindi nya mapalaki ng maayos ang anak nya. Mag 43yo na kasi kami at 4 months old pa lang yung baby nya. So hindi lang pang mayaman te.
Walang pinipiling estado sa buhay ang PPD. I've known few women from my community who have experienced those. 2 dun naging Post partum psychosis pa. The one committed suicide, the other one ended in mental hospital she tried to hurt the baby. And list goes on. I was a community health nurse, so I know. This case is not rare to the poor community.
Mema lang? “Very rare” kasi wala silang means pumunta sa doctor para ma-diagnose properly at di rin sila celebrity, kaya wala silang platform. It doesn’t mean hindi nangyayari sa kanila. At tragedy yun ng healtcare system na natin na kulang ang support sa mental health for the indigent.
Anong supporting statistics mo for that? Di pwedeng because of financial status that can affect knowledge about the matter and di na na diagnose? And who knows some of them nagpakamatay nalang o nabaliw na na di pala alam na PPD na yun.
May evidence ba ang hanash ng mga tao dito, o hinugot lang kung saan? Nagresearch ba ang mga tao dito regarding post partum depression to claim that ut doesn't occur sa mga mahihirap?
Hindi kami mayaman pero nagka PPD din ako. Marami lang undiagnosed na akala nila tinotoyo lang sila or pagod lang sila. It’s real, I couldn’t believe it myself na nagkaganun ako nung magaling na ako.
813 tingin mo lang yan rare sa mahihirap pero if you really look around sa mga kapitbahay mong bagong panganak, makikita mo nman na may ibang epekto ang panganganak. Wla syang pangalan dati dahil hindi pa uso ang internet at socmed.
Despite Robin being her father, I'm really glad that she bounced back. I hope she focus on improving her craft while be the best single mother for her child. I see a lot of potential in her just waiting for the right project & a good PR team to elevate her celebrity status.
Maganda sya malakas ang appeal laking tulong din na padilla sya at astig sya she's also a real martial artist talagang next action drama Queen na sana ng gma 7 then nabuntis, ang bait talaga ng gma 7 ha di sya sinukuan
Kylie doesn’t write cohesively, no? She writes about authenticity and yet she seems too concerned to convince people of… something. Is this calculated (pre)damage control for something she thinks is brewing under the surface and is about to blow over?
If Jennylyn could bounce back before then so can she. Mas may edge pa nga sya because she can also do action at natural ang angas despite looking delicate.
Sobrang pagmamahal nya kay Aljur dati, kasikatan ng career nya nabuntis sya, nabuntis ulit and gets ko yung sinasabi nyang nawala na yung sarili nyang identity. Buti okay na sya ngayon.
I surely had a ppd after having a baby. Single mum and all… but I didnt really bury myself into loneliness. I took strength from my baby and kept my feelings to myself. People who announces to the world that they suffer from ppd are so papansin and leaving inside they’re bubble. Sorry not sorry
Sa mga di nakaranas ng PPD ipagpasalamat nyo sa Diyos dahil di lahat nagkakaroon nyan kinakaya! I’ve been diagnosed PPD ,anxiety plus panic disorder!Napakahirap sa tulad kong nasa ibang bansa walang nanay na mag aalaga !Hindi din uso Praternity leave dito sa bansang Japan so hindi ako maalagaan ng hubby ko kase mga hapon mga workaholic may kasama nga ako byenan pero hindi din ako maalagaan dahil ako pa nag aalaga at bed ridden that time na overdosed sa maintenance nya for HB ! I can’t imagine paano ako naka survived maglalaba ako magluluto while iniinda pa akong tahi tapos wala ako kahalili mag alaga kay baby papakainin ko pa yung byenan ko ! Kaya wag nyo sinasabi na nag iinarte lang mga nakaranas ng Postpartum be sensitive dahil di nyo naranasan mga nararanasan nila !!
When i gave birth a few years ago, gusto ko rin sana magkaganyan kaso naisip ko kailangan kong bantayan baby ko since may work mister ko. Pag nag postpartum depression ako, di na ako makakapag function since ako lang naman mag isa bahay at maapektuhan baby ko. So imbis magdrama, naging busy ako sa pag aalaga sa baby ko.
ReplyDeleteAko rin, no choice. I had to control whatever I was feeling and focused on taking care of our child. Wala akong anybody to help me go through it.
Delete8:12 She was diagnosed with PPD. Hindi sya “nagddrama” lang. Don’t invalidate her struggles just because you can not afford to do what she did to recover and handle her post partum issues. Chuserang to!
DeleteFeeling ko nauso lang naman yan sa panahon natin ngayon. I have 4 kids and I have to work immediately since I just work from home. 2 weeks after giving birth thru CS, never felt any post partum depression since I was too focused on recovery. I had to work 2 weeks after giving birth, but luckily I only rendered 4 hours.
DeleteThats not how depression works, honey
DeleteI empathize with you. Ganyan din nangyari sa akin, lakas ng post Partum ko pero wala magaalaga sa anak ko so I had to do the best that I can. That was 19 years ago, di ko alam paano ko nalagpasan. I think yun love ko para sa anak ko yun nagpalakas ss akin. Ngayon my daughter and I are still so close. Sabi nya pag niyayakap nya daw ako may comforting smell daw sya naamoy. Mommy smell daw yun 😅 Kahit daw nakapikit Mata nya malalaman nya if it's me or not.
DeleteThere are many factors why women suffer from PPD and it could be internal and external. External could include weak family support, lack of financial resources that could lead women to worry about their finances. Having a newborn baby can be overwhelming and entails a lot of expenses.
DeleteInternal could include chemical or hormonal imbalance or inability to cope with life changing events.
Having an illness isn’t a choice.
Delete8:12 pm ARE YOU FOR REAL? Gusto mo rin sanang magka PPD? Alam mo ba na seryosong mental illness yan? At hindi DRAMA? Some moms even develop post partum psychoses and kill their own kids. OK KA LANG????
DeleteWhy would you want to have PPD?
Delete8:12PM so ano'ng ibig mo sabihin? Na dapat kagaya mo siya sa pag-cope sa postpartum? Iba iba ang tao teh.
Deleteif u have nothing good to say, better shut up. hindi ginugusto ang PPD at lalong hindi ito pagddrama. educate yourself pls, nakakahiya ka.
DeleteGosh, this comment reeks ignorance and mukhang di ka babae 812. 😂 Sana lang tlaga ppd is drama wala sanang mga nanay na pinatay ang mga anak nila. Yang sayo 812 hindi yan ppd kundi pabebe yan. 😂
DeleteSis, naoffend ako sa "imbis na magdrama". I had ppd with my first born. Kakaibang lungkot pero alam mo kung anong pinakamasakit? Yung ayaw ko man lang tingnan ang baby ko. Yung pag hawak ko sya hindi ko sya matingnan. Lalo na yung hindi ko sya masabihan na mahal ko sya dahil hindi ko nararamdaman na mahal ko sya. It was dark. Para akong robot. Inaalagaan ko sya, pinapadede, hinehele, pero wala akong pakiramdam towards her. Kung hindi ako nagpagamot hindi ko alam kung anong nagawa ko.
DeleteSa isang banda naisip ko sana nga naexperience mo magkaganyan. Siguro mas naintindihan mo si Kylie. Siguro hindi mo sasabihing nagdadrama lang sya. Pero knowing the struggle, i wouldnt wish it on anybody.
Good that you're able to cope up and be strong for your family. Pero ang off ung "so imbis magdrama" words.
DeleteWhat are you pertaining at? Is this about Kylie's post? Or PPD as a whole??
True. Nung araw wala namang ganyan ang mga nanay andami pang mga anak
DeleteThis is the most ignorant comment dito. Gusto mo rin sana magkaganun? Sorry but that’s just dumb! Hindi pagdadrama lang yun. What a way to invalidate her feelings. PPD is real. Maybe hindi nangyari sayo and you should be grateful about it pero you have no right to insinuate na pagddrama lang ang PPD.
DeleteSince you’re already online, you could have tried researching about PPD and anxiety first bago ka magcomment ng ganyan. Hindi pagdadrama ang PPD and anxiety. I have an anxiety after giving birth to a preterm baby and had to be in the NICU for 71 days. We werr told he only had 30% chance of surviving and even magsurvive he could be bedboud and in vegetative state. Very similar kami ng pinagdaanan ni Kylie. And kahit ngaun na 1 year old na ang anak ko and he’s doing fine, I still feel the same way, hindi nawawala lahat ng takot. Sobrang ignorante ng comment mo.
DeleteIt's not just pagddrama. Read up on it muna before saying it's just drama and get over it. It's an actual illness that needs intervention and for some it's even a psychiatric emergency kung saan kailangan ihiwalay uung mom sa kid/s for everyones safety as what I think happened with Kylie if you read between the lines.
DeleteIt can happen to anyone.
I myself experienced it. You'd think that a mom with a healthy, rainbow baby conceived through IVF would be immune but I wasn't. I wasn't happy, I felt alone, I did all the things I was supposed to do but I was numb. There were invasive dark thoughts like paano if nahulog si baby sa balcony or nalunod sa tub amd then I'd snap out of it. I read up on it and I'm glad to have gotten the help I needed. My baby is almost 2 years old and although there are still bad days, I can say that the worst is over.
Wag nyong sabihing hindi ko mahal anak ko. Mahal ko sya pero nagkasakit ako at nangailangan ako ng tulong.
With all due respect 11:39PM I beg to disagree po. Just because "nung araw wala namang ganyan" doesn't mean PPD or depression in general didn't exist. People are more vocal and more aware now.
DeletePareho kayo ng Mother ko who never believed in depression. She said "Mahina kasi ang faith" or "Hindi madasalin". I said to her "Ma wag ganyan. You can't empathize coz you don't know". It's a mental health problem at hindi pag-iinarte lang.
Napakainsensitive ng iba dito. Kailangan bang invalidate experience ni Kylie just because? Ang pinagkaiba, celebrity sya puhunan nya hitsura nya at pagiging fresh alam naman natin pag nanay ka last yan sa priority mo pero sa kanya ano gagawin nya nung nawala puhunan nya?? Tapos public pa lahat ng nangyayari sa kanya.unlike kayo kung may struggles hindi as magnified. Ang hirap nung ang daming mata sa yo. Apektado mental health mo. DIBA NGA USUALLY pag may mother in law, di kinakaya ng mga wives kasi may malaking maritess? Imagine sya buong pilipinas maritess sa buhay nya and ang panget ng nangyayari sa kanya kasi sino ba si aljur? Di nga nakakaprovide.tapos galing pa sya sa napakarangyang buhay. Imagine mo yun buhay naibigay ni robin versus nung nagkaanak sya kay aljur. Wala pa nga yatang yaya si Kylie kay Alas dahil di nila afford..
DeleteMy gosh, ignoramus spotted. So proud of my fellow Maritess here for putting this person in her/his place!
DeletePag mayaman talaga may post partum depression, pero pag mahirap, very rare yung nakakaranas ng ganyan.
ReplyDeleteHaha not true. Yung friend kong hindi mayaman (mas may kaya ako kaysa sa kanya) may postpartum depression sya. Ako naman may clinical depression. Matagal na ako may psychiatrist even way before "sumikat" ang mental health. Dati rin ako may paranoia. Nung high school student nga ako, sinabihan pa ako ng bully "diba umiinom ka ng gamot pang baliw?" Tapos ngayon lahat na may mental illness. Kung pwede lang sana i-gatekeep for real ang ganitong conditions. Hay. Kainis.
DeleteMy friend is experiencing post partum anxiety. Kasi natatakot sya na baka hindi nya mapalaki ng maayos ang anak nya. Mag 43yo na kasi kami at 4 months old pa lang yung baby nya. So hindi lang pang mayaman te.
Deleteand people wonder how other mothers are able to kill their children.
DeleteA lot of ignorant people here.
Walang pinipiling estado sa buhay ang PPD. I've known few women from my community who have experienced those. 2 dun naging Post partum psychosis pa. The one committed suicide, the other one ended in mental hospital she tried to hurt the baby. And list goes on. I was a community health nurse, so I know. This case is not rare to the poor community.
DeletePagmahirap, binat lang ganun
DeleteMema lang? “Very rare” kasi wala silang means pumunta sa doctor para ma-diagnose properly at di rin sila celebrity, kaya wala silang platform. It doesn’t mean hindi nangyayari sa kanila. At tragedy yun ng healtcare system na natin na kulang ang support sa mental health for the indigent.
DeleteAnong supporting statistics mo for that? Di pwedeng because of financial status that can affect knowledge about the matter and di na na diagnose? And who knows some of them nagpakamatay nalang o nabaliw na na di pala alam na PPD na yun.
DeleteYung mahirap kasi wala time at resources para sa PPD, sa daming iintindihin, dedma sa ganyan
DeleteMay evidence ba ang hanash ng mga tao dito, o hinugot lang kung saan? Nagresearch ba ang mga tao dito regarding post partum depression to claim that ut doesn't occur sa mga mahihirap?
DeleteHindi kami mayaman pero nagka PPD din ako. Marami lang undiagnosed na akala nila tinotoyo lang sila or pagod lang sila. It’s real, I couldn’t believe it myself na nagkaganun ako nung magaling na ako.
Delete813 tingin mo lang yan rare sa mahihirap pero if you really look around sa mga kapitbahay mong bagong panganak, makikita mo nman na may ibang epekto ang panganganak. Wla syang pangalan dati dahil hindi pa uso ang internet at socmed.
DeleteDespite Robin being her father, I'm really glad that she bounced back. I hope she focus on improving her craft while be the best single mother for her child. I see a lot of potential in her just waiting for the right project & a good PR team to elevate her celebrity status.
ReplyDeleteThey’re blessed with a good mom.
DeleteMaganda sya malakas ang appeal laking tulong din na padilla sya at astig sya she's also a real martial artist talagang next action drama Queen na sana ng gma 7 then nabuntis, ang bait talaga ng gma 7 ha di sya sinukuan
ReplyDelete812 hindi naman yun choice na pwedeng pigilin... but happy you focused on your baby. sana mabigyan mo din time self mo.
DeleteKylie doesn’t write cohesively, no? She writes about authenticity and yet she seems too concerned to convince people of… something. Is this calculated (pre)damage control for something she thinks is brewing under the surface and is about to blow over?
ReplyDeleteMinsan, let's put down to rest our Marites brain.
DeleteIf Jennylyn could bounce back before then so can she. Mas may edge pa nga sya because she can also do action at natural ang angas despite looking delicate.
ReplyDeleteSana sya nalang gumanap na darna. Galing nya sa actions and stunts
ReplyDeleteSobrang pagmamahal nya kay Aljur dati, kasikatan ng career nya nabuntis sya, nabuntis ulit and gets ko yung sinasabi nyang nawala na yung sarili nyang identity. Buti okay na sya ngayon.
ReplyDeletepromo promo din pag may time. syempre para mas lalong macurious ang tao pati show niyang bago mapapansin. mindset lang ba.
ReplyDeletegimikera din si kylie ha
ReplyDeletePPD is a serious matter, baby and mother can get hurt, Mothers should be heip and treat with understanding and more.
ReplyDeleteI surely had a ppd after having a baby. Single mum and all… but I didnt really bury myself into loneliness. I took strength from my baby and kept my feelings to myself. People who announces to the world that they suffer from ppd are so papansin and leaving inside they’re bubble. Sorry not sorry
ReplyDeleteSa mga di nakaranas ng PPD ipagpasalamat nyo sa Diyos dahil di lahat nagkakaroon nyan kinakaya! I’ve been diagnosed PPD ,anxiety plus panic disorder!Napakahirap sa tulad kong nasa ibang bansa walang nanay na mag aalaga !Hindi din uso Praternity leave dito sa bansang Japan so hindi ako maalagaan ng hubby ko kase mga hapon mga workaholic may kasama nga ako byenan pero hindi din ako maalagaan dahil ako pa nag aalaga at bed ridden that time na overdosed sa maintenance nya for HB ! I can’t imagine paano ako naka survived maglalaba ako magluluto while iniinda pa akong tahi tapos wala ako kahalili mag alaga kay baby papakainin ko pa yung byenan ko ! Kaya wag nyo sinasabi na nag iinarte lang mga nakaranas ng Postpartum be sensitive dahil di nyo naranasan mga nararanasan nila !!
ReplyDeleteIto ung artistang mas lalo pang nagboom ang career matapos ang breakup. Kudos
ReplyDeleteParang lahat ng gusto magkaroon nyan nagkakaroon
ReplyDelete