Nakakapagod siya panoodin. Di makatapos ng tanong sa kanya ng di siya nagrereact o nagsasalita at di din siya responsive sa question. Basta dakdak lang siya ng dakdak. Sana matutunan niyang tumahimik at makinig.
Protection order? Really? Para saan? Kasi nasa Amerika pa nga si Tom eh. At kung sakaling umuwi man dito si Tom eh I don't think na gusto ka niyang lapitan. Ni hindi ka nga niya tinawagan o kinausap nung nasa Amerika pa siya LOL para pasamain lang ba un Tao? saka medyo unfair un protection order kasi depende lang pala sayo kung gusto mo iinvoke. Pwede mo siya lapitan kung gusto mo. Siguro dapat magfile din si Tom Ng protection order laban kay Carla para fair. Un permanent protection order na!
Wala siya nasagot dun sa ano ba un maganda o panget sa relasyon nila since tumagal din naman ng ilang years. Kung san siya nagkulang etc. Dinidirect ni Carla un usapan sa kung saan gusto niya. Manipulating behaviour. Si Carla un nagbangka sa usapan nila. Sumunod lang si Boy. Pag di niya gusto un tanong di niya sinasagot. Dinidirect niya sa ibang topic o issue.
nagkaganyan lang sya pagkatapos ng nangyare sa kanila ni tom, dahil siguro sa pinagdaanan nya, pero panoorin mo lahat ng interview nya noon nakikinig muna sya bago magsalita, napansin ko den yan na iba na sya kapag ininterview, pinipilit nya mag mukhang ok at masaya, ganyan kapag dumaan sa depression amg isang tao
1:17 yan Ang problem niy talaga hindi niya pinapatapos yung kausL niya. GanyN siya kay Tom. Maraming nakapansjn sa mga vlogs nila dati. Pa strong independent woman kasi peg niya.
1:17 - I agree with you. I'm her fan and I've watched most of her films and teleseryes. She's beautiful, intelligent and talented but it's painful to watch her during interviews. Parang yung interview din nila ni Luis; talo niya si Luis sa kadaldalan. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think I heard her say before that she's an introvert - so maybe she is overcompensating for this?
May ganoon personality trait baks 1:17.. apparently it is annoying for those who don't talk like that. But I do feel her kasi ganyan din ako. Yun akala mo di nakikinig. We do, it is just we have the habit to be spontaneous and gullible at times and tend to react differently when overly excited, agitated or nervous. Pag pasensyan mo na kung ganyan siya. I never thought people find it annoying until I read comments here. Minsan di lang talaga namen napipigilan. I don't know it it's an adhd or personality disorder, di pa naman ako nagpapacheck, but for us, we think it is normal. Nahihirapan kame to stay put talaga minsan pero wag kang mag alala, pumapasok sa utak namen yun mga sinasabi and naabsorb namen yun ng maayos. Mabilis at malikot lang talaga kame. Parang batang hyper.
Typically, the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. There’s no time set for each stage. I’d like to believe that Carla is in “acceptance” stage na. That’s why she can openly talk about it compared before.
Dont judge. So what if it's been a couple of years. It may take longer pa. May mga tao talagang matagal makapag move on and those are the people who loved deeply.
One year palang silang hiwalay baks. Not year(s). And yun almost 8 years nila to be together. Wag mo nilalang yun. Kasi even a month fling hurts too, yan pa kaya na ganoon katagal.
Been following her vlog simula mg pandemic . Sobrang match sila during those Times as in nag tutulungan sila and support each other. Hinde ko akalain aabot sila sa ganito. Imagine i even watched pa nga preparation ng kasal nila mga supplier basta everything. But i Will never forget may one episode dun na kwento niya nag papaalam na siya sa head ng boss ng GMA na mag day off siya to go sa US kasi wala pa siya shoes and yung gown niya hinde pa ata nasusukat Or something . During that time lock in taping tapos mataas pa cases sa covid kaya ayaw siya payagan. Pero sa kakakulit niya at pinag pilit niya pinayagan na siya maka alis. At diba lagi move ng move yung date ng kasal nila. From there pa lang talaga may signs na may jinx yung kasal kung pinansin lamg niya at ng mga kasama niya mga signs wag na ituloy ang kasal. Pero pag in Love ka talaga hinde mo na mapapansin mga signs. Haaaay! Nalungkot ako pero ganun talaga glad okay na si Carla and shes moving on
So protection order pala yung akala ng mga maritess na filing nya dati ng annullment. Maybe Tom made some threats sa kanya no for her to file a protection order against him. Feeling ko napagbuhatan talaga sya ni Tom.
puro naman kayo speculations wala namang resibo! may mga taong may anger issue na hindi nananakit or sarili ang sinasaktan. Tom said never nya sinaktan or pinagbuhatan ng kamay si Carla. siguro kung totoo yan di yan maitatago makikita ang pasa or any form of trauma sa katawan nya noon pa e wala naman ni blind item noon wala! baka ayaw lang talaga ng pamilya ni Carla na lumapit si Tom at makipagusap sa kanya dahil baka balikan nya uli.
True. Even sa IG. Halatang ang daming time. At hindi maka move on. Mema post na lang din sa ig page niya. Wala ka sense sense. Picture na niya nakatalikod or puro selfie. 😂😂😂
At the last few moments of the interview, di na rin napigilan ni Carla. You can tell din kasi how much she's trying to keep a happy face and focus on positivity sa answers nya - hindi naman mali ito. Pero sa huli, naiyak pa rin sya and I felt that. Malalim ang sugat na naidulot ng heartbreak na ito sa kanya. Yung part na sinabi nyang di pa nya napapatawad sarili nya, gets mo nang mabigat pa rin ang dinadamdam nya. I pray that mapatawad na nya ang sarili nya at mabiyayaan din sya balang araw ng lalaking mamahalin at irerespeto sya.
Walang kwentang interview. Walang details, walang cohesive kwento, sa sobrang blurry eh na-lost ang audience. Tama na ang woe is me but don't ask for details peg ni carla. Gasgas na teh!
Chismosa ka kasi. Gusto mo lang makipiyesta. Ikaw yun klase ng tao na hilig hanapan ng mali yun ibang tao tapos you celebrate the downfall of others. She has a lawyer, an on going nulity case sa court and lastly she needs to protect herself too from people like you.
For a protection order to be granted it means there was evidence of physical harm and threat. This interview says a lot without actually saying a lot. Somehow nasagot na ang pinaka WHY bakit sila naghiwalay.
Agree sa iyo 11:55. And the fact that she didn't go on to detail about to protect Tom and her, sobrang sakit no? It was not even close similar to a Gag order. Kaya alam mo mas mabigat yun
Matindi siguro. I think di naman sila aabot ng 7 yrs kong di talaga nagmahalan. Kse yung ibang tao parang off mag carla kse nga asawa na bat ganun na lang kabilis binitawan. Pero kong susumahin Sa 7 yrs madami na din sigurong sablay hanggang sa mapuno na din talaga si carla. Di ganyan ka tigas yan kong maliit na issue lang
1227 paandar ka dyan, eh may kaso nga! Kaloka! Hindi makaintindi. Anong tingin mo, tatanggapin ng batas ang paandar ng isang tao? Baka ikaw pa ang makasuhan for wasting their time. 😂 Aral muna bago chismis! 😬
She carried herself well. Super nagagandahan at natatalinuhan ako sa kanya. It’s just sad because you can still see the sadness in her eyes. I pray for her complete healing.
I hate how she keeps speaking kahit di pa tapos yung question ni Boy. Nakakairita panoorin. Why don't you hear out the whole question first and so the audience can clearly hear it too
12:37. She was also like this when she guested sa vlog ni Bea, parang kiti2. She can't stay still parang it's her way of deflecting na tensionado siya.
She doesn't cut him off naman, she just likes to give affirmative responses in a conversation. Sa TV interview medyo off nga siguro sa viewers, pero in real life conversations, most people appreciate affirmative responses and gestures kasi it means the person is engaging and listening intently.
Even sa mga vlogs niya before with Tom. Super salita siya hindi niya pinapatapos or bigyan chance si Tom para magsalita. Deleted na vlogs niya. But sa youtube ni Tom meron pa yung sa make up tutorial. You can see na sya ang Alpha sa relasyon nila. Just like what she said sa interview before.
Tito Boy notice sa Family Fued, she has a habit of being spontaneous and tuloy tuloy minsan inuulit ulit pa sinasabi. I guess meron ganoon personality talaga ibang tao. I personally tend to do the same thing when I feel agitated, nervous or excited. So it is quite common but yeah agree, quite annoying if you are not that kind of person. But we should not judge others right away if ganoon kumilos at iba sa pagkilos naten. We are all born differently and has different personalities. Not one size fit all naman ugali ng tao.
I agree. I think defense mechanism nya. Ayaw nyang ma-caught off guard during the interview so it's her way of parang taking charge in a way para di sya magulat or mapaiyak or mag-break down during the interview. She wants to project happiness na pero deep inside mabigat pa rin dinadala nya. Praying fot hrler complete healing.
hindi ko pa pinapanood tong interview ni boy pero yan din napansin ko dun sa vlog naman ni Luis. iniisip ko kung ganun lang ba talaga siya or hindi siya komportable sa one on one interview?
women tend to exaggerate things kapag galit, nasaktan, naloko. they paint a differenr picture sa taong dati nilang minahal na parang di nila minahal kahit minsan. totoo yan coz I’ve been there before. si Carla noon pa man makikita mo na sa interviews na opinionated, self-righteous at kailangan parang sya lagi ang tama. so expected ko na di sya papaapi or papadehado basta-basta na lang, And remember, she’s trying to annul her marriage so expected ko na din na she wont go easy on Tom para mapawalang bisa ang kasal nila.
12:41, it's been almost a year since they broke up. I don't think exaggerated ang mga sagot ni Carla. Quite irritating and annoying lang mga moves niya.
napaka misogynist naman neto. tandaan din sana natin na madalas babae ang dehado sa hiwalayan kasi madalas babae ang niloloko, iniiwanan ng anak at walang sustento. tingin ka sa paligid or kahit sa mga celebrities and vloggers lang, tingnan mo kung ilang female public figure ang niloloko. lagi na lang ganito, everytime na may mga babaeng vocal sa galit nila sa mga ex nila palaging minamasama. tigilan kasi sanang makialam sa kung paano mag cope ang ibang babae sa pain nila.
What did she say na exaggerated? Napaka-muted nga ng mga comments nya about Tom. At napaka judgemental mo sa kung ano ang ugali ni Carla based on what you see on TV/youtube lang. Your opinions are just that, unsubstantiated opinions. Besides, na-grant na nga ang divorce, they do not have to go through the annulment process so what's your point? At 2023 na, wag dapat magpaapi at padehado! Upgrade your mentality.
sa interview ang daldal niya, di na makausad ang nagtatanong kase inuunahan na agad nya. is that her defense mechanism? maybe she needs to learn to stay still, LISTEN, like really listen dahil hindi lang sya ang may opinyon. sana di na lamg sya nagpa interview
1:54 Very true. Syempre it’s her story so siya bida. I watched yung interview ni Toni G kay Maxene Magalona yan din sabi niya yung partner mo laging may kasalanan hindi mo nakikita na may mali ka din. Panoorin niyo po marami learnings.
Saka ngayon lang siya nagsalita baks. Kasi on going yun court case nila. It took her a year din talaga. Annoying ang movement and the way she talks oo, pero I think she is not afraid to conceal her true self kaya siguro ganoon.
12:41 women do not exaggerate, it's men who do. pati sa pagkukwento ng exploits nila, mga lalaki ang sobra magkwento. i've been a victim of this. kinausap ko talaga yung guy na huwag siya magkwento ng hindi nangyari kahit minsan.
Huh naintindihan mo ba un interview? American citizen si Tom. Pwede ang divorce sa kanya. Kaya nagfile siya. Ipapakita lang ni Carla un sa Pilipinas. Sa korte. Para marecognize.
Spontaneous no? Parang even after all, may respeto paren siya left dun sa mga past na private problems nila and intimate matters na sila nalang dapat nakakaalam kasi it can either make or break them even more. I salute her for handling it so gracefully. We can learn a thing of two from her
Iba ibang klase talagang mag handle ng heart break mga tao. Carla have shown her class and worth in handling her seperation/divorce, she equipped herself with all the legalities. So Ateng Pokwang naman very raw and heads on, shade king shade pati mga bashers pinatulan. But in the end parehong umiyak. Ladies let us guard our hearts, it is easy to say mind over heart pero..,,
May anak kasi si pokwang na bubuhayin kasi mas emotional compared kay Carla. Si Pokwang kasi meron remembrance ng ex niya. Si Carla, wala. So very easy to move on. Plus hello, character wise din. Sobrang layo naman ni carla kay pokwang. Hahaha.
E sa tingin niya nag bigay siya ng madami chance hindi talaga siya nagkulang. Napuno na hindi nagkulang ang tawag doon kasi sumobra na si Tom. Siguro kung anong mali niya mas madali pang sagotin kesa saan siya nag kulang.
there are legalities involved that's why there was a lawyer present during the interview. carla might say things which could be used against her by tom's legal camp. she was actually right when she said it's for the other party to answer kung saan sya nagkulang since si tom naman yung sumira ng relasyon nila.
Ang drama ni Madam, angel na angel. Never na nagkulang. Ano yon? In every relationship, lahat tayo may mga pagkukulang, napa ka “me me me” naman nya. Lahat binigay nya kay Tom. I doubt it!
if someone did you wrong and you ask yourself san ka nagkulang, you are basically gasligthing yourself. so backwards ng thinking mo ha. and syempre may lawyer kasi may legality yung situation.
Pero diba sinabi niya na yun isang tao lang makakapagsabi nun? Ganyan naman talaga diba, I bet ikaw din you dont see yourself kung saan ka nagkulang kasi para sa iyo naibigay mo lahat. Righteous ka te?
The lawyer is there para dun sa protection order na issue. Sa mga ganyang show, briefed ang guests kung tungkol saan ang magiging interview. Obviously, andyan ang legality issue abt the separation so it makes sense na may lawyer yan to give light on the issue and para masigurong on Carla's side, wala rin syang nilalabag sa batas based sa mga magiging sagot nya.
She needs a lawyer dahil nagaantay pa ng letter ng recognition from the court here about their divorce. She's being careful din not to say anything libelous
Same. I think kahit gaano kalaki yung pagmamahal, you'll find na meron at meron pa din pagkukulang. Of course, that doesn't justify kung anuman ang nagawa ni Tom. Medyo kinulang lang ng self-reflection pero baka dahil nasa healing stage pa.
Sinagot naman nya ah. Sabi nya nga di ba mas makakasagot nun si Tom kasi as far as she’s concerned she gave it her all wala na nga daw natira sa kanya. So it’s tantamount to saying hindi sya nagkulang. So kung para sa kanya wala syang pagkukulang so be it. Interview nya yun.
Ito ung guest ni Tito Boy na pinaka uncomfortable sa lahat. I mean, if she was not ready for open interview. Dapat huwag nalang muna Carla. Nagdala pa siya ng lawyers just to be sure sa mga sasabihin niya. So hindi talaga naging spontaneous ang interview.
Grabe Carla is so pretty and trying to be positive kahit na alam mong nasasaktan pa sya. As in, makikita mo sa mata nya na malungkot pa sya but she is getting there na. At mukhang napaso tlaga sya sa pag aasawa. Maski nman sino at sa Pilipinas pa na kahit kasalanan ng lalaki at umamin na( like Moira’s case) marami pa rin na babae ang sinisisi. 🙄 Healing Carla, kaya mo yan!
kelangan bang umiyak mga guest ni Tito boy? yung kay Carla parang di naman sya iiyak at that point kaya lang matatapos na interview kaya kelangang umiyak
It’s not awkward. She just being civil, no reason na magkasarian pa sila. Mas Ok na may lawyer. She doesn’t needs sympathy, she just know how to take care and Protect herself. Pokwang should learn from her.
Parang yung nangyari din sa amin ni hubby. First two months pa lang namin kasal, he was scammed. At di pa siya natuto, nagpascam ulit madaming beses despite my warnings. Until i learned not to give a damn, pera mo, sagot mo. pera ko, bahala ako. Pero stressful din sa kaniya kasi maybe he just wanted to prove something. I earn better than him kasi. But he has temper at nadagdagan because of what happened. If i had the choice sana di pa kami nagpakasal noon. Kmi pa rin nman. For better or worse nga eh, for richer or for poorer. Pero minsan yung mental health mo nagsasuffer. Pero if lugmok na si guy tas iiwan mo pa, mas lulugmok siya.
Concept ng kasal paano??? Eh her lola Delia R., aunt, mom are all separated. So san ka nga kukuha ng marriage advice?. Your problem kasi wedding ang pinaghandaan mo not your marriage. Gusto mo lahat bongga to international wedding gown down to stylist but you failed to prepare sa marriage.
If you are telling the truth hindi na kailangan paulit ulit pa sa interview. Kahit isang beses lang yan kesyo may makinig or maniwala sayo no cares ka kasi you know you are telling the TRUTH. but look at you may back up pa na lawyer.
Carla iiyak mo na lang yan sa Diyos. Ask for intervention. Seriously. And mag social media break ka na muna. Kasi you will never heal if you still continue what you are doing. IT WILL EAT YOU. Examine yourself. Seek professiknal help.
Diba ikaw ang nagdecide na maghiwalay na kayo ni Tom? You never talked to him. You just assume that everything you know is the TRUTH. Carla one conversation can fix a lot.
I have high respect for Carla after watching this interview. I may not have the popular opinion among other ka-FP maritess here, but with her bringing the lawyer with her explains that she truly respect Tom even after their failed marriage. She was protecting Tom as well and her speaking in public will just alleviate more on the on going case they have in court. So kumbaga, respeto sa isa't-isa is still important. Even if you are a celebrity, kumbaga you left a little bit of privacy paren sa buhay nila and their private matter. Sabi nga ni Carla, you don't want your dirty laundry pa malaman ng iba and go on to detail with it. I guess tama lang yun ginawa nya of bringing her lawyer with her. Kasi anything she says can also be used against her. Not just in court but public people can also inflict wrong understanding din sa sasabihin niya. Hindi ako fan ni Carla, but she looks pretty, strong and at peace in this interview. I just hope she will find the right one someday.
Ang ackward ng nagplaplay yun mga pictures nila sa background. Siguro kung ako yun, ang hirap magsalita during interview while seeing photos of you and your ex husband sa background. Parang ang off lang tignan
Ganda ng eyeshadow niya very pigmented and blended well pero bothered ako sa pagkahaba ng winged liner. Parang sobrang winged di na bagay sa mata niya.
Her body language says it all. She is trying to show the strong side of her but it was still difficult to conceal it kasi at the end of the interview, she cried. Her eyes speaks thousands of words. She is hurt but still trying her best to just look on the bright side of life by being grateful to the people around her. It will not be an easy path Carla, so hang in there. Healing takes time. Take your time but don't overstay... I am praying for you and other women who go through a difficult marriage that this is not the end of the rope. It was just a tangled rope na need i-untie unti unti. Prayers for all the women who go through the hardships of marriage. Not just women but also men. Meron din mga lalake who are going through the same rough path. Hugs to everyone!
you know when you are hurting you only see your own pain. you forget that you also at somehow caused pain to your partner as well. examine yourself Carla.
Baka hindi lang talaga meant to be. Minsan si Lord na talaga ang gagawa ng paraan kasi may iba siyang plano para sa inyo. Pareho naman silang mabubuting tao at may takot sa Diyos. May iba lang talaga nakaplano ang Diyos.
Ikaw, if kasama mo for 7 years ang tao, tapos malaman mo nagcheat and you have grounds pa for a restraining order… di ka malulungkot? Isang linggo ka lang ba magmomove on at magproprocess? Di ka ba magsasalita rin sa naexperience mo? PRIME YEARS niya ang ninakaw sa kanya ng taong pinagkatiwalaan niya ng buhay at puso niya. Ikinasal sila. Hindi yan paggeget over sa boyfriend lang. Asawa na niya yan na biglang nawala dahil mahirap ng pagkatiwalaan. Sobrang sakit yan. Kung iba, ikababaliw pa nga yan. I salute Carla’s courage! Yung mga nambabash pa sa kanya, nakikinig sa bulong ng demonyo.
Maybe this is God’s way. Alam siguro ni God na hindi sila bibitiw kaya siya na gumawa ng paraan para maghiwalay sila.may ibang mas magandang plano si God sa kanila. Minahal nila ang isa’t isa, maraming witness dyan. It’s just not meant to be. Masakit pero kailangan tanggapin.
GRANTED ang PROTECTION ORDER. At kinikilala pa rin yan ng batas even after the divorce. That says a lot! Ibig sabihin there is proof/evidence of threat or harm from Tom towards Carla. Again, that says a lot! Praying for Carla's healing. Ito yung interview na wala masyadong sinasabi pero ambigat nung message. Gets mong mabigat ang pinagdaanan leading to the breakup at may bigat pa rin sa puso nya til now.
Bakit kapag naghiwalay ang sama sama na ng partner mo. Carla diba very thankful ka for the man that Tom is. You even posted a pic of him kneeling ang praying kn his bday.
Ok naman mga sagot nya. Hindi naman need na bigay lahat kasi marites lang naman tayo mga besh, wag na choosy. Ndi naman tayo party sa kasal nila. Comment ko lang sana bawas-bawasan ni Carla ung salita ng salita while the interviewer is delivering his/her intro/speech/question, puro sya yes yes agree agree habang nagsasalita si Boy ganun din sya kay Bea kaya hindi mapakinggan maigi whole context ng sinasabe nya.
ang ganda ganda ni carla but nkakapagod naman kausap if ang laki and ang daming reactions parati. sana kalma lang girl. pero baka din kasi piniigilan nya umiyak and if so i completely understand
Naalala ko nung nagpakasal sila sabi ng Nanay nya sana baby na sila agad. Sayang naman kung ayaw nya na magpakasal ulit in the future but never say never.
Sa mga nagsasabi na mag move on na sya, they were together for 8 years tapos kinasal pa. Kahit sabihin ni Carla that she's moving on, di ibig sabihin wala na yung sakit at masaya na sya. Matagal tagal pa mag heal yan and leave her be!
Feeling ko para hindi siya umiyak. Kasi in the end where she paused, bumigay na rin siya and umiyak. Clearly, nasa healing stage pa rin but strong enough to talk about it.
Maganda na si Carla dati pa pero iba aura nya dito napakaganda nyang tignan. Isa lang napansin ko sa kanya, sana pinapatapos nya muna mga tanong, ang gulo kasi pakinggan,maingay, dami nya side notes/comment. Hehe
May mga Marites ba here na naging magjowa ng asawa nila ng matagal tapos after months of marriage eh naghiwalay na? I just want to know, kasi yung pagiging maingay ni Carla at uncomfortable nya during interview eh mukhang defense mechanism nya para hindi sya iyak ng iyak. Yun kasi ang tingin ko. Tapos may Marites pang kulang sa intindi ng pinapanuod. Nakakaloka! Mag aral muna kayo bago makichismis oy! 😂
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Grabe ang interview.
ReplyDeleteAno kaya mga ginawa ni Tom para masabi ni Carla mga sinabi nya?
My takeaway: Hinding hindi na sila magkakabalikan!
Isa lang malinaw. May pera pa din si Carla at nagpapagawa pa nga siya ng bahay. Mukhang ung lahat ng pera ni Tom ang natangay ng scammer!
DeleteNakakapagod siya panoodin. Di makatapos ng tanong sa kanya ng di siya nagrereact o nagsasalita at di din siya responsive sa question. Basta dakdak lang siya ng dakdak. Sana matutunan niyang tumahimik at makinig.
DeleteOo nga 1:17. Si tito boy na yan ha, imagine sa bahay…nagger talaga siguro
DeleteOkay lang accla, ayaw naman din makipagbalikan ng isa-kaya nga nag file ng divorce.
DeleteAgree 1:17 yung kamay, yung mga responses nya na di makapakali.. sorry but she seems know it all
Delete1:17 agree! almost like background noise sya ng interview lol idk kung pansin nya na she didn't stop making sounds the whole time
DeleteProtection order? Really? Para saan? Kasi nasa Amerika pa nga si Tom eh. At kung sakaling umuwi man dito si Tom eh I don't think na gusto ka niyang lapitan. Ni hindi ka nga niya tinawagan o kinausap nung nasa Amerika pa siya LOL para pasamain lang ba un Tao? saka medyo unfair un protection order kasi depende lang pala sayo kung gusto mo iinvoke. Pwede mo siya lapitan kung gusto mo. Siguro dapat magfile din si Tom Ng protection order laban kay Carla para fair. Un permanent protection order na!
DeleteWala siya nasagot dun sa ano ba un maganda o panget sa relasyon nila since tumagal din naman ng ilang years. Kung san siya nagkulang etc. Dinidirect ni Carla un usapan sa kung saan gusto niya. Manipulating behaviour. Si Carla un nagbangka sa usapan nila. Sumunod lang si Boy. Pag di niya gusto un tanong di niya sinasagot. Dinidirect niya sa ibang topic o issue.
Deletenagkaganyan lang sya pagkatapos ng nangyare sa kanila ni tom, dahil siguro sa pinagdaanan nya, pero panoorin mo lahat ng interview nya noon nakikinig muna sya bago magsalita, napansin ko den yan na iba na sya kapag ininterview, pinipilit nya mag mukhang ok at masaya, ganyan kapag dumaan sa depression amg isang tao
DeleteI think it os a sign na she was trying to be strong to show herself na strong pero sa end ng interview napaiyak din sya.
Delete1:17 yan Ang problem niy talaga hindi niya pinapatapos yung kausL niya. GanyN siya kay Tom. Maraming nakapansjn sa mga vlogs nila dati. Pa strong independent woman kasi peg niya.
Delete1:17 - I agree with you. I'm her fan and I've watched most of her films and teleseryes. She's beautiful, intelligent and talented but it's painful to watch her during interviews. Parang yung interview din nila ni Luis; talo niya si Luis sa kadaldalan. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think I heard her say before that she's an introvert - so maybe she is overcompensating for this?
Delete117 nahilo din ako sa likot nya magsalita para syang may Parkinson's
DeleteMay ganoon personality trait baks 1:17.. apparently it is annoying for those who don't talk like that. But I do feel her kasi ganyan din ako. Yun akala mo di nakikinig. We do, it is just we have the habit to be spontaneous and gullible at times and tend to react differently when overly excited, agitated or nervous. Pag pasensyan mo na kung ganyan siya. I never thought people find it annoying until I read comments here. Minsan di lang talaga namen napipigilan. I don't know it it's an adhd or personality disorder, di pa naman ako nagpapacheck, but for us, we think it is normal. Nahihirapan kame to stay put talaga minsan pero wag kang mag alala, pumapasok sa utak namen yun mga sinasabi and naabsorb namen yun ng maayos. Mabilis at malikot lang talaga kame. Parang batang hyper.
DeleteMy take away, guapo and articulate ang lawyer ni Carla.
Delete117 bida bida naman kasi yang si carla.
DeleteMay ginawa si Tom na natatakot si Carla sa kanya? Ano yung protection
ReplyDeleteBaka wala silang prenup at natatakot si carla na makihati si tom sa pera nya.
Deletedrama lang
Deleteang tagal na din ah, yearS. moving on pa rin?
ReplyDelete1 yr pa lang teh. Ikaw siguro yung tipong isang araw pa lang nahiwalay may bagong jowa na.
Delete11:12 ganun kadali? Kalurkey ka!
Deletemay mga ganyang tao na years bago maka move on.
Delete11:12 ay wow nman. Ikaw n ang strong being. Ikaw na ang pinagpala ng lupa.
DeleteTypically, the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. There’s no time set for each stage. I’d like to believe that Carla is in “acceptance” stage na. That’s why she can openly talk about it compared before.
DeleteDont judge. So what if it's been a couple of years. It may take longer pa. May mga tao talagang matagal makapag move on and those are the people who loved deeply.
Delete8 yrs kasi naging sila hnd o ksama time n kasal sila
DeleteWala tlga peace of mind kapag alam mong may tinapakan kang tao. Kay hindi maka move on. I pray for you carla.
DeleteOne year palang silang hiwalay baks. Not year(s). And yun almost 8 years nila to be together. Wag mo nilalang yun. Kasi even a month fling hurts too, yan pa kaya na ganoon katagal.
Delete1 year pa lang sila hiwalay. Years ka jan.
DeleteBeen following her vlog simula mg pandemic . Sobrang match sila during those Times as in nag tutulungan sila and support each other. Hinde ko akalain aabot sila sa ganito. Imagine i even watched pa nga preparation ng kasal nila mga supplier basta everything. But i Will never forget may one episode dun na kwento niya nag papaalam na siya sa head ng boss ng GMA na mag day off siya to go sa US kasi wala pa siya shoes and yung gown niya hinde pa ata nasusukat Or something . During that time lock in taping tapos mataas pa cases sa covid kaya ayaw siya payagan. Pero sa kakakulit niya at pinag pilit niya pinayagan na siya maka alis. At diba lagi move ng move yung date ng kasal nila. From there pa lang talaga may signs na may jinx yung kasal kung pinansin lamg niya at ng mga kasama niya mga signs wag na ituloy ang kasal. Pero pag in Love ka talaga hinde mo na mapapansin mga signs. Haaaay! Nalungkot ako pero ganun talaga glad okay na si Carla and shes moving on
ReplyDeleteEto naaaaaa
ReplyDeleteSo protection order pala yung akala ng mga maritess na filing nya dati ng annullment. Maybe Tom made some threats sa kanya no for her to file a protection order against him. Feeling ko napagbuhatan talaga sya ni Tom.
ReplyDeleteNot surprising since known na may temper issue yung guy.
DeleteBaka against her fam din yung mga nabitawang salita ni tom
DeleteTrue. May kaso tlaga baks. Ano kaya ang ginawa ni Tom.
DeleteNasagot na ni Tom yan. NEVER niya sinaktan physically si Carla.
Deletepuro naman kayo speculations wala namang resibo! may mga taong may anger issue na hindi nananakit or sarili ang sinasaktan. Tom said never nya sinaktan or pinagbuhatan ng kamay si Carla. siguro kung totoo yan di yan maitatago makikita ang pasa or any form of trauma sa katawan nya noon pa e wala naman ni blind item noon wala! baka ayaw lang talaga ng pamilya ni Carla na lumapit si Tom at makipagusap sa kanya dahil baka balikan nya uli.
DeletePhysical harm nga kaya?
DeleteI feel her pain. I hope she will heal.
ReplyDeleteYou can still see the pain in her eyes. I hope she heals from this completely.. in time.
ReplyDeleteParang ang fake. Acting na okay ang lahat pero hindi..
ReplyDeleteTapos inihabol yung iyak sa huli bago matapos ang show
DeleteAnu gusto mo magngangawa on national tv
DeleteYou have to fake it sometimes baks
DeleteParang ang ingay ni carla..
ReplyDeleteTrue. Even sa IG. Halatang ang daming time. At hindi maka move on. Mema post na lang din sa ig page niya. Wala ka sense sense. Picture na niya nakatalikod or puro selfie. 😂😂😂
Deletedear, she has the right to speak about her life. she’s being asked also. hindi naman sya pumuputak na lang basta.
DeleteIkaw din
DeleteAt the last few moments of the interview, di na rin napigilan ni Carla. You can tell din kasi how much she's trying to keep a happy face and focus on positivity sa answers nya - hindi naman mali ito. Pero sa huli, naiyak pa rin sya and I felt that. Malalim ang sugat na naidulot ng heartbreak na ito sa kanya. Yung part na sinabi nyang di pa nya napapatawad sarili nya, gets mo nang mabigat pa rin ang dinadamdam nya. I pray that mapatawad na nya ang sarili nya at mabiyayaan din sya balang araw ng lalaking mamahalin at irerespeto sya.
ReplyDeleteWalang kwentang interview. Walang details, walang cohesive kwento, sa sobrang blurry eh na-lost ang audience. Tama na ang woe is me but don't ask for details peg ni carla. Gasgas na teh!
ReplyDeleteNext!
This!
Deletemay legality kasi yung situation nya so di pwede basta mag share. di mo ba nagets?
DeleteChismosa ka kasi. Gusto mo lang makipiyesta. Ikaw yun klase ng tao na hilig hanapan ng mali yun ibang tao tapos you celebrate the downfall of others. She has a lawyer, an on going nulity case sa court and lastly she needs to protect herself too from people like you.
DeleteYung questions nag hesitate pa nga mag ask si boy. Parang legally sensitive kaya hindi direct to the point amg sagot.
DeleteTrue!
Deletei really love Carla. Naiyak nmn ako nung naiyak sya.
ReplyDeleteFor a protection order to be granted it means there was evidence of physical harm and threat. This interview says a lot without actually saying a lot. Somehow nasagot na ang pinaka WHY bakit sila naghiwalay.
ReplyDeleteAnyone can file that… kahit hindi pa kumpleto yung evidence
DeleteNgek Hindi ah. Not necessarily may physical violence! Makagawa ka naman ng kwento
DeleteYou don’t know the court here in Phils. 🤣🤣🤣
Deleteexactly! sa nagsasabing walang nireveal ang interview, mag aral aral ka lol
DeleteAgree sa iyo 11:55. And the fact that she didn't go on to detail about to protect Tom and her, sobrang sakit no? It was not even close similar to a Gag order. Kaya alam mo mas mabigat yun
DeleteThats why
DeleteNot really. Kahit claim lang ng "witness" with signature ay pede nang magrant ang protection order.
DeleteHaist. Yung tipong nakakangiti k na, nakaka move on. tapos bigla isang tanong lang naiyak ka na naman.sending love to you Carla.
ReplyDeleteNahilo ako aa likot ng ulo mo.
ReplyDeleteMaybe hindi sya comfortable sa topic, nag manifest sa body language and thoughts nya. Kita mo, dala nya pa abogado, siguro comfort blanket nya.
Delete1046 taratitat kasi yang si carla talaga
DeleteNapakaganda at talino nya. Di sya naintimidate sa mga tanong ni Boy. Anyway ang galing pa rin talaga ni Boy as talk show host.
ReplyDeleteBasic lang naman yung mga tanong. Kung talagang brave sya, dapat walang lawyer na bitbit sa fast talk hahah
DeleteMatindi siguro. I think di naman sila aabot ng 7 yrs kong di talaga nagmahalan. Kse yung ibang tao parang off mag carla kse nga asawa na bat ganun na lang kabilis binitawan. Pero kong susumahin Sa 7 yrs madami na din sigurong sablay hanggang sa mapuno na din talaga si carla. Di ganyan ka tigas yan kong maliit na issue lang
ReplyDeleteNakakaawa na talaga si Carla. Para syang magandang bulaklak na pinitas at iniwan hanggang sa malanta.
ReplyDeleteDi ko pa rin talaga maintindihan ba’t ang daming si Carla pa ang binabash. Nadala ng paawa nung isa
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteSorry akkla di lahat naniniwala sa paandar ni Madam.
Delete1227 paandar ka dyan, eh may kaso nga! Kaloka! Hindi makaintindi. Anong tingin mo, tatanggapin ng batas ang paandar ng isang tao? Baka ikaw pa ang makasuhan for wasting their time. 😂 Aral muna bago chismis! 😬
Delete12:33 ayaw kasi ng pinoy ng matapang na babae gusto nila martir martiran dapat daw tahimik pag break up. lol
DeleteShe carried herself well. Super nagagandahan at natatalinuhan ako sa kanya. It’s just sad because you can still see the sadness in her eyes. I pray for her complete healing.
ReplyDeleteI hate how she keeps speaking kahit di pa tapos yung question ni Boy. Nakakairita panoorin. Why don't you hear out the whole question first and so the audience can clearly hear it too
ReplyDelete12:37. She was also like this when she guested sa vlog ni Bea, parang kiti2. She can't stay still parang it's her way of deflecting na tensionado siya.
DeleteOk lang siya naman ang guest. Let her be kasi matindi ang pinagdaanan niya baka may trauma
DeleteShe doesn't cut him off naman, she just likes to give affirmative responses in a conversation. Sa TV interview medyo off nga siguro sa viewers, pero in real life conversations, most people appreciate affirmative responses and gestures kasi it means the person is engaging and listening intently.
Deleteif you watch her old inteviews, hindi naman sya ganyan. i think kabado sya because of the topic.
DeleteEven sa mga vlogs niya before with Tom. Super salita siya hindi niya pinapatapos or bigyan chance si Tom para magsalita. Deleted na vlogs niya. But sa youtube ni Tom meron pa yung sa make up tutorial. You can see na sya ang Alpha sa relasyon nila. Just like what she said sa interview before.
DeleteTito Boy notice sa Family Fued, she has a habit of being spontaneous and tuloy tuloy minsan inuulit ulit pa sinasabi. I guess meron ganoon personality talaga ibang tao. I personally tend to do the same thing when I feel agitated, nervous or excited. So it is quite common but yeah agree, quite annoying if you are not that kind of person. But we should not judge others right away if ganoon kumilos at iba sa pagkilos naten. We are all born differently and has different personalities. Not one size fit all naman ugali ng tao.
DeleteThought so too.
DeleteI agree. I think defense mechanism nya. Ayaw nyang ma-caught off guard during the interview so it's her way of parang taking charge in a way para di sya magulat or mapaiyak or mag-break down during the interview. She wants to project happiness na pero deep inside mabigat pa rin dinadala nya. Praying fot hrler complete healing.
DeleteOo nga panay yes, uh-huh, opo, oo-oo maski nagsasalita si Boy A.
Deletehindi ko pa pinapanood tong interview ni boy pero yan din napansin ko dun sa vlog naman ni Luis. iniisip ko kung ganun lang ba talaga siya or hindi siya komportable sa one on one interview?
DeleteMay anger issues si tom, napakita na nya yan before sa PBB pa lang e
ReplyDeleteDi na nagbago
Ang tagal na nun, younger pa mapusok ang damdamin
Deletewomen tend to exaggerate things kapag galit, nasaktan, naloko. they paint a differenr picture sa taong dati nilang minahal na parang di nila minahal kahit minsan. totoo yan coz I’ve been there before. si Carla noon pa man makikita mo na sa interviews na opinionated, self-righteous at kailangan parang sya lagi ang tama. so expected ko na di sya papaapi or papadehado basta-basta na lang, And remember, she’s trying to annul her marriage so expected ko na din na she wont go easy on Tom para mapawalang bisa ang kasal nila.
ReplyDelete12:41, it's been almost a year since they broke up. I don't think exaggerated ang mga sagot ni Carla. Quite irritating and annoying lang mga moves niya.
Deletenapaka misogynist naman neto. tandaan din sana natin na madalas babae ang dehado sa hiwalayan kasi madalas babae ang niloloko, iniiwanan ng anak at walang sustento. tingin ka sa paligid or kahit sa mga celebrities and vloggers lang, tingnan mo kung ilang female public figure ang niloloko. lagi na lang ganito, everytime na may mga babaeng vocal sa galit nila sa mga ex nila palaging minamasama. tigilan kasi sanang makialam sa kung paano mag cope ang ibang babae sa pain nila.
DeleteWhat did she say na exaggerated? Napaka-muted nga ng mga comments nya about Tom. At napaka judgemental mo sa kung ano ang ugali ni Carla based on what you see on TV/youtube lang. Your opinions are just that, unsubstantiated opinions. Besides, na-grant na nga ang divorce, they do not have to go through the annulment process so what's your point? At 2023 na, wag dapat magpaapi at padehado! Upgrade your mentality.
Deletesa interview ang daldal niya, di na makausad ang nagtatanong kase inuunahan na agad nya. is that her defense mechanism? maybe she needs to learn to stay still, LISTEN, like really listen dahil hindi lang sya ang may opinyon. sana di na lamg sya nagpa interview
Delete1:54 Very true. Syempre it’s her story so siya bida. I watched yung interview ni Toni G kay Maxene Magalona yan din sabi niya yung partner mo laging may kasalanan hindi mo nakikita na may mali ka din. Panoorin niyo po marami learnings.
DeleteActually it was Tom who filed for annulment
Deleteshe’s trying to annul? hindi ka ba nakinig? no need for that kasi nafile na ng divorce sa US since tom is a Us citizen. slow ka
DeleteSaka ngayon lang siya nagsalita baks. Kasi on going yun court case nila. It took her a year din talaga. Annoying ang movement and the way she talks oo, pero I think she is not afraid to conceal her true self kaya siguro ganoon.
Delete12:41 women do not exaggerate, it's men who do. pati sa pagkukwento ng exploits nila, mga lalaki ang sobra magkwento. i've been a victim of this. kinausap ko talaga yung guy na huwag siya magkwento ng hindi nangyari kahit minsan.
DeleteClearly you haven't encountered a narcissist man. They are very difficult to deal with.
DeleteShe loves to talk a little too much, slightly irritating
ReplyDeleteGanyan talga siya. Sa vlogs niya before with Tom hindi makapagsaliya si Tom. Cinu cut niya.
DeleteI agree.
DeleteNa trauma na sya sa pag aasawa grabe wala takaga sa tagal ng panahon
ReplyDeleteKaya pala minadaling mag file ng divorce ni tom para hindi na madiscuss yung mga ginawa nya publicly. Yikes
ReplyDeleteHuh naintindihan mo ba un interview? American citizen si Tom. Pwede ang divorce sa kanya. Kaya nagfile siya. Ipapakita lang ni Carla un sa Pilipinas. Sa korte. Para marecognize.
DeleteRemember nag file ng gag order si Carla kay Tom. For what? Takot na may ilabas si Tom?
DeleteYUP
DeleteMas madali mag-divorce kesa sa annulment. Mabilis ang process kung amicable naman ang both parties.
DeleteNapaka responsive ni carla kausap hehe pansin ko yung mga ganyang tao mga genuine na mababait talaga.
ReplyDeleteSpontaneous no? Parang even after all, may respeto paren siya left dun sa mga past na private problems nila and intimate matters na sila nalang dapat nakakaalam kasi it can either make or break them even more. I salute her for handling it so gracefully. We can learn a thing of two from her
DeleteIba ibang klase talagang mag handle ng heart break mga tao. Carla have shown her class and worth in handling her seperation/divorce, she equipped herself with all the legalities. So Ateng Pokwang naman very raw and heads on, shade king shade pati mga bashers pinatulan. But in the end parehong umiyak. Ladies let us guard our hearts, it is easy to say mind over heart pero..,,
ReplyDeleteMay anak kasi si pokwang na bubuhayin kasi mas emotional compared kay Carla. Si Pokwang kasi meron remembrance ng ex niya. Si Carla, wala. So very easy to move on. Plus hello, character wise din. Sobrang layo naman ni carla kay pokwang. Hahaha.
DeleteLearn from her Pokie.
ReplyDeleteI find it interesting that Carla couldn’t answer Tito Boy’s question kung saan sya nagkulang…very awkward interview tapos may pa-lawyer pa hahahah
ReplyDeleteE sa tingin niya nag bigay siya ng madami chance hindi talaga siya nagkulang. Napuno na hindi nagkulang ang tawag doon kasi sumobra na si Tom. Siguro kung anong mali niya mas madali pang sagotin kesa saan siya nag kulang.
DeleteBecause hindi sya nagkulang at sobrang patient pa nga to a guy who has anger issues.
Deletethere are legalities involved that's why there was a lawyer present during the interview. carla might say things which could be used against her by tom's legal camp. she was actually right when she said it's for the other party to answer kung saan sya nagkulang since si tom naman yung sumira ng relasyon nila.
DeleteAng drama ni Madam, angel na angel. Never na nagkulang. Ano yon? In every relationship, lahat tayo may mga pagkukulang, napa ka “me me me” naman nya. Lahat binigay nya kay Tom. I doubt it!
Deleteif someone did you wrong and you ask yourself san ka nagkulang, you are basically gasligthing yourself. so backwards ng thinking mo ha. and syempre may lawyer kasi may legality yung situation.
DeleteTrue. Lawyer what for? Pinaghandaan talaga. Meaning naka plano na pala mga isasagot niya. Hay Carla for once tell the truth.
Deletemay lawyer kasi may details about the case na bawal i discuss due to the protection order. my gosh panoorin mo ulit!!!
DeletePero diba sinabi niya na yun isang tao lang makakapagsabi nun? Ganyan naman talaga diba, I bet ikaw din you dont see yourself kung saan ka nagkulang kasi para sa iyo naibigay mo lahat. Righteous ka te?
Deleteuu sobrang arte nya feeling ewan.
DeleteThe lawyer is there para dun sa protection order na issue. Sa mga ganyang show, briefed ang guests kung tungkol saan ang magiging interview. Obviously, andyan ang legality issue abt the separation so it makes sense na may lawyer yan to give light on the issue and para masigurong on Carla's side, wala rin syang nilalabag sa batas based sa mga magiging sagot nya.
DeleteShe needs a lawyer dahil nagaantay pa ng letter ng recognition from the court here about their divorce. She's being careful din not to say anything libelous
DeleteSame. I think kahit gaano kalaki yung pagmamahal, you'll find na meron at meron pa din pagkukulang. Of course, that doesn't justify kung anuman ang nagawa ni Tom. Medyo kinulang lang ng self-reflection pero baka dahil nasa healing stage pa.
DeleteSinagot naman nya ah. Sabi nya nga di ba mas makakasagot nun si Tom kasi as far as she’s concerned she gave it her all wala na nga daw natira sa kanya. So it’s tantamount to saying hindi sya nagkulang. So kung para sa kanya wala syang pagkukulang so be it. Interview nya yun.
DeleteIto ung guest ni Tito Boy na pinaka uncomfortable sa lahat. I mean, if she was not ready for open interview. Dapat huwag nalang muna Carla. Nagdala pa siya ng lawyers just to be sure sa mga sasabihin niya. So hindi talaga naging spontaneous ang interview.
ReplyDeleteTito Boy congrats and walang kupas pa rin.
ReplyDeleteBlooming nga siya! ❤︎ Gandang ganda talaga ako sa kanya. ❤︎
ReplyDeleteKung moving on na siya, bakit panay pa rin ang painterview niya?
ReplyDeleteGrabe Carla is so pretty and trying to be positive kahit na alam mong nasasaktan pa sya. As in, makikita mo sa mata nya na malungkot pa sya but she is getting there na. At mukhang napaso tlaga sya sa pag aasawa. Maski nman sino at sa Pilipinas pa na kahit kasalanan ng lalaki at umamin na( like Moira’s case) marami pa rin na babae ang sinisisi. 🙄 Healing Carla, kaya mo yan!
ReplyDeletehmmmm...right...yes...likot ng ulo lol
ReplyDeletekelangan bang umiyak mga guest ni Tito boy? yung kay Carla parang di naman sya iiyak at that point kaya lang matatapos na interview kaya kelangang umiyak
ReplyDeleteI’m a female, but based on what I see in Carla and pokwang, pareho sila ng ugali, May hindi maganda sa kanilang ugali to make a man leave....
ReplyDeleteNapanoon ko unboxing nila ng gifts after ng kasal, iba ang energy or aura ni Tom doon, kung napanood nyo comment down below
ReplyDeleteIt’s not awkward. She just being civil, no reason na magkasarian pa sila. Mas Ok na may lawyer. She doesn’t needs sympathy, she just know how to take care and Protect herself. Pokwang should learn from her.
ReplyDeleteMilking on it si ate. Samantalang yung isa tahimik lang.
ReplyDeleteParang yung nangyari din sa amin ni hubby. First two months pa lang namin kasal, he was scammed. At di pa siya natuto, nagpascam ulit madaming beses despite my warnings. Until i learned not to give a damn, pera mo, sagot mo. pera ko, bahala ako. Pero stressful din sa kaniya kasi maybe he just wanted to prove something. I earn better than him kasi. But he has temper at nadagdagan because of what happened. If i had the choice sana di pa kami nagpakasal noon. Kmi pa rin nman. For better or worse nga eh, for richer or for poorer. Pero minsan yung mental health mo nagsasuffer. Pero if lugmok na si guy tas iiwan mo pa, mas lulugmok siya.
ReplyDeleteConcept ng kasal paano??? Eh her lola Delia R., aunt, mom are all separated. So san ka nga kukuha ng marriage advice?. Your problem kasi wedding ang pinaghandaan mo not your marriage.
ReplyDeleteGusto mo lahat bongga to international wedding gown down to stylist but you failed to prepare sa marriage.
Oh Carla. I pray God will direct your path for you to see clearly and correctly. it’s never too late.
ReplyDeleteNananahimik na si Tom. Pero bakit siya panay pa interview. May Gag order nga si Tom from her tapos siya naman daldal ng daldal.
ReplyDeleteCarla, you will never have happiness and peace because you know what you did.
ReplyDeleteKung hindi siya nagpaniwala at nagpasulsol sa mga taong nakapaligid sa kanya wala siya sa sitwasyon na ito.
ReplyDeleteCarla it’s not too late to say sorry.
ReplyDeleteIf you are telling the truth hindi na kailangan paulit ulit pa sa interview. Kahit isang beses lang yan kesyo may makinig or maniwala sayo no cares ka kasi you know you are telling the TRUTH. but look at you may back up pa na lawyer.
ReplyDeleteWala bang ibang pwedeng pag usapan sayo Carla. Bakit laging yan ang topic mo. Guato mo na matahimik diba.
ReplyDeleteAng ganda ganda niya. Naiyak ako sa last part yung msg niya para sa sarili niya. 😥😢😭
ReplyDeleteCarla iiyak mo na lang yan sa Diyos. Ask for intervention. Seriously. And mag social media break ka na muna. Kasi you will never heal if you still continue what you are doing. IT WILL EAT YOU. Examine yourself. Seek professiknal help.
ReplyDeleteDiba ikaw ang nagdecide na maghiwalay na kayo ni Tom? You never talked to him. You just assume that everything you know is the TRUTH. Carla one conversation can fix a lot.
ReplyDeleteYou know communication is very very important. Never assume. One conversation can fix a lot.
ReplyDeleteHindi ko nagustuhan ang interview nya kahapon. Ang hilig nya mag butt in di pa nga tapos tanong ang tanong ni Boy.
ReplyDeleteCarla, God knows what you and your family did.
ReplyDeleteNakakahilo panoorin si carla sa interview. Over excited din sumagot 😁
ReplyDeleteI have high respect for Carla after watching this interview. I may not have the popular opinion among other ka-FP maritess here, but with her bringing the lawyer with her explains that she truly respect Tom even after their failed marriage. She was protecting Tom as well and her speaking in public will just alleviate more on the on going case they have in court. So kumbaga, respeto sa isa't-isa is still important. Even if you are a celebrity, kumbaga you left a little bit of privacy paren sa buhay nila and their private matter. Sabi nga ni Carla, you don't want your dirty laundry pa malaman ng iba and go on to detail with it. I guess tama lang yun ginawa nya of bringing her lawyer with her. Kasi anything she says can also be used against her. Not just in court but public people can also inflict wrong understanding din sa sasabihin niya. Hindi ako fan ni Carla, but she looks pretty, strong and at peace in this interview. I just hope she will find the right one someday.
ReplyDeleteCarla please watch Toni G interview with Maxene Magalona. A lot of learnings. It will help You will examine yourself
ReplyDeleteAng ackward ng nagplaplay yun mga pictures nila sa background. Siguro kung ako yun, ang hirap magsalita during interview while seeing photos of you and your ex husband sa background. Parang ang off lang tignan
ReplyDeleteLies are everywhere.
ReplyDeleteKaya din siguro lumipad agad ng US si Tom kasi nahihiya na sya sa mga kilala nila na may alam kung ano talagang nangyari at nagawa nya kay carla
ReplyDeleteGanda ng eyeshadow niya very pigmented and blended well pero bothered ako sa pagkahaba ng winged liner. Parang sobrang winged di na bagay sa mata niya.
ReplyDeleteHer body language says it all. She is trying to show the strong side of her but it was still difficult to conceal it kasi at the end of the interview, she cried. Her eyes speaks thousands of words. She is hurt but still trying her best to just look on the bright side of life by being grateful to the people around her. It will not be an easy path Carla, so hang in there. Healing takes time. Take your time but don't overstay... I am praying for you and other women who go through a difficult marriage that this is not the end of the rope. It was just a tangled rope na need i-untie unti unti. Prayers for all the women who go through the hardships of marriage. Not just women but also men. Meron din mga lalake who are going through the same rough path. Hugs to everyone!
ReplyDeleteMatalino tlg si Carla, and d nagpapaintimidate to the point na annoying panuorin kse ayaw magpatalo sa host. Kaw nlng kaya mag host te?
ReplyDeleteyou know when you are hurting you only
ReplyDeletesee your own pain. you forget that you also at somehow caused pain to your
partner as well. examine yourself Carla.
Baka hindi lang talaga meant to be. Minsan si Lord na talaga ang gagawa ng paraan kasi may iba siyang plano para sa inyo. Pareho naman silang mabubuting tao at may takot sa Diyos. May iba lang talaga nakaplano ang Diyos.
ReplyDeleteBut who knows God is a miracle
ReplyDeleteworker. 🙏🙏🙏
Ikaw, if kasama mo for 7 years ang tao, tapos malaman mo nagcheat and you have grounds pa for a restraining order… di ka malulungkot? Isang linggo ka lang ba magmomove on at magproprocess? Di ka ba magsasalita rin sa naexperience mo? PRIME YEARS niya ang ninakaw sa kanya ng taong pinagkatiwalaan niya ng buhay at puso niya. Ikinasal sila. Hindi yan paggeget over sa boyfriend lang. Asawa na niya yan na biglang nawala dahil mahirap ng pagkatiwalaan. Sobrang sakit yan. Kung iba, ikababaliw pa nga yan. I salute Carla’s courage! Yung mga nambabash pa sa kanya, nakikinig sa bulong ng demonyo.
ReplyDeleteMaybe this is God’s way. Alam siguro ni God na hindi sila bibitiw kaya siya na gumawa ng paraan para maghiwalay sila.may ibang mas magandang plano si God sa kanila. Minahal nila ang isa’t isa, maraming witness dyan. It’s just not meant to be. Masakit pero kailangan tanggapin.
ReplyDeleteLet us wait how God will reveal His plan for them. Afterall, he is a miracle worker. A redeemer. He moves in mysterious way. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteMabubuti silang tao. Let us pray for them.
ReplyDeleteNo third party. No one night stand. No physical abuse.
ReplyDeleteWhat about financial and emotional abuse?
DeleteAre you suuuure? Kaya nga may protection order.
Delete824 may protection order. 🙄 Jusko, aral muna bago chismis. Kaloka!
Deleteni hindi nga klaro yung protection order na yan. ano nakapaloob at para saan.
DeleteSa next interview ni Carla may pasanog na naman yan. Pero si Tom pa rin topic. Hahahahahaah
ReplyDeleteGRANTED ang PROTECTION ORDER. At kinikilala pa rin yan ng batas even after the divorce. That says a lot! Ibig sabihin there is proof/evidence of threat or harm from Tom towards Carla. Again, that says a lot! Praying for Carla's healing. Ito yung interview na wala masyadong sinasabi pero ambigat nung message. Gets mong mabigat ang pinagdaanan leading to the breakup at may bigat pa rin sa puso nya til now.
ReplyDeleteBakit kapag naghiwalay ang sama sama na ng partner mo. Carla diba very thankful ka for the man that Tom is. You even posted a pic of him kneeling ang praying kn his bday.
ReplyDeleteMay God enlighten you to the see clearly and correctly.
ReplyDeleteOk naman mga sagot nya. Hindi naman need na bigay lahat kasi marites lang naman tayo mga besh, wag na choosy. Ndi naman tayo party sa kasal nila. Comment ko lang sana bawas-bawasan ni Carla ung salita ng salita while the interviewer is delivering his/her intro/speech/question, puro sya yes yes agree agree habang nagsasalita si Boy ganun din sya kay Bea kaya hindi mapakinggan maigi whole context ng sinasabe nya.
ReplyDeleteagree with your observation parang over participation. i admire her for all she's overcome but hindi ko alam if ganyan sya by nature
DeleteYes ganyan siya talaga. Even sa mga deleted vlogs niya before hindi makasalita si Tom. Sad🥲
Deleteang ganda ganda ni carla but nkakapagod naman kausap if ang laki and ang daming reactions parati. sana kalma lang girl. pero baka din kasi piniigilan nya umiyak and if so i completely understand
DeleteNaalala ko nung nagpakasal sila sabi ng Nanay nya sana baby na sila agad. Sayang naman kung ayaw nya na magpakasal ulit in the future but never say never.
ReplyDeleteNakailang "Yeeees" naba si Carla sa interbyung ito hahaha..
ReplyDeleteMej uncomfy nga ako panuoren si carla..puro sya yes yes opo naman opo naman paulit ulit hanyareh? Kinakabahan ba sya?
DeleteSa mga nagsasabi na mag move on na sya, they were together for 8 years tapos kinasal pa. Kahit sabihin ni Carla that she's moving on, di ibig sabihin wala na yung sakit at masaya na sya. Matagal tagal pa mag heal yan and leave her be!
ReplyDeleteCarla should stop saying , yes, uhmmm ,right. Its distracting. Hehehe
ReplyDeleteFeeling ko para hindi siya umiyak. Kasi in the end where she paused, bumigay na rin siya and umiyak. Clearly, nasa healing stage pa rin but strong enough to talk about it.
Deleteang jingay ni carla sa interviewww kalma lang gurl! hayaan mo muna matapos question ni tito boy.
ReplyDeletetrue. ganyan sya sa mga vlogs niya. hindi makasalita si tom puro sya
DeleteMaganda na si Carla dati pa pero iba aura nya dito napakaganda nyang tignan. Isa lang napansin ko sa kanya, sana pinapatapos nya muna mga tanong, ang gulo kasi pakinggan,maingay, dami nya side notes/comment. Hehe
ReplyDeleteAwww.. ❤️ for her...but..wtf is BA wearing?!
ReplyDeleteMay mga Marites ba here na naging magjowa ng asawa nila ng matagal tapos after months of marriage eh naghiwalay na? I just want to know, kasi yung pagiging maingay ni Carla at uncomfortable nya during interview eh mukhang defense mechanism nya para hindi sya iyak ng iyak. Yun kasi ang tingin ko. Tapos may Marites pang kulang sa intindi ng pinapanuod. Nakakaloka! Mag aral muna kayo bago makichismis oy! 😂
ReplyDeleteShe seems unaware of how annoying she sounds.
ReplyDeleteOut of topic, pero sobrang panget nung set nila.
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