Bakit ganun, pag nagkahulihan, todo protekta yung lalake sa other woman? Sasabihin na walang ibang taong involved, na walang kasalanan yung babae, kesyo kaibigan lang yung babae, yada yada yada. Hugoat. Hahaha natrigger me
Anon 2:01, if he loves his daughter, he won't let her experience a broken home. Nag-give up sa problema dahil hindi kinaya? Bakit, sa susunod na relasyon n'ya, hindi s'ya magkakaproblema? At pag hindi n'ya na naman kinaya, iiwanan na naman n'ya. Kaya he is not worth any woman.
4:02 di ntn lahat alam ano yung problema.. mnsan mas ok na yung magcoparent nlng kesa magsty sa relationship na wla ng respeto or love sa isa’t isa.. mas hnd maganda lumaki yung bata sa wlang pagmamahalan at laging nagaaway na magulang..
4.02 Omg. It's unfair to use a child to make a man stay. If she wants her child to have a father in her life co-parenting is the way to go. Your statement is full of narcissism and manipulation because you'll leave a man if he cheated on you but you want him to stay if you are the one at fault?
'Nag-give up sa problema dahil hindi kinaya'- Depende yun sa kung anong klaseng problema. Kung magulo sa bahay ang isang babae, nagger, argumentative deal breaker yun sa kanila.. Learn the man's world/life so you'll have an idea.
8:06 Huh! That's how you define narcissism? Gaaahd. Maybe, you are also from a broken home. And I am from a conservative family and am very pro-family. Hindi mo siguro alam ang saya ng isang bata at ang katauhan nito habang siya ay tumatanda kapag kumpleto ang pamilya n'ya. Alam mo, 'yang away mag-asawa, kahit anong issue pa 'yan, can be resolved if both parties know how to make amends. They should not only consider their feelings, but the situation of their kids. Kahit sabihin mo pang co-parenting will work for them, it won't work on kids.
8:06 pm huuy halatang lalake ka. E bakit pala nya pinatos ganun ugali. At kung nakasama mo na tapos d kayo magkasundo, ganun na lang? Kung Christian, bakit d kumausap ng elders? Kung catholic, priest. Couples counseling, or kahit magtanong na lang sa mga nakakatanda. Ambilid naman ng 2 yrs para bumigay agad. Tapos may kalandian agad si kuya. Please, ginagaslight mo yung girlpero eto nag-uumapaw ebidensya na marupok si guy
@4:02 pero pag babae ang naggive up or nagwalk away, she's a strong, empowered woman? Double standards much? Wala tayo sa relasyon nila para ijudge either of them, especially Mccoy. Di naman natin alam ang pinagdaanan nung tao.
2:01 siguro too early too quit. He shouldve stayed longer para masabing mas sinubukan pa nyang isalba ang pamilya nila. As long as hindi naman sya sinasaktan physically and hindi naman nanglalalaki.. he shoulve stayed longer and tried harder
10.39 'E bakit pala nya pinatos ganun ugali.' - That attitude take time ample of time to come out. It won't come out after 1 wk of being together!
"Kung Christian, bakit d kumausap ng elders? Kung catholic, priest. Couples counseling, or kahit magtanong na lang sa mga nakakatanda."- You don't know if he did that or not. And you also don't know if the ex gf did that but you are assuming that she did it right?
'Ambilid naman ng 2 yrs para bumigay agad. Tapos may kalandian agad si kuya. Please, ginagaslight mo yung girlpero eto nag-uumapaw ebidensya na marupok si guy'- People have their own threshold, and it depends how long they can endure a problem, so don't dictate what you want just because you don't like it. Marupok? Well, it probably affected his mental health. But I have a question. When a girl got cheated on and she broke up with the guy, you won't call her marupok, right?? Hypocrite!
8.54 I understand your point and I know that having a father in a child's life is important but the problem here is that the 'big problem' made the guy gave up. Maybe that problem that he was talking about was big and it affected his mental health; that he doesn't see his future with the ex anymore. I don't know... I can just speculate. But I think their relationship started in good faith until this happened. I'm not from a broken home but I understand why certain things come to an end. That there are certain things that you can't control, and only time can tell. Co-parenting will work if there's no bitterness in their hearts.
eto na naman ang “broken home” comments na as if growing up with a mom and dad in a house automatically means growing up well rounded LOL. my parents are still together but i wished my mother had the guts to leave our philandering and alcoholic dad a long time ago.
im gonna repeat it for the close minded: there is no such thing as a broken home. if 2 people can co-parent peacefully, the child isnt gonna grow up in a “broken” home. the child needs a mom and dad present in their lives. it doesnt matter kung magkasama sa bahay or hindi ang mga magulang as long as either parent is involved. get on with the times. its 2023.
12:35 Isolated case 'yung sa mom mo, maraming studies na dapat kasi kasama ang both parents. Same with mine, I came from a broken family and if only my dad was responsible and acted like a father, hindi magkakagulo buhay namin. My sibling and I have issues due to growing up not having a home. My mom was there pero we had to watch her balance both work and her role as a mother. Ang solution is for people to stop getting into relationships and having sex if they aren't ready to handle having kids, kasi mga sarili ng kaligayahan lang iniisip nila. Pag nagkaproblema, mga bata kawawa. Choose your partners wisely, people.
12.35 I understand where you are coming from but I think your take now is based on 'what could have done' hence, your wish. I understand how 'philandering and alcoholic dad' affected your young mind when you were a kid. But how did you know that your father has mistress? Did your mom tell you? Well, if your mom told you that, I would blame her because that problem is supposed to be between your mom and father ONLY. But now that you are old enough, I hope you would realize that it's their problem, not yours. And as for his alcohol problem just lean that alcohol is highly addictive and your father knows that but can't shake it because of addiction. I know it hurts because you care for him, but pls know that it is his body, not yours. If you can't shake the anger in you, you may need to seek a therapy because otherwise it will affect your ability to choose a partner or you will project your anger towards that person.
It was actually over even before they had a baby. Mahirap ang ganyang sitwasyon specially that they are not married. I hope that they will get along just to co parent the baby. Let this be a lesson to everyone. Birth control is cheaper than having babies at hindi ka makakasakit ng isang inosenteng bata. Ok pa ngayong bata pa sila pero when they aolder the kids will always have that emptiness in their hearts. Matagal bago maging evident but it will always show later in life. Although maraming kids na napapariwara kahit magkasama both parents but all the more if you dont have your parents growing up. No violent reactions ha but this is based on experience din..
Jeskelerd, marami at minsan paulit-ulit po na problema ang darating sa buhay lalo na sa mag-asawa. Wala ng magiging successful marriage kung ganyan lang pala kababaw ang mentality ng mag-asawa.
Ok na yan, mars. Mga ganyang tao di dapat nag-aasawa. Yaan mo sya magjowa ng magjowa. Leave marriage to those with the guts and grit needed to sustain the marriage.
If this is true then he just proved na tama ang pamilya ni girl. Hindi dapat ganun. Nagpursige sana siya para maprove na mali sila. In time pag nakita naman nila na he is giving his family the life they deserve, he will earn their respect din naman.
teh pwede syang hindi magpakita don sa family. alam mo bang maramijg mag asawa na hindi goods sa mga in laws pero hindi pa rin sumusuko. Hindi naman mga in laws mo katabi sa pagtulog at pwede naman kayong bumukod ng tirahan kung gugustuhin talaga
E d pinatunayan nya na tama yung family ni girl by being in a relationship with that squammy girlaloo. Hindi pagiging matapobre yung pag-expect ng the best para sa anak/kapamilya mo, fyi. Now na may anak na sya, he shpukd understand. I guess hindi kaya ng utak nya yun
2.39 So you want him to suffer? It's the woman's family's fault so why blame him? This is the consequences of their actions. They cannot control the outcome and they cannot demand him to be the slave of their bad attitude. To all men out there- stay away from these kind of people. Build yourself and work. Stay on your purpose. Lovelife can wait.
Alam na alam mo agad ha. Bakit naman yung family sinisisi e sya tong may kalandian. If at all, binigyan nya pa ng reason ang family nung girl not to trust him. Ano ka ba naman. Ipasa ba ang sisi sa iba
I never got the feeling he’s even into her in the first place. In between PBB seasons he never made any effort to contact her. The girl said so herself.
8:18 He obviously isn't well-adjusted enough if ganu'n 'yung mindset nya. Yes, mental health is a thing pero it's not an excuse to leave someone especially may anak na kayo. Napaka-frail naman ng masculinity nya. Women should stay away from men like him and you, kasi obvious na walang work na ginagawa sa mga sarili.
if both are committed to the relationship, it wouldn't have to end that way. As others said, lahat naman ng relationship dumadaan sa pagsubok. The question js, are you up to the challenge? Apparently for this two, hindi sila committed. Poor daughter...
2.28 Everyone have their own threshold on how long they can endure a certain problem. And what problem can make them give up, etc. So I have a question for you. If your man have a sidekick that is also a challenge right? So are you up to that? If no then don't act like you are up to the challenge.
10:08 kanina ka pa jan sa threshold na yan. May negotiable and non-negotiable when it comes to a relationship. Kaya imbyerna yung mga netizens kay McCoy kasi may bago na agad to think na kakahiwalay pa lang nila. Ano yan may reserba?
1.07 It was written in English, so it's ok. But yours was written in your dominant language but you still made a mistake. You lacked 4 words and 2 punctuation marks.
Mas mabuti na yang naghiwalay agad. Kesa magkasama pero away ng away. Kids, as young as infants, can feel what's going on around them. There's so much research supporting this. Kids react when they see a person's sad face. This way, they just have to work on coparenting well, no struggle about their relationship anymore. You're a happier and better parent if you're not struggling. This also opens them up to finding more compatible partners. Kaso si Mccoy ligwak agad, ang cheap ng dating ng new jowa. ahahaha!
Parang proud pa yung girl i-post yung private message nila to think na fresh from hiwalay lang yung guy. Maintindihan ko pa kung teenagers or pareho silang single eh. Kaso tatay na yung new bf niya, at may young daughter pa!
Ginawa na nilang trend yung after hiwalayan yung babaeng naanakan, lipat agad sa new partner. Ni hindi pa nakatuntong sa nursery o kindergarten yung mga iniwan nilang anak! Sa mga balasubas na tatay dyan, pagtapusin niyo man lang sana ng college mga anak niya bago kayo maging loud and proud sa mga bagong girlfriend niyo! Mga damuho kayo!
He gave up tapos may bagong girlfriend. I don't get it! I wanna give this guy the benefit of the doubt na hindi siya nag cheat kasi hindi natin talaga alam ang real reason ng break up nila. But yung reason niya na ang daming problema kaya he gave up tapos may new girlfriend sya? Hindi ko gets. Umiiwas sya sa responsibility niya as tatay ganon?
Kung family man ni girl ang reason, ang babaw naman. Ibig sabihin lang nun mas mahalaga sa kanya ego nya kesa sa mag-ina nya. Im not a fan of Mateo and he gives the off this annoying vibes sometimes, pero i admire his love for Sarah. Ilang taon nyang pinaglaban yan. Sila mccoy may anak pa. All the more reason na mag-effort pa bago mag give up.
Sure ka? Napnood mo na ba mga interview nila kung gano katipid si elisse? Porke maganda high maintenance? Nagpaganda sya para magkatrabaho sa pagaartista, kabuhayan nya yun. Pinapakain nya anak nya sa pagiging maganda, model/artista
yung iba dito ignorante, hindi niyo alam na yang pagbili bili ng luxury brands ay part ng investments? yikes. maiintindihan ko pa kung mahilig mag majong si elisse eh kaso hindi. lol
Bakit parang kasalanan pa ang maging high maintenance? We can be high maintenance regardless if single or in a relationship as long as kayang i-maintain ng babae without relying to her partner.
mali talaga silang dalawa. Hindi puros kiligan or papogi lang ang buhay mag asawa. Nung parehas silang walang mga projects, nganga. Kung mayaman ka, hindi mo masustain ang magandang buhay.
Maintindihan ko pa kung bumitiw ka nong kayong dalawa pa lang eh. Kaso may anak na kayo at napakabata pa! Being a parent is supposed to make you become a better person- yung responsable at unselfish. Once naging magulang ka, isasantabi mo lahat para lang sa anak mo ultimo happiness mo.
Hala koya... Kung may anak ka na..wala na dapat yung salitang "sumuko" sa bokabolaryo mo. Isipin mo may anak ka na, tapos gusto mo makaranas anak mo ng broken family? Dapat gawin mo lahat para sumaya ang anak mo na may kumpletong pamilya sya na may pagmamahal.
Maybe the family of the girl Doesnt like him? As in ayaw talaga na hinde na niya kinaya kaya nakipag relasyon sa iba para makawala lang at makalaya kahit maging negative ang outcome basta makalaya lang siya kasi eventually makakalimutan din ang tao issue niya. Madami kasi lalaki ganun these days. They Will do something nakakasakit basta hiwalay na sila. Thats the only way para makaligtas kahit kahihiyaan abot niya.
hindi naman siya nakatira sa family ng girl so walang pakialam yan sa buhay nila mag asawa. The thing is baka hindi niya maibigay kay girl ang buhay na nakasanayan na.
I think isa sa naging problem nila is pera and compatibility. May business sila na wearfelize pero wala na ata ngaun. Sad lang nag kabalikan nauwi ulit sa hiwalayan.
Sorry pero di ko ma-imagine kung anong problema ang hindi kakayanin sa ganyang sitwasyon. I mean, may pera sila at trabaho na mas malaki sa minimum wage earner ang kita. May bahay at pagkain at pampagamot sila kapag nagkasakit. Di naman sila nag-aaral so di naman issue ang academics. Wala naman silang bashers before the hiwalayan issue, or kung meron man siguro, di naman marammi to the extent na di nila pwedeng i-ignore. Nagmamahalan naman daw silang dalawa. So anong problema??
Wala naman issue kung maghiwalay sila kasi mas healthy naman mag co-parenting kesa magpaka toxic. Di nya nakikita dito na yung issue yung pagpatol nya sa cheap na babae. Ang bata pa ng anak nya tapos ganon pipiliin nyang babae? Ni walang self respect? Pinatunayan nyang tama yung pamilya ni Elisse.
Maraming problema pero may bagong jowa??? Nag give up pero may bagong jowa??? Kawawa naman yung baby nila. Napaka irresponsible and selfish na Dad. 💔
Hay naku ang problema sa mundo ngayon kailangan self love😡bakit sino ba ang galit sa sarili? Kaloka kaya nga bakit ka pa hahanap ng makakasama kung gusto mo lang sarili ang mahalino mo at di ka magka problema? Ganun talaga ang pag aasawa, sacrifice, kasi kayong dalawa ay iba ang ugali bawat isa kaya kailangan mag meet halfway😡ayaw ng problema nitong mcoy pero humanap agad ng problema, ewan sa mga artista pwe🤧
Ang tao kasi, we go to extremes eh. Before self-love, andyan sobra mong pini-please ibang tao to the point na wala nang natira sayo. Nung natututo ng self-love, sobra namang naging narcissistic at makasarili. Dapat balanced. Love yourself enough to set boundaries but also make sure na hindi mo naaapakan ibang tao, Lalo na 'yung partner and child mo.
It takes 2 to tango. Not defending him, pero if true nga na minallit siya ng family ni elisse, siguro nakulangan rin siya ng support from elisse. Nag-expect si elisse ng financial support, nag-expect naman si mccoy ng moral support. Sana pareho nila nilaban para kay Feliz. Hindi OK na mag-give up sa problema, pero mas hindi OK na mag-move on sa ibang babae, kahit na baka nabigay niya yung hinahanap ni mccoy kay elisse. Obviously rebound lang si girl. Kahit break na sila, home wrecker pa rin siya kasi tinanggal nya yung chance na magkabalikan pa sana.
Agree sa comment mo except sa last part... homewrecker? Kasi because of her Hindi na Pwede magkaayos? Anong mentality yan? Mali yang concept na yan for me.. Kasi Kung gusto talaga nila magkaayos they will commit to it- labas na si babae- even when she’s flirting ( knowing the relationship is over) with him...siguro yang mga teleserye na rin may kasalanan why people are so quick to pit women against each other- laging babae ang villain...
Mccoy and Elise are two very varied individuals. I don’t think nasasakyan ni Mccoy lahat ng ganap ni Elise. Magkaibang magkaiba sila ng background. Hindi masaya si Mccoy sa pa social tingz ni Elise, obvious na napipilitan si Mccoy sa mga paphoto op and all other paganap and paandar ni Elise. And Mccoy being the weaker half, give up agad. How easy for him to give up noh and then find a new replacement agad agad? Maybe that’s how he moves on, palit agad. Idk, walang time for grief para sa nasirang relationship? Considering na may anak sila?
i think both are still not mature enough to face the challenges. im sure pareho sila madaming insecurities sa buhay and if mag away sila, walang may nagpapakumbaba or super napagod na na ang isat isa, so pag gnyan walang mapupuntahan ang relasyon. sana maccoy nilaban mo. kahit ilang milyon ba naman yang ayaw sayo, if you prove her family wrong then sure may hangganan din ang pagiging " ayaw sayo"... ikaw namn makikipagsama kay ateng. but who knows the whole story? and who am i to judge them. sad lang
"Miss mo ko? -saks lang" talaga, balik sa gantong pabebe landian yung bagong ama? Ok lang, sige, gumaganto rin naman kami ng asawa ko kahit matanda na. Pero pag maganda lang takbo ng samahan haha. Kumbaga naman mccoy, iniwan mo mag-ina mo tapos nasa kondisyon ka agad magpabebe dito sa isa? Ego problem na siguro ito.
Mukha namang weakling talaga this McCoy guy. Next time Elisse jomowa ka ng kalevel mo sa lifestyle para walang adjustments at judgments from either side of the family.
Grabe yun comment kay McCoy e what if di na nya talaga kaya. Hindi nyo din naman masasabi kung ano mga sacrifices nya. Madaling magsabi na magsacrifice pero if your in a relationship ang dami din factors talaga na magpapagive up sayo sa true lang.
Hindi ko naman sila close pero ayoko din naman ijudge si McCoy. Giving up din naman is not a sign of weakness.
Bakit ganun, pag nagkahulihan, todo protekta yung lalake sa other woman? Sasabihin na walang ibang taong involved, na walang kasalanan yung babae, kesyo kaibigan lang yung babae, yada yada yada. Hugoat. Hahaha natrigger me
ReplyDeleteThat’s not protecting the other woman. That’s DENYING them. Only a cheap woman would settle for that and think it’s love
DeleteDineny nya yan. Di raw totoo yung mga convo na lumalabas. 😂
ReplyDeleteEeewww Mccoy
ReplyDeleteNaloka ako sa last photo. pang SAKS ka lang pala MARY JOY!!! HAHAHA AMACANA!!!
ReplyDeletejeje of the year
ReplyDeleteGustong maging teen uli ni kuya
ReplyDeleteMay resibo. Fake news ba yun?
ReplyDeleteBaka commercial nanaman to ng diaper ha
ReplyDeleteOkay no need to explain.
ReplyDeleteHindi porke maganda ang babae at lalonh hindi porke may anak na kayo e hindi na kayo maghihiwalay
ReplyDeleteSo sad nman para sa baby nila. Naghiwalay agad parents kaya walang magiging core memory ang bata na magkasama parents nya. Giving up is a choice.
ReplyDeleteOkay na rin yun kaysa toxic at hindi healthy para sa bata.
Delete1:21 Wrong. Toxic din ang wala kang parents growing up. Kaumay mga nag-aanak tapos di kayang panindigan.
DeleteHe is not worth a woman's love. If he gave up on a problem, it means he could not stand by his daughter. He is selfish.
ReplyDeleteSo ganun lahat ng mag asawang naghihiwalay dahil sa bigat ng problema nila?
DeleteI think he loves his daughter but not the mom anymore. Pwedeng maging parents ang hindi nagsasama or mag asawa.
Anon 2:01, if he loves his daughter, he won't let her experience a broken home. Nag-give up sa problema dahil hindi kinaya? Bakit, sa susunod na relasyon n'ya, hindi s'ya magkakaproblema? At pag hindi n'ya na naman kinaya, iiwanan na naman n'ya. Kaya he is not worth any woman.
Delete2:01 agree
Delete4:02 di ntn lahat alam ano yung problema.. mnsan mas ok na yung magcoparent nlng kesa magsty sa relationship na wla ng respeto or love sa isa’t isa.. mas hnd maganda lumaki yung bata sa wlang pagmamahalan at laging nagaaway na magulang..
Delete4.02 Omg. It's unfair to use a child to make a man stay. If she wants her child to have a father in her life co-parenting is the way to go. Your statement is full of narcissism and manipulation because you'll leave a man if he cheated on you but you want him to stay if you are the one at fault?
Delete'Nag-give up sa problema dahil hindi kinaya'- Depende yun sa kung anong klaseng problema. Kung magulo sa bahay ang isang babae, nagger, argumentative deal breaker yun sa kanila.. Learn the man's world/life so you'll have an idea.
8:06 Huh! That's how you define narcissism? Gaaahd. Maybe, you are also from a broken home. And I am from a conservative family and am very pro-family. Hindi mo siguro alam ang saya ng isang bata at ang katauhan nito habang siya ay tumatanda kapag kumpleto ang pamilya n'ya. Alam mo, 'yang away mag-asawa, kahit anong issue pa 'yan, can be resolved if both parties know how to make amends. They should not only consider their feelings, but the situation of their kids. Kahit sabihin mo pang co-parenting will work for them, it won't work on kids.
Delete8:06 pm huuy halatang lalake ka. E bakit pala nya pinatos ganun ugali. At kung nakasama mo na tapos d kayo magkasundo, ganun na lang? Kung Christian, bakit d kumausap ng elders? Kung catholic, priest. Couples counseling, or kahit magtanong na lang sa mga nakakatanda. Ambilid naman ng 2 yrs para bumigay agad. Tapos may kalandian agad si kuya. Please, ginagaslight mo yung girlpero eto nag-uumapaw ebidensya na marupok si guy
Delete@4:02 pero pag babae ang naggive up or nagwalk away, she's a strong, empowered woman? Double standards much? Wala tayo sa relasyon nila para ijudge either of them, especially Mccoy. Di naman natin alam ang pinagdaanan nung tao.
Delete2:01 siguro too early too quit. He shouldve stayed longer para masabing mas sinubukan pa nyang isalba ang pamilya nila. As long as hindi naman sya sinasaktan physically and hindi naman nanglalalaki.. he shoulve stayed longer and tried harder
Delete10.39 'E bakit pala nya pinatos ganun ugali.' - That attitude take time ample of time to come out. It won't come out after 1 wk of being together!
Delete"Kung Christian, bakit d kumausap ng elders? Kung catholic, priest. Couples counseling, or kahit magtanong na lang sa mga nakakatanda."- You don't know if he did that or not. And you also don't know if the ex gf did that but you are assuming that she did it right?
'Ambilid naman ng 2 yrs para bumigay agad. Tapos may kalandian agad si kuya. Please, ginagaslight mo yung girlpero eto nag-uumapaw ebidensya na marupok si guy'- People have their own threshold, and it depends how long they can endure a problem, so don't dictate what you want just because you don't like it. Marupok? Well, it probably affected his mental health. But I have a question. When a girl got cheated on and she broke up with the guy, you won't call her marupok, right?? Hypocrite!
8.54 I understand your point and I know that having a father in a child's life is important but the problem here is that the 'big problem' made the guy gave up. Maybe that problem that he was talking about was big and it affected his mental health; that he doesn't see his future with the ex anymore. I don't know... I can just speculate. But I think their relationship started in good faith until this happened. I'm not from a broken home but I understand why certain things come to an end. That there are certain things that you can't control, and only time can tell. Co-parenting will work if there's no bitterness in their hearts.
Deleteeto na naman ang “broken home” comments na as if growing up with a mom and dad in a house automatically means growing up well rounded LOL. my parents are still together but i wished my mother had the guts to leave our philandering and alcoholic dad a long time ago.
Deleteim gonna repeat it for the close minded: there is no such thing as a broken home. if 2 people can co-parent peacefully, the child isnt gonna grow up in a “broken” home. the child needs a mom and dad present in their lives. it doesnt matter kung magkasama sa bahay or hindi ang mga magulang as long as either parent is involved. get on with the times. its 2023.
12:35 Isolated case 'yung sa mom mo, maraming studies na dapat kasi kasama ang both parents. Same with mine, I came from a broken family and if only my dad was responsible and acted like a father, hindi magkakagulo buhay namin. My sibling and I have issues due to growing up not having a home. My mom was there pero we had to watch her balance both work and her role as a mother. Ang solution is for people to stop getting into relationships and having sex if they aren't ready to handle having kids, kasi mga sarili ng kaligayahan lang iniisip nila. Pag nagkaproblema, mga bata kawawa. Choose your partners wisely, people.
Delete12.35 I understand where you are coming from but I think your take now is based on 'what could have done' hence, your wish. I understand how 'philandering and alcoholic dad' affected your young mind when you were a kid. But how did you know that your father has mistress? Did your mom tell you? Well, if your mom told you that, I would blame her because that problem is supposed to be between your mom and father ONLY. But now that you are old enough, I hope you would realize that it's their problem, not yours. And as for his alcohol problem just lean that alcohol is highly addictive and your father knows that but can't shake it because of addiction. I know it hurts because you care for him, but pls know that it is his body, not yours. If you can't shake the anger in you, you may need to seek a therapy because otherwise it will affect your ability to choose a partner or you will project your anger towards that person.
DeleteBahala kayo buhay ninyo yan
ReplyDeletePero nandito ka sa fp. Ok.
Delete10:12 gusto mo ba maglupasay at magmakaawa kami para magbalikan sila?
Delete12:35 pinagsasasabe mo?
DeleteIt was actually over even before they had a baby. Mahirap ang ganyang sitwasyon specially that they are not married. I hope that they will get along just to co parent the baby. Let this be a lesson to everyone. Birth control is cheaper than having babies at hindi ka makakasakit ng isang inosenteng bata. Ok pa ngayong bata pa sila pero when they aolder the kids will always have that emptiness in their hearts. Matagal bago maging evident but it will always show later in life. Although maraming kids na napapariwara kahit magkasama both parents but all the more if you dont have your parents growing up. No violent reactions ha but this is based on experience din..
ReplyDeleteSa lahat ng comment ito agree ako. Sna wla na inosenteng bata na nadamay.
DeleteJeskelerd, marami at minsan paulit-ulit po na problema ang darating sa buhay lalo na sa mag-asawa. Wala ng magiging successful marriage kung ganyan lang pala kababaw ang mentality ng mag-asawa.
ReplyDeleteOk na yan, mars. Mga ganyang tao di dapat nag-aasawa. Yaan mo sya magjowa ng magjowa. Leave marriage to those with the guts and grit needed to sustain the marriage.
DeleteHnd naman sila kasal.. prng napilitang nakng nga magsama dahl dun sa bata.. yan ang hnd maganda pag nasobrahan sa pusok at pareho silang hnd ready
Delete2.31 Is that guts and grit conditional on your side or unconditional? I think I know the answer. Lol.
DeleteMatapobre yata family nung girl?🤔
ReplyDeleteHow did you know?
DeleteAssumera.
DeletePaki basa ulit comment ko. Nagtatanong ako. Pano ako naging assumera nun???😂
DeleteTagalog na lang naguluhan ka pa 1115pm. Mali wording mo. Kung nagtatanong ka, dapat BA, not YATA.
Delete1.46 maaaring may mali sa sentence construction niya pero may question mark naman
DeleteLearn proper Tagalog 11.15 at ikaw din 1.46 dahil kulang ka ng dalawang salita.
DeleteGiving up is the easy way out
ReplyDeleteManipulative sadboi leche flaaan
ReplyDeleteSus lahat ng pagsasama nagkakaproblema. Dali naman sumuko nito. Bahala ka dyan! You and the sakto sa kanto jejemon deserve each other.
ReplyDeleteHindi niya kinaya yung family ni girl na matapobre
ReplyDeleteIf this is true then he just proved na tama ang pamilya ni girl. Hindi dapat ganun. Nagpursige sana siya para maprove na mali sila. In time pag nakita naman nila na he is giving his family the life they deserve, he will earn their respect din naman.
Deleteteh pwede syang hindi magpakita don sa family. alam mo bang maramijg mag asawa na hindi goods sa mga in laws pero hindi pa rin sumusuko. Hindi naman mga in laws mo katabi sa pagtulog at pwede naman kayong bumukod ng tirahan kung gugustuhin talaga
DeleteI heard that too…. Oh well still kahit matapobre yung family ni girl sana nakipag break siya ng maayos then dun na siya nag date ganern
DeleteE d pinatunayan nya na tama yung family ni girl by being in a relationship with that squammy girlaloo. Hindi pagiging matapobre yung pag-expect ng the best para sa anak/kapamilya mo, fyi. Now na may anak na sya, he shpukd understand. I guess hindi kaya ng utak nya yun
DeleteAng babaw na dahilan. Kahit matapobre pa yan tanggapin nya lahat ng sabihin skanya.. ano ba mas halaga feelings nya or niya sa mag ina nya.
DeleteWalang wala pa yan sa pagdadaanan nila sa buhay, mccoy should prove himself!
Delete2.39 So you want him to suffer? It's the woman's family's fault so why blame him? This is the consequences of their actions. They cannot control the outcome and they cannot demand him to be the slave of their bad attitude. To all men out there- stay away from these kind of people. Build yourself and work. Stay on your purpose. Lovelife can wait.
DeleteD niya pala Ganon kamahal si elisse pag yan ang reason.
DeleteAlam na alam mo agad ha. Bakit naman yung family sinisisi e sya tong may kalandian. If at all, binigyan nya pa ng reason ang family nung girl not to trust him. Ano ka ba naman. Ipasa ba ang sisi sa iba
DeleteGano ba kayaman ang pamilya ng girl? Bill gates level ba?
Deletehe should have proven na he is worth the fight, challenge yon para patunayan
Deletekaya nya bumuhay ng pamilya…
I never got the feeling he’s even into her in the first place. In between PBB seasons he never made any effort to contact her. The girl said so herself.
Delete8:18 He obviously isn't well-adjusted enough if ganu'n 'yung mindset nya. Yes, mental health is a thing pero it's not an excuse to leave someone especially may anak na kayo. Napaka-frail naman ng masculinity nya. Women should stay away from men like him and you, kasi obvious na walang work na ginagawa sa mga sarili.
DeleteSo inaamin nya na siya pala nag give up? Got it.
ReplyDeleteYung mga fans ni McCoy gusto pang isisi sa family ni Elisse para lang depensahan yang idol nila
ReplyDeleteMalaki problema kaya naghiwalay tapos may ibang ka i love you na agad? LOL k fine
ReplyDeletekahapon ka pa nagshow and tell. sa mag-ina mo ka magpaliwanag.
ReplyDeletehindi ako naniniwalang hindi nag cheat to, hindi mag cocomment si elisse sa ig photo ni ate girl ng walang dahilan.
ReplyDeleteMAhirap tlga kung di magka wavelength minsan, kinakain din. Pero di pa rin rason if nanloko. Sana naghiwalay ng ok bago May pinalit
ReplyDeleteJejemons unite! hahahahahahaahha
ReplyDeleteGood riddance!
if both are committed to the relationship, it wouldn't have to end that way. As others said, lahat naman ng relationship dumadaan sa pagsubok. The question js, are you up to the challenge? Apparently for this two, hindi sila committed. Poor daughter...
ReplyDeleteOmg baks kakasagot ko lang sa isang post about them dito kay FP magka wavelength tayo! It's so uncanny. You're my maritess soul sisteret!
Delete2.28 Everyone have their own threshold on how long they can endure a certain problem. And what problem can make them give up, etc. So I have a question for you. If your man have a sidekick that is also a challenge right? So are you up to that? If no then don't act like you are up to the challenge.
Delete10:08 gulo mo sana tinagalog mo na lang. Have a sidekick? Baka "has a side chick." Action star??
Delete10:08 kanina ka pa jan sa threshold na yan. May negotiable and non-negotiable when it comes to a relationship. Kaya imbyerna yung mga netizens kay McCoy kasi may bago na agad to think na kakahiwalay pa lang nila. Ano yan may reserba?
Delete10:08 May bata kasi. Anong threshold ka dyan? You man up or woman up and set your feelings aside kasi may nakadepende na sa inyo.
Delete1.07 It was written in English, so it's ok. But yours was written in your dominant language but you still made a mistake. You lacked 4 words and 2 punctuation marks.
DeleteMas mabuti na yang naghiwalay agad. Kesa magkasama pero away ng away. Kids, as young as infants, can feel what's going on around them. There's so much research supporting this. Kids react when they see a person's sad face. This way, they just have to work on coparenting well, no struggle about their relationship anymore. You're a happier and better parent if you're not struggling. This also opens them up to finding more compatible partners. Kaso si Mccoy ligwak agad, ang cheap ng dating ng new jowa. ahahaha!
ReplyDeleteMinsan talaga pg bata pa nag asawa puro hiwalay lang kasi dami problema na maencounter. Kung mahina ka bye.
ReplyDeleteMakasarili si guy. You don't deserve to be called a dad. Karma is heading your way.
ReplyDeleteYou don't know him personally.
DeleteParang proud pa yung girl i-post yung private message nila to think na fresh from hiwalay lang yung guy. Maintindihan ko pa kung teenagers or pareho silang single eh. Kaso tatay na yung new bf niya, at may young daughter pa!
ReplyDeleteGinawa na nilang trend yung after hiwalayan yung babaeng naanakan, lipat agad sa new partner. Ni hindi pa nakatuntong sa nursery o kindergarten yung mga iniwan nilang anak! Sa mga balasubas na tatay dyan, pagtapusin niyo man lang sana ng college mga anak niya bago kayo maging loud and proud sa mga bagong girlfriend niyo! Mga damuho kayo!
ReplyDeleteHe gave up tapos may bagong girlfriend. I don't get it! I wanna give this guy the benefit of the doubt na hindi siya nag cheat kasi hindi natin talaga alam ang real reason ng break up nila. But yung reason niya na ang daming problema kaya he gave up tapos may new girlfriend sya? Hindi ko gets. Umiiwas sya sa responsibility niya as tatay ganon?
ReplyDeleteExactly! Ang bilis magpalit
DeleteSo pag di mo na kaya ang problema, tatakbo ka sa ibang babae?
ReplyDeleteDouble time sa pag linis ng name si koya mo
ReplyDeleteso sino pala yung nasa convo? 😂
DeleteDi ba panay J ang ex ni Elisse. Ngayon iba na, M na
ReplyDeleteOne side of the story lang alam or i should say we don't know kung anu tlg reason ng paghihiwalay. Better not to judge.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you.
DeleteKung family man ni girl ang reason, ang babaw naman. Ibig sabihin lang nun mas mahalaga sa kanya ego nya kesa sa mag-ina nya. Im not a fan of Mateo and he gives the off this annoying vibes sometimes, pero i admire his love for Sarah. Ilang taon nyang pinaglaban yan. Sila mccoy may anak pa. All the more reason na mag-effort pa bago mag give up.
ReplyDeleteHe gave up easily. Sayang. Girl, better look for a man who is committed to you no matter what happens
ReplyDeleteHigh maintenance kasi si Elisse mga beh! Halatado naman. Mga ganyang babae dapat may stable job at mapera ang jowa ðŸ¤
ReplyDeleteAs if naman sya bumubuhay kay Elise.
DeleteYun naman pala e bakit nakipag jowa sa di mayaman tapos nagpa buntis?
DeleteSure ka? Napnood mo na ba mga interview nila kung gano katipid si elisse? Porke maganda high maintenance? Nagpaganda sya para magkatrabaho sa pagaartista, kabuhayan nya yun. Pinapakain nya anak nya sa pagiging maganda, model/artista
Deleteyung iba dito ignorante, hindi niyo alam na yang pagbili bili ng luxury brands ay part ng investments? yikes. maiintindihan ko pa kung mahilig mag majong si elisse eh kaso hindi. lol
DeleteBakit parang kasalanan pa ang maging high maintenance? We can be high maintenance regardless if single or in a relationship as long as kayang i-maintain ng babae without relying to her partner.
Deletemali talaga silang dalawa. Hindi puros kiligan or papogi lang ang buhay mag asawa. Nung parehas silang walang mga projects, nganga. Kung mayaman ka, hindi mo masustain ang magandang buhay.
Delete6:13 Si Elisse talaga sisisihin mo?
DeleteMaintindihan ko pa kung bumitiw ka nong kayong dalawa pa lang eh. Kaso may anak na kayo at napakabata pa! Being a parent is supposed to make you become a better person- yung responsable at unselfish. Once naging magulang ka, isasantabi mo lahat para lang sa anak mo ultimo happiness mo.
ReplyDeleteit doesnt make you stay in an estrange relationship. Ang pagiging magulang hindi rason to stay.
Delete4:22 And your child should be part of your happiness, ginusto mong magkaanak eh.
DeleteHala koya... Kung may anak ka na..wala na dapat yung salitang "sumuko" sa bokabolaryo mo. Isipin mo may anak ka na, tapos gusto mo makaranas anak mo ng broken family? Dapat gawin mo lahat para sumaya ang anak mo na may kumpletong pamilya sya na may pagmamahal.
ReplyDeleteMaybe the family of the girl
ReplyDeleteDoesnt like him? As in ayaw talaga na hinde na niya kinaya kaya nakipag relasyon sa iba para makawala lang at makalaya kahit maging negative ang outcome basta makalaya lang siya kasi eventually makakalimutan din ang tao issue niya. Madami kasi lalaki ganun these days. They Will do something nakakasakit basta hiwalay na sila. Thats the only way para makaligtas kahit kahihiyaan abot niya.
hindi naman siya nakatira sa family ng girl so walang pakialam yan sa buhay nila mag asawa. The thing is baka hindi niya maibigay kay girl ang buhay na nakasanayan na.
Delete4:55 Then both the family and him are toxic.
DeleteI think isa sa naging problem nila is pera and compatibility. May business sila na wearfelize pero wala na ata ngaun. Sad lang nag kabalikan nauwi ulit sa hiwalayan.
ReplyDeletewala na kasi silang mga career. Kaya affected ang pangkabuhayan showcase.
DeleteSorry pero di ko ma-imagine kung anong problema ang hindi kakayanin sa ganyang sitwasyon. I mean, may pera sila at trabaho na mas malaki sa minimum wage earner ang kita. May bahay at pagkain at pampagamot sila kapag nagkasakit. Di naman sila nag-aaral so di naman issue ang academics. Wala naman silang bashers before the hiwalayan issue, or kung meron man siguro, di naman marammi to the extent na di nila pwedeng i-ignore. Nagmamahalan naman daw silang dalawa. So anong problema??
ReplyDeleteProud talaga yung Mary Joy na ibalandra ang convo nila ni Mccoy? Mukhang ini-enjoy ang 5-minutes of fame ah
ReplyDeleteWala naman issue kung maghiwalay sila kasi mas healthy naman mag co-parenting kesa magpaka toxic. Di nya nakikita dito na yung issue yung pagpatol nya sa cheap na babae. Ang bata pa ng anak nya tapos ganon pipiliin nyang babae? Ni walang self respect? Pinatunayan nyang tama yung pamilya ni Elisse.
ReplyDeleteUng mga nag poPo at Opo tlga sa jowa. Un ung mga delikado e hahaha
ReplyDeleteMaraming problema pero may bagong jowa??? Nag give up pero may bagong jowa??? Kawawa naman yung baby nila. Napaka irresponsible and selfish na Dad. 💔
ReplyDeleteItong new girl dapat silent ka lang muna! Wag ka na gumatong
ReplyDeletekating kati mag-announce
DeleteAng jeje nung girl huhu
DeleteHay naku ang problema sa mundo ngayon kailangan self love😡bakit sino ba ang galit sa sarili? Kaloka kaya nga bakit ka pa hahanap ng makakasama kung gusto mo lang sarili ang mahalino mo at di ka magka problema? Ganun talaga ang pag aasawa, sacrifice, kasi kayong dalawa ay iba ang ugali bawat isa kaya kailangan mag meet halfway😡ayaw ng problema nitong mcoy pero humanap agad ng problema, ewan sa mga artista pwe🤧
ReplyDeleteAng tao kasi, we go to extremes eh. Before self-love, andyan sobra mong pini-please ibang tao to the point na wala nang natira sayo. Nung natututo ng self-love, sobra namang naging narcissistic at makasarili. Dapat balanced. Love yourself enough to set boundaries but also make sure na hindi mo naaapakan ibang tao, Lalo na 'yung partner and child mo.
DeleteIt takes 2 to tango. Not defending him, pero if true nga na minallit siya ng family ni elisse, siguro nakulangan rin siya ng support from elisse. Nag-expect si elisse ng financial support, nag-expect naman si mccoy ng moral support. Sana pareho nila nilaban para kay Feliz. Hindi OK na mag-give up sa problema, pero mas hindi OK na mag-move on sa ibang babae, kahit na baka nabigay niya yung hinahanap ni mccoy kay elisse. Obviously rebound lang si girl. Kahit break na sila, home wrecker pa rin siya kasi tinanggal nya yung chance na magkabalikan pa sana.
ReplyDeleteAgree sa comment mo except sa last part... homewrecker? Kasi because of her Hindi na Pwede magkaayos? Anong mentality yan? Mali yang concept na yan for me.. Kasi Kung gusto talaga nila magkaayos they will commit to it- labas na si babae- even when she’s flirting ( knowing the relationship is over) with him...siguro yang mga teleserye na rin may kasalanan why people are so quick to pit women against each other- laging babae ang villain...
DeleteMccoy and Elise are two very varied individuals. I don’t think nasasakyan ni Mccoy lahat ng ganap ni Elise. Magkaibang magkaiba sila ng background. Hindi masaya si Mccoy sa pa social tingz ni Elise, obvious na napipilitan si Mccoy sa mga paphoto op and all other paganap and paandar ni Elise. And Mccoy being the weaker half, give up agad. How easy for him to give up noh and then find a new replacement agad agad? Maybe that’s how he moves on, palit agad. Idk, walang time for grief para sa nasirang relationship? Considering na may anak sila?
ReplyDeletei think both are still not mature enough to face the challenges. im sure pareho sila madaming insecurities sa buhay and if mag away sila, walang may nagpapakumbaba or super napagod na na ang isat isa, so pag gnyan walang mapupuntahan ang relasyon. sana maccoy nilaban mo. kahit ilang milyon ba naman yang ayaw sayo, if you prove her family wrong then sure may hangganan din ang pagiging " ayaw sayo"... ikaw namn makikipagsama kay ateng. but who knows the whole story? and who am i to judge them. sad lang
ReplyDeleteDi nya nilaban me bago na nga eh.
DeleteMccoy. You are so weak. Yun lang
ReplyDelete"Miss mo ko? -saks lang" talaga, balik sa gantong pabebe landian yung bagong ama? Ok lang, sige, gumaganto rin naman kami ng asawa ko kahit matanda na. Pero pag maganda lang takbo ng samahan haha. Kumbaga naman mccoy, iniwan mo mag-ina mo tapos nasa kondisyon ka agad magpabebe dito sa isa? Ego problem na siguro ito.
ReplyDeleteSi McCoy at si Aljur ay maligaya sa downgrade . Hindi kaya ang level nang partners. Bagay sila.
DeleteKaloka si ate mo girl, proud na proud ishare ang convo nila ni Mccoy. Enjoy na enjoy sa 5-minute of Fame ah
ReplyDeleteBigat ng problema tapos may jowa na agad
ReplyDeleteNag reason out lng to justify mga actions. Kawawa bata sa ganyan parents. Dati kinaya relationship, ngayon Hindi na , kung kelan may anak na.
ReplyDeleteNag reason out lng to justify mga actions. Kawawa bata sa ganyan parents. Dati kinaya relationship, ngayon Hindi na , kung kelan may anak na.
ReplyDeleteBagay sila pareho. CHEAP
ReplyDeleteSo tawag s kanila McJoy the greasy friend chicken lol
ReplyDeleteNagkamigraine ako sa joke mo. Wag mo n ulitin ah
DeletePut God in the center of your relationship. Sacrifice, patience, humbleness, love, understanding, communication.
ReplyDeleteGood riddance lol.
ReplyDeleteBakit hindi mo rin ideny picture niyo na kumakalat?! Huwag kami Mccoy!
ReplyDeleteMukha namang weakling talaga this McCoy guy. Next time Elisse jomowa ka ng kalevel mo sa lifestyle para walang adjustments at judgments from either side of the family.
ReplyDeleteWho says there aren't weak rich men, too? Dapat 'yung mature at kayang panindigan pagiging lalake nya.
Deleteparang endo lang yan. Nung nawalan ng mga ganap at mga projects during the pandemic, babay na rin ang lovelife. End of contract.
ReplyDeleteHindi sila kasal . Walang contract.
DeleteGrabe yun comment kay McCoy e what if di na nya talaga kaya. Hindi nyo din naman masasabi kung ano mga sacrifices nya. Madaling magsabi na magsacrifice pero if your in a relationship ang dami din factors talaga na magpapagive up sayo sa true lang.
ReplyDeleteHindi ko naman sila close pero ayoko din naman ijudge si McCoy. Giving up din naman is not a sign of weakness.
nagising yata sa reality si ellise nung magbakasyon sila kasama ang sisters na influencers.di rin kinaya na ni macoy
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