Anong waley ang life? Ang positive ng sinabi mo sa umpisa sabay puro kanegahan sumunod. Kaya nga sya nagshishare kasi nagkaproblema marriage nya and gusto nyang ituro sa iba para di magaya sa nangyari sa kanya? I took therapy din kaya sobrang swak ng advices nya. Nakalibre na kayo kung makikinig kayo.
its like your a dermatologist with hindi maganda na skin or a dentist na pangit ang ngipin... how can you convince people eh yung sarili mo di mo maayos
Nakakainspire na sana kaso behind that beautiful words of wisdom- a failed marriage, a broken soul constantly needing for validation, broken relationship, unresolved trauma. How will you persuade people like me kung ang dami mong gusot sa sarili mo na dapat plantsahin?
Hindi ka nya pinipilit teh.. asa sayo yan to pick up whats good to pick up sa mga sinabi nya even though i personally feel na asa euphoric stage sya ng kanyang roller coaster or emotions BUT JUST you think na marami syang flaws Be wala ka ng matututunan sa mga words nya
Dai, di nmn porket di applicable sa kanya eh di na applicable sau. Pick the good words/advise kesa validation hanap mo. Kung walang mali sa sinabi nya, ano pang ipinagdadalawang isip mo. Just saying.
Exactly. To claim is one thing but proving is another thing. She speaks as if she has a sound mind but it is obvious that she doesn't have it. In short, she doesn't walk her talk.
Wow! grabe yung comments ha, so ang lagay kung full of wisdom ka dapat perfect ang buhay mo??? Hindi ba pwedeng not meant to be talaga yung ex-husband nya kaya di nagwork out? Di ba nga dun natututo ang tao sa mga maling desisyon sa buhay?
its like your a dermatologist with hindi maganda na skin or a dentist na pangit ang ngipin... how can you convince people eh yung sarili mo di mo maayos
Ang point kasi ni 10:35 - Si Maxine ay parang dropout sa college pero advising students how to become scholar. Mahirap magpayo sa iba kung mismo sa sarili mo di mo ginagawa.
What?? She is going through those challenges in life exactly because of her childhood trauma! If your childhood was all butterflies and roses, then good for you - your adult lofe would be so perfect. But for us who deal with unresolved pain and neglect of the inner child, we constantly looked for a fix: in marriage, or other relationships, careers. But we realize too late that these are not the answers or the instant healing factors. That's what she is trying to explain.
I guess the point should be let go of your excess baggage to let your inner child heal. If she keeps on going back to her trauma, she's setting herself up to fail and blaming other people in the process. Let go.
9:11 😂 disgusting mentality. It’s not your prerogative to tell someone to let go. if going back to her trauma heals her every time what’s your problem?
She's curvy naman talaga. Pumayat nga sya lalo noon nagstart sila umattend ng mga yoga workshops sa ibang bansa. Parang naging hardcore masyado na trying to adapt yon ganon lifestyle na nakalimutan na nila alagaan yon relationship nilang magasawa at relationship nila with friends and family.
Sa observation ko, masyado kase sila idealistic or overthinkers, in the sense na ang dami nilang theory or ideas na inaapply nila sa buhay kaya imbes na maging maayos, nagiging complicated lang yung relationship..
I dont think you get to practice what can and cant happen to you in this life. You only learn from your experiences and spread the word so others may learn as well. You can guess thats what maxenes trying to do here
kaya hindi ako naniniwala sa mga motivational quotes eh. but one thing i know is learn from other peoples mistake. lahat naman tayo may baho sa buhay pagalingan lang magtago.
@12:02 I agree with you. Learned this eventually as I matured. I was so preachy about my friends' relationships but I was single lol. It was humbling to learn this.
May sense naman yun iba niya na sinasabi pero hindi siya dapat mag act as an expert by giving advices to other people kasi she is going through a lot of things to begin with.
promise na reveal lahat nung pandemic kasi no choice kayo ng partner mo. ma stuck talaga kayo sa isa't isa. medyo maraming mag asawa at partners na naghiwalay talaga.
11:45 Everyone suffers from all of those in varying degrees. Get kilig but be realistic with your expectations. 'Yung iba kasi feeling Wattpad love story na 'yung sa kanila eh.
She's too 'trying to be profound' for me. I can imagine if that's her authentic self, she must be spending her hours and days engrossed in self love and healing and floating in her thoughts, escaping the real world. Blessed siya that she doesn't have to work, but man that kind of person's kinda hard to be with, realtalk lang. It's a good thing she's single so she doesn't burden other people na.
True! Alam mo, tinanong ko sa psychiatrist ko if mga psychologists/psychiatrist ay may mga problema din. As in tinanong ko if perfect ang buhay nila. Sabi niya, hindi daw perfect ang buhay nila at may mga problema din sila. Naisip ko tuloy, yung mga self help authors at mahilig magbigay ng advice in public, hindi rin sila perfect.
If I survived the breakdown of my marriage, and used it as a learning experience instead of being bitter, I'll pat myself on the back, too, and spoil myself for the next five years.
Sa true lang, I think she is just grateful na maski hiwalay sya sa asawa wala syang anak kundi it will be harder for her to move on or maski nga makipaghiwalay.
I choose to be objective about everything she said para di ako maging bias since i am not really a fan of Maxene and i have to say, everything she said actually makes a lot of sense. This is coming from someone who also has a lot of unresolved childhood traumas that are still unconfronted to this day. What she said inspired me to do something about myself and my traumas.
So preachy but she doesn't walk the talk. Pano nakaka encourage yun? Parang marami lang hanash pero di talaga nagfofocus sa pag heal ng sarili. Can't help but compare to her sis Saab who lost her child. She only talked about it nung medjo mas ok na siya and it really showed her wisdom. Napaka deep mag-isip at eloquent. Maxene should try to get off soccial media at mag focus sa healing niya muna.
parang math lang po. even if you have the know how, may mga magiging mistakes pa rin. yung meditation/yoga, they are tools. parang pagdarasal or pagwoworkout po yan. commitment po talaga sa araw-araw sa dami ng mga gawain. minsan kasi gusto na lang natin itulog ang pagod. yung ginagawa ni maxene mahirap po yan. pero the more the responsibilities, the harder po talaga humanap ng time pero mas malaki din ang return sa daily practice.
ang sasama ng iba dito. porke broken marriage broken na sya? a lot of people get separated or divorced, minsan life gives you a bad hand. for her to still be ok, she's coping well. it doesn't help that as she goes through her healing and her process ang nega nyo to her. archaic talaga views sa phils. minsan yun mga christian or paholier than though pa yung nagpapasama ng buhay ng iba. not everyone thinks having a broken marriage is the end of the world. it's something to overcome, but trials do make people stronger. what doesn't kill her makes her stronger. yun mga paperfect na hilig magjudge at pakialaman lives ng ibang tao, dami nyan sa pinas.
Mukhang tama nga ang sabi ng iba na sinakyan nya talaga ang issue nung napabalitang hiwalayan. Kung kelan naman kasi namamatay na yung issue saka nya sinagot ang “involvement” nya. Samantalang nung kasagsagan ng pagka dawit nya panay pa cryptic lang sya sa mga post nya.
I like the interview but half of me feels like her suggestive journey/process is so exhausting. When do you heal? What if you don't heal. As an observer feeling ko okay naman sila moon I guess she was hurting outside social media pala. And also kay Toni, Sana she would try not to inject her personal experience and let her guests speak for themselves. Ma Mr me me din etong si Toni minsan eh
kaloka yung ibang comments. malamang yung mga snabi nya is based sa mga npag-daanan nya, realizations nya at mga ginawa nya pra maging okay sya ulit. tpos sabihin nyo di nya ma-apply sa knya? pano? kya nga unti2 na syang naging okay ngayon kita nman sa itsura nya.
Mga comment kaloka. Kaya sya nakapagsalita ng ganyang advice because of her experience na di maganda. Lesson learned kung baga. Di nya naisip yan before she got married. Now after all those meditation na ginawa nya, doon nya nasabi ang mga bagay bagay na dapat ganito ganyan. Yung mga nagsalita na why you didnt apply to yourself, why you have failed marriage, ay naku common sense, Natuto at natauhan tayo sa maling desisyon sa ating mga nakaraan. Doon natin napagtanto na AY GANITO PALA DAPAT.
She's pretty ha, dami nyang words of wisdom and technique about life and being peaceful pero waley parin ang marriage at life
ReplyDeleteGanun talaga ang buhay
Anong waley ang life? Ang positive ng sinabi mo sa umpisa sabay puro kanegahan sumunod. Kaya nga sya nagshishare kasi nagkaproblema marriage nya and gusto nyang ituro sa iba para di magaya sa nangyari sa kanya? I took therapy din kaya sobrang swak ng advices nya. Nakalibre na kayo kung makikinig kayo.
Deleteits like your a dermatologist with hindi maganda na skin or a dentist na pangit ang ngipin... how can you convince people eh yung sarili mo di mo maayos
DeleteSugal ang marriage. Minsan panalo. Kadalasan talo. Hahaha
DeleteWalang formula ang partnership, sa marriage man o sa ibang realasyon. It's either you make it or not lang talaga
DeletePractice what you preach, Maxine. Implement your advice to yourself. Respect your husband. Minahal mo siya. Pinakasalan mo.
DeleteThen why isn't those techniques working for her? Madali lang na sinasabi mo ang isang bagay in public kesa sa ginagawa in private.
DeleteThen why isn't those techniques working for her? Madali lang na sinasabi mo ang isang bagay in public kesa sa ginagawa in private.
DeleteNakakainspire na sana kaso behind that beautiful words of wisdom- a failed marriage, a broken soul constantly needing for validation, broken relationship, unresolved trauma. How will you persuade people like me kung ang dami mong gusot sa sarili mo na dapat plantsahin?
ReplyDelete10:35pm what may have not worked for her may work for me and for others. One size does not fit all.
DeleteThat makes her human
DeleteTruth!
DeleteHindi ka nya pinipilit teh.. asa sayo yan to pick up whats good to pick up sa mga sinabi nya even though i personally feel na asa euphoric stage sya ng kanyang roller coaster or emotions BUT JUST you think na marami syang flaws Be wala ka ng matututunan sa mga words nya
DeleteDai, di nmn porket di applicable sa kanya eh di na applicable sau. Pick the good words/advise kesa validation hanap mo. Kung walang mali sa sinabi nya, ano pang ipinagdadalawang isip mo. Just saying.
DeleteExactly. To claim is one thing but proving is another thing. She speaks as if she has a sound mind but it is obvious that she doesn't have it. In short, she doesn't walk her talk.
DeleteWow! grabe yung comments ha, so ang lagay kung full of wisdom ka dapat perfect ang buhay mo??? Hindi ba pwedeng not meant to be talaga yung ex-husband nya kaya di nagwork out? Di ba nga dun natututo ang tao sa mga maling desisyon sa buhay?
Deleteits like your a dermatologist with hindi maganda na skin or a dentist na pangit ang ngipin... how can you convince people eh yung sarili mo di mo maayos
DeleteAng point kasi ni 10:35 - Si Maxine ay parang dropout sa college pero advising students how to become scholar. Mahirap magpayo sa iba kung mismo sa sarili mo di mo ginagawa.
DeleteWhat?? She is going through those challenges in life exactly because of her childhood trauma! If your childhood was all butterflies and roses, then good for you - your adult lofe would be so perfect. But for us who deal with unresolved pain and neglect of the inner child, we constantly looked for a fix: in marriage, or other relationships, careers. But we realize too late that these are not the answers or the instant healing factors. That's what she is trying to explain.
DeleteYou do know people gain wisdom from failure right ?
DeleteI guess the point should be let go of your excess baggage to let your inner child heal. If she keeps on going back to her trauma, she's setting herself up to fail and blaming other people in the process. Let go.
Delete9:11 😂 disgusting mentality. It’s not your prerogative to tell someone to let go. if going back to her trauma heals her every time what’s your problem?
DeleteI learned a lot from the interview.
ReplyDeleteIdk kung ako lang, pero parang mejo tumaba and malaki tyan nya? Ano tingin nyo mga baks?
ReplyDeleteNagkalaman na nga siya kumpara several months ago na ang super payat niya.
DeleteGhorl sinabe na nga "Yes tumaba ako".. depende nayan sayu kung ipipilit mo ang gusto mong ipilit.
DeleteAnd so? Kelangang laging flat?
DeleteActually mas bagay sakanya. She looks healthy and glowing compared before na super duper dry!
DeleteGirl, i like her better that way. She looks too skinny back then (i’m underweight so I know the struggle)
DeleteShe's curvy naman talaga. Pumayat nga sya lalo noon nagstart sila umattend ng mga yoga workshops sa ibang bansa. Parang naging hardcore masyado na trying to adapt yon ganon lifestyle na nakalimutan na nila alagaan yon relationship nilang magasawa at relationship nila with friends and family.
DeleteWhat is there to say 10:54. Tumaba nga siya. Normal na lalaki rin ang tiyan. Mukhang meron kang other insinuations.
DeleteOo nga halos lahat ng tao na may know it all lage failed sa lablayp bakit kaya?
ReplyDeleteSa observation ko, masyado kase sila idealistic or overthinkers, in the sense na ang dami nilang theory or ideas na inaapply nila sa buhay kaya imbes na maging maayos, nagiging complicated lang yung relationship..
Delete12:58 - yes. Plus, parang theoritical sila masyado that when it comes to application na, they fail.
Delete12:58 High in IQ, low in EQ kase.
DeleteI agree with 12:58. Parang their relationship became too theoretical nakalimutan yung practical.
Delete12.58am yeah agree ako sayo baks!... yung ibang overthinker naman they tend to fix things that are not broken.
DeleteYan yata yung sinasabihan ng too smart for your own good 😂
DeleteSa totoo lng na sad ako for her sa nangyari sa kanya
ReplyDeleteano ba nangyari sa kanya?
DeleteMore word salad and fridge magnet quotes. Minsan kung sino pa yung preachy about happy life ekek yon ang hindi masasaya.
ReplyDeleteMaybe that’s what makes them qualified to be preachy - they know from experience just what they lack
DeleteNo, you’re not qualified to be preachy if you can’t practice what you preach.
DeleteIt’s her way of coping
DeleteNgek sya pa qualified di nga nya ma-apply
DeleteI dont think you get to practice what can and cant happen to you in this life. You only learn from your experiences and spread the word so others may learn as well. You can guess thats what maxenes trying to do here
Deletekaya hindi ako naniniwala sa mga motivational quotes eh. but one thing i know is learn from other peoples mistake. lahat naman tayo may baho sa buhay pagalingan lang magtago.
Delete@12:02 I agree with you. Learned this eventually as I matured. I was so preachy about my friends' relationships but I was single lol. It was humbling to learn this.
DeleteSo true. Kaya di ko tinapos kasi di ko nafeel na genuine sya.
DeleteKaya nga sya maraming words of wisdom dahil sa mga experiences nya eh.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteHow can you believe someone who preaches about solving others' problems but can't solve her own?? Where's the credibility in that?
DeleteYes! You learned from your mistakes
Delete11:06 Is it learning if you're stuck in the same cycle?
DeleteWhat I learned from her eh hindi porke tinesting mo at compatible kau forever an ending nyo haha
ReplyDeleteMay sense naman yun iba niya na sinasabi pero hindi siya dapat mag act as an expert by giving advices to other people kasi she is going through a lot of things to begin with.
ReplyDeleteKung hndi mo naeexperience ang mga bagay bagay mas lalong wala kang K magbgay ng advice. Experience is the best teacher.
DeleteI think you have to be accomplished first before you can preach. Dami kasing guru na wala namang na accomplish sa buhay.
DeleteIt's like getting advice from chef who hasn't cooked
DeleteShe is sharing kung ano yung mga ginagawa nya base sa pinagdadaanan nya.
DeleteHindi advices plural ng advice. Pwedeng pieces of advice ate.
Delete2:07 am, Paano naging chef yun kung hindi pala siya marunong magluto?
Delete@2:07 What kind of a chef hasn't cooked? Even a self-proclaimed chef has cooked! Now, if it's a "fake chef" that's another story.
DeleteKahit may pagka weird na si Maxene mas authentic naman. Si Toni nag improve naman pero ramdam mo yun din sincere.
ReplyDeleteCancel
ReplyDeleteNung nakita ko to sa MegaMall together with her ex hubby years ago, parang tingting. Good to see her gained weight.
ReplyDeleteSelf righteous
ReplyDeleteBago mag date know background of your are dating Kung May trauma, goals, negativity and bad attitude meaning kilitasin wag kilig kilig hahaha
ReplyDeletepromise na reveal lahat nung pandemic kasi no choice kayo ng partner mo. ma stuck talaga kayo sa isa't isa. medyo maraming mag asawa at partners na naghiwalay talaga.
Delete11:45 Everyone suffers from all of those in varying degrees. Get kilig but be realistic with your expectations. 'Yung iba kasi feeling Wattpad love story na 'yung sa kanila eh.
DeleteShe's too 'trying to be profound' for me. I can imagine if that's her authentic self, she must be spending her hours and days engrossed in self love and healing and floating in her thoughts, escaping the real world. Blessed siya that she doesn't have to work, but man that kind of person's kinda hard to be with, realtalk lang. It's a good thing she's single so she doesn't burden other people na.
ReplyDeleteKorak
DeleteAng harsh mo naman baks. May pinagdadaanan naman yung tao, hayaan mo muna sya humanash.
DeleteBaks you're so cruel.. She's not even trying to push herself on u
DeleteHarsh but true.
DeleteYes 100%!
DeleteShe looked better now that she gained weight.
ReplyDeleteSo ano nga buntis daw b o hindi, yoko iwatch
ReplyDeletePeople like you are the problem bakit laganap ang fake news kasi di kayo marunong o tamad kayo mag fact check.
DeleteHindi raw, she flat out denied it.
DeleteSi masyadong ms. Positivity na hindi na kapanipaniwala si ateng
ReplyDeleteKaya nga sya madami words of wisdom dahil sa imperfections ng life nya. Wag po tayong umasa ng perfection sa journey natin. Wala pong ganun.
ReplyDeleteI'm willing to bet no one's life is perfect sa inyong mga tsismosa, kaya huwag kayong judgemental.
DeleteTrue! Alam mo, tinanong ko sa psychiatrist ko if mga psychologists/psychiatrist ay may mga problema din. As in tinanong ko if perfect ang buhay nila. Sabi niya, hindi daw perfect ang buhay nila at may mga problema din sila. Naisip ko tuloy, yung mga self help authors at mahilig magbigay ng advice in public, hindi rin sila perfect.
DeleteKeep on patting yourself at the back. Self serving and vain
ReplyDeleteIf I survived the breakdown of my marriage, and used it as a learning experience instead of being bitter, I'll pat myself on the back, too, and spoil myself for the next five years.
DeleteBakit parang ang toxic ng dating?
ReplyDeleteKasi you’re not enlightened
DeleteToxic positivity
DeleteSa true lang, I think she is just grateful na maski hiwalay sya sa asawa wala syang anak kundi it will be harder for her to move on or maski nga makipaghiwalay.
ReplyDeleteSo much wisdom. Madami akong natutunan dun ah. Thanks Max.
ReplyDeleteI choose to be objective about everything she said para di ako maging bias since i am not really a fan of Maxene and i have to say, everything she said actually makes a lot of sense. This is coming from someone who also has a lot of unresolved childhood traumas that are still unconfronted to this day. What she said inspired me to do something about myself and my traumas.
ReplyDeleteVery good. Take things objectively and learn from it.
DeleteTinapos ko yung 23 mins. Ang gandabng mga sinabi ni Maxene 😢 May natutunan ako.
ReplyDeleteParang socmed lang yan, posting it doesnt equate to reality. Not everyone do as they preach.
ReplyDeleteIt looks like it is more of a "lesson learned" not preaching.
DeleteHindi perfect ang husband mo. Dapat respeto lang, Maxine.
DeleteTrue wisdom is knowing you know nothing.
ReplyDeleteMay tumalo na sa queen of quotable quotes toni gonzaga… si maxene magalonaaaa HAHAHAHA puro cliche!
ReplyDeleteYung mga sinasabi niya. Kailangan niya muna i-apply sa sarili niya. Lahat tama, lahat valid pero she’s actually screaming for help.
ReplyDeleteSo preachy but she doesn't walk the talk. Pano nakaka encourage yun? Parang marami lang hanash pero di talaga nagfofocus sa pag heal ng sarili. Can't help but compare to her sis Saab who lost her child. She only talked about it nung medjo mas ok na siya and it really showed her wisdom. Napaka deep mag-isip at eloquent. Maxene should try to get off soccial media at mag focus sa healing niya muna.
ReplyDeleteThere's is this one thing that she hasn't realized yet....
Deleteparang math lang po. even if you have the know how, may mga magiging mistakes pa rin. yung meditation/yoga, they are tools. parang pagdarasal or pagwoworkout po yan. commitment po talaga sa araw-araw sa dami ng mga gawain. minsan kasi gusto na lang natin itulog ang pagod. yung ginagawa ni maxene mahirap po yan. pero the more the responsibilities, the harder po talaga humanap ng time pero mas malaki din ang return sa daily practice.
ReplyDeleteCommitment on what?
Deleteang sasama ng iba dito. porke broken marriage broken na sya? a lot of people get separated or divorced, minsan life gives you a bad hand. for her to still be ok, she's coping well. it doesn't help that as she goes through her healing and her process ang nega nyo to her. archaic talaga views sa phils. minsan yun mga christian or paholier than though pa yung nagpapasama ng buhay ng iba. not everyone thinks having a broken marriage is the end of the world. it's something to overcome, but trials do make people stronger. what doesn't kill her makes her stronger. yun mga paperfect na hilig magjudge at pakialaman lives ng ibang tao, dami nyan sa pinas.
ReplyDeleteLouder!!
DeleteCorrect!!!!
DeleteI can feel her peace. At first I thought TH sya, but upon watching, you'll clearly see and feel her peace.
ReplyDeleteI’m nOt even a fan of Max but after watching this, I realized that I needed those advice when I was 20 years old
ReplyDelete"Ikaw ang common denominator." Hindi ko makakalimutan ang statement na yan.
ReplyDeleteMukhang tama nga ang sabi ng iba na sinakyan nya talaga ang issue nung napabalitang hiwalayan. Kung kelan naman kasi namamatay na yung issue saka nya sinagot ang “involvement” nya. Samantalang nung kasagsagan ng pagka dawit nya panay pa cryptic lang sya sa mga post nya.
ReplyDeleteAyaw ko masama ang tukad nya sa bahay. Do somewhere else to heal. Stay away from.social media
ReplyDeleteMaybe therapy is more suitable for her healing.
ReplyDeleteI like the interview but half of me feels like her suggestive journey/process is so exhausting. When do you heal? What if you don't heal. As an observer feeling ko okay naman sila moon I guess she was hurting outside social media pala. And also kay Toni, Sana she would try not to inject her personal experience and let her guests speak for themselves. Ma Mr me me din etong si Toni minsan eh
ReplyDeleteShe’s the type na “ Know it all” . But she’s unaware of that.
DeleteWho says healing shouldn’t be exhausting? try mo for everyone’s sake.
Deletekaloka yung ibang comments. malamang yung mga snabi nya is based sa mga npag-daanan nya, realizations nya at mga ginawa nya pra maging okay sya ulit. tpos sabihin nyo di nya ma-apply sa knya? pano? kya nga unti2 na syang naging okay ngayon kita nman sa itsura nya.
ReplyDeleteI like her pero siguro will watch her interview with someone else. Di ko na feel (used to be a fan) si holier than thou.
ReplyDeleteIdk. The old you kept posting photos with hubby na parang perfect yun pala hindi. so I don’t trust you. panay validation sa internet ginagawa mo
ReplyDeleteSo buntis ba sya or not? Ayaw ko manood ng mahaba ehh.
ReplyDeleteMga comment kaloka. Kaya sya nakapagsalita ng ganyang advice because of her experience na di maganda. Lesson learned kung baga. Di nya naisip yan before she got married. Now after all those meditation na ginawa nya, doon nya nasabi ang mga bagay bagay na dapat ganito ganyan. Yung mga nagsalita na why you didnt apply to yourself, why you have failed marriage, ay naku common sense, Natuto at natauhan tayo sa maling desisyon sa ating mga nakaraan. Doon natin napagtanto na AY GANITO PALA DAPAT.
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