Mukhang hindi talaga sya okay kada magpopost sya. She seems like needing someone to validate her. She said na she know she's enough when in reality kabaligtaran because if you are enough and you know to yourself you are enough, hindi sya magpost ng kahahaba in the first place.
reading between the lines, hindi pa sya fully healed so there will be good days and bad days still. there will be days na mase-setback pa rin sya. minsan, fake it till you make it din. if it's helping her keep her sanity, then hayaan na lang natin.
Lag ganyan na broken ang 1 babae dapat lumayo sa lahat ng lalake at babae ang hanapan ng cpmfort and company. Men smell vulnerability, and we dont know who's a predator or not. Minsan walang intention sa una, then along the way, nagkakaron bigla.
10:23 tama ka jan. Relate na relate ako sis. Nagkakaproblem kami ng bf ko noon(husband ko n ngayon) tapos nagoffer yung kilala ko na lalaki na magopen up daw ako sakanya kung ano problem ko sa lovelife bka makatulong daw sya. Sa isip ko, bakit ako magoopen up sknya eh may mga friends naman ako n babae at yung guy hindi ko naman sobrang kaclose. Dko nireplyan. Nalaman ko na lang na may gusto pala skn. Kaya girls wag kayo mag oopen up sa mga lalaki dahil may possibility na magkadevelopan kayo. Imbis na maresolba yang problem nyo ng jowa nyo, sa kay "shoulder to cry on" kayo mapunta. Unfair kasi alam ng lalaki na vulnerable ung babae tapos saka sya gagawa ng moves.
Maxene....Maxene. Don't push too hard. You know what's best for you? Have a break from social media and don't look at life as a competition. Slow down and take the moment to look around and find what's good for you.
Totoo..gamit na gamit lagi yung yoga at meditation eh.one of those new agery bs that.Real practitioners don't need to post stuffs like this for validation e
8:16 Yoga and meditation will only work when you lose your sense of ego. This girl needs too much validation from other people. I think she needs to reflect on her ego first. Self-healing will materialize when she stops giving importance on the impression she makes on other people.
Mejo harsh pagkasabi ni commenter but on second thot, pwede sya mag outdoor activities kasi malilibamg sya. Kesa yoga sa loob ng bahay. She needs nee environment! Pag namumundok ako nakakalimutan ko problema. Masaya kasi mga kasama. Oh well, it will pass maxene. Take your time. You will be healed in time :-)
I know socmed is an outlet for some, but maybe for Max makakatulong na mag socmed break. It’s incredibly freeing, and parang ang laki ng stress na nawawala. Minsan one week lang without Instagram, parang narereset talaga mind ko. I know it wont solve her problems, but baka lang sakali makatulong.
Ay baks, confirm! Ganyan din ako dati na feeling happy at may pinapatunayan. Laging may hanash at ang haba ng caption. 😂 Sa mga ganyan na tao, karamihan dyan stress yan sa buhay at may pinagdadaanan. 😁
That's because there's no one they can talk to kaya ginawa na lang outlet ang social media. Look at Neri Naig. There's no other person besides her husband who she can share her success stories kaya sa IG naghahanap ng validation. Iba talaga kapag may close friends ka na handang makinig sayo kahit anong i-share mo, kahit magdamagan pa yan. Hindi mo na kailangan ipost sa socmed mga ganap sa buhay mo kasi may nakakaalam na outside your family.
1:01 and 11:44 Totoo naman na madaming reklamo ang netizens - mahaba ang caption, madaming hanash, madaming kuda, madaming time, etc. Lahat na lang kailangan ireklamo. If you don’t get it then maybe you’re one of those shallow thinkers na ganyan palagi yung comment. 🤔🙃
Posting on social media can be an outlet but it can also be a trigger. Clearly, it is both for Maxene. I think she should evaluate whether being online is helping her or if she should seriously consider another outlet na mas therapeutic.
Yung mga pa deep thinkers, yoga, balance and grounding people who look at to different medium to release their energies dapat nag coconsult sa mga therapist and holistic doctors and look for spiritual support and accept that they are broken and need help and not validate their feelings sa SocMed.
She seems guilty though as she was already disabling her comment section. I hope it is not true because ruining a marriage between two people is never acceptable.
Mukhang hindi talaga sya okay kada magpopost sya. She seems like needing someone to validate her. She said na she know she's enough when in reality kabaligtaran because if you are enough and you know to yourself you are enough, hindi sya magpost ng kahahaba in the first place.
ReplyDeletereading between the lines, hindi pa sya fully healed so there will be good days and bad days still. there will be days na mase-setback pa rin sya. minsan, fake it till you make it din. if it's helping her keep her sanity, then hayaan na lang natin.
DeleteBaka yang IG ang outlet niya. Let her be. Un may ayaw di wag basahin.
DeleteLag ganyan na broken ang 1 babae dapat lumayo sa lahat ng lalake at babae ang hanapan ng cpmfort and company. Men smell vulnerability, and we dont know who's a predator or not. Minsan walang intention sa una, then along the way, nagkakaron bigla.
Delete1023 ano daw?
Delete10:23 tama ka jan. Relate na relate ako sis. Nagkakaproblem kami ng bf ko noon(husband ko n ngayon) tapos nagoffer yung kilala ko na lalaki na magopen up daw ako sakanya kung ano problem ko sa lovelife bka makatulong daw sya. Sa isip ko, bakit ako magoopen up sknya eh may mga friends naman ako n babae at yung guy hindi ko naman sobrang kaclose. Dko nireplyan. Nalaman ko na lang na may gusto pala skn. Kaya girls wag kayo mag oopen up sa mga lalaki dahil may possibility na magkadevelopan kayo. Imbis na maresolba yang problem nyo ng jowa nyo, sa kay "shoulder to cry on" kayo mapunta. Unfair kasi alam ng lalaki na vulnerable ung babae tapos saka sya gagawa ng moves.
DeleteOh her mom is guest judge sa its showtime, sabi ni miss pia may pinagdadaanan din sya, what a coincidence naman . ..
ReplyDeleteShe is always teary eyed. Parang anytime eh iiyak ang itsura. Sad eyes actually.
DeleteKung makita mo ba naman anak mo na ganun kabroken, it will also break you
DeleteNow I know where that mental health issues are coming from. Explaination palang ni Maxene? daming intricacies cyst!
ReplyDeleteHala doctor yern? Psychiatrist yern? Diagnosis agad? Or if psychiatrist naman talaga, incompetent pyschia yan? Diagnose agad based on one post HAHA
DeleteMaxene....Maxene. Don't push too hard. You know what's best for you? Have a break from social media and don't look at life as a competition. Slow down and take the moment to look around and find what's good for you.
ReplyDeleteSame vibe I’m getting
Delete😱😱😱
ReplyDeleteYung yoga at meditation nya mukhang di naman effective. Don't us, Maxene.
ReplyDeleteKahit nga healthy lifestyle when life strikes you wala magagawa yan kasi tao lang tayo. We are as vulnerable as a glass.
DeleteTotoo..gamit na gamit lagi yung yoga at meditation eh.one of those new agery bs that.Real practitioners don't need to post stuffs like this for validation e
Delete@9:40 Ikaw try mo mag yoga ag meditation baka mag work syo at maalis ang negativity.
Delete8.16 sa true lng tayo. Tayo pa ba maglolokohan dito
Delete8:16 Yoga and meditation will only work when you lose your sense of ego. This girl needs too much validation from other people. I think she needs to reflect on her ego first. Self-healing will materialize when she stops giving importance on the impression she makes on other people.
DeleteAnong stuffs ? Hahaha 10:13 walang word na stuffs hahhaah
DeleteGive her a break. Who are you to judge her base on what little you know?
DeleteThis is true and thanks for the trigger warning. Is she getting professional help? That will be best above all else.
ReplyDeleteCry, cry, cry while praying to God. Pour your hearts out to Him.
ReplyDeleteWhat if YOU are the mistake. 🙃
ReplyDeleteAno ba nangyayari sa babaeng ito .Parang anak lng ni Michael Jackson na nagrerebelde
ReplyDeleteSo guilty?
ReplyDeleteAlam kasi niya sa sarili niya. May nagawa siya na siya ang nakakaalam. Abangan sa susunod may mangyayari
ReplyDeleteTruth!
DeleteItong si max unli rice sa sariling scoop
ReplyDeleteMalungkot siya lagi
ReplyDeleteNako nako nakooo🙀
ReplyDeleteDami nyang hanash sa interview ni toni tas dami padin problema sa buhay hai naku maxine try mo muna ma mundok
ReplyDeleteDapat pala mamundok kung madaming hanash at problema. 🤔 What a clever suggestion. 🙃
DeleteMejo harsh pagkasabi ni commenter but on second thot, pwede sya mag outdoor activities kasi malilibamg sya. Kesa yoga sa loob ng bahay. She needs nee environment! Pag namumundok ako nakakalimutan ko problema. Masaya kasi mga kasama. Oh well, it will pass maxene. Take your time. You will be healed in time :-)
Delete12:57 Sometimes you just have to pause and breathe. Whatever works for you. Mine is going on a long ride and having coffee far away from home.
DeleteShe’s adding fuel to the fire! Haaay this girl always needs attention
ReplyDeleteIt’s either she’s confirming it or she’s just enjoying the attention
ReplyDeleteCould be both! But most likely for the attention!
DeleteI know socmed is an outlet for some, but maybe for Max makakatulong na mag socmed break. It’s incredibly freeing, and parang ang laki ng stress na nawawala. Minsan one week lang without Instagram, parang narereset talaga mind ko. I know it wont solve her problems, but baka lang sakali makatulong.
ReplyDeleteKailangan nya mag destress..yun talaga need nya mag yoga at meditation without posting it on social media
DeletePansin ko lang, yung mga taong ang haba ang caption sa socmed sila yung problematic, andaming hanashi, andaming explanation.🙄
ReplyDeleteAy baks, confirm! Ganyan din ako dati na feeling happy at may pinapatunayan. Laging may hanash at ang haba ng caption. 😂 Sa mga ganyan na tao, karamihan dyan stress yan sa buhay at may pinagdadaanan. 😁
DeleteDon’t be bothered by the length of one’s caption. Pati ba naman yan kailangan pang gawan ng issue? Look at your comment. Madami ka din hanash.
Deleteif it helps her, sige lang. wala naman syang inaaway so kebs
DeleteThat's because there's no one they can talk to kaya ginawa na lang outlet ang social media. Look at Neri Naig. There's no other person besides her husband who she can share her success stories kaya sa IG naghahanap ng validation. Iba talaga kapag may close friends ka na handang makinig sayo kahit anong i-share mo, kahit magdamagan pa yan. Hindi mo na kailangan ipost sa socmed mga ganap sa buhay mo kasi may nakakaalam na outside your family.
Delete11:44 bakit Accla? tinamaan kaba? ganyan ka seguro sa FB mo hahaha! not 11:11 pero may point sya.
DeleteAnon 11:44 parang na hurt kanaman besh mashado kay 11:11. May pinagdadaanan kaba tehh? 😜😜😜
Delete1:01 and 11:44 Totoo naman na madaming reklamo ang netizens - mahaba ang caption, madaming hanash, madaming kuda, madaming time, etc. Lahat na lang kailangan ireklamo. If you don’t get it then maybe you’re one of those shallow thinkers na ganyan palagi yung comment. 🤔🙃
DeleteOh no… oh no… oh no no no no no
ReplyDeleteJuicy masyado yung third paragraph. Ano kaya yung another fall at mistake na yun? Could it be? Hmm….
ReplyDeleteSa therapist nya dapat sinasabi to eh, hindi sa Instagram 🤦🏻♀️
ReplyDeleteTrue
Deleteshe really needs help... 😒
ReplyDeleteBakit biglang nag off ka na ng comment section sa ig mo, Maxene?
ReplyDeleteHay naku you’re the problem Maxene.
ReplyDeleteWhy so judgmental?
DeleteWow! 11:42 empathy teh baka want mo?
DeleteAng dami naman nakiki empathize sa kanya sa social media pero mayat maya may posts niya na siya rin nagpapahamak sa sarili niya.
DeleteNyi Max ,anu ba ito confirmation? Hahaha ginagawa ko ng diary ang instagram.
ReplyDeletePosting on social media can be an outlet but it can also be a trigger. Clearly, it is both for Maxene. I think she should evaluate whether being online is helping her or if she should seriously consider another outlet na mas therapeutic.
ReplyDeleteYung mga pa deep thinkers, yoga, balance and grounding people who look at to different medium to release their energies dapat nag coconsult sa mga therapist and holistic doctors and look for spiritual support and accept that they are broken and need help and not validate their feelings sa SocMed.
ReplyDeleteNaku ayan na sya, trying to get ahead and gain sympathy for what’s about to come out.
ReplyDeleteoo nga! Tsk tsk wrong move gurl
DeleteMindsetting na, dramarama muna, abangan ang confirmation lol
DeleteTo rin pumasok sa isip ko nung nabaka yung lengthy post niya
DeleteLiking the attention
ReplyDeleteMaxine needs more than yoga & meditation. Mag kick boxing kaya sya? or muay thai. tsaka ka mag yoga.
ReplyDeleteAng kailangan niya siguro trabaho ng ma busy siya at ng di kung ano ano iniisip.
DeleteShe seems guilty though as she was already disabling her comment section. I hope it is not true because ruining a marriage between two people is never acceptable.
ReplyDeleteParang inienjoy lang ni Maxine ang attention ah. Ano yan Max confirmation ba yan?
ReplyDelete