mga artista kase sila, ganda ng mukha at katawan ang isa sa puhunan nila sa showbiz and all eyes are on them shempre celebrities kaya cguro ganyan sya ka-conscious kase maraming laitera
trigger point ba sayo ang pagsheshare ng mga tao sa socmed about their journey sa motherhood? these celebreties are people too. kanya kanyang experience yan, and not all pregnancies are the same.
As a mom na hindi nakaka produce ng milk, nakaka offend na parang they’re rubbing sa face ng mga followers nila na martyr sila dahil nagpapa bf sila or best moms ang mga nagpapa bf.
When I learned that I was pregnant, yun ang madalas kong pinopost sa socmed ko. Anything na pwede kong ishare pati links about being pregnant, safe pregnancy etc. nung nanganak ako, anything about momhood naman. Be an advocate hindi yung puro ka negativity. If you don’t want to know about Jessy’s pregnancy or anything in the future, the unfollow button is free. Hindi ikaw yung target market ng post niya but other moms who would want to know about stuff she posts. Halos 2023 na, nega mo pa din. Nakikichismis lang tayo dito. Wag kang mahanash @11:21
1:49 I felt the same way when I gave birth few years ago.. lalo pag sinasabi pa na iba talaga ang gatas ng ina, what can I do? WALA NGANG LUMALABAS! haissst.. but later on, I eventually learned how to ignore them. na-realize ko na mas kailangan ng anak ko ng "healthy" mommy (in body, in mind and in spirit). those "noise" from people around me caused me unnecessary negative vibes, so I did my best to make do of whatever I have. wala akong breast milk? then, I chose a good formula milk, and I made sure my son gets nutritious food by not giving him processed/junk food options.
First pregnancy nya po yan, everything is new to her! Kahit marami ka ng pregnancy experience, doesn't mean your experiences should be minimized if you prefer to personally celebrate each pregnancy and motherhood experience with each child. Kung gusto mo wala lang sayo pagbubuntis mo, that's your choice. Live and let live! Yaan nyo nga sya idocument and share what she wants on her page.
1:49 AM I feel bad you feel that way as a mom, but maybe look into yourself, too. It looks like you're projecting your insecurity. I dont think breastfeeding moms are thinking: "Ay, ipopost ko yung BF experience ko to make moms who can't produce milk or prefer not to BF feel bad about themselves." Most probably they're just posting a happy detail or simply documenting a detail of their motherhood.
2:22 yup. Breast feeding moms can talk about their experiences all they want but moms who can’t produce can’t express disappointment? It’s true that some new moms artistas do that, hindi dahil sinasadya nila but because of their wordings minsan na akala nila encouraging
No. They don't teach you at school how to be a mom, what you're going to experience during pregnancy and what happens afterwards. Let her express what she's going through, so what kung nasa socmed? tao lang din po si jessy and wants to raise awareness how's it like to be pregnant and be a first-time mom. lahat naman siguro tayo may say kung may napagdadaanan tayong bago. please be kind, di biro ang nagpagdadaanan ng mga babae when they get pregnant. other ppl may downplay it, but they don't know how's it like to raise a human being inside you. all these changes that she mentioned during and after pregnancy is all true.
Ako naman naging first time mom pero na enjoy ko naman. Iba iba talaga tao. Sorry di ko gets problema ni Jessy. Partida may mga katulong pa sya. Ako solo flight.
1246 lol nope. just pointing out na she's not looking for validation but just sharing her journey. and i don't think na may mali dun. looks like ikaw pa ata ang offended by something you shouldn't be worried about? lol sounds like coming from someone that doesn't know a thing about motherhood. :)
11:32 huy ate masyado kang defensive haha kailangan ba may explanation for everything? kaya napapa-"over" share ang ibang tao dahil sa mga tao na gaya mo. if you didn't like her post, why leave any negativity? hayaan mo yung tao, scroll away dear. may hinanakit ka ba sa mga babae at sa pagbubuntis? LOL
First time mom din ako and 5months na, ni hindi ko naisip magpasexy dahil ang goal ko ay maging chubby. I like chubby girls and boys. After giving birth, ito pa rin goal ko. Maging chubby 🤣
Yes, you do you. Me naman, I never wanna be chubby. Regardless of my age/station in life, for my own self-image, being out of shape shows a lack of care and discipline - but those are my thoughts and standards for myself alone. I know we all have different body types and preferences. Makes the world interesting have people of all shapes and sizes.
Normal lang yan! I dont get women na nagpopost about sa sacrifices nila like strettch marks, weight gain etc. pinili mo maging ina db? So it comes with it. Expected na magbabago katawan mo, boobs.
ay wow naman sayo. you don't get women na nagpopost about their sacrifices? people tend to post their "sacrifices", mapa-motherhood man yan or any situation, cos they're proud that they managed to go through these hardships. yes, mahirap po ang journey ng pagiging ina, lalo na what comes after. it is not about boasting or being a know-it-all when sharing experiences like this. it's about raising awareness/informing other people that they're not alone in this journey. it may not be a big deal for you or other people, but to go through so many changes physically, mentally, and emotionally while being pregnant and post-partum, it is a big deal for moms/women
Especially after giving birth maiibahan ka sa tummy mo..maiisip mo kung babalik pa sya sa dati. Pero lumiit naman dn ung sakin after a few months. Swerte sila they can afford to go to belo or aivee. Hay sana all di ba. Enjoy ur pregnancy journey jessy! Ang ganda mo kaya
Paano naman po kaming nagstruggle sa infertility at gusto magshare ng awareness at experience sa iba? Hindi ba pwede magraise ng awareness esp sa katulad naming may PCOs at hirap magbuntis? Kanya kanya naman tayo ng opinyon pero sana kung hindi nyo pa nararanasan maging ina stop na ang hanash. Hayaan nyo si jessy at ienjoy ang mommahood nya!
9.06 why are you telling people the 'stop na ang hanash'? These people are not telling her to stop posting. Ni wala ngang personal attack sa kanya. Na sa kanya na yun kung paano niya tanggapin yong opinion ng ibang tao but she and you cannot stop people from giving their opinion.
Guys, let's not invalidate her feelings. Ramdam ko naman din sinasabi nya. My body changed a lot after giving birth. Sometimes I don't want to look in the mirror because I don't like what I'm seeing. Jiggle dito, lawlaw doon. Kahit anong expect mo na magbabago katawan mo after pregnancy, magugulat at magugulat ka parin. Maybe someday I will get my confidence back.
i feel you sis! lalo na sa "Jiggle dito, lawlaw doon" huhu ang nega agad ng mga commenters. it's because they haven't gone through what we've gone through and still going through.
Ako din ngka postpartum after giving birth kasi wala ng mgkasyang damit sa akin to think na payatot talaga ako. But when i became pregnant wala sa isip ko eh basta food is life din kaya tumaba talaga ako ng bongga
Luis once said in one of their live sessions ata yun before nasa ibang bansa sila nun and may nag ask bakit work out pa rin sila nang work out kahit nasa bakasyon. And Luis answered “kasi ayokong tumaba.” Kapag ganyan ba naman ang partner mo talagang mai insecure at mako conscious ka sa katawan mo lalo.
he said that? yikes. kasi ang pagtaba can also be health-related. good on him for managing himself pero some people can’t help but gain weight either due to genetics, medication caused by a diagnosed illness and preganancy (for most women). kasi baka mamaya unknowingly napr project ni jessy yung ganyang mindset and that can be unhealthy. tapos buntis pa sya ngayon so, ang hormones nya can make her feel emotional easily.
Sus si Luis pa napaka supportive nun. He is talking about himself kasi as he ages may tendency siyang tumaba. Magana kasing kumain yun. Remember naging sila ni jessy when she was at her biggest at tanggap niya yun
5:42 of course he was talking about himself but it rubs off on you as the partner. It’s like indirectly saying ayaw ka rin nyang tumaba. Kaya nga pumayat nang husto si Jessy nung naging sila because grabe ang pagka fitness buff ni Luis. Not saying it was bad pero it does make you more self conscious.
Most places have gyms now, from offices to resorts. If exercising is your habit, when you miss a few days, mej mahirap bumalik. ahahaha! According to research, missing to do a habit for more than twice leads to the start of losing that habit. Parang optimal avenue yung vacations to lose your habits. ahahahaha!
Grabe din naman kasing body shaming yung natanggap niya nung naging public na sila ni Luis, lalu na nung sa fhm show. Priority ang baby, pero di din maiiwasang mainsecure sa changes ng body lalu na kung naranasan mo din ang mga haters na marites
This baby hasnt even been born yet, sandamakmak na content na nagawa ng nanay nya tungkol sa kanya. Lol. Do celebs here know they dont have to contentify their entire lives?
hayy ang ne-nega agad ng mga tao dito. she's obviously excited for her baby and just sharing her experiences so far about being preggy. insecure din ba kayo? lol
Guys be nice. Her hormones are messed up, aside from alam natin na dati nag papampam si Jessy. This kind of papansin is somehow expected of her. It's like really her taking to another notch. Lols
Yung mga nahirapan mag lose ng pregnancy weight are usually the ones na tamad mag workout at hindi naka establish ng magandang muscle tone prior to pregnancy. Slim nga pagkadalaga pero hindi naman nag-eexercise, lolobo ka talaga once you get pregnant with such a sedentary lifestyle.
@1:30 mamsh di lahat may time magworkout, hindi dahil tamad. Kape ko nga laging malamig na bago ko mainom. Sige bukas di ako matutulog makapagwork out lang 🙄
Mom of 2 and never workout a day in my life pre and post partum. My boys are now teenagers and im even slimmer than when i was before i had them. Nasa disiplina sa pag kain din kasi yan.
In my case, tumaba ako after taking pills. What can I do? Ayoko mabuntis kaagad hangga’t di ko natututukan ang panganay ko. Tsaka gustohin ko man mag work out, kung si bulilit sobrang clingy at ayaw mag paiwan sa tatay, wala ako magagawa. Kaya walking nalang ng kilometro kilometro ang workout. Sa Pilipinas kasi pwede mag yaya, kaya may mag babantay. E dito waley.
6:17 not an ignorant statement when it's basically true. I've witnessed a lot of slim women with sedentary lifestyles have difficulty shedding their pregnancy weight. Active women on the other hand don't even take a year to slim down. Not everyone has the discipline and time for fitness and healthy eating habits.
Pinaka relatable na mommy celebrity is Angelica Panganiban. Walang arte and not self conscious kahit ano itsura nya kahit nung buntis sya. Tawang tawa ako nung buntis pa sya at naglaba sya tapos sabi nya kung maamoy lang daw natin amoy nya and ive never related more sa isang artista. Sya din yung talagang hands on mom na literal kasi wala talagang yaya at katulong.
When I get pregnant never ako na insecure, super proud ako because Am already 43yrs old. I don’t care ksi feeling ko secured na ako with my baby…Pero wait natin after pregnancy mas madaming issue magaganap, which na encounter ko naman. And because malayo ako sa family ko ako lang lahat mag isa and my partner ba hindi maintondihan and drama ng isang babae. sorry po gusto ko lang ma share. pasensya na po
This is exactly why posts like Jessy's should not be vilified. Her sharing her experiences and thoughts validate and educate. Maraming hubby hind alam how to support their post partum wives. Marami rin mommies hindi maintindihan sarili or feel alone kasi hindi napapag usapan what really goes on during pregnancies and afterwards. Feeling nila weird sila not knowing, many moms go through the same things. People (even you in your post) minimize these very real experiences as "drama" kasi insufficiently educated on the what the body goes through.
I was also away sa family ko when I first got pregnant at 21. Pero Wala lang. Parang ordinary lang ang nangyayari sa akin noon. Siguro, ganoon talaga ang mahirap. Wala kang insecurities. Now, pag nanganak ka na, nandoon na ang difference. Nandiyan iyong mga selosan sa ibang mga apo ek ek.
2:26 exactly. That’s what makes her unrelatable. Ang ganda nya ni hindi sya lumaki tiyan lang. sorry pero mas nainis ako kesa ma inspired. She can afford to hire a private coach to get back into shape may sarili pa syang gym. Hmp! Yeah bitter ako. 😂
Kahit ako na-insecure when I was pregnant with my kids kasi talagang lumapad ang ilong at paa ko and all the stretchmarks, sya pa kaya who works hard to look beautiful and has to compete with other beautiful women to book jobs? If anything, this is a cry for reassurance from her husband.
So im supposed to feel inspired and relate to with what a pretty, rich and who’s surrounded with all the help she could possibly get - PA, yaya, driver with a customized van that could take her comfortably wherever she wants to go pregnant mommy is saying? If for anything this makes me feel even more insecure. Wala naman halos nabago kasi sa pisikal nya except for her tummy ni hindi sya nangitim. For us pregnant who still have to drag our butt out to work na ang laki laki na ng ilong manas pa commuters pa etc…sorry but she is not exactly relatable. It may not be her intention but i dont relate to her at all.
Parang gusto lang niya na iremind ang netizens na hey, I’m here. I still exist. Namimiss siguro na pinag-uusapan siya at gustong bumalik sa limelight. Insecurities.
When you post stuff like this personal journey or whatever on your socials you also have to keep in mind that not everybody even your close friends would feel inspired by you. And i know this for a fact because when i had my baby boy and i documented everything because i was excited. I got comments from blooming mommy whatever and then came the baby and halos minu minuto ako kung magpost because like i said i was excited and my baby was cute 🤣. Until an FB friend of mine posted a meme about friends posting about their babies all the time and how she finds it really annoying. While i wasnt named i got hurt but at the same time it was eye opening for me. Dun ko naisip oo nga not everyone will be happy and most of all not everyone can relate. I posted less and less and para na rin di ma over exposed din yung baby ko. So nagi gets ko ang iba ibang comments here. Merong naga agree kay Jessy, may nai inspired and may mga naiinis.
That's normal for her.. I had concerns too during my first pregnancy. I was in my twenties and not as self-assured yet. Hormones do things to you. Let her deal with her struggles however she pleases. We don't need to follow or concern ourselves anyway.
Sacrifice siguro kung may career ka tapos iniwan mo to focus on your pregnancy. Pero mas malaking sacrifice kung lumabas na yung baby mo at nag decide ka maging full time mom.
ganyan talaga pag buntis nagiging super emotional and maraming hanash. but lucky for her she has all the resources to take care of her problems. she can afford a therapist and an entire gym and also a nutritionist. hayaan nyo na mag vent si buntis. wag na lang basahin kung naiiyamot kayo sa kanya.
Parang all about body nalang ngayon ang pregnancy and how will you be sexy momma after giving birth.
ReplyDeletemga artista kase sila, ganda ng mukha at katawan ang isa sa puhunan nila sa showbiz and all eyes are on them shempre celebrities kaya cguro ganyan sya ka-conscious kase maraming laitera
DeleteTrue. And breastfeeding pics lol
DeleteIto na kasi ang era na kung saan ang confidence at validation mo eh nakadepende sa views at likes.
DeleteAgree ako sayo 12:23.
DeletePag nanganak sya breast feeding naman hanash nya as if hindi ginagawa yun ng mga nanay waaaaaay back socmed
ReplyDeletetrigger point ba sayo ang pagsheshare ng mga tao sa socmed about their journey sa motherhood? these celebreties are people too. kanya kanyang experience yan, and not all pregnancies are the same.
DeleteSame sentiments, kelan ba matatapos yang pregnancy hanash.
DeleteTrueeelaloo
DeleteAs a mom na hindi nakaka produce ng milk, nakaka offend na parang they’re rubbing sa face ng mga followers nila na martyr sila dahil nagpapa bf sila or best moms ang mga nagpapa bf.
DeleteWhen I learned that I was pregnant, yun ang madalas kong pinopost sa socmed ko. Anything na pwede kong ishare pati links about being pregnant, safe pregnancy etc. nung nanganak ako, anything about momhood naman. Be an advocate hindi yung puro ka negativity. If you don’t want to know about Jessy’s pregnancy or anything in the future, the unfollow button is free. Hindi ikaw yung target market ng post niya but other moms who would want to know about stuff she posts. Halos 2023 na, nega mo pa din. Nakikichismis lang tayo dito. Wag kang mahanash @11:21
DeleteHahaha korek. As if sila palang ang naka experience ng mothehoodd
Delete1:49 I felt the same way when I gave birth few years ago.. lalo pag sinasabi pa na iba talaga ang gatas ng ina, what can I do? WALA NGANG LUMALABAS! haissst.. but later on, I eventually learned how to ignore them. na-realize ko na mas kailangan ng anak ko ng "healthy" mommy (in body, in mind and in spirit). those "noise" from people around me caused me unnecessary negative vibes, so I did my best to make do of whatever I have. wala akong breast milk? then, I chose a good formula milk, and I made sure my son gets nutritious food by not giving him processed/junk food options.
DeleteFirst pregnancy nya po yan, everything is new to her! Kahit marami ka ng pregnancy experience, doesn't mean your experiences should be minimized if you prefer to personally celebrate each pregnancy and motherhood experience with each child. Kung gusto mo wala lang sayo pagbubuntis mo, that's your choice. Live and let live! Yaan nyo nga sya idocument and share what she wants on her page.
Delete1:49 AM I feel bad you feel that way as a mom, but maybe look into yourself, too. It looks like you're projecting your insecurity. I dont think breastfeeding moms are thinking: "Ay, ipopost ko yung BF experience ko to make moms who can't produce milk or prefer not to BF feel bad about themselves." Most probably they're just posting a happy detail or simply documenting a detail of their motherhood.
Delete2:22 yup. Breast feeding moms can talk about their experiences all they want but moms who can’t produce can’t express disappointment? It’s true that some new moms artistas do that, hindi dahil sinasadya nila but because of their wordings minsan na akala nila encouraging
DeleteExpected na yan kung mabubuntis ka, di ba napag aralan ni jessy yan sa school
ReplyDeleteNo. They don't teach you at school how to be a mom, what you're going to experience during pregnancy and what happens afterwards. Let her express what she's going through, so what kung nasa socmed? tao lang din po si jessy and wants to raise awareness how's it like to be pregnant and be a first-time mom. lahat naman siguro tayo may say kung may napagdadaanan tayong bago. please be kind, di biro ang nagpagdadaanan ng mga babae when they get pregnant. other ppl may downplay it, but they don't know how's it like to raise a human being inside you. all these changes that she mentioned during and after pregnancy is all true.
Delete12:03 very true
DeleteAko naman naging first time mom pero na enjoy ko naman. Iba iba talaga tao. Sorry di ko gets problema ni Jessy. Partida may mga katulong pa sya. Ako solo flight.
DeleteOk Jessy ikaw na ang magandang buntis, validated na ba
ReplyDeletei don't think she's looking for validation ateng. she's sharing her motherhood journey, and wala namang mali dun.
Delete1206 ikaw ba c Jessy? Mukhang mas affected ka pa sa comments here kesa sa kanya. Lol
Delete1246 lol nope. just pointing out na she's not looking for validation but just sharing her journey. and i don't think na may mali dun. looks like ikaw pa ata ang offended by something you shouldn't be worried about? lol sounds like coming from someone that doesn't know a thing about motherhood. :)
Delete1:13 sharing journey para saan? majority nga ng babae nabubuntis minsan early pregnancy pa. nothing special. lol
Delete11:32 huy ate masyado kang defensive haha kailangan ba may explanation for everything? kaya napapa-"over" share ang ibang tao dahil sa mga tao na gaya mo. if you didn't like her post, why leave any negativity? hayaan mo yung tao, scroll away dear. may hinanakit ka ba sa mga babae at sa pagbubuntis? LOL
Delete09:48 artista kasi te freedom of expression. hello naman nasa tsismisan website ka wala ka sa kumbento wag ka ngang ipokrita dyarn. lol
DeleteFirst time mom din ako and 5months na, ni hindi ko naisip magpasexy dahil ang goal ko ay maging chubby. I like chubby girls and boys. After giving birth, ito pa rin goal ko. Maging chubby 🤣
ReplyDeleteReally??? lol
DeleteGusto ko to ang true! Apir tayo!
DeleteParehas tayo, sa isip ko nung buntis ako hay salamat magkalaman na rin ako at ang boobs ko hahaha.
DeleteYes, you do you. Me naman, I never wanna be chubby. Regardless of my age/station in life, for my own self-image, being out of shape shows a lack of care and discipline - but those are my thoughts and standards for myself alone. I know we all have different body types and preferences. Makes the world interesting have people of all shapes and sizes.
DeleteGanyan din ako sobrang payat. Kaya natuwa ako at nagkalaman ang cheeks at nagkaboobs
DeleteNormal lang yan! I dont get women na nagpopost about sa sacrifices nila like strettch marks, weight gain etc. pinili mo maging ina db? So it comes with it. Expected na magbabago katawan mo, boobs.
ReplyDeleteTrue..
Deleteay wow naman sayo. you don't get women na nagpopost about their sacrifices? people tend to post their "sacrifices", mapa-motherhood man yan or any situation, cos they're proud that they managed to go through these hardships. yes, mahirap po ang journey ng pagiging ina, lalo na what comes after. it is not about boasting or being a know-it-all when sharing experiences like this. it's about raising awareness/informing other people that they're not alone in this journey. it may not be a big deal for you or other people, but to go through so many changes physically, mentally, and emotionally while being pregnant and post-partum, it is a big deal for moms/women
DeleteEspecially after giving birth maiibahan ka sa tummy mo..maiisip mo kung babalik pa sya sa dati. Pero lumiit naman dn ung sakin after a few months. Swerte sila they can afford to go to belo or aivee. Hay sana all di ba. Enjoy ur pregnancy journey jessy! Ang ganda mo kaya
DeletePaano naman po kaming nagstruggle sa infertility at gusto magshare ng awareness at experience sa iba? Hindi ba pwede magraise ng awareness esp sa katulad naming may PCOs at hirap magbuntis? Kanya kanya naman tayo ng opinyon pero sana kung hindi nyo pa nararanasan maging ina stop na ang hanash. Hayaan nyo si jessy at ienjoy ang mommahood nya!
Delete9.06 why are you telling people the 'stop na ang hanash'? These people are not telling her to stop posting. Ni wala ngang personal attack sa kanya. Na sa kanya na yun kung paano niya tanggapin yong opinion ng ibang tao but she and you cannot stop people from giving their opinion.
DeleteGirl, may interview na sayo dun sa article, kulang pa?
ReplyDeleteGuys, let's not invalidate her feelings. Ramdam ko naman din sinasabi nya. My body changed a lot after giving birth. Sometimes I don't want to look in the mirror because I don't like what I'm seeing. Jiggle dito, lawlaw doon. Kahit anong expect mo na magbabago katawan mo after pregnancy, magugulat at magugulat ka parin. Maybe someday I will get my confidence back.
ReplyDeletei feel you sis! lalo na sa "Jiggle dito, lawlaw doon" huhu ang nega agad ng mga commenters. it's because they haven't gone through what we've gone through and still going through.
DeleteYes, hindi kasi nila alam kaya feeling nila mema lang tayo. We are not alone and yun ang mahalaga.
DeleteAko din ngka postpartum after giving birth kasi wala ng mgkasyang damit sa akin to think na payatot talaga ako. But when i became pregnant wala sa isip ko eh basta food is life din kaya tumaba talaga ako ng bongga
Deleteako din sobra layo n ng itsura ko compared nunm nagkabelt bag n din ako sa tyan dahil cs at kakakain
DeleteInsecure ka nga. No problem naman kasi marami kang pera. Pwedeng lipo, breast lift, lightening of stretch marks, several yayas to relieve you, etc.
ReplyDeleteWala ba nag advice sa kanya na stop muna siya sa IG.
ReplyDeleteWala, at wala ka pake kung ano ipost nya. Her ig, her rules.
DeletePaano naging sacrifice? Lol
ReplyDeleteDiba? Nagpabuntis tapos ang daming sinasabi afterwards.
DeletePampa pa kunsensya sa husband. 😂
DeleteLuis once said in one of their live sessions ata yun before nasa ibang bansa sila nun and may nag ask bakit work out pa rin sila nang work out kahit nasa bakasyon. And Luis answered “kasi ayokong tumaba.” Kapag ganyan ba naman ang partner mo talagang mai insecure at mako conscious ka sa katawan mo lalo.
ReplyDeleteNakakasad Naman yon, di mo ma-enjoy Ang bakasyon. Kaya pala andami niyang insecurities Kasi partner niya mismo nagpapa feel sa kanya non
Deletewhen I go on vacation, I excise too. pansin mo, daming hotels meron gym facility kasi meron din gusto mag exercise even when they're on vacation.
Deletehe said that? yikes. kasi ang pagtaba can also be health-related. good on him for managing himself pero some people can’t help but gain weight either due to genetics, medication caused by a diagnosed illness and preganancy (for most women). kasi baka mamaya unknowingly napr project ni jessy yung ganyang mindset and that can be unhealthy. tapos buntis pa sya ngayon so, ang hormones nya can make her feel emotional easily.
DeleteSus si Luis pa napaka supportive nun. He is talking about himself kasi as he ages may tendency siyang tumaba. Magana kasing kumain yun. Remember naging sila ni jessy when she was at her biggest at tanggap niya yun
Delete5:42 of course he was talking about himself but it rubs off on you as the partner. It’s like indirectly saying ayaw ka rin nyang tumaba. Kaya nga pumayat nang husto si Jessy nung naging sila because grabe ang pagka fitness buff ni Luis. Not saying it was bad pero it does make you more self conscious.
DeleteMost places have gyms now, from offices to resorts. If exercising is your habit, when you miss a few days, mej mahirap bumalik. ahahaha! According to research, missing to do a habit for more than twice leads to the start of losing that habit. Parang optimal avenue yung vacations to lose your habits. ahahahaha!
DeleteFishing for compliments naman lagi. Mayged.
ReplyDeleteAng daming hanash. Be thankful na magkakababy ka na. Yungiba hirap magkaanak.
ReplyDeleteNakow! Toxic pinoy culture spotted above!
DeleteAnd how do you call yourself 2:34? Ikaw ang holier than thou sa lahat? Eww
DeleteAs if naman di ka majubis dati. Nakaka insecure pa yun na hindi ka pa buntis. Mag work out ka nalang after
ReplyDeleteGrabe din naman kasing body shaming yung natanggap niya nung naging public na sila ni Luis, lalu na nung sa fhm show. Priority ang baby, pero di din maiiwasang mainsecure sa changes ng body lalu na kung naranasan mo din ang mga haters na marites
DeletePrecisely. Binanggit nga niya yun
DeleteWell she did ask for it. “Bring it on!” Remember?
DeleteI-shopping mo lang yan teh. 😉
ReplyDeleteUsual may gustong patunayan si Ate.
ReplyDeleteThis baby hasnt even been born yet, sandamakmak na content na nagawa ng nanay nya tungkol sa kanya. Lol. Do celebs here know they dont have to contentify their entire lives?
ReplyDeleteLevel-up na nga lifestyle mo girl just be thankful.
ReplyDeletehayy ang ne-nega agad ng mga tao dito. she's obviously excited for her baby and just sharing her experiences so far about being preggy. insecure din ba kayo? lol
ReplyDeleteGuys be nice. Her hormones are messed up, aside from alam natin na dati nag papampam si Jessy. This kind of papansin is somehow expected of her. It's like really her taking to another notch. Lols
ReplyDeleteYung mga nahirapan mag lose ng pregnancy weight are usually the ones na tamad mag workout at hindi naka establish ng magandang muscle tone prior to pregnancy. Slim nga pagkadalaga pero hindi naman nag-eexercise, lolobo ka talaga once you get pregnant with such a sedentary lifestyle.
ReplyDelete@1:30 mamsh di lahat may time magworkout, hindi dahil tamad. Kape ko nga laging malamig na bago ko mainom. Sige bukas di ako matutulog makapagwork out lang 🙄
DeleteMom of 2 and never workout a day in my life pre and post partum. My boys are now teenagers and im even slimmer than when i was before i had them. Nasa disiplina sa pag kain din kasi yan.
DeleteIn my case, tumaba ako after taking pills. What can I do? Ayoko mabuntis kaagad hangga’t di ko natututukan ang panganay ko. Tsaka gustohin ko man mag work out, kung si bulilit sobrang clingy at ayaw mag paiwan sa tatay, wala ako magagawa. Kaya walking nalang ng kilometro kilometro ang workout. Sa Pilipinas kasi pwede mag yaya, kaya may mag babantay. E dito waley.
DeleteWhat an ignorant generalized statement
Delete5:14 AM Get your husband a vasectomy. You already carried the pregnancy, can he carry the birth control naman if ayaw mag ingat or condom?
Delete6:17 not an ignorant statement when it's basically true. I've witnessed a lot of slim women with sedentary lifestyles have difficulty shedding their pregnancy weight. Active women on the other hand don't even take a year to slim down. Not everyone has the discipline and time for fitness and healthy eating habits.
DeletePinaka relatable na mommy celebrity is Angelica Panganiban. Walang arte and not self conscious kahit ano itsura nya kahit nung buntis sya. Tawang tawa ako nung buntis pa sya at naglaba sya tapos sabi nya kung maamoy lang daw natin amoy nya and ive never related more sa isang artista. Sya din yung talagang hands on mom na literal kasi wala talagang yaya at katulong.
ReplyDeleteO diba. Kakatuwa siya, same with Coleen. Embrace dapat ni Jessy ang motherhood since choice nila yan.
DeleteWhen I get pregnant never ako na insecure, super proud ako because Am already 43yrs old. I don’t care ksi feeling ko secured na ako with my baby…Pero wait natin after pregnancy mas madaming issue magaganap, which na encounter ko naman. And because malayo ako sa family ko ako lang lahat mag isa and my partner ba hindi maintondihan and drama ng isang babae. sorry po gusto ko lang ma
ReplyDeleteshare. pasensya na po
This is exactly why posts like Jessy's should not be vilified. Her sharing her experiences and thoughts validate and educate. Maraming hubby hind alam how to support their post partum wives. Marami rin mommies hindi maintindihan sarili or feel alone kasi hindi napapag usapan what really goes on during pregnancies and afterwards. Feeling nila weird sila not knowing, many moms go through the same things. People (even you in your post) minimize these very real experiences as "drama" kasi insufficiently educated on the what the body goes through.
DeleteI was also away sa family ko when I first got pregnant at 21. Pero Wala lang. Parang ordinary lang ang nangyayari sa akin noon. Siguro, ganoon talaga ang mahirap. Wala kang insecurities. Now, pag nanganak ka na, nandoon na ang difference. Nandiyan iyong mga selosan sa ibang mga apo ek ek.
DeleteLet her rant if she needs to. It’s her prerogative, it’s her account, it’s her feelings.
ReplyDeleteSi Solenn din nman at Izza takot sila tumaba
ReplyDeleteMaganda na namomroblema pa sa itsura pano na akong kumakapit lang sa filter. Huhu
ReplyDeleteBesh, we're not ugly, just poor. ahahaha! Pag afford na natin great skincare and services and healthy lifestyle lalabas rin ganda natin.
Delete2:26 exactly. That’s what makes her unrelatable. Ang ganda nya ni hindi sya lumaki tiyan lang. sorry pero mas nainis ako kesa ma inspired. She can afford to hire a private coach to get back into shape may sarili pa syang gym. Hmp! Yeah bitter ako. 😂
DeleteKahit ako na-insecure when I was pregnant with my kids kasi talagang lumapad ang ilong at paa ko and all the stretchmarks, sya pa kaya who works hard to look beautiful and has to compete with other beautiful women to book jobs? If anything, this is a cry for reassurance from her husband.
ReplyDeleteDi naman lumaki ilong nya. Di nga sya tumaba or nangitim. She actually bloomed.
DeleteShe needs to get off socmed
ReplyDeleteI never ever see pregnancy as a huge sacrifice. A huge choice perhaps. But never a sacrifice. Always a blessing that not everyone is given.
ReplyDeleteSo im supposed to feel inspired and relate to with what a pretty, rich and who’s surrounded with all the help she could possibly get - PA, yaya, driver with a customized van that could take her comfortably wherever she wants to go pregnant mommy is saying? If for anything this makes me feel even more insecure. Wala naman halos nabago kasi sa pisikal nya except for her tummy ni hindi sya nangitim. For us pregnant who still have to drag our butt out to work na ang laki laki na ng ilong manas pa commuters pa etc…sorry but she is not exactly relatable. It may not be her intention but i dont relate to her at all.
ReplyDeleteExactly. Minsan npaka out of touch din nitong mga celeb/influencers.
DeleteParang gusto lang niya na iremind ang netizens na hey, I’m here. I still exist. Namimiss siguro na pinag-uusapan siya at gustong bumalik sa limelight. Insecurities.
DeleteThis!
DeleteMom of 23 yr old and I am - 33- 25- 33 and weigh 51 kgs
ReplyDeleteOkay..ha ha
Deleteclassmate, ano ang diet and workout regimen mo? bilib ako sa namamaintain ang katawan coz i admit di ako disciplined
DeleteBata ka pa
DeleteWhen you post stuff like this personal journey or whatever on your socials you also have to keep in mind that not everybody even your close friends would feel inspired by you. And i know this for a fact because when i had my baby boy and i documented everything because i was excited. I got comments from blooming mommy whatever and then came the baby and halos minu minuto ako kung magpost because like i said i was excited and my baby was cute 🤣.
ReplyDeleteUntil an FB friend of mine posted a meme about friends posting about their babies all the time and how she finds it really annoying. While i wasnt named i got hurt but at the same time it was eye opening for me. Dun ko naisip oo nga not everyone will be happy and most of all not everyone can relate. I posted less and less and para na rin di ma over exposed din yung baby ko. So nagi gets ko ang iba ibang comments here. Merong naga agree kay Jessy, may nai inspired and may mga naiinis.
Sana nagpost ka pa lalo hehe. Or nagpost ka rin ng meme - if u dont like my post unfollow. Hehe.
DeleteThat's normal for her.. I had concerns too during my first pregnancy. I was in my twenties and not as self-assured yet. Hormones do things to you. Let her deal with her struggles however she pleases. We don't need to follow or concern ourselves anyway.
ReplyDeleteSacrifice siguro kung may career ka tapos iniwan mo to focus on your pregnancy. Pero mas malaking sacrifice kung lumabas na yung baby mo at nag decide ka maging full time mom.
ReplyDeleteganyan talaga pag buntis nagiging super emotional and maraming hanash. but lucky for her she has all the resources to take care of her problems. she can afford a therapist and an entire gym and also a nutritionist. hayaan nyo na mag vent si buntis. wag na lang basahin kung naiiyamot kayo sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteGanyan talaga pag walang ibang pino problema kung anu-ano na lang maisip problemahin.
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