More blessing and happiness for this beautiful soul. While waiting for your parents forgiveness focus on building a happy life with your husband. Dont dwell on sadness. Always seek happiness.
There’s no such things as “a happy life” Only life with a purpose and a content life.. pag meron ka ng dalawa kahit anong unos ang dumating mahahandle mo ng maayos..
Sarah, at this point you just have to let it be. You did NOTHING wrong. It’s unfortunate you have these type of parents and siblings. They are toxic! Sad to grow up in a narcissistic environment aka your mother. Live your life Sarah!
Maybe Sarah just misses her toxic family. Anyway, I hope Matteo treats her well. Otherwise it's just transferring one jail cell to another. And I hope they have kids soon.
You did the right thing for asking forgiveness to your parents for what you think you disobey them or losing their trust from you.You are a good daughter you gave your family the best life and I think you deserve to have a life and be happy too.Your parents should realize by now that you are in a stage in life where you can live and decide for your own.Don’t be too hard to yourself I believe in God’s perfect timing you and your family will have a beautiful relationship again.God bless!
Anong problema ni 9:53 PM. Kung wala sa iyo ang happy life, sa iba meron. Being contented can be considered happy. Huwag kang mamaru sa feelings ng iba. I wish you a happy life.
Your parents and family are cruel. They have been blessed with a beautiful person like you but dont appreciate or have no gratitude for having you as their family. I feel sorry for them they cant continue to experience your pure and sincere soul and deep love for them because they have chosen to reject it.
I love sarah and i am a fan of her ha. Pero bakit today talaga niya pinost yung letter, sabay ng release ng music video niya ng "dati dati". At kahapon din nirelease yung 2nd single niya
Dumaan na pandemic lahat hinde sila naguusap ng family niya? Grabe natiis niya din. Medyo masakit din yun on her part pero what i like about Sara sobrang bait niya parin. Maparaya parin siya na anak.
Abuso ng magulang? Kung naabuso yan hindi yan lalaking matino at succesful, tumanda sya sa piling ng magulang nya ilang taon lang ba nya nakasama ang bagong pamilya ng asawa nya, magulang parin ang dapat bigyan ng halaga kasi maiksi ang buhay wala sya ngayon kung hindi sa pag alaga nila
4:22 am that’s toxic naman. Sarah was never ungrateful. Siguro nga mali na ilihim nya yun decision to get married pero may dahilan. Bilang Pilipino I seen Sarah grow and hindi normal yun pagiging over protected nila. Sometimes I feel may emotional and financial abuse na nangyari. It just Sarah hold a strong faith and feels she was fully dependent sa family niya.
422 abuso tlaga yan. Fyi, may ibat ibang uri ng abuso. Kaloka sa pagkaignorante. 😂 In Sara‘s case, abuso sa pera at yaman nya. Hello, feeling pag aari ng magulang nya c Sarah. Hindi pa ba kuntento ang pamilya ni Sarah sa yaman na naibigay nya. Nakapag aral ang mga kapatid, mansion ang bahay nila at wala na silang alalahanin tungkol sa pera. Lumaki pa yang suwail c Sarah, kaso at kalaboso yang pamilya nya. Lol
Hayyyy..Bakit ba ang hirap tanggapin ng magulang ang desisyon ng anak? Hindi na man sa naging masamang anak si Sarah.. Yun ngang iba jan adik sa alak, droga and all pero pinapatawad at tinatanggap ng magulang. Im really sad for Sarah
buong buhay ni sarah hawak sya sa leeg ng pamilya nya.. cash cow baga. di nila matanggap na aalis na sya kahit andami na nyang naiambag sa buhay nila. selfish lang
Naawa nga ako sa mga taong sobrang talented kasi naabuso din ng pamilya yan. Mataas ang expectations Like Charice diba. Love ko sila both Sarah and Charice
Maka cash cow ka naman, nasa magulang ba ang pera nya nasa kaniya dba at ang pamilya nya bongga ba simple lang din naman so hindi nila inubos ang ipon at pinag trabahuhan nya
ang tagal ko nagfangirl kay sarah,she's my first love,,i never imagined na ganito ang kahihinatnan ng personal life nya,,kala ko mala dingdong marian ang wedding nila knowing how big star she is...tapos nagka skandalo pa sa kasal nya..umabot pa sa tulfo,,pagiging tahimik nya sa abs cbn shutdown at election..of all the controversies na kinasangkutan nya,,yung sa parents nya ang pinaka nahurt ako for her...sana magkaayos na sila..mahal nya ang parents nya.. though tumigil na ko sa pagfangirl sa kanya..i still wish her the best
957 wala po syang responsibilidad to speak about abs shutdown dhil empleyado or contractual lng din sya doon (taga Viva sya). Buti sana kung exec sya or someone in higher position eh hndi nman. Pati not all exec ay nagsalita kahit sila ang mas dapat magsalita noh.
Other than that, i do agree with u and i also feel sad n may pagkatragic ang personal life nya despite all the good things she done for her family. Kayod kalabaw and ginagatasan sya nang sobra tpos sya prin ang masama s knilang mga mata. Nakakahurt tlga
Siguro ang mali nya yong di invited or di sinabi sa magulang nya yong wedding nya kc sobrang sakit sa magulang yun, Pero maiintindihan mo din nman si Sara kc ayaw pa ng magulang na magpakasal sya, nasa tamang edad nman na sya.
Kung sekreto na silang dalawa lang ni Mateo nagpakasal, mas maiintindihan Pero nandon parents ni Mateo atbp. sa wedding minus Sara's side..
Baka nman may napansin na ugali ni mateo yong mama ni Sara kaya ayaw nya sa kanya.
Yong tungkol sa pera di nman kasakiman yun, in the end kay Sara din nman yan, kc iginapang, sobrang hirap dinaanan nila ng magulang nya lalo ng nanay nya lalo yong sa pag umpisa ni Sara sa pagiging singer, ganon din si Sara kaya sobra sobra mag ingat ng nanay nya.
1:59 mukha naman syang matinong tao who would’ve done anything para magpakasal ng maayos. I doubt if she did not invite her parents dahil ayaw lang nya. Baka naka ilang attempt na to do it the right way at napilitan na lang to turn to an extreme option.
Sarah, some things you just have to accept na its not up to you to fix when you’ve done all you can.
If it had gotten to this point of her needing to publish something online, does it mean her parents are really not interested in fixing family matters in private? Kung ganun nga, I don’t know what it will take for them to come to terms with the fact that their daughter, who was their sole provider all these years, is a grown woman who can decide for herself and should be able to live her life the way she pleases. Hindi naman pariwara si Sarah. She was never reckless, always careful in her decisions. To Sarah, let go and let God. You’ve done your part. Live your life guilt-free. To her parents, particularly her mom, sana naman you have the decency to stop making your daughter feel bad for living her life. Stop gaslighting your daughter! She’s not your property.
When Sarah has her own kids she will be the most wonderful mom, she will have a blessed family. The pain of not being ok with her own family hopefully will slowly diminish.
Idinaan nya sa social media paghingi ng apology sa magulang nya, nagkaron sya ng realization na may nagawa syang mali sa parents nya.
Dinisrespect nya sila, sino ba ang nandon para sa kanya nong struggling pa lang sya its her parents. Kung di sya sikat malamang di sya papansinin ni mateo.
Family pa rin nya maaalala nya if may problema sya, para sa career din kung bat ginawa nya yan.
Not all ay agree sa ginawa nya sa parents nya nong nagpakasal sya.
3:14 malaya dhil tumakas sya but it doesnt mean that her family want her to be free. Tignan mo nga at mukha kontrolado parin nang parents nya ang career nya. Dba nga momanager ni sarah ang nanay nya?
Utang na loob sa pamilya ni sarah, tanggapin niyo na ang pagre-reach out niya. Mahiya naman kayo sa kinawawa niyo ng matagal na panahon. Nung may nakita na syang personal na kaligayahan niya, ayaw niyo ng suportahan?!? Kaloka
sa totoo lang minsan naisip ko na okay narin yang di sila nagkikibuan. toxic ang family nya, di man lang sya pinatawad all these years. e si sarah nga ang dahilan kung bakit ang rangya ng buhay nya. kung ako kay sarah let go narin ako
Sarah, sometimes you need to be tough, to be strong. Kaya ka natitiis ng pamilya mo is because they know how soft you are. Tama na ang pagpapakumbaba mo. Tao lang tayo. The Lord will understand. Minsan hindi din naman masamang lumaban, lalo na alam mo na mas makakabuti sayo yun. You have been a very very god daughter. What more can your family ask for?
At abroad pa niya pina aral Ate niya..naalala ko nag laro sa deal or no deal si SG natalo ata kitang-kita yung pagsisi ng younger brother niya sa kanya para bang buong pamilya lng masusunod pwera lang kay SG.
Napaka palad ni Sarah dahil napunta sa maayos na pamilya at mabuting tao ang napangasawa. Tapos eto ang pamilya niya, di tanggap. Masama ang loob. Mapagmalaki. Hindi nagpapatawad.
A big salute to Matteo for standing up for Sarah. Di rin biro pinagdaanan niya to win Sarah's heart. He could've chosen someone who's maybe better. Yung matatanggap siya bilang in-law. After all, he comes from a decent and loving family.
Someday your parents will realize that they made a mistake. Regine Velasquez was also the breadwinner before but when she got married, her parents permitted her.
My gosh. Napaka buting anak nga ni sarah. Lahat ng kapatid nakatapos. Ginapang nya para sa magandang buhay nla. This is a toxic filipino culture. Ano ba nmn na ibigay nyo na kay sarah and peace, love, at happiness na nahanap nya ke matteo at family. Disente nmn pamilya nla at mahal nila ang anak nla. Sarah, youve done a lot for them at sobrang nagpakumbaba ka na. Love your life and you deserve the life you have right now. Sobrang hurt ako for her. Popster to!
Di daw nagpaalam nung ikasal, nakakapagtravel naman na sila ni Matteo ng solo nung di pa kasal so ibig sabihin kahit papano di naman na sya napipigilan
Not surprised na kaya siya tiisin ng Mom nya. Pero yung Dad nya? Parang dun ako di makapaniwala. And even her siblings, sila dapat nakakaintindi kay Sarah kasi alam nila pinagdaanan mung tao para itaguyod pamilya nila.
Sad lang very religious ng parents nya na malamang dun din nila nakuha ang mindset na utang na loob ng anak sa magulang lahat, magpakumbaba lagi sa magulang or else hindi pagpapalain etc keme keme in short toxic boomer
toxic din yung nagpapakareligious kuno pero di mapatawad ang anak sa kasalanang di naman mabigat (heller, magpapakasal lang?). e si Lord nga marunong magpatawad
Grabe ambait talaga ni Sarah napahumble. Bakit may mga magulang na kayang tikisin ang anak? Mabuting anak pa yan ha. Binigyan na sila ni Sarah ng magandang buhay. Kahit nasa tugatog ng tagumpay she remained simple and living simple life. Hindi maarte. Nagtatrabaho para mabigyan ng kaginhawaan mga magulang at mga kapatid. Mommy Divine jusko anong klaseng ina kayo? Masaya naman na si Sarah sana maging masaya din kayo sa kanya.
Grabe, and lalaki ng mga ego ng parents nito. Sobrang mapride. Ginamit naman nila si Sarah for their own gain. Ginawang cash cow. Tapos hindi man lang masuportahan on the one thing their daughter seemed to feel so strongly for, her relationship with Matteo.
Sabi nila ang anak matitiis ang magulang pero ang magulang di matitiis ang anak. Pero sa case ng parents ni Sarah ibang iba. Nadudurog ang puso ko para sa kanya.
This is true! Yung nanay ko ilang years na kaming di naguusap, last na paguusap namin nung kinasal ako. Humingi ako ng sorry sa kanya sa kung ano mang nagawa ko umo-oo sya pero kinabukasan di na naman nya ko pinansin. It’s been two years, kala ko kakausapin nya ko kapag nagkaapo sya sa akin, pati yung apo nya di nya pinapansin. Skl.
2:23 i feel u. Same with both my parents. May mga ganun pala talaga. Over the years natutunan ko na iaccept na may mga bagay na wala talaga tayo control. pinagppray ko nalang happiness and good health nila.
2:23am aww I hope you don’t feel abandoned. I feel your pain. We can’t force people to see our side. As long as you have your kid, bahala na everything else.
Your story is like mine 2:23 except that it has been 17 yrs na. Yes, tumagal ng ganun because my mom chose to let pride and scorn rule her heart. Mismong mga apo niya na kids ko, effort lagi to greet her on her birthday pero ni hindi niya kinakausap. Hindi ko tinuruan mga anak ko to hate back but rather dagdagan na lang yung patience. I'm running out of that myself. There was a time na I even had a nervous breakdown dahil sa toxicity niya. It was a psychiatrist who counseled me that I owe her no apologies, that I should go on with my life, with or without her approval or forgiveness for whatever slight she thinks I may have done. Simple lang galit niya. Siniraan ako ng isang sis-in-law na after daw ako sa mana ng magulang ko. A very damning accusation na unfortunately, my mom believed dahil nabilog ulo niya sa sobrang kasipsipan ng hipag kong bruha. Its very true na may mga magulang talagang natitiis mga anak nila.
2:23 nagawa mo na parte mo. Nagpakumbaba ka at humingi ng tawad. Ipagpasa Dios mo nalang yang nanay mo. Iba iba kasi talaga ang tao. Merong nagtatanim ng galit, meron namang hindi. Malas mo lang at plantita nanay mo, mahilig magtanim ng sama ng loob. Pero live your life nalang. In a happy and healthy way. skl lang din :)
Sana kung magmamatigas sila kay Sarah ibalik nila yung lahat ng naibigay ni Sarah para sa kanila at bumalik sila sa dating bahay nila sa Manila. I mean ang lakas ng loob nagmatigas while enjoying everything na galing sa pagod ni Sarah 🙄
Sobrang bait na ni Sarah at maayos naman siya tapos sobrang successful. Nag provide sa kanila. Sobra sobra pa. Off ako kay Mateo pero mukhang mahal naman niya si Sarah at nasa maayos na family so ano kaya ang problem nitong magulang niya. Ideal daughter na si Sarah. Maraming magulang ang gustong ganyang anak. Ano kayang klaseng magulang meron siya...
Why is Sarah all of a sudden doing this long letter of apology, thanks and proclaiming her faith? She has been ultra-quiet ever since her wedding. Hope her family can hear this plaintive cry from Sarah and respond well
You don’t need to apologize for your happiness. You have done your part as a good daughter more than enough Sarah. Pray to God to forgive your family and We pray to God to bless you even more.
Sarah tried to reach out sa parents at mga kapatid nya but the door was closed. In short, ignored pa rin sya. Last straw na to kaya nag reach out na siya thru social media….. pero no effect pa rin. Kawawang Sarah…. Greedy and selfish ang family nya.
Hi Sarah. It’s true we don’t know the whole story. However, I believe there have been enough information out there to warrant an opinion that you have been and you still are in an abusive relationship with your parents. It’s ok to forgive them for your own mental and spiritual health but please know that situation is really toxic. It’s really important to recognize that, and that you should never allow that to continue. I beg your spiritual leader(s) to not guilt trip you to think otherwise, in fact, they should help protect you from this continuing abuse (yes, your parents ghosting you is a form of mental abuse). Also, research on stockholm syndrome among other things. God heal you and protect you.
Then she should just leave them alone then. She already “escaped” so hindi na rin kawalan ang family nya according to you and her fans. But her doing this just opened up comments about how greedy her parents are, something she has allowed ever since naman. Sinabi na rin naman ng idol mo napakadali manghusga at magbigay ng opinyon sa buhay ng iba.
12:14 very very well said!!! Most of the time these “spiritual/religious” advisers ang number one to subject you to further abuse in the name of being “selfless” and being a Christian child. Toxic is toxic and that’s her family. Periodtttt
Aren't they greedy, 1:16? If they are not (especially the mom), they would not have treated Sarah the way they did. Sa ibang pamilya pag breadwinner ka ikaw ang nasusunod sa gusto mo. Pero sa case ni Sarah she was lije a prisoner for so many years. Nagpakumbaba na nga yung tao nanisi ka pa.
agree 1:16am,yes mali ginawa kay Sarah at matanda na siya,pero di naman nagpapainterview parents or family niya kaya sa ginagawa niya mas nabubuhay ulit issue.
Im glad n hndi pa naaabot ni Sarah amg naranasan ni Britney and still wishing na hndi mangyari ang nangyari kay britney kay sarah. Grabe ang pamilya niya sa knya
Ok ka lang magkaibang magkaiba naman situation nila. Brit was a danger to herself and her sons and her current mental health at that time made her incapable of making decisions.
Nakakaiyak. She been “always the good daughter”. She provided at binigay niya lahat ng kailangan nila. I felt sorry for her na yun isang desisyon di ba nila ipaubaya sa kanya. Matanda na siya, may ipon naman at maayos pamilya ng lalaki and even Matteo. I hope everything will heal in time. But mostly is for Sarah to forgive herself and find inner peace. Don’t feel guilty na Sarah.
Ang toxic ng family ni Sarah lalo parents nya, naging mabuti at ulirang anak naman siya. Hindi naman pwede hanggang sa dulo sila magdecide for her. Its great if we give back to our parents, but not because its our responsibility. Di naman natin hiningi na ipanganak sa mundo.
Sarah and I are the same age, and I adore her since manalo sya nung 14 palang din sya iirc. She’s always been a good role model to everyone, nakakalungkot lang na di sya nakikita ng ganun ng parents nya, it feels like all they see in her is their investments or money maker ika nga. And bakit pati mga kapatid nya cannot do anything or at least also show support to sarah if they really consider her as their sibling. :(
I feel Sarah's loneliness. Idk about others who can just cut ties sa toxic nilang family but I myself could not do that. My toxic trait would still be hopeful for reconciliation.
I hope that Sarah feels she has done her part. And if her family is still unforgiving, I hope she's able to accept it and move on. Her family knows she misses them and is using it to hurt her. It almost feel like they enjoy seeing Sarah hurting. Selfish bunch.
Oh, tama na yan Sarah! Last na yan! You've done your best. Even though you did nothing wrong.. They just didn't like your choices. ahahaha! Yang ang hirap sa mga taong who "have your best interest" and "knows best." They dont even acknowledge what your interests are in the first place. Interest and best for them lang and alam nila. Para kang may Stockholm syndrome. Inabuso na, babalik for more pa. Family is more than blood. Family is who's there for you at the best and worst times. Eh yung best day mo sana (wedding) ginawa nilang worst. Yuck, what kind of family is that..
9:26 AM Some truths are bitter talaga.. Sarah an reconcile but must set hard boundaries this time para hindi na sya abusuhin. Contrary to popular belief in the pelepens, parents are not always right. They should not act like gods.
9:26 AM Some truths are bitter talaga.. Sarah can reconcile but must set hard boundaries this time para hindi na sya abusuhin. Yes, she was/is being abused. Contrary to popular belief in the pelepens, parents are not always right. Lets not treat our kids like second class citizens.
I hope this is the last time na hihingi ng tawad or magpapakumbaba si Sarah sa parents niya. You've done your part. Lalo mo lang papalakihin ego nila. Move forward and enjoy your life with your hubby.
I know right? When are the parents going to apologize to her for destroying her wedding and making her cry during one of her most important days. How cruel for a parent to do.
THE BEST HEALER IS TIME, and sana lang some people would avoid saying bad words about Sarah G.'s parents kasi si Sarah nga never nagsalita ng di maganda sa parents niya after everything that's happened out of respect. With Sarah G.'s good heart, I'm sure God will make a way and magiging okay din ang lahat.
I applaud Sarah for doing this. Baka nawalan na ng means to express how she feels. Alam nya na may negative perspective ang tao and her she swallowed her pride to write publicly. Para sa hindi pa nakapag mahal ng wagas at tunay hindi maiintindihan si Sarah. Para magawa nyo to I see only the good side. She has an unconditional love for her parents and siblings and that’s worth everything in this world. Kahit masaya sya sa asawa at family ni Matteo meron pa din kulang talaga hindi yan matatakpan ng kahit ano pa mang bagay. Wag nyo na sya pilitin maging masaya 100% kasi hindi talaga pag wagas na pagmamahal sa pamilya. May God bind them together in love. Love is the greatest of all anyways.
Nakatapos lahat ang mga kapatid niya at siya ang naiwan... kandakuba sa pagtatrabaho ... dapat naman tingnan rin nila,ang nagawa ni Sarah sa kanila. Kahit man lang yung mga kapatid niya. Pinagkaisahan siya.
Sa mga bashers ni Matteo, let's appreciate the fact he took her away from her toxic family and gave her a comfortable life. She can perform when she wants to not because she has to and basically just have a normal life.
True. May there be more Matteos in the world. He is being a role model to Sarah in terms of having individuality. He is pursuing his own goals an achieving all of them. From being a racer to military. Si Sarah kasi whatever she does is all in the service of her family. Not because bet nya in the first place or kahit for no reason matry lang. Sobrang kawawang bata, kahit magkaeded lang kami. Parang she's so deprived of life experiences.
Naalala nyo yung balita na hndi pinapasok si sarah sa bahay nila, na ultimo yung guard nya maiyak iyak sa awa pero kasi wala naman sila mgagawa. Yung 2 dogs nya hndi binigay, pti personal gamit nya hndi pinakuha. Alam ng popsters yan, kaya inside joke nga na ung damit ni sarah paulit ulit lang kasi bago pa sila mamili sa Uniqlo ulit kasi 1 lang sapatos na nadala nya. Imagine yhng dogs nya na hndi alam bakit hndi na umuwe furrmom nila. Nkaka awang bata tlga, lahat ng kapatid nakapag tapos nakapag aral Paris at Japan. Sya tong hndi nakapag tapos, highschool lang natapos kaka trabaho, then ngayon hndianlang mabigyan ng kapatawaran Sobra na kyonv magulang nya. Ultimo mga kamag anak at pinsan nya sa Tiu side awang awa sa knila ni Matteo. Mga Tiu lang tumanggap sa knila pag family gatherings.
hina yata ng views ng kakarelease na music video nya relate sa buhay nya eh, sa music video nakapang conservative na suot then pagpasok don sa pinto nagsasasayaw na naka sexyng damit which is ayaw ni mommy d kaya nag apologize nah.
Pareho kami ng mga commenters sa FP. Feeling ko rin walang ginawang masama si Sarah. But salute to her for being humble and able to apologize sa parents nya. I hope and pray for your happiness. Relate ako sayo kaya push mo yan Sarah G.
Aww.. not a fan of her music as I have my preference. But I am fan of her as person. A true Christian (by heart) knows how to honor their parents. Lahat tayo hinde perpekto, just like our parents, but for those who chooses to live in love and spirit. God rewards us with peace na hinding hinde mabibili at mananakaw. Hinde na ito tungkol sa sarili nya, tungkol na ito sa love na narereceive nya. She deserves all the blessings she has. I can feel the sincerity from her post, and nararamdaman ko na magkakaroon na sila ng reconciliation through God's Grace. I-claim na nateng lahat.. :)
Good thing na she married into a loving family. Maranasan man lang nya mahalin without sacrificing everything about herself. Si Sarah yung tao na kailangan udyukan ng nasa paligid nya na maging pusong bato para lang tigilan na sya ng nanay nya.
Bait mo Sarah, but sana last na toh ha? Ikaw na nga itong nagbigay sa kanila ng marangyang buhay eh ikaw pa tong may ‘mali’ dahil sa you followed your heart and got married to a great man at the right age. Iba rin talaga ang parents mo. Sabagay, ganyan talaga pag feeling ila nawalan ng panhkabuhayan showcase. Nakakaloka lang. Yung ganito Pinoy trait na kahit mali ang mga magulang, magulang pa rin ang medyo ayaw ko. Nagkakamali naman lahat, ke magulang or anak. Sana lang marunong din umamin ang mga magulang sa mga anak na nagkamali sila. Di naman tama palagi ang magulang, this is coming from me as a mom myself.
Sarah is broken. She needs many years of therapy to heal. Her parents are abusers and everyone just watched because all had something to gain. Matteo was the only one who never stopped fighting for her.
awww hugs sarah. i can feel she is going thru something. she longs for understanding and her family. my daughter's friend is also ganyan. i can see the sadness in her eyes. malayo ang loob ng parents niya sa kanya - them who are supposed to be the very first ones who should make her feel loved and understood. so i tell her she is always welcome sa bahay namin, we make her feel she has a family. ang ikli ng buhay, ganyan sila sa sariling anak.
Ang nangyare Kay Sarah ay parang Kay Heart din. Nagasawa ng walang basbas ng parents..never magiging happy. Baka soon maging OK ang lahat. Ingatan na lang Nila ang buhay magasawa nila. Tutal naman nakapamili na siya. Wag lang umabot sa point na Pati career ay mawala.#sad
1:06 no, sarah's and heart's case ay not similar dhil heart has her freedom while Sarah's not. Heart is not a breadwinner since her family is a rich clan and heart has a control on her showbiz money kaya nga nabibili nya ang kikay items at her teenage years. While sarah ay ung pamilya muna nya ang magkakaroon before her dhil sya ang breadwinner nila.
In a way, medyo pareho but not really. Kay Heart kasi mayaman a ng pamilya kaya picky pagdating sa mapapangasawa nya, kumbaga sa freedom medyo may problema c Heart. Kay Sarah nman ay greed on money talaga thru and thru kaya may problema c Sarah sa freedom about every aspect sa life nya. Bottomline: parehong may cortrol freak na parents. 😬
This is another or similar case kay Britney n kung saan cash cow and slave lng ng family ni Britney sya. I just hope n iabandon n lng ni Sarah ang pamilya dhil enough is enough. Buong buhay and lahat nang meron sya ay binigay nya sa knila. Lahat nang luho sinuportahan nya. Pero si Sarah ay hndi nya makuha kung ano dpat s knya. May kanya knyang buhay and even family ang kanyang kapatid, maraming negosyo naipundar ni sarah for them pero sya parin ang masama sa knilang mga mata. Worse, ung mga religious people around them consenting her family's toxic treatment to Sarah. Kesho "follow you parents", etc. Nakakabaliw din ang ganto kasi u cant be happy and free. Buti n lng nndyan si Matteo to support her.
Sana magkababy na si Sarah at Mateo para maging busy si Sarah sa bagets tapos mejo deadma na pinanggalingang family na napaka-ungrateful.
Ilang kapatid na ba ang pinatapos ni Sarah sa pagaaral? Totoo naman na ginapang ng magulang nya para magtagumpay pero wala naman lahat ng yan kung hindi din sya talented and graceful on her own. At lagi din naman syang nagpapasalamat sa lahat.
Sarah was over 30 when she got married? Kelan ba gusto ng magulang? 40+? Parang hindi pa sapat na halos wala din syang childhood kasi nagtatrabaho sya para sa pamilya.
Sarah has always been humble and conservative but never pabebe. She's a good role model. Pwedeng pwede sya umalis sa kanila given her stature pero hindi nya ginawa basta, nagpakasal sila nang maayos.
Lihim? Oo kasi nakikialam yung gahaman na nanay. Member sila ng church group, nagpatulong pa ang couple sa members ng church para mabuksan ang isip at puso ng nanay nya na may sarili din syang buhay at nasa tamang edad na. Ilang years na sila ni Mateo nagpapaalam, puro pagbabanta lang natanggap nila. Kaya napilitan ilihim.
Grabe Mami Divine, emotional blackmailing yang ginagawa mo sa anak mo. Sana matauhan si Sarah, magkaanak sila ni Mateo, piliin nyang hindi ipakilala sayo. Tignan natin, tumanda kang paurong.
Napaka ganda ng mensahe ni Sarah sa parents nya and I am sure that was written after fervently praying for it. Don't egg her pls! She loves her parents and she won't find solace in knowing na watak watak silang pamilya. She's forgiven them and now, she's seeking for theirs... as a fan of Sarah, ito ung hinihintay ko dati pa instead of seemingly haughty behavior na hindi naman pala. She is hurting and now, she's ready to humble herself not because she was wrong, but because that is the right thing to do as a daughter and as a Christian. I am proud of you Sarah for being the daughter others won't ever be kasi puno sila ng pride at galit.
Sarah should forgive and love herself first, let time takes its course. Huwag ipilit kung ayaw nila..there’s always time for everything under the heavens.
What a toxic family. Sarah last na yan pls. You have honored your parents all your life and still also so humble to ask for their forgiveness. Pero its time to realize you have done your part. Do not feel guilty, be happy with Matteo and his family.
This is abuse masked as love. You can tell by the way guilt was used to make her feel wrong. Like she can’t do right unless her parents says so. Not even for her own happiness. She cannot make her own choices and when she did, her mother tried to destroy her relationship by crashing her wedding instead of supporting her during one of her most precious moments in life. Too bad it didn’t work. Thank you Matteo for fighting for her and freeing her from the prison cell she was in called “home”.
Feeling ko naman etong paghingi nya ng forgiveness ang way nya ng paglet go and just let God. Parang closure na din na ginawa nya na lahat to reach out, last straw na ito, tapos tama na. She will move on with her life with or without them.
More blessing and happiness for this beautiful soul.
ReplyDeleteWhile waiting for your parents forgiveness focus on building a happy life with your husband.
Dont dwell on sadness.
Always seek happiness.
There’s no such things as “a happy life”
DeleteOnly life with a purpose and a content life.. pag meron ka ng dalawa kahit anong unos ang dumating mahahandle mo ng maayos..
Hay naku Sara, sana tayo na lang ang mgkapamilya. My family would never use and abuse u!
DeleteSarah did nothing wrong to them. Let the parents sit on their pride chicken till it's moldy.
DeleteSarah, at this point you just have to let it be. You did NOTHING wrong. It’s unfortunate you have these type of parents and siblings. They are toxic! Sad to grow up in a narcissistic environment aka your mother. Live your life Sarah!
DeleteMaybe Sarah just misses her toxic family. Anyway, I hope Matteo treats her well. Otherwise it's just transferring one jail cell to another. And I hope they have kids soon.
DeleteYou did the right thing for asking forgiveness to your parents for what you think you disobey them or losing their trust from you.You are a good daughter you gave your family the best life and I think you deserve to have a life and be happy too.Your parents should realize by now that you are in a stage in life where you can live and decide for your own.Don’t be too hard to yourself I believe in God’s perfect timing you and your family will have a beautiful relationship again.God bless!
DeleteMas sincere un apology kung di sinabay sa launch ng bagong kanta LOLS
DeleteAnong problema ni 9:53 PM. Kung wala sa iyo ang happy life, sa iba meron. Being contented can be considered happy. Huwag kang mamaru sa feelings ng iba. I wish you a happy life.
DeleteYour parents and family are cruel. They have been blessed with a beautiful person like you but dont appreciate or have no gratitude for having you as their family. I feel sorry for them they cant continue to experience your pure and sincere soul and deep love for them because they have chosen to reject it.
DeleteWe love you sarah💕
DeleteWe love you, Sarah! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
ReplyDeleteI love sarah and i am a fan of her ha. Pero bakit today talaga niya pinost yung letter, sabay ng release ng music video niya ng "dati dati". At kahapon din nirelease yung 2nd single niya
DeleteSame thoughts 12:12...wala kasing init yung pa-comeback
DeleteBecause dati dati is about her family
Delete12:12 talaga?!?! Lol lagpas isang dekada na Yan sa industry. Alam na ang galawan para mapagusapan. Kasuka ah
Deletepromo kasi wala na syang ingay
DeleteDumaan na pandemic lahat hinde sila naguusap ng family niya? Grabe natiis niya din. Medyo masakit din yun on her part pero what i like about Sara sobrang bait niya parin. Maparaya parin siya na anak.
ReplyDeleteWow lam mo agad natiis? Malay mo naman nag attempt pala pero hindi siya pimagbibigyan. Najudged agad na natiis hindi naman natin sya kasama araw2
Deletesobrang bait kasi ni sarah kaya sya naaabuso. tignan mo wala naman syang kasalanan pero sya pa itong nagssorry. kawawa naman sya....
DeleteNatiis ng nanay niya kamo. Umabot na sa public apology ngayon si Sarah maski walang kasalanan
DeleteAbuso ng magulang? Kung naabuso yan hindi yan lalaking matino at succesful, tumanda sya sa piling ng magulang nya ilang taon lang ba nya nakasama ang bagong pamilya ng asawa nya, magulang parin ang dapat bigyan ng halaga kasi maiksi ang buhay wala sya ngayon kung hindi sa pag alaga nila
Deletesabi nyo nga mabait si sara,so maganda pagpapalaki sa kanya ng magulang nya so dapat pinupuri nyo magulang nya
Delete4:22 am that’s toxic naman. Sarah was never ungrateful. Siguro nga mali na ilihim nya yun decision to get married pero may dahilan. Bilang Pilipino I seen Sarah grow and hindi normal yun pagiging over protected nila. Sometimes I feel may emotional and financial abuse na nangyari. It just Sarah hold a strong faith and feels she was fully dependent sa family niya.
Delete422 abuso tlaga yan. Fyi, may ibat ibang uri ng abuso. Kaloka sa pagkaignorante. 😂 In Sara‘s case, abuso sa pera at yaman nya. Hello, feeling pag aari ng magulang nya c Sarah. Hindi pa ba kuntento ang pamilya ni Sarah sa yaman na naibigay nya. Nakapag aral ang mga kapatid, mansion ang bahay nila at wala na silang alalahanin tungkol sa pera. Lumaki pa yang suwail c Sarah, kaso at kalaboso yang pamilya nya. Lol
DeleteHayyyy..Bakit ba ang hirap tanggapin ng magulang ang desisyon ng anak? Hindi na man sa naging masamang anak si Sarah.. Yun ngang iba jan adik sa alak, droga and all pero pinapatawad at tinatanggap ng magulang. Im really sad for Sarah
ReplyDeletebuong buhay ni sarah hawak sya sa leeg ng pamilya nya.. cash cow baga. di nila matanggap na aalis na sya kahit andami na nyang naiambag sa buhay nila. selfish lang
DeleteNaawa nga ako sa mga taong sobrang talented kasi naabuso din ng pamilya yan. Mataas ang expectations Like Charice diba. Love ko sila both Sarah and Charice
DeleteMaka cash cow ka naman, nasa magulang ba ang pera nya nasa kaniya dba at ang pamilya nya bongga ba simple lang din naman so hindi nila inubos ang ipon at pinag trabahuhan nya
Deleteang tagal ko nagfangirl kay sarah,she's my first love,,i never imagined na ganito ang kahihinatnan ng personal life nya,,kala ko mala dingdong marian ang wedding nila knowing how big star she is...tapos nagka skandalo pa sa kasal nya..umabot pa sa tulfo,,pagiging tahimik nya sa abs cbn shutdown at election..of all the controversies na kinasangkutan nya,,yung sa parents nya ang pinaka nahurt ako for her...sana magkaayos na sila..mahal nya ang parents nya..
ReplyDeletethough tumigil na ko sa pagfangirl sa kanya..i still wish her the best
957 wala po syang responsibilidad to speak about abs shutdown dhil empleyado or contractual lng din sya doon (taga Viva sya). Buti sana kung exec sya or someone in higher position eh hndi nman. Pati not all exec ay nagsalita kahit sila ang mas dapat magsalita noh.
DeleteOther than that, i do agree with u and i also feel sad n may pagkatragic ang personal life nya despite all the good things she done for her family. Kayod kalabaw and ginagatasan sya nang sobra tpos sya prin ang masama s knilang mga mata. Nakakahurt tlga
She spoke up about the abs shutdown. Not a fan of her pero lets be fair
DeleteSiguro ang mali nya yong di invited or di sinabi sa magulang nya yong wedding nya kc sobrang sakit sa magulang yun, Pero maiintindihan mo din nman si Sara kc ayaw pa ng magulang na magpakasal sya, nasa tamang edad nman na sya.
DeleteKung sekreto na silang dalawa lang ni Mateo nagpakasal, mas maiintindihan Pero nandon parents ni Mateo atbp. sa wedding minus Sara's side..
Baka nman may napansin na ugali ni mateo yong mama ni Sara kaya ayaw nya sa kanya.
Yong tungkol sa pera di nman kasakiman yun, in the end kay Sara din nman yan, kc iginapang, sobrang hirap dinaanan nila ng magulang nya lalo ng nanay nya lalo yong sa pag umpisa ni Sara sa pagiging singer, ganon din si Sara kaya sobra sobra mag ingat ng nanay nya.
In the end its Sara's decision that matters.
1:59 mukha naman syang matinong tao who would’ve done anything para magpakasal ng maayos. I doubt if she did not invite her parents dahil ayaw lang nya. Baka naka ilang attempt na to do it the right way at napilitan na lang to turn to an extreme option.
DeleteSarah, some things you just have to accept na its not up to you to fix when you’ve done all you can.
If it had gotten to this point of her needing to publish something online, does it mean her parents are really not interested in fixing family matters in private? Kung ganun nga, I don’t know what it will take for them to come to terms with the fact that their daughter, who was their sole provider all these years, is a grown woman who can decide for herself and should be able to live her life the way she pleases. Hindi naman pariwara si Sarah. She was never reckless, always careful in her decisions. To Sarah, let go and let God. You’ve done your part. Live your life guilt-free. To her parents, particularly her mom, sana naman you have the decency to stop making your daughter feel bad for living her life. Stop gaslighting your daughter! She’s not your property.
ReplyDeleteI agree. Sara is usually a private person, but she published her feelings online. Her parents do not want to communicate with her.
DeleteIbang level din pamilya nya no?!
DeleteThis comment deserves an applause! 100% agree with what you said!
DeleteTama yung bf ko before na yung nanay daw niya ang magiging thorn sa buhay nya. What kind of parents are these people????
Deleteganun sila kawalang utang na loob kay sarah. kawawa naman si sarah. buti hindi ganyan kaselfish mga parents ko
DeleteIf she has to beg for forgiveness baka may something wrong din talaga syang ginawa
DeleteWhen Sarah has her own kids she will be the most wonderful mom, she will have a blessed family. The pain of not being ok with her own family hopefully will slowly diminish.
Delete12:27 - I agree. She will be the most wonderful mom, indeed. Sa tingin ko di niya ipadadama yung pagdadamot ng kaligayahan sa anak niya.
DeleteBaka eto na ang pag let go and let God ni sarah.
DeleteThey probably told her that God punished her for disobeying her parents- hence the cold reception on her comeback
DeleteKung maging nanay sya saka nya maintindihan ang importansya ng pamilya nya
DeleteIdinaan nya sa social media paghingi ng apology sa magulang nya, nagkaron sya ng realization na may nagawa syang mali sa parents nya.
DeleteDinisrespect nya sila, sino ba ang nandon para sa kanya nong struggling pa lang sya its her parents.
Kung di sya sikat malamang di sya papansinin ni mateo.
Family pa rin nya maaalala nya if may problema sya, para sa career din kung bat ginawa nya yan.
Not all ay agree sa ginawa nya sa parents nya nong nagpakasal sya.
I hope maging okay na sila ng parents nya.
Her family should set her free. Buong buhay ni Sarah ay naging cash cow lng nila sya. More blessing for Sarah
ReplyDelete10:06 she’s free! Nagpakasal na nga sya db! Sya lang ang nagungkat sa nakaraan
Delete3:14 malaya dhil tumakas sya but it doesnt mean that her family want her to be free. Tignan mo nga at mukha kontrolado parin nang parents nya ang career nya. Dba nga momanager ni sarah ang nanay nya?
Delete3:14 because she wants to have peace and reconciliate with her family.
DeleteUtang na loob sa pamilya ni sarah, tanggapin niyo na ang pagre-reach out niya. Mahiya naman kayo sa kinawawa niyo ng matagal na panahon. Nung may nakita na syang personal na kaligayahan niya, ayaw niyo ng suportahan?!? Kaloka
ReplyDeletesa totoo lang minsan naisip ko na okay narin yang di sila nagkikibuan. toxic ang family nya, di man lang sya pinatawad all these years. e si sarah nga ang dahilan kung bakit ang rangya ng buhay nya. kung ako kay sarah let go narin ako
Delete12:17 -Tama. Mas ok na na ganito. Maigi na yan kanya kanya at di na sya pinapakelaman. She's in good hands anyway
DeleteSarah, life is short. We shall move forward. You deserve happiness.
ReplyDeleteagree. pinakawalan ka na sa hawla, wag ka na bumalik bb girl
DeleteNot your fault bb
ReplyDeleteSarah, sometimes you need to be tough, to be strong. Kaya ka natitiis ng pamilya mo is because they know how soft you are. Tama na ang pagpapakumbaba mo. Tao lang tayo. The Lord will understand. Minsan hindi din naman masamang lumaban, lalo na alam mo na mas makakabuti sayo yun. You have been a very very god daughter. What more can your family ask for?
ReplyDeleteBaliktad. Si Sarah ang nang spoil ng husto sa mga magulang at kapatid niya. Kinasal sa maayos na tao at pamilya pero masama loob nila.
ReplyDeleteAt abroad pa niya pina aral Ate niya..naalala ko nag laro sa deal or no deal si SG natalo ata kitang-kita yung pagsisi ng younger brother niya sa kanya para bang buong pamilya lng masusunod pwera lang kay SG.
Deletejusku natural na reaction ng bata pag natalo binigyan nyo ng masamang kahulugan
DeleteReally? The nerve of the family!
DeleteAll in God’s perfect time!! Press on !! God be with you Sarah and Matteo!!
ReplyDeleteNapaka palad ni Sarah dahil napunta sa maayos na pamilya at mabuting tao ang napangasawa. Tapos eto ang pamilya niya, di tanggap. Masama ang loob. Mapagmalaki. Hindi nagpapatawad.
ReplyDeleteHaba! Meron bang patungkol Kay Matteo?
ReplyDelete10:20 anong point mo?
DeleteOMG girl nagbabasa kaba
Delete10:20 wow, sana makapunta ka pa sa langit becuz it seems that you will not go there.
DeleteBakit nga walang assurance na wag ng magworry ang pamilya nya dahil nasa maayos naman syang kalagayan?
DeleteParang hirap sya makabalik sa career nya dahil di sila ok ng parents nya. Kaya she decided na mag apologize muna. Mema lang ako. 🤣
ReplyDelete10:20 may point ka!
Deleteeh choice nmn nya magpahinga, saka choice din nya wag lumabas ng live sa asap, sa halip pre taped video performance lng.
DeleteTama ka naman 10:20 pm
Deletetama ka 1020pm
DeleteShe deserves to flourish kasi nakaalis siya sa abuse ng pamilya nya!
DeleteEnough of the toxicity. Let go and move on. God knows your heart, Sarah. God bless.
ReplyDeleteA big salute to Matteo for standing up for Sarah. Di rin biro pinagdaanan niya to win Sarah's heart. He could've chosen someone who's maybe better. Yung matatanggap siya bilang in-law. After all, he comes from a decent and loving family.
ReplyDeleteMaganda din na nag papakumbaba kung hindi matanggap nila malinis naman ang kunsensya mo.
ReplyDeleteSomeday your parents will realize that they made a mistake. Regine Velasquez was also the breadwinner before but when she got married, her parents permitted her.
ReplyDeleteMy gosh. Napaka buting anak nga ni sarah. Lahat ng kapatid nakatapos. Ginapang nya para sa magandang buhay nla. This is a toxic filipino culture. Ano ba nmn na ibigay nyo na kay sarah and peace, love, at happiness na nahanap nya ke matteo at family. Disente nmn pamilya nla at mahal nila ang anak nla. Sarah, youve done a lot for them at sobrang nagpakumbaba ka na. Love your life and you deserve the life you have right now. Sobrang hurt ako for her. Popster to!
ReplyDeleteIt's been more than 2 years pero wala pa ding acceptance on her family's part? Gaano kaya kalaki or kalalim ang kasalanan ni Sarah sa kanila?
ReplyDeleteDi daw nagpaalam nung ikasal, nakakapagtravel naman na sila ni Matteo ng solo nung di pa kasal so ibig sabihin kahit papano di naman na sya napipigilan
DeleteIt's too long. What is the reason for such drama? Daming time.
ReplyDeleteAno kaya nagtrigger sa post nyang to?
ReplyDeleteShe has nothing to apologize 🙅
ReplyDeleteShe shouldn’t allow herself to continuously be subjected to emotional blackmail.
True. Mga tuso ang parents nya
DeleteSobrang toxic din kasi ng nanay ni Sarah. Lahat na lang kinocontrol sa buhay nya. Sino di mauumay dun?
ReplyDeleteSus! Tagal mo tiniis ang parents mo. Ano ba pino promote mo ngayon at bigla ka may paandar? Real talk lang.
ReplyDeleteSure ka na tiniis niya parents niya. Madaming beses siya nag reach out yung parents ang ayaw magpakumbaba.
Delete10:51 real talk din . Parang ang itim ng budhi mo para lagyan ng malice ang sulat ni Sarah na wala namang mali.
DeleteSi Sarah pa ngayon may kasalanan? Tell that to her parents
DeleteGrabe sobrang tigas naman ng puso ng parents nya at up to now di parin sila ok
ReplyDeleteHow about nga kapatid nya? Are they also ok?
may magulang pa rin talaga na di kayang tanggapin ang kaligayahan ng anak. nakakalungkot.
ReplyDeleteNot surprised na kaya siya tiisin ng Mom nya. Pero yung Dad nya? Parang dun ako di makapaniwala. And even her siblings, sila dapat nakakaintindi kay Sarah kasi alam nila pinagdaanan mung tao para itaguyod pamilya nila.
ReplyDeleteSad lang very religious ng parents nya na malamang dun din nila nakuha ang mindset na utang na loob ng anak sa magulang lahat, magpakumbaba lagi sa magulang or else hindi pagpapalain etc keme keme in short toxic boomer
ReplyDeletetoxic din yung nagpapakareligious kuno pero di mapatawad ang anak sa kasalanang di naman mabigat (heller, magpapakasal lang?). e si Lord nga marunong magpatawad
Delete12:22 totoo yung sinabi mong ang Dyos nga marunong magpatawad which is nasa teaching din ng Christians pero itong mudrakembs ni Sarah G di yan masunod
DeleteGrabe ambait talaga ni Sarah napahumble. Bakit may mga magulang na kayang tikisin ang anak? Mabuting anak pa yan ha. Binigyan na sila ni Sarah ng magandang buhay. Kahit nasa tugatog ng tagumpay she remained simple and living simple life. Hindi maarte. Nagtatrabaho para mabigyan ng kaginhawaan mga magulang at mga kapatid. Mommy Divine jusko anong klaseng ina kayo? Masaya naman na si Sarah sana maging masaya din kayo sa kanya.
ReplyDeletei caught myself into tears😭 despite everything you remain calm Sarah! More Blessing to you and Matteo
ReplyDeleteSarah 🤍😭
ReplyDeleteWe love you Sarah! ❤
ReplyDeleteI really don't understand bakit sya pa ang kailangan mag sorry. Happiness naman nya ang sinunod nya.
ReplyDeleteNapaka walang utang na loob naman kung ganon specially mga kapatid niya na sarap buhay at nakapagtapos pa sa ibang bansa
ReplyDeleteGrabe, and lalaki ng mga ego ng parents nito. Sobrang mapride. Ginamit naman nila si Sarah for their own gain. Ginawang cash cow. Tapos hindi man lang masuportahan on the one thing their daughter seemed to feel so strongly for, her relationship with Matteo.
ReplyDeleteSabi nila ang anak matitiis ang magulang pero ang magulang di matitiis ang anak. Pero sa case ng parents ni Sarah ibang iba. Nadudurog ang puso ko para sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteThis is true! Yung nanay ko ilang years na kaming di naguusap, last na paguusap namin nung kinasal ako. Humingi ako ng sorry sa kanya sa kung ano mang nagawa ko umo-oo sya pero kinabukasan di na naman nya ko pinansin. It’s been two years, kala ko kakausapin nya ko kapag nagkaapo sya sa akin, pati yung apo nya di nya pinapansin. Skl.
Delete2:23 i feel u. Same with both my parents. May mga ganun pala talaga. Over the years natutunan ko na iaccept na may mga bagay na wala talaga tayo control. pinagppray ko nalang happiness and good health nila.
Delete2:23am aww I hope you don’t feel abandoned. I feel your pain. We can’t force people to see our side. As long as you have your kid, bahala na everything else.
DeleteYour story is like mine 2:23 except that it has been 17 yrs na. Yes, tumagal ng ganun because my mom chose to let pride and scorn rule her heart. Mismong mga apo niya na kids ko, effort lagi to greet her on her birthday pero ni hindi niya kinakausap. Hindi ko tinuruan mga anak ko to hate back but rather dagdagan na lang yung patience. I'm running out of that myself. There was a time na I even had a nervous breakdown dahil sa toxicity niya. It was a psychiatrist who counseled me that I owe her no apologies, that I should go on with my life, with or without her approval or forgiveness for whatever slight she thinks I may have done. Simple lang galit niya. Siniraan ako ng isang sis-in-law na after daw ako sa mana ng magulang ko. A very damning accusation na unfortunately, my mom believed dahil nabilog ulo niya sa sobrang kasipsipan ng hipag kong bruha. Its very true na may mga magulang talagang natitiis mga anak nila.
Delete2:23 nagawa mo na parte mo. Nagpakumbaba ka at humingi ng tawad. Ipagpasa Dios mo nalang yang nanay mo. Iba iba kasi talaga ang tao. Merong nagtatanim ng galit, meron namang hindi. Malas mo lang at plantita nanay mo, mahilig magtanim ng sama ng loob. Pero live your life nalang. In a happy and healthy way. skl lang din :)
DeleteSarah has been such a good daughter. Lahat ng luho nila pinagtrabahuhan nya para maibigay. She doesnt deserve this! Her parents are so hateful! Yuck!
ReplyDeletePati na rin mga kapatid na pina aral nya, di sya binabati?! Que barbaridad na familia! Dapat sila ang humingi ng tawad kay Sarah.
DeleteSana kung magmamatigas sila kay Sarah ibalik nila yung lahat ng naibigay ni Sarah para sa kanila at bumalik sila sa dating bahay nila sa Manila. I mean ang lakas ng loob nagmatigas while enjoying everything na galing sa pagod ni Sarah 🙄
DeleteMalamang hawak din sa leeg ng nanay nila yun mga kapatid nya kaya wala din sila magawa kundi sumunod.
DeleteSobrang bait na ni Sarah at maayos naman siya tapos sobrang successful. Nag provide sa kanila. Sobra sobra pa. Off ako kay Mateo pero mukhang mahal naman niya si Sarah at nasa maayos na family so ano kaya ang problem nitong magulang niya. Ideal daughter na si Sarah. Maraming magulang ang gustong ganyang anak. Ano kayang klaseng magulang meron siya...
ReplyDeleteWhy is Sarah all of a sudden doing this long letter of apology, thanks and proclaiming her faith? She has been ultra-quiet ever since her wedding. Hope her family can hear this plaintive cry from Sarah and respond well
ReplyDeleteMay bagong kanta kasi
DeleteToday ang release ng song nya ata e
DeleteI see kaya pala ginagamit na naman niya ang f issues niya.
DeleteTell me you have toxic parents/family without telling me they are toxic…
ReplyDeleteKorek. Some people don’t even realize that they’ve been subjected to emotional abuse and gaslighting by their very own parents.
DeleteYou don’t need to apologize for your happiness. You have done your part as a good daughter more than enough Sarah. Pray to God to forgive your family and We pray to God to bless you even more.
ReplyDeleteMay God forgive your greedy parents
ReplyDeleteI really don't see the sincerity in anything that's too personal yet publicized.
ReplyDeleteYes you are right.
DeleteSo true
DeleteSana nabasa mo yung opening part ng letter nya para naintindihan mo kung bakit me open letter
DeleteSarah tried to reach out sa parents at mga kapatid nya but the door was closed. In short, ignored pa rin sya. Last straw na to kaya nag reach out na siya thru social media….. pero no effect pa rin. Kawawang Sarah…. Greedy and selfish ang family nya.
DeleteHi Sarah. It’s true we don’t know the whole story. However, I believe there have been enough information out there to warrant an opinion that you have been and you still are in an abusive relationship with your parents. It’s ok to forgive them for your own mental and spiritual health but please know that situation is really toxic. It’s really important to recognize that, and that you should never allow that to continue. I beg your spiritual leader(s) to not guilt trip you to think otherwise, in fact, they should help protect you from this continuing abuse (yes, your parents ghosting you is a form of mental abuse). Also, research on stockholm syndrome among other things. God heal you and protect you.
ReplyDeleteThen she should just leave them alone then. She already “escaped” so hindi na rin kawalan ang family nya according to you and her fans. But her doing this just opened up comments about how greedy her parents are, something she has allowed ever since naman. Sinabi na rin naman ng idol mo napakadali manghusga at magbigay ng opinyon sa buhay ng iba.
Delete12:14 very very well said!!! Most of the time these “spiritual/religious” advisers ang number one to subject you to further abuse in the name of being “selfless” and being a Christian child. Toxic is toxic and that’s her family. Periodtttt
DeleteAren't they greedy, 1:16? If they are not (especially the mom), they would not have treated Sarah the way they did. Sa ibang pamilya pag breadwinner ka ikaw ang nasusunod sa gusto mo. Pero sa case ni Sarah she was lije a prisoner for so many years. Nagpakumbaba na nga yung tao nanisi ka pa.
Deleteagree 1:16am,yes mali ginawa kay Sarah at matanda na siya,pero di naman nagpapainterview parents or family niya kaya sa ginagawa niya mas nabubuhay ulit issue.
DeleteThis just proves to us that she is indeed a good daughter, trying to reach out to her family in whatever way she can however they ignore her.
ReplyDeleteMy heart truly breaks for her. Such a good human being who I feel is endlessly manipulated by her mom 😪
ReplyDeleteIm glad n hndi pa naaabot ni Sarah amg naranasan ni Britney and still wishing na hndi mangyari ang nangyari kay britney kay sarah. Grabe ang pamilya niya sa knya
ReplyDeleteOk ka lang magkaibang magkaiba naman situation nila. Brit was a danger to herself and her sons and her current mental health at that time made her incapable of making decisions.
DeleteNakakaiyak. She been “always the good daughter”. She provided at binigay niya lahat ng kailangan nila. I felt sorry for her na yun isang desisyon di ba nila ipaubaya sa kanya. Matanda na siya, may ipon naman at maayos pamilya ng lalaki and even Matteo. I hope everything will heal in time. But mostly is for Sarah to forgive herself and find inner peace. Don’t feel guilty na Sarah.
ReplyDeleteIf they can't forgive then they should return all her money, leave the house that she built for them and dont use any cars belonging to her.
ReplyDeleteNaiyak ako dito. Napaka bait na tao ni Sara na kahit wala syang kasalanan sya pa ang nag sorry. God Bless You More Princess Sara!!!!
ReplyDeleteAng toxic ng family ni Sarah lalo parents nya, naging mabuti at ulirang anak naman siya. Hindi naman pwede hanggang sa dulo sila magdecide for her. Its great if we give back to our parents, but not because its our responsibility. Di naman natin hiningi na ipanganak sa mundo.
ReplyDeletePakatatag ka lang Sarah. Stay strong and God bless. Maaayos din ang lahat.
ReplyDeleteSarah and I are the same age, and I adore her since manalo sya nung 14 palang din sya iirc. She’s always been a good role model to everyone, nakakalungkot lang na di sya nakikita ng ganun ng parents nya, it feels like all they see in her is their investments or money maker ika nga. And bakit pati mga kapatid nya cannot do anything or at least also show support to sarah if they really consider her as their sibling. :(
ReplyDeleteI feel Sarah's loneliness. Idk about others who can just cut ties sa toxic nilang family but I myself could not do that. My toxic trait would still be hopeful for reconciliation.
ReplyDeleteI hope that Sarah feels she has done her part. And if her family is still unforgiving, I hope she's able to accept it and move on. Her family knows she misses them and is using it to hurt her. It almost feel like they enjoy seeing Sarah hurting. Selfish bunch.
ReplyDeleteEmotional blackmail ginagawa nila sa kanya. Sana may mag point out nito kay Sarah.
DeleteOh, tama na yan Sarah! Last na yan! You've done your best. Even though you did nothing wrong.. They just didn't like your choices. ahahaha! Yang ang hirap sa mga taong who "have your best interest" and "knows best." They dont even acknowledge what your interests are in the first place. Interest and best for them lang and alam nila. Para kang may Stockholm syndrome. Inabuso na, babalik for more pa. Family is more than blood. Family is who's there for you at the best and worst times. Eh yung best day mo sana (wedding) ginawa nilang worst. Yuck, what kind of family is that..
ReplyDeleteSarah had a very close bond with her family. I can't blame her to keep trying.
DeleteWhat do you know about them? If Sarah read your comment I'm sure she is not happy on what you said.
DeleteAgree
DeleteIKR. Lalaki pa ulo ni Divine, feeling more righteous. Turo kasi sa atin, humble yourself pero ang mali talaga dito yung magulang niya.
Delete9:26 AM Some truths are bitter talaga.. Sarah an reconcile but must set hard boundaries this time para hindi na sya abusuhin. Contrary to popular belief in the pelepens, parents are not always right. They should not act like gods.
Delete9:26 AM Some truths are bitter talaga.. Sarah can reconcile but must set hard boundaries this time para hindi na sya abusuhin. Yes, she was/is being abused. Contrary to popular belief in the pelepens, parents are not always right. Lets not treat our kids like second class citizens.
DeleteI hope this is the last time na hihingi ng tawad or magpapakumbaba si Sarah sa parents niya. You've done your part. Lalo mo lang papalakihin ego nila. Move forward and enjoy your life with your hubby.
ReplyDeleteI know right? When are the parents going to apologize to her for destroying her wedding and making her cry during one of her most important days. How cruel for a parent to do.
DeleteIsa ba to sa demands ng family niya? Mag public apology siya for getting married at the right age with her long time boyfriend? Lol
ReplyDeleteThey asked the same of Matteo pero wall rin nangyari when he made that public apology. She should have learned from it. So sad for her.
DeleteOo
DeleteKaloka no?? Ayaw pa sya papasukin sa family mansion na sya naman gumastos patayo. San ka pa! Who needs enemies when you have family like hers.
DeleteTHE BEST HEALER IS TIME, and sana lang some people would avoid saying bad words about Sarah G.'s parents kasi si Sarah nga never nagsalita ng di maganda sa parents niya after everything that's happened out of respect. With Sarah G.'s good heart, I'm sure God will make a way and magiging okay din ang lahat.
ReplyDeleteHayyy.. I love you SG. You should hav peace of mind already.
ReplyDeleteSarah G is one good example na pwede maging disente at role model ng mga nasa Showbiz. Humble, mabuting anak at asawa, at world-class talent.
ReplyDeletekaya pala may pa public statement si SG. may new songs pala, good PR move!
ReplyDeleteI applaud Sarah for doing this. Baka nawalan na ng means to express how she feels. Alam nya na may negative perspective ang tao and her she swallowed her pride to write publicly. Para sa hindi pa nakapag mahal ng wagas at tunay hindi maiintindihan si Sarah. Para magawa nyo to I see only the good side. She has an unconditional love for her parents and siblings and that’s worth everything in this world. Kahit masaya sya sa asawa at family ni Matteo meron pa din kulang talaga hindi yan matatakpan ng kahit ano pa mang bagay. Wag nyo na sya pilitin maging masaya 100% kasi hindi talaga pag wagas na pagmamahal sa pamilya. May God bind them together in love. Love is the greatest of all anyways.
ReplyDeleteNakatapos lahat ang mga kapatid niya at siya ang naiwan... kandakuba sa pagtatrabaho ... dapat naman tingnan rin nila,ang nagawa ni Sarah sa kanila. Kahit man lang yung mga kapatid niya. Pinagkaisahan siya.
ReplyDeleteLet it go, remove toxic people in your life kahit na pamilya mo pa sila. Prioritize your mental health dear.
ReplyDeleteI would never betray and abandon my family to pursue my own happiness.
ReplyDeleteMay mali man ang family ni SG, malaki din pagkakamali nya.
ReplyDeletehay nako bat mo nilabas online? naba bash tuloy lalo magulang at kapatid mo. ngayon lalo sila magagalit sayo.
ReplyDeleteSa mga bashers ni Matteo, let's appreciate the fact he took her away from her toxic family and gave her a comfortable life. She can perform when she wants to not because she has to and basically just have a normal life.
ReplyDeleteTrue. May there be more Matteos in the world. He is being a role model to Sarah in terms of having individuality. He is pursuing his own goals an achieving all of them. From being a racer to military. Si Sarah kasi whatever she does is all in the service of her family. Not because bet nya in the first place or kahit for no reason matry lang. Sobrang kawawang bata, kahit magkaeded lang kami. Parang she's so deprived of life experiences.
DeleteNaalala nyo yung balita na hndi pinapasok si sarah sa bahay nila, na ultimo yung guard nya maiyak iyak sa awa pero kasi wala naman sila mgagawa. Yung 2 dogs nya hndi binigay, pti personal gamit nya hndi pinakuha. Alam ng popsters yan, kaya inside joke nga na ung damit ni sarah paulit ulit lang kasi bago pa sila mamili sa Uniqlo ulit kasi 1 lang sapatos na nadala nya. Imagine yhng dogs nya na hndi alam bakit hndi na umuwe furrmom nila.
ReplyDeleteNkaka awang bata tlga, lahat ng kapatid nakapag tapos nakapag aral Paris at Japan. Sya tong hndi nakapag tapos, highschool lang natapos kaka trabaho, then ngayon hndianlang mabigyan ng kapatawaran
Sobra na kyonv magulang nya. Ultimo mga kamag anak at pinsan nya sa Tiu side awang awa sa knila ni Matteo. Mga Tiu lang tumanggap sa knila pag family gatherings.
Grabe naman. Sarah go be happy!
DeleteIf this is true, jusko natawa ako baks na naawa kay Sarah. Grabe yung income yata ni Sarah halos nasa bilyon pesos pero naranasan nya pala to. Kaloka!
DeleteI think apektado na mental health nya dahil dyan sa issue n yan
ReplyDeleteSana mapatawad na sya
hina yata ng views ng kakarelease na music video nya relate sa buhay nya eh, sa music video nakapang conservative na suot then pagpasok don sa pinto nagsasasayaw na naka sexyng damit which is ayaw ni mommy d kaya nag apologize nah.
ReplyDeletePareho kami ng mga commenters sa FP. Feeling ko rin walang ginawang masama si Sarah. But salute to her for being humble and able to apologize sa parents nya. I hope and pray for your happiness. Relate ako sayo kaya push mo yan Sarah G.
ReplyDeleteAww.. not a fan of her music as I have my preference. But I am fan of her as person. A true Christian (by heart) knows how to honor their parents. Lahat tayo hinde perpekto, just like our parents, but for those who chooses to live in love and spirit. God rewards us with peace na hinding hinde mabibili at mananakaw. Hinde na ito tungkol sa sarili nya, tungkol na ito sa love na narereceive nya. She deserves all the blessings she has. I can feel the sincerity from her post, and nararamdaman ko na magkakaroon na sila ng reconciliation through God's Grace. I-claim na nateng lahat.. :)
ReplyDeleteGood thing na she married into a loving family. Maranasan man lang nya mahalin without sacrificing everything about herself. Si Sarah yung tao na kailangan udyukan ng nasa paligid nya na maging pusong bato para lang tigilan na sya ng nanay nya.
ReplyDeleteAno ba ang ayaw nila kay Mateo at sa pamily nya, eh hello prominenteng pamilya yan sa Cebu!
Deletesana one page nalang ginawa at nilagay "THANK YOU"
ReplyDeleteMarunong ka pa sa victim nang abusive family 12:12
DeleteBait mo Sarah, but sana last na toh ha? Ikaw na nga itong nagbigay sa kanila ng marangyang buhay eh ikaw pa tong may ‘mali’ dahil sa you followed your heart and got married to a great man at the right age. Iba rin talaga ang parents mo. Sabagay, ganyan talaga pag feeling ila nawalan ng panhkabuhayan showcase. Nakakaloka lang. Yung ganito Pinoy trait na kahit mali ang mga magulang, magulang pa rin ang medyo ayaw ko. Nagkakamali naman lahat, ke magulang or anak. Sana lang marunong din umamin ang mga magulang sa mga anak na nagkamali sila. Di naman tama palagi ang magulang, this is coming from me as a mom myself.
ReplyDeleteSarah is broken. She needs many years of therapy to heal. Her parents are abusers and everyone just watched because all had something to gain. Matteo was the only one who never stopped fighting for her.
ReplyDeleteawww hugs sarah. i can feel she is going thru something. she longs for understanding and her family. my daughter's friend is also ganyan. i can see the sadness in her eyes. malayo ang loob ng parents niya sa kanya - them who are supposed to be the very first ones who should make her feel loved and understood. so i tell her she is always welcome sa bahay namin, we make her feel she has a family. ang ikli ng buhay, ganyan sila sa sariling anak.
ReplyDeleteAng nangyare Kay Sarah ay parang Kay Heart din. Nagasawa ng walang basbas ng parents..never magiging happy. Baka soon maging OK ang lahat. Ingatan na lang Nila ang buhay magasawa nila. Tutal naman nakapamili na siya. Wag lang umabot sa point na Pati career ay mawala.#sad
ReplyDelete1:06 no, sarah's and heart's case ay not similar dhil heart has her freedom while Sarah's not. Heart is not a breadwinner since her family is a rich clan and heart has a control on her showbiz money kaya nga nabibili nya ang kikay items at her teenage years. While sarah ay ung pamilya muna nya ang magkakaroon before her dhil sya ang breadwinner nila.
DeleteSarah is more close to Britney's case.
They are not the same. Heart can buy kikay stuff, go out, travel etc. Si Sarah no.
DeleteIn a way, medyo pareho but not really. Kay Heart kasi mayaman a ng pamilya kaya picky pagdating sa mapapangasawa nya, kumbaga sa freedom medyo may problema c Heart. Kay Sarah nman ay greed on money talaga thru and thru kaya may problema c Sarah sa freedom about every aspect sa life nya. Bottomline: parehong may cortrol freak na parents. 😬
DeleteNagsisisi yung tao sa ginawa nya at mga naging desisyon nya. Humihingi sya ng tawad sa pamamagitan ng public apology.
ReplyDeleteShe needs to talk to her parents personally hindi Sa Instagram dahil walang Instagram c divine
DeleteThis is another or similar case kay Britney n kung saan cash cow and slave lng ng family ni Britney sya. I just hope n iabandon n lng ni Sarah ang pamilya dhil enough is enough. Buong buhay and lahat nang meron sya ay binigay nya sa knila. Lahat nang luho sinuportahan nya. Pero si Sarah ay hndi nya makuha kung ano dpat s knya. May kanya knyang buhay and even family ang kanyang kapatid, maraming negosyo naipundar ni sarah for them pero sya parin ang masama sa knilang mga mata. Worse, ung mga religious people around them consenting her family's toxic treatment to Sarah. Kesho "follow you parents", etc. Nakakabaliw din ang ganto kasi u cant be happy and free. Buti n lng nndyan si Matteo to support her.
ReplyDeleteSana magkababy na si Sarah at Mateo para maging busy si Sarah sa bagets tapos mejo deadma na pinanggalingang family na napaka-ungrateful.
ReplyDeleteIlang kapatid na ba ang pinatapos ni Sarah sa pagaaral? Totoo naman na ginapang ng magulang nya para magtagumpay pero wala naman lahat ng yan kung hindi din sya talented and graceful on her own. At lagi din naman syang nagpapasalamat sa lahat.
Sarah was over 30 when she got married? Kelan ba gusto ng magulang? 40+? Parang hindi pa sapat na halos wala din syang childhood kasi nagtatrabaho sya para sa pamilya.
Sarah has always been humble and conservative but never pabebe. She's a good role model. Pwedeng pwede sya umalis sa kanila given her stature pero hindi nya ginawa basta, nagpakasal sila nang maayos.
Lihim? Oo kasi nakikialam yung gahaman na nanay. Member sila ng church group, nagpatulong pa ang couple sa members ng church para mabuksan ang isip at puso ng nanay nya na may sarili din syang buhay at nasa tamang edad na. Ilang years na sila ni Mateo nagpapaalam, puro pagbabanta lang natanggap nila. Kaya napilitan ilihim.
Grabe Mami Divine, emotional blackmailing yang ginagawa mo sa anak mo. Sana matauhan si Sarah, magkaanak sila ni Mateo, piliin nyang hindi ipakilala sayo. Tignan natin, tumanda kang paurong.
Napaka ganda ng mensahe ni Sarah sa parents nya and I am sure that was written after fervently praying for it. Don't egg her pls! She loves her parents and she won't find solace in knowing na watak watak silang pamilya. She's forgiven them and now, she's seeking for theirs... as a fan of Sarah, ito ung hinihintay ko dati pa instead of seemingly haughty behavior na hindi naman pala. She is hurting and now, she's ready to humble herself not because she was wrong, but because that is the right thing to do as a daughter and as a Christian. I am proud of you Sarah for being the daughter others won't ever be kasi puno sila ng pride at galit.
ReplyDeleteSarah should forgive and love herself first, let time takes its course. Huwag ipilit kung ayaw nila..there’s always time for everything under the heavens.
DeleteWhat a toxic family. Sarah last na yan pls. You have honored your parents all your life and still also so humble to ask for their forgiveness. Pero its time to realize you have done your part. Do not feel guilty, be happy with Matteo and his family.
ReplyDeleteThis is abuse masked as love. You can tell by the way guilt was used to make her feel wrong. Like she can’t do right unless her parents says so. Not even for her own happiness. She cannot make her own choices and when she did, her mother tried to destroy her relationship by crashing her wedding instead of supporting her during one of her most precious moments in life. Too bad it didn’t work. Thank you Matteo for fighting for her and freeing her from the prison cell she was in called “home”.
ReplyDeleteso, SG release an album then wrote this. I mean, Viva knows how to play.
ReplyDeletenapaka buti nitong tao na to. time heal all wounds.
ReplyDeleteFeeling ko naman etong paghingi nya ng forgiveness ang way nya ng paglet go and just let God. Parang closure na din na ginawa nya na lahat to reach out, last straw na ito, tapos tama na. She will move on with her life with or without them.
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