Shes not well, kahit anong explanation pa gawin nya.. she couldnt get a grip... ang dami nya pino post at sinasabi of taking care of health and self emi2x.. kairita na
Whos judging here? Baka ikaw yun judgmental dito 12:18. I am simply describing what shes actually doing. Posting on socmed to convince other people? How do you think shes coping ba? Maybe shes being comforted by social media strangers likes and heart reactions lol. Tadtarin mo kasi sya ng likes sa post nya, she needs your validation lol.. 😂😂😂
Sabi kona ipopost to ni FP 🤣 its okay not to be okay Max, kesa lagi kang nag iimagine na may nagpepressure sayo na magkababy or fishing for validation lagi.
Kaya iwas na ko sa socmed eh, fb, insta, etc. mapapapost ka ng kuno ano ano eh. Yung unang sumagi sa isip mo, mapopost mo na later on pagsisisihan mo rin.
I have a secret IG. When I want to vent, I post for myself only. Pag ok na ako, I delete that post. Problem kasi sa atin, we tend to overshare and post without thinking sa socmed. It's up to the person kasi on how s/he will use socmed.
I agree, magaganda and insightful yung post nya actually. I don’t get all the hates here. Let’s just choose to be kind, kapag tayo ang nalagay sa situation gaya nito how would we take negative comments na kesyo seeking for attention or validation tayo? Some people…
Mukhang malalim talaga at maraming hugot si ateng. Parang nadadama ko sadness niya somewhere. Wish her complete healing and happiness from all her trials.
Best to surround yourself with family and seek counseling instead of seeking validation sa social media lalo na kung madaming followers. Yun nga lang ordinary tao dami na mema kapag may mga ganito pano pa silang madaming followers
It's also possible that she just wants to share given the big shift in her life and all her realizations. Ikaw, have you ever stopped to reflect on why people showing their happiness makes you uncomfortable?
Puro kayo ppansin comments and need ng validation, bak hindi naten alam ay mgssuffer na sya ng depression and jan lng sya nkkapaglabas ng mga thoughts nya, masyado kayong harsh sa tao wag nyo basahin kung ayaw nyo
Same sentiments 12:29. Let the person express herself the way she wants. Positive naman ang message and could help someone who is going through the same thing. Napaka backward and talangka magisip ng pinoy talaga.
This is where I appreciate Heart - even if hindi official yung statement. Hindi mo tuloy ma-appreciate yung message nya coz " separated na ba kayo, Max?"
All the points she mentioned are true but they’re general...sorry but not new to us...for sure majority of people who are going through the same thing do these pointers already.. Since she’s talking about moving on, I think people would be more interested on how she personally moved on... did she seek counseling? She mentioned prayers... did she join any prayer group who helped her out? Might be more helpful..but if she doesn’t want to tell us then don’t, it’s not an obligation... I think she’s just missing the more important aspects of moving on...surrounding yourself with family and friends whom you can talk to. Di ba, Pag nakipag break tayo, that’s our first instinct- call a friend/ sibling... etc. She sounds like she’s lonely... for sure may friends naman sya and she has sisters too.
Okay lang sakin mag gaganyan siya pero yung ganyan ang thema niya yung pa “positive” outlook in life sabay promote kay Kanye West 🤦🏼♀️ Turn off ako. Haha always speaking about being calm, stay away from toxic people etc. puro salita lang pala. The fact na pinopromote and support niya si Kanye West. Ekis na siya sa akin. Because for me actions speaks louder ng words. Kahit habaan pa niya caption niya. Bali wala na yan.
She needs someone to talk to so she won't have to resort to posting these on soc med. Oo, may pinagdadaanan sya pero I agree also sa ibang nagco-comment na this screams someone wanting validation. If anything, dapat nga sana dumistansya na muna sya sa soc med and heal privately. Hindi validation from netizens who are basically strangers to her ang kailangan nya at this point.
Hayaan na natin si Maxene baka dyan lang socmed gumagaan pakiramdam nya. Hindi natin alam ano pinagdaanan nya tapos dami pa mangbabash. Kung ayaw nyo pede nyo naman skip nalang eh di wag nyo basahin. Kayo ba pinakialaman ba kayo ni Maxene? Mga cyst nato
She's doing what she can to survive. Does Max have a support group? Close fam/friends who can help her through this..she seems so lost. Separating is always going to be a long, painful internal process. I wish her all the best. Let's be kind people.
Sis, kaya nga dito tayo sa FP comment eh kesa sa IG nya. That's being considerate na. It's her right to post and our right to express our opinion. If mabasa nya our comments here, its not our fault na.
EVERY post of hers radiates w sadness. I know she is trying her best to sound uplifting and hopeful and positive but sadly, she is sending out the opposite vibe. She makes me feel that her life is just one very big sad story
I was about to agree to other comments here pero biglang naawa ako kay Maxine. She looks sad and depress and trying to stay positive so let's not put her down. If ayaw nyo sa kanya, wag nlng mag comment ng nakaka insulto or huwag basahin post nya. If she did something before, huwag na natin husgahan. We don't know what the future holds so let's be kind.
I am assuming the post is for herself, right? People have different fates and they choose how they overcome their break ups and such. I agree this is part of her healing process. She'll get better if she choose the people that supported her. Social media is not one of them. Maxene, you're still young. Things will get better. Just think of the people who struggles how to put food on their table in a daily basis.
so ano ang ganap? hiwalay na? pa-effect lang yung pictures na nakagown?
ReplyDeleteI feel sad for her. It’s hard to move on from a broken relationship more so a broken marriage. Let’s just be understanding of each other.
DeleteMay gustong patunayan. May pinaglalaban. Spotlight seeker.
ReplyDeleteSpotlight seeker is the best
Delete8. Life is too short kainin lahat ng gustong kainin in moderation haha
ReplyDeleteSpill na lang nya bakit sila naghiwalay ng mister nya mas pagkakaguluhan pa sya ng mga marites lol
Deleteanong meron maxene? spill it na. char
ReplyDeleteParang bored sya sa life nya. Daming gustong patunayan.
ReplyDeleteMay nagtanong ba sa kanya paano mag move on? 😂 Jusko ang haba ng hanash but congrats na rin if tlagang nakamove on ka na. Lol
ReplyDeleteUhmm.. palaging may gustong patunayan..
ReplyDeleteValidation girl
DeleteParang ikaw rin . Wala nang ginawa kung hindi maghanap ng mali sa iba. Life is short!
DeleteAgree to all her points. Very well said.
ReplyDelete8 rules dapat
ReplyDelete1. Post it in socmed 😂😂
11:38 If it’s her way of coping why not? Easy to judge, until you walk in someone else’s shoes.
DeleteShes not well, kahit anong explanation pa gawin nya.. she couldnt get a grip... ang dami nya pino post at sinasabi of taking care of health and self emi2x.. kairita na
Delete12:25 that's her way of coping & moving on... unfollow mo na lng beh!
DeleteWhos judging here? Baka ikaw yun judgmental dito 12:18. I am simply describing what shes actually doing. Posting on socmed to convince other people? How do you think shes coping ba? Maybe shes being comforted by social media strangers likes and heart reactions lol. Tadtarin mo kasi sya ng likes sa post nya, she needs your validation lol.. 😂😂😂
Delete"Hindi ka maliligtas 12:18" ganyan sample ng mga judgmental lol, wag mema
Delete12:18 Enabler ng taon
DeleteMay sense and point naman ang sinasabi niya pero papansin talaga siya. Mag sulat na lang siya ng libro if she really want to help others.
ReplyDeleteSabi kona ipopost to ni FP 🤣 its okay not to be okay Max, kesa lagi kang nag iimagine na may nagpepressure sayo na magkababy or fishing for validation lagi.
ReplyDeleteKaya iwas na ko sa socmed eh, fb, insta, etc. mapapapost ka ng kuno ano ano eh. Yung unang sumagi sa isip mo, mapopost mo na later on pagsisisihan mo rin.
DeleteButi pa yung tumblr dati. Lol
DeleteI have a secret IG. When I want to vent, I post for myself only. Pag ok na ako, I delete that post. Problem kasi sa atin, we tend to overshare and post without thinking sa socmed. It's up to the person kasi on how s/he will use socmed.
DeleteAgree, 1:22. Iba iba talaga magiging reaction pag may public viewers. Minsan nakakasama pa lalo, kesa makatulong.
DeleteVery inspiring. Though it's hard and sad. But like what she said, it's always best to be the better person and accept it gracefully.
ReplyDeleteI agree, magaganda and insightful yung post nya actually. I don’t get all the hates here. Let’s just choose to be kind, kapag tayo ang nalagay sa situation gaya nito how would we take negative comments na kesyo seeking for attention or validation tayo? Some people…
DeleteMukhang malalim talaga at maraming hugot si ateng. Parang nadadama ko sadness niya somewhere. Wish her complete healing and happiness from all her trials.
ReplyDeleteDami gusto patunayan ni ate mong Maxene
ReplyDelete11:46 people like you makes the world more toxic. Judgmental much eh ?!
Deletecoming from you maxene?
ReplyDeleteWishing her well. Hirap siguro ma breakdown ang marriage.
ReplyDeleteShe looks really sad kahit ano pang pagpapabangong gawin nya sa Buhay nya
ReplyDeleteIn time she'll be genuinely happy and reflect with her posts
Hayaan na natin
Best to surround yourself with family and seek counseling instead of seeking validation sa social media lalo na kung madaming followers. Yun nga lang ordinary tao dami na mema kapag may mga ganito pano pa silang madaming followers
ReplyDeleteAng cringey ng socmed posts na pang-personal diary ang content.
ReplyDeleteShe feels the need to post and explain herself all the time. Parang that's not being genuinely happy nor contented.
ReplyDeleteIt's also possible that she just wants to share given the big shift in her life and all her realizations. Ikaw, have you ever stopped to reflect on why people showing their happiness makes you uncomfortable?
DeletePuro kayo ppansin comments and need ng validation, bak hindi naten alam ay mgssuffer na sya ng depression and jan lng sya nkkapaglabas ng mga thoughts nya, masyado kayong harsh sa tao wag nyo basahin kung ayaw nyo
ReplyDeleteTe anong magagawa nila eh nandito sa FP! Kung walang mag-cocomment, sayang yung space na nilaan ni FP. Yan ang point kaya pinost dito. Gets mo?
DeleteSame sentiments 12:29. Let the person express herself the way she wants. Positive naman ang message and could help someone who is going through the same thing. Napaka backward and talangka magisip ng pinoy talaga.
DeleteThis is where I appreciate Heart - even if hindi official yung statement. Hindi mo tuloy ma-appreciate yung message nya coz " separated na ba kayo, Max?"
ReplyDeleteMaglaro ka na lang ng Clash of Clans Max kung di mo ma iwasan mag cellphone at magpost haha
ReplyDeleteAll the points she mentioned are true but they’re general...sorry but not new to us...for sure majority of people who are going through the same thing do these pointers already.. Since she’s talking about moving on, I think people would be more interested on how she personally moved on... did she seek counseling? She mentioned prayers... did she join any prayer group who helped her out? Might be more helpful..but if she doesn’t want to tell us then don’t, it’s not an obligation... I think she’s just missing the more important aspects of moving on...surrounding yourself with family and friends whom you can talk to. Di ba, Pag nakipag break tayo, that’s our first instinct- call a friend/ sibling... etc. She sounds like she’s lonely... for sure may friends naman sya and she has sisters too.
ReplyDeleteOkay lang sakin mag gaganyan siya pero yung ganyan ang thema niya yung pa “positive” outlook in life sabay promote kay Kanye West 🤦🏼♀️ Turn off ako. Haha always speaking about being calm, stay away from toxic people etc. puro salita lang pala. The fact na pinopromote and support niya si Kanye West. Ekis na siya sa akin. Because for me actions speaks louder ng words. Kahit habaan pa niya caption niya. Bali wala na yan.
ReplyDeleteSome people mistake their experience makes them a subject matter expert on everything… 🤦♀️
ReplyDeleteDaming gustong patunayan neto
ReplyDeleteShe needs someone to talk to so she won't have to resort to posting these on soc med. Oo, may pinagdadaanan sya pero I agree also sa ibang nagco-comment na this screams someone wanting validation. If anything, dapat nga sana dumistansya na muna sya sa soc med and heal privately. Hindi validation from netizens who are basically strangers to her ang kailangan nya at this point.
ReplyDeleteIf ever hiwalay na sila ng husband niya iba din siya no nakapag post pa siya ng wedding pics niya. At na I post pa niya. Naloca me!
ReplyDeleteHayaan na natin si Maxene baka dyan lang socmed gumagaan pakiramdam nya. Hindi natin alam ano pinagdaanan nya tapos dami pa mangbabash. Kung ayaw nyo pede nyo naman skip nalang eh di wag nyo basahin. Kayo ba pinakialaman ba kayo ni Maxene? Mga cyst nato
ReplyDeletelol nasasabi lang niya yan kasi single siya pero kapag nagka jowa sabay puro love love naman post niyan
ReplyDeleteShe's doing what she can to survive. Does Max have a support group? Close fam/friends who can help her through this..she seems so lost. Separating is always going to be a long, painful internal process. I wish her all the best. Let's be kind people.
ReplyDeleteDid she return her wedding dress to Vera Wang? Mukha kse asa store sa posts nya.
ReplyDeleteGrabe naman mga comment dito account nya naman yun eh di wag nyong basahin.
ReplyDeleteKaya nga, di nman nila alam exactly ano pinagdadaanan nung tao
DeleteSis, kaya nga dito tayo sa FP comment eh kesa sa IG nya. That's being considerate na. It's her right to post and our right to express our opinion. If mabasa nya our comments here, its not our fault na.
DeleteEVERY post of hers radiates w sadness. I know she is trying her best to sound uplifting and hopeful and positive but sadly, she is sending out the opposite vibe. She makes me feel that her life is just one very big sad story
ReplyDeleteAgree!
DeleteI was about to agree to other comments here pero biglang naawa ako kay Maxine. She looks sad and depress and trying to stay positive so let's not put her down. If ayaw nyo sa kanya, wag nlng mag comment ng nakaka insulto or huwag basahin post nya. If she did something before, huwag na natin husgahan. We don't know what the future holds so let's be kind.
ReplyDeleteLet her be nalng if she has mental issues then maybe this is her coping mechanism. At least hindi naman nakaksakit sa iba.
ReplyDeleteGandang ganda ko sa kanya. Lalo na wedding nila… both manila and boracay, i love her wedding dresses.
ReplyDeleteUse your silence to move on.
ReplyDeleteI am assuming the post is for herself, right? People have different fates and they choose how they overcome their break ups and such. I agree this is part of her healing process. She'll get better if she choose the people that supported her. Social media is not one of them. Maxene, you're still young. Things will get better. Just think of the people who struggles how to put food on their table in a daily basis.
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